CLEANING AFTER THE KIDS LEAVE FOR THE WEEKEND | MESSY HOUSE TRANSFORMATION | SPEED CLEANING

[@christinatimney3979]

Becka my kids ( there all grown now but still call them my kids) always talk about when they were younger and the things we did, we never had much money then and days out were going to the beach for the day, taking bread and cheese and making sandwiches those are the things they remember the most, great video, enjoy your weekend xx😊

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Yes friend I couldn’t agree more! It doesn’t take a ton of money to make those memories 🥰

[@thriftytxmom]

It cracked me up when you started pulling dinosaurs from behind your sound bar. 😂 It’s amazing where you will find things. Lol

[@U60SingleMum99]

Good morning From Australia; Happy New Month; Happy Easter Everyone.... Cheers, Stay Safe@!

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Yes always in random locations 😂

[@leekorten1791]

Great clean up, jammed packed with motivation. You definitely have your priorities right, spending precious time with Kolby, Greyson and Tristan is far more important than vacuuming. I hope you have a wonderful weekend, hugs 💞

[@dangermouse4149]

Hey Becka, I'm sorry to hear about your recent separation, i too am recently separated and totally understand how you might be feeling. It's refreshing/comforting finding you as I have struggled finding channels with single mums, especially here in Australia and so i find you really relatable and its nice to see how others live and what they do as a single mum. When my kids go to their dads i love to do a big clean and refresh everything before they come back and keep busy too. But sometimes all i want to do is be lazy and do nothing, haha, but there's always something to clean when you have kids. You have a beautiful home, thank you for sharing and i look forward to your next one! 😊

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Thank you for being here! I’m happy that through this I can be a support for other moms going through it. You’re definitely not alone ♥️ I feel you, some times I like to clean the night they leave that way the next day I can be lazy before they get home.

[@sharonhayduk2424]

I loved this!! I get how you feel about your oldest! My sons are 36 and 32. My saving grace is our 3 year old grand daughter. I watch her 2 days a week. You got me motivated to clean her room! She’s like a tornado! 😂

[@U60SingleMum99]

Good morning From Australia; Happy New Month; Happy Easter Everyone.... Cheers, Stay Safe@!

[@HappilyEverBecka]

They really are at that age! 😂

[@genniejefferson6588]

Hi Becka, I feel the same thing. Sometimes I wish mine were still little. I love that rug under the table.

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Thank you friend, that is a ruggable rug. Yes I use to wish all the time when my oldest was getting older that I could have his younger years back. You just don’t realize how much you’ll miss it till it’s gone.

[@darniataylor7749]

You definitely motivated me! I had to pause the video so I could put you on the tv so that I could start cleaning with you. I remember those days when my kids were away & I had the house to myself. I thought I would enjoy it, but when you're used to having them with you for most of the day, it did get lonely. My kids are 21 & 22 and I still miss having them around everyday.💜

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Yes exactly! You totally get it, that’s exactly how I feel. I’ve been upping my social life to help keep me busy 😂

[@franceskey79]

Enjoy your weekend and thanks for the motivation!!!!

[@chasitythomas1894]

Hey Becka!! Great Cleaning Video!! I Love The Way You Clean!! Thanks For The Motivation Because I Need It!! Have A Great Weekend!!

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Thank you Chasity! So glad you enjoyed it ♥️

[@jack.black.21]

Hi! Happy Friday! You got so much done today. Great motivating cleaning video. Have a great day and weekend.

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Thank you friend, you as well 😊

[@leevassey5765]

Another great video friend! Lots of motivation! I agree it's more important to spend time with the kids. The mess can wait til later lol. Everything looks amazing! Much love friend❤

[@marciapickens7444]

Awe, it's a whole new feeling. It has to be hard having the kids leave. I thinks it will probably take time & a routine. ❤

[@carolkoehn6225]

You always do amazing on your videos. Thank you for the motivation. Have a Great weekend my Friend.

[@elainekearney1751]

Great motivational video. Oh, my heart just broke when you mentioned how hard it was when your boys went with their dad I am sending big hugs xx

[@ruthprovost1781]

Hi Becka another good video and thank you for the good motivation for cleaning

[@gaybrielfrazier2122]

Great motivation !!❤

[@tammifields4142]

Enjoyed the video Becka!😊

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Thanks for watching Tammi! Hope you’re doing well ♥️

[@tammifields4142]

@@HappilyEverBecka my pleasure 💞 hope you are doing well....Thank you!!

[@deborah3055]

Great video Becka thanks for the motivation hope you have a good weekend 💕

[@tyreesetjjoyner1995]

Good work, becka. Your house is tidy up.

[@yvonnerobertson2420]

Another great video I love watching your videos you always do a fantastic job well done and I can't wait to see the next one xx 💜💜😊

[@angelacowperthwaite984]

hey girl you always get me motivated i need to vacuum and do dishes wanted to mention they have rug tape to keep your rug from moving around just thought i'd tell ya in case ya didnt knowi totally understand how ya feel about kolby leaving jess left years ago but she's coming for a visit for Easter i cant wait we'll prob just go out to supper or brunch and visit but thats fine with me :) hope you have an awesome weekend!

[@korricissell5763]

Keeping your channel on all night to get my house cleaned 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Hope you were able to get all that you wanted done! And thank you so much for all the support ♥️🥰

[@amymurphy123]

Hey sweet friend. Hope u have relaxing weekend. Yes time goes so very fast. My babies r 33 and 23. 💜💜💜💜😘

[@HappilyEverBecka]

I didn’t realize you have kids ten yeas apart too! Kolby and Grey are ten years apart. It really does go by so fast!! Hope you have a great weekend as well friend! ♥️

[@amymurphy123]

@Happily Ever Becka yes. It was sweet to have them that way cause i was able to focus time w them and they r both so different. Hun i am 56. Lol

[@dannifulker7494]

Thank you Becka 🥰

[@alenebenasky1847]

I love how we spend a weekend cleaning up after the kids and when they come back it’s destroyed within hours.

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Yes! 😂 True parenting life!

[@LolaAlmaguer8797]

Thanks for the motivation!

[@juliemosher6404]

Happy Friday I need decluttering motivation, right now there are too many categories and I'm overwhelmed.

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Sorry to hear that Julie, I do have a decluttering and organizing playlist 😊

[@LibraCountryLifeCleaning]

My oldest is in his last year of school now and I’m so happy and sad at the same time, my family has a trip coming up so that’s gone be our vocation.

[@HappilyEverBecka]

How nice that’ll be to go one a vacation with your oldest before the new chapter. It is so bitter sweet though. My mama heart goes out to you ♥️

[@roses609]

Great motivation

[@kimmartin2074]

When our kids were young, at any given time when someone yelled “20 minute tidy!” everyone dropped what they were doing and we all put our own things or other random items away where they belonged. I’m sure you can correctly guess how often it was that the kids called a 20 minute tidy, unless they had friends coming over and didn’t want to risk it happening while they were visiting. We started this when we were both working full time and had become overwhelmed (84+ hours a week sometimes myself) Whatever was left at the end of 20 minutes usually amounted to the big tasks like vacuuming, dusting and laundry which was all so much easier for my husband and I to do with all the little stuff already put away.

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Love this idea! I may steal it for my kids.

[@denisecosgrove8980]

Hi Becky , Great video . I love all your videos . Have a great day and weekend

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Thank you so much! I’m so glad you’re enjoying them! Have a wonderful day friend ♥️

[@rhondacowley9818]

Great video

[@helenreid7022]

You do such a good job cleaning, I’m impressed! You also inspire me to do more of that! I’m neat, but not as neat as you and I have no small children! ❤️

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Thank you Helen ♥️ Don’t worry about being like anyone else, you’re perfect the way you are with your cleaning. Whatever you feel is important to you is all that matters, I’m just here to motivate you 🥰

[@shairmainejoycecole9299]

Hi becka have a blessed day and weekend thanks for this video❤️

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Thanks for watching! You as well friend ♥️

[@dianawalter1446]

Looks awesome, take care and stay safe. Think of you often you are doing great ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Thank you Diana, I’m doing pretty well. Finding my way 🥰

[@benitiakimball1526]

Happy FriYaY

[@deniserasmussen3800]

Most def! Enjoy your kids, they grow up too fast. Housework will wait.

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Yes so glad you get it ♥️

[@cindythompson3960]

Have a wonderful weekend sweet friend 😀 😊 ❤️

[@llamaface6229]

Folex is at Canadian tire too

[@avacat5092]

Hey friends 🤗 mini love ❤️

[@esmeraldaamaral8013]

Your such a wonderful mother, I believe your kids should start putting their own toys in toy box, praying for you 🙏

[@sharronb2476]

Becka, thanks for another great, motivational video! I watched it, then got up and cleaned my apartment. Now I don't have to do it tomorrow lol 😂😂💕

[@tamekadavis9051]

Good morning and happy Friday great video

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Good morning! Hope you have a great weekend ♥️

[@ashleyrobinson157]

Awesome video! I’ve been meaning to ask if you don’t mind. Where did you get those gray mixing bowls with the handles? Have a good week!

[@HappilyEverBecka]

They are from Amazon, love them! So affordable too. amzn.to/43eO7ey (Affiliate link)

[@ashleyrobinson157]

@@HappilyEverBecka thank you!!

[@michelleheeson9536]

Hi Becka, it's very strange lifestyle wise when you first seperate ya no house quiet etc. Glad your doing OK o watch your video answering questions about your slit etc. Glad your doing OK. Love ya videos been watching a while x

[@meganfreeman1366]

I love your channel. If you don't mind what kind of wood floors do you have I love them

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Thank you, I don’t mind but I have no idea what they are. I honestly just picked the cheapest engineered hardwood option the builder had.

[@llamaface6229]

You can set the roomba on a timer to run at the same time every day.

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Mine does that as well and I stopped doing it but I need to set it back up again to make my life easier 😂

[@pamelamoore6210]

Great video ❤ hope you are doing ok you got this

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Thank you Pamela ♥️

[@NiNitosix]

Hey girl!

[@BELENHAYES]

Nice job! :)

[@chrisdiefenderfer9721]

you can do it extreme turbo lightning speeded

[@jeangopie1009]

You have a beautiful house

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Thank you Jean! 😊

[@alidalessard]

Hi Becka :)

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Hey friend

[@holliechristopher6946]

🌞

[@pamelablanchard3063]

❤️❤️❤️

[@denisecosgrove8980]

How do you use the gift cards after you get them? I have a Amazon card from fetch. But I don’t know how to redeem it . Thank you

[@steelersgirl9930]

You put the code they gave you into the redeem gift card on Amazon

[@denisecosgrove8980]

Thank you . I did that and it’s not working

[@HappilyEverBecka]

I haven’t done an Amazon one yet but when I do the Dunkin one I just copy and paste all the card info into the dunkin app and it adds it to my “wallet”. I would say go to the Amazon app and add the card manually. Also see if you have an email with the info in it as well. If this doesn’t work I would reach out to fetch customer service. Hope that helps.

[@U60SingleMum99]

😱😍😍👍👍💯💯💯

[@tresameeks6416]

Hi Becka good to see you again hope all is well, also you should take the toys out the Living Room and put them in the kids Room just a suggestion, take care God Bless! 💛💛

[@HappilyEverBecka]

I like having a few in the living room because my youngest doesn’t leave me during the day when the other two are at school, he feels safer by me and not upstairs alone.

[@michellelazarus7139]

Hi❤

[@tresameeks6416]

Do you Ever buy paper plates?

[@HappilyEverBecka]

No, I think about it sometimes but that would just be another expense.

[@devondagregg625]

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻❤❤❤❤Hey Hey

[@sondrasix1668]

You are amazing Girl Friend 💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Thank you so much sweet friend! ♥️

[@helenhelps9619]

🏠🏠

[@camilaamancio5534]

🇧🇷❤️❤️❤️

[@maalat]

Your house seems organized. Perhaps the kids can help put away their toys, arrange nicely. Incorporate the, in your video on how they can help you clean up. You can incorporate in your video your parenting like all those activities you do with your kids.

[@HappilyEverBecka]

That’s a great idea! I don’t like making my kids clean on camera since this is my job but I can definitely share verbally how I have them contribute when I’m not filming 🥰

[@doratiscareno5856]

Shame On YOU, No need for this big mess...YOU SHOULD OF "TRAINED" THEM BETTER even if kids with disabilities can be taught... WHAT ? The Mess Cant Wait👎🏻😂 Their shouldn't Be a Mess Like This👎🏻

[@HappilyEverBecka]

Ok I would never take advice from someone who references being a parent and teaching their children as training them, as if they are animals. Second, if you knew my channel in the least bit you would know I do teach my children to clean up after theirselves but this is my job and I will not force my children to film and be cleaning on camera. Third, just because you saw ONE night of me cleaning up after my children does not mean that I do not make them clean the other 5-6 nights I have them. You are boldly making assumptions when you quite literally have no idea how I run my household. Take your opinion else where because I am not the one, have the day you deserve 😘

[@aprilsunflower7440]

@@HappilyEverBecka Its surprising sometimes how people feel like they can just say/ assume that they know what's happening in your life from a 20 minute video. I also would have my kids help with cleaning when they were younger but sometimes I'd just enjoy doing it myself and getting it done the way I want. Enjoy your weekend and thanks for the video.

[@petinapetersen2756]

You are probably the same troll i have been seeing on other cleaning channels. When a house is too clean, they accuse creators of cleaning beforehand, when its dirty, they give these 'shame on you' comments. I use to be obsessive about cleaning as well, until I heard so many older women say they miss the chaos now that their kids are grown. I am also now cherishing the time with my babies. THE MESS CAN WAIT.

[@sharronb2476]

Omg! I'm "late to the party" as usual lol. But I can't even imagine making mean, insulting remarks to anyone online, in everyday life, any time or anyplace! Becka, you are doing a wonderful job! You are a fabulous mama and you are so inspiring. I'm a great grandma. I've got one daughter who is now 52, and my son is 45. I've got 4 grandchildren, all of whom I've babysat throughout their lives. I also have 2 great grandchildren who I babysat for full time. I've also done many nanny jobs throughout the years. I can honestly say, children grow up sooo fast, and to spend time with our babies or older kids is waaayyy more important than keeping a perfectly clean house. I've always been a clean housekeeper, but my children always came first and like you, they were always my priority and I taught them to help me clean too. Sorry to rant, but I love your videos, and it brings out the mama bear in me for anyone to say hurtful things. You are doing a wonderful job, Becka! ❤❤❤

[@nclady100]

Dora, the shame is on you. I was "trained" that if you don't have something nice to say, keep your mouth closed. What a nasty thing to say to this mother who clearly loves her children and prefers to let her kids be kids.