CITY GIRL BECOMES A VILLAGE WIFE | Preparations for Etalo Lye Lugo

Hey Beloved’s
Its the day of the Etalo lye lugo and my family and a few special guests will be coming over to my new home.
We will be preparing a small meal for them and I am expected to perform some duties beforehand.
In this video you will see me do some common village house chores. I wont lie, it was not easy given that I am not used to most of the chores. However I’m always willing to learn and better myself.
Enjoy 🙈😅
Ndatala
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Musician: Jeff Kaale
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#allthingsndatala #VillageWife #OshiwamboCulture

[@Eviste07]

Ashike the lady showing you to thitha is soo sweet. It's like she is showing her child man....may we all get those sweet in laws ❤️❤️

[@allthingsndatala]

She’s the best🥹I’m blessed you guys 🙏🏾😃 May we all receive such understanding and loving in-laws shili. Thank you for watching 😀

[@ndinelaomungungu]

I literally enjoyed this video. I like how you embraced the advice and the corrections you got from your in laws.

[@allthingsndatala]

Welcome back Madam Mungungu😀 Im glad you enjoyed it. Okupukululwa Oko ndihole 😌 my in-laws made the transition so easy🙏🏾✨ I’m just greatful at this point.

[@johannesshikwambi2658]

Beautiful house 💕🤗

[@allthingsndatala]

Thank you Johannes🙏🏾

[@Saarankelo]

Ndasa nayi the entire video 🤣🤣. Them girls were helpful shili, love the hype 😊

[@allthingsndatala]

Glad you enjoyed it😅🙏🏾❤️

[@thevillagegist]

Something about village vlogs that just brings peace, man.. a whole Makoti doing her thing. Let me sit back, watch, and relax 😌 Kitchen party 🥳 🎉 😋 🤪

[@allthingsndatala]

Enjoy!!!!

[@simonhaufiku5960]

I love your village vlog so beautiful, I learned so much from them, i grow up in the city is a big hustle, I think the day I get married my wife family will just laugh at me also because I don't know much about our culture but because of you guys am really learning a lot thank you I . I love your family they are so so sweet and they just understand you that you want to learn very kind of them

[@allthingsndatala]

Aaww😌Thank you Simon for coming back to the channel🙏🏾 I’m glad you love the village vlogs. I too am a fan of village content and everything cultural. Okutcha being from the city as well has its disadvantages ngaa. However it’s great to know that you are learning something from my content. I am also learning and unlearning a lot of things so continue with me on this journey🙂 let’s learn together tog. I hope you too can have a great and understanding family (in-laws) like mine who will accept you for who you are. It’s not really nice to not know the basic cultural practices but as long as you’re not ignorant and are willing to learn, it makes the situation much easier for the new family to guide and direct you. Thank you once again for watching Sir😀👏🏾

[@simonhaufiku5960]

@@allthingsndatala you are welcome and thank you for showing us the best

[@Simply_Miaa]

Okuthitha 🤭😂 But we can’t blame you, there are people based in villages but also struggle to do that.

[@allthingsndatala]

I know right😅 I have never even done it before so it’s ok mos😃 and to know that there are people based in the village and don’t know as well makes me feel so much better. Thank you for watching Mia gwandje ✨🥰

[@taimiangula]

I love your village vlogs and always learn something new . I didn't know that we hold the corners shampa tatu thitha . Also I love the way you speak Oshindonga 💓💓💓

[@allthingsndatala]

Aawwww🥹🙈 Thank you so much Tjaimi✨🤍 I’m glad you learn something shaashi I too keep learning each and every time. I had no clue as well😅 My Oshindonga is tog nice ne😅 🙈 Thank you😀 and thank you for watching Taimi🙏🏾

[@laimishimwandi429]

aww ashike you have nice understanding in-laws, and you are doing the most girl eelaa 🙌

[@allthingsndatala]

Thank you Laimi😀 My new Fam is the best tog🙏🏾

[@thatgirlvapa]

This was fun to watch

[@allthingsndatala]

Glad you enjoyed it Mee Vapa👏🏾✨😀

[@SylvieSij]

We are in the same boat when it comes to okuthitha. I'm horrible at it as well. I can't even do it with omushalo, but we are all learning waah... Also, your in-laws are so nice & a vibe....

[@allthingsndatala]

I’m glad to know that Sylvie😅 It seems like most people don’t know naani. Yes, my in-laws are wonderful and understanding. Thank you for watching✨😀

[@teopoekandjo5870]

Otehaluka teti ngeyika 🤣🤣aye wan meendatala you make my day with Lough 🤣🤣🤣anyway you are truelly wife material

[@allthingsndatala]

I’m glad I did 😅👏🏾 Thank you for that and thank you for watching🤍✨

[@Paulina_Shali]

This was beautiful.❤ Can’t wait for part 2👯‍♀️👯‍♀️

[@allthingsndatala]

Aawww😌🥰 Thank you Paulina. Glad you loved it. Part two is coming. Have your Notifications 🔔 on. Thursday 11h00

[@PinkMeeSheeli]

I will be back, I just came here to say that I made it in life please. Back to being number 1 here. Catch you guys on the flip side 😋💕💕

[@allthingsndatala]

Yaassss🥇🥇Catch you on the Flip side babygirl😅

[@zimmex]

This was really beautiful to watch , at least now I got glimpse of how things are done when it comes to tradition and also I love how you ask questions like in the previous video which side should the "omasiga" face and why? You know such things mahn . At least when we are all grown and at that stage of marriage we know how things should be done . Thank you madam Frans . Waiting for part 2 and more . This was lovely indeed ❤

[@allthingsndatala]

Tangi nkero!!! I appreciate your support and thank you for watching. Glad we can all learn together😃💖

[@innocentvicky_28]

Okuthitha is not for me, my mom gave up long time teaching me how to do it.

[@allthingsndatala]

@@innocentvicky_28 glad I’m not the only one😅

[@innocentvicky_28]

@@allthingsndatala yeah, we'll definitely get it one day😁

[@Gods_.child-Vicky]

Loved this video so much ❤ 💖

[@allthingsndatala]

Aawww😅🙈 it was one of those hey. Glad you loved it🤍

[@omtaishilongo]

Your videos are soooo educational. i love u for that.....

[@allthingsndatala]

Thank you for that Annacky✨😀 I appreciate it🤍

[@kainoawala]

Enjoyed it, just me cracking throughout the video 😁 I love your confidence mahn🥰🥰

[@allthingsndatala]

I knew someone would be laughing throughout 😂😂🙈 Ashika I tried tog

[@kainoawala]

@@allthingsndatala you did shehm 😊😁

[@rakkelnamolo]

I love you because you are willing to learn ❤

[@allthingsndatala]

Thank you🙏🏾 You are never too old to learn, it’s what I love😃

[@claudianusiku6113]

My favorite

[@allthingsndatala]

Thank you nkero✨🙏🏾🥰

[@PinkMeeSheeli]

Olaaaaaaaaa💕💕💕💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

[@meemwaakavlogs715]

And we are for it

[@allthingsndatala]

Yaasss😀👏🏾

[@joanehgwaanaka1224]

Where I was ano nani just to come across this channel last week? Onda camping Po neh 😂😂 I like traditional things. I quote something on the previous video when you asked nkene omasiga Gena kukala an where you should face when cooking. Thank you Mee Ndatala for teaching 💕👏👏

[@allthingsndatala]

Inotcha?😅 Thank you for returning Madam Joaneh 👏🏾 I’m very much eager to learn shaashi iinima kandiyishi 😩 also it’s good to know that you guys are also learning alongside with me. Let’s continue together on this journey Asseblief🙏🏾 Also, Ondakoka peife ndishi😅 so I need to get with the programme 🙈

[@joanehgwaanaka1224]

@@allthingsndatala surely we will continue,,,,, notification button on already.

[@allthingsndatala]

@@joanehgwaanaka1224 Dasei!!!

[@Chartomy]

Looking of the kitchen 😎☺️

[@allthingsndatala]

Etseee! I’ll end up using that Chartomy.

[@Simply_Miaa]

I love it here Next episode please 🙏🏾

[@allthingsndatala]

Thank you for watching. Next episode will be on Thursday 11h00. Have your notifications 🔔 on

[@Simply_Miaa]

@@allthingsndatala patiently waiting 😊

[@Ailinona]

Loved this. ❤

[@allthingsndatala]

Glad you did 😃✨🙏🏾

[@ndeshihafelawilkandapulamo6093]

I love it here😍

[@allthingsndatala]

Thank you nkero✨😀🤍

[@shonah8366]

I prefer oshini shomevi.😂😂😂😂.Ndele pokuthitha zero , but you tried my love. Keep going.

[@allthingsndatala]

Yakwetu mboka, sutu! Thank you, I will continue trying kuume…sowaar😃

[@thevillagegist]

"Tokwata po corner" 😄 🤣 😂 I really love your home structure. Eumbo ladikwa nawa shili ❤️..

[@allthingsndatala]

Thank you🙏🏾😌

[@kainoawala]

Lafewa nee shilli 🥰🥰

[@PinkMeeSheeli]

Number 1 here and my heart😭💕💕💕

[@allthingsndatala]

Owamenekela sheeli😂😂😂 kudos to you🌸💕

[@PinkMeeSheeli]

@@allthingsndatala onale ndakala handithiki very late. Today was my day please. I am back now also😋😋

[@selmaindongo2735]

🥰🥰🥰nice video to watch 😊

[@allthingsndatala]

Thank you Selma✨😌🙏🏾 Glad you loved it

[@Ilonasworld]

Ashike your content is quality, what do you film with.😊 you are a whole village wife girl ❤

[@allthingsndatala]

Well thank you Ndapewa✨😀 I’ll DM you the answer. Ashike we are trying to be better this year. Glad you noticed the difference 😌

[@FrancinaHaipinge-vv9rd]

Motherland Namibia

[@allthingsndatala]

🙌🏾🙌🏾😀

[@nelaondapona]

Never enjoyed a vlog as much as this one. Good job👏🏽 This is so me, knowing zero about oshiwambo tradition but eager to learn. Ohandipula omapulp🤣🤣🤣

[@allthingsndatala]

Aaww😌 Thank you Sarah! Glad you enjoyed it. Ashike I tried tog🙈 You’re just like me naani… always eager to learn and asking a thousand questions 😅 keep it up👏🏾 Thank you for watching😃🤍

[@nelaondapona]

@@allthingsndatala You really did especially okufifa🤣 i can only use onshalo... don't even know if I spelled it correctly.

[@allthingsndatala]

@@nelaondapona 💃😌

[@mkwamhalanga5998]

I enjoy your content so much. 😂❤❤

[@allthingsndatala]

Aawww😃🙏🏾 Thank you for this, I appreciate it✨

[@shekupebotha2147]

You tried though😅love the video 😍

[@allthingsndatala]

Thank you Madam Shekupe🙈😀 I really did hey. Thank you for watching✨🤍

[@Chartomy]

Ndee okufifa is really a skill. You tried shili man 😅. The Inlaws just understand you have other stronger skills 😅🤣

[@allthingsndatala]

Tetiiii… I was like a fish outta water😅😩 I tried wa and my in-laws are so understanding

[@deltastalk]

It’s you totsu for me 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 maan what is going on mummies

[@allthingsndatala]

Liiisten… I can explain 😅😩

[@thevillagegist]

The pounding..ai tog 😆 My tala patas I planned to film but couldn't coz I just wasn't feeling it. Also the were so many expectations from the inlaws, then came my own family woeg.. I literally just went through the day and wished it ended soon enough . There were so many things am supposed to do anuwa but some I skipped with the excuse of aaye aakwanyama don't do this what what...it was like another wedding we spent so much 😟 it's so funny watching this am reminded of the days. Up to now I still can't fifa with ongalo and am not even ashamed..you did well wa 😅 🙃

[@allthingsndatala]

Tetiii😅🙈 I tried. Sorry about your experience. I hate it when we go through such experiences and we never get to enjoy them. However contrary to mine, I had fun. I think also because I took charge and did my own research so that made things sooo much easier. Also, this was not as stressful and strict as the wedding. I enjoyed mine more than our Wedding actually 😌 I just realized that naani a lot of people don’t know how to do some of the chores in the video 😅 Ons is saam😃 Thank you Sonya 🤍✨☺️

[@thevillagegist]

@@allthingsndatala ❤️❤️❤️

[@dankieyadave8230]

Not Just the onturo dress atleast even a maxi dress ngaa

[@allthingsndatala]

Tse otuhole ookotse. I don’t like Maxi dresses😀

[@hilmaisrael]

You really tried there by sieving shem, it's not easy if you haven't been doing it.

[@allthingsndatala]

I felt like a fish out of water😩 But I had to do it with a straight face and a smile even though I knew kutcha I will look ridiculous 🙈 Ashike I tried wa. Thank you for watching Madam Hilma✨🤍

[@shekupebotha2147]

Part 2 please 🙏🏽😭

[@allthingsndatala]

Yes… Thursday 11h00. Just keep your notifications on 🔔 so you don’t miss the next part 😀

[@evanaftali7943]

😂😂😂😂😂 I laughed through out 😂😂

[@allthingsndatala]

I was waiting for someone to say that😩🙈😂 I laughed at myself too. Ondalimo nayi!

[@yakulanangombe6101]

Shitenya mem 😂😂😂

[@allthingsndatala]

Eenooo😅

[@deltastalk]

Aram tog look how tothitha 🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊

[@allthingsndatala]

Leave me alone Delta😩😩😩😩😩😩

[@deltastalk]

@@allthingsndatala 😂😂😂

[@rakkelnamolo]

Traditional jah you need to look grown during that event , so the dress is appropriate ❤

[@allthingsndatala]

Eeno naani😅 some elders walked past me hewa without a word😀 but I understand why now

[@malakiashikwambi3712]

Mbwiti girls🤣🤩

[@allthingsndatala]

@@malakiashikwambi3712 Eeenoo😌

[@Simply_Miaa]

“Kuku talandje nawa” 😂😂😂😂

[@allthingsndatala]

Eeno meme!! Trying to impress her 😅she’s so understanding hewa🙏🏾🤍

[@teopoekandjo5870]

Aye wan ppkuthitha ondasa🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@allthingsndatala]

Tetiiiii😂😂😂 I tried

[@sophianailoke3216]

There's so many traditional things I can't do and that's what fears me getting married to a vamboe man

[@allthingsndatala]

Love is all about compromise ntowele 🥺I too had a fear of getting married to a primitive man. Luckily, my husband accepted me for who I was and his family is understanding. Okutcha you also have to compromise somewhere nga😀 try learning and educating yourself on some things. Show some effort as well and you’ll be ok. If a man loves you unconditionally he accept you for who wholeheartedly ❤️☺️

[@meemwaakavlogs715]

Why is Ndatala I?🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am cracking

[@allthingsndatala]

Mama please😩😩😩😩🤭 I wasn’t expecting all that😩

[@kainokay729]

From today on I’m going to learn how to thitha iindja 🙈

[@allthingsndatala]

Nangwee kushishi??🤭😅 Etse julle!!!! I thought I was weird for not knowing Kanti on is almal saam 😂

[@rakkelnamolo]

“Inohongololwa 😂 ashie ou mu sama ngaho 😂

[@allthingsndatala]

My dear😩

[@rakkelnamolo]

You have kind in-laws Shem 😅

[@allthingsndatala]

I really do hey🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@KNShinana]

Just taking notes here as I'm preparing for my "etalo lyelugo" as well.. tangi unene for the info.. even have to visit Tate Mbezi youtube..

[@allthingsndatala]

I’m glad Mee Ester😀✨ it is very much important for all newlyweds to watch Tate Mbenzi’s video, you will learn so much. Thank you for watching😃🤍

[@rakkelnamolo]

Never knew you are a city girl kaah 😂

[@allthingsndatala]

Really Mee Rakkel? Born in exile and raised in Windhoek 🤘🏾🤘🏾🤘🏾🤘🏾

[@Simply_Miaa]

Your in-laws are mohs your family now, you can do whatever is right with or in front of them 😂😂

[@allthingsndatala]

Eeno maaa😃 We are one now!

[@dankieyadave8230]

I almost talked about the outfit though

[@allthingsndatala]

Owati…😅

[@deltastalk]

Watching you do all this feels so weird 🥹🥹🥹🥹

[@allthingsndatala]

I know right 😩😅

[@PinkMeeSheeli]

Not the lady saying okutsa kakushi okudhigu,😅😢😢 Also the way totsu mem, one can tell that you are really trying. Pokuthitha I am just going to keep quiet coz what did you just do there? The camera lady is soo kind willing to help you thitha 😭💕 Aaaye Mee Ndatala pokuthitha zero, sorry. Ongalo yoye oshili aaaye Mee Ndatala 😂😂😂 Even nomshalo you could not do it hewa😩😩 Should we bring the mbwiti conversation here coz wow. Anuwa tse otuhole ookotse, iixuna😂 Not you wanting okutsikwa, iitsika iimbale yoye meme please nde toyi kelugo lyoye 😄 This was tog beautiful💕💕

[@allthingsndatala]

Listeeeeenn…. Take a fish out of water and see what happens🙈😅 I have never thithad before sheeli😩 It was all new to me. Let’s not bring the mbwiti conversation here please😩abeg. Ashike I’m learning and unlearning so it’s all good. Glad you enjoyed this vlog sheeli🌸 I tried tog?🤭

[@PinkMeeSheeli]

@@allthingsndatala hahahah😂😂 Let’s put the fish back in water for now coz wow. Tried??? Aachele aaah. Kidding, walonga Lela, but I just want to know if uusila auhe ongwe nga wewuthitha nenge you just did the part where you were vlogging. When is the next video coming tuu?🙈

[@allthingsndatala]

@@PinkMeeSheeli Ndalonga peni ano😅 I didn’t even thitha a gram😩 They all did the work kaanangwe. What I showed you was exactly what happened. I didn’t do anything behind the scenes, totally unfiltered. Next vlog will be again on a Thursday at 11h00. Watch the space sheeli😃

[@PinkMeeSheeli]

@@allthingsndatala I’m here giving you a groot kop, just pretend like owathitha please 🤣🤣🤣 ndele this year itokwata kwata ka, I like how you are consistent and I love it for us on the other side of the flip side😂💕💕 If I’m not number one next week just cancel me unless I have a valid reason.

[@allthingsndatala]

@@PinkMeeSheeli this year itekwata Kwata ✨😌 ek is ernsting met die content

[@naapopyendilimeke2917]

😂😂😂 ae otohengwa Nani shili 😅 omukulukadhi gwashe keshi okuthitha 😂😂 I'm joking though, just keep trying ❤️

[@allthingsndatala]

Ashike Naapopye😏 I will continue💪

[@naapopyendilimeke2917]

@@allthingsndatala 😂👏👏

[@rakkelnamolo]

Lol, you pound like Dilish 🤣 i cannot 😂 but you really tried if you said the last time you did it was at 10 years old 🎉

[@allthingsndatala]

Anuwa I pound like a man😩🤭😅 Ashike I tried wa

[@ndinelaomungungu]

Vakwetu meeNdatala ta fifa😂😂😂

[@allthingsndatala]

Nkee ndavalelwe😩 I’ve never done it before

[@ndapandulanghipunya0083]

Choss🎉

[@allthingsndatala]

Yassss Ndapandula🙏🏾😀

[@mariakalulu2926]

Not with shoes love, as you are pounding mahangu.

[@allthingsndatala]

Eewa Mee Maria. However, what is the reason behind pounding without shoes?

[@mariakalulu2926]

@@allthingsndatala apparently it's to keep iilya safe from omavi, just for hygienic, that's how they tought us.

[@allthingsndatala]

@@mariakalulu2926 Interesting 🤔 thank you Maria👏🏾😌

[@Simply_Miaa]

You are beautiful 🥹❤️

[@allthingsndatala]

Aawww🥰 Just like you. Thank your Mia✨