KD Aubert Explains Why She's Not Married: "Bad Choices..."

[@ElleBoogie_]

It is unnecessary for her to be that pretty. God was showing out that day. My goodness. 😩

[@indashadewithguccipaid510]

She from my lil country town Shreveport Louisiana

[@dm7744]

And that privilege has crippled all her relationships. From business to intimate

[@rong8889]

@@dm7744 Facts

[@newempire158]

@@dm7744 Her beauty was a gift and curse, she should've humbled herself early on life.

[@santelaneal5374]

@@dm7744I kind of believe that. A woman’s beauty could be her blessing and her curse.

[@BatmanPops]

Man she look just as beautiful as she did back in 2002 👀💯💯👍🏽

[@RS7RV]

Yes Lawd!!!

[@richardheard3288]

No she’s not

[@RS7RV]

@@richardheard3288 Yes she does! U got sight issues? Just asking

[@Kemetblack90]

@@RS7RV she looks older obviously

[@RS7RV]

@@Kemetblack90 she looks 30 something she’s a beautiful woman cuz. Def don’t look her age

[@bricbrac28]

She looks like a blk Angelina Jolie

[@brandalecarter9354]

I jus realized that 🤔

[@lloydwill]

It's the lips

[@lolabunny1157]

@@lloydwill right but hers are most likely real lol

[@lloydwill]

@Lola Bunny Amen! K.D. is beautiful. I met her years ago in L.A. and she was very nice.

[@tr377723]

She really does look like her

[@TheMadsexbeast]

Ladies we don't want or need you to build us up, we will be who we choose to be, all we want is your love, support, and to see you empowered in your femininity.

[@saxyrep1]

💯 brother !

[@anelson603]

This is the 1st comment that made sense in this whole thread

[@Creations4Seasons]

💯💯💯💯

[@kajel1537]

She falls for a guy she can “take to another level in life”. 1. She sounds like she wants kids. 2. If she is so intuitive and relatable and savvy, why can’t she get a man at her level or higher to begin with. 3. Sounds like a Jada Pinket stater kit to me.

[@j-a-r9576]

@@kajel1537 this is all i hear. more "modern women" BS. which is unfortunate because the wall approaches, and it's damn close. It's imperative she realizes what she's qualified for if she wants a family.

[@alexisdavis7578]

She should have done radio! She has a great radio voice. ✨

[@shaneekameli5492]

Her energy is so authentic. Bless her ❤️💯🌹 Glad she’s still here prospering.

[@pudgy399]

Everybody is not built to be Mothers,Fathers,Husbands and Wives!!! It's your prerogative

[@froberson41]

Exactly and it Doesn’t matter how pretty you are either. I hate when people think just because you look a certain way and don’t have kids or a husband something is wrong with you. It’s like you damn if you do you damn if you don’t. I think people need to worry about there own lives and live what’s good for them and what makes them happy. Different strokes for different folks🤷🏽‍♀️

[@FavoredE]

👏🏾👏🏾

[@kedabug8937]

@@froberson41 yep!

[@1kennylo]

I like that lifestyle. I don’t think I’m ever getting married or having kids

[@sydneyboyd615]

Yes. Even the people who claim they are, are doing a lot out here now. A lot of foolishness. So I don’t get the rush to fake a lifestyle that they’re not even happy in. Why rush a woman into an unhappy, unfaithful marriage ? Those things are great if they’re true, but otherwise, it’s another lie this society sells

[@moishantudean7856]

It was refreshing to hear KD talk and share her some of her personal life experiences. I never really heard her talk much except on The Friday After Next Movie. Shawty is a beautiful and insightful woman. She's funny and loud!!! I really like her!!

[@himizzparkernaysays]

She played on soul plane too

[@able76]

Likewise 👍👍👍

[@courtneytho89]

I remember watching her when I was a kid, admiring her beauty. She is still beautiful and it's nice to see this side of her.

[@tr377723]

She's very wise. I respect anyone who moves at their own pace and not allow other people's opinions to control their narrative. I love how strong she is spiritually too. KD Aubert is very special. She originally from Shreveport, Louisiana. That's a good woman. A Southern woman. Smart, wise, beautiful, strong minded. Luv her

[@anelson603]

What???? She's gonna die alone more than likely....we gotta stop telling women lies

[@prosperousk5477]

@@anelson603 so what if she chooses to die alone? How is that anyone’s business, how does that affect your life? I really think people like u are mentally ill. Mind your business!

[@deesee3622]

So what? She’s happy. She’s more concerned with who she ends up with and that’s integrity. If people stoped living down to society standards the world would be a much better place. Obviously society is dead wrong about a lot of things

[@anelson603]

@@deesee3622 is that what you saw???? A happy woman🤔

[@anelson603]

@@deesee3622 and what living down??? In society we ate at the bottom. The black family is disappearing and individually black man are looked at as hyper sexual aggressive idiots and the women masculine loud mouths....so what so u mean living down to society?

[@richardmoore6011]

Miss K.D. Aubert , I can clearly see that you're very intelligent and a remarkable woman who deserves to be with that special individual to come into your life .

[@Ceeboyforlife]

No one deserves anything, you earn it.

[@richardmoore6011]

@@Ceeboyforlife True that , because in this life we work for the things that we want and truly deserve and sometimes desire , and K. D. Aubert is surely someone to be desired .

[@val287]

Why is her marital status even being questioned?!?! Do all the interviewees get asked this?

[@val287]

@Mahogony Love Jones You might be right!😂

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

Because she was a women every young man wanted to lock down. Most men would like to know who if anybody locked her down. That and gender roles, marriage and relationships are hot topic nowadays. Unmarried women triggered

[@mayanking339]

Why are you so bothered

[@thegworlsarefighting]

@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 are you married?

[@BrandonDeshohn]

@@mayanking339 you know why lol

[@randleqgod]

She’s sincere asf and I don’t even know her. 💯

[@DropShip1212]

Women like her problem is thinking they can take a man to another level you shouldn’t have to take man to another level a man of value don’t need a woman for that rs

[@b.e.francis1272]

Wow. Her down to earth realness is so fly. Her awareness of her inner wealth despite her outer beauty is so attractive. I would love to connect with someone like her. Her statement on being able to communicate at your level is so important. Very impressive. Thanks for this interview.

[@Ceeboyforlife]

🙄 word salad

[@miketyler677]

That's that New Orleans shit!

[@ShuckyDucky09]

Why wouldn’t she be down to earth fuck has she done 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jyoung8145]

@@Ceeboyforlife u seem to be very judgmental. U sound miserable. Must be a joy to hang out with but u probably never go out or have friends

[@3312ACE]

Communication is essential. It's a big part of how we grow as people. In a relationship, the right partner is one who will elevate you on multiple levels. Each person in the relationship should elevate each other.

[@_Milcah_]

She’s a phenomenal woman! Please make a KZbin channel, podcast or something! I want to hear more from people like her.

[@Ceeboyforlife]

She seems normal, that’s relatable

[@marciaholmes591]

She has a youtube

[@msanders75]

Is this Bit#^%... for real or is she just pretending to be a comedian??

[@diariesofagrowingcaramelqu6665]

@@marciaholmes591 what is the name

[@marcoman234]

She old and will Die alone. Like most women

[@MindYourOwn777]

A good woman can level anyone up in so many ways when they see a person's potential. I know exactly what she is saying. I'm the same way.

[@sarcasticallyrearranged]

A woman shouldn’t have to level up any man. He should be capable of doing it himself,otherwise you’re just raising a full grown man!

[@RS7RV]

“Donna DO YOU HEAR MEEEEEEEEE‼️” Love KD

[@jasbourne94]

Where was your a•• at when them n••••• was stealing 🤣🤣🤣

[@jayagainsthumanity]

Bro trynna shoot his shot 😂😂

[@bOmBAsTiK]

Yeah that's a weird-ass interview question for a random actress

[@NoLineNoWait123AbC]

👀game…most definitely , and as he should.

[@Chyyyyyyyyyyy]

Frfr lmao

[@jayagainsthumanity]

@@Chyyyyyyyyyyy That “no” answer to if she would date younger men hurt his soul. Understandable though she is a gem.

[@Chyyyyyyyyyyy]

@@jayagainsthumanity 😂😂😂facts! And yes absolutely!!

[@LittleMissSunshine721]

“…It’s like operation build-him-up...” I have to disagree with you there, KD. You’re supposed to build together. At least that’s what I believe. 🙁😬🤷🏽‍♀️

[@GoldBar1997]

I agree with ya and I’m a blk man the relationship can go far right along with communication

[@DLosr]

So true queen nowadays seems like everyone is out for self taking advantage of the good people they are blessed to have who can see potential an help them manifest nothing into something

[@zsazsa4159]

FACTS

[@diobrando1488]

Espcially if you plan on having children!

[@anelson603]

Build what together....Men build. Not women....what is going on here

[@user-em6ie2be7x]

You don't necessarily have to get married to enjoy life.

[@kingsolomega]

True but doesn't mean you will enjoy life without it. Its a big part of life. Doesn't mean that marriage cannot help you to enjoy life.

[@Kemetblack90]

Let's be honest most women don't feel like their life is complete until they're married and have a family of their own

[@HOOLITHEWORLD]

A lot of women feel this way until that walls comes along. It shows a lot today because the most unhappy women are the ones who attack men for their preferences like Cam Newton. He said he wants a traditional woman but you got all the birds mad at him for his preference. He didn’t disrespect black women as a matter of fact he wants a woman like his mother and they’re still mad. Can’t make modern bitter women happy.

[@HOOLITHEWORLD]

@@Kemetblack90 Exactly, especially the competitive dating pool they’re in woman have to compete for the top 10% man and most are lazy and others simply can’t compete.

[@MrJadeHappy]

@@Kemetblack90 American women don't know what marriage is, it's the land of divorce and baby mammas, other parts of the world the whole village celebrates two virgins getting married 🥘

[@KrazyKarentv]

She's gotten prettier as she age

[@charlita25]

Ikr

[@oscarorozco8989]

What a horrible thing to say! Shame on you.

[@KrazyKarentv]

@@oscarorozco8989 stop trolling Oscar awards

[@oscarorozco8989]

@@KrazyKarentv 😆🤣

[@KrazyKarentv]

@@oscarorozco8989 😂😂🤣👍🏼

[@user-em6ie2be7x]

Better to be single & enjoy your Freedom without worrying about being Betrayed, Cheated on, or possibly being abused.

[@bluntafterblunt1295]

Or in LOVE??…

[@nbakingdavid]

YOU *FORGOT "USED"*

[@user-em6ie2be7x]

@@nbakingdavid Doesn't that fall under Betrayal?

[@orlandoeuring7506]

Everyone goes through bad sh-t .. Women and Men...it's crazy and toxic and disfunctional to say I got burnt by fire so I ain't never gone deal with fire no more...No you learn and use the fire in a constructive manner

[@nbakingdavid]

@@user-em6ie2be7x _ BEING *"USED" IS* SOMEONE *BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF... IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING BETRAYED* FROM MY OWN PERSPECTIVE... *BETRAYED IS BEING CHEATED ON* TO ME... BECAUSE *IF SOMEONE IS PRETENDING TO LOVE YOU AND IS* ONLY *USING YOU... HOW ARE THEY BETRAYING YOU? YOU HAVE TO LOVE SOMEONE TO BETRAY THEM* RIGHT? *IF YOU'RE "USING SOMEONE" YOU NEVER LOVED THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE* TO BETRAY THEM. 😁🏆

[@thecurator2626]

I don’t know KD but I love her perspectives on every topic. She reminds me of Alicia Keys. She clearly thinks before she speaks. Not enough people do that nowadays. I would love to see more of her. She needed more intelligent and thoughtful questions during the interview, btw. She seemed very patient but the questions weren’t keeping up with her intellect.

[@WallyZamwa]

She seems like a very confident and secure person that know's her own self worth. Salute to her!

[@deepblack2193]

No she sounds like a narcissist

[@dixienormouse1441]

She’s a disciplinary problem and evidently not feminine. She rebelled against her natural beauty.

[@rtpatrick2000ify]

She's lost.

[@caligreenclean]

She’s lost and you’re a simp to say that. You can know your worth while still being modest and focusing on the worth of your man rather than only her self worth.

[@rtpatrick2000ify]

@caligreenclean , she doesn't have a man and apparently doesn't know how to get one so what's her worth in your opinion?

[@Ebonynini]

I’m really glad I saw this interview. I had no clue who she really was in terms of intellectual persona. I agree with her and can understand how she feels. I am the exact same way. And why does she remind me of beautiful (Black)Angelia Jolie? She is awesome!

[@deesee3622]

She does look like Angelina!!! But she’s a lot prettier

[@sassyshyt8319]

She resembles Cameron Diaz somewhat as well. 💕

[@honeybraswell625]

She does

[@OfficialTruDru]

She looks like KD Aubert not like anyone else except Herself!

[@cameronmanning8606]

no one's perfect. everyone can sow and reap. just be happy to have health and seek happiness as best you can.

[@NBrown-ye9qe]

Wow I love KD I pray to God for her that she gets everything she desires she's great I wish someone would give her a chance to bloom in Hollywood she's beautiful in every way

[@carpediem4512]

She’s 43. Certified wall hitter. Nothing to see here. NEXT!!!

[@vegasmitch8209]

Why are u praying 2 FAKE "god" for her?? She's Not HELPLESS Shouldn't u use those "prayers" for people that are really in Need?? 🤔 She's gonna be oK!!

[@NBrown-ye9qe]

My God isn't fake and I can pray for anyone I feel needs prayer find something better to do with ur time instead of spreading negativity like being positive u seem miserable

[@nikolaivista920]

I really appreciate her honesty. The first 30 seconds of the video, when the interviewer ask her why she is not married, she made a long pause thinking before she answered. That a sign of her admission to bad decisions! She told the truth!

[@keldel4363]

Bad decisions ?? Pookie and Ray Rays.

[@keyfield8967]

she prob fluzed out by somebody..

[@keldel4363]

@@keyfield8967 definitely. She should have bagged a director, A lister, baller, musician, executive, lawyer type, by now. She screwed up.

[@keyfield8967]

@@keldel4363 Probably thought to herself that she is too fine to "settle on an offer" and loved hearing the compliments. Now to save face says she is 'OK' without kids/marriage/XYZ,etc...okie dokie

[@aidan8832]

At 43 she doesn’t trust doctors and she expects to eventually get pregnant!?? Seems like a cool person but a bit unrealistic

[@Michael30786]

Really great interview by KD she being as real as it get. I respect that bout her! hopefully she get everything she want.

[@caligreenclean]

“I’ll take you to another level, no matter how successful you are” no wonder she’s not married.

[@charlita25]

People with colored eyes usually scare the 💩 out of me. But she is beautiful 🤩 and actually looks better with age on her.

[@Saucelight88]

😂😂😂 yo I thought I was the only one

[@bricbrac28]

Why 😂😂😂 mine is green and im dark skinnned😂😂😂

[@Mr.Oct___]

Everyone's eyes are colored.

[@danieljames2709]

Those are the dangerous ones, with the pretty eyes.

[@MIGGYME1]

Dont white people have colored eyes?

[@Shay-33]

I’m 32, no kids, no husband, got a great savings , own my business/LLCs,own my car, looking for a house to buy rn, 145lbs, hair growing! I ain’t in no rush for husband or children 🙂 I’m doing my thing , having a great time! I feel ya KD!

[@blackgira7056]

Amen!!!

[@realmontana6838]

Congrats but what are you celebrating?? You want to be alone?

[@AboveRubiesTV]

@@realmontana6838 what she’s celebrating Is pretty clear in her post. She’s currently happy and didn’t take marriage and kids to be happy. Opposite of society pushes onto women & men.

[@alc3792]

@@realmontana6838 celebrating life and knowing that you don’t need a husband or children to be happy.

[@AfricanGirl]

I’m 30 n people say hurry n have kids….. like really

[@TABULOUS1]

Her self-awareness and accountability for her own choices makes her GORGEOUS AF #GROWNwomanShit, and demonstrates HER OWN potential for attracting the greatness of Men THAT SHE ACTUALLY DESERVES (as oppose to those she chooses at this stage of her development). I love her for that. She's good people AND WILL CONTINUE to see her own Spiritual potential. Not very many people in Our society will, so I'm truly happy for her, for that.💜

[@hiimnewt]

😂😂🤣😭🤦🏾‍♂️

[@kemaresty3871]

I sorry to tell you this but that's a TRANSGENDER person

[@Ceeboyforlife]

Where do you people come from? People don’t DESERVE anything, you earn it.

[@ShuckyDucky09]

She gonna die alone

[@TABULOUS1]

@@ShuckyDucky09 Because fukkkboy logic can be confusing, I realize that you might not understand that as an adult woman, she can absolutely do that if that’s what she chooses. But YOU on the other hand..... 🤣🤣🤣 Speaking of hand, tell your girlfriend that err’body said hello! 👋🏽 😂 Y’all get really triggered when you see that the type of female you’d want, doesn’t have to settle for you. 😂😂😂 It’s precious. 🤣🤣😏 And then you’re all vocal with doublingdown as if you’re not streeting your insecurities to the wholeass audience of adult-aged ppl. 🍿😂 Whew, your procreators missedTheMark. 🤦🏽‍♀️😎 PARENTS>procreators #forthrCulture ✊🏽😅

[@kokolisciousbaby]

Great interview!! Wish it was LONGER!!!

[@KrazyKarentv]

Derrick different clips of it going to their Channel you'll see more

[@specialk0122]

I don't think this is full interview they usually post clips of the interview and then post the full interview.

[@phyllisbrown6916]

I felt that " building someone up" part..so true.

[@MaurandisDaRadusFilms]

The person should already be built when they come to u.

[@sacredmystic6807]

She's a Saggi

[@BLACKTOPGOD]

"When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish."

[@aaroniic]

Boom

[@Novem3ber11]

Sound like you're hating.

[@beetee4262]

​@@Novem3ber11Nah... I caught that one part, too. It's like a self-elected official talking. It's more compelling or charming with "certain" folks you wanna like.

[@kingtyson713]

Love KD Aubert...Beautiful, kindred spirit, intelligent. Pray that she does get married and have children in the future.

[@alteredpenguin2073]

This man trying to shoot his shot in the middle of a interview I respect it

[@tobiisiba1641]

O shit I thought I was the only one noticing this shit.

[@CiaobellaAmour]

The fact we're highlighting this🤦🏽‍♀. Do you ask some of your male guests this question? A few of them were also married but died broke af leaving their exes with hella burden, no life insurance,no assets no nothing & a mediocre career @ best 💁🏽‍♀

[@silentlamont]

Guess you're not married either

[@sayzarp9049]

My guy is straight shooting that shot. 😆

[@dp1202]

You can tell she is a communicator, grounded, self aware and a deep thinker.

[@DustinJCalloway]

I feel her 1,000%! Peace of mind is amazing!

[@markfarris1575]

KD is so awesome! I wish her all the best that life has to offer. So really down to earth.

[@butterflyygyrlsworld5106]

So she basically has a bad habit of choosing horrible men and making men her projects and have allowed them to waist her time. Very dangerous behavior for her, if she doesn’t stop.

[@liljerry496]

Big facts… she want to be the man 🤷🏾‍♂️🤦🏿

[@liljerry496]

She need. To disappear for good 😡😡

[@eznosnopes5276]

She is super beautiful, but just had too many choices. Chose the wrong dudes and thought the she had all the time in the universe.

[@deja_]

And as usual, the men miss the mark by a long shot

[@mmxw2294]

@@deja_ lol a few of my brain cells exploited when I read his reply 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@shashaduke8700]

I'd rather be single and ecstaticly happy 😁 than in a relationship and content😒....

[@thereisonlyonewright3040]

No such thing as single and ecstaticly happy and a relationship is good and bad times. Content is a actually a great state to be in.

[@shashaduke8700]

@@thereisonlyonewright3040 speaking for me and my experience ( imagine that😮😅😅) your opinion is just as valid as mine🤔and very insightful 😏

[@Manny-nm8dh]

@@thereisonlyonewright3040 if you're finances are in order, you can ne ecstaticly. If you need someone else to decide whether you're happy or not then that's a YOU problem.

[@traderhines76]

That’s easy to say when you are young. When you are 65 it’s going to be a whole different ball game.

[@shashaduke8700]

@@Manny-nm8dh thank you I totally agree😊

[@FaithLoveDreams]

She is very self aware. I Love that❤️. However what irks me is that they never ask a man the question why isn’t he married, has no kids or why they have kids and aren’t married.

[@hugo311name9]

This Woman soooo Fine.

[@markwilliams8326]

She is still amazingly beautiful

[@jessesmalls5740]

OMG I REALLY FEEL WHAT SHE SAID. Been down that road TOO many times. I really need to find me a WOMAN like her.

[@i-yell-a-lot4906]

NO YOU DON'T LOL

[@julesgordon1109]

Yall fall for these women bs everytime...there's a reason why people in the movie industry said she was difficult to work with. Then add that to the fact that all her relationships fail then you might wanna reconsider.

[@jessesmalls5740]

@@julesgordon1109 maybe they fail cause the men she be with are always trying to be controlling, instead of being cooperative.

[@MightyR1000]

She's 43....not trying to have children, really don't want to be in a relationship/marriage. She loves her life just the way it is.

[@julesgordon1109]

@@jessesmalls5740 or maybe she's the issue. Afterall, she said in another segment of this interview that people in the movie industry said she was difficult to work with but let her tell it, everyone else is the problem.

[@cybilebenedict]

Always loved her 😍

[@KrazyKarentv]

Me to but she is more smarter than I thought I'm not going to lie

[@williamjones8712]

After she made the statement about "bottom feeders" she then looks slightly in the camera. That was directed to someone! 🙀

[@eauneau]

😂

[@charlita25]

Why is marriage so necessary … everybody doesn’t want to be bonded for life.

[@Brothapocalypse]

But she said more than once she wants to be married. She's going back and forth on that

[@patricblack1]

Marriage is necessary for most!

[@Tony_A_441]

Just say you can’t keep a man

[@Mr.Oct___]

You need to educate yourself ma'am. You're asking questions that go w/ out saying. Your comments reveal how self absorbed u are. .. Shame.

[@truckinron1929]

@@Tony_A_441 🤣🤣💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@babyb360]

I TRULY enjoy her spirit! She such a comforting being. ❤️❤️

[@zerotolerance5019]

She sounds like a confused woman that has been in bad relationships... how are you going to level up a man , unless you think you are on a higher level than him 🤔... she does look good 🙂

[@Tony_A_441]

Thank you… I’m not falling for this crap she saying. A big part of it is her and her decisions. She slick a psychopath, we can tell… and no I not hating.

[@Mr.Oct___]

Not necessarily true. Some individuals have a talent for enhancing what's already established & in place.

[@JustBree716]

She's definitely confused. And I can say that because I am her and she is me. I'm not as beautiful. Lol. But since I listen to men more I feel much more prepared.

[@zerotolerance5019]

@@JustBree716 at least you're honest with yourself

[@zerotolerance5019]

@@hello_04 I was going by what she was saying. She was asked what type of men she usually "choose"... did you listen to the whole interview ?

[@grandinquizitor7412]

KD sounds like she has a lot to offer because she's been around the block, but she invested in the wrong men. She's a good woman and seems honest, but she's a free spirit too. Open but cautious.

[@lolabunny1157]

Perfect description

[@onlinegigpay710]

Assumption or fact?

[@Lenasevilla-yb4ei]

@@onlinegigpay710 weirdo or weird 🙄 uggh

[@onlinegigpay710]

@@Lenasevilla-yb4ei nice

[@d.alexander4229]

She literally fuqs old men to try to use them for money.

[@LonerBecause]

I'm actually glad we got this interview from K.D Aubert

[@airriontoles43]

She's just "the girl next door" at heart, Hollywood aint real enough for that.

[@4theloveofDD]

Factz!

[@Bsb0830]

@@4theloveofDD I’m sure a lot of bad boys from the industry knocked her down. She sounds like a typical woman that’s just offering her beauty, but nothing else.

[@kollector2125]

She so hypnotizing I went from watching recommendations to falling in love with her.

[@Arbj]

"Building a man up" sounds like raising a man to me. I don't think it's a woman's responsibility to build a man up not unless you are raising a son. Sounds like after she gets done building these men up aka "raising them" they grow up and leave the nest to find women that they can be a "man" to. This is no different from somebody's mama raising their son and seeing him leave the nest to commence manhood. The Men she be dating leave to be with trash women because they are too insecure to stay with her especially since she was responsible for creating and building his identity as a so-called man

[@juliedream1625]

Interesting

[@fblavishfblavish]

I don’t know. I looked at it as a man who has potential already has the foundation and skills mentally and spiritually (for me has to believe in God and have a relationship) but that you can help like take care of she was basically giving wife benefits to the wrong men

[@UrbanAlchemystic]

I agree that building s*** is a scam no black woman should fall for that in 2022. It's time to break that chain

[@kurokaizen1889]

This reads like a TON of baseless speculation based off of your feelings with no facts or credible data. If the guys keep leaving then it's most likely not just them as she's the common denominator in her experiences with those men and the same goes for any other woman like her so it might be time for them to own up and take some accountability and look inward at what steps they need to take etc.

[@JohnDoe-yi4xd]

She has the right attitude. It's called being a help-mate. She is right. She just has to make the investment in the right man. That macho shit you talking is not for relationships. It's ghetto....and while she does sound a little rough around the edges...because she is from Louisiana an Alpha Man could refine her. She may not need to be built up...just refined. "Educating Rita." Ha Ha.

[@Derricom.]

She's goregous but gives off masculine energy

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

Yea she likes the Pookies too. Tryna turn good looking hood niggas into upstanding citizens

[@babyrheas]

Very much so

[@r.g.486]

One thing I like about her is when she is asked a question you can see that she thinks before she speaks as opposed to just spewing shit out of her mouth.

[@jarrettharris5266]

I'm impressed! kudos to this woman for recognizing her worth and attributes

[@fpres1079]

It is crazy - met her years ago and she was pretty humble. She has been in many family movies. From Louisiana too - seemed pretty cool

[@jayrob3045]

She's dope. Knows what she wants and not willing to settle for less. I like her perspective, she definitely respects herself.

[@Ceeboyforlife]

She’s a rebel, men don’t like rebels. She attract rebels, project guys, build a bear, Tyrone’s with briefcases.

[@jayrob3045]

@@Ceeboyforlife At least she is not twerking and acting ratchet.

[@Novem3ber11]

@@Ceeboyforlife You're just mad, she wouldn't want you.

[@DTreatz]

@@jayrob3045Doesn't make it any better, trash in, trash out. Stop simping.

[@jayrob3045]

@@DTreatz I'm not simping. She cool.

[@kyriskustoms2172]

She’s fucking amazing😂. She has qualities like my wife. Hope she finds that balance.

[@emmiesblessed8800]

It’s good to hear and see that she’s doing just fine. The industry is A beast and soul less!

[@Ceeboyforlife]

She didn’t have any kids and no man, she’s in trouble. She’s on her last leg.

[@dredaylarue]

As a man I can relate to how she feels about relationships You can elevate that person but then that person will leave you for bottom feeder

[@kerri.janelle]

💯

[@DTreatz]

female nature

[@15Jogador15]

I can hear this woman speak ALL DAY. Her confidence is MAGNIFICENT.

[@wutang23361]

Kevin Samuel's is gonna have fun with this one

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

She's about to catch that manosphere work. She is typical. That age is rising and so are her standards. I see dogs in her future

[@jasonwright5471]

Was definitely thinking this while watching lol!

[@nyaintunyaintu509]

Y’all AKATA in America gotta a lot of problems. Funny you don’t find this with other cultures/ethnicities 😂🤣

[@goldengirl7625]

@@nyaintunyaintu509 Just pathetic and broken lol. These men do nothing but bring down their own community and create generational curses

[@sydneyboyd615]

I love women like her. I feel the same way and I wish more free-spirited, single women spoke on this. NOT EVERY WOMAN IS DESPERATELY SEEKING THE WHITE PICKET FENCE LIFE. I'd like those things one day but will still die happily and peacefully without it.

[@22killakush22]

If you listen she even says she doesn’t like being single. She’s not in love with it. It’s all a front…deep down she knows the clock is ticking. She wants a husband and kids…listen again. I have a feeling she had a loooooong “H” phase and now it’s catch up time. Good thing she is still fine. Most 40 something women don’t pass that test

[@rodneymcstah2973]

“ like those things one day.” The thing is time isn’t on women’s side. It’s either cash out in prime years or take the risk of possibly being alone

[@huggzbsmokin1953]

The wall is undefeated no matter how fine you are she better buy a dog.

[@huggzbsmokin1953]

Plus if you listen to her tone about what kind of woman she is, she is the man talking about she can elevate them if she was all the feminine she would have said she could inspire him. Js

[@json2317]

Stop the Cap

[@donmacmilly]

She is strikingly beautiful. Seriously you can't be that beautiful and have a problem finding a good guy. She ain't going to admit it, but she the problem.

[@nik-at-nite]

She literally said “I’ve made mistakes”, chooses the wrong guy, and falls for potential. I believe that counts as accountability and self awareness lol

[@donmacmilly]

@@nik-at-nite them long pauses though say alot more. Especially when she said she got cheated on, by women that don't look as good as her. When dude cheat it's not just looks it's something the other woman does that makes a dude feel special she doesn't do.

[@nik-at-nite]

@@donmacmilly You won’t admit it but you’re reading too far into it and making assumptions. Do you expect her to elaborate on literally everything she’s done wrong to a stranger? The fact that she admitted to making mistakes and poor choices is enough.

[@Chicagodaman]

U got that right.. sho nuff sho nuff

[@TheHistorianKing]

Could be most likely because it seems like attractive beautiful women have some issues to deal with inside them. Yes they're beautiful but the personality is off. They gotta work on that.

[@MyNewYorkCity.]

I completely get what she is saying. She is a queen and what's to run a empire with her king. The types I attract 👍🏽👍🏽

[@Mr.Oct___]

Mufugga...u don't even know the diff between "what's" & "wants"...Knock it off.

[@blacktothefuture6230]

@@Mr.Oct___ Dude's that call women "Queens" for no reason other than them simply existing rarely get laid, if at all.

[@TrillBill]

@@Mr.Oct___ Lmfaoo

[@zacharywallace2243]

Times runs out bru!🤣

[@willia3r]

so that make you a simp?

[@kingofcolfax318]

He really hit a nerve with that question, her eyes and body language said a lot, but she is truly the essence of natural beauty.

[@daisyb4614]

Heart was beating fast af and lump in her throat.

[@kingofcolfax318]

@@daisyb4614 yeah, I saw that, she looked like she was about to cry, someone really hurt her, an I don't believe she's over it. 1 thing I got to give her, she ain't fake.

[@Ceeboyforlife]

But a man can look at the men baby mamas choice and say “Well there you go!” Of course it happened the way it did, they drive themselves crazy wanting project dudes

[@thebagnchannel]

@@Ceeboyforlife Both women and men doit to themselves I can attest

[@dm7744]

@@kingofcolfax318 no it hurt her to be honest and have accountability.

[@leagueG5]

She is absolutely gorgeous but she carries a massive masculine energy. I can tell she has taken on a strong "provider" role in relationships with men, which goes against the Universe. Men are designed to hunt & protect-you can clearly see in this interview she has been the hunter and protector more times than not in her relationships. The thing about this is that if she does not learn to nurture her feminine energy, she will attract feminine men with her masculine side & constantly be used. I see it time and time again.

[@thereisonlyonewright3040]

So she actually thinks she's better than her man when she's with him. And is appalled when he leaves her for someone that doesn't look as good as her. Oh now I get it.

[@TTSantiago821]

I picked up on that too. The outlook seems off. Instead of getting with someone and the outlook is making one another better because together you build greater than when alone, she is seeing a project she can build because she is greater and has more to offer than who she is with. So she wants to build that man to what she calls her level since he is not there in her opinion. That will always eventually fail and this is a big part of why she is single.

[@thereisonlyonewright3040]

@@TTSantiago821 Facts and nice to read too I might add lol. You have a way with words so simple and so insightful.

[@FedEx-Ty]

Exactly. I been there, good intentions but bad outcome with that mindset

[@TTSantiago821]

@@thereisonlyonewright3040 well thank you, just calling it as I see it. It was actually not that hard to see, she literally said alot of it lol.

[@davehuhh]

Lol scrolled just to find a likeminded comment.

[@demesminp]

Interesting... she says her family knows that she knows what she's doing and tell her if they see red flags...right after she just finished saying that she wasted her time, energy, and money on losers...🤔🤔. Makes sense to me! Carry on!

[@NoLineNoWait123AbC]

She’s a baby screaming to be loved, but pretends to have it together. Definitely visually gorgeous on another level though.

[@kaustin797]

Some people be in denial even when family tell them that. They will figure out when the relationship ends and will finally see what they meant

[@eon001]

Manosphere going to have a field day with this. Countdown to an Oshay Duke Jackson video 😂

[@blacktothefuture6230]

The Clownsphere.

[@wutang23361]

Bruh‼️ She basically is like every other female putting in energy in the wrong person but stays🤣🤣🤣 Oshay in 3,2,1.

[@eon001]

@@wutang23361 so many red flags. She picks pookies and tries to build them up. And wtf is up with this 2 year break thing? She's 43 now ffs.

[@eznosnopes5276]

Super beautiful women who had too many options and made bad decisions. Just like Megan Good. Had a good man and chose a bad boy.

[@nik-at-nite]

@@wutang23361 Putting energy into the wrong people, break up, repeat, until you find that person you can and want to spend the rest of your life with and marry them. That almost sounds like…dating. Crazy isn’t it?

[@SunFlower-x3]

If you're not "there" how can you attract someone that's "there"? If you constantly attract cheaters then your energy is off. The bad always find the vulnerable. Flaw will attract flaw, unless you're fixing you, working on your own energy.

[@bossplayermfs5972]

Because you are what you attract, plain and simple. If you attracting so called “ain’t 💩 men” then you ain’t 💩 yourself bottom line.

[@Bsb0830]

Sun Flower@I’m sure a lot of bad boys from the industry knocked her down. She sounds like a typical woman that’s just offering her beauty, but nothing else.

[@Naptownghost]

Sun Flower yes! I never knew how to pick em' and Im flawed, Have trust issues, also Im an emotional individual. Knowing that I chose to kick back for a while. 1 yr turned into 14 yrs but Honestly Im quite ok with being single to figure me out. So before connecting with another emotional individual with trust issues etc like myself(Ending in toxicity) I'll graciously bow out for now.

[@sydneyboyd615]

@@Bsb0830 What makes you sure of that, without knowing her personally. She doesn't sound that typical honestly

[@Bsb0830]

@@sydneyboyd615 don’t be naive

[@themooneytwins]

She is attracting who she really is.

[@mikalsamad2389]

Yeah a narcissist

[@eastbayromek7167]

I think she’s an empath no kids at that age narcissist aren’t that disciplined

[@juliedream1625]

@@eastbayromek7167 huh? How is she an empath?

[@misguidedpearls7456]

U attract everybody U pick who to entertain.. They are not the same.. If u entertain the wrong ones.. U gotta do self work..

[@dee27206]

You might need to read more 🥴🤦🏾‍♀️

[@entertainingsportshighligh7525]

Her Beauty is on the level of a HALLE BERRY, VANESSA WILLIAMS, BEYONCE, WHITNEY HOUSTON, KELLY ROWLAND, VANITY, ALISHA KEYS, ALIYAH , DORITHY DANDRIDGE, LOLA FELONA, JAMIE KENNEDY, MYA, BEVERLY JOHNSON, TYRA BANKS, GABRIEL UNION, and many more. Her BEAUTY can match any other famous BLACK Beauty in the WORLD.

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

Only black??

[@Uniquaization]

@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 exactly.

[@8harlem1]

Who is Jamie Kennedy?? Is she related to Jayne Kennedy?

[@CoachLove]

Expand and diversify your options, Karen. Change your pallet and date the ones who want what you want. Ones that you won't have to hustle and get money after getting with them... No pressure to marry or take a chance with carrying a child. If you wait until 50, that's between you and Your Creator. Freeze your eggs if your want. Absolutely no "baby mama" or "struggle love." Let no one put their clock on you, your body, or your life. "If it happens, it happens."👏🏼

[@flameoftruth1781]

You gotta ass whoopin coming from time dropping this kind of bad advice good luck.... women find out too late that time deals with them differently

[@henryhill2935]

U like them white boys don't u. That's what u trying to say?

[@Bsb0830]

@@flameoftruth1781 I’m sure a lot of bad boys from the industry knocked her down. She sounds like a typical woman that’s just offering her beauty, but nothing else.

[@brownbeautyxoxo7442]

@@Bsb0830 Why do you keep commenting this??

[@sydneyboyd615]

@@brownbeautyxoxo7442 He wants it to be true to justify his insecurities. She actually seems pretty levelheaded

[@a.s5202]

I feel like she's not being 100% truthful.

[@HernameisSAFFA]

Her and Melissa Ford were the original video vixens of the early 2000s...I always thought and still think they're soo gorgeous....she's very in tune with herself and grounded.

[@alluringdee5066]

Same thing I’ve went through. I don’t think it’s her choice of men. Men tend to sweep you off your feet at the beginning and once you invested your time and energy into them then that’s when the mask comes off. After experiencing this so many times it makes me not want to be in any relationship. When something doesn’t work out it can break you if you let it. Then you’re stuck trying to put all the pieces together. It takes a lot of self healing and that can be a long process. Once you heal , you will be more hesitant about being in another relationship let alone getting married. I have no desire to get married and tell ppl this all the time because ppl change and some ppl pretend to be something they’re not. I would hate for someone to come in and disturb my peace again. I worked hard to get to this place I’m in now. I would never take accountability for loving wholeheartedly only accountability for not giving that love to myself first instead.

[@anelson603]

All that describes the men that the women CHOOSE. Hence it's the choices

[@alluringdee5066]

@@anelson603 no it’s just people. There are too many bad ones than good ones.

[@anelson603]

@@alluringdee5066 I get it but a good person and a bad person is subjective depending on who you talk to so that's a bad way to phrase it. She just made bad choices...she even said he relationships are 5+ years. Why is she dating that long if not looking to get married and how long does it take to determine a bad choice?🤔

[@anelson603]

@@alluringdee5066 absolving her of any responsibility is what we've been doing for far to long. It's what makes women continue to do the same things and getting the same results...

[@willia3r]

@@alluringdee5066 nope. The 80/20 rule says different.

[@samanthasims7123]

Maturity and knowing your worth goes a long way

[@Jagosix]

She's a beautiful woman, even at the age of 44. However if she wants to have a child, it needs to be now. Waiting until you're 50 or 60 isn't a good option or she might not have an option at that point in her life. It seems like she's waiting for a man to cheat on her. In the Interview she keeps mentioning "cheating". Women cheat as bad as men if not more. In closing... TIME doesn't wait for no one. It's constant, doesn't discriminate and it applies to everything in life. I hope she finds everything that she wants in DUE time, because we all have a time limit on this planet.

[@lonnieanderson8918]

These comments🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅 some people don’t want children, nothing is wrong with that. Some people don’t want to get married, nothing is wrong with that. She’s 43, I’m sure she knows what she wants for HER life. People saying “pretty woman with no substance” how? Cause she chooses to be alone? Y’all wilddddddddd

[@DTreatz]

The overwhelming majority of people want children, it's our *BIOLOGY* , meaning the the people who don't are either *coping* with their poor choices and failures, or are biological deviants, and the amount of biological deviants are very small.

[@nashad9349]

She's a Sagittarius woman so I totally relate!!! We march to the sound of our own drum & dont feel the need to fit into societal norms. Take notes, but know this kind of woman doesnt play games.

[@wholelottaelevation6442]

That question hit her deep

[@romegrey2600]

I love her mindset and her accountability but once again and it continues to amaze me that people demand everybody to be married or else they're something wrong with you. Marriage isn't everything happiness is everything and they don't need to coincide together to be happy

[@Ceeboyforlife]

Marriage is like education, it shows consistency. She wants to marry but she keeps finding projects which slows the process. If she wanted to get married she would have but she’s a rebel.

[@romegrey2600]

@@Ceeboyforlife Only consistency that people need is the love with the person they're with not the contract. If she finds the man that's right for her then he's just right for her but the pressure to get married is crazy but society does nothing but force it onto people

[@alphabanks]

I'm sorry bro marriage is a big deal and it's one of the biggest reasons the black family is on decline amongst others. A good marriage will evelate your entire faimliys trajectory. I'm speaking in terms of finance and more importantly passing on strong values to your kids.

[@UrbanAlchemystic]

Right and when they do get married most of the time they are miserable and in abusive and unfaithful marriages. Being single as a threat to misogynistic men it's like a rejection to them how dare I not be the center of your world something has to be wrong with you.

[@appliancedude63]

Happiness is better than wholesome children? Have you seen the statistics on children raised in single parent homes? The children suffer for your happiness.

[@dsp8884]

Young birds become old birds .... sheesh

[@TheJourneyofAll]

She sounds like she's winging it. I'm not convinced

[@bOmBAsTiK]

She prolly ain't expect to get this question on a comedy site

[@TheJourneyofAll]

@@bOmBAsTiK prolly

[@TheJourneyofAll]

@@illill4632 No just somebody with an opinion just like you.

[@Aritul]

I can't get over how pretty she is. I hope that she will get married and have children.

[@tarroyo]

The way she looked at the camera, after she said bottom feeders! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@daisyninetyfour565]

Go girl! One woman that’s on her stuff!

[@webmedia3748]

Low hanging fruit becomes the easy choice when someone sets expectations beyond-contrary to another person’s nature. You can’t change anyone regardless of the best coaching intentions. People are not a business entity, we are individual souls with a free will and a mind of our own. Sucks to realize you are someone’s project; red flag when some wants ‘upgrade’ another by association alone. ‘They have to want it for themselves’ without the conditional loss of the relationship entangled as a conflicting interest.

[@skaytv3368]

Kevin Samuels about to feast off this clip!!!

[@A__Mina]

"How do I get elevated?" lmaooooo

[@tonyglover948]

She's still so beautiful. She's always been beautiful since the 90s. And all the music videos back then