I Walked Away & Now She’s Reaching Out

[@elsquibbs]

The most important benefit of learning to walk away for me was learning that female validation is worthless. Self esteem comes from within. Once I truly understood that, everything else started falling into place.

[@Maxx________]

Very true

[@brandonsaunders7515]

Deep

[@ricardodelacrvz1400]

If women go away, dont look at you, dont try to interact, cancel plans I just say no problem and wait and dont look back. I might try a second time but a third time is almost an invitation to block you. You just give me more time to focus on my career and make myself more high value for a serious women to get me later. I dont force shit no more. If youre not into it then I wont be too. Too many girls rejected me over the years and they mostly regret it. Too bad.

[@jamestompkins9456]

@@ricardodelacrvz1400 I don’t know if you’ll read this or not, but your comment really hit me. I could have written this, almost verbatim. I’ve been a CW fan for 3-4 years and he’s changed the way I look at life, women, work, etc. I’m 33 and I take the same attitude as you. You’re right-the last effort to make plans is a dare to hop off the “fun bus” as CW puts it. As I get older, the “trolley” analogy also becomes more appropriate. You continue to travel through your life and pick up/meet people (coworkers, friends, women) and they either decide to stay on, or hop off. Sometimes, they jump back on when they miss it-in a week, month, a year, or several years. Some of them-they never return. The hardest part of it all is, (as CW puts it), every few years you meet a woman that really knocks your socks off, a new best friend, or a great coworker, etc. and when the hop off the “trolley,” you don’t know if they will ever come back, or when if they do. You just don’t. That’s what gets us-it’s the fear of loss. People, whether it’s a woman, friend, etc enter your life at a time when they’re supposed to. They also leave (if they leave) when they’re supposed to. CW talks about living your life free from attachments. When you continue to drive your “trolley” and leave the aisles open, you let those people come and go if they want. Yeah, the bus stops every 15 minutes, but sometimes you need to drive a couple years to stumble upon someone that just clicks with you. It can be frustrating, but when you do, all the other people (women, colleagues, etc) look like tire kickers. But hey, those people let’s you recognize someone who’s special. I’ve learned to exercise infinite patience from CW, despite it being a challenge at times. That’s what being a 3% Man is all about, after all: accomplishing your purpose in life while giving the world your presence and gift of your time. I leave the aisles of the trolley open nowadays. If the girl doesn’t want to hop on, I’m driving off to never look back. If they return, the time was right. If they don’t, they were never meant to. Thanks for an awesome comment. Again, it really hit me. Take care of yourself, - JET

[@Sip28]

@@ricardodelacrvz1400 have any tried and come back?

[@bettermanchannel770]

They miss what they don't have, walking away is the 1st step in creating your own identity, stay strong men

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 And you'd be right.

[@svtben]

Actionless action is the key here. I've walked away from the same woman twice and she tried to come back each time. Granted, she had her own issues and didn't treat me right, so I had to tell her, "Bye, for good." When you close your heart to one person, it is open to many more.

[@tonygee6418]

very well spoken

[@svtben]

@@tonygee6418 thank you! 🙏☯️ Walking away still hurt like hell as I'm sentimental. But you must do good for your soul.

[@angelalvarez7257]

My ex came back to my life after a toxic relationship. Its very hard to keep telling her that I have moved on and yet she keeps insisting. Shes even more beautiful than before because she got cosmetic surgeries. Its very tempting....

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

@@angelalvarez7257 you must be strong. Do not trash others, and put yourself first.

[@armandasaurila7563]

After I finally walked away from my ex girlfriend 3 weeks ago, I feel I got myself back! Walk away and never look back fellas.

[@fakeyogi9553]

Edit- Relax guys... walk away each time... she will be back every single fucking time once u stop caring and thinking. Happened multiple times with me. Previously- I walked away around the same time... And it is getting hard on me.. I miss her.. I haven't contacted her .. neither has she.

[@fakeyogi9553]

I walked away around the same time... And it is getting hard on me.. I miss her.. I haven't contacted her .. neither has she.

[@marco18979]

@@fakeyogi9553 stay strong

[@TopVillain]

@@fakeyogi9553 do not make contact with her. And when she contacts you do not set a date if she wants to see you then fine but you don’t make plans with her. I repeat do not contact her first. You’re grieving her lost that’s completely normal everyone does it

[@paulloverdi6605]

These guys are right! you have to stay strong, work out eat right, I made plans, Goals, Using your passions, and your grind to get a happier life. She will definitely not come back if you get weak. No contact. The worst thing that could happen as you walk away with your dignity. And she’ll eventually wonder if she made the right choice that’s the worst

[@IamCoachCourt]

You teach people how to treat you!

[@TheDetroitLion313]

That is so true. I didn't believe until I applied it. You gotta open your mouth and set boundaries

[@IamCoachCourt]

@@TheDetroitLion313 straight up

[@tonymarrufo4147]

walking away sub communicates to women that you are a high value man and have other options. But more importantly, it shows that you respect yourself and have no problem letting her go. this will cause her become anxious and focus her attention back onto you

[@Sip28]

I hope this is true because now I’m walking away. It’s hard because I do want to call her

[@Hoogeland22]

​@@Sip28Hope you did not reach out and moved on. You might think you feel better if you reach out but trust me you dont. She has to reach out to you

[@emerykolb6030]

@@Sip28It is true, once you let her how you really feel, LET HER GO, and WALK AWAY if she comes back or continues to start conversations with you when she sees you she’s still interested if not, oh well it’s one girl and there are so many more out there, if you go back or call her, you are considered weak in her eyes. BE STRONG MAN, it’s rough the first couple wks or months but you will eventually get over it, work on yourself. It’s been awhile and she’s talking to me again lol, every time she sees me there’s a conversation she starts I just grin. As a man I’m not someone you mess with, you screw with me I’m done unless she talks to me, it’s been 2 yrs. 👊👍

[@Sip28]

@@emerykolb6030 already G

[@ChadOliver-b7y]

I had to walk away from a woman I invested over a year and a half into. I sent my final message to her today. I told I can't be her friend and I'm moving on with my life. If she comes back it will be her choice. I listened to what Corey said in another video about how to walk away properly as a man and mean it.

[@Tom-wm8qs]

Corey's next book: how to be a chad thundercock

[@MichaelTmusicAndCompositions]

🤣🤣🤣

[@MichaelTmusicAndCompositions]

The next mug would be like: Chad thundercock club. 🤣🤣🤣

[@siegfriedo]

Would love to read it. 😀

[@kwadwosakyi3951]

The Adventures of Chad Thundercock

[@taje017]

@@kwadwosakyi3951 I can definitely see that as a Cartoon Network series

[@OgMist_]

“You wanna see the chocha”!! Had me laughing on the ground 😂 btw great video coach!

[@starseed855]

What is the “chocha”?

[@frankiesmom8478]

Corey is hilarious. I watch his KZbin videos just because he’s funny. I’m happily married

[@kenyonferguson1243]

“Happily” 😮

[@mirmir2227]

Can we get a mug saying, “ I want to see the chocha”.

[@francoalfaro7750]

Sign me up!!! I want 4 mugs

[@xbriannx]

"The promised land" sounds much better imo!

[@aronchas]

"the pusssuahhh" or "blue balls" quote mugs

[@bigrich693]

I’d def buy that!!!

[@modz8500]

panotcha 🤣🤣

[@sundew23]

Chad Thundercock always comes through

[@MichaelTmusicAndCompositions]

🤣

[@johnzachariasrealtor7906]

Harry Honda then unclogs the toilet!

[@delont1986]

Ask lots of women out and go on lots of dates. Best way to achieve true confidence.

[@anthonyscanni6343]

Corey is an OG he’s been with us since the beginning saving our lives

[@bobert13581]

I love it when Corey roasts the guy and puts on the BS voice when narrating the girls texts.

[@MichaelTmusicAndCompositions]

Same here hahaha it gives more emphasis to the sentence! 🤣

[@Jubeininja1221]

This is the gospel men need to hear in 2021. Thank you Coach!

[@andrebaxter4023]

Corey's reading voices. 🤣

[@GYMSHIT]

Havent read the book?! Next! I’ve read it over 30 times. Can recite it. And I’m the Corey Wayne of Seattle to my buddies

[@juanzuniga996]

Corey Wayne honestly has the best advice. I need to read the book 10-15 times

[@bronzemv4440]

Reading once is not enough to know when to apply.

[@gillozada5090]

On 1, 14 to go

[@dennise1110]

The title makes no sense. How exactly did he walk away? “I get to see her snaps” 🤣

[@earthpart3]

right, he did the opposite and she never reached out either

[@papabetadine724]

Yep, bro has been drinking too much soy milk

[@bluepacman13]

You have to walk away... and MEAN IT.

[@jeffstone4624]

This guy's the "Come on Man" king!!!

[@VoiceOfThe]

Thing is, before you know any of this stuff, to a man’s logical brain all of this seems perfectly normal. It can be very difficult for a man to shift this mindset, which in essence is innate to him.

[@alexanderhamawi9487]

this was way too funny , thanks for the laugh Corey ! 🤣

[@Buubje13]

It's tough walking away. I'm in a situation right now. But *NOT* walking away would basically mean I'm disrespecting myself, and no way I'm putting up with that. there is a bus every 15 minutes, haha cheers.

[@Aquariuswonder86]

Am in a similar situation. But I gotta do this for my mental health

[@Buubje13]

@@Aquariuswonder86 stay strong, everything will eventually be better than before I'm sure! :)

[@Aquariuswonder86]

@@Buubje13 thanks for the encouragement. Everyday is hard at times

[@EarthtoAdam95]

@@Aquariuswonder86 how are you boys getting on?

[@Aquariuswonder86]

@@EarthtoAdam95 so far okay for now. I’m still not contacting him. He did send me a friend request a few days ago, after being blocked for a month now. Btw, am a woman if it matters.

[@krsp7288]

Entertaining AND educational!

[@sheikhm15]

I’ve read the book so it’s pretty funny how I can pinpoint exactly wat this guy did vs how the book tells us not to do those exact things (no group dates at least till ther is commitment, no making plans in the daytime , not over pursuing, no neediness, over analyzing or over texting etc and more things he did wrong) cmon man

[@bigimportantman1544]

Also… always keep the rain coat on unless you’re in a relationship & let the rule be known. It’s a good way to avoid any games in the grey area & let women know you’re keeping your options open unless they understand what your expectations are in a relationship & commit to you.

[@Troy12-fitnessmodel]

Drier than the Sahara lol. Legend coach 😂😂

[@askayak8730]

Corey you're a savage! 🤣 but always on point

[@johnlanore599]

He brought in a bunch of cockblockers on his date.lol

[@DarthDividend]

Focus on you! Ultimate key!

[@jarradhurley4866]

Women give you small windows of opportunity at first, and if you don't take them, they lose interest. Then out come the offers to hang out with friends, and other things they do either consciously or subconsciously to trip you up and test your character. This guy fell at every step of those tests.

[@kabirsardana1282]

if you want to test the guy at every step, you really are a nut case that needs to be put in a straight jacket. most men usually tend to catch on after a couple of tests that they're being tested constantly, and their attraction starts coming down. women need to stop doing this shit if they really want relationships.

[@inyouall]

Most Women's does not respect the followers or the ones who tries so hard ...

[@earthpart3]

can't believe people write in when they obviously have no clue lol oh boy, snaps! ooo! lol

[@DamianGshow]

I'm yelling at this dude as if he is in front of me. C'MON MAN

[@Yakitori3179]

This woman stood me up and I walked away then she reached out and was trying to invite me over to her place and I kept walking. Part of me wishes I would have taken her up on her offer though.

[@thekingsident]

Instead of taking up on the offer or not at all, I think rescheduling to a time you choose would have worked better... New at this, what do I know

[@Yakitori3179]

@@thekingsident thing is that she already showed me she doesn’t respect me or my time so why put myself in that situation again?

[@DB10887]

@@Yakitori3179 you did the right thing bro.

[@thekingsident]

I started reading your book a week now. I'm still on my first read but I've been slow due to other engagements but by the end of the week, I will be done. And start the second read next week. I felt you were literally speaking to me as I'm in a current situation with a woman. Now I know what to do, thank you. Back to the book I go

[@gillozada5090]

Same here, first reading, highlighting, analyzing, saying yep, that's what I did wrong w a current gf who might become an ex. Excited tho cos I know now what n what NOT to do w other girls and if she comes back! Corey rocks!!

[@mattsimpson1753]

Loved this! Thanks for bringing the realtalk and some playful humor 👍

[@chitonyourchu]

"Oh boy, a snapchat!" That was gold.

[@MrItsmellt]

NICE DON'T GET YOU SH**‼️

[@bartucelasun4909]

I can't remember a video of yours that I didn't laugh love the content coach

[@hamza1517]

The voice of slapping your shaved head cracks me up everytime🤣

[@VoiceOfThe]

12:04 though 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@gillozada5090]

I'm on my first reading this week, (1 of 15 or more) highlighting, analyzing, excited that I'll know now what and what NOT to do w new girls as my current one is in limbo cos of beta move fk ups!! Corey absolutely rocks n is changing my life!! Thanks bro!!

[@kait2264]

100% spot on Coach, I'll send my story over to you some day!

[@christopherarmstrong2710]

Brilliant as always, Coach!

[@Chris-ey7zy]

Not responsible for her choices in Men. Just because they crap on her doesn’t mean they didn’t have their reasons. Probably a reason why they did. Don’t assume it’s other guys fault just because you are attracted to her. We all as men have the hero complex and the need to save even bad women not good for us. It’s a weakness for us good guys

[@Arasa왕]

I had a crush on my best friend. She was just playing with me, saying not ready for relationship and so I dumped her like she never existed. Then she literally couldn't tolarate that. She was mad me for few months and she tried date another guy cus of me and guess what she even dumbed him. Then few months back she texted me again and she said like she no longer mad at me or like hate me. I mocked her again like idc and I told her "honestly do you imagine every guy who talk nice to you have crush you?" Now she's even crazier than ever on my trying to ask me if I have interest on her so. I clearly made her a clown again. And she started acting ok I have a bf too 😂. Man never date someone who create this much dramas bro. She even created fake account to stalk me on her fb. I blocked her fake accounts 😂

[@amanking5817]

He said congratulations at the end with thumbs up 😂😂😝😝😇😆 sorry for that guy though

[@Deepak61900]

CHAD THUNDERCOCK always gets me 🤣

[@yakirarbib1670]

Dude, you made my day with this fake puking at the end!

[@angelalvarez7257]

I was gonna rip on this guy but coach did enough 😂

[@hudsanity_1590]

Fun fact: If you take someone's girlfriend away from them, or wife, they will certainly do the same thing to do, more than likely. Even if things are great, they will have no reason to not, as you made that type of behavior okay.

[@amirmoore4002]

This is some funny ass shit. Love you Corey

[@KeganFergusonYT]

"Ooo I get to see her snapchat! Woo! Who cares? You want to see the chocha" 🤣🤣 lmfao. Another great video Coach. Haha 💪💯💯 Reading the book again! And watching your videos & other coaches too!

[@mkowboy13]

Such a funny reaction Cory lol

[@alexstruk9125]

Snapchat drooling reaction is priceless 🤣

[@calvinbrianmalondez6522]

😂😂😂

[@HotTubOwnerHQ]

I would love to see a future video, or maybe you already have one that I haven't found yet, That addresses the difference in standing up to a woman who is disrespectful and sounding like a butt hurt Beta male.

[@MichaelTmusicAndCompositions]

I think he has one called "beta male VS assertive man", something around those lines.

[@Mancer1980]

I hear yet another crazy cat lady in the making. This is the kind of girl who turns 29 and can't comprehend why she's not married or in any kind of decent relationship. Sad.

[@creativeembargo]

Bruh, I don’t think the girl was the problem

[@Maryfordivorce]

Been watching your videos. You make a lot of sense. I learn from you and so thanks to you I can say you're very funny and sooo hot!

[@jedshilling4918]

Guys, act like Chad Thundercock. He gets all the ladies.

[@lgxtransport]

I LOVE YOU COACH!

[@mikebuchanan3532]

She’s going to put you in the friends zone!

[@tubenachos]

Get him Coach!! 😂😂👍

[@Shellanomics]

EH????? LMAOOOOO 4:06!!! That look has to be on a mug/t-shirt coach!!! Priceless when your students are not speaking your language!

[@ryan2814]

Old subscriber he's totally right bottom line you need to have some self-respect

[@gokou135]

Well, i'm running into a bit of an issue, but I like your information and how you present it. In one video it's "Be completely unbothered, like james bond. She can come and go as she pleases, and if you're also seeing other girls then what's the big deal. Just go with the flow." Then in this video. "The girl is obviously jerking him around, and he is putting up with it." One time you basically say have no boundries and nothing is a big deal, unbotherd. In the next, you talk about the importance of setting boundries when a chicks actions bother you......

[@bman8807]

I walked away just recently from a girl I liked..she reached out a month later. I asked her how she had been, she replied and asked me the same. I replied to her and asked her what she been up to and I was ignored. Pretty immature to be the one to reach out then ignore them after 2 short texts.

[@waynescaller8833]

Corey I think it's funny how you talked about the snap chatt oh wow a snap chatt lmao

[@hamza1517]

Never ever groupe dates.

[@albert-lutherrandolph2808]

When you pause Mastering Yourself to watch this video

[@hockeydude9710]

Same bro

[@seankoolkat2881]

. scenarios like this shouldn't even meed for a guy to read Corey's book or any book to know the play... like seriously "come on man" . aint this man's friends or anybody close to him even telling this man what's going on ? sometimes it has nothing to do with game. simply common sense should just tell you what it is... and this ain't it. just move on too many women in the world.

[@mattsimpson1753]

Great video!

[@NoName-zb1gm]

Most women I would say no if she reaches out. But one I would consider it because we got along and seemed like a good match but she has some self work to do and she needs to stop mourning her divorce from 5 years ago. She would have to show that she's changed and started to love herself more.

[@tonythomas8360]

Next time she says she's on her period say, "Hey, I'll ride the red river I just won't drink from it."

[@gregoryvelikovsky5018]

Dude could od earned his red wings!

[@carlrav5660]

Corey didn't hold back on this one lol (or any of them really)

[@atteindresiempredad]

11:18 come on Corey we know the cup was empty at that point hahaha

[@boltsdluna]

They will never reach out a 100 Alpha

[@bryonquillen481]

I need a sweet shirt that coach has on.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

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[@lwill4075]

I had to walk away from my ex.... a day before her bday, i had a lil trip planned n all. I didnt want it to go down like that, but i just couldnt take the toxic energy anymore.

[@manuelz2305]

Hahahaha 😆 ooh a snap!! 🤣 I fucken love you coach

[@truckpilot01]

When he said. "I want to see the chocha" 🤣

[@israelayala3720]

Lol he's the first white guy I hear saying the word "chocha" . It cracked me up

[@Johnny-sn2ls]

I don't know what's happened with one girl. I saw her eye signals to me. I approached her. We started talking sometimes on her work place when I come. At once meanwhile I found out she has a boyfriend. Before my approaching I heard from her she hasn't boyfriend. She is very kind, smiling, friendly to me. Constantly she asked me something about me, what I do, what's up new in my life, very curious. This is very sweet from her. I am positively surprised.

[@brenthewitt758]

This guy needs to read the 3% man desperately he has no clues whatsoever blind leading a blind.

[@tomdick1777]

This was Fucken awesome!

[@marco18979]

hi corey top video once again

[@angusclark145]

Thanks.

[@modz8500]

i blocked a women and kept walking after her behavior changed she reaxhed out from a defferent number the next day

[@anirbellahcen5551]

hahahahahah! the cup said it all!

[@breakingthehabit]

I am an handsome guy and nothing you telling works for me😅girls are intimidated by directness,confidence if you are attractive,every girl is so shy with me. Can u make a video on basic handsome guy game.We need to do things different

[@gregoryvelikovsky5018]

Read the book dude

[@marcogermani304]

Any relationship books besides 3% man for girls you can recommend?

[@trojansguy2373]

What happens if you walk away and she reaches out and she cancels? Then, she continues to reach out 100% of the time

[@hamza1517]

Our beloved coach.

[@darrylprojectile]

This qualifies as comedy.

[@cindiheaton6469]

I am a woman and I got a guy that texts me sometimes but never sets a date. I always wonder when he texts Good Morning and those kind of texts if I should even text back?

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Ghost the bitch.

[@Noelair]

This guy 🤦🏻‍♂️ beta male. Just ghost her bro.

[@mastshke]

Nice guys like this dude get me lol. Then they wonder why they're alone all the time.

[@croatiancroissant28776]

He’ll get it, one day. Obviously young or just inexperienced, and that’s ok. Give him a few more experiences like this and the “no more bullsh*t” switch will be flipped.

[@RaspyStarks]

Choncha!!!!! 😂🔥🤘🏽

[@31684Cooper]

I stepped away to give her a chance to reach out. Then I screwed up. I made contact one time. That gave her the chance to try and gaslight me into feeling guilty. She said that I threw her away. It didn't work, but it reset the clock. She will never get another ounce of effort from me. Even if she reaches out and begs me... I will not put in effort toward her. If she wants to be with me, she'll have to prove it.

[@croatiancroissant28776]

You never step away to give her a chance. You step away to move on with the absolute certainty you’ll never speak to her again. “It’s over for good” should’ve been your attitude. Anyways, I did that once in my twenties, and she never came back. That was my turning point, the moment I became a “no contact” expert. You should delete her number…..for good.

[@31684Cooper]

@@croatiancroissant28776 It wasn't that I did it looking for her to reach out... I just gave her the opportunity by not contacting her... She didn't reach. I deleted everything the day I decided to go no contact.

[@snupewavydon8785]

You are hilarious man hahhahahahahaahaahaha

[@hamza1517]

Hhhh out of respect for her breakup. Cmon man