Clothing I Don't Wear As A Petite | Dearly Bethany

[@bethanyleonardo]

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[@ThePixiixiq]

You mention a jewelry brand for bracelets that has smaller sizes, I cannot for the life of me hear what you are saying. Can you recall what it is?

[@NehaSharma-pj2ho]

Just to sum it up for us : 1. Large Horizontal stripes 2. Big bold patterns 3. Ankle length strap for footwear except nude maybe 4. Oversized bags and accessories 5. Knee length skirts - go above or below 6. Juniors clothing 7. Low rise jeans

[@victoriaann4762]

Neha Sharma Thanks for the sum up! 😊 Low rise jeans are hard to avoid, though. I have a short torso, and I find that low rise makes my torso longer.

[@ivaiva6805]

Thank you

[@laura2842]

@@victoriaann4762 Ditto!!!!

[@simongaywanjala598]

God should bless you

[@keyinsa91]

I'm 152cms and any advice from you regarding clothing and fashion always helps so much. THANK YOU!

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks Keyi! So happy they are helpful 🤗

[@helenkath]

Keyi Nsa I’m 175 cm and I still find that many of these principles apply to me as well

[@myvuu9812]

I'm 153cm ^^

[@reniszabo1928]

Im 152cm too :)

[@mirysick]

I'm 150cms 😂 so this info is more than useful for me

[@irisl7817]

I really appreciate you addressing not shopping in the junior or even children's sections. I have so many of my taller friends tell me "you can just shop in the kid's sections" and they don't understand the reason why not. The really have no idea. That you for helping me get better words to explain that's not a good idea for me.

[@omggg94]

Iris L I definitely shop at the kids section at Zara. I actually get compliments whenever I wear their pieces, especially coats.

[@irisl7817]

@@omggg94 Great. Congratulations on doing what works for you. It doesn't work for everyone. I still find it insulting when people suggest it. The shape of pieces don't work for my body type; a 30F bra size and hips just don't work in the children's department. It actually doesn't work in ANY department. But helps me save money on clothes, I guess.

[@cynicalromantic]

@@irisl7817 Agree with this 100%. It's condescending, it shows a total lack of understanding on people's part about the differences in body proportion, and it's terrible advice for any petite who has ANY curves at all. I'm a grown woman, not a child, and I will dress like one, thank you very much.

[@mohanashewalkar8598]

I am a newly minted doctor and I just started working in a government setup. Being young and being in a position of authority is really difficult because there are people who are way older than me and I look like a child in comparison. So I try my best to dress smartly so people take me seriously. Your tips always help me so much. You have helped me to look approachable and still command respect. Thank you so much for that. And yup, now I have a new mantra for buying jeans, always always a high rise. Love!

[@bethanyleonardo]

Love this, Mohana! 💕

[@idbekate]

I’m in a similar position!! I’m only a med student though but Bethany’s videos have helped me soooo much. What’s hard for me though is that I especially like cute clothes (those that make me look even younger 😭)

[@elisa4620]

@@idbekate You can keep them for home, weekends and days where you don't need/care to look older :)

[@aestheticallypleasingaesth8941]

Wow! Great work Mohana!! Congrats!

[@anubhasehgal]

Great tips but it would have been better had you shown it visually

[@MeggyPeggy]

Anubha Sehgal I agree

[@ermzjerez2075]

Yep..i agree also

[@michellevergara1776]

Agree. This is youtube. Youre supposed to watch

[@MisheaHyatt]

Yeah could you just have all the clothes you hate on hand so we could get a better idea?! I'm on my way 😉

[@MisheaHyatt]

The candle would be better if it were blurred in the background. Nice touch though!

[@MeggyPeggy]

Can I just say, that candle adds a nice rustic touch!

[@Amelia-hn3jy]

I find so much peace in your videos. Your voice is so beautiful and soothing. Whenever I’ve had a long day I catch up on your videos because they help me relax due to the calm peaceful vibe they have!

[@danielahiga8508]

“Vertically challenged”!! Loved that! Next time someone makes a comment on my (lack of) height (I’m 152 cm) I’ll tell them I’m not short, I’m just “vertically challenged” :D

[@Elizabeth00488]

😂😂😂 LoL 😆

[@kittycotten]

The small versus large scale florals or prints is such a good point. While I love all floral patterns the small ones look the best on my 5 foot frame!

[@cutiepiedaina]

the way the light is bouncing off of your eyes is absolutely incredible, you have such a cinematic eye!

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks Daina! 💕

[@carolineballard5183]

I appreciate that you are lady/elegant personality. I aim to be more “lady” as I am 20 now, hard transition but you are a wonderful person to look up to. Thank you

[@danaward9975]

Completely agree, I am turning 21 next week and am slowly but surely adjusting my style to look more adult rather than how I dressed in my teens. She has taught me so much so far!

[@katiezemon1826]

I am in my 30s and have struggled with looking much younger than I am. "Where is your mommy?" someone asked me when I was out shopping in high school. Just a couple years back someone thought my husband was my father even though I am older than him. It can feel rough, especially when you notice when you're not being treated with as much respect in interviews or in the office. It is good to be given advice and realizing how to dress for a more mature look is a great start. Thank you so much for your videos.

[@Ally-ug3nq]

I'm 27 and 4'11! I'm top heavy too so it can be challenging to find clothes! Petite options do help! Being small, I can also fit into kids shoes at times! Great passion, raw and real.

[@ctalley9667]

Its so hard being petite and top heavy because from the front I always look wider than I am haha. So much harder to shop for appropriate looking tops that's not just showing off my breasts.

[@yckieh568]

I’m not that short at 164cm but you give the most amazing tricks to look taller and I’m all for it! Love from Canada!

[@juliennelomocso6294]

Bethany, you're such an inspiration! I'm a flat 5 and I'm having a difficult time trying to dress up my body. You dress well, you always seem to look tall in every photograph! I hope you'd continue to do more petite friendly series 😙😙😙

[@irairod5160]

You are so right about the ankle straps on shoes! I'm 5' 3" and don't have particularly long legs, so anything with a piece that visually cuts the line between my leg and my foot is not flattering. I do like T-straps in which the top of the T comes below the bottom of the ankle bone...I find that the vertical strap elongates my frame, especially if it's a color that doesn't contrast much with my skintone. Likewise, straps that crisscross in front of the foot look better on me than something that has a solid, wide "cuff" around the narrower part of my lower leg. But contrary to your preferences, maxi dresses are a big no-no for me. If I wear one, I look like I'm emerging from a sinkhole and half of my body is still underground. My best skirt length is just above or just below the knee. Shorter than knee-length is not good either--I feel it makes me look wider. Thank you for all your tips. It's important for everyone to develop a keen eye for scale and placement and learn which pieces and styles will communicate what we want them to, especially in the workplace, when going through major life transitions, or at any point in which we can use a little help to get us out of a funk.

[@msdanascully11]

My little tip, as a petite I try to always wear shoes that are in colour as close as possible to the trousers/skirt/dress I am wearing. I think it gives the optical illusion that legs are longer, while for example if I wear black shoes with light jeans, I look like 'chopped up', in a way

[@katharinedavis7]

Absolutely agree.

[@thesnigdhamishra]

I think a lot of your tips work for even people who are not petite as well! I'm average height (like 5"5) and I relate to the no wide horizontal stripes thing so well as I have broad shoulders. I might not be the exact demographic for this video but you're still so relatable and that's what makes your videos (and you, obviously) so amazing! Lots of love from India ❤️

[@Knapolih_16]

I agree with all of them except large bag… as a real estate agent and a mom… there’s no way out of the large bag and/or backpack ….

[@shannie4923]

Your voice is so soothing! Love to hear you talk, also very great content. Lots of love from an 158cm Chinese girl from the Netherlands

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks Shan!

[@alexs8253]

Dressing as someone with delicate features can be really tricky! I am not strictly petite, but have a body type/look that is so easily swayed by what I wear - more often than not, I find I can unintentionally look much younger than I am. For example, I recently bought a very simple, A-line, silk dress in navy blue with a white floral pattern, that would look quite laidback and casual on someone else. At first, when I tried it on, I instantly wanted to send it back - it made me look like a 12 year-old dressing up for family dinner on a Sunday...until I realised it's all about proportion and got it shortened from knee-length to mid-thigh. I now look like a woman in mid-20s enjoying her summer holiday, which is exactly what I wanted - but it's crazy how details like this can make or break an outfit. Really useful video. Please keep them coming x

[@JesselpD]

I really enjoy watching you. And like you I’m also petite, 5’1 only. So nice of you to share ur fashion styles & what are our choices to dress up. Thank you 💕

[@Piddeaux]

The thickness of the stripe might be alleviated by the intensity of contrast. By that I mean if the stripes are a dark and just a shade lighter might be less than a high contrast stripe. Dark gray and black as opposed to Bright red and white. Just a thought.

[@katharinedavis7]

I think you are right. Thank you for pointing this out.

[@CPea91]

You have such a beautiful aesthetic and a very calming voice, so happy to have found your channel.

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks Christie! So happy you're here :)

[@evamorales7503]

Hello Bethany, what a useful video! I really appreciate that you give arguments for each point. However, I believe that it would be nice to emphasize on skirts, because I find out that they are tricky to style, but when we nailed it they look great. It could be explained maybe in another video, or not, as you wish of course, and if you have time, etc. Thanks ^^

[@lorie_g]

These are great tips. You inspire me to be more thoughtful about my outfits. Thanks Bethany!

[@biancas.6283]

I agree with everything you said - it's just that I love stripes so much, I can't stay away from them. And big rings or bracelets/watches.. but I am chubbier, so those work well for me. :) Oh, and I always feel strange in maxi skirts..not sure why, but I can't wear them. Thanks, B.. I'm looking forward to more petite outfit ideas from you. :)

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks Bianca!

[@sophie9984]

I always thought I had weir proportions since I'm 154cm tall, having really short legs and a long torso and while being a bit curvier. But since I'm following your fashion advice, I feel a lot more comfortable in my body and with my looks and I'm so grateful for your constant advice since I grow so much more confidence and self-love through it. I thought maybe you could do a closet essential? After investigating your looks I picked up a few key-pieces you style a lot and I incorporated them in my own closet, but it would be nice to hear your thoughts. Lot's of love from Germany!

[@LunaVelvett]

I just found your channel, and you REALLY helped me! I'm 153cm, and I've been struggling to find clothes for my length AND width:( My mom was always buy clothes for me from junior section (even though I'm 22 rn!) And yes, most of the time, people don't take me seriously. So I'm trying to dress "more classy" these days, and your channel helped a lot! So, thank you! I hope you'll always have a lovely day! 💕

[@TheZeyre]

Thanks for the tips. Maxi does not work for me but midi does and short. I agree at the knee is a no! I am 5'4" and heels make all the difference. I do love shoes with straps but only with midi or short dresses for a 1940s flowy look. I think you have a black flowy dress that is amazing with a deep vline. No no no to knee length!!! I also like black velvet chokers. Thx B!🎇🎀🎈

[@AlaaChan]

😂😂😂 I always give the juniors section a look when I'm shopping I actually bought one of my favorite jackets which I'm in love with from there

[@sopranosadiyah]

Wonderful tips! Some of these I had not thought about. I will definitely take these observations into consideration from now on.

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks Sadiyah!

[@sarahkaniaris1236]

I really love watching your videos and learning how our eyes see things. It's so interesting to me that you can change small details to better flatter the way you look. I feel in the past I focused to much on following trends that didnt suit me. I'm still trying to learn what my personal style is, but your style has definitely made me realize how much I like simplicity and neutrals and classic versatile pieces. I really wanted to ask you where you learn these sorts of things because I would really love to read more about it especially since our body types are different.

[@bethanyleonardo]

Hi Sarah, there really was not one place I learned everything. It's just a few years of taking my photo every day seeing what works and what doesn't.

[@Snehakatharpi]

Ooooo... the candle really gave the vibe. ❤️❤️

[@zynababdelhameed4157]

I’m 5.1 and I’m doing most of your advices unintentionally actually but I always struggle to find the perfect skirt for my shape and height. Thanks a lot for your tips especially the jewelry ones.

[@thatsandyho]

I agree with your view on large horizontal stripes!! I am petite and i recently got rid of all my large horizontally striped shirts because i never wear them anymore!

[@emilybm5251]

I’m 149cm and don’t wear majority of the clothing types you mention myself either. I will admit though, I’m going through a tote bag phase but I always make sure that it’s a smaller sized tote so it’s proportional with my small frame. I’ll very occasionally shop in teen/junior section too but it has to be a piece that I can 100% picture being on the mannequin in the women’s section as well. I’m all about having the right cut that best falters my body type. 🙂

[@malloryanthony8921]

Oh my I love this. Your videos have inspired me to completely redo my wardrobe. I was tired if people thinking I was a teenager or even a teen Mom for that matter 😂. I'm 31 but people often think I'm about 18 based on my hight and young looking face. Well not anymore! 😉

[@bethanyleonardo]

Much love, Mallory!

[@loriparsley1914]

Love you Bethany. Not only are your tips awesome for this 5’2” gal, but your voice is like ASMR for me. You are so calm.

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks Lori!

[@JBO2493]

Have you looked into David kibbe’s body type system? He encourages us to embrace our ‘flaws’ and not try to ‘correct’ them; but instead to follow our body’s own lines. His ‘gamine’ type is typically petite and he tells them to wear very animated clothes (clashing prints etc). You don’t look like a gamine to me (you seem more soft classic) but it’s well worth a look! Also (not to be too contrary) many interior designers are suggesting we embrace the intimacy and drama of smaller rooms by using precisely the things we ‘shouldn’t’: ie bold prints and dark colours. This idea that more space/looking taller=more attractive needs scrutiny methinks!

[@YrsaIris]

We are “vertically challenged.” YES!😂

[@sleepyhhead]

thank you Bethany, very informative and it we would awesome if you added few pics to each title

[@jenntruong6023]

I pretty much agree with all these tips! I am 5" myself!

[@Sugarfoxi]

Great episode Bethany! Would you be able to do a video on British brands you think are ethical and good for petites?

[@livingforChrist]

It’s so true, picking clothes up from the junior section it’s been my biggest mistake, oh my goodness what an eye opener. I’m over here complaining that those pieces have very little fabric on them, well duh! I’m a 26 year old woman looking for mature clothes in the wrong section!!!😱😱😂😂😂

[@victoriaann4762]

Lilly But they’re cheaper in the juniors section! Hahaha.

[@livingforChrist]

Victoria Ann that is so true 😂

[@athenaenergyshine7616]

This is great. I only dress in jeans and T-shirt. I might explore

[@dawnsmith3314]

Such great advice! Always looking for a way to dress my petite body.. Thank you !

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks Leigh!

[@somedaysoon7713]

I’m not giving up my larger purse for personal reasons, however, I agree with pretty much everything else. I wear some stripes but I’m an hour glass petite so in the chest area I’m fine. I really enjoy your content please keep it up!

[@mmsalazar2011]

I have been trying these tips and they work 😊 And I feel confident

[@patriciacasalrodriguez]

Hi Bethany! I'm 1,60m and all your tips are very usefull. High rise jeans and pants totally changed the way I look. When it comes to accesorizing, I keep it simple and elegant. Less is more! Hugs from Spain

[@lunasanja4574]

I'm about the same size and I loathe LOATHE all those skinny and/or low rise jeans. In the past 10 years or so I was not able to find anything else! Horrible. Luckily, high rise and wider cuts are getting more and more popular:) I just love my palazzo high rise jeans

[@katj8794]

I laughed out loud when you mentioned the oversized bag! I want to use an oversized purse so bad, but it just does not look right on my petite frame lol. Thanks for the video!

[@karinab7567]

As a 147cm person, thank you ❤️

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks for watching, Karina!

[@AbianahAlmeida]

I sometimes start to feel down about my height then i see someone in the comments saying "Im 4'8" and i start to feel alot better. Many people have it worse than me I just have to keep my head up and stand straight.

[@mayabeearannya4643]

Hi Bethany! Could you do a video dedicated to just accessories for petite women?

[@janna1041]

Wow..i'm here so early...💗...but just wanted to say that you are REALLY REALLY pretty...and you are my inspiration...like how you talk, act and dress...veryy girly and cute...I started watching you like last summer and my Ias well as my caracter changed a lot and I feel a better version o myself😊😊 (sorry for the mistakes, I don't really speak english😅)

[@bethanyleonardo]

Love this! Thanks for sharing, friend :)

[@charu1248]

Hey Bethany, very helpful tips. Love your style. I am 149cm and my upper body is not very thin. Just average upper body and average waist. Can you give advice on clothing for that structure?

[@ameliasimpson5081]

Hey! I'd recommend a really nice pair of wide leg jeans/trousers and things that are a slightly cropped fit on the top , I have some cropped Jumpers I adore and they're really flattering! Also midi length skirts I find are a wardrobe staple of mine ! I'm 5 foot just got clarification Hope this is helpful :)

[@charu1248]

Thanks a lot :)

[@rashmianilsaroj9542]

Ok her smile/laugh is totally similar to Anastasia Stelle ..and damn ..she is so soft and sweet...♥️

[@carolinaecuador]

You have a very beautiful voice! It’s so relaxing listening to you 😊

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks so much, Carolina!

[@Oz4rmEg]

I'm petite, deep winter and love your channel

[@almamaldonado8381]

You align with my test. I am amazing how my style align with yours. Great Job!

[@tanian7218]

Please make a video about styling a short neck

[@gigic9112]

As always so classy 🥰

[@victoriaann4762]

Thank you for these tips! 💕 I definitely agree with wearing maxi skirts. When I wear a maxi skirt with platform boots, I look pretty tall. Mini skirts I avoid because they make me look younger than I am (30 yr old with baby face). 🙄 P.S.: You sound so much like Lacey Sturm! Same sweet voice, also a very petite lady.

[@alikat8221]

I love this video (even as a 5’8” human)! The only gripe I have is with purses/handbags, as I tend not to find size has much bearing on cost. Some of my most expensive bags are the smallest (Chanel’s bags are a good example, as their large, seasonal totes are always cheaper than their classic styles). Anyway, I’m nit picking. This is an amazing video 😊

[@alikat8221]

SkiingIsMyHappyPlace Bliss True, but then isn’t the point that bag price is material, brand & detail dependent, as opposed to size? I feel as though size is the variable least likely to correlate to price.

[@LovedHappy]

Agree so much with all of these! Gotta work with what we’ve got!💁‍♀️💋

[@zehrarabab4243]

Plz do a video on your daily makeup routine and hair styles

[@danakol1299]

Always so informative and inspiring! Thank you Bethany!

[@paulaboss2000]

Im 4'8 sometimes i wish i can be taller to wear longer pants !

[@ah5721]

The perk to being short is being able to shorten your pants in tailoring or cuff pants and shirts and it looks chic. I'm 5'9" and finding long sleeves and long enough pants is very difficult for me 🙍.

[@angelmuscledoc]

Loved the home tour too!

[@ciagretteskills]

Hi Bethany! I am petite - not as petite as you. But, I don't feel like ankle strapped shoes make me seem stumpy because the ankle strapped shoes I own are nude colored. I can definitely see the ankle strap being an issue with colors that are not similar to your skin tone.

[@bethanyleonardo]

Hi Amanda! Yep, nude color helps with that.

[@amandalh60]

I am tall and still enjoyed this a lot!

[@saloniuppal]

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[@capturedbyannamarie]

Definitely going to use these tips. I already use some of them.

[@marieespenido5853]

Thank u Bethany, I always love ur advise when it comes to fashion. ❤️❤️❤️

[@elchergui]

Love this podcast! Very useful. Greetings from Spain

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks friend! Hope Spain is lovely :)

[@YuliArmstrong]

You’re a Gem 💎 Bethany 💗 Wholesome good advice 🙌🏼

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks Yuli!

[@kratika2778]

U r super cute. I modified my wardrobe after watching ur video. Plz make a video on makeup tutorial like u.

[@kaoyengchang4336]

Just started watching your page and LOVE all your advice!! Having visuals as examples would have been really great for this video too, as an added benefit to video vs your audio podcast. Thanks, Bethany!

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks friend! I'll definitely add them next time. Thanks for being so kind with your recommendation. It's very much needed on this space.

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

Someone recommended you so today's my first video of yours. Good points. Could you elaborate -what size is large vs small stripe or polka dot? Half inch? 2 inch? Thks. Going to check out more of your videos.

[@ccadvisor489]

I agree with everything you said because a lot of it has to do with common sense. Good job!

[@angelmuscledoc]

Your hair is getting long quickly.

[@bethanyleonardo]

Yeah! Growing it out again :)

[@missx0]

The timestamp really helped. 👍👍❤️

[@meinvogel]

Hi Bethany! Could you do some fitness and workout clothing style for petites?

[@kinzabibz5573]

what microphone are you using to record the audio, it's amazing.

[@MariaGutierrez-dw8od]

Can you do a video about guidelines to wear dresses for petites

[@Piddeaux]

Just do ONE giant thing. . . keep everything else really small.

[@raquelortega2088]

Show examples please 🙏🏼

[@LovelessTeam]

I also avoid some of those types of clothes, but I can’t avoid ankle strapped shoes because I can't wear heels without straps :( they hurt my feet and I can’t walk well with them :(

[@lindaesquibel3457]

You're absolutely adorable and you're a good example for our young women. And you speak eloquently .

[@absolutelylorie9502]

Thanks for the video!

[@dianaoprea2124]

This was so helpful! Thank you so much 💕

[@gemirishdelacruz7202]

As a petite I don't ware anymore low waist anything. Just always high waist.

[@xmochix604]

Gem Irish Dela Cruz same. Hopefully they will be around forever lol

[@Karolina-mr3mb]

i actually like big earings. it helps me to add more volume because my hair is preety thin, and hide my not very atractive jawline. what do you think about that ?

[@victoriaann4762]

Karolina Big earrings seem fine! As long as it doesn’t clash with other non-petite friendly styles, you should be fine. Rules are meant to be broken. 🙃

[@anushkac6140]

Hi Bethany..big thank you for this video ...its very helpful points for short petite girls..good go to guide..please show us your HANDBAG collection..and whats in your HANDBAG

[@MakeItSo_ST]

I loved this format. 😊

[@missx0]

Can petite girls wear blazers? If yes, then what kind? what should their length be?

[@rashikasaxena1432]

Love your videos.. They help me so much.. Dearly bethany ❤

[@marieclairegrech]

Thank you so much for your help! I am very tiny so this helped alot. I do have a question though, what about turtle necks? I feel like they eat me alive and make me look smaller. Thanks guys x

[@ADea-hp3uz]

Love this podcast. It's super interesting and I can definitely use some of these tips, as a petite too. 😘

[@ChristineFrey88]

Hi Bethany, I absolutely LOVE your channel! Could you let me know what microphone you use to record your podcasts?