How to Have More Expressive Eyes and Seduce with your Gaze

[@ailurii]

1. Slowly blink, look away for a moment, then return gaze. 2. Make eye contact, hold it for just a bit longer than usual, then look away with a smile. 3. Tilt your head slightly down, then look up to someone from under your lashes. 4. Smolder (head tilt, intense gaze, slight smile). 5. Lean in to the person you’re talking to. 6. Gently touch your face/hair while maintaining eye contact. 7. Give them a warm, soft smile with eye contact.

[@malenamatisse]

Thank you for the resume 😊

[@nurfitrialviani3117]

Ugh i cannot maintain eye contact

[@malenamatisse]

@@nurfitrialviani3117 I understand you, I couldn’t either when I was younger. But with practice it will get better.

[@isshhhuuu885]

Is it only me getting glimpses of Britney Spears in her face?

[@malenamatisse]

I’m flattered☺️Thank you! People seem to recognise all kinds of persons in me, also very different types, but I have already been told to have something from Britney Spears many years ago when I was younger, so that’s super interesting😅.

[@littlespringaz9090]

The 3rd sister !

[@malenamatisse]

@@littlespringaz9090 😅

[@BingusEdits6501]

I see it too tbh

[@moonymalfoy]

yess exactly she's looking like her! :)

[@JoyIdaraEffiong]

How to have a powerful i gaze 1) eye makeup - smokey eye - winged eyeliner - lashes use mascara - highlighter in the coner of eye - eyebrows needs to be groomed 2) the art of gaze - the slow blink- hold your gaze slowly blink the look away for a sec before looking back. - hold and release- hold eye contact for a bit longer then look away with a slight smile. - the upward glance- you tilt your head downward and look through your lashes. - the smolder- narrow gaz tilt head and barely smile 3) body language - leaning in - gently touch your face when making contact - soft smile 4) practice

[@californiasgauld9442]

I LOVE that you included Memoirs of a Geisha! Great video, and you're almost at 10k!

[@malenamatisse]

Yes, that’s one of my favourite movies, I already loved the novel and the movie is great, too🩷Oh yes, am super excited that we almost hit 10K 😍

[@vipmonicake]

Yeah, sucks that she didn’t even mention the name of the actress.

[@barbarellla1553]

It was the first book I've read in English! Love from Warsaw, Poland❤

[@barbarellla1553]

​@@vipmonicakeZhang Ziyi❤

[@malenamatisse]

@@barbarellla1553 I also read it a long time ago when I went to school. I loved it 🥰 Pozdrowienia 🩷

[@october_girl_from_space]

My eyes are black, big and beautiful ❤

[@moonlight_bvby5011]

in all honesty if your confident that seducing gaze will come naturally to you especially if your really into someone or try to put on an act that you are. You dont have to force yourself to remember rules for how to.

[@malenamatisse]

That is true, but becoming confident is often achieved by practice. In my case it helped 😉

[@debora2604]

honey, you don’t practice eye movement. you practice character. you are sending signals with real gesture. Some women are naturally seductive, even when only smile, or just being herself. Monica Bellucci is naturally facial sexy and eye catching.

[@malenamatisse]

You cannot really practise character, but you can practice confidence and body language and this will transfer to you becoming more charismatic in the end. Of course true charisma comes from within as I always say.

[@kanao4477]

Is it just me that burst into laughter everytime she wanted to pratice the methods herself 😂😂😂

[@malenamatisse]

At least I made you laugh.😉 You seem to have a funny humour.

[@mariamipxikidze9171]

realest

[@gulbenizsalmanl3561]

I think you're the only one who laughs at her❤

[@kanao4477]

@@gulbenizsalmanl3561 i m not mocking her, why re yall so offended, like it s just her expression is so funny when she try to do that

[@gulbenizsalmanl3561]

@@kanao4477 good for you then🩷

[@gulbenizsalmanl3561]

I used those techniques when i met with a boy (rn he is my fiance). Believe me or not it really affects the way people see you.

[@malenamatisse]

That’s interesting, thank you for sharing 🩷

[@yasskye768]

You have the most beautiful, charming, soothing, special voice and intonation I’ve ever heard. I know you probably can’t teach this because it’s just how you speak and your accent but I wish there was a way! I put your videos on just to hear it sometimes and feel graceful. I wish you were hired for voice overs in everything. ❤

[@malenamatisse]

Aww, this is so heartwarming and beautiful to read! 🥰 Thank you so much, you really made my day! I’m so happy that you like my voice and it gives you a soothing feeling ☺️🤗Sending lots of Love back to you!💕

[@barbarellla1553]

​@@malenamatisseOMG, so true ❤

[@tararaichand3]

Hey Ms. Malena, those are some amazing tips. I adore how you brought up certain film references, such as Memoirs of a Geisha. Is it possible to put together a list of films that illustrate femininity in an interesting manner? 😊

[@malenamatisse]

Thank you for your comment, this is a great idea. I will make a Community post so that all ladies can also add their suggestions for films that illustrate femininity and I will also list some 🩷

[@mariachan-cx2se]

Girl I love your videos I love how you collect many informations in one video I've been searching for a long time for a video that describes how seductive women used to gaze so seductively

[@malenamatisse]

Ohh I’m so happy to read that 🩷 thank you for your lovely comment 🌹

[@ametrineambrosia4929]

Actually happened in real life...made a guy almost crash his bicycle because he kept looking back at me.

[@malenamatisse]

Oh really?😅 I hope he was ok after that.

[@sarahifab7433]

MEMORIES FROM A GEISHA!! amazing movie, very sad but beautiful at the same time

[@malenamatisse]

Yes, I loved it and the book, too. 🌸

[@healingypsy]

Have to be careful because if too intentional looks more like psycho eyes. some women just have it and do it naturally. Not contrived. I recall a time when a female friend and I were ordering a meal from the head waiter in Milan. When the waiter left my friend actually said to me " You're such a coquette !" I looked it up - she actually thought i was flirting with the waiter ! I was not at all ! But i guess some of us women just do it naturally. I guess because I am naturally shy but also playful - but not calculated to attract anyone which I belive makes it more powerful

[@malenamatisse]

That’s true, one always has to be careful and consider the environment, situation and cultural context, very important! But yes, in your case it might be that you just have a natural innocent coquette body language which some women have and this is perceived as flirty by some people.

[@Athenapaints]

God bless you Miss. I subscribed but this specific material of how u cross reference movies and explained the movement is the best explanation on KZbin. The movement is what’s really going to change my life. You did amazing job! YOU GO GIRL! -A Visual artist with Social Anxiety Disorder. P.s. I’m adding this to my professional skills but will spice up my love life as well. ❤

[@malenamatisse]

Thank you for your lovely comment and the great feedback!!! 🌹I wish you all the best and welcome among my subscribers 🩷☺️

[@kingshome398]

Hi Malena, I discovered your channel recently, your videos have helped me a lot, I want to be a more elegant and feminine woman, but I have a serious problem with makeup, I love lilac shadows and orange tones in my eyes, could you give me a tip on how to use these colors without looking like I'm exaggerated, I'm Brazilian and I don't know how to speak English, so I had to translate this comment with Google Translate, I'm sorry if something is strange

[@malenamatisse]

Hello! I am not a make up artist, but I would say you can incorporate those two colours for your eyes, if they suit you and are applied and blended well, they can look very classy. I would then try to keep the lips and the rest of your make up more neutral and low key. I would recommend you to watch some make up tutorials on KZbin, for example there is an Indian make up artist, who uses these bright or orange colours a lot, her name is Smitha Deepak.

[@kingshome398]

@@malenamatisse Malena, I'm very happy that you responded to my comment, thank you very much, I'll watch some of Smitha Deepak's videos to help me with my makeup, I loved your tip about not weighing down the other parts of the makeup too much.

[@jacquelineess1141]

Your astute observations, beautiful face, warm voice and calm demeanor are what made me subscribe to you, even though I know all these techniques already. You're wonderful!❤

[@malenamatisse]

Thank you so much for your kind and lovely words 💕 I‘m happy to have you among my subscribers 🤗

[@betilynedubala5194]

I sometimes use it when necessary . They say I have dramatic eyes and that it seems tantalizing.

[@malenamatisse]

That’s interesting. Thank you for your comment 🌹

[@WishesofLight]

Wow what a beautifully presented video thank you for sharing your knowledge and movie recommendations. I will definitely watch those so I can learn these feminine traits 😍 I’ve just subscribed to your channel because I find you really authentic! 🌸💕 x

[@malenamatisse]

Thank you so much for the lovely feedback and welcome 🤗 🩷

[@Kbackdesk]

Out of context may i know where did u purchase the closet in the back? (With the nice pink background and what's it called

[@malenamatisse]

Do you mean that folding screen/ partition with the pink flower design?

[@arundhati4284]

Thanks for your insights dear Malena.Will definitely follow 👍. Could you please tell me the name of music playing while displaying your logos.

[@malenamatisse]

Thank you for your comment and welcome 🤗 the music is from iMovie and is called 44th street.

[@arundhati4284]

@@malenamatisse Thank you so much.

[@MounaJamila-n1x]

Oh you looks so pretty honey i admire your look makeup 💄

[@malenamatisse]

Thank you 🩷💕

[@deynaspeace]

Very nice video, thank you. ❤

[@malenamatisse]

Thank you for your lovely feedback ❣️

[@judysaffield2811]

What a great video

[@malenamatisse]

Thank you 😊

[@Madison.maddie.]

Thank you for video ❤❤❤❤❤ And makeup technic

[@malenamatisse]

You’re welcome ☺️

[@LeylaLazuli]

good video❤❤❤

[@malenamatisse]

Thank you 🩷

[@samadhithilakarathne-lm4uh]

Thank you mis😊 great!!!

[@malenamatisse]

Your welcome 🤗🩷

[@maramnasmd]

This was well studied but I'll look funny crazy trying to do this

[@malenamatisse]

Me too 😅 but practice makes perfect ☺️

[@dianecourtney2724]

This is great 😊

[@malenamatisse]

Thank you☺️

[@user-dc369]

Eye makeup tutorial 🤍🥺🫶

[@malenamatisse]

I’ll try my best in the future 🌹

[@subarnasaha8210]

What's is your native language, I love your English in that accent it's quite good ❤

[@malenamatisse]

Hello ☺️thank you! My first language war polish and my second German (so I would rather say Ferman as I grew up with it).

[@shayennebouts4724]

​@malenamatisse I absolutely love the accent. Sooo cute 🥰 Reminds me of my sister-in-law. She's Romanian. Also, thank you for the tips on this video 😊

[@malenamatisse]

@@shayennebouts4724 thank you ☺️ that gives me a good feeling ☺️ one is never sure about how one sounds with an accent. 😅

[@mymelodichandle]

You have to be my new favourite KZbinr 🫣

[@malenamatisse]

Ohh that’s so sweet, thank you and welcome 🤗🩷

[@LilMsLorelei]

If I have to go through all this to get a man, then he is NOT the one. Either he likes me or he doesn't.

[@malenamatisse]

The goal is to feel good or better and more confident about yourself, not getting a man.

[@LilMsLorelei]

@@malenamatisse I feel good about myself by being a good person.

[@malenamatisse]

@@LilMsLorelei that’s great 🩷

[@xoxogemvenus]

I feel like you got it or you don’t.

[@malenamatisse]

It depends. For sone people yes, but you can learn more than you think. Marilyn is the best example for a person who has completely transformed herself and her body language and could switch this persona of the Hollywood actress on and off, through her movement and gestures.

[@apurvasharma6289]

I wear glasses 😅

[@malenamatisse]

I also wear glasses sometimes. Glasses can be a great eyecatcher or accessory 🙂

[@КаринаАрхипова-ц7к]

It depends a lot on your self-esteem. If you have a problem with your personnal estime, hesitations, complexes, you can't repeat it of it would be hilarious)

[@malenamatisse]

Of course, it is very important to work on your self-esteem first, and to also have the right mindset.😊

[@St4rs__0f1cial-hp7lu]

I feel like if I was to practice this I would end up trying to hard and looking very psycho 😭🙏

[@malenamatisse]

Just practice in front of the mirror, when you feel confident it will happen automatically with other people.

[@blackycook7653]

I hear a german accent good content appreciate it!

[@malenamatisse]

Thank you! Yes I’m from Germany 😅

[@Pariafi]

Just be yourself

[@malenamatisse]

That’s what we do here. Being our best self 😉

[@VidhiTiwari-b5d]

5:56

[@faryalaftabkhan5651]

Can you make a video on how to decenter men from your life?

[@malenamatisse]

What do you mean in particular?

[@LionEmpress22]

Really, Ladies, you don't need to remember any of these tricks & gimmicks, to supposedly be of allure to another. There really is NO need, to fake that stuff. Because when you feel an attraction to someone, no matter how slight, your femininity kicks in naturally. And shyness can happen naturally too; which is why, some women tend to look up at you from underneath their brow bone, or as you put it, from under their lashes. But she may not wish to show her interest, which is why we automatically tend to momentarily look away, & then back again, so as not to seem rude, or like you're snubbing a person. This isn't necessarily or strictly a female trait, it's often just a touch of self consciousness, by either gender. It quite often shows up quickly & unexpectedly; when you might not even realise, to your surprise, that you kind of find someone attractive. Or maybe, like Princess Diana was, you're just a little too easily embarassed, which can make a person blush, that can also be mistaken for shyness.

[@malenamatisse]

Thank you for your encouragement. You are right that these gesture happen naturally - but there are ladies who are super shy or feel awkward with their gestures or insecure about their body language. And analysing or practising helps with that. Of course you shouldn’t fake anything you don’t feel, but being more confident about what you are actually doing and what effect it might have, helped me a lot personally and even legends like Marilyn Monroe worked very much on themselves and their body language to become confident and magnetic. So it is everyone’s own choice. But thank you for the comment.

[@Dr.NancyMBBS]

All of this comes to women naturally when they feel confident from inside or when you are wearing black. Kareena kapoor eye makeup from kurbaan is to die for ❤❤🤌

[@malenamatisse]

Yes, confidence is key, but not all comes naturally. But what does wearing black have to do with it 😅

[@Dr.NancyMBBS]

@malenamatisse Black makes you feel enigmatic

[@malenamatisse]

@ depends on your Color Season but if it makes you feel good that’s great 👍😉In general wearing a Color that makes you feel confident is a good tip. Thank you

[@DanieledwardRuhl-d6l]

Hello

[@dochics1053]

I love mine too a shop does mine transgender woman and male to leaning towards a woman ❤

[@albi_does_allknow]

Русский акцент йеее

[@malenamatisse]

I‘m not Russian 🙂.

[@Pariafi]

Oh gosh, you couldn't do those gazes well

[@malenamatisse]

I bet you can do it better. Am looking forward to your video.😉

[@Pariafi]

@@malenamatisse l'm trying to be my authentic self not imtating others, good luck

[@malenamatisse]

@@Pariafi My viewers are not interested in imitating anyone, but in inspiration and self-development. I don’t know why you are watching my video if you are not interested in it, but thank you anyway for supporting the algorithm by commenting 🩷.

[@Pariafi]

@@malenamatisse This was the first video and of course the last one I watched from your channel. Thanke you for reminding me not supporting the algorithm anymore.

[@rosaleencloade9447]

@@PariafiI Hope you will feel better tomorrow