How Youth Should Deal With Rise Of Spiritual Narcissism In Families ?

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[@Boxerr007]

आप कौनसे दशक के हो? 70's?

[@kitttyMiaw]

Sir this not "Spiritual but they turn Hinduism into Religion ( like middle east religion) n fir sab pe thopte h! Actual Hinduism or Spirituality to bht zyada Liberate kar deti h!

[@aryangautam7506]

Its difficult to find people with both intellect and wisdom, you are one of them, lucky enough to listen to you at a young age

[@UM8831-u8m]

Live separately Physical, emotional, intellectual, financial freedom is the best. Respect the elderly. But not always listen to them . Make this clear to them that your not listening or agreeing to them is in no way disrespecting them. Tell it firmly. That's it. No need to feel guilty. No need to be in any group just to show respect. Just leave the group yourself. Leave every time they add you. People who really love you will always find a way to connect with you. No need for any group. Family/relatives/friends must never become the burden that pull you down . They must actually be the strength/support. The wrinkled face of parents must exude great maturity , calmness , and peace and definitely not to be used by them to instill guilt . It's natural to be old wrinkled and gone. Everyone shall be so. One life. Make the best out of it. Freedom is the innate quality of all beings. Manifest it both internally and externally. That's real spirituality. That is the real sanskar.

[@irenerattan7064]

Wonderful insight.

[@sajidshaikh8651]

Last line ' jis ghar ki buzurg mahila khush nai h ' is 1000 percent true line by Amit sir Really nailed it by saying that in the end.

[@vivek261212]

U r absolutely right guruji. My father born in 1950s. He got government job easily because in 1970s getting job is easy for average intelligent person. All his working life he was making his children guilty, ashamed of themselves and disgracing us. Now I think he actually enjoys this and the truth is he actually doesn’t know anything and does that only because no one talks about his weakness.

[@poojapal5752]

People from that generation with government jobs are all the same. They have no talent but they like mocking people unnecessarily

[@androidgamers9538]

Right

[@JPGohil_9]

Sir, Your children are lucky.. they must be happy

[@lakshxvee]

😂😂😂😂

[@NatureGod369]

Bhai, itne samjhdaar baap ko aajkal ke bacche ijjat hi nahi dete. Haan, agar inki kismat acchi rahi hogi to baat alag hai. Jitna samjhdaar aadmi utne hi khraab uske dusron se rishtey. Yahi kadwi sacchai hai.

[@Anonymousrajj]

​@@NatureGod369 apne demotivate kr diya mujhe sir/mam, Mei sooch rha tha marriage/parents baane se pehle sir ki wisdom se sikhar happily ever after ho jaayega mera with my wife and children 😂❤

[@upasanadhameliya1255]

Sir you are absolutely correct, I come from a family where both my parents are well educated and my mother used to work till I was born.. I can't recall good memories while growing up.. I was physically abused as a child and after growing up faced immense verbal abuse especially from my mother.. I endured a lot of pain from my family and challenged their beliefs and ways and now I am very successful but the bad memories haunt me.. Narcissism runs wild in India across all - poor, middle class as well as the rich.. I am glad that I was lucky to leave that country and that nightmarish life behind.. Its easier to die than to live through the hellish nightmare.. if you want to witness narak on earth you should experience life in a middle class family in India.. You are very brave.. India needs brave men and women

[@RojaJaneman]

Get away from them and never look back. Never accept anything from them again

[@minakumari1515]

It's very hard to get out of trauma of narcissistic family....I'm still suffering from that trauma I'm 22 and 20yrs I have suffered a lot...I'm still healing but dark memories come up again n again.....ur brave...be happy

[@madhurani1441]

बहुत अच्छा और सही वीडियो बनाया है सर जी। बाप दादा के कर्मों का फल बच्चों को भुगतना पड़ता है। Generational curse 🤬इसे ही कहते हैं। पुरानी पीढ़ियों की सोच की वजह से ही हमारा देश सदियों तक गुलाम रहा, और फिर भी ये बुजुर्ग लोग अपनी सोच और व्यवहार बदलना नहीं चाहते। इस पीढ़ी को Trauma cycle breaker बनना होगा अगर हम चाहते हैं कि परिवारों का हर सदस्य खुशहाल हो और अपनी जिंदगी अपने तरीके से जी सके, तभी देश का नंबर world happiness index में ऊपर आ सकता है। अपने ट्रॉमा को ठीक करने की जिम्मेदारी आपकी अपनी है। आपके ट्रॉमा की जिम्मेदारी पुरानी पीढ़ी और उनकी बनाई पारिवारिक और सामाजिक व्यवस्था तो हो सकती है पर अगली पीढ़ी बिल्कुल नहीं हो सकती। Thanks sir ji for bringing such crucial videos for the welfare of humanity.

[@animishkorwar]

Boomers start gaslighting when you point out flaws in system ruined by them at all levels...unke zamane ke jugaad ab work nahi ho rahe..

[@okfine_33]

Gas lighting ke wajah se hum logon ne emotionally parents se attach nahi hoo paa rahe hai...

[@okfine_33]

@@hetalsoni4576 bhot hai par agar koi unpar baatein karne ki koshish karte hai toh parents are like hum logon ne paida kiya hai , school beja ab yeh sab bol raha hai ,parents yeh bilkul nahi dekhte hai ki bacche Aisa kyun aur kya bol rahe hai instead directly chillana chalu kar dete hai

[@UmeshRijal92]

100% correct sir. I studied in India and I have immense respect for the hardworking culture and other aspects of India. However, despite being a CA and getting very good opportunities I decided to move back to Nepal because of this particular issue. Travelling in the metro, when I used to see the faces of people returning back to their home, it used to be depressing. I am grateful for the education and exposure that India gave me along with a few wonderful friends whom I am still in touch with. However, this particular culture is taking a toll on Indian youth, and at least you're here to raise awareness among people. I've a close friend in India and sometimes he mentions about moving to Nepal just because he can live peacefully and happily without worrying about every else. Thank you very much for sharing this.

[@jayantdrummer]

Lot of elderly women rely on playing the victim to keep getting sympathy from all else. Then comes a time when in-laws are gone and kids have also left home for college/jobs. Then, if the husband is not exploaitative, the women is no longer able to play the victim as there is no one around to victimise her. This leads to a loss of identity and then she starts looking for ways to become a victim. You can imagine her like the scamsters on the road who will come fall in front of your moving car and then blame you for hitting them. (speaking from fresh personal experience)

[@aestheticheaven9561]

Male female all r playing victim card😂😂..

[@Vaani.uk20]

This all is so true.. No one prefer to talk about this.. Your work is life saving.. Gratitude 🙏 😊

[@kashishkishore6844]

Sach!!! Guruji, actually decades have passed with the belief system that parents to bhagwaan hai wo to kabi galat ho hi nai skte , but unko ye kisi ne nai bataya ki jo unke wajah se trauma me hai ya anxiety suffer kr rhe ( be it their own kids ) unke ander b bhagwaan baitha hai !!!

[@gayetrishreeya3094]

Sach ,ghar k bde apne fayde k according rule bnate h .

[@ajsujit]

When elders say "tumhare sanskar thik nahi" aren't they criticising themselves? They are the ones who are supposed to give 'sanskars', right?

[@jayantdrummer]

"Humne toh bahut koshish ki thi lekin tum seekh hi nahin paaye"

[@ajsujit]

@@jayantdrummer "bhagwan banakar bhejta hai. Baki sab aapke sanskar"

[@jayantdrummer]

@@ajsujit 🤣

[@sivankasmemoir9770]

The best way is to remain away from toxic groups. Therefore, I exit myself long back the moment I realised their selfishness and thank you guruji for being so apt in all your videos which make me motivate to move life foreward.

[@ayushpandey7304]

Correct Sir. In a family it feels as if the mere existence of a person boils the blood of the elderly.

[@Dalalstreettrader15]

Its brutual truth I send 40k monthly to my father, despite he is having pension and salary from another job with share market investment and house, while he provided some support to send abroad, but they say its all yours but I know that. While I am sending 40k now they expecting more from me around 1 lakh every month, I don't know is it bank loan I took from my father of 15 lakh or what.

[@Antimgupta16]

Dont do that sir..atlast u will suffer a lot trust me now a days parent nly think about themselves

[@minakumari1515]

Save it...for ur future family

[@mangeshjirapure9154]

सत्य का ग्यान जिसको होता हैं उनमेसे आप हैं गुरुजी 🙏

[@manisha-lf4vs]

Its high time parents stop controlling their grown up children 😢

[@VishalsSolotravelerDigit-eq1fv]

Excellent topic guru ji...mai bhaut dukhi rehta hu even though my family is gov job family but to constant complaining and nagging and comparison and hawa ki baate and parents not listening to my issues or advice i am always unhappy especially father ji

[@rishusharma3958]

Live separately from them

[@madhurani1441]

सर जी, हिन्दू शास्त्रों में भी लिखा है कि जिस घर में महिला के आंसू निकलते हैं दुखी होने के कारण, उस घर का नाश हो जाता है। यह नाश होता है शारीरिक, मानसिक बीमारियों द्वारा। और हमारे देश के ज्यादातर परिवारों का नाश हो रखा है। ज्यादातर सभी बीमारियों की राजधानी बना हुआ है भारत। तो Happiness index में तो फिसड्डी होना ही है।

[@ranjanapandey9630]

Uncle ji apki har baat sach hai...satya hai..satya hai..aur sach mein aansu aate hain ki kab parents bachhon ko samjhenge..❤❤❤❤

[@जागृती-ध8झ]

दुनिया मतलबी है और इसकी शुरुवात घर से ही होती है

[@garimachaudhary-s7o]

Also so much of unrealised trauma and manipulative tactics in order to satisfy their own ego has really messed up with our brain chemistry , making the young generation stuck in survival mode . The impact is huge on body .

[@japsahibdhillon5014]

Yes. Unfortunately grey rocking is the only effective way to work on your healing, otherwise, it's almost impossible for them to change despite therapy.

[@RojaJaneman]

Then y do u stay? Never accept anything from them again. Especially money/assets.

[@minakumari1515]

Body stores the trauma n yrs later it comes up in form of cancer ,ulcers etc😢

[@rohittalwar5602]

Brilliant Tutorials and Agrawals Classes in the 80s and 90s

[@MsCharul]

I am blessed to have my parents. They are happy by themselves and always make me happy too.

[@with_proof_facts]

Exactly 💯 Thodi bohot bhi nahi milegi property iske baad.

[@irenerattan7064]

Sir, please give us a video on the deteriorating manners and bad behaviour of our society’s youth and aging people. It is sad to see abusive language and rough behaviour in homes and on the streets. Your guidance will cure many of us.🙏🏼

[@akankshasingh-eo8kx]

Aisa lagta hai jaise aap meri hi baatein kah rhe hai Sach me mere sath aisa hi ho rha hai My parents giving me trauma always And all even my husband all are in same category

[@GurpreetKaur-z4f]

Sach... Supppppper video ..suppper observation...super guidance... Huge respect for you Sir.

[@prasannagore]

Guruji, SUCH mein AAG! Video is good and liberating. Thanks for making this bold video. 😃

[@vatsalasharma6108]

Purush hee nahi buzurg mahilaon se mahilaen bhi pareshaan hain ..... Guruji kuch rastaa bataiye frustrated mahilaon se deal karne ka😂

[@mankaranbedi8927]

Guruji you have single handedly changed my entire life with your videos. Please keep making such videos. Thank you very much

[@swatichauhan7912]

Muje tuo bohaut acche mummy papa mile.... Ye generation ko dekhti hu tuo muje logo k liye bura feel hota hai .... Mai kitni lucky hu ki bachpan se hi muje caring mummy mili or jo mujse bohaut pyar se baat karti hai or papa bhi aise mile jinho ne muje kabhi paiso ko le kar ya shaddi ko le kar bhi force nahi kiya or mai mere mummy papa ko apne baccho ki tarah daat bhi deti thi tuo bhi vo sunn lete thae meri .... I got world's best parents ... Or bhai bhi best ...

[@justexplainoneword5786]

👍 Jis ghar ki bujurg mahila kush nehi h , woh ghar kabhi kush nehi ho sakta. So true 😊

[@shakeelk9740]

BHOT BADIYA GURU JI MAZA AGAYA, and yes its a Sach from my side 💖💖

[@jahanvibishnoi1744]

Hats off! Please bring video on Low Happiness Index also.. Much awaited ❤

[@jyothishirley1]

Sir... The topic which you discussed is 200% True... Totally agree, can relate with the situation in our house.

[@Doge_4796]

Saas bahu ka kalesh permanently band ho jaaega kuch saalo m..... No Jobs ,no income, unable to get married. Hoga hi nahi saas bahu ka kalesh. Those times are gone...ladke ki shaadi Kara do responsible ho jayega....Aaj k time jo ladke responsible nahi hai unki hoti hi nahi...

[@Swan-rb4jq]

But why always Saas bahu. Here Saas this women is blamed. In some case yes but in so many cases the person highlighted is saas. But behing her traumas is her Mahishasur pati Dev. So he is the culprit. Only in few cases it's Saas. Infact many Saas know how their Mahishasur husband. Isliye woh samne se hi apne son n bahu ko alag rehne ka freedom bhi dete hain.

[@P.p]

You’re speaking truth Uncle G

[@parishaagarwal1668]

Meri saas ki kahani batayi hai guruji...apne beto ko bolti hain ki tum logo ki wajah se meri zindagi barbaad ho gayi...tumhe chhodkar chali jaati toh tumhari dadi ko nai jhelna padta AAG Aanand aa gaya guruji

[@anmoljha2058]

Ye Sach hai. Love to you Guruji :)

[@rupeshghanekar2058]

SACH...😮😮after long time AAG...Video towards ending...😊😊

[@prashantkothari9565]

Parents paap punya ki baat krte h but khudki galat parenting unko paap nhi lgti h...

[@newbharat9615]

Very liberating video guruji, keep posting video

[@abdullahmirza7714]

Watching your contant for last six months,your approach is very good and eye opener

[@sajidshaikh8651]

You are doing a very nice job ❤

[@NehaRathore-w2x]

Liberated from years of trauma. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@Tryto.826]

As per govt. Record 81+ crore people get free rice...5kg per person out of registered population with ration cards 110+ crore in 2018-2019...because their income is less...how can they be happy....atleast a minimum amount that can sustain roti, kapda,makaan and two wheeler... is required.

[@Aashishrawat]

bro i know many people who family income is more than 50k per month easily and taking free ration

[@amoghsaxena5255]

My domestic help use this free ration, and sell these back to general stores and these are brought by restaurants 😂

[@DrRekhasirvi]

यह सारे फ्री राशन लेने वाले लोग मेरी ऑब्जर्वेशन में हर रोज 100 रुपए का गुटखा तंबाकू ही खा जाते हैं

[@vikasm7827]

I am little old from you 😅, bhai reasonable pricing bhi ek cheez hoti hai. Jiski koi baat nahi karta. Cheezen mehengi itni nahi hoti jitna bana di jaati hai. Aur, advertisement ka to kaam hi hai logon ki jarurat replace karna.

[@xoxoxoxoxooxo]

some people get ration and sell it in market

[@Rush2KPK]

SACH -❤ You are the best Guruji ❤

[@NatureGod369]

AAG , Satya Vachan

[@bhavnabadlani9169]

You are saving millions of lives 💛🌸

[@tanishagupta9471]

Very honest topic 😊 Thanks for bringing this message out👏

[@ritakalpachakraborty4815]

Sach vachan. Guruji.❤

[@puneetbasson5901]

Rondu logo se dur rahey... Yahi sahi rasta hai khush rehne ka. Aapki baat SACH hai.

[@omegaredteam2516]

Great informational video.

[@SatyaPathik]

I agree it's a nationwide problem

[@AnuupamaTyagi]

ABSOLUTELY SACH HAI SIR

[@sivankasmemoir9770]

How true guruji. Long live guruji

[@indianboyojas7232]

Who ever is following you or liking ur vids , they are highly phycologic strong....

[@Suman-je5ps]

You are absolutely right women happy than family happy

[@RSukhija]

Guruji, You are Indian version of Nietzsche in this episode. 🎉🎉🎉

[@PUJADAS-tw7ry]

Sach kaha guruji aapne.

[@vsnarayannan7248]

Parents were also children once. Parents also may blame their Parents. This is unending cycle. Each person faces his own battle. Instead of blaming Parents, children have to find ways to overcome their challenges. Sense of entitlement should not be there. Each person should try to stand on own feet instead of depending on unearned ancestral properly for enjoyment.

[@PoonamSharma-wx3ep]

Sachh...very true and realistic

[@sarvjeetkaur9955]

Bahut bahut amazing video

[@Gamer-z1e]

Fire vedio true👍🏻🌟🧐

[@DaljitSingh-xn9ux]

Osho is answer

[@itsswatisaini]

Loved this! Great video

[@Abhisektheone]

Such a difficult but valid topic to discuss. Share bhi nehi kar sakte....always putting us on a guilt trip mode. Now I have Identified these traits but a bit late now. Had it been 2008-10 things could have different

[@arundhatishikarkhane3767]

Sach 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻100%truth zero bakwass One of the many above comments - someone has mentioned the term” trauma cycle breaker” Yes now it’s the time to -“ break the chain” Whatever , the generation has suffered- it’s gone Look at it as balance sheet of assets & liabilities Look at the gain: Look at the budding generation independently, unbiased. AAG❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😂😅 Our generation must make deliberate efforts to seek happiness & foget bitterness. Although I belong to 1070’s generation & patent of millennial generation- still can relate this. जबरदस्त eye-opener Vedio 🙏Guruji

[@albertishu9066]

Kki ...loved the video ❤

[@smchannel01978]

Sach h Amit bhaai ji 👌 🙏

[@AkashSingh-yp8ip]

Sir sahi me dil ❤ jeet liya aapne...so true

[@ashishshete]

Sach hai Guruji I realised many things after I myself became parent

[@kusumrastogi5672]

Sach, aag laga dete ho, बुजुर्गों ने हीन गदर काट रखी

[@hariramachandra723]

True ❤

[@supertechrealtor4697]

Badhia laga Anand aaya

[@madhusmitagouda3748]

💯 Sach...hai...AAG.

[@Boxerr007]

लोगों का दिमाग : कुछ अच्छा हो गया था भगवान की कृपा कुछ बुरा हो गया तो भगवान की कृपा नहीं बल्कि तुम जिम्मेदार😂

[@ShalukaYadav-t4g]

Guruji aap Sach bolte ho

[@meenakshikukreja]

I really can't relate to this. Looks like I got a great family.

[@indushukla8581]

Namaskar sir sach hai.

[@prabhaarora675]

Sir u r v clear about every concept

[@seemachaudhary4311]

Dear Sir, you are very right. I am facing same problem. In law 1953 bron👍🙏😭

[@adityasyangdan3019]

💯 Percentage aggred sir. Though I have blessed with understanding n courteous parents but can observe this traits in society. MAG n AAG guruji

[@shivangshukla7232]

Jay ho 🎉

[@beyondworld6274]

Absolutely right

[@chandan_dalapati]

Sach hai..guruji

[@hanam_11]

Good video❤❤

[@Arundhati2311]

Spiritual narscissim is a great term , if propogated whenever the sanskaar/culture word is used ,then at least the person using the term will think twice . I am fully compliant with all you have said .I had a very forward-thinking father whilst my mom is full of spiritual narcissism ,we kids rarely considered her statements because of the thought process of my father ... I myself have two adult kids and am not a spiritual narcissist

[@sugunakarmaddula7866]

Well said guruji perfect

[@prabhaarora675]

V true analysis, thanku sir

[@KV-hi5gz]

Every word is true

[@santkul_santkumar]

Nice work sir

[@sereneblue]

SACH! SACH !! SACH!!

[@shwetak4596]

Sachhhhh. Bohot bada sach.

[@rajlal88]

Yes this need to be call out

[@gauravdeshwal6659]

Sach.. 1000 times❤❤

[@tapendrathapliyal3970]

True sir,dharmik unmaad kuch jyada he🎉