Church Father - Marriage and she called the Police | The Baby Fathers Podcast | EP41

[@MatthewRichardson1]

So proud of you Isaac for being so open in sharing your journey. Truly heartbreaking what you've had to go through just to be able to be present for your daughter. There are many women out there that wish their children's father was in their lives.

[@susankumba8844]

Very true.

[@gerrardwilliams8450]

I dont actually think this guy said anything bad about his baby mother but the energy coming from what i assume are her friends/family in the comments is very telling. Irrelevant of what happened in the relationship it needs to be put to one side so the child can benefit from 2 loving parents. This is where it goes wrong too often. Using your child for revenge ultimately damages the child.

[@BRI2020-d8x]

Yeah the ex wife done him bad

[@isaacseraywurie]

I salute this brother. The pain and frustration this guy must be living! But also the wisdom and discipline it’s inspiring. Thanks for sharing bro

[@tonishaekiz]

Well done bro. Super proud of your bravery for coming on such a platform to share your story. You’re an amazing dad to your beautiful daughter. We got you g, Salute 👊🏿

[@_inthelifeoftroy]

Well done Isaac. Using your experience to help others spreading awareness. Hope this conversation empowers others to come forward and speak. You really are advocate for fathers who have been wrongfully done by mothers who use children as weapons. The saddest thing is, it’s the children that suffer the most! Please continue to share your story and don’t be intimidated or threatened by any negative feedback you receive! One day your daughter will be old enough to understand why daddy wasn’t there. Now it’s documented!! Hopefully she doesn’t resent her mother for the poor decisions she made to keep her away from you. Big respect for coming forward InthelifeofTROY!!!

[@joleonhunte7232]

I have personally witnessed some of the horrible things that Isaac has gone through over the past few years. If nothing else, it has made him stronger and more determined to be the best Dad for his beautiful daughter. Keep fighting my bro.

[@mrgreen249]

TALK DI TINGS BRUDDA. YOU KNOW THE TEAM GOT YOUR BACK 💪🏿

[@nadinemisakabo2366]

I really appreciate this podcast, so thank you so much for sharing Isaac. I am myself a woman and a mother. God knows how relationships are a complicated matter at time. From what I understand here we are talking about preserving relationships between a parent, here father, and his child for the well-being of the child. It is a huge challenge and requires a lot of energy. And yes mental health is really important at all stages of life for everyone. So I have read some of the comments here, a lot of supports but still few harsh comments. I would like to stop on harsh comments that seem to come from the people supporting the mother. A lot of pain there but please listen to what has been said it took him a lot to come here and wanted all side to hear him. It is for us to see that it is important to hear both side and help them in their coparenting. So I do think that if a comment is just to bring dirt… don’t do it.. Because the bad comments says more about the one that wrote it than the person they talked about. The platform here is to allow an open conversation. I feel for the little girl and everyone involved around. let’s do everything for a dad and his daughter and the mother to be in a better place. 🙏

[@joygrey3718]

Well done Issac for telling 👏your story and thank God the healing and wisdom that has taken place.

[@talkswithzee564]

So proud of you Isaac for sharing your experience! I know your testimony will help other fathers who are going through a similar journey.

[@nattymc]

Wow. I respect Issac coming on this platform to discuss the personal situations in his life and being so open with it. When men give insight into their mental health issues and struggles it opens the door for others to follow and share. So Much respect to u brother ✊🏾

[@susankumba8844]

Well done Isaac, you faced this life's challenge and you are still standing, may God be your strength and go-to. Wish you luck in future.

[@KirahGrandThoughts]

Wow. Very open and still wanting the best for their coparenting and other men in such a position. I'm praying for the best for you Isaac and your baby girl!

[@individualbookclub7395]

Isaac, I’m honestly so proud of you. You have prioritised your daughter who is the only person in this situation who should be a priority and not only that, you are now being vulnerable and ensuring that others who are going through similar situations can find insight, strength and support and you have bravely opened up the conversation about mental health when dealing with issues of child custody for Black men. You know that a good name is better than riches and that the truth will always speak for itself - not always when we think it should but it always will. It’s a shame that some viewers feel the need to use this really helpful content to slander you and your family who I have known for two decades at least and struggle to see how what’s been said correlates to the people I know. It demonstrates why we are in a situation where we need stories like these to be told. It’s also sadly typical that others comment on what happened in a marriage they were not in. Also, the comment about the implied malicious intent about the bin bags is a story misconstrued. The facts are that the marital home was being cleared out and EVERYTHING was in black bags and all of those bags were transported to Leeds. It just so happens that one of these had rubbish in it… but shit happens. 🤷🏾‍♀️ To all the fathers out there trying to be just that, keep going. Your children need you. ♥️ Lizzy M

[@susankumba8844]

Thank you for that, relationships fail and people should be respectful of both sides. I have known Isaac and his family foe well over 15 and they are a loving and supporting family.

[@CarmenB57]

Son dont beat your self up, your wedding day, the speech you gave, you need to revisit it. Your wife response was cold. Your were willing to die for her, to moved mountains for her etc. Don't worry too much about negative feedback from others. JEALOUSY is a huge thing, what they're saying it should have been me. Yes it's good that you've dry your tears and moving forward. When too many people are involved in a marriage it will fail. You know Jesus , so step aside and allow him fight your corner. Hold your head high and keep praying and praising him. I know your families they will hold you up in prayers. Stay strong my brother in the Lord Jesus

[@D33Beloved]

As a woman who grew up in the church man I feel it for this father. The place that suppose to serve and protect you let's you down. He didn't go to the in/out of the relationship too much he was very Respectful. Hope this man gets the chance to be the Father he wants to be, because you can see the earnestness in his approach. Peace to you Mr. Definitely gonna support

[@BRI2020-d8x]

Same I agree

[@MariesMemoirs]

Really insightful conversation. Isaac, I'm so proud of you for being brave enough to share your truth and your experiences, as painful as they are. I hope this provides light for other fathers in the same situation. Thank you for your honesty and openness. Stay strong! 🙏🏽

[@afrakoma_a]

I really like this brother's mature approach to things.

[@chantelojo436]

Thank you Isaac for sharing your story, we need more men to talk their truth. I'm so proud of you.

[@cityimpactchurchlondon2654]

What we all have to remember this platform is about opening conversations its not just about their relationship. Lets keep it real

[@cath32]

There is something about his story that is not making sense. This is the 1st of your podcasts that I feel like "hey I need to hear the other side aswell" It feels like there is a more serious issue. He holds background information that makes him look like the victim. Hope he finds peace and happiness to his story. Insha Allah

[@jayo3074]

I think he's an incredible human and I really like his maturity.

[@NayNate725]

Good podcast, I've been through the whole court process, it does work if you play the game properly and not allow yourself to be emotionally triggered. Never will I want to experience that again.

[@ivorthomas468]

Bro you speak the truth. We do celebrate longevity more than happiness or joy in marriage.

[@Kufo-Oriji4632]

You can tell this Brudda is lying. I don’t know him from anywhere so I could be wrong. But there’s no mention of what he did that led to the response of the wife. What he described about the church sounds like an intervention. That happens when there is abuse. There are many abusive men in the church that are hard to read because they are “Christian”. Also her being quick to call the police, suggests abuse.

[@jayo3074]

You don't know him from anywhere but you know what happened? Huh?

[@justinsquires40]

The police calling talk at 31.07 should be made into a short. 🔥

[@emotee3523]

This story is full of holes, I'd like to hear the ex-wifes perspective.

[@peachesdelight2k]

Hmm...yh, Where's the missing parts of this story. The ex wife just woke up one day, called all the church people to come down and take her and her child away?! The holes in this story are big on this one.

[@Mrreal1871]

There's way too many holes in this story. What did YOU DO! Because this don't make. No sense. I know things are bad for dads but this story is very selective and I can't work with it.

[@MRLX54]

Yeah a lot of people are quick to pick sides and pass judgement but it’s always good to here both sides of the story.

[@jayo3074]

I believed him he seems reasonable

[@Clancy1123]

These stories will always be madness to me like I can never never wrap my head around them 🤦‍♀️🤯

[@andrewjohn1540]

Excellent interview. Brilliant insight.

[@leahhamilton5077]

It is out of sheer respect for his ex wife why I’m not exposing him. She has never come on this here internet and spoken about him because he’s irrelevant and she’s actually a Christian but me? I am disgusted at the abuse I have seen my friend endure

[@MRLX54]

Was the ex wife in a abusive relationship with him?

[@Makeitordont]

God really be aligning us all up with people to teach us lessons don’t fall inlove with an image or how a “marriage” should look following rules means you disregarded your own intuition and conscious someone being in church every sunday doesn’t mean they have a good heart 👀 i’m interested to know what her heritage is too but as a woman sometimes we do act on things we have been subtlety showing a man and to not be aware at all also means your taking no accountability i would like to know HER story cause a woman doesn’t bring other men in just to do it the question was not answered what brought it to that. 👀 men love to pass blame to pursue a woman and then ask her “why is the farther not in that child’s life” because the way men in this generation want to be there for a child is like a car MOT it tax it wash it service it a child is a whole human being a living breathing life a mothers job is 24/7 coming to pick up your child every two weeks is not parenting or healthy for a child they have to keep rebuilding the trust and bond men are not there to hear the heart breaking things children say to mothers in the absence of the farther but imagine handing over your child who can’t even speak yet 😵‍💫 there are woman who make it so easy for a men to be in their children’ life but they really will not even bother so when a woman is then taking that away is only when men think about putting more time and effort in how ironic. Ladies:- PLEASE. please call the police if you really feel intimidated and scared for your safety and your children’s safety.

[@BRI2020-d8x]

Haha I agree with Isaac most of them hold face 🤣 my grandad was an pastor and him and nan slept it two different beds don't let these so called Christians phase you marriage is a good thing when its done with the right person

[@revlimbi]

This wasn’t a Church but a cult bra, the level of interference is somethin else

[@redpillreloaded369]

this shit makes zero sense

[@johnblaze4464]

Rah he's been thru alot. Would love to hear her side. Cause I can't see why he can't have his child

[@BRI2020-d8x]

The women was upset because he divorced her

[@leahhamilton5077]

Ohhhh he knows exactly why she did what she did. I have to honestly laugh. The liesssss he knows lmaooo. She didn’t just leave you know what you did Isaac sir.

[@aatr2030]

What happened

[@numerouno2532]

Guys........... I'm not going to say that black people don't have it harder sometimes... but honestly.. these feds treat us fathers all the same, trust me this exact same thing happens exactly the same whatever your colour :(

[@stevejobbs1652]

You are abusing a platform for dads who are actually suffering just because you’re still gagging for your ex wife’s attention and that in itself is vile. Your sister and father hand delivered garbage to that woman’s home. Garbage with bloody pads, soiled nappies and used cigarettes all identifiable on photo. This woman almost bled to death giving birth and your mother did what to her 5 days later? Right. You cannot break her isaac. I fear for her safety with you around tbh but I know God has got her. Get help

[@leahhamilton5077]

The absolute audacity

[@leahhamilton5077]

I have witnessed this man’s family bring bin bags full of sanitary pads and dirty nappies to his ex wife’s house. She almost died giving birth and his family verbally abused her. This man has anger problems and I’m so proud of his ex wife tbh. She’s a better woman than me.

[@cheybee5036]

Wow, Its the....Out of respect for his ex wife you was not going to cause a mess, for me....But, Here we are,sis. Not respecting boundaries, causing mess.

[@ldn876]

Bet she lives in Middleton or seacroft.

[@stevejobbs1652]

What a truly twisted and dangerous individual you are isaac. You will literally do and say anything to break that woman and you fail every single time. She is never going to reduce herself and address you because you do not matter. This is called gaslighting and you’ve been doing this to her for years now. She’s the most beautiful soul either of us have ever met tbh in your own words and I’m so glad she fled when she did. Stop sending her letters and finding new ways to harass her. Very sick

[@leahhamilton5077]

It’s the victim playing for me. But yet Isaac your forgetting the horrible things you did to her. I’m honestly happy she left you. Before she married you I warned her not to marry you because of your abusive crazy controlling history.

[@hannahrobinson597]

You meant you’re*

[@leahhamilton5077]

You understood didn’t you? Sha

[@mrgreen249]

@@hannahrobinson597 😅😅

[@hannahrobinson597]

@@leahhamilton5077 yes, I understand that you don’t know the difference between your and you’re. It’s okay though sha x

[@jayo3074]

Learn to spell correctly ma'am

[@blackpeterson5799]

The owner of this page doesn't even realise that this guy isn't legally allowed to contact this woman beyond arranging visits wtf man. Do your due diligence before you bring washed fools on your platform. Don't even know why he's here he's no one's baby father. He has an ex wife who is now safe and she needs protecting. You are putting women in danger anyhow like it's joke

[@aatr2030]

This guy sounds wild

[@jayo3074]

Lmao what nonsense are u talking about