Closure - A Film about Consent by Tinder | Ft. Kavya Trehan and Mrinal Dutt

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@devdathshivaji2154
@devdathshivaji2154 2 жыл бұрын
thanks for taking the effort for making this video and letting me and all of us know on how important taking consent is. I'm very glad I got to witness this and will keep this with me forever.
@bethbrave
@bethbrave 3 жыл бұрын
We should also make an extended video where people know how to take a 'no' and also, the person who isn't comfortable should say 'no' when they are not feeling it instead of doing things because they don't want to upset the other person or don't want to ruin the moment.
@Volvo-f2y
@Volvo-f2y 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, both genders.
@edjkt5929
@edjkt5929 2 жыл бұрын
Wow they turned your suggestion in to a video 🙌
@mart1jin509
@mart1jin509 2 жыл бұрын
Teaching people how to say no, and set boundaries is very important. However, it's just as important for people to ask yes; it's a brief question. Just say; is this okay. If a person doesn't say yes while looking you in the eyes, consider it a no. And that's okay.
@mart1jin509
@mart1jin509 2 жыл бұрын
@LyciumR This is the most nonsense thing I've read all day. There is no law mandating written consent in the presence of witnesses for consensual sex. This kind of misinformation troubles the consent movement. Verbal consent does absolutely have legal, ethical, and moral meaning. Lastly, you appear to be suggesting that only women can/ have to give consent, both partners should explicitly give consent.
@mart1jin509
@mart1jin509 2 жыл бұрын
@LyciumR I think we should be careful not to exaggerate. Yes, women have wrongly accused an innocent men of rape, this however not common at all and does not lower the need for verbal consent prior and during sex.
@AbhishekKumar-xj7lg
@AbhishekKumar-xj7lg 2 жыл бұрын
05:33 "But You didn't say No" "But I didn't said Yes!" Perfect depiction 👏
@vaishnavikandwal9274
@vaishnavikandwal9274 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely on point. Violation of consent is less due to "lack of communication", and more due to a "sense of entitlement". If it's not a yes, then it's a no by default. We really need to understand this and stop dissmissing the issue of intimate violence, which is so serious and traumatic as a "misunderstanding".
@saundarypatel180
@saundarypatel180 3 жыл бұрын
communication is just not about words being spoken its a path which we choose to convey our feelings to our partners which sometimes isn't properly done and their are various factors which affects efficiency. So , I feel sense of entitlement is a case where communication is not taken into consideration but where communication (equality) is on priority, lack of communication plays a very important role and it is not the thing to be blamed, it is a thing which should be considered to solve, bcoz it's not necessary that everyone have a good communication skill.
@fatimaansari3628
@fatimaansari3628 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, so by your logic if it’s not a no it’s a yes by default. People need to say express their non-consent more clearly than simply by omission of consent.
@anushkas.1168
@anushkas.1168 2 жыл бұрын
" in the fear of disappointing you, i disappointed myself!" Thank you for expressing the emotion ❤
@UjjwalKumar-tq5de
@UjjwalKumar-tq5de 3 жыл бұрын
Apparently, consent is everything. Never looked at it like that
@smithypp6208
@smithypp6208 3 жыл бұрын
It most certainly is! :)
@winterstorms5
@winterstorms5 3 жыл бұрын
"Consent doesn't mean an absence of a No , it means the presence of a Yes."
@ishanichowdhury9258
@ishanichowdhury9258 2 жыл бұрын
The best part for me was when Ria too asked for permission... It must always be equal
@msdhoni5518
@msdhoni5518 2 жыл бұрын
Why it always portrayed as women know consent and men doesn't 🙄
@uxphoria
@uxphoria Жыл бұрын
@@msdhoni5518 you must be delusional to ask that.. women know the importance of consent because they've gone through the lack of it, more than 95% of women have been harrassed and that too from a very young age so we know what it means to be in that situation and men, they are the ones that exploit these consents. the portrayals of consent is getting more and more distributed and equal and it should reach into completed equality but only when the violation of consent ( or respect of a person's consent) gets equal.
@kyachahiye
@kyachahiye 3 жыл бұрын
When I moved to England and I was treated this way by men here knowing this concept is very common have been going for a while I realised what I had been missing. Consent!
@avikchakraborty9330
@avikchakraborty9330 3 жыл бұрын
I could relate this so much although it was not of this extent.I know no amount of apology could make up for an incident like this. And being a guy, I can say, it's time we as guys need to realise how much important consent is in a relationship. We never understand what the girl goes through in a situation like this. And once something like this happens, nothing can be made right, how much one tries. Thank you so much @Tinder for curating a content like this. I hope this educates people, before something of this sort happens and I wish no girl goes through this.
@manjarimishra2165
@manjarimishra2165 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly so true it's important for both the partners to get each other to knw how they feel and to remember that CONSENT is a thing which needs to be valued!
@nandini6266
@nandini6266 2 жыл бұрын
I have to gone through it it's very hard to say no and then convince
@TinderIndia
@TinderIndia 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching and letting it resonate so deeep 🔥🙌
@shashankke250
@shashankke250 2 жыл бұрын
But I think u r just virtue signalling 🤔 Why only men should value consent, even women should also value consent. Yea conset is important and crucial, but to what is the extent? For every move a man makes should he ask for consent🤔? Liked how they showed the gay couples are sensible enough that they are asking for consent, but a man does not. There are some women who kind of bite etc- should she also ask for consent? Because even men have to put up against un- consented sex. I think communication is the key, because consent is product of good communication. Plus tinder did really care about girls and it's users, then it would atleast keep a background verification for all men & women - so that a rapist can't join tinder or blackmailing ring(both men & women) swindle Money from innocent people.
@dhwanipatel8327
@dhwanipatel8327 2 жыл бұрын
getting with a person who clicked your photo on beach without your consent and gives the excuse "I didn't ask because you would have said no" is a mistake already but sometimes we just can't help how ew feel about someone and how we end up feeling that anyway. it was good video, thanks for bringing awareness
@astanopasta
@astanopasta 3 жыл бұрын
Guys in case of assault or abuse within a relationship, it's not just that women (or anyone whose boundaries are broken) feel that they are helpless, powerless and that their feelings don't matter, it's more of the trauma it gives you. The trauma that said person could be so different from what you perceived them to be, from what you loved them for, that they didn't care enough, you start questioning their whole personality and if this relationship was just in your head. Most importantly if it will happen again, and if they could change for worse.
@TheSamriddha
@TheSamriddha 3 жыл бұрын
This is by far the most beautiful portrayal of CONSENT... Thank you for sharing this so simply !! I just hope it becomes easier for everyone who have not been able to say no ❤️
@anuragsharma1498
@anuragsharma1498 3 жыл бұрын
Did consent matters??? No
@anuragsharma1498
@anuragsharma1498 3 жыл бұрын
@Eyeflee Crowbasl in my case consent did not matter ,,beacuse my gf is my left hand,,,,🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@swagatmaharana2532
@swagatmaharana2532 3 жыл бұрын
@@anuragsharma1498 Bro I get the whole consent thing but Imagine having moment and the girl asks you make I kiss you . If you are following USA politics you will understand why this AD is mad .It's for USA not India .Like 95% arrange marriage .preety sure no one asks consent their .
@Emptytopfloor
@Emptytopfloor Жыл бұрын
@@swagatmaharana2532 consent is for marriage as well.
@SudShivangi
@SudShivangi 3 жыл бұрын
There's nothing about this movie that isn't perfect.
@dhwanishah7668
@dhwanishah7668 3 жыл бұрын
The narrative is seamlessly compiled divulging so many stories and relationships. The plot seems natural and relatable to me, as our society doesn't teach consent. In the wake of Me Too and women finally speaking up for themselves, CONSENT actually has a powerful meaning to it and can make or break relationships. I hope this film reaches a lot of people.
@sapna_creation1
@sapna_creation1 2 жыл бұрын
The lines...I didn't disappoint myself, in the fear of disappointing you.....touch really deep inside. Sometimes we do injustice with ourselves to get acceptance from others.
@jeelbhadesiya9937
@jeelbhadesiya9937 3 жыл бұрын
This video is literally my life... Each and everything it said!!! Haven't seen a video as accurate. Thank you.
@prakashkandpal7182
@prakashkandpal7182 3 жыл бұрын
Finally girl looking happy because she got a prefect partner. HOPE he will always ask before touching her. Happy Ending. Moral of the story (khamoshi agar teri majbori he, to rehne de na, isq konsa jaruri he).
@sujanvishwanath4567
@sujanvishwanath4567 3 жыл бұрын
I AM IN TEARS, this is the most beautiful short movie I’ve seen in a while. ♥️
@rehanjoshivlogs9417
@rehanjoshivlogs9417 3 жыл бұрын
Tuui8887 is 7PM 8pp
@shripriyaarya329
@shripriyaarya329 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't understand 😕😕why everyone is praising like what the video wants to deliver😕😕
@manyamishra6806
@manyamishra6806 2 жыл бұрын
@@shripriyaarya329 the guy had sex with her despite her implying that she didn't want to in different ways like rejecting his advances when they were in bed together but he didn't take either of that into consideration because she wasn't saying "no" but what he missed was that she never said "yes" either and he didn't realise it till she spelled it out for him. This video is talking about the idea that "anything except yes is a no" and now after breaking up with him she found someone who asks her and respects what she wants to in an expressed way
@shripriyaarya329
@shripriyaarya329 2 жыл бұрын
@@manyamishra6806 thank you 😮now I feel the audience here , this is a good video
@firdos1069
@firdos1069 2 жыл бұрын
A simple yet powerful portrayal about consent. And yes the time has come when guys can also say "no" without the fear of "she will think am not man enough", "she will break up", "she will go to someone else"... Dear Ladies, we should also take a no in sporting spirits rather than taking it directly proportional to our physical beauty. The rule of consent applies to both the genders.
@msdhoni5518
@msdhoni5518 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Consent is potrayed as something only men should learn.
@cr-pz5ou
@cr-pz5ou Жыл бұрын
@@msdhoni5518 what if someone is introvert who never talk to a girl in his entire life
@msdhoni5518
@msdhoni5518 Жыл бұрын
@@cr-pz5ou Didn't get you
@MonikaMonikaaD
@MonikaMonikaaD 2 жыл бұрын
a lot of times, we ourselves don't understand consent, and thus aren't able to uphold our physical boundaries when they're being crossed. and later, we realize that our boundaries have been overstepped. and that comes along with a bad feeling. this is so necessary to be taught, the concept of consent and boundaries.
@anoushkam5742
@anoushkam5742 2 жыл бұрын
The first 4-5 dialogues in the video fit so perfectly with the theme! So beautifully directed
@siyamishra8894
@siyamishra8894 3 жыл бұрын
this is just sooo beautiful. Best thing I saw today. Made my heart smile literally. Hope everyone could be able to understand this!
@rimjhimsharma97
@rimjhimsharma97 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this. I didn’t know I needed to see this. In tears.
@PrantikaJagannath
@PrantikaJagannath 2 жыл бұрын
Once my guy said he doesn't want to do it. And we didn't do it. Respect consent!
@akankshavakode2565
@akankshavakode2565 3 жыл бұрын
Sex education in India is so fucked up that you don’t even know that you’re supposed to say no when you don’t want to do it. Me being a people pleasing person myself wanted him to like me. Hence I didn’t say no and he went on, he didn’t stop. I was crying that night. The pain was unbearable. I understood that whatever happened in the past was wrong when I met my current partner. I was in shock when he saw me suffering while I was with him. He just straight up said “it’s okay if it hurts, we can try some other time” and I was in tears. Absolute tears. Amazing work Tinder. Hats off.
@adwayduttagupta9887
@adwayduttagupta9887 3 жыл бұрын
Sex Education is all about promoting children's openness to sexual pleasure. (This year USA education system added a new subject on sex in 2nd and 3rd-grade children's textbooks. I had gone through it and it was so disgusting that it will ruin all their childhood dreams). But this video is more fucked up. Who needs consent when something is happening mutually? Either, she was too weak to speak up or suffering from a lot of complications in her life. This video is only for a small group of people who are not very straight about their decisions and ruining the whole concept of love.
@srishtisrivastava513
@srishtisrivastava513 3 жыл бұрын
@@adwayduttagupta9887 you're relpy is the most fucked up thing I read today, with all due respect.. YOU ARE WRONG , YOUR CONCEPT IS WRONG, asking your partner of they're okay..and on case they are not then telling them "it's okay" is peak romance and love..
@lakshyadalal8296
@lakshyadalal8296 3 жыл бұрын
@@srishtisrivastava513 true
@lakshyadalal8296
@lakshyadalal8296 3 жыл бұрын
@@adwayduttagupta9887to be honest your thinking mentality is wrong Please fix it
@adwayduttagupta9887
@adwayduttagupta9887 3 жыл бұрын
@@lakshyadalal8296 how come your mentality is correct when you yourself being a human have the limitation of knowledge to know what is right and wrong? I have put my honest reply here and if you can't digest whatever goes against your thought then let yourself suffer from cognitive dissonance.
@StupidAlien_1st
@StupidAlien_1st 3 жыл бұрын
Gosh! Beautifully put . Kudos to the team who have made this
@ShinjanGhosh
@ShinjanGhosh 3 жыл бұрын
Consent is a very important requisite and so as communication. I guess this video has well depicted the lack of proper communication in their relationship... Sometimes, some people are a bit lacking in comprehending nonverbal cues of communication and at that point the other person must come verbal and discuss the issues together.... The guy didn't looked forceful or entitled, he was processing the information in a different way than what the girl wanted him to.... I guess if they would have had communicated better about it then they could have had something wonderful.... In order to be in an egalitarian perspective, we must understand that not being able to say 'No' and not being able to understand non verbal cues of 'No' are both Imperfections and must be embraced with care and concern and must be worked on... In a nutshell, a good attempt with some reductionistic flaws.
@saundarypatel180
@saundarypatel180 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly i do agree, we can't punish people on basis of there level of understanding. Both have there own way of processing information from each other which need to be discussed and communication. That definitely will bring awareness for coming generations and also to the people who are trying to understand. And give them a happy journey in their lives
@sanarao8130
@sanarao8130 2 жыл бұрын
I agree but it's really important for everyone involved in the relationship to say the word 'yes'. No objection, or silence is not the same as consent. Enthusiastic consent should be from both parties, or just don't do it.
@shreyaserande
@shreyaserande 3 жыл бұрын
You are the best Kavya Ma’am ❤️✨
@PritakshiR
@PritakshiR 3 жыл бұрын
This is so beautifully put together and so important, absolutely loved it
@ritikajoshi489
@ritikajoshi489 2 ай бұрын
I faced the same thing in my last relationship. In order to keep him in my life, I lost myself. Thanks for sharing this beautiful story with us ❤
@saundarypatel180
@saundarypatel180 3 жыл бұрын
Intention should always be problem solving for both and consent should be from both side not just for equality, society and surveys but also for individual development of every human being. Even if 1/100 is suffering then also there is some issue which is needed to be resolved.
@janhavisatpute4390
@janhavisatpute4390 2 жыл бұрын
I keep coming back to this short film yaar 🥺🥺
@TinderIndia
@TinderIndia 2 жыл бұрын
Can't wait for you to discover the rest of our episodes
@olympicadoloi
@olympicadoloi 2 жыл бұрын
“No doesn’t mean convince me. “
@vaibhav.singhal
@vaibhav.singhal 3 жыл бұрын
Didn't know she acted so well too
@dezen0007
@dezen0007 2 жыл бұрын
just wonderful . the performance and the message they give is great . changed me in someway
@Alice-up4hm
@Alice-up4hm 2 жыл бұрын
it's not a hyperbole at all how she looked so miserable in the first relationship and so radiant in the second. the feeling of confusion and violation of consent FUCKS you up.
@narwhaltulip9597
@narwhaltulip9597 2 жыл бұрын
"you didnt say no" BUT I DIDNT SAY YES MT GOD, I WAS LITTERALLY CRYING AND YOU STILL THOUHGT IT WAS OUT OF PLEASURE? THEN WHEN I TELL U I WASNT COMOFORTABLE YOU TELL ME HOW I WAS HAVING FUN, I- anyways, great film
@justenjoy3744
@justenjoy3744 9 күн бұрын
subtle message at 2:42 It's not Can I, It's May I. Love how he changed the wording
@shauryaoberoi5169
@shauryaoberoi5169 3 жыл бұрын
consent is a must
@uttaras93
@uttaras93 3 жыл бұрын
I loved this, so much. It hurt because it was so real but also the most refreshing thing. Thank you 🌸
@mistical_vista
@mistical_vista 2 жыл бұрын
I just love this short film so much, I always watch it. It just feel so safe when there's that Warmness in consent.
@jagannathmohanty2308
@jagannathmohanty2308 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with it, but consent is not always verbal or supposed be Or should be always between two people, there are people who have a bond, connection and telepathic connection and different way of expressing love and consent, some couple just wish to silently expect hugs and kisses from each other without even asking, they just want each other to read their heart and mind and give surprise.
@arpitvrm
@arpitvrm 3 жыл бұрын
great🙌🏻.....consent is must...if its for small or big thing.
@Alice-up4hm
@Alice-up4hm 2 жыл бұрын
her guy asked "is this okay?" and i had a full blown mental breakdown. just trauma things.
@pragya1833
@pragya1833 3 жыл бұрын
To anyone who relates to this video. Learn to say no and improve your communication skills. It's going to be uncomfortable but it's going to be worth it. If you can't say no, learn the art of saying no, it's possible, I've done it. It's no one else's responsibility, it's yours. In this particular video, it seems like all of this could've been sorted with clear communication, you shouldn't expect others to accomodate. It's no one else's responsibility to understand your indirect cues, if someone isn't able to understand it and you know this person doesn't have any intention to hurt you, you must come clear and talk things through yes it's going to be uncomfortable and unpleasant but that's the price you have to pay for a better relationship. Please don't expect others to accomodate for you, you have to develop a spine and stand up for yourself that is the best long term solution to this problem.
@saundarypatel180
@saundarypatel180 3 жыл бұрын
I am feeling relieved and also grateful to people who really put their efforts to make things better not only for their own but also for the development of the society. Thank you 😊
@ashigupta4889
@ashigupta4889 3 жыл бұрын
Well said👍
@DhirajKumar-vr3dg
@DhirajKumar-vr3dg 2 жыл бұрын
Always say no to your boyfriend.
@pallavipanda7812
@pallavipanda7812 2 жыл бұрын
It's actually not that easy for everyone and we shouldn't victim blame. You can do it and that's amazing. But not everyone can. That doesn't mean they lack communication skills. That just means the person's of expressing things are different.
@nkdagur718
@nkdagur718 3 жыл бұрын
I've no words to describe it just......👌👌😍
@Arjunrastogi9802
@Arjunrastogi9802 Жыл бұрын
Man never thought it was important.. Glad to learn a life lesson.. Thank you for making this video...
@somdyutimukherjee6044
@somdyutimukherjee6044 3 жыл бұрын
A Ria Singh film ❤️
@akankshachandra3756
@akankshachandra3756 3 жыл бұрын
Such a real story but I can't make him understand yet.. we are on different path now I guess
@pratyushagarwal3115
@pratyushagarwal3115 2 жыл бұрын
Genuinely good content! It’s been a while watching something like this.❤
@sergeylaikin2360
@sergeylaikin2360 3 жыл бұрын
A complicated subject projected too simplistically, as a result more confusion. A practise becomes a norm.
@saundarypatel180
@saundarypatel180 3 жыл бұрын
Its the practice which is really necessary to make things better
@shrutibairagi3696
@shrutibairagi3696 3 жыл бұрын
Wow how beautifully depicted ❤️ Loved the content ! Fresh and pretty ❤️
@shraddhanjalisahoo7879
@shraddhanjalisahoo7879 2 жыл бұрын
We needed it.Thank you so much.❤
@abheykalia5393
@abheykalia5393 3 жыл бұрын
Bg music by F16s and such a important topic. Instantly liked!!
@bhavishya7694
@bhavishya7694 3 жыл бұрын
Kush kush, you beauty 🌻
@christabellelysander4392
@christabellelysander4392 3 жыл бұрын
So beautiful!!
@tanmayasahu5171
@tanmayasahu5171 3 жыл бұрын
People in the comment section need to understand this Online Dating culture is fairly new to humans, so the nuances it brings with it will take much time to get entranced in the society, Internet surely fast-forward the Awareness process So surely it will get better with time as we progress
@sangeetatrehan7726
@sangeetatrehan7726 3 жыл бұрын
Very natural and well curated .
@adritabanik5708
@adritabanik5708 2 жыл бұрын
This was so relatable and nicely showed in this video plus how it should be Loved it so much
@TinderIndia
@TinderIndia 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@deekshachaubey2649
@deekshachaubey2649 3 жыл бұрын
The only thing that's wrong (unrealistic) about this video is that, in the end, the guy understands what consent is. My ex never understood what consent is. Some guys never understand.
@ShinjanGhosh
@ShinjanGhosh 3 жыл бұрын
When you are already saying that "some guys never understand", you are also indicating that "some guys do understand". Then, how is the ending (when the guy understood consent) is unrealistic? He may be among the guys who understand eventually... Think about it ❤️
@lakshyadalal8296
@lakshyadalal8296 3 жыл бұрын
Not all men are same !!! If your ex didn't understand it ; it doesn't mean everybody doesn't Kuch dimag-daar log bhi hai is dunia me!!
@aarshbharti6234
@aarshbharti6234 2 жыл бұрын
After so long. I found a sense of satisfaction after watching this video. Keep these contents on going ...
@shinflora1233
@shinflora1233 2 жыл бұрын
Love this love this.....this is by far the most amazing way to show the whole concept of consent..... I mean , you could be in deeply in love with someone and still ask for consent
@saundarypatel180
@saundarypatel180 3 жыл бұрын
Instead of commenting people should start discussing things together and its not one sided. There are people including me whose mind gets blown and fucked up, just to understand the best possible solution, which won't be because nothing is perfect. There are various people with different attitudes and liking. Even during sex, different people feel different and different positions. So its really very difficult. And these things can go smoothly only and only people start discussing together to understand each other. I personally and logically didn't like the video but i learnt something from it. And obviously it has nothing to do with gender. Male and female both are the two front wheels of a car equal in positions but with different tracks. So finally its equally important for both of them to take a step forward together. And this logic of understanding things by looking and feeling is okay but should have some boundaries. Breaking those boundaries will lead to distirbances. And i definitely agree, that no. Of female victims are more than male. And suffering is not for male and female its about every individual what he/she feels when he/she is a victim.
@msdhoni5518
@msdhoni5518 2 жыл бұрын
What is your source that their are more female victims than male?
@saundarypatel180
@saundarypatel180 2 жыл бұрын
@@msdhoni5518 I think, I have mentioned few other things too related which are quite important to focus than what you are asking for is the no. Which may vary accordingly. 😊🙏
@msdhoni5518
@msdhoni5518 2 жыл бұрын
@@saundarypatel180 No one can accurately say what no of male/ female victims are there. So your claim is baseless.
@saundarypatel180
@saundarypatel180 2 жыл бұрын
@@msdhoni5518 bro , I gave my perspective, its you who is considering it as a claim 😂😂. You like it take it , else I am not going to delete my comment 😂😂
@saundarypatel180
@saundarypatel180 2 жыл бұрын
@@msdhoni5518 I am not here to define or correct your understanding 😂🙏
@mahimas3854
@mahimas3854 2 жыл бұрын
This is sooooo good🥺❤️loved it💝
@diyadutta9334
@diyadutta9334 2 жыл бұрын
It's a really good message to everyone.. so good .. just loved the concept .. i hope everyone watch this video to get educated and awareness of consent❤
@veereshkumar6861
@veereshkumar6861 3 жыл бұрын
this is amazing short movie....one of my fvrts❤
@abhijithselvam2115
@abhijithselvam2115 2 жыл бұрын
What about the guy? What he did is wrong. But look at it from his pov. The poor dude loved her and gave his whole heart to her. If she would have said all these stuff to him before I'm pretty sure he would have tried his best to make her feel comfortable and would have worked on the relationship. The fact that everyone only cares about the girl and no fucking body cares about him just cuz he is a guy is not right. Poor guy would have been in shock to realize that he abused the same girl he truley loved. If she had loved him she would have opened up. But yes what he did is wrong. And it's really sad that the girl had to go through all that. Nice short film though.
@snuppl512
@snuppl512 2 жыл бұрын
I do get your point. But like you said, the girl suffered and boy also to some extent with his recklessness. So that's why we need to be more careful and conscious while doing sensitive things
@hrituhkv1508
@hrituhkv1508 2 жыл бұрын
Can't h see that she doesn't want what he wants? And this is not one timer. It's happening again and againn. How can go again once she doesn't want it? Can''t he try to talk with her or try to improve the damage done by him or try to apologize all the mistakes?? Why instead of doing that all he just choosed to fulfill his own wants and cravings?? It's just selfishness and nth else.
@adityamodi6043
@adityamodi6043 3 жыл бұрын
Good way to explain !!
@thescenesinners1694
@thescenesinners1694 3 жыл бұрын
After a long time seen some really refreshing short. Loved it 😍
@sourajsarkar2998
@sourajsarkar2998 3 жыл бұрын
Ok great initiative. But what happens a guy does not want to do it?
@meanderer9705
@meanderer9705 3 жыл бұрын
Nothing😂
@snuppl512
@snuppl512 2 жыл бұрын
Then say no. No means no, to anyone whoever it is. Boy or Girl.
@eel_yo18
@eel_yo18 2 жыл бұрын
I wanna like this video 1000 times
@TinderIndia
@TinderIndia 2 жыл бұрын
We also hate the we can only love and like this comment just once 🥺
@akashbose9253
@akashbose9253 3 жыл бұрын
So I need thousands of yes to reach g-spot no wonder it's difficult
@waltissussybakka
@waltissussybakka 3 жыл бұрын
Wtf
@meanderer9705
@meanderer9705 3 жыл бұрын
@Imagination bro u just nailed it.....feels like u stole my words👏👏👏
@lolong5976
@lolong5976 3 жыл бұрын
@Imagination so like are you saying we are same as the animals in the jungle?? Or you're saying men have this animalistic instinct for sex? And asking for consent is reason for de-population? In a country which is already populated lol. Y'all seem pretty triggered over a video which is showing importance of consent. Says a lot about y'all
@lolong5976
@lolong5976 3 жыл бұрын
@Imagination you're clearly triggered now. Since you went on ranting with not one but two replies. And gotta love how you pressed for no reason guys will play your mental gymnastics to prove your bs points. By bringing all the irrelevant things. Y'all really love to compare apples with oranges, don't y'all?? And humans are animals. But there are some things which differentiates us. Ever heard of conscious awareness? Individual thought processing?? A tiger can only be a tiger. When he is hungry he hunts, and then eats. But he can never be a deer. He cannot just choose to go vegan. He will eat flesh. But humans are different. If you're hungry asf you can still choose not to eat. You can refrain from it. It's common sense. And you're really justifying r a pe here. You do understand if you have sex with someone without their clear consent, It's r a pe. Even coercion exists. Please educate yourself first. You need that. And if your animal instincts bs was true then most of us men are potential ra p ist then. Can you really not understand this simple thing?? And your point of asking for consent over everything in a relationship means you're not interested is as Stoopid as you. Cause if you actually respect your partner you will respect their consent. You will consider their emotions before forcing your own on them. You will ask if they are okay with anything you're doing. If you actually care about them more than your lust. And once you've been together for long then it becomes natural you m o ron. But in a fresh relationship you cannot just force yourself. You are supposed to respect each other boundaries. Just cause your partner is okay with kissing you doesn't mean they are okay with sex as well. Give them time. After a while it's get normalized and then you don't ask for consent on silly things. But in the beginning it matters. I really like, how to prove your point you victimised yourself and brought up completely irrelevant issues. Also Hy po crisy is strong with you. Cause first you said consent exists in business and laws. But then in your second reply you ranted about alimony and child support. Which is law itself. Lmao. You aren't even smart enough to see your own Hy po crisy. But yeah go off comparing oranges with apples cause you don't want to ask for a decent and basic thing. Your whole mindset is of a potential r a pist since you're going out of your way to defend your point. No wonder you're whining about false allegations and all. You're scared cause you probably-
@bellbottom3202
@bellbottom3202 3 жыл бұрын
@Imagination Dude, ignore the triggered one. She is not discussing but being disrespectful and making personal attacks. That’s what she can do.
@shivanipise2154
@shivanipise2154 3 жыл бұрын
this is so beautiful. perfectly shown.❤❤
@dr.pareek_0650
@dr.pareek_0650 3 жыл бұрын
Wow.... how beautifully curated !! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@sresthadey5097
@sresthadey5097 3 жыл бұрын
This girl is portraying me.🙂 I was crying while watching this. :')
@princyrawat4928
@princyrawat4928 3 жыл бұрын
beautiful portrayal of consent.
@Lazymath007_
@Lazymath007_ 2 жыл бұрын
She could have just said no though…
@nikki0859
@nikki0859 3 жыл бұрын
For the first time in my life im thankful for this❣❣🙏
@vidhantkadam2109
@vidhantkadam2109 3 жыл бұрын
Great film, great message but the way in the end asking questions like that in real life... I feel the romance would become less between the partners. Yes we should take consent but the way they asked each other in the end is quite unnatural.
@ananyat6481
@ananyat6481 3 жыл бұрын
That’s just the representation of how he took care of what she went through her past relationship and gave her the power to show her consent first 😇
@faariashaikh255
@faariashaikh255 3 жыл бұрын
U are very wrong at this. This doesn't reduce the romance instead it brings more feelings for the guy in the girl's heart. My ex-bf always used to take consent from me & that was the reason I still love & think about him
@meanderer9705
@meanderer9705 3 жыл бұрын
@@woodsfloatsecret242 bro this film did not show one thing thats always gonna happen, i.e. the girl filing an ipc 376 fir.....so if u r not intending on spending ur time behind bars i would say even go to the extent of recording the consent.....its a very slippery slope
@meanderer9705
@meanderer9705 3 жыл бұрын
@@woodsfloatsecret242 thats exactly what i understood and replied too bro....u misunderstood me
@rajparekh4572
@rajparekh4572 3 жыл бұрын
What a master piece story writer at point all was awesome and message was clear
@aiswarya.suresh.
@aiswarya.suresh. 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful nd Rare!
@sync1832
@sync1832 2 жыл бұрын
yes leaving good boys for bad boys is the result of such thing
@bhinitrout539
@bhinitrout539 3 жыл бұрын
Didn't expect something like this from tinder
@varupant1
@varupant1 2 жыл бұрын
I believe the consent should be done on OTP or biometric .One can't trust the liars when they will deny the yes.
@manyakaushik9239
@manyakaushik9239 2 жыл бұрын
"Then everything would've been different" broke me
@missektasharma2614
@missektasharma2614 3 ай бұрын
Just "SUNO" !!
@paramadas1174
@paramadas1174 2 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful film... Truly ❤
@ishapabreja662
@ishapabreja662 3 жыл бұрын
Some lines literally touch me.😌😌
@donjohnny5571
@donjohnny5571 3 жыл бұрын
I hope they took consent first.
@mobbdeep9600
@mobbdeep9600 3 жыл бұрын
This movie is not at all relatable for me because I haven't been with anyone till now. I don't know why but I somehow empathise with the guy. Probably he is raised with no touch, no interaction with girls at all and then became a playboy following the popular date tricks and stuff like that. Since, I have no relationship experience till now, I can still imagine myself in the guys place being so much craving for touch/intimacy that the physicality of that love is equal to crossing the boundary. However, I think/hope that things will be different when I will actually be in a relationship because I think I am in general an empathetic person. Though I crave for human touch, intimacy but I am not sure if one is entitled to it in a relationship, I guess I will find out. Probably, my empathy for my partner will save me from being that guy. One more thing I think is that they both probably fell for the charisma and looks of each other. probably this is what leads people to push their boundaries to maintain the relationships for longer instead of simply saying no. Please make a movie with ugly protagonists like me. Also, I haven't said anything from the girl's perspective because It will be pretense and most likely dishonest.(So, "my other half" stage is yours, leave a reply. XD)
@ishapabreja662
@ishapabreja662 3 жыл бұрын
Just beautiful 😌❤
@abhradipkabasi9283
@abhradipkabasi9283 2 жыл бұрын
If you're a guy don't skip the gay romance part. Actually the crucial part of the story is present there so you will have to skip back to that
@manasapatil00
@manasapatil00 2 жыл бұрын
No one can imagine the amount of happiness this video gives me .
@bharatharumugam6777
@bharatharumugam6777 3 жыл бұрын
Watch it twice for better understanding!
@shevaninattath
@shevaninattath 3 жыл бұрын
Loveeeeeed it. This is so heart touching and beautiful ❤️
@SudakshinaMaitra
@SudakshinaMaitra 2 жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful
@MonikaMonikaaD
@MonikaMonikaaD 2 жыл бұрын
unless it's an enthusiastic yes, it's a no. get this straight, ppl
@Captiveofdreams
@Captiveofdreams 2 жыл бұрын
Gem of content .....still underrated.
@divya_sancheti04
@divya_sancheti04 2 жыл бұрын
This is so beautifully explained!
@TinderIndia
@TinderIndia 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@darcsoul5087
@darcsoul5087 2 жыл бұрын
Consent is important and we all know it. But over dramatisation of consent is dangerous. Between a couple there will be times where a lot of things happens which are not appropriate but still they should figure out if they want to live together. The woman character in this short film is shown like she is depressed like she got r**ped but all she have to do is say "no" if she is not interested. Sometimes people(Men in this sitaution) might miss little signals when she is not interested and could proceed and its her responsibility to say "no" and end it.
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