Civvie Street - Life after the Army.

So in this video I talk about life after leaving the army and how service has affected me.

[@Britdetector]

I still sit with. Y back to a wall, still watch who comes and goes through all the doors, still watch for unattended bags, and still walk down the street checking windows and doorways, as well as eyeing all the vehicles coming from front and rear, and I'm in my 70's

[@johnribble]

Same mucka

[@martynlaidlaw1592]

I completely agree mate and im a aghfan vet but then i do have ptsd

[@fatmanfaffing4116]

I once went for a job and sat in a room with 9 other candidates. Within minutes the two ex-servicemen had discovered each other and started chatting while the other 8 civvies just sat there, mute. Ever experienced that? One night as a security officer at a private hospital I was on with a Kiwi ex-armoured trooper. We sat at the table next to two other tables, both full of tradesmen in to do work overnight. One table spoke mostly in Spanish, the other in Russian. I listened in for a few moments, knowing maybe five words in each language but it wasn't the words that struck home; it was the vibe. I said to my mate 'they're swapping warries!" So we pulled up a sandbag each between the two tables and found out there was an Ecuadorean sailor, a Russian paratrooper, a Hungarian soldier, a Chilean MP, a Mexican soldier and a Polish air force ground crew. We switched to English (mostly) and spent the next two hours laughing and crying and realising it matters not which uniform you wore, just that you wore one. We all had similar stories and experiences.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Wow, how cool was that. Its so true our old profession reaches past countries boarders. Thank you for telling that story mate 👍 bloody awesome. 👍

[@rayjennings3637]

We all just love swinging the light!

[@davebarrow8277]

You can always tell an ex serviceman. You just can't tell em much. As for sitting with my back to the wall it's not an option when the wife is with me. She's a people watcher so tend to be facing the wrong way which is uncomfortable so always looking over my shoulder. I don't know why. It's not like I've been shot at.

[@SimonTimoney-74]

Boring

[@SimonTimoney-74]

Bell end

[@fatmanfaffing4116]

As a kid I used to ask my Dad (27 years service) to go camping. His reply was "I did enough camping in the army'. We went three times. When I left the army after 8 years people asked me if I wanted to go camping. Took about five years before I stopped saying; wait for it.... "I did enough camping in the army." I camp regularly now and love it but it took my own service to better understand my dad's mindset. By the time he died when I was 60 we understood each other, and our shared view on most civvies. Last movie we saw together was 'Danger Close', the Battle of Long Tan. We shared a hug and a tear and didn't care what the other people in the cinema thought. Lest We Forget

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

A very truthful and touching story of you and your Father, thank you for telling it so openly and honestly it's very much appreciated. I too use to sit with my Dad (also a veteran), and watch old war movies, and like you it's left me with some special memories that I have forever. Thank you

[@phillipthomson]

Good man,my dad was in Korea and Malaya.loved my stories when I came home Watched all the big war movies together I have his notes about Korea and Malaya,escaped death once Got blown up by a overinflated truck tyre,casevac back to canp,all his csm was interested in was where his cigarette ration was? Said he swapped them with a medic for a Mars bar I guess we all have stories maybe we should post them on here share the laughs

[@gunner678]

Still like it after 20 years. I still choose my spot carefully in a bar or restaurant. The worst for me was coming back from Bosnia, with the the mine issue. I just couldn't walk on rough ground. Screamed at my young daughter when she ran onto the grass.i was in a mess for ages. Also after another 'interesting' deployment I won't say where, I was driving with my two daughters in the car, all was fine, but something happened can't say what exactly, and to me I was back. I scared my girls. I used bad language, something I never did in front of the children. Weird and worrying. I still feel it all. Sometimes it's funny and comforting in a strange way, but mostly now it's not good. My wife says to me in the morning, ' you were on duty last night'. I know because I'm exhausted. Still, when I joined, I meant it, what else can one say. I don't think we ever really finish do we?

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

We don't really finish when we leave, Bosnia was a terrible place, with terrible sights.

[@gunner678]

@@LetsTab59-bd4fd it was. I was in Sarajevo in a staff job. I went for a run along the river with a Norwegian colleague. Things had quietened down a bit by then. I had rigged a way to carry my browning in a daysack whilst I was out, with the lanyard round my neck. Anyway, the peace didn't last long. Not much one can do with a couple of pistols, but we had a go, aiming at the second floor of flats just over the river. Outgunned, we couldn't go anywhere, but luckily for us, an Italian Carabinieri armoured car pulled up next to us, opened up on the building, and got us away. The thing that remains in my mind is the bloody squeaky brakes on the thing. They were all like it, hardly tactical. Still, didn't stop me tabbing lol. It's all a longer story, many stories, but it'll do for now. A sad place.....then I met my Waterloo in Kosovo 5 years later. C'est la vie eh?

[@geoffcowen8912]

I did seven years back in the eighties, and it's very much a past life. I have to say Keith, you are a natural in your delivery of these video and make them interesting without some of the BS certain verterans come out with on their channels. Keep up the good work.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Cheers Geoff, that's very good and encouraging 👍. I don't edit or script or even rehearse my video I just think of a subject and have a chat to the camera lol. Thank you again for your support 🙏

[@MC14may]

After 20yrs in the mob 10 of those on operations I don't miss it at all. I chose to close the door & not keep in touch with anyone I served with. I've spent the last 2 decades working on armed contracts in the middle-east with all ex-servicemen and the banter is still there. I also live in NI and after serving multiple tours there during good & bad times. I'll never live on the mainland again as its been lost to failed multiculturalism and I don't recognise my home town anymore.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

You really can't beat the banter we all use to have. You're right about our country, its really becoming a broken place so sad. Take care brother 🙏

[@davidhoward5392]

I did 22 years in the Royal Navy 73 - 95, left as a Chief Petty Officer...my transition into civilian life was difficult, challenging, frustrating, some of it down to me at times and what appeared to be, my unwillingness to compromise in their eyes, in mine, not lowering my standards, which I considered unprofessional. Me and HR were constant companions, with lots of please explain chats. Reality is I never truly adapted it was more an uneasy peace. Now retired for 8 years, living the life in Western Australia 🇦🇺 a newly minted shackle dragger. Still have an unhealthy obsession with time keeping, always early, not a fan of tardiness, still meticulously plan things, retain a dark sense of humour and retain the habit of being able to drink like a Royal Naval sailor when required although recovery time now runs into days 👍. RN social media sites has, allowed me to stay in contact with my old shipmates, travelled back last year for a reunion and a 50th anniversary of joining the mob with old classmates, the bond remains as strong as ever. Something civilians can never understand. Absent Friends 🍻

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Absent friends 🍻

[@rayjennings3637]

10 minutes early and you're on time. Arrive at the time and you're late. Something my wife never will understand and we got married in 1970 when I still had 10 years left in the Army! You would have thought she'd have cottoned on but she never has, bless her!

[@mikechild3414]

Hi, just discovered your channel and find your videos great. I joined the Army in 1985, but was medically discharged after an injury during basic training. I got better and then joined the TA (now Army Reserve) and was in for 10 years. I didn’t do any operational tours like the Reserves can do now, but just remember my mates, the bond we had, teamwork, ranges, exercises and all that. I really miss it, and have the utmost respect for anyone in the Army, Regular or Reserve.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Mike well done mate you did your service, its really not about how many tours or medals veterans have , it's the fact that you served mate, that's what's important 👍

[@OldhamSteve52]

Leaving the Forces can be a shock to the system. Don’t forget you learn a lot of transferable skills. You have discipline, punctuality, reliability, trainability, honesty. If you can put these across at an interview you’ll go far. Anyway another good video Sir.

[@TheJon2442]

Sadly a lot of firms don't want these sorts of qualities..... Turning up on time doing a good job.... You will make a lot of enemies!

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

They are good characteristics that we pick up from our service. Thank you for your support mate 👍

[@andrewwood9281]

I agree, although I’m not ex-service my employer makes a point of encouraging ex-service to the company, the two directors in charge of my department are- 1st one ex REME WO2 and 2nd one ex Para Reg, they’re both great fun and out of ear shot of the more stuffy senior staff revert back to service banter which I totally get having many friends amongst the service community 👍

[@gw2891]

Having served 8yrs in the Army (infantry) I moved onto another career .. within a week I was called into an office and told that my squaddie humour wouldn’t cut it there . Apparently people were taking the pisstaking to heart bless ‘em. Miss the laughs in the regiment but not all the back to basics bollox after operational tours.

[@roberthewer2268]

💯 m8 I was facilities manger in an establishment and did freight in a shipping company in both counts I was told tone it down you can't tell people what to do anymore . I got told I was a bully for berating some one who was persistently late WTF ???I said what's the point of being a supervisor then ???

[@roberthewer2268]

Manager 😂

[@matthewbishop9342]

Yep ! Been there a few times too mate.

[@roberthewer2268]

@@matthewbishop9342 great life out here m8 told a guy constantly not to park in a blue box space he said I find your attitude and behaviour very threatening towards me boo hoo 😢

[@matthewbishop9342]

@roberthewer2268 I've been called into the office quite a few times for my 'behaviour'. I've tried explaining, but civvies just don't get the sense of humour, the hard work, or attention to detail. I was told I work too hard and make the others look bad on one occasion too

[@siroyal2040]

Felt lost when I left, missed my mates, missed the travels, the life, different life in civy street, strange but I still feel programed lol g8 video 🎉🎉🎉

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

So true 👍

[@bouse23]

A mate of mine got a job working as a facilities manager in a large office building. a female member of staff went into his office and complained that the building was a bit chilly his response was well then put on a fucking jumper. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@philhunter9158]

The motto from being ex forces to civvie street "TRUST NO ONE"

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Many feel the same way

[@Gunner4746]

And Question everything

[@zaynevanday142]

Or “Watch your back Jack “ 😂

[@PRAR1966]

Trust must be earnt, gotta leave that door open until it needs shutting.

[@dmcarpenter2470]

Yup, from the US.

[@John19349]

It's great to see a person who actually knows what he's talking about. Keep up the good work because you talk about what ex-forces people understand.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thank you John, that's very kind. As you can see I'm just an old squaddie swinging the lantern sat on a sandbag 😆

[@rayjennings3637]

The reason the number of subscribers is increasing is that this guy relates to so many thousands of us. Long may he continue uploading these chats. When, as a civvy, did we stop checking under our cars? After 14 years, in 1980, I finished as a Corporal ( long and boring story why) and at my first job interview for a job as a Project Co-Ordinator, the General Manager of the department was an ex-RAF Corporal. He looked at my CV and said Corporals had the worst job in the Forces because all the tasks would be passsed down from Officers, through the WOs to the (in my case, being REME) Tiffys and to the section Sergeant. He would then detail a Corporal to see the job was done. Once it was done, the credit was passed on all the way back up the chain of command! Anyway, all that aside, he took me round to see all the staff and asked me whan I could start. I stayed there for 6 years, becoming a Design Engineer and remained in the same industry until I finally retired in 2015.

[@RayCyst310]

He's a gentleman

[@Martin1911A1]

Thank you for what you are doing.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Martin, thank you for your support.

[@phillipthomson]

Civilian strasse,highest rank.MR However being what we were will never leave any of us and sometimes I feel I’m more of a soldier now than I was then

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Nice one Phil, thank you mate 👍🇬🇧

[@gunner678]

Well said!

[@rayjennings3637]

I bet you straighten your back at certain times!

[@phillipthomson]

@@rayjennings3637 yeah and the odd sir gets slipped in now and again but I don’t think that’s a bad thing,it’s about respect.something that’s sadly lacking these days

[@HerculesCDN]

Your an inspiration. I appreciate these chats you give. Can't give you enough thanks.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thats great to hear, thank you. I'll keep going as long as I can. Take care all the best.

[@julianjules6698]

Another great vid!

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thank you Julian, that's very much appreciated my friend. 👍🇬🇧

[@jerrybootneck1736]

Even today 40 years after leaving the forces, I never sit with my back to the door. I was a member of the RBL near me until they closed down and sold it off.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

I'd love to start up and run an ex servicemans club. What a hoot that would be. Have a nice drop in centre for the lads and lasses that just want to chat as well.

[@jerrybootneck1736]

@@LetsTab59-bd4fd That would be Awesome for those who live close to you.

[@kenmcfarland4287]

Living in NI I sub consciously still keep an eye on people being in the reserves for 11 years and travelling on the bus up the Falls road everyday to get to my work some stay alive habits never die !

[@stevenbyers6526]

Loving your post big man keep up the great work pal 👍

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thanks for your support Steve

[@JohnGBlackBelt53]

I recently watched one of your videos about applying for the armed forces veterans card. Thanks to you and your information about applying my card has just arrived, it only took about a week to come through. Keep making the videos, I thoroughly enjoy them.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

John, that's great news, glad your card arrived. Thank you for your support to me its much appreciated.

[@markturner6755]

Keith, great to see the channel growing mate. This video really resonated with me. I was literally checking my “days to do” yesterday and this time next year I will be on terminal leave. After 30 years service I am starting to now feel the ground rush and although looking forward to the change and a few years work on the outside before proper retirement, I do wonder how indoctrinated I really am. Although I only know you from your channel, I see you as a great example of a Veteran who has transitioned well whilst keeping a healthy balance with your Military past. It will be interesting to see if any of our Military brothers from across the pond pick up on your channel and start to add their comments and we will see your channel really taking off.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thanks Mark, and congratulations on 30 years service mate, that's awesome! I do hope my little channel grows, I really love going through all the comments and I try hard to take the time and answer them all the best I can. Thank you for your support. 👍🇬🇧

[@danielmalthouse4429]

Just found your channel. Absolutely brilliant

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thanks that's very kind

[@AbbeySnooks]

You're insights into your career are really interesting.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Cheers Abbey what a lovely thing to say thanks for commenting 👍

[@Martinthehun59]

The subscribers is now well over the 4K mark. Outstanding Keith !! 👍

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Martin I can't believe it mate, what's happening

[@paddy_118]

Good to see you boss, hope you're keeping well.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

I'm very good thanks for asking take care mate 👍

[@neilmckie2768]

Remember assiduously checking the weather forecast every morning before I went off to work - took a while before it dawned on me that it didn't matter anymore - I was office based! Took an awfully long time for me to stop asking for my tea/coffee as NATO, when asked how I like it, lol. As another ex-vet said to me when I was coming out of the Army - you'll never be a civilian, you'll always be an ex-squaddie. Very true! Loving the videos, really pulling in loads of old memories, so thanks, mate.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Neil, I can't get out of asking for NATO standard tea 😆 . Thank you for commenting 👍 and for your support mate 👍

[@tycorcoran4490]

Not ease but helped by my wonderful wife, so is that "alertness", One cannot help it. Drives my wife mad sometimes.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Can be difficult for some people to understand and difficult for us to explain it. Thank you for commenting.

[@abeltofscotch4120]

I left to become a copper but the camaraderie isn’t the same, I still miss the big green machine sometimes.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thank you for commenting 👍 can't beat our old banter, I imagine you have to be very careful in your job. All the best 👍

[@chaffcutter58.]

Onya Cobber ,good effort, T.A.B. ON.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

👍🇬🇧

[@craigmcmurray-nd3hf]

always on edge always watching always defencive its just how it makes you

[@stockyport]

My transition from the RAF in 88 was relatively easy because I just swapped my blue suit for a BAe brown suit and went to Saudi. All the lads there were ex RAF so the banter etc carried on just as it was in the service. Funny thing was it was as a civvie that I got caught up in GW1 with Madman Insane chucking scuds at us! My biggest shock was my first job with a company that made military avionics and suddenly I had to work with a load of lasses. That was one hell of a culture shock, had to watch what I was saying. With you being a member of the legion. I am in Canada now and an active member of the RCL, help to run the poppy campaign as well as other things. Canadian vets are just the same as UK lads, plenty of stories and banter. Keep the videos coming, really enjoying them.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Great banter and it really does bond us together. Thank you for your support 🙏

[@kevinwilkes5115]

I served 27 years in the RN mainly submarines and I can relate to everything you have said, miss my time in boats.

[@sidneybowerman558]

Despite it being a very, very long time ago I still do things like that. One of my daughters is very much like me, she automatically assess situations and in she goes. These videos bring back so many memories.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thank you Sid, I'm glad I'm not the only one who acts or reacts this way

[@James-gf9jl]

Great channel Keith. I'm enjoying the content. I left the military 40 years ago and I would counsel anyone moving into civvie employment not to adopt the attitude that they're going to show the "woolly civvies" how to do things properly. There are a lot of very professional and motivated people out there, predominantly in the commercial world. Officers and senior NCOs are often the worst in this respect. They envisage themselves as CEOs, COOs or MDs but have never closed a deal or secured a contract in their lives. Or analysed a P&L and balance sheet. I know, because I was that man.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thank you James. I agree very much with what you have said. After leaving, I was lucky enough to be able to transfer some of the skills and experience I had acquired, from my time as an RQMS, into a role as a facilities manager, so that seemed to work well for me.

[@NickMusselle]

Subscribed, Got my Vet card last week.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Great news Nick, and thank you for your support mate.👍

[@TheBlueOwl21]

In public places such as restaurants, I always like to have my back against the wall, and even better, sat in the corner, if not I feel like I am off my guard.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Exactly how I feel glad I'm not alone mate

[@plumduff3303]

I love these films greatly appreciated..i never joined up chose fire service then police..no regrets but we sure lived through some stuff. The bombing at inglis barracks still haunts me..ive found as i age i had to find people with a similar outlook keeps me sane like watching the tab films

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thank you its really nice to hear feedback like that.

[@onecheesey]

Excellent video mate which has brought back many memories. Ex Royal Hussars (PWO) back in the day crewing Chieftains & Challengers 👍🙂

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thank you very much your support is appreciated mate 👍

[@onecheesey]

A pleasure mate & subbed the channel 👍👍👍

[@davehendry8056]

Am a new sub great video buddy

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thanks for the sub! It's appreciated 👏

[@timhumphries6207]

I remember it well! You were lucky, I could not settle, all civie jobs failed. I ended up in the TA, Had to drop a rank and there was no help for PTSA. In the end I started my own business and joined the legion. If it was'nt for the veterans breakfast at old leake I should be in a mess.

[@fatmanfaffing4116]

I have always done better working for myself than as an employee. I tend not to suffer fools gladly, so to speak. Mow i run my own legal support business; serving legal documents, court attendance notices, repoing cars etc. People say it's a dangerous job but I remind them I was a Military Policeman and everyone I had to deal with was a trained professional killer; nasty civvies don't really bother me. Mind you, the RACMP is a bit different to the RMP, our mothers still loved us...

[@petermanning1864]

Keith you are spot on i did 22 years been out now 27 years and id do it all again in a heartbeat shite and all, you can take the boy out the army but you can't take the army out the boy.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Very true Pete, thanks for commenting and your support 👍

[@CensureAsylum]

I am a former soldier and currently writing a screen play which feature much of what you have coverd in your videos. I enlisted at the end of the 80s begining of the 90s. I did the whole nine yards. Op Granby, Ireland, Telec and Herick. Both regular and reservist comulletively. You were before my time but - I enjoy what your doing. I would love to pull up a sandbag with you and every other soldier who reads this.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

If any of my stuff is of use feel free. If there is anything else you would like to ask please feel free to email me on [e-mail]

[@MrAl1962]

Decompression was less than 48hrs after getting back from Basrah some old Nissan huts in Cyprus lol

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

What bloody good was that I wonder, and did it really help?

[@buzsalmon]

Good Lad Keith!

[@tycorcoran4490]

I meet an old mate for a bottle of wine every Friday. It's been growing more and more. One American came along. He really thought a firght was going to break out until he realized we are all laughing! As far as I am concerend, I am the medals in the drawer and march on. Had to, otherwise I would have not left the house.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

That sounds like great fun, meeting up with an old mate on a regular basis.

[@philhunter9158]

Mate, i learned very fast, you are as good as your last favour!

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

True words my friend

[@joejoe2928]

***WELL DONE S.M. 4000 SUBS...YOUR DOING GOOD ..** ""

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

🫡🪖🇬🇧

[@skyfalls2746]

Another great Video Keith I've always watched the crowd in pubs and constantly checking the entry points when I've been out, Fireworks is the other thing I did a few years in Ireland and then onto the 1st Gulf War and Bosnia Last year I bought myself a VW T5 campervan and spend most of my free time around the Lochs of the Galloway forest along with Kayaking and nowadays enjoying the peace and quiet As for PTSD ? I still have the bad dreams and sudden noises make me jump, but I don't really know if I have or haven't got it ? As for tabbing Keith, I do carry a small backpack when I'm going around the lochs with my Whyte & Mackay medical supplies 👍 Keep up the good work Keith 👍 All the best Tony

[@northwalesmod]

BOO !😂

[@skyfalls2746]

​@@northwalesmodtake it you still live at home with your mum then

[@northwalesmod]

Sorry Army joke, Did 12 years get over it !

[@skyfalls2746]

​@@northwalesmoddid 18 years and still wake up with the wounds, Get a grip

[@northwalesmod]

@@skyfalls2746 Sorry for you Pal ,who where you with??

[@nigelsutton9073]

My Mrs always knows to let me choose where we sit and moving around any city, I go in to vigilance mode. It never really leaves you! Civvies rarely understand our brand of humour! Good video Keith

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

👍

[@muzmason3064]

Don't change your method ever........keep telling it the way it is 😊 Lest we forget 🕊

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

👍🫡

[@Darenbranch]

I left the army ( RGJ) after 10 years , I joined as a boy soldier at 16. After I left I worked in the building trade ( hod carrier) for about 2 years but civvy strasse was an unknown environment I missed the discipline, comradeship etc so I applied for the fire service and the ambulance service at the same time . To cut a very long story short I joined the ambulance service and eventually became a paramedic for 25 years, talk about jumping from the frying pan into the fire, but unfortunately it wasn’t the same as the army but it beat climbing ladders all day with a hod on your back!

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

You had a good career after the army, well done mate.

[@gavin2651]

Another great chat and so many very similar points brought out about after service, if that get together with Paul ever happens mate let me know, I’d love to meet up with you and do some tabbing of the gob over a few pints, I’d be Comming from Scotland but sure distance is no object, nice to hear Tracey’s story, nice one and my kindest regards to you both, I hope you had a great night 👍 let’s Tab on, nice Jo Sir

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Will do I've not heard from Paul as yet but will try and sort something out mate. Thanks for your kind words and support 🙏 👍

[@gavin2651]

@@LetsTab59-bd4fd your always welcome Sir, it’s great watching your videos and hearing what your thoughts are on so many similar happenings, the good old days when the equipment and clothing made soldering just that little bit more uncomfortable lol, but the spirit and tenacity within the then British Modern Soldier was something else, not to take away from those of todays Infantry in anyway , they do an amazing job in so many different ways and theatres, and as a good auld Mick, (Irish Guards) I’m proud of every single one of them, Let’s Tab 👍🇬🇧

[@neilkeepingitreal]

Despite hating my last year in the army I found it quite hard to adapt for the first year as a civvy..trying to fit in with old school friends and doing a different job with different people's attitudes was a challenge..

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Well done Neil

[@shecksthesheckler423]

After a particularly bad tour of Ireland which I left on the Friday, I started my new posting on the Monday and it was in a MOD building attached with civvies. I walked to work in civvies and got changed in work. The RSM gave me a bollocking for not arriving into work in uniform, he had never done a tour of anywhere despite his 20 years service, and I basically said if you think I am walking around civvy street in uniform you can think again! He was clueless. After the army I went to Uni full time and it was great, I managed to wind down in a sedate environment. I joined the legion about 3 years after I left and have done the cenotaph 5 times, but for me I don't go to the legion anymore, while I served I met 4 lads in the mob, 1 mm arine and about 8 paras, since I left I have met thousands, Walter Mitty battalions really grind my goat, so I don't bother anymore

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Your old RSM was way out of touch with the security risk at that time, too long in a safe office by the sound of it. Regarding the Walts, I don't think we'll ever be able to stop it from happening, its a very sad person who steals others honour. Thank you for commenting.

[@ronaldmelia1172]

I left the Navy way back in 2003, having done the full stint (22 years). I went straight into a job paying the same rate £31k but that lasted 11 days and I was made redundant, something to do with the parent company. 5 weeks later, I was back at work on a much lower pay rate and worked ever since in various roles with an ever upwards salary, so I am grateful. I don't get involved much these days. I have attended the main anniversaries of Falklands war, that is about it. Seen some stuff on the TV called Warship and from where I am looking, nothing has changed. I support the RBL by donating monthly on a standing order. I am lucky I don't need their services but mindful others do. Banter, a veteran has the ability to not speak or see a shipmate for years, and then when they do meet up, they can start as they left off as though they last spoke yesterday. Keep up the good work shippers!

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Lovely comment Ron, much appreciated. Its been the same for me when I've met up with an old mate from the army who I'd not seen for years. Thank you for your support 🙏

[@julianbrown8572]

Spot on

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

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[@richielamb3509]

I served for 12 years got out March 99 , still do all that you mentioned Kieth , as for decompression 2nd tour of NI was on rear party showing the new guys about came of patrol at 8 in the morning handed my ammo and patrol kit over to a new guy got my 1033 back quick brew and a banjo straight on a chopper to Aldergrove Herc to Lynham back in Larkhill by 14:00 ,when I got out thought I was going into civi street with my eyes open ……how wrong I was …..down to earth with a big bump .

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Rich that was right, one moment you're on the streets next you're back home, very strange feeling that was.

[@johnhempsall4644]

Hi old friend and brother I’m a veteran served 9 yrs live in south leverton notts was in the Worcestershire and Sherwood foresters. Oh yeah and my every day drive is a Land Rover 101 forward control from 1976

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

The good old Woofers cracking Regiment 👌. Like the sound of your Lanny how cool is that brother. Many thanks for commenting 👍

[@barrymason5714]

Just a couple of points. As mentioned before, I left age 40, REME policy to keep the rungs of promotion going. So, medals in draw. I'm a 'civi', got to get a job, mortgage to pay. Pension won't cover all the outgoings. I was rtu from Aden as advance party for unit return. Sent on two weeks leave (never heard the word 'decompression' before) then back to unit and get ready for everyone returning. Waiting at Liverpool Street rail station London for train to Colchester, two old dears said " been on holiday" I'm stood their in tee shirt and jeans with back pack and kitbag in December freezing so I said "Yes, just back from Aden" "Oh" they said. Aden was on TV in UK every day about something, so everyone knew what was going on. My mum was bricking it till I got on leave.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Barry, respect to you Aden Veterans, we never seem to hear much about the hard work you guys did over there mate it's such a shame

[@Admiral_Pumpout]

I attend Sapperfest every year and meet up with old mates I knew during my service and also lads and lasses whom I’ve become friends with even tho we never knew each other during our time in the Corps. I don’t know if the guys that started Sapperfest still run Trogfest, Gunnerfest and the All Arms Fest but worth looking if you fancy meeting your oppos and served in one of the services. All Arms Fest, as the name suggests, is open to all.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

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[@seanjoseph8637]

It's a difficult transition, I still miss my time 20 years on.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

It can be tough but we have some good memories mate

[@Scppotter94]

Heya dad loving the videos

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

I'll have to get you to appear in a video, maybe in Dover Castle soon xx

[@Scppotter94]

@@LetsTab59-bd4fd you don't want this Muppet on video haha

[@kenmurphy7718]

I was 19 years old just out of REME trade training sent straight to an infantry battalion going to west belfast in the late 70's , hadn't a clue but great mates around me . R&R came , got off plane and into bus to city centre sat at rear of bus ( new reflex action ? ) bus set off , me only passenger , felt jittery till l got off . Still sit in bars and restraunts where l can see the door , just feels better somehow . Due to my time there l have an uncanny knack of remembering vehicle registration numbers , know almost all my neighbours reg numbers , how sad is that ? Anyway dont have PTSD , feel great and hope all reading do too .

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Nice one Ken, we all seem to have picked up some similar habits from service 🫡🪖

[@crazycressy7986]

The furthest I got was 4 years in the army cadets, but always study military and survival and hunted ,I also do what you do when we go out ,constantly watching my back and my family's back and being a ex builder I know how to banter lol ,uncles and grandad were in ,and thank you for your service sir

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thank you for your support 🙏

[@neilbunyan3090]

Inspired me Keith, I love walking the peaks of Derbyshire where I now live, but now I'm going to wear my beret with pride, veteran and proud 👍

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Nothing wrong in wearing your old beret, I've had a bit of stick on here but it really doesn't worry me. Glad you are getting out there Neil all the best 👍

[@neilbunyan3090]

@@LetsTab59-bd4fd I'm considering a charity tab through the peaks, early summer, I don't cope well in the heat, or maybe through the night later on in the summer, let me know if you'd be interested 👍

[@chucky2316]

​@neilbunyan3090 thank you for youre service Neil

[@philipbrown2628]

There were ex servicemans clubs pre dating the legion, there was one in our town known as the 'belt and bayonet' kept going into the late 60s.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Love that, what a great name for a club.

[@neilhutt3308]

On return from N.I.,parents-in-law thought wife and me mad as we crossed road when we saw lone parked cars and kept holding open bags when entering shops. 73 now and still can't get used to the 'ish factor' of time keeping in civvy street.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

N.I. tours do seem to stay with us for years. Thank you for commenting it's appreciated 👏

[@tonybutler3502]

This is a subject that needs more attention,. Here in U.K we need more understanding of the support system of the lifestyle in forces. mates who watch your back, a very stable rank structure. In civilian life especially in a large organisation you have to watch your back as the greasy pole climbers will be waiting to bad mouth you. The U.S.A regards service in the armed forces as something to respect. Those in the forces are such a contrast the to slime bags in Parliament.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

I have noticed how different the support is in the States compared to here in the UK. We could learn a lot from them.

[@roberttrevorwilliams3226]

OLD SCHOOL RESPECT

[@tonydavies5283]

I remember my dad telling me about his call up as an 18 year old for national service in the early fifties , he said he cried when he got the letter , as he didn't want to go , however 2 year's later he said he broke his heart at having to leave some of the best lads he'd ever met . He served in the TA after that . I don't think a lot of civvies think about the bond and brotherhood that is formed between service men in all the services .

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Yes Tony, the bond is incredible as you will see from many of the comments on here, thank you for your support mate 👍🇬🇧

[@jimmyjohnson7027]

I had never heard of decompression until i went to Bosnia, we certainly didn't have it in NI. We sat at DJ Barracks at Split for three days, we just wanted to get home. I went to Iraq when I was in the TA, we got back to Chilwell on the Saturday and I was home on Monday. And that was only because I couldn't be arsed humping my kit on the train, so I waited till Monday to hire a car.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Pretty much the same for me, and many many others.

[@kurtsteiner8384]

Same in RN kieth. I did 12 nearly 13 years from 1979 to 1993 defence cuts all made redundant all kicked in the teeth. I still do the same look for exits, and people watch. Meet up witb shipmates now and again, have a few wets and swing the lamps. They get less every year as some cross the bar.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

It's great to meet up with the lads when you can, thanks for commenting 👍

[@christophermaguire5128]

When you mentioned 94 RA I remembered it immediately I served 1963 in trenchard barracks Celle Royal Irish Fusiliers. Enjoy memories, bring it all back. C M Dublin 13:01

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

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[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Cheers Chris, good old Trenchard bks

[@lloyd9710]

I’ve been out 9 years and still having problems adapting to civilian life

[@davidclarke3342]

Understand what you said about keeping your back to the wall,I found this I don't like it when people are walking behind me same applies to standing in queues in shops

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

It's very unnerving at times

[@ianherd569]

Yeah, I noticed the back to the wall thing!

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

It's a fairly common trait

[@dazzieboi5430]

I had a buddy who left the army after 12 years, he spent around 18 months in civvy st and one day he said to me, I don't know how you do it (running a house, all the bills etc etc) he then went back in the army, we haven't spoke for around 15 years and I would assume he is now back in civvy st, I hope he's managing better the second time round.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

We do get cocooned in the force's

[@laurenced2916]

Still in the habit of walking fast wherever I go and I never put my hands in pockets. And I'm the only one at my work who polishes their work boots.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Never really leaves us Brother 🫡

[@peterwait641]

Worked with an old soldier who had great stories , he called his unit a penal regiment , Co's driver had chickens in his locker in Malta. The inspecting officer on opening it turned round abandoned inspection , Soldier told to "get floor up" ( meaning polished ) removed parquet floor and stacked it neat piles causing Sergeant Major to have melt down !

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

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[@poulterbaz]

Always pick where to sit, back to wall, always watching what is going on round me. On the black humour, yes we all take the piss out of each other, and we take the piss out of other services, but anyone from civvies street starts, they take on us all. This channel is lie an on line legion, well done Keith, you must be proud.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thank you for your kind words. I must admit I'm a bit gob smacked it's got so much feedback and support. I mean I don't know how to edit or add titles and the like I don't even rehearse the video, I just get an idea and then chat about it lol.

[@timw.7142]

So true!! Mates and Friends only ex squadies, whatever Corps or Reg

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

It's a family, a brotherhood Tim. Cheers mate.

[@timw.7142]

Thats what I miss, nothing Like that in civie street

[@gordonhatcher8301]

remember the rocking horse in berlin going to the grunewald miss those days ex poacher

[@daniellee8565]

I didn't fit in during service in the Royal Engineers. Can't see myself fitting in at the RBL. Never joined the RBL in the 31 years since leaving.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

I'm sure you would, if we sat down over a pint we'd be like old mates

[@DonnaLloydVent]

At Options for change my trade was one the RAF civilianised in a big way so back to civvy street I went, but I was very lucky to get a job at sea as a rating on Stena line ferries, there was a uniform and a rank structure etc so it was a place to readjust

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Good for you Donna was you working out of Dover?

[@DonnaLloydVent]

@@LetsTab59-bd4fd Fishguard and Holyhead

[@fatmanfaffing4116]

My dad left after his first 14 years in the 1QDG and went to work as a postman (uniform), then a bus conductor (uniform) then he joined the RAF (similar uniforms to post and buses, apparently). Did 7 years then we came to Australia and he joined up, did 6 then got outa and got a job at the Sydney Opera House as security (another uniform). His last job before forced retirement was with a scouse ex-RGH; the two of them in the weighbridge were spoken to on several occasions for constantly laughing or taking the piss; HR just didn't understand poms or ex-servicemen.

[@user-qn8hl7cp8f]

Your a proper British man god bless you sir🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thank you so very much for your kind words and support 🙏

[@user-qn8hl7cp8f]

@@LetsTab59-bd4fd your very welcome we need men like yourself running the uk!!!! Let’s all get the current shit show gone!!!🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

[@WO2Royalengineersretired]

When you leave and you suddenly realise Tv licence Gas bill Electric bill Rental property Mortgage Food bill Poll tax And much more!

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

It can come as a shock too many leavers. Thank you for commenting on that, its appreciated .

[@johntait491]

A good subject Keith. Witty and clever banter is what it's all about. However, most civvies don't take kindly to it. 😉

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Yes John, our banter can be a little abrasive for most civilians 😆

[@user-yv8bb3ye5e]

My uncle George was the steward of mumbles British legion on the outskirts of Swansea now its a marks and Spencer. The Legion in Swansea City centre is now flats, the lion in Neath is boarded up, all gone within the last 20yrs so sad. The RAF association club in neath is up for sale also.

[@user-yv8bb3ye5e]

Legion in neath that should say.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

It is very sad, and its happening all too often all around the UK.

[@RoyalMarinesCadetsCambridge]

I've been binge watching your videos, and they are so theraputic. Life after the Army?... I'm more worried about life after you run out of your great ideas for videos!!!

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Thank you, that's very kind and much appreciated

[@RoyalMarinesCadetsCambridge]

@@LetsTab59-bd4fd You are so right about sitting in a far corner against a wall... I thought it was just me!!! Drives my wife nuts because she always ends up looking at the wall behind me LOL! Thinks I'm paranoid. Could you do a vid on what ORs think of Officers? The good the bad and the ugly.

[@edjones7709]

I was in the Army Cadet Force for 4 years as a cadet and another 4 years as an adult instructor. I then served 6 years reg and nearly 18 years TA. When I die (not just yet) and they cut me open, they will find my army number all the way through like 'Blackpool' in seaside rock.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

That's a good length of service Ed, well done mate and thanks for commenting 👍

[@stuartb4525]

After joining in 84, left in 2007, originally from Belfast, i lived in Wales until 2017. Even there i was back to the wall, securing arcs. Now back home, still the same wherever i go. My Tracer round thinks im nuts, no love, i need to see what or who is coming into the place. Its a peace of mind thing. On the other point about RBL, naw happy to give them a miss, they aren't helping us vets. They are sitting on millions in the bank, pay big bucks to the top people etc. Well worth a deep dive, will open your eyes as to what they are up to. Great video though. 😊

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

I have heard a few stories about the funds they sit on. Thank you for your support its very much appreciated my friend.

[@SimonTimoney-74]

Bell end 😂

[@ChrisBrown-ko4lu]

We came from Margate i’m an ex Gunner 22 years Ssgt and my father ex RMP. 17 years Ssgt The RBL Margate sadly a lot of the people were not ex Vets and when it closed all those amazing regimental plaques all ended up in the skip!!. My transition into civi street was dreadful, i have found a lot civipop don’t give a flying 105mm. So like others we keep ourselves to ourselves. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

I hear you Chris and I remember with fondness the Margate RBL Club. So sad to hear that all that history has been 'skipped', what a waste. Do you ever visit the Ramsgate RBL Club? It's doing very well and has a good following, look it up on Facebook. Take care and you never know we may bump into each other in that Club?

[@user-gw4ld2wl6r]

I do same thing here in Texas we have open carry here also mate

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

That's doubling the experience when guns are involved. Great to hear from the Lone Star State as always mate 👍

[@jackmchammocklashing224]

I quit the BL when Private Smith on the committee became Lieut general on the door, As in my brother had travelled up from York to visit me in FIFE, after a tea, we went down to the legion for a few wets, it was 21:20 No guests after 21:00 no addmittance but it was OK for me to stay as I was a serving member Private Smith GFYS along with my returned card

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

I remember getting turned away once and at the time I was still serving by someone that had never served and was just some committee member

[@kenmurphy7718]

That is absolutely shocking , can't believe some civvie dickhead has the power to refuse veterans entry and their brother ! Sorry and disgusted to hear of this Jack .

[@paulwinterton173]

My late father was officer with 5th Bn Kings Regt (Liverpool) D-DAY to Germany. Like you, he said that, for a period, after the war, entering a street he was automatically looking around mentally deploying troops. He said to himself, “Look old boy, you have got to stop doing this!”.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

D Day Veterans, highest respect for them. God Bless.

[@stevelewis6531]

Unlike you Kieth I only had a short service just 6 years. Due to been in the ski team I didn’t do OP Banner, volunteered when 156 went but ski team came first as you know in 94! Still to this day feel that my service was an incomplete if that makes sence. Made some great mates and still remember them to this day, unlike jobs in civie street where you don’t get that same bond!

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

I can remember having a few beers with you Steve. Great memories. Do you still Ski? I do remember you being very good 👍 take care mate 👍

[@stevelewis6531]

Yes still skiing, spent last 7 years of my working life as a full time instructor at an indoor slope at Castleford. Now retired but work away in Austria and Italy teaching school kids.

[@moodyguymick]

I've been back in civvy street since 1987 and i still prefer to face the room when in a pub or restaurant.

[@LetsTab59-bd4fd]

Mick, I completely get where you're coming from, maybe in todays society it's not a bad habit to have. Thank you for commenting mate, it's appreciated.