Co-Parenting (Ft Cheryl Chin) - Just Saying Episode 67

Co-Parenting after a divorce, is it tough? what are the challanges? can you date again? what will the people around you think about it?
00:00 - 00:15 - Introductions
00:15 - 06:43 - Co-Parenting
06:44 - 09:28 - Dating After A Divorce
09:29 - 11:50 - Boundatries After A Divorce
11:51 - 13:08 - IF Dew Has A Daughter
13:09 - 14:43 - Are There Still Feelings Involved?
14:44 - 17:01 - Jade's Take On Co Parenting
17:02 - 21:40 - Having No Vison On Your Kids
21:41 - 31:42 - Some Strange Experiences
31:43 - 34:15 - Co Parenting - Toughest Things For Cheryl
34:16 - 44:10 - What About The People Around Them?
44:11 - 50:11- Cheryl's New Venture : Cclo Up
Just Saying Crew:
Dew Francis - / dewdropzz
Saffron Sharpe - / saffronsharpe
Jade Rasif - / djjaderasif
Munah Bagharib - / munahbagharib
Keisha Sarah - / keishasarah
Jacky : / jackyngcomedy
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[@Peacelily22]

Jade thinks very far ahead motherhood wise and as an interviewer, could get answers out of Cheryl. Poor Cheryl though, could sense her trying so hard to avoid the clubbing brownie question. She was trying to protect Titus’s reputation for her daughter and also justify her motherhood choices. Cheryl’s thinking on the bright side while Jade’s playing devils advocate and Cheryl looks so uncomfortable 😢

[@itstammyhere]

agree

[@cherb8ar]

Thank you for having me on to share my peace, there's so many assumptions but truly nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors. I realized it's not worth fighting in the comments for issues/words that lack context when I initially did this episode to focus more on the aspect of parenting itself rather than entertaining comments that push the blame onto others. However, I also don't condone the disrespect that is put on the people and friends who stand up for me and actually know what I'm like as a person. Thank you TBB for letting me share here in a balanced and authentic manner ❤

[@seablue9930]

Somehow I really like how Jade think. She's always be an objective person. Happy to see all of their perspectives, especially Cheryl who was going through hard times. Good convo!

[@Gamebred-Nightmare]

Leaving your wife outside a club at such a late hour while she's pregnant clearly shows that you don't care enough. A real man would have taken care of business there and then. Such small things needn't even be mentioned. The way I see it, Titus is a boy and not a man, thus all the weak decisions and very beta behaviour. You take care of your wife like a queen because she deserves it. Cheryl also being young, accepted that kinda weak love which is bad. You'd want an alpha protector to guide you, not someone that is so wishy-washy like Titus.

[@lysuenn]

Reading Titus’s response here made me realise that this is some Kim and Kanye shit. I’m just waiting for Jade to be given the green light (by Cheryl) to go ape on how she really feels about Titus cos yall just know she was HOLDING BACKKKKKK out of courtesy to Cheryl.

[@pammo4668]

all the best cheryl!!! she had to mature w motherhood so quickly and to see her express her thoughts so eloquently esp with the emotional strains being a parent / co-parenting can have is v warming and impressive to hear

[@mrpolarbearrrrr]

i have to admit that my perception of Cheryl changed drastically after listening to the pod. At the age of 22, she’s very mature and well articulated individual who puts weights into her thoughts and actions as a mother. Wishing her nothing but the best and hopes she finds a man who deserves her unwavering love.! p.s. shame on you titus.

[@kycia12]

15:04 you know Jade is mad pissed about coke when she called Coca Cola “Cola Cola” so many times 😂

[@bboystretch7788]

i’m from Hong kong and i found this young lady to be so wise and mature. all the best to you - i’m sure you will work things out. also dew has also matured so much in his thoughts and jade seems to have mellowed too. wonderful ❤

[@vaneyong]

Cheryl is a strong optimistic young woman. Definitely being a single mom or pregnant woman isn’t easy especially if there isn’t a strong support system that you can seek to besides your partner. I’m a single mom and gave birth to my daughter at age 15 (now she’s 11), had the similar history whereby me and my ex partner wasn’t stable and mature enough to actually have a kid and the explanation and criticism is pain in the ass. But I strongly believe what really got through the decade was consistently reminding her that as a mother, I will always be there for her through all tough times and being transparent and communicative with her about anything including me and her dad history. (Sometimes I just behaved more like her sister instead of being a mother) More importantly is reminding her that our family dynamic may be a little different but happiness and love doesn’t only necessary comes from a complete family. Sometimes it can come from grandparent, aunt, uncle or even her friends. She feels lonely as she grew older, so what I did was I always welcomed her best friends to my place to play and ensure she find safety and warmth in the home. Stay strong Cheryl. You have that optimistic fighting spirit in you despite facing such challenges.

[@chipotlecat3044]

i think what titus should have done is spend time with cheryl for her brownie stroll and forget about the club. your wife is only pregnant for a certain amount of time and the club will be there anytime. spend time to accomodate her at least

[@VivianHoGrey13]

Cherlyn is real mature and have very clear and great mindset for a 22yo girl. Now I'm 27 years and I only can act like her maybe 1/10th of her. Bless her n her daughter ❤❤❤

[@mealea98]

24:08 completely agree, it’s not a gen z thing it’s just who you are as a person.

[@LWC8]

I'm impressed by how Cheryl takes responsibility for her part by admitting her fault was in not setting boundaries and allowing it to happen. That takes real courage and maturity. Most people will just be busy playing victim or pushing blame. Glad she saw the light and knows she deserves better now. Power to her!

[@MiSxChErRy]

Thank you for sharing your experience of co-parenting. I am also going to this situation now and there’s definitely a lot I learned. To everyone out their going through co-parenting just know you’re not alone!! We got this!!

[@hrrrtbyyt]

i feel like i understood n healed a little bit of my trauma listening to cheryl speak. love how much thought n care you put into being a parent.

[@gowrimenon4472]

Such a good episode really enjoyed listening it being a parent and coming from a broken family ❤

[@getfitwithnicol]

Lots of respect for her! JIAYOU Cheryl 😊

[@adminadmin3649]

Because Titus did not feel her as his wife? I'm sure Cheryl knows this answer too. If it was a gal he cared about, he would bother. Before marriage, he already said his proposal was just a trying for fun and Cheryl wanted to continue with it desperately

[@wj88]

I wish Cheryl the best, may this be the greatest lesson in life and may u really learn from this :)

[@gabrielperumal5158]

This is really deep and it is really hard to fathom the pain Cheryl goes through 😭

[@knightsljx]

Sorry but on the club issue, it really is up to the couple to decide. The husband SHOULD ask if the wife wants to come in and sit down. But if the wife decide that she wants to walk around and eat brownies and she's happily eating her brownies, who are outsiders to decide what the couple should or should not do?

[@MultiNickky]

After this entire episode I just want Jade to be my life counsellor 😂 she’s so on point but in a very nice way

[@FutureXXD]

Moral of the story: Use Protection y'all

[@sani2205]

ngl if my dad or mom was on onlyfans i would be very embarrassed and traumatised for life ... This is why you need to be careful in choosing who you make a baby with.. because you can get trapped for life and have to suffer the consequences . Poor daughter 😔

[@ona2779]

Is Titus speaking on this channel or another channel? Must hear both sides of the stories. Anyway - Dew is right - daughter cannot anyhow let other people carry! Nowadays got many perverts. Children need privacy to grow up and best to keep offline.

[@itstammyhere]

really respecting Cheryl!

[@pollyshy]

Cheryl is so optimistic and mature, all the best for her ❤

[@katherineker8806]

As you takeincare in good way for her, anything can't u r planning ❤😊

[@Ben-kh2rh]

I miss Keisha 😢

[@evanlimcs]

As a Gen X, I've got no clue about the mindset of Gen Z, where life seems so simple and optimistic.

[@sintiayuliani9123]

cheryl baobei u make me cry

[@mealea98]

28:29 agree with jade

[@potatoes3212]

Is that guy keiji brother ? They look almost like twins

[@dougdef]

If possible go to school at 3 years old, when Child can speak and express themselves

[@angel-bb5fi]

cheryl n jade looks q alike

[@adiuvat14]

Dew grew into the daddy girls in their later years wishes to hv

[@keytales9107]

Cheryl Chin and Saffron are two different person..... Imthought it was the same person.

[@sani2205]

afc they dont even look alike wtf

[@juxiongma0]

I’m Gen Z but i could tell that in the relationship Titus was the giving his all like Cheryl just tries to do her best to keep everything together… the way he just does these to her it was just baffling. also Gen Z thing is just an excuse, like i’m quite straightforward person and like to speak my emotions, so it was prolly just Cheryl trying to be cautious around Titus, especially during pregnancy she requires safety and comfort by her partner which she didn’t receive and while she was in the situation she had, losing friends and everything that happened it made her more clingy to him. I do think that she’s very strong and resilient but if i knew her as her friend, i would’ve fought that guy like wtf, bro needs to be jumped. I hope Cheryl’s doing well and i hope the best for her❤

[@yapolloable]

Like this video if you wanna see Titus on the podcast next!

[@shauntay-vj4vw]

Jade say she is strict and controlling ? Wow she has never met my parents 😂 I had curfew at 8pm I had to be at home every day till I was 18 . Even now I’m 28 and I don’t have a curfew anymore but even now they track me where I am now and I cannot close my location service . So yeah jade parenting skills is nothing 😂

[@yapolloable]

She's jade rasif, who are you? 😂

[@Tiffany-dw1yp]

Jade looks SO annoyed at 27:20 LMAO

[@Raphael-ql9pf]

Theres always two sides of the story, please invite titus

[@thepd5445]

Dew needs a trim

[@firesagi]

Maybe Cheryl is sharing all these too early especially when they are still going through this legally. It’s good to think through privately with the help of professionals rather than to come out to share when the hurt is still raw and when both parties are still sore at each other…

[@charlesvoo1346]

Love at first sight, fucking joke hahaha

[@cosineyee]

Jade is so nice and smart!!! Cheryl is a poor girl for believing in titus

[@adminadmin3649]

KZbin just recommended a video of Cheryl on her channel. It has Cheryl promoting Crazy Scoops? Not Titus ice cream? Or is it same shop? But looks different. Toxic

[@adminadmin3649]

Cheryl is rich family. No problem for anything

[@relativelybasic]

Parents rich doesn't mean she rich what