Finding Peace in Christ as a Single Parent | His Grace

When is the light going to break through? Cardin found herself asking this question many times during the two years after her divorce. As a single parent, Cardin experienced bouts of loneliness while juggling her responsibilities. She felt different from others when she attended school events or Church meetings.
Sometimes thoughts of failure crept into Cardin’s mind. Did she fail her kids, her parents, her family, and even God? The dark space she was walking through never seemed to end.
Then one rainy day, while Cardin was driving home from the airport, her fears about the future turned to peace. As she turned the corner, a beautiful rainbow filled the sky. Later, Cardin learned that rainbows mean peace and prosperity, and she knew that was God’s message to her. That day she felt a little more supported.
Although Cardin doesn’t know what the future holds, she is able to find peace in stressful moments. Our struggles are real, but God’s grace gives us the strength to move forward with peace in our hearts. You are enough, you are successful, and you are loved.
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[@TimTamSlammm]

I can relate to this all too well - the creeped out looks when you're at the park with your kid as a single dad, the loneliness, the overwhelming feeling of failure. Christ heals. He's the only way to make it through this. I'm praying for my fellow single parents out there!

[@digdudemoose2536]

I'm right there with you brother. The loneliness, the feeling of failure, the loss of relationships with children kept from you, the remorse for my part of the break up of what's supposed to be an eternal family can truly be overwhelming. But like you said, Christ heals. He redeems. He loves. He forgives. He comforts. It is only through Christ, our Savior who saves and Redeemer who redeems, that we can find peace and hope, light and joy.

[@kenteo6820]

Timothy Elliott, it's been 12 yrs for me been a single dad, I turn down 2 marriage, and focus on 5 teenagers kids at that time, watching them married out of our Faith was a challenge for me, but I know somewhere down the road, the Q's will be asking, thats when I humbly explain/ reminded them the love of our savior through personal experiences...remember you still going through you personal issues that ONLY you knows, but the BEST of all, knowing I was a faithful man while I was married, on those loneliness times, you gotta fine comfort through music that gives you positive vibes, good friends, keep your personal life in private, set goals, leave within your means, and try to be Happy the main keys in life is to live HAPPY, nothing wrong with been rich...wink!! amen brother.

[@mimi-xw5se]

Don't mind the looks you know who you are

[@heavensvoiceinternationalt7245]

Glory to God

[@kyokushinutah3328]

When I was 6 years old my father passed away and from then on it was just my mom and I. Oh how I admire that woman and all she sacrificed for me. Single parents ... keep moving forward. You’re not alone if you put your trust in the Lord.

[@churchofjesuschrist]

Thanks for sharing your experience and perspective!

[@carlthewinner]

Amen. :)

[@funkee9]

Love the last bit when her child interrupt. So obvious he loves and adores her, and vice-versa. That's a sign she's succeeding as a mom. 💪🏼 God bless

[@davidsradioroom9678]

Excellent observation!

[@wilhelminaoduro7788]

Being a single mom is not easy

[@hearttoheart4me]

God bless all single parents whether they be Dads or Moms. The struggle is real for both. Men can be especially hard due to stereotypes also.

[@beena2730]

Amen

[@digdudemoose2536]

Thanks for remembering that there are dad's that suffer much through divorce also. We are all children of God. Christ's atoning sacrifice & gift of grace is sufficient for all that endure the heartache of divorce whether they are a mom or a dad, a son or a daughter, a saint and especially a sinner. If we will truly turn our hearts to Christ, we each can and will become perfected through Him. He is enough to heal the broken hearted if we will look to Him and live.

[@dryzelph7838]

It’s tough, but a lot of good things that people need to do are. Not all people are good for each other for very long. It’s been better for me and my kids in the long run. Too many people get married too young before they even know who they are.

[@mr.br3ezygaming935]

This religion is so wrong

[@mimi-xw5se]

Amen

[@blatherskyt]

As a single man, never married, I have always tried to feel empathy for men and women who (of no fault of their own) endure these things. It's often hard comprehending something you've never experienced, so it's vital we don't judge. I suppose the thing that gives me the greatest peace is what I hold, at the forefront, as the greatest meaning in my life--my Savior. We can't control much of anything in this Telestial world... but we can 'control' our faith in He who will be the reason for all our future comforts and blessings. Yes, may God bless single parents... but we should also strive ourselves to bless single parents and all those who are burdened.

[@pardonthisbookaddict]

Jonathan Blood I’ve learned not care care what other people think except for God and my family. I’ve been a single mom to 2 special needs children for 10 years now, and God’s presence has been in our home everyday.

[@barbarapaz3722]

Thank you for saying this. I wish more people would think like you.

[@edenvillanuevabailon6697]

I feel it. I'm a single parent too.. Sometimes I feel so alone and lonely. Sometimes I cry alone. But thinking need to be strong everyday for the little kids. That's my life.

[@marissali61]

@@Get_rid_of_filthwhat do they sacrifice and in what ways?

[@beena2730]

My father committed suicide when i was 6 months old ( 15 years ago)nd we were 2 kids.. my brother nd me... My mom was full of negative thoughts nd always blamed me for my fathers suicide.. he was an alcohol addict nd thought as he isnt good enough to handle two children being drunk..so he done that mistake Growing as a child it was painful for me.. hearing all the negativities surrounding me.. But finally 3 years ago we joined heavenly feast nd our life changed dramatically.. we could find peace, happiness, nd joy inside us nd a supernatural power that we have never ever experienced before.. Thank you jesus.. God bless you all who read this.. nd one thing.. be patient... If the sea has pulled back..then think that it is for a tsunami (a tsunami of blessings)

[@popn6189]

thank you. I hope you and your mom get along someday

[@beena2730]

@@popn6189 we did 😊💓

[@sydneymay7687]

You’re amazing :)

[@beena2730]

@@sydneymay7687 💓😍

[@ky-zz1ym]

you’re so strong! God loves you! ❤️

[@NaeNae62]

Unless you’ve been a single mom, no one understands how hard it is or understands the feelings of loneliness. Being single broke me for many years until I realized Christ was aware of me. It took me 10 years of hell to realize that. Then I finally just asked for the loneliness to be taken away. And He did. Wish I had done that years before because instead of putting my effort into trying to find a husband to help with my kids, I could have put my time into being there ALL the time, for my kids. Now, I’ve been single for 14 years and life is so good! God is good! 💕

[@pamweinberg1212]

Renee Whitehead God Bless you. Beautiful story and I admire you. 💛🙏😇

[@williamweigt7632]

Single dads understand; trust me.

[@stu_164_minitruckin]

I’m 5 years post divorce. I finally stopped trying to find love from someone else. I’m now finding love for myself. I’m grateful for the Savior and teaching me how to forgive and let go. Life is good.

[@tworandy]

As a single parent, it's a blessing to know God is there. He gives me so much hope, that when those dark clouds come along in different degree's, it's that ray of sunshine. Satan will always try to close us down. No hope. God will always lift us, to find the gratitude when we feel empty, to feel the purpose, when we hit a dead-end. I'm thankful to know that I can remind myself of so many blessings and the true foundation I have. Love and prayers to all. Hugs and high fives ❤️

[@pamweinberg1212]

That was beautiful. Your feelings are spot on.

[@digdudemoose2536]

I appreciate your thoughtful comment. Counting our blessings and developing gratitude is a beautiful way to come to know our Heavenly Father and our Savior Jesus Christ.

[@kezza2vazalipia338]

High five 🧚‍♂️🧚‍♀️💗🙏👍💪👨‍👩‍👧‍👦👩‍👦🧚‍♀️

[@heavensvoiceinternationalt7245]

Glory be to God

[@wilhelminaoduro7788]

God is always with us

[@williamweigt7632]

I’m so glad that the church finally says:”single PARENT”, instead of:”single MOTHER”. Long overdue; but quite welcome.

[@mimi-xw5se]

Amen

[@evelynspaghetti4978]

Amen. Dad's or trans parents are so, so, so important and deserve recognition and support. Amen

[@mrhernandez8256]

@Taiqi He mothers always get noticed and fathers don't

[@tlahuilivargas996]

Thats because in our times Also the Husband ends up alone being a Single Daddy.. Our church had a Single dad with 2 small kids. His kids converted n he allowed them that freedom. Yrs later he converted too n married in the temple. Wife n baby. Thats all I know. I moved away. Great kids son n daughter. Both went to BYU. All the ward was super proud of Mission n BYU after. 💙 He was a hardworking kind father. Hus kids adored him. I greatly admire him because as a single mom single parent I know how hard it is to raise 2 kids all alone.

[@domoniquesacco4964]

I’ve been a single mom for 6 months and for the last two months my daughter has been drawing so many rainbows for me! ❤️ Thank you!

[@davidchlarson8449]

I am here to testify that any two people can make it through any trial or tribulation as long as one of those two people is our Heavenly Father. I drew closer to him which helped to endure through the hardships of being a single Father. I truly understand how difficult it is to be alone, to feel worthless, to feel empty, to not feel not good enough and the list goes on and on. As through any hardship/trial I felt humbled and the need to strengthen my relationship with my Heavenly Father. I learned that his hand is always reached out to us. All we have to do is hold on to it and let him guide us through our trials. As with most test/trials it felt like an Eternity being single and alone. After enduring through a solid eight years of having to overcome Temptations and striving to become more Christ-like. I was introduced to the most amazing woman on Earth. We were Sealed a year later. What seemed like a forever trial and such a hard lesson to go through l learned that there was light at the end of the tunnel. This trial has helped to prepare me for any trial or tribulation that is in my future. This Trial Made Me Stronger. The key is to become humble and stay humble through life. When we're humble we're able to be taught. I'm here to say that I did it and I learned so much through this journey. I'm blessed with the most amazing woman on Earth. My advice is exercise your faith, become humble, choose the right, grow closer to our Heavenly Father. By doing these things you'll be able to understand the difference between happiness and joy. Having said all the above by enduring to the end will bring us all Eternal Blessings. You got this. Grab onto his hand and don't let go.

[@CalledtoShare]

My wife and I lived next to a single mother at BYU and every day my wife and I would talk about how incredible she was because she was doing something on her own that we found hard doing with two people.

[@kalamaybury415]

😑 way to be a spectator and contribute to the problem. see and not act. spectate but not over to help. please stop commenting like we are less fortunate. some of us survived domestic violence and to be alive today is a blessing

[@phoenix5054]

You don’t really know how well she’s doing until her kids have grown up. If they ended up as respectful, law abiding, healthy, productive members of society, that’s only when you can tell she succeeded.

[@AP-di8sy]

@@phoenix5054 same goes for not divorced families. Ther are so many psychopaths, sociopaths and narcissists raised in so called normal families that I really doubt that being raised by both parents is any indicator of succus.

[@wyomims]

@@kalamaybury415, he and his wife may well have acted to bless her and her children, but chose to not let the left hand know what the right hand was doing. Just a thought.

[@williamfindspeople4341]

Single, Temple worthy priesthood holder been single all my life. Member for 42 years, numerous blessings of a family and marriage, still nothing. Never give up hope, Heavenly Father does not play dice he has a plan for all us. His time is not our time. I took care of two aging parents who now both sleep. I was able to baptize my mother and do the sealing ordinances for my father. I am totally alone but I still have my ward.

[@digdudemoose2536]

Respect to you and the example of living by faith. God's promises are sure for those that are obedient.

[@wilhelminaoduro7788]

Please always remember you have a friend in me

[@jennyelsie]

I've been a single, divorced woman as a person of LDS faith. It was really hard, especially within the confines of our church culture. It was hard to go to Sunday church + church activities without a spouse or alone on weeks my child was with my ex. I felt like married women in my Ward distanced themselves from me, even though I hadn't done anything "wrong." It was lonely. Honestly it's a wonder I didn't go inactive. Here's to hoping all you LDS single moms have a better experience than I did!! 🤞

[@MecherenaStrong]

Jennifer Anderson I can completely relate. Feeling and thinking we are isolated from our ward family is a very real feeling. And I really appreciate you sharing your experience as I also felt this way. But, it was just my own shame and untrue thoughts that led me to isolate myself. After 15 years of being a single parent I have learned that I am actually a really cool person. And I work REALLY HARD for what I have and the Lord has blessed me with personal understanding and self-love that I’ve never experienced before. He also has taught me that we are ALL fallible. And its important to forgive those around us who don’t understand. I hope that time has and will help you find that peace that I continue to find in the arms of the Lord.

[@robertos2198]

Thank you for sharing. That's really sad when those things happen in the Church. Unfortunately they do. I am glad you had the strength to endure despite that. God will surely bless you greatly :)

[@digdudemoose2536]

@@MecherenaStrong What a beautiful and tender comment. You shared much truth.

[@rabbit4111]

You come across as a beautiful, special woman that has been dealt a very sad blow to have ended up divorced, and when you have so much to offer. Please be strong and trust the Lord as you care for your sweet children and rebuild your life. Hopefully you will meet “ Mr. Right “ before too long and find the happiness you deserve. God Bless.

[@tacticplanner7188]

I know our Father has a special place in his heart for his dearest daughter's, who truly go throughout life at what at times feels alone but fear not he's always thinking of his little ones even when they're not so little anymore.

[@williamweigt7632]

Tactic Planner try it as a father. God loves all his children.

[@tacticplanner7188]

On the really hard days and I've had many, I look in the mirror, and say to myself, "God doesn't make mistakes". You are Devine you are Precious and you are Called to Services in whatever your capacity is and to Him who has Graven us on the Palms of his hands it is Enough.

[@carlatamanczyk3891]

No single parent should ever be ignored by those good people around them. Encircle them, love them, and even pray with them, and offer support however you can.

[@wilhelminaoduro7788]

Thank u dear for your support

[@shane7162]

Thank You for sharing your story! I stepped away from the church a while ago. Working on making my way back now. I have to start all over and i know our loving Father in Heaven blesses all of us in life. Continue to turn to him everyday even for thanks. Continued blessings ❤️

[@debfryer2437]

Yes. The breakup of a family is the greatest tragedy of all. I’ve been there. It’s a very lonely road but thankfully the Savior understands. He knows that it feels like your husband has died. You just don’t get flowers and cards and casseroles.

[@richardgoddard3584]

"I keep fighting voices in my mind that say I'm not enough, every single lie that tells me I will never measure up". When I heard that line sung by Lauren Daigle (sent by my daughter) I felt I really did have a Savior who cared for me as an individual.

[@rluabuy1]

You are not alone and GOD Love's You and your family's I'm take care three girls and mom,alone. Let's try our best for our family.I love you

[@ReubenTalks]

May God give you the power to be positive and take care of ur loved ones

[@Mal1626]

Thank you for sharing. As a fellow single mom, of two boys even, I felt this deeply.

[@nanapapa3299]

Thank you. I loved that. I feel hope in this message with the trials of life. Bless you.

[@iroalperson6562]

Salute to Single Parents!!! Just carry on...

[@wilhelminaoduro7788]

Thank you dear

[@TheBreckan]

Love to all of you who have to endure these hardships. ❤️ Your courage is a light to all of us.

[@Lovecatholicfaith]

I was at the same side 5 years ago. It was so hard with 2 kids . But now I'm ok everything is fine.I Like this video because shows me that I have to be grateful every single day. Because of my first divorce was so hard and frustrated. Now I can see how much Heavenly Father loves me and my family. Now I have a family like I was dreaming. I think Heavenly Father shows me how to prepared myself to have a family of my dreams. Nothing is going to be perfect at this life but I'm grateful for my family. Husband, and 3 kids. 😍😇

[@SamTechWorld9]

Is she a model? Thanks for sharing the story. My mom was a single mom and I will always be thankful for all the sacrifice she's done for me!

[@JeffSmith03]

I thought about that, she could be a model. I think all of us when facing this struggle can be worn down and it could really show. But we remain that beautiful inside if we cling to the virtues that keep us pure

[@beena2730]

🙄

[@pamweinberg1212]

I know some of those same feelings. They are very painful. I too was active. Then got a divorce. Going to Church was rough. (I had some of those same feelings.) I stopped going because, it was too painful. Fast Forward to today. Later I got remarried to someone who is Jewish. I hadn’t gone back to church in about 20 years. (I did go a couple of times because, of the kids. From time to time.) It’s during this time take that sign from our Heavenly Father. That feeling you received at a time you felt hurt and then saw the rainbow 🌈 and felt that warm feeling is so beautiful. Your Heavenly Father wants to comfort you. You are a Child of God. Your son making rainbows, to show you his love. I believe that God wants you to remember him and to keep your promises to him. (He did that when the 🌈 connected Son and your Son) I’m not going to lie, it does get tough, but the Adversary doesn’t want you to go. Don’t think that way. Many in the Church will support you. Talk about it with your Bishop and Relief Society President. God admires you and so do I. I went back to church. Full force Nov. 2019. I go to every meeting. I had meetings with my Bishop. Participate in all that I can do. It takes strength to go to Church. Keep praying and keep reading your scriptures. They help me to be strong. I still sit on the pew by myself. (I pray for my husband now. I am aware of the choices I made. Especially, when I wasn’t going to church.) So sitting on that bench I know I’m not alone. I feel his comfort. (Pray that Jesus can comfort you at church.) Look for those beautiful signs of light, and nature. That warm feeling will let you know that you are NOT alone. He loves you. It gets easier with time. Just REMEMBER him. 😉🙏💛 (Big hugs from afar.)

[@tlahuilivargas996]

I was very active in my ward as a single mother of two. But I never dated or wanted to marry someone outside the Church because I wanted the Love I saw every Sunday in front of me Husband n Wife together putting the Lord God first in their Life marriage family n home. My two kids grew up in the church n I became inactive n had a Miscarriage that traumatized me n couldn't shake iff the guilt n sinful conscience I felt. I really sunk so low n I met someone who was not from church n became involved n ended in a bad relationship for 5 yrs. We separated while I was pregnant with my 3rd. He did try to convert n it was looking good to get him baptized n them marry in the church. But at the last missionary talks he told the Elders not to come anymore he was not interested in getting baptized. I was sitting across from him with a child in my arms n another on the way n It hurt me so much. My Bishop was great support for me n he also was confounded why my boyfriend suddenly changed his mind. Slowly all the work he showed to reunify our family together just ended n he stop trying. I cried every day n I considered adoption for my little girl n he refused. I had a near death event giving birth to our 3rd child n I had decided to separate. He made a last moment choice that broke us as a family permanently. Its now 10 yrs n he still wants to get us back n at times I feel sad for him but I also feel lots of guilt n sadness that we couldn't be a strong family n keep Gods commandments. I couldn't go back n he refuses to let me go n live in peace. When my 4th child was being born I finally managed to break my heart away from him. I had been praying for that moment to happen where I didn't hate him anymore n I can stop loving the wrong guy who cannot put our God n Family first. Im inactive right now. I still love God n the gospel very much but I can't face going to church being all alone again. My 6 kids are really good kids. I am glad that Im their mom. But my choices were terribly wrong n I know I also have fault in this broken family. But I have hope. My younger sister after 15 yrs being single she met a nice Church going kind man n she us dating. She was a single mom to 3 kids. She devoted herself to her Religion n Fellowship with Christ. Never dated anyone. Now her kids are all grown n she met this super nice guy. Miracles happen

[@tlahuilivargas996]

At church there was this couple the wife always came to service alone.. Yrs n yrs later one day she was getting ready n she said her husband also started to get his Sunday best on n ask her for a tie. She was gladly surprised when he said Wife Im going to Sunday Service with U today. U been so kind n patient for such a Long very long time. I love U so much I want To give U what your heart desires most. He became active in the ward n was a good conversationalist about theology. He ask about the church view on things so as not to offend anyone. He was respectful n very enjoyable company in our class. His Wife was so very happy. In their Golden yrs they were two peas in a pod at the front Church Pew. I wish n pray for U such husband too.

[@michaelrheiner2415]

I was a single, custodial, Dad of 3.....and later married again and blended with woman with 5 children. Parenting is hard. Period. And men, in the church, get judged much more harshly than women if they do have custody. I found myself constantly having to defend myself. If God had not put my wife and I together, I would never go through dating again. Men in the HC hutch are terrible at helping single dads. My HP group kept inviting me to play early morning racketball and I kept reminding them that I have to drive kids to early morning seminary after getting them up and ready, then to school, then work, then pick up and make sure they are all home safe and then back to work. And also had to fight for child support (which she ultimately never paid), and in the end I managed to get freedom to direct our lives free from her despite ever gender bias you can imagine. I have very strong feelings based on my experience, with the church members and being a single parent. And 12 years into my second marriage, with all my own kids grown, it is still fresh in my mind just how awful church members are to single parent men. Maybe, individually, some are not...but collectively we’ve been excusing ourselves from the role of nurturing from the pulpit for so long people actually believe men can’t play that role....and yet we are mad in His Image and we can be like Him. He is compassionate and loving...so can we. We have equality. Men and woman are equally capable of being very good and very bad parents. Gender does not foreordain a person to be that role. It is and will always involve agency blended with potential.

[@williamweigt7632]

Michael Rheiner sorry that you had an experience similar to mine. Congratulations on finding love again.

[@mauricioflorpari9891]

God hears our prayers..He made miracles in my life. So grateful for his mercy and grace.

[@thedon5759]

I can't believe you are single, you are beautiful inside and out. I will pray for you in the name of our lord and saviour Jesus christ

[@isabellancali5388]

Even after doing all that you learn as a missionary, member and one sealed in the temple w/various callings you can’t control what your spouse will or won’t do. Some of us as single parents have endured hard trials including overcoming abuse and still manage to raise children, take care of aging parents and our siblings. I find peace, love and the Spirit in knowing I was able to take care of my parents before they both passed away, gain a higher education through university, take care and provide for my daughter while taking care of my disabled sister. When others judged and abandoned us, we pressed forward because we know we have each other. God has always provided for us. He knows our situations even through hard, financial times. I have found that our prayers are answered quickly and through others (even when they aren’t members), as we serve others. Our family consists of neighbors and other single parents whom we work together to uplift and support each other and our kids. That’s the beauty of service: you forget yourself and feel the Savior’s love through newly developed friendships and sisterhood/brotherhood. Carry on and all my love and prayers for all single parents and ward families that we may all reach out, listen and act upon the Holy Spirit and lift each other up during these times. 🙏🏽❤️🌸

[@churchofjesuschrist]

Thank you for sharing your comment!

[@patsuddarth1093]

Praise God, stay strong in the Lord. I wish I had a loving mother, like you Ma'am. 😔

[@nathanbanks2935]

My parents got divorced when I was a very young adult, and it was difficult to learn to love my dad, but through the grace of Jesus Christ, I have been able to heal, forgive, and love him. It definitely took time, but God magnified my efforts. He makes the impossible possible. I love both my parents a lot, and they are wonderful people! I hope you too can find peace and healing in your life, through Christ.

[@justadude8539]

Those poor boys need their father more than ever in today’s deteriorating society

[@jh-nl8yf]

I was raised by a single parent, so maybe for that reason, this video hit me very strong. Thank you Cardin for sharing. This has reminded me of God's love, His grace.

[@chelseawihongi88]

God can hear you and he loves us all

[@felixthecat3n2]

I love these videos so much.. such a comfort to us all in these troubled times.. Thank you X

[@carolejean63]

Oh my goodness! You are amazing!! My heavenly son Kellen loved Some “Where over the rainbow” 🌈 you are an amazing Mommy!!

[@HonestFinance]

Thank you so much for this message

[@katrinamartiskin8220]

You have no idea how comforting this is. I read the story of Noah and about God's Faithfulness through rainbows. It is so beautiful that just through your testimony God is reminding me of His Goodness for me and my small family. Even when others doubt or don't believe God has plans for me and not just small plans but life changing plans. That doesn't change the fact that His plans are grand!

[@Patricia-yp4qw]

I am a single mom and my son is 4 and its a very lonely feeling but... ever since i became a believer in Christ, i don't feel that emptiness anymore.Because i have God to talk to❤️

[@ChimereGodswill]

I'm single I must say that the church is true I believe that everything about this church is real I give this testimony every Sunday

[@StachR34]

💜⚘ Going through these same times, I sincerely empathize with Cardin. I believe that in the right place and the right time, that special one will come for us. With His help, we will and do, find joy in our journey 🙂🌼

[@johnpeterson3938]

May God bless you for your loving efforts as a parent. In times of our greatest trial we are given the opportunity to become acquainted with God. Having your children and caring for them must bring great comfort to you even though you may not feel complete at this time. I know my children have brought me joy as I care for them. When our lives have been shaken up we soon recognize what is most important in life. I love watching the bible videos put on by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Those messages have taught me that Christ is the only sure foundation and if we build our lives on His teachings we can not fall. I believe God wants us to be happy and as we follow HIm we can be truly happy. So keep being who you are. You are full of love for your children. There is Happiness for us all as we follow Him. John

[@georgemurphy2579]

Cardin, you may think that you are not significant, but just your demeanor, the way you are with your two beautiful children and your hope and faith in God, has truly inspired me. Thank you!

[@ILikeFreedomYo]

I can't even imagine the pain of losing a spouse either to divorce or death. Bless all of you who have to cope with that trial.

[@mayrahq]

Hace justo un año pasé por el proceso de divorcio, después de 16 años casada y dos niñas en común. En diferentes momentos he experimentado ese miedo al futuro, inseguridad, soledad, sentimientos de fracaso, deseperanza y desánimo. A pesar de ello, durante todo este proceso, he sentido el sosten de un Padre Celestial amoroso y compasivo. He sentido paz y la certeza de que no importa lo que esté pasando, ni cuan mal me esté sintiendo, todo estará bien.

[@dtanner2975]

I always find it interesting that even on the most beautiful, heart-wrenching, and moving videos there are those that give the thumbs down. What a lady and what lucky children! Keep it up!

[@wilhelminaoduro7788]

Thank you

[@Charleszzee]

I'm touched by this story of this single mother. Here's a thought or impression I had about said story. Keep a life line to the father, allow those boys to know that their father loves them and it's not their fault. Divorce is hard on parents, but it's even more difficult for children.

[@mih9320]

I have been a single parent all my life. It’s the hardest job ever. Praying for us all for God to sustain us all!

[@punacunningham9151]

God has someone better for you, Kia kaha (Be Strong).

[@wilhelminaoduro7788]

Ok dear friend

[@VictorFlores-ms3vn]

Great! Amazing video!

[@carlosgamez5774]

You rock sister!!! God bless you. Thank you for sharing your faith and hope with all of us. My heart goes out to you and all those who feel lonely for whatever reason. Christ is at the very center of our lives. We must continue to have a perfect brightness of hope in all things. 😀

[@dutchkanaka]

You're a good mom and your handling of your kids amidst the stresses is amazing! Thank you for your example! :)

[@ingkongmcquiezig8024]

I was so touched and very proud of you. A kind of woman simply so strong and down to earth humble. Your the type of woman that we should put into high pedestal as our inspiration. God is always there for you and also working to you. He's a real invisible God in heaven. Our only one God who create US. Thank you for sharing your experience to other woman.

[@claudiachurch4285]

my daughter became addicted to prescription drugs and abandoned her son I immediately took him to Church and he thrived , he has always said how lucky he is I have 10 dads not 1, so many brothers nutured and loved him and the sisters filled in when I had to work extra shits he is attending BYU and we were so blessed to have our church family in our lives and our faith

[@chelseawihongi88]

This why God bless you 🙏

[@ShaySwarthy]

I am now a single parent. My son's father was deported 2 yrs ago and everything changed. I felt overwhelmed. I had to move back in with my mom. I was upset, a failure and I was disappointed with my life because it wasn't what I expected. I find myself getting so frustrated with my 4 yr old. I wasn't always like that so I know I needed this. Thank you!

[@churchofjesuschrist]

Thanks for sharing your comment. We're sorry for the challenges you're experiencing, but we're glad this video could be helpful to you. Take care, sister! For more uplifting messages of faith and hope, we encourage you to check out the talks from general conference this past weekend: www.churchofjesuschrist.org/general-conference/?lang=eng

[@ricopenacalayag5918]

I am single parent too...but the differ is my wife died. As a member of LDS no worries coz i know the Lord is always there to help me...right now, i am just waiting for my 2nd half that the Lord would give it to me.

[@williamweigt7632]

Rico Pena Calayag may you be blessed in your patience; and inspired to use the time you have to make an even better life.

[@mf6074]

Now let's see a video with a single Dad... I grew up with a single mom who is a phenomenal lovely lady but it sure would be nice if men were recognized for everything that we have to endure and go through mentally emotionally physically financially.. I hear all too often, men be careful the Lord counts your wife's tears, but I can tell you he also counts men's tears, even if members of the church don't.

[@churchofjesuschrist]

@m f, thank you for sharing your perspective and feedback.

[@yoripiano]

I am Japanese,single parent of 15 girl since she was 4.Devorcing broke my life mentally,emotionally,financially. But I was able to turn to my Load 7 years ago. I sometimes get lonely stil,and I totally understand the woman said how difficult to juggling everything without a partner. Church,school,work,home,every moment I see I'm the only person who is a single parent sadness attcks me though,God always care &gives me in a lots of ways. I was seeking channels for single parent&Christian,(in Japanese,I couldn't find it) God made me a chance to see it.Thank you so much.

[@darrisellis8810]

This is true regardless of Gender. There are just as many dead beat Moms as there are Dads. Many good MEN and women are the victims of divorce and broken homes. The pain, loneliness, and feelings of inadequacy are almost overwhelming. Many people judge the situation without all the facts and can add much heartache rather than comfort and support. I'm so much more sympathetic to those who suffer through divorce. Best advice i can give to everyone including leaders is to forbear casting stones and extend yourselves in love and support. Many lose their way and wander from the path of eternal life because their reality and their dreams are polar opposites. Its hard to see the forest for the trees when everything you have worked and sacrificed for is shattered into a million pieces. Its hard to find hope in broken promises and broken dreams. It takes the loving guidance of family and leaders to reassure individuals that though previous dreams are not attainable anymore, hope is knowing you can rebuild a better future and that not all is lost.

[@churchofjesuschrist]

Thanks for sharing your perspective and experience, Darris.

[@ru2yaz33]

The moment you are at peace with yourself, and you can have a better relationship with God and your children/family. It is difficult being a single parent, hoping to always be there for your children while they grow up.

[@ret3576]

Wow, this reminds me that I've felt peace in Christ multiple times when I'm not having my greatest days.

[@ATD1990]

How could someone divorce her she is beautiful and believes in God !

[@justadude8539]

Yeah but she believes in the wrong god. The creator of the universe was never a man and was not created. Human beings can never become gods

[@williamweigt7632]

Not here to judge the individual circumstances.

[@jordanwutkee2548]

just a dude - What an ignorant and lame comment. I bet you don’t have any personal problems at all, right? Y’know, since you apparently believe in the right god. Nothing ever, ever goes wrong for you, right?

[@cakesbylucas8418]

I don't know if you're going to see this comment, my dear friend, but I know how it feels to have your parents divorced. It's probably one of the worst experiences you'll probably go through, but it's also a great and the perfect opportunity for the Savior to enter into your life. I have never wanted my parents to divorce, but all over these years and I have learned so much and i have come so much closer to the Savior that I don't think If I would want change it. I have found myself lost, lonely and many times if not almost always, without a purpose in my life. I was doing everything automatically, but I kept going never giving up because He was always there, so don't give up either, please don't give up! There are so many who look at you as an example and their lives are probably much better because of you. Just remember like I always used to say when in the mission: I love you.

[@MarleeCraig]

What an amazing spirit and beautiful family ❤

[@audreya4527]

Beautiful story!❤ I love it

[@ululaauleitulalomanu4771]

You're not alone dear. Jesus and Heavenly Father are with you.. Just continue Love your children ❤❤❤

[@rigorous-course]

The time in life is too short to be sad, we can smile now! thank you so much for this video.

[@uyiwilliam4888]

I was touched with this woman story but never give up of your self

[@1thomaja]

I completely understand! Finding the moments of peace and joy without our partners can be difficult, but when we do, everything fall into place. Life as a single parent has it's challenges, but it's just what we do, with the help of God and Jesus.

[@Unknownbass18]

GOD,S BLESSING IS ALWAYS THERE ON EVERYONE .HE IS THE ONE WHO CAN SAVE US .

[@selebalemotau5682]

Cardin, you are beautiful and God sees you! Bless you!

[@JS-xs5hq]

Hang in there sister and trust the Lord who is always with you. May God bless you and your family.

[@cachemoneymerrill]

Loved this story. So heart felt, vulnerable and real. We need more of this.

[@michelamar-khodja8591]

When your children are adults, they will be your best friends. The task is difficult but the reward is up to the task. By raising your children, by assuming this mission despite a divorce, you choose life and joy. Courage. God bless you.

[@MoanaRarere]

This is great. I love the genuineness of it. And to have her boys involved is awesome.

[@USSResolute]

Even without being a single parent, it is difficult to be a single member in a church that revolves around family and posterity. My ward has nearly 100 members who are single, widowed or divorced, myself included. Those without children sit together on a bench in the back because we have no other place. We don't have kids; we are alone. But we are also the SWORD of the Lord (Single Widowed OR Divorced), and I remind my fellows that the Lord will wield His SWORD well. And I remind them that we are not alone in the Lord.

[@churchofjesuschrist]

We're glad you're here. Thank you!

[@KMFCenCal]

May God continue to bless you and your children all the days of your life. God bless you sister 🙏 ❤️

[@crystalofcourage03]

I love this woman. I wish I could connect with her.

[@mandi7930]

Thankyou

[@aselhettiarachchi7674]

BELIEVE BELIEVE THE GOD JESUS 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@chongnelson5492]

I'm a single father of a 5 yr old I want to thank u for sharing this video because alot of us feel like were the only ones going through this dark n lonely storm ...I cried through your whole video ...like ppl will always say you have your boy !! N I'm very grateful n always will b for that but it's when the kids our in bed In my case my son....its hello darkness my ole friend I know my lords by my side but he made us not to b alone ....... anyways thank u so much for this inspiring video.....gb u n thoee little ones

[@Marie-cp4yf]

I could totally relate as a single parent but being a widow is another story...There are times when im struggling to put my situation in a more positive perspective...a lot of self talk and convincing that things will be OK. And it will be cause my hope is in God through Jesus Christ. God bless all single moms and dads.

[@l.richmondchilds9548]

My heart goes out to you such a beautiful soul Peace be still...

[@Ronngb]

You‘ll never be alone. Be strong. Then Jesus loves you🙏🏼

[@therusfosterson238]

Thank you for sharing your experience and the wisdom you have. You give me and others hope and encouragement. God is good, life is a journey and He will not forget or forsake us.

[@yeshalloween]

I’m not divorced but I feel pain and loneliness everyday for wishing for the kind of parents that some people have that I do not have.

[@Valhalla369]

Thank you for sharing this encouraging testimony. God has good plans for you and your family. "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” Jer 29:11 and also God had said "I will never leave you nor forsake you" Heb 13:5. Take comfort in these truths and keep the faith. God is faithful and good always.

[@ramboandjoann]

Thank you Cardin ❤️ for your testimony of Christ's amazing grace 🌻

[@brinabrina7747]

Diese Geschichte erinnert mich an mich selbst. Ich bin auch Alleinerziehend und Gott hat mir auch schon so oft Regenbögen geschickt 😃🌈 und habe dann nach deren Bedeutung gesucht :-)

[@sooyoungkim351]

You are such a wonderful and beautiful woman and mom. I know Heavenly father always will be with you and will bless your family. Thank you so much for sharing your testimony 😍

[@r3mb1a12]

What a believe soul. God bless all those in dire need. 🙏🙏🙏

[@alvinpalaganas8160]

You are a great mother in the world you are strong and everything jesus is in your life in the name of jesus christ amen

[@MattViklund]

What a beautiful soul

[@ennaadawt3042]

Soo good

[@carlthewinner]

Thanks for sharing your story. Gods speed sister.

[@andreavincent4619]

Many of the wonderful women I've known have been single mothers!! Kudos to them!!