Comedian Shuler King - Peace Comes In Different Ways

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@kennyking4554 Ай бұрын

Shuler: "If you want peace in your house, you have to have peace dwelling within you, she has to have peace dwelling within her. And the two of you manifest that peace in your house together". Me: That's a word!

@chumps7974 Ай бұрын

Yup

@nayakiabates8814 Ай бұрын

That part ❤

@glorymosbyfloyd3878 Ай бұрын

Indeed

@ericablige9449 Ай бұрын

Ase'

@BuffKangaroo1 17 күн бұрын

Sound like a woman

@IslandGirlKelly Ай бұрын

A very wise man, my late beloved step-father, once told me that good relationships aren't 50/50. They are 100/100 percent. Each partner needs to put in their all. Blessings to all. 🙏🏻💕

@shirleyfoust9514 Ай бұрын

Yes Lordy, Amen 🙏💙

@purplesoul9927 Ай бұрын

Thanks Dad❤

@follow-me-lead-the-way Ай бұрын

@@IslandGirlKelly well he also should've told you that the word partner should only apply to business or same sex marriages.

@Big_Sly Ай бұрын

Exactly! I don't know where this 50/50 came from! Everybody needs to put in 💯

@sashahakadosh8435 Ай бұрын

Exactly!

@JacquelineSmithGaston Ай бұрын

Raising kids is not for the faint of heart. 😂

@ShuttleQueenChronicles Ай бұрын

😂 6 kids,2 dogs & 1 cat 😊 raising kids is not for the weak.

@marissa5074 Ай бұрын

SAHM, 2 under 2 and a dog, it’s wild over here! 😂

@JacquelineSmithGaston Ай бұрын

You must have peace within yourself first...pure truth

@Ysnuggle Ай бұрын

You’re right. There are people with money and are MISERABLE.

@MJohns-ui2vs Ай бұрын

I don’t know why people think cooking and cleaning is a solely woman’s job. Cooking and cleaning is just being a responsible damn adult!

@nottodayimbusy7146 6 күн бұрын

I think it's more about the roles in their relationship like my mom did the cooking and cleaning and my dad did the housework as far as if anything broke down he would fix it he would shovel the sidewalk in front of the house or the driveway cut the grass wash the car things like that I think you have to set Roles that everyone's comfortable what's in a relationship Just my two cents but you also correct as an adult you should know how to cook and clean

@nim1900 Ай бұрын

I’m a woman, no kids, no husband and taking care of myself is a lot of responsibility. Thank you!

@donatapowell8143 Ай бұрын

Tell me about it! 😂 I was in a very long (too long) relationship taking care of myself and "my man." We were doing the 50/50 BS and I still had to go out and work just like him and he expected me to be a stepford wife just like his mother was (her husband, his father still cheated). I have been single for too long (he must have put me off black men), but when I look at the cleaning 🪠🪣🧼 I have to do, the laundry, 🧺 cooking in bulk, 🍲🥘🍱 ironing, etc, not to mention taking care of myself not just the house, but self-care, grooming and looking presentable, ect. I wonder how I managed to also take care of a man, his needs, and not to mention his demands and expectations. These black men expect black women to run themselves into the ground for them, and it's only the broke black men who cannot even maintain themselves who want to suck a woman dry. The rich, wealthy black man does not mind "Providing" for his wife (usually a white woman). The average broke black man or "Content Creator" in this case can't afford to live a comfortable life without the help of a woman/slave. Black women need to start abandoning these black men like most of these "Passport Bros" have been doing to black women for decades now. Black women need to start looking for men of other races who are competent, able, and willing to provide for their women with no complaints. Oh, and who are also not afraid of marriage or commitment to a black woman, either.

@donatapowell8143 Ай бұрын

@Tamara-dv7vo Ай бұрын

thank you!! Why am I so much work😂

@The_Chocalate_One Ай бұрын

@@donatapowell8143I agree with the original commenter, but of course you had to make this about race. Please go sit your bitter self down thinking race is the answer like there isn't more broke white dude as there are broke black ones. Stay of social media. If you want to go pander to another race go do so on your own time. No one even said anything about race until your bitter butt brung it up lol. And if I recall the white ones are the ones who set the standard for what a women did in the house back in the day. Not the black ones. So please go race pander somewhere else.

@shyg9250 Ай бұрын

Here, here and I love it....

@nicoleblack5249 Ай бұрын

My husband doesn’t want me to do things I don’t want to do so he makes sure he takes care of the things I hate. But guess what I don’t want him doing things he doesn’t like so I do those things for him. I thank God we are so properly yoked. The things I don’t like he actually enjoys, example I HATE cooking my husband can cook his behind off and enjoys it. He is also one of the messiest people I EVER met. I love cleaning it’s actually relaxes me. Neither one of us can fix ANYTHING so we have the best handyman in the world that we pay 😂😂. It’s not about money it’s about marrying your partner and taking care of each other. We’ve been married 25 years… happily ❤❤❤

@giovanahc Ай бұрын

🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤thanks for sharing !

@queenclarke1 Ай бұрын

I love love this you are me ...I hate cooking love cleaning and I pray to God that he sends me the person he created just for me

@jarredbrown5593 Ай бұрын

Wonderfully said

@tonawhitaker4163 Ай бұрын

This is basically how my parents did it, now that you brought it up. Dad was a handy person with his hands, so he did all the fixing around the house and was quite good at it. He took care of the lawn, the garden beds, heavy cleaning, gave my mom all of the pay check to pay the bills, and the annual tax returns he did too. My stay-at-home mom did most of the cooking, laundry, dishes, light cleaning, paid the bills (with dad's money), and was in charge of us, four children (clothes, colds/sicknesses, homework, advice/support, etc). It worked out pretty well. Neither of them felt overloaded, because they shared the duties of keeping a household in order.

@LadyBNatural Ай бұрын

Good to see that I'm not the only one who doesn't like cooking

@flowbearkodiak2799 Ай бұрын

🤔soooooo yall missed the fact that he said gas was 17,000$(seventeen thousand) dollars a teaspoon 🤦‍♂️😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@catherinedavis1241 Ай бұрын

hahaha

@feleciavaughn9440 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@mikeharris7261 Ай бұрын

Love when he throws out the random numbers 😂😂😂

@oyandakona5994 Ай бұрын

🤣

@kermiathmcclendon9643 Ай бұрын

"Anything that adds value to your life adds a responsibility it can be fun but not necessarily an easy life" Paraphrasing this wisdom. Well said

@derrickleflore5618 Ай бұрын

Money doesn't guarantee that a woman will bring you peace. Money actually brings the worst out of people.

@goddessofpeacelove5341 Ай бұрын

Money only enhances who the person already is 🤔

@ojlott-w4n Ай бұрын

I think u see the truth with money

@stars-are-us Ай бұрын

for YOU

@MarvelousMarleyMar Ай бұрын

Facts

@Dyzonnwin Ай бұрын

Money will make a situation easy but it will not make a husband or wife stay at home.

@bsinclairfuturebillionaire Ай бұрын

17k a teaspoon almost made me spit my drink out!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

@jeffu3248 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@metsl1870 Ай бұрын

ikr😂😂😂😂😂

@TheMsjade1984 Ай бұрын

In this case I believe his point was if you can take something off her plate to decrease her stressors do it! She will have more time to pour into the relationship if she isn’t juggling everything at once. 🥂

@mz.phatbaldkat7839 Ай бұрын

#RESPONSIBILITY is absolutely correct Shuler.👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

@cherylrainey7512 Ай бұрын

Rev. Shuler is preaching today.

@bimmerdriver5317 Ай бұрын

Another result of putting cameras and mics infront of the wrong people. 😂

@shandhawoodard1211 Ай бұрын

😮😮😮

@infinitig37x84 Ай бұрын

Facts

@OneWey2Go Ай бұрын

Please say it louder for the folks in the back

@tommietalley4272 Ай бұрын

Lol 😅 I agree. This brother is confused.

@tommietalley4272 Ай бұрын

Many men cook, clean and help with other chores for the family...which is what he should do. Help your wife and she won't have to do all the work herself.

@tracygolden5418 Ай бұрын

So true Shuler , women learn how to be independent and have your own money.

@brittgayle467 Ай бұрын

And to contribute to the household.

@debmye6959 Ай бұрын

There's nothing like getting up on a Saturday morning, turning on some music and get it in. Then, when it's all done, going back to look how clean the rooms and smelling good. Lastly, getting some Chinese food w/lemonade and chilling the hell out.

@memphizballa1 Ай бұрын

If Shuler makes a video longer than 2 minutes.... somebody's in trouble.... and he's about to fix it 😂.

@cherylrainey7512 Ай бұрын

He said they need to call it RESPONSIBILITY

@eayorentertainment3634 Ай бұрын

Pastor Shuler be on here preaching the truth 😂😂😂😂😂

@charlessmithjr.9384 Ай бұрын

The Lord is your peace.

@Quetzali19 Ай бұрын

👆🏾This!

@godzillionairezz Ай бұрын

Men don't have no problem hiring someone to mow the lawn but have an issue when a woman want to hire some help around the house. A woman working a 9-5, cooking 3 meals a day everyday, cleaning etc... is no joke.

@brittgayle467 Ай бұрын

Except in the video she’s not working a 9-5

@Tone__Wes Ай бұрын

@@brittgayle467and also most women aren't cooking 3 meals a day while working a 9-5 lol. That's not even possible to do day in and day out. In real life lots of men cook more or better than they wife (me included). My wife is better at cleaning.

@donatapowell8143 Ай бұрын

Black men just want to rinse out black women every way they can. This man, unlike the "Content Creator," is rich, so he doesn't mind taking care of his wife (wonder what race she is). All the men commenting are broke @ss black men, so what do you expect and the women are with broke men with no money so they don't have any choice but to agree. Good luck to them. At least that wealthy black man is not afraid to "Provide and Protect." Unlike every man in the comments, he has the means to do so. That's the difference.

@shawnsmith8598 Ай бұрын

True Story

@daviddavis9835 Ай бұрын

Women generally don't have physically hard jobs. Sitting at a desk may be work and stress but it's not physically taxing.

@MsKofi1 Ай бұрын

Shuler's lips, tho!! THAT'S RIGHT...THAT'S RIGHT! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀

@alexd.387 Ай бұрын

😂

@brandonjohnson7729 Ай бұрын

Preach!!!

@alwhite1879 Ай бұрын

My fiancee and I share chores i usually do dishes while he seasons the meat. I usually do sides (vegetables, rice, pastas). That's usually when I finish the dishes. I usually do laundry while he is at work; he does yardwork and we share everything thing else.

@pinkahontas1908 Ай бұрын

Amen! Honestly, I love the smell of a clean house that I have contributed in.

@wbajp Ай бұрын

Wise words said. I’m watching while tidying my kitchen and folding laundry while my husband’s gone to work. Team work makes the dream work. I’ve been married for 34 years!

@fruitypopwhickle6806 Ай бұрын

How long has he been cheating?

@Marquita2789 Ай бұрын

I agree with you 💯❤ Blessings to you and your family!

@Quetzali19 Ай бұрын

Preach Shuler! 34 years of marriage here, and you’re telling the truth and nothing but!

@theadrenalizedartist6843 Ай бұрын

My grandmother used to say that marriage is a leap in the dark. Even if you talk about various things regarding marriage, you don’t know for real who you’re gonna get until you’ve married the person and you’re in the home together trying to build your life. I understand with this man is trying to say; however, a lot of people just lack maturity. A lot of people just do not want to grow or evolve. A lot of women are exhausted by the expectations that they’re running into in their marriages because a lot of them are involved with men who do not help at all. Or, complain and bellyache and whine like they are children. So I honestly think this young man is trying to speak to that issue. Shuler is correct in that if you’re not a responsible person, then don’t even think about marriage and having kids. It’s gonna be iffy being alone and being irresponsible. You have to at least be able to be responsible for yourself and take care of yourself before you start adding anybody.

@CSpice24 Ай бұрын

Speak it, Shuler 👏 I had to think about this myself

@alee7322 Ай бұрын

If this was true, Millionaires wouldn’t be getting divorced.

@janicescott-pair97 Ай бұрын

Good point.

@MzEbony_Luvz 23 күн бұрын

Well said

@mosthi100 Ай бұрын

Lol 🤪😜 Shuler dropped straight FACTS!!!

@sonnyc3573 Ай бұрын

WHEN THE TRUTH IS ALWAYS SPOKEN🙌🏾

@infinitig37x84 Ай бұрын

He don’t know what he talkin about he got the mic & glad he’s in front of the camera

@karmencummings9754 Ай бұрын

RESPONSIBILITY ❤❤❤❤❤❤!!!!

@mykewil4821 Ай бұрын

RESPONSIBILITY 💯💯!

@SS-ch6hl Ай бұрын

Say it again!👏👏👏

@darlenebarnes2135 Ай бұрын

Say it loud, Shuler 🗣 💯

@CPW2017 Ай бұрын

Peace come within the person, you can make things easier as it can get for a woman, if she doesn't have peace within herself then you're wasting your time... WE have to want peace in order to be in peace

@Derrick3150 Ай бұрын

👏🏿👏🏿 Straight facts Shuler!!

@yolandal2176 Ай бұрын

Now this is a whole SERMON…and Shuler PREACHED!

@swill1317 Ай бұрын

This message so good I had to run it back 💯

@AshleysFitnessParty Ай бұрын

Very keen and sharp break down of the truth Schuler

@jeffreyabbey9592 Ай бұрын

God bless that guys simping heart!!! Shuler went off in this one

@jeannief9518 Ай бұрын

I hope you're not married 😂

@numbaeight Ай бұрын

@comedianshulerking no one couldn't have said it better: #RESPONSABILITY, period. Keep bringing us that wisdom the world need it dearly !! Happy Holidays Everyone

@JacquelineSmithGaston Ай бұрын

I do it because I want it done right! I don't do nasty...and he appreciates it!

@vanessamontoya5099 Ай бұрын

Preach Rev!!! Our mamas and grandmamas raised us RIGHT! Live within our means....

@chosen07 Ай бұрын

I don’t want another woman taking care of my husband and family, I cook, clean, and take care of my family with joy and love. I learned that from my mom.

@isisisi. Ай бұрын

This is so true.

@monicagomez4616 Ай бұрын

My grandmother hired help to clean and wash but never to cook for her husband. That’s where she drew the line.

@turquoisepurple7sky151 25 күн бұрын

Tell it

@Kookaburger Ай бұрын

Sounds like a hostage situation…if u ever wanna see ur peace again, pay up

@glorymosbyfloyd3878 Ай бұрын

You're speaking straight FACTS Shuler

@vernicehaliburton4439 Ай бұрын

Preach Pastor King

@EmSquareTheProdigaldaughter 21 күн бұрын

You ain't *missing* the point, you're *MAKING* the point! #GodGivenWisdom.

@keithbailey4089 Ай бұрын

❤ thanks my brother 🙏

@ohthat1girl416 Ай бұрын

Ooooweeee, not a single lie told 💯👏🏾👏🏾

@only1-b-tru-2-u Ай бұрын

Break it down Shuler, make it plain!

@florabartee Ай бұрын

I totally agree!

@lekeshiahunter18 Ай бұрын

Thank you shuler😂❤

@shonnyd4071 Ай бұрын

PREACH SHULER👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@russcatt5952 Ай бұрын

Cooking and cleaning is absolute essential. I know women in there 40's that love taking care of their own home and love doing laundry for her household. True woman in their 40's and 50's have been raised right (those that I know) and they take those responsibilities very seriously.

@vonneal1 Ай бұрын

Periodt pooh

@purplesoul9927 Ай бұрын

Amen❤

@nayakiabates8814 Ай бұрын

Amen

@salimacarter5061 Ай бұрын

@@nayakiabates8814Amen ❤!

@universallove878 Ай бұрын

I appreciate this message 👏👏👏👏

@janicescott-pair97 Ай бұрын

Same here.😊

@ericpotter7072 Ай бұрын

PREACH Shuler. These young people know Adays. Needs proper Advice. Knowledge is Power.most of them are still living at Home with mommy

@mattiaslp9645 Ай бұрын

they live at home with mom. including you right?

@ericpotter7072 Ай бұрын

@mattiaslp9645 no Jack.A.i am living in a 4 Bedroom house with my Wife and kids. And Happily Married. You are Truly Clueless about Reality. Get a Life 💯👊🏿

@Jas-sq5er 27 күн бұрын

I have no issues keeping house and working my 40+ hours. My husband is the chef, and I do the dishes always been that way. 30 years married this year. Blessed!!

@craigmak1977 Ай бұрын

If you truely love someone you will want to do things for each other when I was married I worked full time, cooked, cleaned did laundry, did my 2 step daughter's hair ,got them dressed, took them to and got them from school, fix the vehicles and anything else that needed to be done and my wife still was unfaithful so you can't satisfy some ppl regardless.

@reneechristopher2121 Ай бұрын

You seem to be a decent man who was committed to your marriage.😊😊😊😊

@craigmak1977 Ай бұрын

@reneechristopher2121 yes I enjoyed marriage.

@marvingraves2916 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂...... sounds like that man In a payship not a relationship 😂😂😂😂😂

@kthename08 Ай бұрын

The teaspoon took me out 😂

@LFC4178 Ай бұрын

Gas 17K a teaspoon!🤣🤣🤣

@elainegriffin1762 Ай бұрын

First, there's ABSOLUTELY NOTHING wrong, with having a cleaning service come into your home, IF you can afford it. Now, having said that. I have done both. On hands and knees scrubbing floors, etc. I also had a cleaning service later on in life. I cooked our own meals, baked goodies, etc. In the early stages of our marriage, NO, I did not work outside the home, as I WAS NOT going to pay someone to keep my children. Once they were older and in school, I obtained a full-time job but still kept up my household. My husband and I were each other's PEACE. This foolishness this young man is spouting is just that FOOLISHNESS!!

@deborahanthony7875 Ай бұрын

Amen...Thank You Mr King😊

@robertawomack3104 Ай бұрын

That is the truth but not gas is $17,000 a teaspoon 😂😂😂

@cathykent8866 Ай бұрын

Everybody don't have it like that

@jeffu3248 Ай бұрын

Preach It Shuler 🙌🏾 👏🏾 🙏🏽

@joemomma3208 Ай бұрын

mo money mo problems

@marcusbarnes22 Ай бұрын

Truth ❤

@pheebe5729 Ай бұрын

Peace in your home is a huge asset it cannot be bought. I wish it was that easy.

@CharmaineRanford Ай бұрын

Facts 😊

@worldofrealmen8662 Ай бұрын

He's a sympathizer and doesn't know any better

@infinitig37x84 Ай бұрын

Yupppp

@ace20016 Ай бұрын

Who do the domestic work, cooking, and cleaning is decide by each married couple. Some married couples, the wife does it. Others, the husband does it. While others, both the wife and husband. But to be each other peace, follow the Bible advice on how to good wife and good husband. Which doesn’t necessarily depend on who’s doing the cooking and cleaning.

@nicolemarshall5791 28 күн бұрын

Each person in the relationship needs to be committed to treating each other with respect and consideration.

@meemeepalmer4144 Ай бұрын

N when n if they have kids ,how much peace do they think toddlers r gon give them?! 😂no matter how much money they have!!!!

@oderadee169 Ай бұрын

Sometimes, I get tired of working full-time, cooking, cleaning and doing domestic chores inside and outside the house all day for more than 20years. I would like some help if I can get it but so far...

@TiffanyStone2 Ай бұрын

Loud and clear......but is he her peace

@Dryltd 22 күн бұрын

I was shocked at how much dishwasher machine soap cost. I restarted washing with my hands.

@pheebe5729 Ай бұрын

No lies told. This one paying the bills and raising the hell.

@joeAnon796 Ай бұрын

Like Biggie said, Mo' money mo' problems!

@arkansasgirl1313 Ай бұрын

Diddy actually wrote that.

@tonimadison-ruckerSOULutionist Ай бұрын

Come on preach Shuler!!! you spoke all of the whole truth and nothing but the truth my brother! I love it. These are the kinds of conversations that need to be had before, during, and after marriage. Dropping some marriage/life reality is what folk need to hear. Thank you Sir! #Hesaidwhathesaid

@pattibosley1002 Ай бұрын

Cooking and cleaning is never ending. A little help would be nice-maybe have a cleaning service once or twice a week would be nice.

@williemayola Ай бұрын

❤❤❤ you are. Absolutely right

@damaliellis1229 22 күн бұрын

Amen Shuler well said 🙌🏾🙌🏾

@addyb3068 Ай бұрын

Idk Shuler, there's a million dollar industry based on what this man is saying. (Shopping services, cleaning services, catering). These services could be for that single person in the one bedroom apartment you were talking about, but I doubt it. You have to do what works.

@ericablige9449 Ай бұрын

Shuler said.... "WHATEVA" 🤣😂

@sharlogan92 Ай бұрын

Tell the TRUTH, Shuler!!!

@deborahgregoire3310 Ай бұрын

He's right. I have the maid the cook and i can go to the gym, volunteer, get a hobby like pottery or help at the local pantry. Actually I didn't have to work but I always did something for the community or have hobbies

@simplytgb1170 Ай бұрын

Raising children is not easy it is a FULL TIME JOB!! No vacations, no sick days, no time off, you can't call in, it's 24/7/365!! Mom, Dad, Nurse, Driver, Doctor, Taxi, Coach, Therapist, Referee,Cook, Cleaning services all rolled up in on person Mama I had two sons that I love dearly and are truly my HEARTBEATS!! But being a parent isn't easy so I don't understand why people think being a full time stay at home Mom is so easy it isn't it's work lots of work!!

@loveenglish9736 Ай бұрын

Exactly! I cooked, cleaned and raised the children. Homeschooled both children and one with special needs. Both graduated and are fine young men. I stayed at home but I worked.

@brittgayle467 Ай бұрын

There are definitely breaks and no stay at home parent is an expert or occupying those roles full time. There’s no need to exaggerate the work stay at home spouses do in order to respect the actual work.

@shelbywilson8372 Ай бұрын

Excellent point!

@igotyou8835 Ай бұрын

That's what wrong with these dummies you looking at your children as a job lol dumb

@summerrain6125 Ай бұрын

@@brittgayle467 what breaks? When do they get breaks or days off from their kids?

@andrearandle1041 Ай бұрын

I pray gas never ever reaches no where near 17K a teaspoon

@crystalcrawford6955 3 күн бұрын

Period Mr. King ❤

@joycewashington4925 Ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯

@rakn752 Ай бұрын

Listen! No one can get upset or feel offended about what this young man is saying about how he conducts his relationship and what is comfortable for him.. He is sharing his experience of what has bought peace to his home just like everyone else does! Regardless if you agree or disagree it’s still how “he” runs his ship! Peace means different things to different ppl so this is his version lol! I always like to feel like I am contributing so this isn’t my point of view in general but I’m not mad at him for his perception on the subject!

@janicescott-pair97 Ай бұрын

Yep.😊

@danielleamory5428 Ай бұрын

And as soon as she can't be "reached" during the day while he's at work or comes home flustered because she stayed late with her "trainer" he's going to have a problem with it.

@franny5295 Ай бұрын

Domestic help really can improve the quality of life for the whole house. I'm too reserved to let somebody in my space to "clean" it but I won't pretend that it's not a good thing. I'm widowed with one child that I homeschool and all the other things that go into owning a home. I could use some doggone help. Edited to add: Having enough to eat and not beg is amazing. Having enough to destroy yourself is terrible. Most of us can't handle unlimited funds. Not by ourselves and not with anybody else.