Dear Men: Crying is OKAY.. Therapy is OKAY.. being hurt by a woman is OKAY.. Please stop turning your hurt into anger just because you think Men aren’t supposed to show hurt feelings or cry or show vulnerability..
@joesmith-em2cd15 күн бұрын
Exactly this
@n.b.021215 күн бұрын
@@jerryalexander8803 seek therapy if needed. No one is worth you taking their life and you going to prison. Take an extra few seconds, calm down and re-group.
@alexlane377515 күн бұрын
This
@naturallydope697115 күн бұрын
This!!! Too many men lack emotions intelligence and lead by their emotions to control their actions.
@whatwhat900415 күн бұрын
All lies. Showing vulnerability is a sure fire way to get a girl to turn on you. Unless it’s a therapist or some other sort of mentor, never show vulnerability around a chick.
@swhitfield9415 күн бұрын
It's sad but individuals in prison for drug related crimes is denied bail. Him fleeing enough to Flint should have to shown reason to deny bail.
@chicp41315 күн бұрын
Exactly right 💯
@cali246813 күн бұрын
Stop downplaying drugs. If you saw the impact it has on families especially children you would know better. I’ve been in people’s houses where the kids had no food or milk in the ice box because Mom sold all of the food stamps for dope. Not to mention all of the unaliving and SA that stems from drugs. Find something else to compare.
@BoostMobile-xz4fj11 күн бұрын
💯@@cali2468
@torriebrown960715 күн бұрын
UNBELIEVABLE 😡 😡 😡. Keep him for life in Prison. No bond
@christinajackson1715 күн бұрын
I work with her mother Im so sorry this happened praying for the family ❤😢
@gloriagone160110 күн бұрын
My condolences to the family and all those affected by this tragedy.💐🙏🏽
@SmooootheRuff15 күн бұрын
His bail is very low! What a slap in the family’s face!
@sincerely.d15 күн бұрын
They obviously don’t have an open and shut case hence the bond amount
@MsPhoenix9914 күн бұрын
I wonder why it was set low … this is so sad
@cali246813 күн бұрын
I don’t think he was charged with the actual crime yet and 250k cash in full (cash surety bond) is not a small amount.
@mintsmith389413 күн бұрын
250,000 Cash is NOT low. Although, I would've like to see a million bond. He would have to pay 250,000 CASH not 10%
@cali246813 күн бұрын
@@mintsmith3894 What? Your math isn’t mathing. 10% of 1 million is not 250k. What it be better if the judge gave him a bond of 2.5 million with 10%? Because that would be equal to the bail amount he has now. Cash surety means he has to come up with the entire 250k in cash, not 10% of it. The only reason the judge can’t give him no bail is because he hasn’t been charged with the actual crime yet.
@dianegreen663515 күн бұрын
He is a runner...what wrong with this judge?
@jmo882215 күн бұрын
All of this because he couldn't let go? He took this lady's life for his own selfish reasons. God bless everyone involved especially her kids .
@paladro15 күн бұрын
sadly this happens far too often.
@Beautenaturelle8815 күн бұрын
@@paladro Unfortunately this will not be the last time something like this happens
@chinadoll53414 күн бұрын
And this is most blk men. They are jealous of blk women. They don’t like us but they know they need us and resent us.
@SunshineKK9914 күн бұрын
Did they find her? I missed that part
@learningalot2318 күн бұрын
He needed her resources to survive, a grown boy who refuses to be a real man standing on his own two feet. How dare she leave his non productive behind. I’m content remaining single after my divorce, I don’t want any involvement with men, especially a black man.
@kimberlywilley905715 күн бұрын
Another irresponsible judge that gives a lower bond than requested. Unbelievable.... Do any of these judges have any common sense? Obviously NOT!!! 🤬 MY thoughts & prayers are with her family & two young boys. 🙏 🙏🙏
@n.b.021215 күн бұрын
These judges are the reason for so many homocides.
@anthonyhumphrey145415 күн бұрын
He's unemployed, he doesn't have $250,000 to get out. Nobody is putting up their property for him. There was no 10%, so he would have to pay the entire $250,000. He's not getting out.
@tacticaltop675815 күн бұрын
Unfortunately, he is only being charged with a four year felony and not murder...yet! Thus even a 500,000 bond would be excessive for what he is currently charged with.
@carld279615 күн бұрын
@@anthonyhumphrey1454 He would seek his bond from a bail bond company. It's not cash. Don't know the criteria for a bail bound though.
@JoyAngels15 күн бұрын
@@carld2796 she said cash surety which means he has to pay the whole 250k to bond out.
@drucella558115 күн бұрын
If this was this judge's daughter, would she have given the same judgement? She is heartless. Giving her a heads up....Karma is a b$%"h.
@MzNetNet10 күн бұрын
All about the money. No bond puts NO MONEY in the county’s hands 😢 hopefully he will not come up the money.
@michelle795915 күн бұрын
This judge isn’t even paying attention.
@forevercatrina2415 күн бұрын
I was saying the same thing
@ebonieosborne17010 күн бұрын
Cuz she doesn't give af
@michelle795910 күн бұрын
@@ebonieosborne170 There should be term limits on judges.
@ebonieosborne17010 күн бұрын
@michelle7959 Fa Sho
@jessicaware89829 күн бұрын
Exactly 👍🏾
@tishsharay750915 күн бұрын
Damn the whole city in that court room iktmr 👏 Detroit men and women stand behind this cuz this shh gotta stop 🤬🙏🏽
@beautifulwithbrains309615 күн бұрын
That's her family
@jiggaman0007 күн бұрын
It won't stop.
@dawnprice425215 күн бұрын
Premeditated premeditated premeditated
@jamesjamesnet15 күн бұрын
Prayers to her family 🙏🏿
@cynthiaallen138115 күн бұрын
Ladies, once you're done, be done!!!!! Do you hear me????? These men try to play victim, you take them back, then they get their revenge for lraving them alone in the first place. Your loosing your lives and leaving children behind. Take hold of your life, dont go backwatds. Sarah looked back and turned into salt..figuratively, she stopped living. Sorry to this hurting family.😢
@StayFocusedStayHumble15 күн бұрын
She was done thats why he did this.
@beautifulwithbrains309615 күн бұрын
@StayFocusedStayHumble why meet him I need to understand
@astronc.hardinhardin461014 күн бұрын
Real talk! Do not deal with these low class individuals that are doing less than you!
@kelvintorrence599414 күн бұрын
Shes telling all you ladys RIGHT IF THEY SUCKED THE 1ST TINE AND WHERE WORTHLESS LEAVE THAT TRASH ALONE FOR YOUR OWN SAFETY.
@DrSiglo14 күн бұрын
@@beautifulwithbrains3096Based on the limited information (the news has stated) of them being broken up since September and him making a hair appointment with her, using an alias, I doubt she "met" him willingly.
@paladro15 күн бұрын
if that's what you searching, you guilty.
@Carmen.122015 күн бұрын
So heartbreaking praying for her children and family😔🙏🏼
@MrZone15 күн бұрын
3:55 He did it and offed her. He needs to get no bond.
@jamesjamesnet15 күн бұрын
You're so true
@Bee-v1r15 күн бұрын
What does offed mean??
@NINOthe2hander15 күн бұрын
@@Bee-v1r killed
@truelj856015 күн бұрын
@@Bee-v1rhe took her life away and murdered her
@lt309615 күн бұрын
They don’t have a body yet
@vividbinauralbeats225415 күн бұрын
When they stated the google search is blood traceable that changed the trajectory of the whole case for the family, you can see it in their expressions. 4:00, that girl probably isnt coming home alive 😢
@MSPROV0CATEUR15 күн бұрын
Especially the part about flint - they said there was a lady in flint who was helping him out
@Almediale15 күн бұрын
Yes. A white woman he was dating that didn’t like his ex. She should also be brought in and her phone searched as well.
@juniorrobinson913715 күн бұрын
@MSPROV0CATEUR ANYBODY helping, hiding, or funding him should be arrested as well
@JustKeke311113 күн бұрын
@@MSPROV0CATEURher name is BRANDI WOLFORD smh
@Theresalynn4415 күн бұрын
They need to find her to make the case stick. His search history is evidence enough of what he has done. I just want to Hug her Mother,my heart aches for Ashley's family😢
@kellyt1246315 күн бұрын
I want to hug her too
@HooverStill15 күн бұрын
A search history is not enough sorry
@Luvlysis4u15 күн бұрын
They should've given him a bond. So all of her family and friends who came to show support in the courtroom could chat with him...😉 save the state so much money.
@SheIsMarye15 күн бұрын
AGREED‼️‼️
@keoniatoodle440015 күн бұрын
Periodt
@MsPhoenix9914 күн бұрын
❤❤ she has a big support system Riders 💪
@JessicaJones-np8pj9 күн бұрын
That's not how it works. The system wants him in their custody so they can continue to get paid
@KeepkoolwithK15 күн бұрын
Why did he even get a bond, a young lady is missing and possible deceased and he still gets a chance to enjoy his life. No bond should have been enforced, at least some morale and concern for the family 😮
@robertdavis440815 күн бұрын
It's a black person, black situation black victim this is gonna be a Slow Motion case guess WHY💔💯💔
@DonnellOkafor_hateslgbtq15 күн бұрын
Because he hasn't been charged with murder
@daddyschoc13 күн бұрын
Because there's no body.
@JessicaJones-np8pj9 күн бұрын
@@robertdavis4408people have no idea how the system works. If he had killed a white girl THEN it would be no bond💯
@YouTubeTim9315 күн бұрын
What a coward, I gave him the benefit of doubt, but after hearing his search history it seems to me he definitely did it… Praying for her & her family 🙏
@jazziez646715 күн бұрын
apparently your not from around here
@MarilynCarter-d3c15 күн бұрын
The police should get a warranty to search his house for that girl body.
@YouTubeTim9315 күн бұрын
@ wtf you talking about. I was born at Hutzel hospital. Can you tell me where that’s at without google? Prolly not. So elaborate…
@YouTubeTim9315 күн бұрын
@ so your telling me EVERYONE from here in Michigan looks up how to get blood stains out, how to pass a lie detector… just say you don’t know what your talking about, without saying it. Annoying ahhh fly 🤏💀
@MarilynCarter-d3c15 күн бұрын
@timothyjusticeii9437 he killed that girl and the police will not get search warrant to search his home for her body. He need put under the jail.
@loveandhappiness30415 күн бұрын
No Job!!! No Bond!!!...Directly to jail....
@brenreed15 күн бұрын
To Hell fucc jail
@mariefrancoisdooley618815 күн бұрын
I am thinking the judge give the bond low so they can keep track of him. They probably need him to lead them to the body.
@beautifulwithbrains309615 күн бұрын
He doesn't have a job I don't think he can make bond
@tynikacollier201511 күн бұрын
This is what I was thinking as well
@kearstenw385515 күн бұрын
This is absolutely awful
@smartchick64915 күн бұрын
What happened to going home and crying in your pillow and talking about the person for a month?You don’t 🪦people just because they don’t want to be with you anymore.
@kaellawinn451115 күн бұрын
Exactly
@juniorrobinson913715 күн бұрын
Facts! It's OK to cry and be hurt. But dummy if you kill her or yourself, you still aren't going to be with her ! Wtf
@Laniece4u214 күн бұрын
That’s what I did, smh
@angelaburrell747614 күн бұрын
Why Does The Judges, Keep Giving These MURDERERS A BOND....He Doesn't DESERVE 1😢
@ceeceebess672015 күн бұрын
Prayers to all her families and children 🙏🏽🙏🏽😢
@OhhYouu..MICHELLE15 күн бұрын
They’re probably going to make a deal with him in order to locate her body😢
@mariefrancoisdooley618815 күн бұрын
Nope thinking they want him out so he can messed up and lead them to her body
@Almediale15 күн бұрын
They need to also arrest the white woman he was involved with who may have been his accomplice.
@aiyanahunt577215 күн бұрын
He shook his head Everytime he lied.
@keishabrown98213 күн бұрын
He better hope a family member of this young lady don't seek revenge
@louisejones577314 күн бұрын
$250,000 bail is a pretty hefty amount esp for someone that doesn't have it like that. Plus, there's no body
@LissaAshford15 күн бұрын
This is so sad😢
@ceeceebess672015 күн бұрын
Please give him life without parole 🙏🏽
@tonysantino334515 күн бұрын
Charges withen the next 72 hours- He’s not making Bond …
@MyBurnerAccount22715 күн бұрын
Hopefully they stack some more charges on him before he makes bail (if he makes bail). So they can raise the bond
@junkandthangs15 күн бұрын
Her peeps deep up in that courtroom… mostly women tho!
@beautifulwithbrains309615 күн бұрын
Her family is close, you can tell. Her uncle is well spoken, and you can tell the patriarch of the family. The men are there. I'm sure everyone who could be there was. But you see the unity of the family, which is amazing. Her boys will have much love.
@valenciasanders48515 күн бұрын
Yes her people are deep in that court room as they should be
@LilyJ000015 күн бұрын
Because she's loved and missed💔💔💔
@DonnellOkafor_hateslgbtq15 күн бұрын
Typical. No men mostly women
@SilkyDanielle-15 күн бұрын
@@LilyJ0000😢 No doubt she is!🖤♾️
@bonitawilliams-anderson682015 күн бұрын
The Judge must not no or understand facts, the fact that this man has harmed this woman to the point of no return is reason enough to deny bail.
@JuQuitaGeorge15 күн бұрын
That just is very dismissive n evil you can tell how she cut her eye at the family. Showed no emotion or care towards there feelings n is not paying attention
@Laniece4u214 күн бұрын
Her squad is there. Never seen that before . He’s safer there, smh
@pokeyb222915 күн бұрын
he wont make bond anyway does not have a job. creeper
@mya_mymy9 күн бұрын
I was praying she was found safe. She’s a mother. Her kids need her. Her family needs her. He doesn’t deserve a bond. The family has my prayers. 😔
@LissaAshford15 күн бұрын
PTSD no excuse😢
@jacquelinealexander980815 күн бұрын
My prayers to her family
@Laniece4u214 күн бұрын
The judge is not attentive she’s scribbling instead of making eye contact. I don’t like her style . Attention deficit disorder.. very preoccupied , damn busybody.. low bail, smh
@VGray0215 күн бұрын
🙏 for the family
@michaelwoods385015 күн бұрын
Hes never showing up to court 😂
@dawnprice425215 күн бұрын
This is a shame why why though this is ridiculous throw him up under the jail this is horrible
@TANITAC10 күн бұрын
Have they checked to verify if there has been any trash picked up in any of the areas he has traveled?
@dawnprice425215 күн бұрын
Most definitely praying for this family and friends acquaintances the city the whole state the United States The children her children most of all and our mother prayers to your family I can't imagine
@jenniferjohnson312415 күн бұрын
Coward shouldn't get no bond this is sad😢😢😢 prayers for her family and kids 🙏🙏🙏 hope that they find her soon and he rot in prison and hell!!! This is sickening she was so beautiful lord gon take care of him sweet girl get your rest you have gained your wings dont know this family im from GA just sending prayers and condolences to her family love ones froends especially those kids may god mend your hearts
@GooGetTheMuney15 күн бұрын
Damn why you have the Camera All zoomed in on the family faces.
@sbarney77615 күн бұрын
I think it is an ai camera. We have them at work. It zooms in whenever it detects any movement. I thought it was kind of odd they have one in the courtroom. Either that or the cameraman does not know what he is doing.
@tyronelewis785412 күн бұрын
Why Would you Be Googling info Like That If Your Innocent He Deserves To Stay Behind Bars
@jennaroseb14 күн бұрын
This makes me sick. Prayers to her family Lord comfort them
@nitabugcler11615 күн бұрын
I don't understand why he was granted bond. He OBVIOUSLY is a flight risk. He googled quickest route to Ohio. I mean dayumm!!
@xenthrusmainor545015 күн бұрын
Who is the camera person?
@CatherineMontagano15 күн бұрын
No Bond! Until proven innocent! What a joke 🙄
@louisejones577314 күн бұрын
He has a bond, $250,000
@gaderious944915 күн бұрын
This case is similar to the Jimmie “Jay” Lee case in Oxford. He walked and got away. All because they didn’t have the body. Sad situation so sad….
@RyanForster-li7ox15 күн бұрын
1. When will people learn not to google incriminating evidence you’ll get caught everytime And 2. Why did they focus on that cop so much who tf is he
@asiareactions25115 күн бұрын
He probably the lead investigator on the case
@Carolyn-k5q4i14 күн бұрын
Why would he lie If he is innocent 😢🎄.
@commonsensecorner727515 күн бұрын
To the person behind the camera, I’m gonna need you to practice elsewhere first!!! 🤦🏽♀️😵💫 As for this dude in custody with every arrow pointing towards him, SERIOUSLY? Not that there aren’t some crazy women in this world, but what gives men the thought to think that they can just murder us due to heartache?!?!?! MOVE ON!!! 😡😡😡
@kimrobinson401615 күн бұрын
How did she meet him he's s sorry MoFu
@Raven532115 күн бұрын
If he had kept his mouth shut and didn’t talk to the police at all, he’d still be free.
@aimeehilzjanelle15 күн бұрын
They're letting him have bail so he can go out & tell on himself, or add more charges. This is messed up..💩🤦♀️ My heart hurts for this family..💔🥺
@LashundaJ-e4u9 күн бұрын
This judges is fkn ridiculous.. get street justice going to court is a waste of time 🤬
@lizwaldrop233114 күн бұрын
So sad praying for family and friends
@justiceforshanelee15 күн бұрын
Was her body the one they pulled out of the river in Southwest Detroit
@beautifulwithbrains309615 күн бұрын
No
@Dot1-wc6by8 күн бұрын
This monster should never see the outside world again he don’t deserve no bond
@charliebaltimore819315 күн бұрын
He dont need a bond these judges needs to know more about npd .women being killed every 30 mins
@avisgreen57899 күн бұрын
I’m so sick of seeing stuff like this demons or in these people this is sick asl
@kirag00111 күн бұрын
He shouldn't have a Bond. It sets him free to finish destroying the evidence
@charmainecrumby718615 күн бұрын
Y tf is his bond so low... y does he even have one n this baby gone??
@sincerely.d15 күн бұрын
The bond isn’t that bad he has to have $250,000 not 10% hence the cash surety aspect lol he won’t be coming up with 250k
@trishakaaay372015 күн бұрын
To my understanding, if you heard what he is being held for is lying to peace officer, not murder. The judge issued a cash bond, which means the defendant has to pay the full amount. If you look up the bond guidelines 250,000 falls well within that preview of the charges.
@JamarFisher-tw7xw15 күн бұрын
Domestic Violence is a two way street,, so sorry that this young lady and her family has went through this traumatic event.. we have to focus on Domestic Violence as a whole!! #LongLiveQ
@dujuangreen54193 күн бұрын
So, this dude was a deserter from the military, lied to the cops, previously forged documents, fled to Flint, and a statement was made by the Prosecutor that he Google searched "What to do on the run?" and "Fastest routes to Ohio," yet she still gave him a bond. WOW!!! I get that it's a cash surety bond, but still....why not just deny this creep bail?! SMDH! Let's hope no one puts up collateral to bail this punk out!
@Fineeeaddiction9 күн бұрын
What kills me is the whole family always wants to be there when someone is killed but where are they when she was alive dealing w their domestic ways …RIP Ashley
@AgnesAppiah-oo9rd14 күн бұрын
Where ever you are please God bring her back so that the truth will come out and peace for the family 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤Amen
@detroitmafia185715 күн бұрын
This not in the judge this is on the state with the kharges but he kooked he not going no where and the kharges will b brought up in a matter of seven days
@tonysantino334515 күн бұрын
💯
@DonnellOkafor_hateslgbtq15 күн бұрын
Charges coming, you better believe it
@OMichelle10 күн бұрын
He more than likely had something to do with her disappearance. Please single moms stop bringing home men to your children and bet the men deeper before any commitment to them. This is sad..
@smartchick64915 күн бұрын
That’s a tiny courtroom. Now someone will be telling you what to do until you 🪦😏
@kellyt1246315 күн бұрын
I can't believe they gave him Bond. I would have made it 2 million so he couldn't get out for sure
@trishakaaay372015 күн бұрын
🤔 You honestly think he can make $250,000 (or 25k) 🤔 Cash Bond is the whole 250 up front. They are holding him for lying, not murder.
@kellyt1246315 күн бұрын
@trishakaaay3720 oh no! I knew they were holding him for lying. And no I don't think he can make that bond but I think it would have been a more powerful statement to not give him one, just my opinion. Have a good day
@trishakaaay372015 күн бұрын
@ I agree with you, but I think the judge has to go by Michigan’s bond guidelines. It has to be proportionate to the arresting offense.
@GigiTheTruth12 күн бұрын
Give him a bond !!!! Cause i promise he won’t make it to court !
@mlbradley432214 күн бұрын
No trial!!!!!!
@zigman855015 күн бұрын
Al Sharpton and BLM could not be reached for comment.
@parlayjay-e7z12 күн бұрын
Dude cooked! praying for family! no remorse, at all! can’t take responsibility for actions either! soulless!
@KnowThyselfTarot33314 күн бұрын
Disgusting shows of “power”
@melissaowens15597 күн бұрын
Was she found?
@KeelyMurray-s4o12 күн бұрын
Condolences to family and friends 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤🌹🙏🏽
@blackscale198010 күн бұрын
Bro the camera man needs to be fired
@Larrytalls12 күн бұрын
Yeah he was outta control life no parole
@LaDeDa07246 сағат бұрын
Dear Ladies: Hindsight is I should have left him alone…Foresight is I’ll Pass and Leave him alone…learn the skill of judging a book by its cover…
@berrihill275011 күн бұрын
Military History and The Main/ Only suspect in Diaspearence of a young lady ..... NO BOND
@Surfboard92715 күн бұрын
The usual suspect as usual.
@StayFocusedStayHumble15 күн бұрын
USUAL SUSPECT-MEN
@louisejones577314 күн бұрын
@Surfboard927 same thing I say when I see schools on the news now and whole families that are now gone
@jeffreybrooks857412 күн бұрын
I don't get it. If judge acknowledged that his case is now a more serious matter dealing with a missing person that has probley been killed than why make him an possible flight risk and grant him bail? All about the money 💰
@jessicaware89829 күн бұрын
This man no what he did to this women missing Ashley he need to tell the truth 1:21
@VellMade-g8k13 күн бұрын
What bout the other guy dat kilked that little girl recently did he get bond to why judge let him out to track him he broke asf thoe how they gonna find her body man😢
@kishanabain626710 күн бұрын
My heart goes out to her family. Heartbreaking. I tell you. That girl didn’t deserve this. Wow. Sad. Will keep her family and kids. In my prayers.🙏🏾😢
@HarriettTubman828 күн бұрын
This judge couldn’t care Less smdh
@shereejenkins450311 күн бұрын
PRAYERS 🙏 FOR HER FAMILY.........AS CHILDREN WE R TAUGHT THAT THE BOOGYMAN IS A MONSTER, WE WERE NEVER TAUGHT THAT WE COULD B DEALING WITH THE MONSTER......... HOPEFULLY HER FAMILY WILL GET THE JUSTICE AND PEACE THEY DESERVE
@mrs.spowell17834 сағат бұрын
Guilty Guilty Guilty . He should have a Million Dollar bond😮😮😮😮