Clean With Me & Let Go Gracefully | Elegant Homemaking

[@deannab9511]

I think that as women sometimes we get a little melancholy, it helps to have channels like this for motivation and encouragement. We are just trying to do the best we can each day. Thank you Nikki!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Melancholy, that's the perfect word! I agree and I'm happy to hear this channel helps!

[@Jorge_M222]

Hi @ Faous JZ.... Jorge here I'm married to Nikki and if you think she is putting in a show or did you mean putting on a show? Anyway that is the same woman I've been seeing clean for the last 15 years of marriage and it's always looked like that so if you think that's la la land then I guess I live there too.....

[@karmakomodia]

Your wife is lovely and her channel is a new discovery for me. The only people who will leave nasty comments are those who have nothing going on in their lives that fulfills them. so they feel nasty and empty.. because they are. When you squeeze an orange what comes out of it? Orange juice. Why? Because that's what is in there. When you squeeze a nasty, empty person what comes out? nasty & empty. . By the way.. La La Land is a fabulous place to live.. I have been residing there for years. I am a professional entertainer and devoted Life Time Home Sparkler.

[@CoraBlu080605]

Awesome, Jorge. Many women enjoy keeping our homes and family this way. It’s a reflection of the love and respect our loved ones show us. Well done.

[@netasekllc1338]

Ok Jorge is THE MAN. I really love the contrast between you too. Very feminine lady and very macho guy. It’s awesome. Nice to see you so protective of her too.

[@relaxingmomentsasmr149]

I’ve said this before but the production values of your videos are top notch. My husband & I have worked with well known people & experienced crews. You can put together an episode as nicely or even better than the pros with their expensive studios & equipment inside a big production house. The camera work, the angles, the creative process, the editing, excellent. Well done. The shot of you climbing up to reach top of armoire & popping up over the top-fantastic. Every shot was well done and varied to flow together perfectly & with great music choice. You are very talented, artistic, & creative, Nikki and so is your husband. Plus, you both are photogenic & have great on cam presence. I am always shocked that you don’t have 500,000 subscribers (and shocked at the people who do haha).

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

You always make me feel so good about my work, thank you! I love that you notice the hard work and details. Wow, 500K! Wouldn't that be amazing! How would I get back to everybody? Haha! You are so sweet :)

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Beautiful video and I love the elegant set-up with the tea, Nikki. How enjoyable! Love, Jennifer

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Jennifer! I hope it's as if we are having tea together ;)

[@clingingtoHim]

Oh my goodness your little girls room is so charming and lovely!! You make such a beautiful life for your family!

[@lisa_muy]

Hi Nikki, your recent videos on homemaking have been truly inspiring. They truly do capture the essence of whatever you do, do it heartily as to the Lord. I would also agree that it's also inspiring that you don't speed up the video during cleaning. So often, we rush through things and your cleaning videos remind me to slow it down.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Lisa, it's so nice to hear these have inspired you and remind you to slow down!

[@Abmarp]

Nice point !!

[@bethberndt3172]

There were times when my kids were little (and for one when he was older lol) when I had to "sweep out their rooms" and clear so much clutter out from under their beds, etc. One day, after giving one an ultimatum that if he did not clean his room I would and he would not be happy with the results, after he left for school, I cleaned everything out except what he absolutely had to have. A bed, a lamp, an end table, his dresser, and 6 days of clothes. No toys, no baseball and football cards. no electronics........left with a pad of paper, one book, and a pencil. lol I told him he had to earn things back but that I was done cleaning that mess. Needless to say, I never had to clean his room again.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I've done this several times....they are still so messy. Sometimes I just feel like giving up but we press on.

[@amandamckevitt629]

You are so elegant Nikki!!! So inspiring to watch you. I tend to blunder around and forget that I’m a lady and should move gracefully and delicately.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Amanda! Sometimes we need to remind ourselves and that's okay :)

[@lourdesjames9289]

I have been watching a group of your videos as a reward to myself for getting the house clean. I finish a task and watch a video; finish another and watch another. Today, before I watched this one, I watched a tour of your house back in 2017. Each child had his/her own room. They were very cute, but when I saw your girls room on this one, I was so touched. Their room is full of joy! (And there you were dancing ballet while cleaning. :)) I think they really enjoy having their room together. When I was a little girl, my sisters and I had our room together! There is something about having a room together that will create a stronger bond. The conversations and time spend there by them will be with them until they are older! Jorge, I just read your comment in here! Bravo chico guapo! God bless your marriage and make it stronger everyday!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That's a great way to reward yourself! I shared a room with my sister most of my childhood as well. I think it builds strong bonds and character ;) Thank you Lourdes!

[@kayburris8464]

I didn't think it could get any better. But you do. You are a joy to watch , so calming at the end of the day.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Aww, thank you Kay!

[@heidinickerson]

Your Chanel is truly a work of art and love! I always find it inspiring. Thank you for the time and care you give to these videos and to the message you are committed to sharing! It is appreciated by greatly by this homemaker and mom of four boys in Washington state 😊

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Heidi! I appreciate the encouragement!

[@wonderingstar29]

The colours are very beautiful in your home !!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you so much!

[@beverlyvallance5311]

I agree with the comment on “speed” and cleaning. This is one of the reasons I enjoy your videos so much.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm so happy to hear you enjoy my videos at normal speed!

[@sunrisetosunsethealing7390]

Beautiful video Nikki! You have such talent!! Thank you for addressing the dark, sad days, it helps to not feel alone in that situation. And yes, letting go of toys, material items or thoughts....always hard to do but necessary to advance to new levels!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Theresa! I'm so glad you found this encouraging!

[@anjaa8919]

I wish I could be half as calm as you while cleaning... I‘m mostly hectic and rushing around🙃 I truly love your videos ❤️

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm sometimes hectic as well, especially before a party hahaha! So happy you love my videos!

[@donnadoverspike9139]

I love this Tea Time video you should have them more often.I believe everyone should twice a year get rid of things that we no longer use and bless them to someone who would. Have a bless day!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Donna, I hope to continue this style within my cleaning videos. I love the variety and interest it adds to them. Giving to others feels so good! I try to go through our things often.

[@brandi8040]

I love it when a video randomly finds me! I enjoyed this very much and I look forward to watching more from you. :)

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm so happy you clicked and enjoy what you see here Brandi!

[@Abmarp]

Agree !

[@paulaespiritu5009]

This was a very pleasant video as always

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Paula!

[@asianangel5400]

Your girls room is beautiful. Such a loving and kind mother.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Joy!

[@anahicalvo2653]

Beautiful Nikki, Every word so true! ...the cycle of life...our childhood, our children, is it any wonder us women get so melancholic? I have a 20 year old daughter and an 18 year old son. I’m learning to let go of some things and get sad here and there, but then a new adventure or achievement in their life comes along and I’m bursting with pride and joy. And the reward? Watching these young adults that we’ve raised, full of courage and wisdom...ahhh wonderfully rewarding! I know I was truly born to be a mother ❤️

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Anahi! I agree, I often feel this way! I love your view of this, it is something we must learn to live with and go through and be okay with.

[@ginatheng9506]

Hi I am Gina fm Singapore. I was watching Flylady Kat n saw yr channel. Thank you for yr video. I enjoy yr sharing of scripture n cleaning.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Hello Gina, it's so nice you are here!

[@gabrielarich2015]

I love your videos and your content in general. It’s most definitely inspiring.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Gabriela, I'm so happy to hear that!

[@laurlicia]

Just discovered your channel yesterday. Your videos are sooo artistic, classy and such a welcome change to the over-talked others that I have been watching for months. I get lost in the music and the simply beauty with which you work and present your material. Well done. You are going to gain lots of subscribers.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Hello and welcome! It's so nice to hear that you see all of that within my videos, it's very encouraging, thank you!

[@Abmarp]

YESSS

[@debora3377]

I love the elegant way you live, I lost everything in a 2016 flood, I lost everything dear to me! Now we are back in our new home, and I choose everything very carefully, I live simply but very elegantly. I love a clean soft colored home, with comfortable furnishings, and I found your channel and it related to me. Tfs, You are so beautiful and sweet, I subscribed today aswell.I look so forward to seeing more videos, Have a sweet day!!

[@jdow9218]

These are just so relaxing to watch and peaceful!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Jaimie!

[@Daily_gifts]

Thank you for sharing n inspiring, Nikki. Your sharing itself shows your sincerity n generosity to welcome us into a part of your life. Thank you

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm so happy you feel that way Rachel!

[@jacquelinejefferson1876]

Hello Nikki, enjoying your elegant tea series, loved the trick with the mirror. Very cleverly done. X 🌹

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Jacqueline!

[@michellekiehn2385]

Your videos calm and center me. So elegantly and beautifully made. 💕 Blessings.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That's so nice to know, thank you for telling me!

[@SweetAndSimpleHome]

I love the ability to teach my children decision making skills with decluttering. When we make decisions about our things, they grow in that! I desire for my children to have confidence in their own rooms and decluttering is a huge way we build their confidence together. ❤️ I also am going to check out the tights you mentioned! It’s so cold here, I haven’t felt up to wearing dresses. ☺️

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

There are always things coming and going in our lives so that skill is indeed important. I noticed I felt much warmer in the sweater tights compared to my usual nylons. I saw a lady wearing longer socks as well that looked really warm with her flats and midi dress, it looked beautifully paired and inspired me to try a similar look.

[@fireworks4037]

Your videos are so beautiful, Nikki! I always love watching them. With regards to the one viewer who commented about being SAD, I just wanted to mention that this is also an acronym for Seasonal Affective Disorder. I'm not sure if this is perhaps what she might have been referring to. I'm also Canadian and it is a real phenomenon here with the dark days. I think it affects many of us living here. For myself, I keep my spirits up by lighting candles and essential oils with uplifting scents, playing music while I do my housework, taking Omega 3 daily, and making sure I get daily exercise, even if it's just 20 minutes of yoga at home. We are hardwired to slow down at this time of year, and I do my best not to overschedule (not always successful with that one, but I try) and to honour my body's need for more rest. And I watch uplifting content, like the ones you post Nikki, to keep inspired.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you so much! Yes, she clarified this and I feel silly for not putting that together. I love those things you have to add because you go through the same. Thank you for sharing that this is uplifting to you to view, that's such a nice compliment!

[@melanielester2106]

A lovely video as always Nikki. Your hair looks beautiful when you are chatting with your lovely cup and saucer, your hair bumped like that at the side reminds me of the ladies of the 1940's - very flattering indeed. Wishing you and yours a wonderful festive season and a happy, healthy and safe 2020 from across the pond. X

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Melanie! The 1940's hairstyles were my favorites and remind me so much of my Grandma. She had very thin hair like myself so I look to her for inspiration because it always looked perfectly styled! Happy Holidays!

[@melanielester2106]

Inspired by Nikki - I have thin hair too so those styles work for me also. X

[@homemakingwithdenise]

Once again, another beautiful video. I love these. Elegant homemaking. I get it!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Denise, I'm happy you love them!

[@Rebecca-creates]

Oh this was so beautiful. I love your tea table and tea chat. I always felt a nice table in that room would bring coziness. Thank you so much for addressing sadness. The SAD I was referring to was feelings, but also Seasonal Affectiveness Disorder. It is when there are too many days without sunshine. We got 4 inches of snow today. The sun has not been around for almost 2 months. (Only short periods) Oh for spring. I can never get into a comfortable Christmas feeling. Please know you are precious and help so many doing the jobs of mothering, wife, housekeeper and more. Blessings

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Rebecca! I feel silly that I didn't understand what you were saying. I've heard of that before but didn't put it together for some reason. I know my mom feels more sad as the days get shorter but it's another story when the sun just isn't up. I look forward to the spring as well and hope you find some joy in other things. Thank you for this encouragement!

[@kathleenconsidine3297]

Great video Nikki. You definitely have an artist eye where you place your camera for the best shot. Romantic & beautiful. Your ballerina training comes across in many areas. Keep up your high standards.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Kathleen!

[@darianlibauer6913]

Hi my friend. You are spot on about everyone needing to learn the art of “letting go”. I’m still working on it and I am truly INSPIRED BY NIKKI. Great name for your channel. I’m ordering some of the Lavendar tonight! Thanks for sharing. 💕

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Darian! I think it's something we can all work a little harder on. I hope your Lavender does well!

[@mariaobraga5837]

You are the calm in my sometimes stormy days ,thank you so much for this gem of a video ,it was much needed in this busy time 😘🥰🇨🇦 Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones 🙏🏻

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

How sweet of you to say that, thank you! Merry Christmas!

[@desertdiva63]

I just discovered your channel. This is beautiful and so motivating. Thank you!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Hello and welcome, I'm so glad you found my channel! It's great to have you here.

[@chanteyshescookinguplife5352]

Love this video. I think I may do a tea time as well. Thanks for sharing!💕

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm happy you enjoyed this, thank you!

[@Rebecca-creates]

I love how your cupcake/muffin apron goes with your baking.😁

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Good eye ;)

[@joycejames4879]

Beautiful video Nikki!! ♥️ I really appreciate your hard work, aesthetic and creative skills as well as your photography talent in these videos. They are also incredibly inspiring, relaxing to watch, and a highlight to my day. I also appreciate all of the work Jorge puts in to support this! Thank you x 💕

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Joyce, your uplifting words are very encouraging!

[@anjah.534]

My parents kept all our toys and now their gandchildren find joy in them when they come over. We grew up in a generation where you do not buy so many things or clothes. Toys and clothes are given away to relatives or friends who need them. I sometimes wonder when I see you, being an artist, can afford to shop fairly a lot, but obviously you grew up and live in a different culture. Much love and blessings to you!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you for sharing what you did. I was never able to share clothes with others in my family or even friends because nobody was my size. I am grateful for having a husband who sees what is earned as being joint and not solely his or mine.

[@anjah.534]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse Yes, you have a wonderful husband, who totally supports you in fulfilling your need for an aesthetic lifestyle and your artistic work. I love your family, your art and transparency in your videos!

[@homemakerandglamour29victo29]

Amazing video. Love the way you edit all your videos and your clothes and how simplistic and elegant it all looks

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Victoria! I appreciate your kind words!

[@homemakerandglamour29victo29]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse your very welcome even my daughters enjoy watching your family:)

[@marianeta5128]

Thank you for show to us how God make your home e and your family. God bless you 😍

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Maria!

[@MissElaineTang]

Seeing is already comfortable

[@gadoladonai8296]

I’m too lazy to do it myself so I enjoy watching videos about people passionate about cleaning

[@Deb12365]

This was wonderful Nikki. A while back there was a discussion on wearing the brighter colors or the pastels. I think you look great in both but I really love the pastel colors on you. They are so very feminine. I used to watch the mature lady videos but I like the substance of your videos. So very relaxing. Blessings to you and your family.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I still love the pastels the most but it's fun to have those "power colors" for when I feel like being a bit more bold. I'm so glad you enjoy these videos, thank you!

[@baitbyoot9405]

Relaxing 💜 And the editing is so beautiful, thank you 💜

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you so much!

[@undiaconsilvia9579]

Is so peaceful music, I just discover your Chanel and I love it, good job

[@lindan.9487]

I love your hair style 💕💕💕💕

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Linda!

[@Abmarp]

Okay so I’m subscribing right now!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Hello and welcome Ann!

[@sophiebethanyrosexo]

Nikki would you ever consider doing a video about the experience you've had with ballet? I dance ballet myself and I'd love to hear your story ~ you could even do a video based around how to live an elegant/ballet-inspired life xo

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I have shared some of my history in past videos on the subject. It may come up in a tea chat this coming year. I appreciate your idea, thank you!

[@sophiebethanyrosexo]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse that would be great xo

[@plfeldkamp]

Thank you for posting this video! I always feel guilty about letting things go and your words put it into perspective. Happy New Year to you and your family 💕

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm so happy this was helpful! Happy New Year!

[@domesticgoddess4746]

You look beautiful! Love the video, great job❤️

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you!

[@IloveLunches]

Hello my friend I am new here and loving the relaxing music and your channel is so amazing I love it💗💗🎄 I hope you’re having a wonderful holiday season I love the pink and purple is in the room

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Hello and welcome! I'm so happy you love what you see here!

[@JourneytoHomeSweetHome]

Hi Nikki! This video hit so close to home. I too feel upset when my kids refuse to take care of their rooms and things. I am glad To hear you be real with this because I’ve often wondered how does Nikki get her kids to do their routines and keep their things tidy. Your home looks always put away but I realize that we all struggle with this. Beautiful editing when you were looking over the armoire. Also I like your advice on teaching our kids to let go of once but no longer treasured possessions. 💕

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Yes Pearl, it's a constant struggle! Even after the toys came out of the room. It's easier for them to clean up yes, but it still gets messy with clothes and trash and other things. You just walk around wondering how it all got there hahaha! I also want to add that before I make a video, I have often already started on what needs to be done because I can't focus on filming when it's such a mess plus that would take so much time in editing. I think there are lots of things that don't need to be shared but whatever you are struggling with, know I am too. Thank you for noticing those sections and I'm happy this was helpful advice!

[@cmich3935]

I love your videos, you are a such inspiration, greetings from México ❤️

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm so happy you love what you see here!

[@cmich3935]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse ❤️🙈

[@Heelsandholster]

Love this!

[@christinabrown2072]

Hello Nikki, question for you.. Do you use a polish cleaner when you wipe down your furniture? If so in your opinion, would you say it's better to spray the furniture and wipe or spray the wrag and than wipe? Sounds like a silly question, but I would love to hear your opinion..thank you once again for great content..

[@shailaz24]

I bought the same sheets and comforter cover for my girl, its so pretty. So nice to see u r using the same. Can u suggest how to prevent them from fading in the dryer as They r already light colors

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I like to hang dry the comforters and think that would help with fading. They are so pretty, it was hard because I also love the light blue set!

[@almetrabriggs6377]

Awesome🙏🏽💗💕💓!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Almetra!

[@MichelleScarberry]

Thanks for another great video! Im curious..do you do anything in your home to prepare for a new year (like a deep cleaning routine, vision board, moving things around, etc)

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Hello Michelle! I usually write out my goals in my new planner and make a plan for the coming year as far as when I hope to achieve each thing. I haven't done a vision board but that seems like something worth trying. I don't focus so much on deep cleaning everything at once anymore, I do so throughout the year so it's not such an undertaking. What do you do?

[@MichelleScarberry]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse I usually get a new planner and try an organization "challenge" like the one from Toni Hammersley. That just keeps me a little more motivated to declutter/organize since seasonal depression is a struggle for me. I also like to start Pinterest-planning small projects like painting our bathroom, etc.

[@beckysakay2743]

Your tea time video was just beautiful and elegant like no other. Hope you have more in the future perfectly created. Where did you purchase your tea set? Blessings, Becky Sakay Happy Holidays 🎄🌲

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Becky, I am trying to implement them into my cleaning videos! I like the variety it adds. I found that tea set from Ross.

[@sofiak.7037]

beautiful 💐

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you!

[@user-ei8rb7sj6c]

Really enjoy your channel & long to see content similar to yours created by and for those at my stage of life. I’m in my late 60’s, widowed, retired, and live alone, but I’m still interested in the art of homemaking and creating a beautiful lifefor my own pleasure. I’d like to see tours & tutorials showing and talking about how others like me clean, cook for one, declutter, downsize, organize, plan, decorate, relax, enjoy home hobbies, and ways they make their day to day homes lives beautiful. Can you suggest any channels that do this? Thank you.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm so glad you enjoy what you see here. I'm not familiar with any other channels that would meet those specifications but maybe you could search for widowed or retired life vlogs or life alone.

[@user-ei8rb7sj6c]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse Thank you for responding. What is a vlog? Do you mean KZbin videos? Again. Thank you and I’ll keep watching your channel!

[@kathymalloy9686]

What kind of cleaning cloths do you use?

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I love using the Norwex ones for dusting and mirrors. I use regular rags for the bathrooms and anything I use chemicals on.

[@lindaleclair8938]

This is the second video I've watched. I love your soft colors; do you live in a warm climate? We are freezing with a lot of snow these days.

[@MichelleScarberry]

She lives in Las Vagas♡

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Linda! Yes, I live in Las Vegas, Nevada as Michelle said. It's been pretty cold the past few days but it usually doesn't drop below 30 degrees in the winter. As long as I wear a good coat and scarf over my dress or shirt, I'm just fine.

[@sherryfletcher5303]

I think the neglect of an object affects us all the same way because we inherantly know how much it took to make it. From gods creation of the resources to the gift. Maybe turning them over to the next person to cherish is a good answer

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

[@lifeonhuckleberryhill6052]

What I learned was that when I have given my older children the option of holding onto things for them that they wanted to keep, but did not want to store, I was not doing them any favors. I will admit that there are a couple of toys that my children were ready to let go of that held too precious of memories for me to get rid of. I kept those couple of items, and now our grandchildren enjoy them. But I think it's good to teach our children not to keep more than they are willing to store.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I think that's great that you held on to a few you felt were special. I have some I'm doing the same with for my grandchildren if I'm blessed with them one day. Wise words and well said, thank you!

[@littlemissbossy1000]

she looks like a ballet dancer xx

[@vicinalucinda]

What camera and lens do you use? I'm always so impressed by the video quality and lighting :) Keep it up girl! You are a true inspiration in so many ways. I profoundly love watching your videos.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you! I have been using the Canon G7X for all of my filming. It's been working out well. I may upgrade one day. It's really nice to hear how much you enjoy my videos!

[@angelamitchell7991]

Love your channel - where is your daughters bedding from ?

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Angela! I found it at Target and I linked it in the Shop My Life link in the description box ;)

[@wonderingstar29]

My boys also had a lot of toys but what I did was that if I see its too much I let them go through them and decide what they can give to other kids who don`t have...in that way they learn to give and also we are hands on clutter which I don`t like!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That's great that you had them do that!

[@leslieinadress]

I needed this today. I have definitely had times where I have asked my husband to take the kids so I could deal with some things in their room. Cooling off and cleaning!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I'm happy this was helpful Leslie! Yes, the cool off cleaning method hahaha!

[@MsDianaJean]

Nikki, this video was so lovely. I have a horrible time letting go. Of things, emotions, memories, expectations, etc. It's something I'm constantly working on. PS You should wear this outfit again, it's soooo lovely! And your hair! How did you get that mini roll to stay?

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Diana! I'm sorry you struggle with this. It's great that you can identify what your issue is. I may share a video on that style soon.

[@aicha2]

Thanks

[@LaDonnaMills]

You are so beautiful . You remind me of the Disney character, Gisele. Why would anyone not want to clean after watching this???

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you kindly!

[@callyscraftycorner2463]

I love your videos. They are so pleasant and beautiful. Do you ever give decor tips via email based on pic? Also, where do you get your realistic flowers?

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Cally! I haven't done that but I would be happy to try. Most of my floral arrangements have come from HomeGoods. Some are real like the white ones on the coffee table and tea table in this video.

[@callyscraftycorner2463]

Thank you for your reply, I just move and I’m trying to put this place together. I contact you. Thanks again.

[@oneofmany7051]

Hello! I am pretty new to this channel. I found you via The Daily Connoisseur. :) Your videos are beautiful and inspiring to me to keep my house and my family with a better attitude. I started my decluttering journey about 8 months or so ago and I am still working at it. I LOVE the feeling of getting rid of the things we truly don't need; I feel like I have more room to breathe! My kids quickly understood that fewer toys (that they never play with, anyway) mean less to clean up and less yelling from Mom. :) I would have to say that my biggest battle hasn't even been getting rid of most of the kids' toys; rather, keeping the kids from taking what toys they DO still have all over the house. :) Ever since my kids were babies, I have worked to keep the bedroom for sleeping ONLY. Sometimes toys still find their way into the bedroom, but I will not stop my efforts to keep them out! I think that bedrooms should be for sleeping and toys and such (electronics of any sort) in the bedroom only serve as a distraction from getting to sleep. I should also add that my kids all sleep in the same room but in separate beds, like your girls. Actually, just today I brought an armchair and end table into my kids' bedroom so I could read stories and prayers to them at bedtime. It makes the room look extra cozy and makes for less space/temptation for them to bring toys in there. :)

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Welcome, I'm so glad you decided to come over after Jennifer's recommendation, she's wonderful! I loved hearing about what your journey has been like. It's something we must constantly work at as long as these little ones are in our home. Adding that armchair sounds like a lovely idea and solution!

[@amandazplace5663]

My kids' favorite toys were stuffed animals. By the time they were in their teens they owned so many, I couldn't count! So, I did some compromising around decluttering them. I said they could keep half. They got to pick out their favorites. Maybe, two months later, I said, half have to go again. This was harder. But, we set up the stuffed animals in poses (the ones getting discarded) & we took photos of them & printed them off. That made the kids happy. I think I also kept the "to go" bag for many months, hidden away, incase of a change of stuffie loyalty!😂

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

That was a very creative way to still be able to enjoy them. Thank you for sharing!

[@imsewblessed1578]

Lovely chat.

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you!

[@apriljo1968]

The little pink dragon on your daughters bed....where and whats it s name? My grand daughter would LOVE that!

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

I think I got the dragon from Target a while ago, she didn't name it.

[@apriljo1968]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse lol.....well.....what I meant was, is it a Gund, Build a Bear...etc. Brand name.😂😂

[@jwkoreatv]

I loved your cleaning video! You had a productive day and nice editing👍 Happy Christmas in advance🎄 Please come to my channel for another kind of cleaning vlog.🤗🤗 Best wishes from Korea😘

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you! Merry Christmas!

[@SillyMando2008]

Do your daughters wear jeans?

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

For now, it’s difficult to find dresses that cover enough.

[@Laura_B__]

What a beautiful video! I love the sheets in your girls' room with the little rosebuds so much...any chance you remember where you got them? And, I have been wanting to ask you - I hope it's okay - but do your children have a room in the basement with all of their toys? Because it seems astonishing that their bedrooms are so tidy and completely toy-free. Our house is small and my children's bedrooms look nothing like that, to say the least. ;)

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Thank you Laura! Yes, I got them from Target, they are from the Simply Shabby Chic line. I did a thorough cleaning of their room before I filmed this particular video. My girls trash their spaces each and every day. I think I mentioned in this video that we moved what toys they chose to keep out to their playhouse. It doesn't matter what I try, they keep making messes hahaha! My kids don't get many toys anymore though and they have pretty much grown out of that stage. Less is more in my mind. Less stuff means more quality time, more appreciation for what they have and more sanity for me ;)

[@margaretlorrainestephens5763]

Were you a professional ballerina at one time?

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Yes, I studied most of my childhood and majored in college and later became a ballet instructor.

[@margaretlorrainestephens5763]

I came across your channel and found it inspirational. You have a lovely family. I just subscribed and look forward to your videos. Have a Blessed Holiday Lorraine

[@mariondapsance7803]

You did ballet didnt you? I can clearly see the en-dehors. ;-)

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

Yes, I studied it most of my life, majored in it while in college and became an instructor for a few years.

[@mariondapsance7803]

@@TheLadyoftheHouse I admire dancers. I also studied ballet, it is so beautiful. I hope you can dance from time to time.

[@karolinaleszczynska3245]

You remind me of a ballerina

[@talla2315]

This is not reality it's fantasy, come on ladies who is kidding who here ? She is making everything look so calm and putting in a show for people that live in la la land

[@Jorge_M222]

Hi Jorge here I'm married to Nikki and if you think she is putting in a show... Or did you mean putting on a show? Anyway that is the same woman I've been seeing clean for the last 15 years of marriage and it's always looked like that so if that's LA LA land then I guess that's were I live...

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

There is always an element of fantasy when creating art dear viewer, that's what makes it so fun and adds to the beauty. The world is my stage here at Inspired by Nikki, one must enjoy the show and leave feeling inspired to return!

[@SimplyBeautiful516]

It is first in our imagination that a new reality begins to come to life. Seeing someone like Nikki awakens the dreams of possibilities. Those of us watching these lovely videos understand quite well that there is always more to the story than the tiny glimpses we get into someone’s life by watching them on KZbin. We are not under any delusions. However, it is both the respite from our own daily routines and the inspiration to bring more beauty and grace into our homes that bring us to this channel again and again. Thank you, Nikki, for giving us as homemakers a renewed desire to make home and family care a pleasure and a joy.