How To Make Your Ex Regret Leaving You

[@alicealice3267]

this channel help us be better people, not just to get your ex our back.

[@ClayAndrews]

Thank you for supporting our channel, Alice. :-)

[@Razainthewoods]

Love how You keep it real. Much needed. Thank you. After my ex husband left with no warning last September I went into shock, then groveled...now I’m ready to accept everything

[@smilekelvin4364]

He can help you out

[@smilekelvin4364]

W.h.x.a.p.p.h.i.m.

[@smilekelvin4364]

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[@antonymorvan1289]

Just shy of 11 weeks no contact, my ex blocked me on Facebook on Saturday then Instagram today. I really have no idea why she has taken this step. Our break up was that of heart break on both sides due to her past and her controlling family. I feel hope is slipping away for her to come back and I'm not ashamed to say I have been in tears most days since we broke up. But with trying to understand where she is at, I realized that I've been thinking of what I want and not how she's struggling and what she needs right now. I love her so much and sadly feel I need to move on for my own mental and emotional health. Your videos have been helpful so far Clay, as well as others I've seen on KZbin, so thank you. Will keep watching them as it helps my anxiety.

[@dwocelot6913]

The phenomenon of women 'fictionalizing' the relationship, so as to justify their destroying the relationship, is something I was completely unaware of until my soon to be ex-wife did it. It was bizarre. A mind-f*ck to be honest. Clay's videos have confirmed that it's not my imagination. I am slowly subscribing to the school of thought that if they left you once, they'll leave you again. Better to just move on and find someone more stable and dependable.

[@ClayAndrews]

It is important to assess what really happened to the relationship as one cannot just generalize a thought that applies to every relationship. I also believe that if someone left you once, that person will leave the relationship again if nothing has changed or the issues in the relationship remain. Indeed, a relationship/marriage takes a lot of hard work. I am sorry to hear about what happened with yours. I hope you will soon find the path to healing.

[@zweety1417]

It is easy to see through ‘ let’s just connect’ also.

[@tintinabulle1942]

Hey Clay, thanks for your videos, as I already said in another video, they help a lot! I like the fact that you lay down things in a simple and sane way. I hope your channel grows way more in the future!

[@ClayAndrews]

Thank you so much. We truly appreciate the positive feedback and we are just putting these videos out without really expecting too much. We are so thrilled to hear how it made an impact to the viewers. :-)

[@drew1980ish]

Thanks Clay , I'll be working with Francis soon . You and the staff are appreciated

[@ClayAndrews]

Hey, Andrew. You're welcome. :-)

[@sophiemarcaurele]

You’re looking very handsome with the fresh haircut! 💇‍♂️ 🤗

[@ClayAndrews]

Thank you Sophie.

[@MyDarlingRocsi]

Clay, I find your videos incredibly insightful. Thank you so much for your perspective. It helps. 🙏🏾

[@ClayAndrews]

Thanks Roxanne.

[@MyDarlingRocsi]

@@angelinaalba7067 I’ve reported this loser behavior as spam.

[@dankline9162]

Idk, how much more they could besides me clearly being so much better as a person as I was before. I was weak. I say this bc she said "I already regret it" when she broke up with me. She clearly had a tough time dropping that on me, bc she had always been the one to be dumped before. I was shocked and devastated for a long time, but I'm "over her" in that the stong emotional feelings are gone, however, I still know that we were really good for each other, and ive changed to improve myself in many ways, and still am. I'm not willing to go into a lesser relationship like friends or something similar to run into the same problems, I can only do better. If not with her, someone who has the same qualities or better. I'm old enough tho to know how rare it is to get someone who clicks like that, but I have to try.

[@ClayAndrews]

Thanks for sharing your story and we truly appreciate that. Sounds like you are more connected to your personal values and that would surely guide you to having the relationship that more aligned for you in the future. We are always here on your journey and we are rooting for your happiness. :-)

[@adekunleafolayan9389]

Hello

[@adekunleafolayan9389]

Do you need help to get your partner back in just 24 hours

[@Castan97]

Its a mystery to me how you're always right on time man! haha also I loved these little recaps at the end of some past videos, theyre really helpful to keep in mind what you just covered in the whole video :')

[@ClayAndrews]

Glad you enjoyed! ;-)

[@lindaroberson5]

You should try rocking some facial hair

[@danpiel448]

When my ex would get mad at me, she would get mean and then her kids and family would call me or text me calling me a pos. Then she would apologize and things would get better then it would happen again. We broke up and today she cusses me out then blocks me, then her daughter calls me and cussed me out then blocked me, then her sister and mom do the same. She's 55 years old and had everyone jumping on me. I finally block all of them and they call my 76 year old mom and tell her I'm a pos. WTF I'm beginning to really think all women are damaged.

[@The_Darrell]

That sounds incredibly toxic. I'd say good riddance

[@sonicboom2723]

At least 75% of them are , 100% in my world, but maybe there is hope , I think.

[@ClayAndrews]

I am sorry to hear this Dan. We must be able to recognize when a relationship is toxic for us and have the strength to distance ourselves. But do not let this toxic relationship ruin your future chance of having a healthy and lasting one.

[@olem_mtan1095]

I did everything to make our relationship work .. literally I beg but at the end we broke up ..he is already in a new relationship.. but I still miss him.. I still look out for him and he is totally out of social media n it's killing me 😭 can't help thinking about him

[@georginabrigs1891]

Time heals but you should help your self too.

[@christopherlemarchand1715]

Unfortunately I've had to go into active no contact as my ex is with her new bloke and they have now moved in together. Unfortunately I couldn't deal with it and had to explain to her that I'm still hurting and needed to back of and have space to sort myself out. Unfortunately I'm not sure I can get out of dcm so I think I've lost I wish I was stronger but obviously I'm not 😢

[@sonicboom2723]

I no longer moved out of the house and my ex moved in with someone. No wonder she wanted me to take the children so she could do what she wanted .

[@sonicboom2723]

@@juglescort4461 , no way

[@thediso4a4t56]

Hey Clay, am already been in your channel like last 3-4 weeks and your videos are great and gives solid background compare to other therapists or youtubers, my situation with my ex is different and i don't really know how to act with it, we been together for 2 years and we loved each other without any benefit however we both are stubborn person and had quite couple of break ups, after last one which happened 6 months ago, we stopped talking, i reached out to her after 4 months, she had depression and we decided to take things slow and cure each other and be together at the end , but things got totally messed after it, after talking for a month , i learnt that she has new boyfriend, however as i said we talked getting together, her depression and sc etc, i got very mad , didn't swear her or her new guy but cutted connection.then she still contacts me and check up on me through social media , it is like someday she say forget about me totally next day she write by her own,or when i meet up with people who surround girls, she writes me and get jealous on me , however she has new rebound relationship, how should i behave with all of these Note: last 2 month am trying to change life in a good way and invest to self

[@adekunleafolayan9389]

Hello

[@adekunleafolayan9389]

Do you need help to get your partner back in just 24 hours

[@amr526]

Yes it can

[@jaxxie_]

What happens if you did go into panic mode? From reaching out and contacting, wanting to understand... you get blocked, 3rd parties are involved and things just, are way extreme than it should be. I have since stopped contact and reaching out. 😔

[@ClayAndrews]

If we fall into what we call Damage Control Mode, it is best to step back and do mini Active No Contact if possible. In that way you can work on assess the Advanced Relational Skills that you need to work on further.

[@adekunleafolayan9389]

Hello 👋

[@adekunleafolayan9389]

Do you need help to get your partner back in just 24 hours

[@mizzcrazygal]

hey it’s been a month since break up and my ex reached out a few days ago, i haven’t replied. we were together for two years, and i don’t wanna break no contact cus i feel like once month is nothing and it might ruin everything. shall i reply in another month? or shall i just reply then move on. i definitely don’t want him back. but i want to be at that point in life where i just don’t care about him and i fear replying might so that but i also wanna tell him something

[@ClayAndrews]

It depends on your emotional readiness, Tim and your intent as to why you have to make a reply.

[@mizzcrazygal]

@@ClayAndrews oh i dont want him back so i just told him im happy and im over him and he deosnt have to feel guilty. wished him all the best. he didnt reply but im not too bothered. i just didnt want him to feel bad for dumping me.

[@akikzful]

he is already in a relationship and they live together 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@smilekelvin4364]

He can help you out

[@smilekelvin4364]

W.h.x.a.p.p.h.i.m.

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[@adekunleafolayan9389]

Hello 👋

[@adekunleafolayan9389]

Do you need help to get your partner back in just 24 hours

[@charlesyoung3287]

Hey clay, So my ex and I were together for a month and a half. Short time, I know. It was actually the longest (and only “real”) relationship she’s had. But a few days ago she broke up with me. Everything was going amazing and it was the most effortless and wonderful relationship I’ve ever had. She said that she has been feeling unhappy lately and that she doesn’t know why. She’s scared of commitment due to childhood trauma, and has also dealt with depression for a long time and takes medication. She said that she never lied to me about her feelings for me, and I know she loves me. She’s incredibly hard headed as well. We left things off on a good note, but I’m not sure what to do now. It’s been a couple days since we had that last talk. Any advice?

[@ClayAndrews]

Hi Charles, the best things to start is work on doing Active No Contact and hone the Advanced Relational Skills. Once you have worked on the foundations, you will eventually navigate the process easier. :-)

[@charlesyoung3287]

@@ClayAndrews thank you. I will

[@chiefskingdom4151]

Wait until your married 20 years and shes doesnt contact you for 2-3 days and it will be the greatest days of your life. Quit needing a woman who doesnt want you.

[@amr526]

Yes it's tough