CLINGY & NEEDY People Are Sent To Distract You From Your SUCCESS!

[@santanapage5044]

I keep coming back to this video, because its so true ,so true ❤

[@laiflesss]

I have a friend like this, I even started to think that I'm a shitty friend cause I don't wanna spend 24/7 with her, But why would I. She complained to me how two of her friends just ghosted her, now I understand why

[@datdapgotskip]

Energy Vampires. These are people who can't take care of themselves. Never happy can't be alone.

[@mschoy1597]

100000000% this is fact. I dealt with a clingy, needy person to the point where I was being controlled!!!! Rebuke these people with all your might!

[@SharlenesJourney]

Yesss I know exactly what you mean clingy people are the worse especially when they try to control you that’s satans child 😷 🤮

[@sylviamjames]

Hallelujah yea!! 😀

[@santanapage5044]

Omg I hear u!!! They are the worst, what about when they invite themselves to your home and within 5 minutes of arriving they're asking for your wifi password 😮

[@adrienne_despisespronouns]

I can't stand to be around those who think they're the only ones that have difficult challenges

[@autofilly6698]

Amen

[@haley8368]

I’ve never heard a video that’s so on point. Struggling with a friend who is like this and have been trying to distance myself from them for my own mental sanity.

[@psilver]

same

[@kintsukuroi6300]

Oh boy! I once had a friend like that and I broke free!! and after that never again BUT I had a couple of clingy roommates and is exhausting always trying to escape or be out of their sight and of course what a pain!! but now I see better the pattern so can ID these maladaptive people. My headphones have been my best refuge and savior because when going to common areas in the house I would have them on so NO NO NO I am busy cannot give you my time and when still trying to interrupt me I was like " what is the emergency? is this a 911 issue? still they will fight it to the nail for attention but if you do not relent I guess they get a little tired ....just a little because they will go back to the attack to be clingy... they are DAMAGE GOODS.

[@MrHDProd]

bro i literally had one needy/ clingy "friend" but ive cut all contact because it was so annyoing and this person didnt leave me alone !

[@MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure]

There's a saying "if you're struggling,and your people are just sitting there, watching you struggle, they aren't your people". So as for me the people, that people think are my people aren't.

[@kerrywang388]

Nice this is what I feel right now, I am so tired of clingy people

[@kintsukuroi6300]

Soon AI dolls/companions will be in the market so they can get one and NOT BOTHER THE EMOTIONALLY STABLE/HEALTHY PEOPLE.

[@barbarafreeny4082]

OMG this is so true. The way you explain this is to funny but not funny when you are trapped in this situation. I had a distant family member that tried to get close to me really fast after my mother past. I told her I don't talk on the phone often. Her reply was" I don't know about that". For the first 3 months they would call every day talking for hours. During this time, I was under so much pressure dealing with legal issues. They wanted to know every detail. Finally, after 7 months I had enough. I was polite I said I want a relationship with you but feel pressured. She stopped calling but sent text to see if I would call. Initially I had plan on reaching out every week, but I realized how much better I felt without them in my life. She tried to take advantage of me during one of the hardest times in my life. She was controlling, negative, and in competition with me. After this situation I realized I was the problem because I didn't enforce my boundaries.

[@BLessed758]

This is sooooo accurate. I thought I was the only one who’s dealing with someone like this . Have unanswered 6 negative texts in a row because I’m seriously trying to break contact and end this friendship but he still keeps texting . I’m so tired of it because I’m a happy God-loving positive person but it’s draining me. You know exactly what you’re talking about brother and you’re doing a great job . Continued success in trying to help others

[@santanapage5044]

U have no idea, he's 1000 percent on point

[@OSTARAEB4]

This is what I said in one of your videos. Forget about that song from the late 60‘s, early 1970‘s People, people that need people, are the luckiest people in the world“. I say, NO! They’re not. I can’t stand needy people because they trap you in quicksand and always end up abuse you. They abuse the privilege by coming back and want more of you. I don’t mind helping a genuine friend out when I know they’re sincere. When it becomes a habit and start treating you as their errand boy then there’s a problem!

[@kisigma1011]

Facts

[@stephaniesallie8968]

I agree with this message. 9 7 22

[@besoreal20]

This is so relatable 💯 There’s this loser in my training who keeps clinging to me like a parasite & he annoys the sh!t out of me. He literally sucks the life out of me, want him gone from life

[@danielnelson6903]

Bro I just don’t even bother going past the “associates” phase anymore with people men and women alike. They are on their best behavior when they first meet me then they get TOO comfortable with me after a period of time and their true colors show and they become clingy asf man. You are spot on. 🤦‍♂️🎯

[@florencia2771]

i’m dealing w a male co-worker, he’s at least 35 yo. He follows me around asking if “if I’m ok.” Interrupting when I’m talking to customers, treating me as if I’m his girlfriend (excessive attention). Today I’m having a talk with him. He needs to stop the BS. Last week he came to work with a black eye, I wonder why 🤦🏼‍♀️😬. He seeks validation from co-workers, customers and everyone in between. Exhausting!!

[@danielnelson6903]

@@florencia2771Lots of strange people out here, wishing you the best!

[@knowbodiesfull5768]

This is off topic, but I couldn't help noticing that little rhyme you made. "Last week he came to work with a black eye, I wonder why."

[@C2Different]

Straight Facts! ❤ I m setting even stricter boundaries with Family! So Needy & So Freaking Manipulative!

[@FilMit1]

Call them out on being a clingy and needy. God-damn control freaks these days.

[@Studioinsession]

They need us but we don’t need them 💯👍

[@Rasheens-Story]

You know what’s crazy too it’s like we are magnets 🧲 for these people it’s mind blowing 🤯 sometimes I sit and wonder do these people not have jobs🤨 I attracted a guy and turns out he does things I am not fond of I cut home off so fast and blocked him because no one is going to take me back to a place where I leveled up from. That’s the devil right there. This is why I role solo 99.9% of the time because these people are looking for someone to bring down their rabbit hole 🕳 with them. They are okay in poverty so they want you to join them. No way I rebuke it🙌🏽. They want company to join their misery but when I was in my losing phase my misery didn’t want company. Now that I’m leveling up here comes these blood sucking leaches/Vampires 😒

[@justval4956]

I think what you are saying is harlarous cause it's so true. 💯Clingy and needy people are just not comfortable with themselves.

[@floydfidell4259]

I'm having big problems with Clingy people and they act like I'm the problem When they don't see themselves.

[@jennydoucette2538]

these psyche vampires who suck all the air out of the room, theres no conversational give and take, they dont ask you anything about you, bring nothing but problems, talk right over you even if what youre saying pertains to them...when you dont share all your resources and set even gentle boundaries they cut and run and find another victim--and its a blessing!

[@JanisBrown-ct9jp]

I had a clingy friend. One time I told her that I was going to the gym and she was like “you’re not even fat to be going to the gym” I told her “there’s nothing wrong with being healthy” and she was like “why are you mad at me? I didn’t say anything wrong”

[@robertivers4200]

The learning curve of Giving an inch and they take a Mile😢😮😊

[@JOHN-ei2tn]

Perfect Brotha! Now as in Christ Jesus.🔥🕊. I don’t allow any wasted time distracted by this type of individual. Quickly kindly move on. Hallelujah!!

[@blooming_Lotus1493]

This is even worse when you're a woman dealing with a clingy guy. It's claustrophobic, 24/7 texting, smothering, stepping all over your boundaries... It's so frustrating, these types of "men" won't let you be the woman in the relationship, they'll try to emotionally manipulate you into a corner until you have nothing left going on in your life besides him.

[@the_infinity_channel]

Been there. Thanks God it is over. It was like hell and everything you just explain. I hope no one waste time and their life on those people.

[@coraluz3247]

That’s just where your boundaries have to become firmer. I won’t have it anymore. I will communicate clearly, set my boundaries, don’t give lots of chances. Just enough for their own self correction, but after that, I need to distance. For my own mental health.to healthy people don’t sap energy from each other. It is enriching and feels healthy.

[@Relentless.assault]

It's not worse for women, men have it far faaar worse than women ever will

[@serenitee8849]

Energie Vampires 🧛‍♀️ very draining..😪

[@kindstranger1455]

What your saying is not mean its called honesty but insecure people that havenť done the inner work and shadow work will view it that way.🌻

[@grammylivs4950]

I’ve always chosen to be alone. If I felt anyone needed help, I would feel bad, try to help, get trapped with a blood sucker. On the other hand, as a #TargetedIndividual Empath, I love to help out #TargetedIndividuals who are also isolated. We need to hear each other’s stories and show the world what Satan’s people are doing to us in covert/overt ways.

[@SharlenesJourney]

💯💯💯💯

[@stephaniesallie8968]

Amen @Grammy Livs

[@grammylivs4950]

You’ve just described most gang stalkers who live their blood sucking tick lives through their TargetedIndividual who is isolated.

[@BeautifulDreamerK]

Thank you! Currently going through this with a coworker. My personal rule is to not make friends with coworkers but she’s been finding ways to get “in my web” as you say. The longer it’s been, the more I realize how dangerous she is a people pleaser. I don’t trust people pleasers bc they are not genuine and will throw you under the bus when they get recognition. I do keep her close bc she is the most knowledgeable on the team but I work really hard to keep her at arm’s length. She always plays victim, is paranoid/negative, ignorant/naive but with coworkers, she is overly nice. It’s somewhat genuine but it’s driven from insecurity and the need to be admired. She love bombs and brings me unnecessary gifts and I think it is to keep me around. I told her “no” and she passive said, “well it seems like you’re doing fine without these.” My response: “yes, I am fine without these but thank you.” Like she’s trying to control me or to get me to like the same things she does. I also notice she copies me a lot. She tries to say big words but ends up saying made up words that sound smart

[@santanapage5044]

She's determined, just tell her you're an introvert and avoid eye contact, slowly ignore her, wear sunglasses so many people are demonic

[@FoundLamb]

Women youTubers who deliver this message fall flat. This shit is real and women need to watch this message. Nothing more dangerous than a fake, energy vampire who is jealous, empty and hella insecure. You nailed it 1000000000%

[@JillDinardo-mb6ii]

I have a co worker like this,annoying as hell to all. I am ready to quit my job,cause there is no dealing with this person.

[@gatestimonymiracle1302]

He said everything I was thinking. Dammmmm.

[@kennethtomaszewski3795]

Just went to the store and had some people try to use their ego to try and get me down....

[@otismeotisme7987]

Iam glad they didnt, keep smilin.

[@kennethtomaszewski3795]

@@otismeotisme7987 thank you.

[@florencia2771]

i’m dealing w a male co-worker, he’s at least 35 yo. He follows me around asking if “if I’m ok.” Interrupting when I’m talking to customers, treating me as if I’m his girlfriend (excessive attention). Today I’m having a talk with him. He needs to stop the BS. Last week he came to work with a black eye, I wonder why 🤦🏼‍♀️😬. He seeks validation from co-workers, customers and everyone in between. Exhausting!!

[@trendy_nails]

OMG! Totally my situation. A co-worker of 35 yo. Clinging to ANY female at work, even married and religious. Dependent on everyone around to teach him, educate him, introduce him to new people, tell him what to do ... zero self-sufficiency, passive mind, draining!

[@Jessica-jn4tj]

Just don't involve with them or be any part if them - basically ignore them period don't involve your life with a person if you truly don't trust them

[@fhxs]

10:58 ugh exactlyyyy you can’t be honest or you’ll break them and then they act even more clingy. You can not be real with these people they want you to dim yourself and be comfortable in mediocrity because they’re not sure in themselves. I used to be clingy myself until I snapped tf out of it & started wanting more out of life. I was just surrounded by somebody who was a crybaby with resources they refused to utilize. They just wanted attention from me, I felt myself getting lazy I had to cut them off. So gross. It made me promise myself to always keep progressing.

[@thatsthething3218]

YOU ARE RIGHT! RIGHT RIGHT RIGHT!

[@nikkinoo3034]

Truth.. They go hand in hand, with glory hunters 🤮

[@angiep3346]

❤️💯 You better preach! Glad I came across your video! ❤️ I’m working on me now. Self love and self care is so important for personal and profession growth!

[@koban4max]

They can cling on to my middle finger because Me and my fellow chosen ones will succeed..I got a new job in nicer environment and I’m about to achieve my personal goal

[@Jessica-jn4tj]

Don't even look their direction and continue to be me - and continue my responsibilities to provide for my rights and my cubs to live

[@stacyshepherd4086]

When you can resonate so much … It does feel great!!! It is refreshing!! I feel exactly the same😄

[@alexanderqwertz1387]

i really needed to hear this. Seems like im not alone with this and finally got some clarity whats going on.

[@OfficialBROOM]

I actually downloaded this video, just to have inside my mind. Like a kind of talisman.

[@the_infinity_channel]

They are dengours people 1000% no matter in fact if your mother is needy run , just run ss fast as you can when you feel clingy or needy people. No mstter who they are.

[@floydfidell4259]

You're right Terry, they won't invest believe in God the Creator. With Faith and Patience in Self.

[@gvlzkz1118]

I am guilty of being this kind of person. I am ashamed of it. I was sucking the energy from a female through text. I didn't want to feel alone but now understand that I was hurting her and just making things super uncomfortable. Thanks Terry for bringing up this topic and reminding me of how things should be. I am thinking of apologizing to her but when I see her in person which may not be for a good while bc I believe she is too busy on her grind for us to meet up to play soccer with our group of mutual "friends". I haven't communicated with her in 6 months. I can't be doing this anymore to anybody.

[@gvlzkz1118]

She was the one who stopped replying to my mindless, energy-sucking "nice" messages. And deep inside I resented her for doing that. Woooow I really had a serious problem and can't imagine how much this probably damaged and/or affected her. But I didn't start messaging her again. I came to the conclusion that what I was doing was fuxked up.

[@BLessed758]

@@gvlzkz1118 at least you’re no longer doing it . Forgive yourself . You’ve learned how damaging it can be . So move on and be the best you can be and remember : you’ll always attract more bees with honey than with vinegar

[@Trini190]

A friend l had like this is bipolar i couldnt get a break all she wanted to do was facetime 2 3 times a day

[@Jessica-jn4tj]

Welcome to choosing your ways of real life sacrifice through responsible choice through managing and saving for emergency situations - welcome to real life living - I appreciate people like you who care enough to speak up through a video - beautifully made The thing is I don't allow myself close to anyone I truly don't understand to realize or know generally May seem crazy - definitely not dumb I'm definitely smart and I definitely don't call myself crazy either - the thing is I know how to handle others publicly

[@steveorbelle4276]

You're so right about that, I learned that the hard way 😑

[@maddyblackier8953]

👍💯 the truth is the truth even if no one believes it and a lie is a lie even if everyone believes it. You speak truth.

[@rattler361]

Thank You for this video. You told it exactly how I feel. I have a girl at my job who will not leave me the hell alone. Every single time I walk pass her she stops me to talk about nothing while I have work to do. Either that or she would come to my work station to bother me. Now I talk different routes to my station and avoid walking pass her as much as possible. I tried to give her the hint that we are not friends and I don't want to be her friend but she never read hints or she doesn't want to. It's a good thing I never gave her my number

[@stephaniefunes4394]

Guy you're such a genius. Thanks a lot for this words nobody wants to say. You're a hero

[@Jessica-jn4tj]

And you best believe I ain't gonna get in a person's home or actual vehicle if I truly never came across the person or just met them

[@cocobell5805]

OMG thank you for speaking on this.

[@santanapage5044]

Energy vampires, they drain u until nothing is left

[@Real2k25]

💯💯💯💯💯 the narcissist i encountered was so needy clingy sbe was jus distraction everything bout her was negative jus brung me down smh

[@Jessica-jn4tj]

I wouldn't do that period cuz I ain't stupid like that

[@SurroundedByClowns1926]

I see TJJ is spitting them truth bombs again keep em coming OG!

[@EileenBokat]

Hit the nail on the head

[@noriannette30nori]

♥️i felt this .. Definitely one of the worst experience I ever had

[@diannewilson3617]

You are speaking the truth very succinctly

[@Jessica-jn4tj]

You know your right maybe I'm just made to face life on my own- I agree with you

[@Jessica-jn4tj]

Your right they need to go but they refuse to act on that

[@MotoGroto]

It has been increasingly difficult to communicate within the last 3 years. Almost like a language barrier but we speak the same. It’s strange and very isolating because many do not realize different depths of meaning. The ones who feel this way, do not let your spirit be damaged as this it’s self, is a miscommunication. The ones we speak to who do not understand the depth of meaning are surface level thinkers, mouth breathers as 11 would call them. But we know how we feel, and it is NOT your responsibility to make them understand something God has not called them to understand. In knowing this, you should feel empowered, that you have understood something unique, that not everyone understands. You have a gift. Not every can be as ‘in tune’ as you feel and cannot describe to others. When the other person has shown their level of mind/spirit and it just does not link up, DONT WORRY! This is good because you can now relax and release yourself from the energy it takes of trying to help them understand. Then just let them ramble, let yourself an opportunity to observe a new person in front of you and disconnect the energy. Don’t let them plug into after that unless they have shown signs to you that both of you are on the same… wavelength. No stress 🙏🏼 It just be what it be sometimes ⭐️

[@shawnpeter1687]

What up warrior come out and playyyyyyyyyyy

[@jamesl2846]

Amen, amen and amen 🙏

[@avalonmist254]

This video is Gold!!!🍀

[@RickBeck82]

I've watched probably 50 - 75 of your videos and in no way do your viewers come here expecting comedy, but seeing you out of the blue draped in the American flag was honest to God effin hilarious. You pulled this off so well I wanted to take the time to thank you for a genuine laugh from the stomach, you know what I mean. I still don't know why it wasn't douchy to the point of cringe, all that matters is that it wasn't. Without over doing it, this mastery of dry humor should be a trend in future videos.

[@stephaniesallie8968]

🇺🇸

[@autofilly6698]

He spittin’ facts cause I AM a good looking person. He’s right. Facts are facts.😏

[@RickBeck82]

@@autofilly6698 I want to roast your comment, may I roast your comment? You said facts are facts so I'll take that as a yes. Looking good is irrelevant and temporary. It does not represent value of any kind. Unless you value being vapid and empty as an identity. Then praise yourself above the ugly unworthy. I won't burden you with what is gonna happen when you join the ugly as each day passes. It's really no big deal, you just lose vapid value every single day as each day passes as you realize yesterday was the best you. But it's never yesterday. It's always only now. So you never even get to be your best you, that only existed yesterday. Humour me please I'm almost done being a sanctimonious asshole who cannot resist the urge to be a smug prick. That's a fact. And facts are facts. I bow before your wisdom of facts being facts. A thing is the exact thing that it is. Facts. That's so profound I think all of philosophy is basically completed. There is no one capable of being your peer so I speak for humanity when I ask; when will the next paradigm changing 3 self referencing words be released? I mean of course after it's been proofread and after the facts are facts checked and then graciously edited down for the uglies. No rush no pressure but people are suffering without these 3 words. Okay I'm done.. now fuck my shit up.

[@Christrulesall2]

That flag is bad ass bro.

[@WoziduranJahemter]

The sad part for the parasited weak vessels is that the parasites leave their bodies if they die, the parasites migrate to other weak hosts.

[@santanapage5044]

Exactly!

[@MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure]

I agree because if those people don't get their way- they do and say things that could lead to pandemics. I use to be kind of needy now I'm like just go with the flow. Alot of medical workers won't show you they are capable of evil with their knowledge, they are meek with it, and then damn. Oh I am around people sometimes like that, but what I do is continue on my journey.

[@Trini190]

Had a friend like this she was bipolar

[@JohnDoe-op8nn]

What measure you judge others is the same measure you will be judged by

[@leek5682]

Not going to be the same in just a couple months, and I know I’ll get the appropriate love and hate for that positive change.

[@madbroshow4731]

People love talking to me but that always brought ppl who lie and try to get ppl to turn on me

[@kisigma1011]

Facts bruh now I keep away

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

I love girls who can hold proper eye contact , because I am the realist who live in reality ! They arent on my level and out of my league bro !

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

I feel very very very good to put myself inside bros like you , always

[@SurroundedByClowns1926]

It’s like those that excessively laugh/smile out of joy at the expense of someone’s serious approach it’s like bro GTFOH some that display these characteristics aren’t always bad they go on pleasure rather than sacrifice and hard work I completely understand where you’re coming from I’d rather be emotionally unavailable to those that pretend and be emotionally available to those that are emotionally available to us it is what it is it’s about giving to receive #TeamWork #MakeTheDreamsWork

[@Jessica-jn4tj]

And I'm prepared to do it a d risk to live it cuz I know I'm ready to be knowledged enough to do so

[@Jessica-jn4tj]

Travelwise

[@Jessica-jn4tj]

Even through a cub through 1986 mother tiger sacrifice through nature motherhood astrology What would I feel need to protect my Den? I have 3 cubs that I actually risked to sacrifice to keep them alive warm safe comfortable and have all their needs provided

[@markrandall2997]

Preach!!!

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

Turkmenistanis boys webs , same energy bro lol 😂😂😂💨💨💨🏇🏇🏇

[@robertweinmann1657]

It’s goes so much deeper ✝️

[@EnjoyitMusicMatt]

omg needed this

[@guygill7827]

U have come along way ur channel is a inspiration for me.

[@Jessica-jn4tj]

Mad respect

[@lifelessonswithjo]

I like the hat and flag....😉. I think those people are energy vampires.

[@HiddenMeadowMus]

Alot of people are

[@krisgoldek]

What success? 9 to 5? Being looked through like a ghost and feeling like a ghost all the time because I got no one? That success?

[@alessandraaversa6421]

I've had to axe a few of these lately...or set strict boundaries

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

Get rid off tiny takers since they were kids ! Use me to support his son in Germany ? I dismissed him and his son show those losers my success and physic🥊🥊🥊

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

I cook best Chinese dishes for them ? That's how my energy will get right ! Get lost from my huge house and don't even touch my grass

[@justagurl555]

Thank god I was smart in some investments. I’ve been in WA state less than 48 hours. It’s the biggest shit hole I’ve ever lived in. Drug addicts, homeless, everyone on disability. No one has a clue what’s happening in America. They simply don’t give a F. I’m out and I know where I’m headed.❤️🇱🇷

[@petarhustle]

Where can I book a consultation, bro?

[@WoziduranJahemter]

Agreed, the subject of these distractors tormentors posers is important. They also make rehearsals to apologize to come back to exploit and then shiftblame or to stay dormant to drain and then to blackmail or to manipulate by covert tactics. They are so nicey nice to other people to trick and then force them into their dellusion narative and then they use the common folks to put them in a horde mass mentality for condemning the ones who are high in competence, accountability and compassion, why? Because they can't cultivate, they just scavenge others work.

[@simplyjayfilms]

Thank you

[@stellachandler4719]

Thanks For all of your video's Terry. They all resonate with me.☘️☘️

[@Heavenologist007]

Wow I just learn my 2nd hubby Larry died good man

[@母韻]

i like the flag touch to the video

[@Heavenologist007]

my son and his son did so much fun family things together from chocolate factory to video games and playing the game sorry as a family and his sisters cookies his twin.

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

Hey bro ! Contained in my own strongest contained frame , set boundaries with something like German Turkish men I met on my roads . Get rid of them