Love Languages Debunked? | What Really Matters?

[@MarkRDenison-i2o]

Keep preaching that truth! Love languages - the pop psychology that is probably ruined more relationships than helped. Kind of like reading your daily horoscope for your personality validation. Human beings are multifaceted, multidimensional, complicated, and messy creatures. We are all of them all at once, and none of them all the time. Any Other conclusion is just reductive.

[@tinyhands7651]

Any relationship ruined by 'love languages' (or horror-scopes, or Hallmark movies, or ___) was doomed to be ruined anyway. It's too simplistic to blame it on that.

[@Ed-b178]

Spot on Carey, Mr Chapman's book is a great conversation starter to better understand each other. We all have our ebbs and flows throughout time and prefer different things at different times. Attentiveness and compassion are the rule of the day. Always a thumbs up for your super sweet mom!!! 👍🤎☕

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I just told her you said so! She stopped by to hand off bags she picked up from Menards for me. They are perfect for clearing out the cat litter. Lol. 🐈

[@Ed-b178]

@@CoffeewithCarey That would be great information if I still served as staff for a feline. LOL I'll be glad to pass that on to my friends that still serve in that capcity. 🐱

[@Ed-b178]

@@CoffeewithCarey It makes me smile to think that I make your mom smile!!!

[@cristinalacoste2062]

Thank you Carey, I always enjoy your videos!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I’m so glad! ☕️☕️

[@bobmoore6248]

I am of the stripe I like to help people. I can sit for hours watching TV just holding hands or touching my GF hair. There are no sexual connotations just being in the moment. It brings such peace to me and have found non sexual touching works well for both people. You are correct it is more complicated than just a few things.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

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[@sabrina9333]

Omg, thank you so much 💓 I can't stand to be asked that question. 🙃🙄 I'm all of the above because I'm a human being. Yes of course I prefer one more than the other just a little bit but I wouldn't say I'm 100% words of app formation over touch, I mean there's a time and a place for everything but acts of service like for god sakes take out the trash will get you closer on my good side then anything else for sure.😅

[@CoffeewithCarey]

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[@johnballard6725]

The Love Languages book was a game changer as much as John Gray's Mars and Venus book ?

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Well, if it resonates with you then keep it I guess. But just keep in mind what I discussed in the episode! 🤎

[@RobertSkene-qw3ob]

I love you even tho though you remind me of Pepe Le Peu when you eat sauerkraut!! My Love SKUNK!!🇨🇦😂

[@CoffeewithCarey]

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[@MottJohnson]

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[@CoffeewithCarey]

… for the money, two for the show…

[@MottJohnson]

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[@CoffeewithCarey]

2, buckle your shoe…