coffee chat GRWM // let’s talk about religion, THE NEW ORLEANS STORY, post partum update

[@karenkingrey6142]

Yep. That’s New Orleans. And, I live here and Bourbon St bars are notorious for shady practices! PS: to anyone hearing this, let this be a PSA to never let anyone pour something in your mouth. I want to say anywhere, but for sure not in NO! You never know what might be in those drinks. Jessica, I’m sooooo glad you came out ok!!!

[@cindytroxler2838]

Thanks for the tip 👍

[@NoYeahNah]

Tipping culture and no minimum wage really adds to staff being invested in these kind of practices, I still can't believe that kind of stuff is so prevalent in clubs and bars in the US. (By prevalent, I mean at licensed businesses in 1st world countries. Even the majority of brothels and strip clubs are safer where I live, because prostitution is legal and licensed and workers can be unionised & protected. They even got government help and social welfare all through the pandemic lockdowns here - just like any other service/hospitality worker. Plus free healthcare.)

[@rachellepoirier3695]

I lived there for years, and visited for years before I lived there. When I first started going to Bourbon St, it was the late 90's, and was never charged more than $4-5 for the test tube shots. Once I lived there, and started working on Bourbon, I never got charged, just tipped the servers. Now when I go back to visit, they'll try to charge outrageous prices, but because I know better, I just tell them I'm not a tourist, and if they want to sell any, and make any money, shoot me a realistic price. I can still get them for $5 20+ years later. Unfortunately, they prey on people who don't know any better. I know there's barely any liquor in the test tube, but I also know they're required to sell so many a night, so if they shoot me straight, I'll buy a round for friends, and tip them well.

[@arsenicandlace7689]

I'm also born and raised here and still live here now and I always tell anyone not from the area to be super cautious when in the city, let alone in the quarter or on Bourbon. It's literally a free for all of shady and dangerous activities.

[@cheeky_lady]

Came here to say the same thing about New Orleans! I love that city so much, so many fond memories but the hustling is real y'all! They will try every shady trick in the book to get money from you. Keep your wallet on your body (DO NOT CARRY A PURSE) & if you're on Bourbon St. anyone ever asks, "I bet you $5 I know where you got your shoes at", tell them "Bourbon St." & walk away. 😉✌️

[@karennicholson4167]

My husband and I do date night every month on the 19th of the month. We were married on the 19th of November and having a set date has helped us, especially with busy schedules. We will celebrate 44 years this year, and date nights are so important ♥️

[@AJMP010609]

Goals!!!

[@ashleys4652]

Great story and inspiration!❤

[@KrazyKrizzz]

Oh so cute!

[@AmericanThighs97]

I love this!!

[@jocelynsloan7801]

Oh that’s really cool!! Love the tie to your wedding day.

[@melanieglover4779]

I want to say. Don’t you EVER stop coffee chats. I make myself laugh because one, I am genuinely laughing while you talk. Two, I find myself answering you, for example, you said stop if I’ve already told you this…I said you haven’t, go on. 😂😂😂 love ya

[@sassiecassie]

Same lmao I was on the edge of my seat when she first started the story 🤣

[@MsRaindropps]

I do the same thing! 😂

[@karlidomingo]

Hearing you talk about religion made me feel so much closer to you in so many ways. I love that you said you are searching and praying. You are faithful in the ways that matter in your daily life, praying and searching, without feeling the need to show anything outwardly and regardless of the outside religious world, and that is how I feel as well. Just thank for you sharing

[@melslatt]

💚 One of the songs I grew up singing in church is "they'll know we are Christians by our love" and that's how I like to go through life. I don't need to talk about my beliefs (because a lot of the time, I'm not even sure what they are exactly). But if I try to be a good person and do good for others, that's what religion is really about. In my opinion. 😊

[@laurabelle89]

@@melslatt wake up with that hymn in my head all the time!

[@daniellengarcia]

I had a very similar experience in New Orleans with some friends recently. A woman approached us while we were walking on Bourbon street, not inside any particular club/bar, and offered the drink to my friend, no words could be heard and she never answered my friend’s question about price until after. She did the same thing, putting the butt of the shot in her mouth and then tipping it into my friend’s mouth. It was $20 a shot, for this little test tube of red or blue shots! Absolute madness. They didn’t ID either, and I’m used to being ID-ed, so I just thought it was so strange that they just assumed we were of age. We were really caught off guard with it all, and since my friend nor I carried cash, we were immediately pointed toward an atm nearby. Definitely strategic. Thankfully a friend of ours in the group covered the cost and we got out of there and stayed off Bourbon for most of the rest of the trip.

[@meganmeister2530]

That New Orleans story JUST happened to me at a bachelorette party. Same thing offered the drink with no words but started with the bride and maid of honor so we thought FOR SURE it was free for them. Ended up being $30 a shot.

[@BlondeAggie]

Yes! Happened at my friend’s bachelorette in NOLA - person at the bar gave the shot to my friend who was the bride and we all thought it was on the house and then said $20 😡

[@BlondeAggie]

I wanted to fight it but it was my friend’s weekend and I didn’t want to ruin her night but it definitely made me v angry

[@sierraskye6779]

I want to tell you how much I appreciate your transparency about post partum depression. As someone who is currently going through it, it’s comforting to know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Even if I can’t see it yet. Thank you Jessica!!!

[@ruthwilfong2342]

I went through it many years ago when little was known or recognized about it. Basically people would say it’s just baby blues, get over it! 😔 The thing is, I continued to go through depression off & on for years after that until I finally found a doctor who had some knowledge & medicated me. So now it’s very rare for me. I wish you the best, & remember what Jess always says. Talk to a doctor. 💙💙💙

[@chiknlittle]

Jessica, loved your chat about religion. I’m 29 (no kids) but actually what really got me thinking deeply about the religion I’d believed in so long was the idea of having kids and raising them in that religion. Something about bringing kids into things made me really take a step back and consider what I actually believe to be good values and what’s unnecessary or harmful. I love those kinds of deep thoughts, that’s what life is about!

[@catcart16]

I’m so glad you shared your story of breast feeding. I wish more people would embrace the fact that it doesn’t HAVE to be one way or another. You can breast feed and use formula. There is way too much stress put on moms already! You do what you can!

[@tayloredbeautyedit]

My mom is what I've always called "build your own Christianity". She's nondenominational and picks and chooses what she likes and what makes her feel the closest to God. She's never been Catholic but does the rosary. We never went to church growing up because she's always believed you don't need to visit a specific location to talk to or honor God. Even though we don't share the same beliefs now that I've grown up, I've always admired that about her and been proud of her for that, for having a unique relationship with her religion that doesn't need a name or specific rules. She does what works for her. You and your husband have your beliefs and as long as you respect those beliefs, labels aren't important.

[@jessicalynn8104]

That’s ridiculous. My husband doesn’t drink and would be pissed if someone poured something down his throat. No one should ever do that without consent.

[@erine7453]

Same! I don't drink and that would be such a huge violation of boundaries. I'd honestly consider pressing charges if someone did that to me

[@cloudscarves]

Grew up Catholic like you, still practicing. I was always given the opportunity to question and test my faith and I was so blessed to be surrounded by teachers (homeschooled and not) and parents who welcomed the questioning and provided resources for me to research. I definitely went through a period of questioning, but my Philosophy and Logic teacher in HS showed me Aquinas’ five proofs for the existence of God and let me digest it, which was a huge watershed moment in my faith journey. Studying natural law and a lot of the ancient philosophers (and church fathers, whaddup St. Gregory of Nazienzen who wrote theological poetry about feeling like an imposter and depression that still hits fantastically today. And shoutout to Thomas Merton’s No Man is an Island which changed everything for me in College) really helped me understand what I believed and why. Hoping and praying for the best for you on your journey. I fully believe that those who earnestly seek truth will find it.

[@staceyfinch8486]

Because of this video my kitchen got cleaned tonight. 😂 I was dreading doing it, and basically told myself if there was a new video to watch from one of my favs then I would push myself…and there was your video filled with funny stories, life updates, etc! Your videos always make my day/week better, the genuineness, openness, and the love you have for your family is so wonderful to see.

[@katherineprisco7074]

New Orleans- I had a really similar story happen to me in Rome, except we were two women being bullied by the male owners of the restaurant to pay over 200 euros for a one course meal with a bottle of wine. We were conned into how much the main meal cost. We cried afterwards because we felt so stupid and so taken advantage of and really put a cloud over an otherwise lovely trip. I wish we'd had a guardian angel that day, so great to know there are protective people out there! I went to New Orleans over Mardis Gras in 2020 (just before it alll "kicked off") and we didn't have any kind of experience like that, luckily, it was all bizarre but wonderful. Just be careful wherever you go but don't let it put you off, the world is our beautiful lobster again!

[@jemsopp7125]

I remember being devastated when I couldn’t breast feed my twins. It was like the death of this fantasy I had where I would be rocking them in my new rocking chair, bonding with them each in those quiet moments like only a nursing mother could. My Great-Grandma came to visit and said we were so blessed to have the option of formula. She shared that her mother lost 2 babies because she couldn’t produce enough milk for them. When she, once again had a baby she couldn’t nurse, the neighbor showed up with a mama goat who’d lost her kid. Apparently the goat milk did the trick and she had a total of 11 children, my Great-Grandma Mary being the oldest of 9 brothers & one sister. I still got to bond with my daughters during feeding time, I just had to shift my perspective a bit. It really is sad how much pressure we put on ourselves as new moms.

[@rebeccawright9508]

I was able to nurse my twins til 8 months but supplemented from their birth. One would get a bottle and the other the breast then switch the next feeding. When I had to stop because I couldn't keep up with them (plus I had a 6 year old and a 2 year old) I felt like the worst mom in the world. Took me a while to shift my perspective too. You're a fantastic mother who did what was right for you and your babies.

[@allye5949]

One of my twins said ‘no way’ to breast feeding at 3 weeks and was formula fed from then on and the other one I breast fed until 16 months with no supplementation. My third baby breast fed happily until 16 months too. Babies each have their own characters and as mothers we just have to go with what works and learn not to beat ourselves up about things being other than what we wanted.

[@breeyawnahinton]

This is a great way to put this subject into perspective.

[@liuwanzhu4227]

I remember when I had my kid, for the first couple months, I could just look at him and tear would just pour down my face for no reason. I couldn’t explain it, I felt so down, so helpless, so anxious, so scared, there was so much emotion all packed in me, and I couldn’t deal with it. It was so sad. I appreciate your share about your PPD so much, it helped me understand myself and my life, and to move on. Love you.

[@stephaniedinardo6334]

The movie Somewhere in Time with Christopher Reeve and Jane Seymour was filmed on Mackinac Island. One of my all time favorite movies. Love the Coffee Chats💗

[@dguillen1226]

That New Orleans story is wild! Good for you and Tyler for sticking up for yourselves! At 21 yo I also would have been super tearful and not known what to do. What a sweet family for having your back!

[@ElinevanderLaan]

Omg the New Orleans story had my jaw DROPPED. These are my favourite videos of yours, love when you're just chatting. Love from The Netherlands. X

[@kazooboo2431]

Thank you for talking about postpartum depression and shedding light on something so many people experience. You are such an inspiration to me. I love all your videos and love watching your beautiful little family 🥰 Thanks for lighting up my days with your great content!

[@NERE1223]

My two sons attend catholic schools. I really like it and my son that is now 21, he thinks twice before doing something. The habit to donate, give to the need, to pray, to help and also do community hours that is what I like about it.

[@ArianaMichele123]

THANK YOU FOR MENTIONING STORY WORTH! I was looking for a gift for my grandmother for her 89th birthday. This is perfect

[@amymetzger5369]

That happens so much in New Orleans!! I always tell people do not take ANYTHING from those people not behind the bar. So happy that man came to your aid and paid, so sweet!

[@audrey8261]

This New Orleans story is absolutely crazy. I’m almost 21 the summer, and I know I would feel exactly how you did in that situation.

[@maggierose1197]

Agree completely it is sooo hard finding your place religiously. I grew up in a very religious household and was definitely hurt by individuals inside the church. In that hurt, I found my clarity really came when I just sat myself down, read the Bible and prayed - nothing more. It’s so easy to feel over whelmed by the Christian faith because we put SO MUCH unnecessary stress on ourselves to be perfect. It’s not about going to church and ticking those brownie point boxes, it is simply just a relationship with God. The church was never supposed to be a building. The church is his people and the building was meant to be a place where believers could go and lift one another up. The right fellowship element got lost in translation. It’s so sad because that’s what we desperately need in todays world - a place we can go and understand we are all sinners but God loves us anyway.

[@jojogalaxia79]

Very well put. It's not about the "religious" aspects, it's all about our relationship with God. Much more simple than we tend to make it 🙂

[@jojomarch]

Such a good suggestion re gift cards. I've noticed from various things that the US has a much more positive thing around giving gift cards than here in the UK. I've always loved them, and I think especially for people in your life/professionals etc who aren't paid well/well enough, they can really be a lovely treat even for small things like a coffee at Starbucks, target treat etc. Felicity is so gorgeous! She looks so much like Gigi it's so cute

[@hayleebaird-lira5558]

Sitting down to watch with my iced coffee while my 6wk old and toddler nap. I was so excited when you announced you were pregnant when I was because I knew I’d get to watch your pregnancy journey along with experiencing mine. It just dawned on me that as long as you’re making videos and I’m watching KZbin we’ll be like friends always going through similar life stuff with daughters the same age 🥰💖

[@debbiebrower7780]

When my children were young the school they went to did not have a lot of extra money. We started a teacher wish list for their classrooms games flash cards out door games so the teachers wouldn’t have to buy it themselves. It became a great idea and it is useful items!

[@trace9657]

That is great idea. It is so depressing that teachers have a paltry salary and have to buy their own classroom supplies.

[@Christian-is-thriving]

Okay. The New Orleans story. I live and used to work in the Florida equivalent of the French Quarter (Ybor City in Tampa). Yes that was a scam. You were targeted because you were young and more because you were obviously tourist. Locals in areas like that can spot a tourist a mile away and some will sadly scam people because of that. Yes that bouncer was gonna get a cut and if there was alcohol at all in those shots it was probably schnapps which has very little alcohol and is dirt cheap. I've watched many bartenders up charge tourist double or more on very basic drinks. The club I worked at didn't do it but regulars would often get free drinks because they spent a lot and supported the club. If this happens to anyone reading this, make them call the cops. 99% of the time they will fold because the cops usually side with the tourist, especially if you are not drunk.

[@Chronically_Kimberly]

My husband and I love Ybor City. We lived in St. Pete. There are definitely some shady things that happen there but you learn where to stay away from. I swear tourists must have blinking signs on their foreheads. Cause we have definitely been caught up at a few places. Anyway, I second and third this statement and all the others. Tourists beware ESPECIALLY if you're super young. There are some very scary things that happen in some places like, drugging, robbery, r@pe. Please be careful out there.

[@Christian-is-thriving]

@@Chronically_Kimberly You get a feel for who's not from around here pretty quickly. It's very noticable if you pay attention and people that are trying to harm you in some way always are.

[@Chronically_Kimberly]

@@Christian-is-thriving that's true because I can almost always tell when someone isn't a local. But I never really thought about it til now.

[@mrsdarcy80]

I grew up in a specific religion and I don’t always agree with everything either but also enjoy, appreciate and even love many aspects of that religion. I think one thing to consider is I don’t leave that religion because people like me who are the ones who can help bring small but important changes to a religion. It does happen, it has happened. No religion is perfect. They are run by humans who make human errors. But finding a church in your religion can be helpful sometimes.

[@zcat752]

Love your coffee chats sm, I always watch them when getting ready in the morning and it feels like catching up with a friend!

[@kaindra3006]

I NEEDED this today, just got some bad news about my grades and I need to relax, you always brighten up my day, you're my comfort youtuber

[@peggyboyer7967]

Ham g in there life usually gets better!

[@Chronically_Kimberly]

I'm not sure what you're going to school for but I'd like to pass this along. I'm not saying to just barely ride the GPA line but my husband said something super important to me when I was in school. He asked me, "what do you call someone whole graduates nursing school with a 4.0?" "A nurse, right?" "What do you call someone who graduates nursing school with a 3.5?" "A nurse, right?" So, while yes you want to try your hardest, getting a couple of bad grades likely isn't going to stop you from graduating and becoming who/what you want to be. Try not to beat yourself up (I had a really hard time with this). You can do it. Just breathe. I ultimately had to drop a whole semester (4) classes, had to spend more money to take again and I graduated 1 semester late for Nursing with a 3.8 GPA. Was it what I wanted, No. But I still did it and a 3.8 is not something to sneeze at. Best Wishes.

[@kaindra3006]

@@Chronically_Kimberly thank you so much for your kind words! I'm in school for Psychology and where I live, things are a bit different in terms of grades and graduation, but I'll do my best to stay positive and continue :) Thank you so much again!

[@kaindra3006]

@@peggyboyer7967 yes, thank you so much!!

[@Chronically_Kimberly]

@@kaindra3006 You're welcome, Love. Try not to beat yourself up. Just Breathe. You got this. 🙂

[@whitney1677]

My husband (that religion), and mine (a calmer little less rigid one). Rough experiences tainted it for him as well. It's tough but I think if you share morals and values you are good!

[@territrabert1201]

That New Orleans story is crazy. So glad that couple rescued you, there are good people out there! , We also say Reesies. Everytime!😁

[@sarahstatt1242]

Watching this while in labour on oxytocin after being induced over 24 hours ago❤️ helping keep me calm thank you!

[@mokachick]

Hope baby arrived ok ❤️❤️❤️

[@katherinej9617]

I visited NOLA with my husband in 2019 and nothing like that happened to us thankfully. We had such an amazing time. We love the food/culture/people. I hope you and Tyler give it another shot!😄

[@arsenicandlace7689]

I'm born, raised and still live in the New Orleans area and I always tell anyone not from the area to be super cautious when in the city, let alone in the quarter or on Bourbon. It's literally a free for all of shady and dangerous activities. It's crazy to think that for us locals, or at least for me, grew up going to the French Quarter since I was a baby and was bar and club hopping on Bourbon since the age of 14 and have just always known what to beware of there. As an adult now, Bourbon's just not my scene, but I will always love the mystery and history of the quarter and just love walking around.

[@amyjohnson5839]

I will make sure if I ever get to NOLA to stay away from those areas. I dont drink or go clubbing, but I like music, jazz, but this story makes we want to avoid all of that.

[@victoriaandersonn]

I’m a Michigander so I loved hearing you talk about your experience there! Michigan’s Adventure is so fun! You have to go sometime.

[@itsmedmm]

Please keep over explaining! We all love you for it, and I love learning from you and your stories/experiences. Just keep being you Jess!

[@StarleighMae]

Sooo cool!!! I live in Ludington!! I've lived in Michigan nearly my whole life. I love hearing you talk so highly of these beautiful Michigan cities! Mackinac is one of my most favorite places to visit! The UP is incredible everywhere you go too! Yayyy! ❤

[@MadisonGProductions]

Thank you for your honesty about religion! I grew up Mormon and fully left about 5 years ago and I've never been happier, but it definitely has tainted my experience with spirituality/religion in any regard. I relate to Tyler on that! My friends and family are much more spiritual than I am and it's hard sometimes to not match but it's nice to hear that a healthy couple can navigate their differences. It's also nice to hear other adults that are searching for what they believe in!

[@cynthialang3119]

Holy cow the picture of Felicity smiling looks just like GiGi!

[@cariebbaker]

I gave Storyworth as a gift to both of my parents for Christmas last year bc of your recommendations. They loved it and it snowball to being gifted all over the family over the past year. Thank you so much!

[@hetty805]

Thanks for sharing your faith story. You're so right that you have to know for yourself why your faith is your faith. For me I don't want to use the Bible as an a la cart menu and realized my opinion doesn't matter, His does. Definitely humbling but also wonderful. Walking with Christ is a life long journey and it's so comforting to know He's in control. I hope you guys find the answers you're looking for!

[@marshaanderson4756]

Jess! I LOVED your comments on religion. I'm a Lutheran pastor, and to me, the wrestling with what you do/don't believe is SO meaningful and important. That way, wherever you land, you own it. ✨

[@samanthalutson8155]

I’m from south west MI and let me tell you, it’s so easy to forget how beautiful it is here. I grew up across the railroad tracks from Lake Michigan and run a restaurant 10 mins down the road that’s even closer to the beach. We get so many travelers and it just reminds you that we’re a beautiful vacation spot.

[@t.g5223]

When you said you feel like you are friends with your favorite KZbinrs it explained exactly how I feel towards you! Followed you for years and literally find comfort in your videos. I truly feel like we would be such great friends in every day life🥰😂 so much love for you, Jess!🤍

[@brittypie8411]

“It all happened so fast!!” Lol Pam explaining to the IT guy 😂😂🤣🤣

[@alliedyke6825]

That’s the most New Orleans story EVER!!

[@taylorjenkins4517]

I just wanted to touch on your point that sometimes as kids you may have blindly accepted certain things but now you’re actively aware that you disagree with other points and I just related SO much and it made me feel seen. So thank you 🥰

[@bentleysmom8173]

I absolutely love the UP of Michigan. My family used to go up every single summer for years. Harbour Springs is my personal favorite bur I also love Mackinac Island too. So glad to hear someone on KZbin talking about that region! ❤

[@ImaTChure]

I grew up in Michigan! Your stories about Mackinac Island & Michigan's Adventure are bringing back core memories from my childhood!

[@robinnieto2703]

Jess, thank you so much for what you shared. I’m 60 and I totally agree with what you said about so many things. My first pregnancy was very hard, sick the entire 9 months. The birthing classes never covered the possibility of a C-section or the possibility of not being able to nurse. I was 14 days past my due date, was induced and had 30 hours of hard labor before the doctor decided I needed an emergency C-section because my son was in distress. The epidural didn’t work for me so they had me on a morphine drip and when he was delivered they had to put me to sleep. They pushed the tube down my throat and told me to swallow causing me to throw up.when he was delivered several people, friends, saw and held him before I even had a chance. To top if all off, I wasn’t able to nurse more than 3 months. I felt like I had failed in all aspects….pregnancy, delivery, nursing, all failures. There are still times I’m bothered by it but I have a wonderful son and realize it’s not important anymore.

[@cindyhughey1153]

I know what you mean about being raised on religion then you get older and don't agree on everything. I grew up Catholic, for me I just never felt anything and thought it was me. I went to Catholic school, CCD, and Church. I am 62 and when I was around 50 I went seeking God again. I found a non-denominational, Bible believing, spirit filled church and it was all the difference for me. I think it's the relationship with God that he wants! It doesn't matter what denomination you are! I used to fight with depression and since I figured out it's a relationship that is what matters my life is so much better. I hope this helps you!

[@Sadimc_beauty]

Still here Jess! Loved this talk and it’s so relevant. Thanks for sharing all your mom experiences, it’s very appreciated! You never over share lol I cling to every word!

[@kerriganlemoine1513]

Listening to your story at the beginning heels so odd. I’m from Michigan, grew up in Ann Arbor, went to college in Grand Rapids and visited Holland often, have family in TC and Muskegon. So surreal to hear you talk about some of my favorite places!

[@aileenbell6750]

My grandfather worked for the Grand Hotel when he was a young man. It gives me the chills to hear that you stayed there. I would love to go someday. He also grew up in Indiana btw. 🥰 Blessings!

[@saraheddy4211]

One of my favorite early memories is when my aunt and uncle brought me to the navy pier childrens museum! I'm sure its changed a bit in the 20ish years since we went but I know if you end up taking Gigi you all will have a great time ☺

[@reynahemsworth7535]

You really made me forget I was watching KZbin. I felt like I was transported and you was just talking to me about your experience 🌺

[@taylorfranklin616]

I really appreciate you touching on the religious piece. My husband and I are definitely on the same page with a lot of it but grew up and completely opposite homes where his family was very religious and mine was not. I feel like a broken record when I say we are just trying to figure things out so it’s so good to hear you say that.

[@jessicalowell8237]

I live and work in Holland, right on Lake Michigan and we LOVE IT! It’s so cool to hear you talk about Dutch village, I grew up going there and to Michigan’s Adventure.

[@morgan6404]

I'm SO glad you mentioned Traverse City. I was actually looking to vacation there and would LOVE to hear your recommendations on what to do there, where to eat, etc.

[@ashleymjoness]

Just started this video and I’m SO thrilled it’s such a long one! I thoroughly enjoy long ones just “hanging out” with you 🥰

[@a49-n2o]

It's so admirable that you find importance of continuously searching - I pray you guys find what you need!

[@hollid_makeupandreviews]

Hey Jess. My husband, father in law and I were in Indianapolis this past weekend for the Indy 500 race. We left Friday morning from Tulsa Oklahoma which was a long 10 hour drive but was so worth it. We had a really great time! We went downtown Indy on Saturday to the Canal walk. It was so beautiful down in that area. There was over 300k people at the race on Sunday. I’ve never seen so many people in one place it was pretty crazy but a lot of fun! Then another 10 hour drive back home on Monday. Hope you and your family had a great time on your trip. Much love girl. ❤❤❤❤

[@chloesismey731]

I had a similar act of kindness from a stranger on a plane. Coming home from our trip, in the window seats, with a stranger in the row seat. We asked the air hostess for 2alcoholic drinks & 2mixers. She made the drinks, then informed us it was cash only. Which left is in a tough spot as our cash was in our suitcase in the overhead area. Getting our cash would have ment moving a lot of people, cases, the drinks trolley etc, & the lady was standing waiting with the drinks made. Without hesitation, the stranger next to us paid for our drinks, got himself one & even regularly asked if we'd like any more drinks or any food. It was such a nice gesture & he really helped us out of a tough situation. Ment more than he'll probably ever know!x

[@Alice-oe4kd]

I was bought up in a religious family and went to all the schools. As an adult I was betwixt and between for many years. Some time back I joined the Episcopal Church and knew I was home. May God bless your journey.

[@hconf]

I’m so upset those people got the $50!!! They were wrong!! My principled nature hates that!

[@mialyon1357]

Love how open and honest you are on your channel

[@barbaraveloz1730]

What a crazy New Orleans story! So great that the couple defended & helped you two out

[@debbieg3079]

This is the first time I have heard your coffee chat. Really enjoyed it. My husband and I lived in South Bend area for 18 years and he retired in 2020 and we moved back to Missouri. I miss the snow and going to Michigan also. We loved Lake Michigan and went often as we were only 40 minutes away. Blessings to you and your family.

[@kelseywhite5956]

Happy birthday GiGi! Hope you guys are having a fun day xx

[@cassd307]

My daughter is 14mo and 6 days after I gave birth I ended up in the hospital and needed heart surgery due to a rare pregnancy related issue. Because of meds I then had to be on I could no longer breastfeed and it put me in a really bad place. I had remembered your video when you had talked about it with Gigi and it helped me more than you'll ever know. You always think you overshare but you saved me in that moment when I rewatched it and I really wanted to thank you for that. You are an amazing person. I live in Chicago, if you come here to visit I hope you have a wonderful time and let us know how Gigi likes the museum, haven't done that yet with our daughter. Also...Bob's Burgers The Movie...are you and Tyler as excited as my husband and I are?! 😄

[@hannitabeautysison]

Also Chicago summer is the best! We have such a short live summer but so much to do! 💕

[@marykleinheksel8890]

Jessica, Jessica, I live in the Holland, MI, area and I can't believe you were right here! I hope you had a great time in our town...we grew up here [I am 62] and we STILL love living here in this community and also love living near Lake Michigan, a true gem!! Love your content and these videos!! Also love how you are humble, fun and compassionate!! ❣️ personality

[@G.I._.Josh21]

I'm going to leave this here for you because I saw your video. My wife was playing your channel on the TV in our living room. I sincerely hope you read this: I hear this all the time. The part about growing up, stepping back and taking time to examine your religion. That is wisdom. That is intelligence. It is necessary. I'm very familiar with the concept. I want to say to you, when it comes to religion, don't pick and choose what fits you..... crazy right? Don't pick and choose what fits YOU. Don't look JUST for things you like or JUST for things you agree with. SEARCH FOR TRUTH. Because the religion that's going to impact you, the most profoundly and in in the best way possible, is the one that opens your mind to newfound TRUTHS. Many subdivisions of religions have become like social media. They come with an algorithm to figure out what what keeps the audience entertained. Just like any show, it can't go on without an audience. What to say, what not to say, the aesthetic, the mental impact the musical has on you.(yes, 100% for a fact music is used to achieve mental responses which is psychologically accurate) Any congregation who's services are currated for the member enjoyment.... is full of lies. And if you choose one such as this you will never fully agree with the message the same way you will never fully trust someone who always tell you what YOU want to hear. TRUTH might make you think. TRUTH might make you smile. TRUTH might sting a little, or maybe alot.... It's not always comfortable but it's always HONEST. TRUTH is full of LOVE, but it also DOES NOT waver in the face of current poplur opinions. It is unchanging & timeless. Some of the sweetest tasting things in life are bad for your body. TRUTH is like fruits and vegetables. Sometimes it tastes wonderful, and sometimes it's bitter, but it's always going to nurish you better than anything else. Don't just find something you like or something that entertains you. We have music concerts, live shows, and TV for that. If your considering something like religion, that is for the benefit of your EVERLASTING SOUL... find something you can ACTUALLY BELIEVE IN beyond the shadow of a doubt.. You are beautiful, you are human, you are loved. You deserve truth above all else. I'm not going to tell you in this comment what I myself believe truth is and where to find it. Everyone has their version of right. But I strongly believe that if you're truly looking, you WILL find it. Not someone's version of right, but what is actually TRUE. Sincerely & with all the best wishes in the world, ///Josh///

[@MaryAIbanez]

My FAVORITE series of yours!!! You’re the most genuine KZbinr and these are the videos that make me feel the most connected to you 💕

[@Irelanddriveasmr]

I would love know about your family Irish history. Sounds like a great story time

[@kryskay989]

I love the interesting conversation about religion. My husband and I both have gone through hurtful situations in different religious groups and definitely separated ourselves from some specific environments. What we've realized is there is a difference in having a cultural world view and a Biblical world view, so that distinction has definitely helped us navigate the religious environment as we continue moving forward in our own personal journeys :)

[@KristinPaigeM]

I would love to see a video on Tyler’s channel of you two telling stories and giving travel advice, including keep your mouth closed in New Orleans!

[@laurenmay437]

Jess!!! That same thing happened to us in NOLA!! They just shove it in your mouth and force you to pay. You just have to walk away, its so frustrating. My husband said some choice words and just left. There are so many cons in New Orleans you have to watch out.

[@BubblyViolin11]

My best friend grew up Catholic (conservative and in a Mexican household) and I have another friend who grew up Protestant. Both are in a similar place as you and Tyler. My Christian friend has had lots of bad experiences and hasn’t had any luck finding a church that aligns with her interpretation of the religion so she’s feeling discouraged. She’s moving soon so hopefully she’ll have access to more diversity in churches and congregations to find a good fit for her. My Catholic friend was a bio major in college and is going to nursing school now, and she has been able to draw a pretty clear line between what she believes from the religion and science. She’s gotten to a place where she’s comfortable with balancing the two topics in her life. They’ve both told me it’s been a journey of self discovery for both of them that’s taken a lot of time and reflection. I think a lot of people would be able to relate to you and Tyler in that way. My mom never pushed her religious practices onto me so I’ve had the benefit of being able to connect to spirituality in my own way.

[@ParisianSkies12]

happy 4th birthday gigi!! so crazy to think she’s 4 already ♥️

[@cjdippo]

Thank you so much for shedding light on your PPD journey and comparing baby #1 and baby #2. I also suffered from PPD/PPR and didn’t get on meds for months and I feel like I was slightly robbed of the blissful newborn phase. We want another child but that is what’s stopping me in my tracks bc I *remember* how bad it was. Our first is just now 18months so I think we are going to wait at least another year before trying again but thank you for shedding light on this and giving me hope that it can be better. I also function better on routine and schedules and that was a HUGE adjustment when we had our little guy

[@laurak96]

Isn’t it interesting that we feel attached or friends with the KZbinrs we watch on a regular basis?! It’s something that wasn’t experienced while I was growing up without the internet…that’s for sure 😂😂 Anyways, I just wanted to let you know that I agree with your observation and I feel like you and I could be friends 🤍🤍🤍 I truly enjoy your personality and your laugh is contagious 😉

[@neon.anissa]

I'm glad you told the new Orleans story. I've been thinking about going there with friends and this is something that would happen to me.

[@gritty_fam]

I love your videos they really inspire me to get ready everyday and feel good about myself. Thank you 🙏

[@estherchagoya5400]

I grew up in the same religion as you...I think, I stepped away in my 20s and came back in my 30s. Some things I may not agree with but, big but, I have only found the fullness of my faith there. My motto, Love God and Love others. ❤

[@colleenokeefe5445]

Can totally relate to your NOLA story! Same thing happened to my husband and I about 10 years ago in Cozumel. We didn’t know what was happening but ended up with a $50 bill for shots and before and as it was happening thought they were free. Lesson learned for young us. It’s like they know how to target you and you are forced into a stupid expensive bill you would never had agreed to if you knew the cost up front.

[@melodiebrown6727]

Your makeup is beautiful and I enjoyed your stories from your trips. You need to keep a journal so when you reach my age (62) your children will so enjoy hearing or reading them. I do enjoy my kids telling me their stories and I share with them. It makes family gatherings enjoyable. Keep up your great work 👍. You are awesome!

[@brittanyfreeman9101]

Thank you so much for sharing your story about breastfeeding versus bottle feeding. I’m a first time mom with a four month old and had such a tough time making enough milk to feed my baby. There was a lot of pressure and guilt. Plus I felt like every female was trying to push me to nurse more. I tried seeing a lactation consultant and was pumping or feeding every 2 hours. It finally took the pediatrician saying it was okay to stop and that I didn’t make enough to realize he would be a mostly formula baby. To make matters worse I also had PUPPPs after giving birth which didn’t help being on a steroid. I’m so glad things are going better for you this time around with Felicity! I hope it continues.

[@connleaa]

My kids are quite a bit older than yours, but here is what we do when we travel : whenever we stop for gas, if we are in a safe area, I have the kids run around the car 5 times before they get to go get snacks or whatever. Of course I make sure to supervise. They think it is fun, and people around us always seem to get a big kick out if it.

[@mariar3715]

I went to Michigan as a small child, which i barely remember. I went back in 2019 to a few different areas of Michigan and fell in love. It was the best vacation, especially the UP was so beautiful.

[@sarahvechery4589]

Our journies with our babes are so so similar! I had horrible ppd/ppa with my oldest, sobbed when I couldn’t nurse and when I bought formula for the first time, I now realize that my oldest was for SURE colicky. And then my youngest came along and was completely opposite! I nursed full time but gave formula here and there and I felt so much more relaxed about it all. Thank you so so so much for speaking out about ppd ❤️. I remember I was going through it around the same time as you and it’s SO hard. Much love ❤️❤️❤️.

[@maeganfindley3542]

I am so happy you finally shared the New Orleans story! It's such a good one!! And maybe it'll help someone out.. New Orleans doesn't seem to change much... haha Also, thank you for sharing about your religion 'stuff', I'll call it. It's not usually an easy topic, but you made it more conversational and less about the particulars. I think it's so fair to still be exploring and questioning and having an open mind with some grounded beliefs. Growth is essential. And, I'm a mom of 3 and had PPD with my first and a lot of it stemmed from "failing" at breast feeding. And then had 2 that breastfed for a whole year each. All we want to do is feed our babies and not get judged for either way it ends up being... you're a wonderful person and a great mom! Thank you for sharing so much of your life!! ~a devoted subscriber

[@missymorales7376]

Woo whooo 🎉 Razzed and Jazzed 💃 Coffee Chat for my Birthday 🎂🎉 🎂

[@roseg1333]

I was lucky in the religion area my husband was atheist or lack of religion then converted to marry me and at first he was like I’ll do it for you but idk how much I’ll practice it. It was something very special to me and meant a lot to me (my religion and faith) and when the pandemic hit we both went even deeper into our faith (and I think it’s the same as yours 😅) but it has been such a blessing to grow in faith with him. He even encourages me to go and do what we need to do sometimes😃🥰 I know that isn’t always the case as I have heard from others. If I’m right as I believe I might be, try going more traditional, it really clears the politics and clutter out of everything. It made such a difference for us personally. Praying you guys find your middle ground and peace. Sending love, Charity , and prayers 🙏🏼🕊♥️🙏🏼

[@CheekSoup]

As someone who was raised with religion deeply ingrained, becoming a parent really made me reconsider what exactly I wanted to pass on. Instead of teaching my kids that there is one absolute truth (and only one right way to interpret the Bible… yikes!) I’ve taught them that different people believe different things. We talk about all kinds it different beliefs and respecting other beliefs and I present it to them as their choice to make. Knowing my own experiences as a child and what we know now about how brains develop, that feels like the most honest and ethical way to go about it.

[@glitzandglamgirl22]

As someone from NOLA, I've been dying to hear this story for years!! We went to Bourbon for my friend's 21st and the same thing happened to us. Needless to say, I've never been a big fan of Bourbon lol

[@annieoddo1475]

I live in New Orleans (but am about to move for the DCP). Always wondered if there were any Jessica fans around here!

[@wheresyourhousekey]

my heart was pounding with anxiety listening to your New Orleans story 😭😂 that man was a saint !! thank goodness he was there ! ❤️