Coming Out (Part 2)

Coming Out (Part 2)
PART 1:
This video has been beyond long overdue. I send love to you all and hope you all embrace your identities. I’m incredibly nervous to post this, but I’ll feel relieved.
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[@c.8878]

Closeted culture is also saying “I LOVE THAT SONG!” to songs that are pretty gay

[@x_wolf_x8909]

c. Bahaha I’m bi and my lesbian friend hadn’t come out to me and she said “omg I know all of Hayley Kiyokos songs I love her music” and that’s when I knew for sure... she gayyyyyy

[@sofiacalado8836]

Mood

[@skullfr4gments]

i play so many gay songs to just give hints lmaooo

[@mygreenshoes]

Ha I'm not out to my brothers but I sing gay songs and they probably know, most other people that know me know I'm not straight but I haven't told them

[@anna-qq4sn]

me: "I'm straight guys" also me: *dancing and singing along to girls/girls/boys by p!atd vigorously at 3am*

[@mpxmls7274]

You are NOT.... I repeat YOU ARE NOT an EMBARRASSMENT!!! You are quite the opposite my father! I love you!!

[@teenytinyhumann]

As a Muslim 17 year old girl, who knows nothing about the LGBT community .watching this video. I m very surprised and have so much respect for the members of this community. Every single one of you deserves respect and happiness .

[@leak.9822]

Mahwish Tahir Wow, I'm feeling so glad right now, thanks :))

[@teenytinyhumann]

😊❤

[@catexplorer5347]

this video just makes me feel so much respect too because members of this community have to survive so many disgusting comments and they are so strong. (i am also Muslim​)

[@kolby1385]

Mahwish Tahir this is so amazing! I love how your supporting what you want to support, even though your religion doesn’t it. ❤️

[@jennatuffnell1843]

Ahhh! Thank you so much! Our amazing community can sometimes be succumbed to hate and bullying so hearing we have a supporter is unspeakably awesome!

[@Amanda-sf1pw]

i find your awkwardness so attractive, especially your nervous laugh xD

[@katienewswanger]

DO NOT LOOK FOR HATE COMMENTS JESSIE

[@Ravenisrandom]

We _STAN_ our bisexual princess. We love you! 🏳️‍🌈💞🏳️‍🌈💞🏳️‍🌈💞

[@inactiveaccount4398]

"i wonder if this is how hannah montana felt" love u jessie

[@reginagoins874]

Mackenzie Frecloud WHAT????

[@dome.5164]

I'm bi I have a girlfriend I don't know how to tell my mom My mom and grandma are homophic They are very religious I'm scared Love you Jessie

[@ameliamariamarkowicz]

Panic! at the Fall Out Piløts Chemical Romance i wish everything goes well if u do come out and i wish u all the best xxxxx

[@lenaalbrecht630]

I wish you the best but you know , a person that loves you will love the one you love no matter what

[@evabozic6029]

YOU HAVE THIS BOO I BELIEVE IN YOU

[@shantellekraan7105]

Panic! at the Fall Out Piløts Chemical Romance it’s easy to get away with because she could just act as ur bff till u ready

[@aminaderrous2919]

Panic! at the Fall Out Piløts Chemical Romance im bisexual to and i told my grandma and she’s not that acepting but... my mom and aunt is 🏳️‍🌈//-||

[@eme6769]

“SLAMS TABLE* WE STAN A BISEXUAL GODDESS LEGEND

[@MsDickerz]

yeah we doooo!

[@pianickname8514]

Crescent Moon yay

[@j4c422]

These kind of jokes are so so so stupid and cringy

[@sofiag9395]

YES

[@kpop-bih5419]

WE STAN

[@sophambrose5096]

I don't care if anyone will see this, but this made me finally come out to my parents. Thank you Jessie for always being so open about things like this and being strong enough to come out to the world. We all love you.

[@Expo_marker4236]

moon child congratulations! Super proud of you for having that courage

[@despoina7125]

moon child I'm so proud of you❤

[@riley5501]

moon child I'm so proud of you! You are brave and important!💕💗💖

[@gabbyprotractor9391]

congrats!! major respect, I’m proud of you❤️

[@tiskay-kl2pu]

That's amazing !!! ❤️

[@mariannaskrtskrt7880]

BISEXUAL LEGEND

[@jessiepaege]

YESSSS

[@falee_]

GrannySpook MustDie击 wHat ABOUT SHANE DAWSO- BISEXUAL KING AND QUEEN OHMYGOD

[@Kelly-vv4ql]

GrannySpook MustDie击 who does she date

[@mariannaskrtskrt7880]

IM CRY8NG WHA T

[@Kelly-vv4ql]

GrannySpook MustDie击 sooty I could watch the video it would not let me

[@gracelodgard4991]

"I was so far in the closet I was next to grandma's hand me downs" "I wonder if Hannah Montana felt like this" I'M WEAK

[@lydiaheintz4743]

Grace Hannah Beauty SAmE

[@shantellekraan7105]

Grace Hannah Beauty u get the beeessst of both worlds

[@caitlyncheyenne8427]

Omg but like same

[@NoName-ld7gg]

🎵-YOU GET THE BEEEEEEST OF BOTH WORLDS, VUYVJYXBCVMDHGVDUYVYCGSHOW ROCK ON THE SHOW, YOU GET THE BEEEEEEST OF BOTH WORLDS-🎵

[@aylene2699]

No homophobic comments here jessie, we love you!!! ❤🌈🌈

[@JullianaPaulino]

I don't like saying the phrase "I'm bi" but I really have no reason to be in the closet and I want my mom to know because she's my best friend in the world. She's extremelly supportive of the community, I've been an "ally" since I was 11 (around the time I discovered my sexuality) and have been giving her hints for a very long time now, one day we were watching Faking It and she asked me "so are you straight or bi?" and I dodged the question in the most obvious way possible. I'm pretty sure she knows but I just don't want to SAY IT. Everyone I know already knows it, even my dad because I tried coming out by singing Girls/Girls/Boys to my parents but only he knows English so only he got the message. I also just turned 19 so I think we are really alike and I completely understand you. This is a mess because I can barely speak my native language properly nevermind English lol but I just wanted to share this.

[@imaginala9334]

Not gonna lie, I screamed ''One step closer to marrying Jessie'' at my laptop, but all jokes aside, I am so glad you found the strength and courage to share this with us. I think you already kinda know (you better) that we will support you no matter what, and that your channel has always been a place for people to be themselves. So thank you. Thank you for trusting us, sharing this with us, loving us, being an incredible dad, and making people feel save. Love you

[@browniebooks2715]

The yellow dad shirt is back!💛😂😘

[@jillstephenson]

WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH DAD! *SLAMS TABLE* ♥💛💚💙💜❤

[@BrickMaster122]

I’m so proud of you Dad!!!!

[@cashewbag]

As someone who is Pansexual, I can completely understand how hard erasure is. Some people online will always be awful. I've come out to my parents and friends, but I'm scared to come out to extended family still. Your story is so inspiring and I wish nothing but the best for you 💕🌈

[@rivvipie]

LilyIsNotCool I'm rlly scared to come out to my parents do you have any tips?

[@eugerufino8647]

LilyIsNotCool and i wish nothing but the best for you 💛💛

[@eugerufino8647]

Liv Boyd (i know u didn't ask me but still) i din't have any tips to come out because im not a part of the community but i just wanted to say i hope you can come out soon and hope you can be the happiest you've ever been 💛

[@wrigleysings1940]

I’m pan too! *high five*

[@Chris-cg4yn]

I'm pan and lean towards girls but I'm so afraid to come out to my parents and family.

[@lexisilvis2394]

I'm Pansexual. I came out to a lot of my friends and my mom last year. This year on my 15th birthday which is in a month I'm coming out to my step dad. Slightly scared but it's emotionally draining to just stay closeted. I'm soooo proud of you Jessie!!

[@shaniab.6186]

Awesome girl_92 YOU CAN DO IT!!!! I BELIEVE IN YOU ❤❤❤

[@lexisilvis2394]

Shania B. Awww thankk youuuu!!!!!

[@emily-qk1ko]

How did it go? Wishing the best!!

[@lauringrace1389]

I hope that your step dad is supportive of you.... hope all goes well for you.

[@challengingfire8747]

Congrats girl. I can't come out of the closet cause they would kick me out of the house...

[@AlyseParker]

Jessie, I am so proud of you for finally sharing and I'm infinitely happy that you finally can experience life more freely.

[@JordanWalshyt]

*i just posted my coming out story I love you dad*

[@morganw308]

Jordan Walsh JORDAN OMG ANOTHER QUEEN I STAN

[@evakovacheva9910]

Jordan Walsh love your yt channel ❤💙💚💛💜

[@agpokef]

I’m so proud of you!!

[@elris452]

Jordan Walsh !!!!! yay

[@stellajobe565]

Good job!! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@fitz5604]

aye you're sexuality twins with Shane, Frank, my sister, and Brendon Urie! I believe I speak for all of us when I say that we will love and support no matter what. We Stan a bisexual QUEEN

[@Ellie-nb7ou]

Fitz Brendon Urie a pansexual, but also never knew Frank was bi?! Is this crankthatfrank we're talking about?

[@fitz5604]

Stranger Heathers I think Frank said in his coming out video that he posted a few years ago. As for Brendon, idk I hear bi, could be pan.

[@simplyuniversal1835]

BRENDON IS IN THE COMMUNITY HOLY SHNEET IM DEAD agh I’m so happy I didn’t know until now ❤️🌻

[@melissarodriguez4177]

Well he never said he was he just said he likes who he likes and he calls himself straight because he loves his wife

[@lisanne5225]

Breadstick Urine 💘😂

[@og_gini]

I'm bi too but I did't come out to my family & boyfriend yet because they wouldn't understand or accept me because they're homophic & very religious ... I'm hella confused idk what to do *You're stunning af btw* 💥💖💥 Sry my english isn't the best I'm German lol

[@marymontgomery3131]

If you don't think that you can tell your parents about whats going on, or your boyfriend, then maybe you need to find someone who will understand you. I suggest getting a new boyfriend or girlfriend, and get away from your parents. Start a new life with your true love, and don't stress about it. I support you, and this is just advice I came up with, so its okay.

[@Phoenix_flame]

Your English is better than most people who only speak English XD Also, if you did come out, I hope it went well ❤

[@danorose9746]

If you did that’s great and I’m in the same boat

[@heyitsvixxie721]

WARNING : This will be really cheesy .. No matter what sexuality, Race, Gender, Etc. you are you will always be 'Jessie Paege ' and there might be homophobic comments, yes. There might be hate comments, but remember they haters are just people who are jealous of how pure and how much of an amazing human being you are. If people hate you just because you came out as Bisexual and Demisexual, they were never fans or supporters in the first place. Just know, i and your people WILL ALWAYS be here for and with you by yours side! Please know if you ever need to talk, your friends, your family, and us (your people) will always be here as an option. You are Valid. You are a human being. We stan !! *slams table* I love you so much !

[@yaavke]

Heyitsvixxie this deserves more likes! 👏👏

[@Damien13071]

So. Basically. What you're saying is.... we're trash for our Biconic Jessyee?

[@heyitsvixxie721]

James Shelton yes, we stan *slams table*

[@enbykenz]

part two in the same day!!!! yas queen! sending you endless love

[@VSthecrescentJourney]

I'm so proud of you jessie! so happy that your coming out story is so much nicer than a lot of us in the lgbtq+ community! I was basically trapped in a car while my cousin and mom pestered me about how I'm sinning and going to hell for liking girls. mind you I hadn't even dated a girl at that point! I JUST has a girl crush. lol but you are such a huge inspiration! we stand with Jessie Paege!

[@shadow_hunter1836]

Preach!!!!!

[@chaos3461]

I have to keep my secret of being bisexual a secret to my entire family. It totally breaks my heart sometimes I mean I am out to my close cousins and they accept me for who I am. They even came out to which gave me so much happiness as a person. I came out 2 years ago to my mother and aunt and I was told the same thing from both that my bisexuality was just a phase. When I told my mom a couple days later I wanted to come out to more people in my family and she got mad at me, she said I’m not allowed to talk about it. That really hurts. A couple months ago i went to the doctor and they gave me a survey I had to answer but my mother just started answering for me. I answered all the questions honestly but a question about the LGBT community came up and I told my mom to put I prefer not to answer. She then asked if the girl I liked was still at my school. And I had said no she moved away (well she did). And my mother answered “Good” and that literally almost broke me. She said 2 years ago she supported me but now she said it’s good that the girl I had feelings for had moved away. I dont know what it means like does it mean she didn’t want me to get a girlfriend. I only talk about boys around her, my twin and little sister very much accept me. But it’s just weird talking about girl crushes to her because she’s all like I’m straight so i dont understand and yes I know but it’s kinda frustrating. My older sister is Bisexual as well yet I don’t have the connection with her like I do with my twin and little sister. It kinda sucks because I came out and yet I can’t talk about it with anyone. My best friend is bi as well but she never talks about girls the only thing she brings up is how a girl is hot and she would want to have sex with them or something. Which isn’t me, I’m at a loss right now in my life. A flag in my room would make me feel safe and I almost brought one with my own money but I’m scared my mother will tell me to take it down. The only support I truly wanted was my mothers and i dont know if I have her support.

[@GoldenKona]

Chaos :3 i know how that is, but I've never told my mom she'll never accept me i lie to myself so much because of my mom i don't know what i want anymore, i want to say "F them do as you please" but i can't say it to myself.. but i hope you get through this i wish you the best of luck

[@beanbagonfire]

I really hope everything works out and it may not mean much to you but there's a giant community and we all sorry you ❤️

[@lunarcookie8036]

I am so sorry that you are going through this alone I am in a similar situation except I have been questioning myself for maybe a year and I have no lgbtq people I can talk to except some online. If you could help me know how you found out about yourself it would help a lot, thanks

[@chaos3461]

Lunar Cookie Hello, I am sorry you are going through the same thing it’s terrible. But I am happy you have people to talk about it with, I no longer have those friends so I just have random conversations with people on the internet which is actually pretty amazing. So I questioned myself for about 4-5 years before finally being comfortable with the label bisexual. I tried queer, asexual, pansexual, polysexual, and so many more and yet I didn’t feel as if it was my label for me. Honestly it takes a lot of time, don’t rush anything just know what makes you comfortable in a way. Maybe one day it will change or maybe it won’t, you just never know. Although I am comfortable with bisexual, I am starting to think I may be a lesbian or something (whoops). So to this day I am still questioning what I may be, but in the moment Bisexual is very comforting. I hope this makes sense, if you’d like to talk more, you can reply to this or send me one of your social media profiles unless you are uncomfortable and prefer to reply here. I don’t mind it at all, anyway I hope this helps, have a nice day. 😁

[@lunarcookie8036]

Chaos :3 I don’t really use social media because I’m a bit young ( not like 8 or anything) but my “friends” I can talk to are online friends from this game I played as a kid with multiple other games and during last pride month I played an lgbtq+ hangout which made me feel a bit more similar to them I even met 2 girls who were my age to kinda talk to. If you see this have a great day

[@deadbeatqueer]

we honestly love a demi-bisexual dad i love you so much Jessie:) im so proud of you

[@pennyec]

i love you i love you i love you i’m so proud of you.

[@cosmicjosie]

Hello again Dad. Love you and proud of you. You're an inspiration. We STAN *slams table to infinity* 🌈🏳❤️💛💚💙💜

[@private825]

Cosmic Royale yesss

[@jazmynnichole1819]

Cosmic Royale i break the whole damn table from slamming it so hard!😂

[@qtsvxga]

girl you do you don't ever think you won't be accepted for who you are. My friend is bisexual and she is still the same friend i had before she came out . It doesn't make a difference if someone is heterosexual, bisexual, asexual it doesn't matter your still you and no one can change that

[@katienewswanger]

0:04 seconds in and I’m already ready to cry at how amazing Jessie is!!!!

[@ericdebord4476]

Katie Newswanger right!💕

[@Finneganforge]

Dodie, you, and Rowan Blanchard. Damn, y’all amazing. Also did I mention I’m bi? HELP MY PARENTS THINK IM ALL WRONG ON THE INSIDE. So the situation is I have emotional problems and anxiety (at least that’s what they say) and I’ve been diagnosed with anxiety about some issues growing up and social anxiety and adhd. How am I supposed to add onto there list of “Salem’s Things That Make Her All Wrong On The Inside”?!

[@kamilesarakauskaite6450]

WE 👏STAN 👏A 👏BISEXUAL👏 DAD 👏 🌈💙💞 *slams the table intensely*

[@faethsimmons9843]

This is my favorite comment out of the whole comment section

[@kamilesarakauskaite6450]

Faeth Nikkole lmaooo 😂😂😂

[@willowthewillowtree7807]

Lmao i have the same shirt

[@CellieWellie_]

When I first came out to my best friend I was so scared to say anything because I didn't know how she would take it. Of course, me being me, I quickly blurted out "Do you like waffles? I'm gay. I like my waffles with syrup. I know some people like it with butter, but I don't. what about you?" She took 10 minutes to fully comprehend what had just came out of my mouth, but once she did she immediately hugged me in the tightest she had ever given me in our 8 year friendship. I'm a so glad I was able to tell her, because she is the support system I had always wanted and thankfully now have.

[@tatummaguilar]

I have always been a strong supporter of LGBTQ+ community, and I am so happy to be able to support a bisexual queen and amazing inspirational father to all her people. I will always look to you for inspiration and I love you and thank you for this. I wish you the best in your whole life to come! 🌈🌈💗❤💛💚💙💜🌈🌈

[@gabriellalinkous1158]

_Tatum Aguilar_ same my friend is lesbian

[@niaaajoy777]

WE 👏SUPPORT👏A👏AWESOME👏SWEET 👏BRAVE👏QUEEN tbh I'm so glad that you finally felt comfortable with sharing your journey and generally coming out. I'm so proud and wish you the best 💕💕

[@SixtySecondYoga]

You got so much hate for just calling yourself LGBTQ! A lot of us knew you were because of the Q&A, but even if we didn’t, we wouldn’t attack you for calling yourself LGBTQ, or accuse you of faking it. Straight is not the default, and just because someone isn’t fully out, doesn’t mean their LGBTQness is fake. We love you Jessie 🌈 you don’t deserve any hate for being who you are.

[@aud338]

i wish you had put this all into one video. your part 2 video has less than a third of the views that your part 1 video has, but people truly need to hear all of your amazing, beautiful, strong story.

[@MsDickerz]

Jessie Paege, I don't even know where to start. Firstly, I am SO proud of you. Coming out as bisexual (and coming out in general) is SO difficult. I totally agree with you, coming out to yourself is the hardest part. It took me a long time too and once I had come out to myself, coming out to everyone else seemed so easy. Secondly, you are AMAZING and i'm so happy to have you as part of the LGBTQ+ community as more than an ally and as a fellow bisexual (welcome to the fam boo). It's so great that you've recognised being demisexual too!! Beyond proud of you J, lots of love from your fellow bisexual youtuber, Dutchy.

[@sydneyrobinson5646]

Great... now I wanna come out... WHAT AN INSPIRATION!!!!

[@ranisyhr5233]

Sydney Robinson this video really makes me want to come out to my family, but that’s just so impossible to me, because they’re all so religious and homophobic.

[@pandaprincess3065]

Y'all are just following a trend of "people coming out" that's why your parents aren't supportive. . . Y'all are just clueless lost sheep following who and what is in these days. . . Grow up and be your own, NORMAL, person, would ya?

[@emmamcpeak547]

Panda Princess my parents aren’t supportive because they are homophobic and think being gay is a sin. It’s got nothing to do with people coming out

[@jennatuffnell1843]

Sydney Robinson Same!

[@karinam9335]

Panda Princess I'm sorry but please keep your comments too your self.If you don't have anything positive to say don't say anything.

[@letteaseauh]

im so glad KZbin recommended this awesome teen girl to me 3 years ago i really don't know my life without jessie in it *i stan* so proud of you my father

[@lorirodriguez9966]

I am so proud of you Jessie I know it took a lot of guts to film these coming out video.🌈🌈🌈🌈

[@amieeobrien8856]

We love and support you no matter what jessie❤ your amazing and sweet and inspirational, and we love you no matter what. We stan our LGBTQ + queen🌈❤

[@theoisnotturtle4382]

Amiee O'Brien Yee!

[@SoniaDoubleG]

I feel like I always knew... But I'm so proud of you for finally accepting it fully to yourself and the world... It takes guts for sure 💛💛💛💛💛 I know when I was younger, I found it scary and like I was broken.... but the community is so much stronger now... We Stan Jessie! We love you no matter what! For who you are as a person 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛

[@marikawest]

Sonia DoubleG yeah, I felt that way too; like she never said that before, but I felt. ♡♡♡

[@kasewatson2559]

My parents always tell me that I'm too confusing and that bisexuality doesn't exist. That I have to be "straight or lesbian". And of course, they get angry when I make comments like "wow that girl makes me feel so gay", (because you know, relatable content!), and say "no, you're not gay. stop saying that". I just try not to talk about it with them... I've met lots of people who don't accept me and who I am, but that's okay. I like who I am :) and anyone out there who's struggling, there are so many people here in the comment section willing to help or talk about any struggles you are going through, including me. I love you all

[@hiNadia]

Awwwww can I give you a hug pls

[@beccamcdaniel1259]

Ilysm Jessie your LGBTQ+ videos have helped me so so much I am going through the process of coming out to myself right now and your videos are just so helpful and they make me feel valued 🖤❤️🖤 never stop what you’re doing

[@mariakara2419]

Awkward Emo i agree and same

[@skoo6875]

I personally am confused with my sexuality and i'm not 100% when or if I will figure it out but seeing so many KZbinrs come out will definetly help me out!

[@poisonouslittleviper7216]

I'm a Muslim and even tho this may be a sensitive subject to me but I support how strong you were to upload this even after the anxiety you went through to say it out loud. I hope you have a great day

[@maisakoury7281]

i’m not into the lgbt and i’m not that big of a supporter as well (as u said it’s sensitive subject to us ) ... but that’s not give me the right to judge and hate people who are a part of this community they are humans too they’re not aliens, seeing her trying be brave and talk about it so honestly makes me feel proud of her and i wanna support her to feel loved and just live without feeling scared .. she’s beautiful person and i support the person she is💜 (( i’m also a muslim ))

[@catexplorer5347]

same, people just think that Islam allows you to judge the lgbt+ community but it is not. I'm just like please mind your business, its their choice. shes just so brave and that is beautiful. (i am also a Muslim and am not part of lgbt+​)

[@meherkhan9875]

same im also a Muslim but I like Jessie because of how strong she is and how she doesn't judge others.

[@amilliev.6131]

thank u for your tolerance :) Islam is all about tolerance right ? love you have a great day to

[@Eclaire.19]

All kind of support matters ! Thank you✨

[@graycie5015]

Who would dislike this? They are crazy! This is such a amazing video, it's inspiring, beautiful and over all I'm proud of you, Jessie. I'm proud of you for being you, you wouldn't have to tell me your sexuality, or any of this, and I'd still love you! You're strong and powerful and as an almost 14 year old, I look up to you, and I'm not saying that because you're taller then me, I mean it, you are a role model for me, and I'm proud of how far you've come in life! And who ever disliked this is sin, it's a tragedies, and I truly think you deserve only likes and positive attention! Sorry for the little rant. ~The Rat, Graycie

[@nelia5873]

we love a bi queen💗💜💙

[@nec.tarine]

Hi jessie, just thought I'd share, and show you are not alone (Even though i am waaayyyyy behind and you probably won't see this ) I am also 19, and bi. And like you i felt like a disappointment, because i didn't go to college/ university after high school. Just know that we can never see you as a disappointment, because you are so incredibly positive and accepting and an absolutely amazing person. We love you and stand by you. Love T. I STAN *slams table*

[@BisexualRealTalkNow]

Congratulations! No pressure, but I'm positive you are going to do so much good stuff. I'm so happy to have you as a part of the community. Welcome to the cool people! 😊

[@Hope-eg4qn]

I wish I was as brave as you Jessie.

[@imakejokesbecauseican2650]

Hope We believe in you ❤️

[@kaewaru]

You can do this buddy

[@aleenaalibhai6118]

ya i belive in you too

[@19kstaab]

You can do it! You are stronger than you know! Always stay safe though and be careful with it! You rock!

[@michaelachristensen3979]

We believe in you! You are braver than you think (:

[@shayoui]

I’m very closeted right now and I’m 14,, I am also bi. But there’s no way I can show that to my friends and family. I can relate so so much to you right now. Like when you fight with yourself and deny it but you also know. I recently just (kinda) accepted myself and oh my god it’s really been so hard. I’m literally almost in tears thank you so much, you’ve really helped me a lot. Also my eye twitches too lol. I’m honestly kinda shocked that we’re not related because we’re so similar in so many ways. Even personality wise. Thank you so much Jessie

[@extrajeza]

we stan a bi father

[@et2118]

Jeza Weza - Emo Glee Garbage shane is quaking

[@summer4357]

Ehren T. Nah. Shane's a queen

[@cowboylikesar]

i think it’s perfectly fine you didn’t come out until you were 19. i didn’t come out until i was 19/20. it can be especially hard to come out as bisexual for both men and women because people will either say “no you’re just straight,” or “no you’re just gay.” i am so proud of you for coming out. i hope you continue to feel included and valid in this community. xoxo

[@hollybramhall1351]

Sarah Hall Yep - my friend is bi and she’s been out a while now. My parents are generally accepting of everyone (sometimes they overdo it because they’re trying so hard lmao but they’re trying bless them) but they don’t believe she’s bisexual, just because she hasn’t dated a girl before. They always say that people who come out as bisexual are just attention seeking... (my friend, dodie, several others I can’t remember...)

[@hollybramhall1351]

And this isn’t even me it’s about but I still get so frustrated at it😂 I’d rather just leave myself without any labels but asexual for now ☺️

[@cowboylikesar]

Holly Bramhall it’s a very scary thing to come out as bisexual because there are even people in the community who don’t fully accept bisexuality/pansexuality. i hope your friend is able to feel accepted and loved by the people she is close to. 💞

[@abbiegracex833]

My favourite is “You’re not bisexual, you’re just greedy.” 😂 gosh, people say such stupid things 😂

[@_-luke-_]

I will fight any homophobes with blinding rainbows and glitter because everyone deserves to feel valid. Thanks for helping me realize im bi, bi (haha) the way; your videos have helped me so so much and i hope that you will continue to make content that makes you happy. Welcome to the world of infinite bisexual related puns, im incredibly proud of you. ❤️💛💚💙💗💜

[@avapark9371]

*mumbles under breath* no pun intended

[@skizamzudall2662]

I haven't come out to anybody yet, but I'm Bi.. I already have social anxiety issues that hold me back as well as my church not really "allowing" LGBTQ+ people if theyre not willing to kind of give up that part of you. And its SO HARD. All my life ive loved this church and now i dont even know if i should anymore, because i love guys AND girls. My parent probably would not accept it either, so I have to just wait. Think. Hope. Decide. And keep this secret inside. -i love this strong community here! And i hope it continues on! 💛💚💜💙❤

[@SelenaY.1331]

If you don't love it as much as you used to or not anymore it's okay. Whatever happens I do wish the best of luck to you. Please remember that if you do come out to your parent and if they don't accept you we dont get to choose out blood family, but we can choose who out non blood family is.

[@ellabeckler8502]

I relate to this so much, especially the not loving my church as much anymore. I do love them, but they say things about lgbt and boys with boys, girls with girls, how it’s a sin for liking the same gender. One time I told my pastor about how my friend (a closeted me) came out to me as bi and she’s struggling telling her religious family. And he said that I should pray that “God sets her mind straight again”. I’m honestly so confused and I don’t want anyone at my church to know about me being bisexual

[@biggerontheinside5566]

Skizamz Udall God loves you both ways xx

[@strawberryjpeg6000]

My story is very similar to yours! Also from another bisexual! I wore tons of rainbows and that was my coming out hahah! I came out again to my boyfriend this year and it was hard for him to process but he understands now! He got confused because I wrote 20gayteen and he thought I was gay and I was like nooooooo. I knew I liked girls when I almost kissed a mean girl that wanted to be with me when me and my boyfriend were first getting together, she turned out to bully me in the end but it was sad

[@mariakara2419]

I Don't Know Elisa oh wow... 😕 closeted gay bully

[@blair4youu]

Yessss!!! DAD WE SUPPORT YOU ALLLL THE WAY❤❤❤❤

[@vladimircain]

Being invalidated is definitely terrible, depressing and scary. Especially when it's the people you trusted and loved. Being trans, I get this 24/7

[@leah7610]

Vladimir Cain I support and love you 💜❤️💙

[@denisevl]

Dear The amazing Jessie of all times, I want to start with saying that I Love You and everything that you do. I fully understand you procastination (sort of). I basically am the deffenition of procastinating, even if it is that big of a decission I'm glad you made it :) You may not thing that at this moment (or maybe you do. Idk. The last time I checked I can't see in your head or read your mind) but you'll be very thankfull that you made it. I hope that you can eventually accept yourself for who you really are, because I know I do and allready did for a long time (and I'd probably will. Idk. I can't see into the future either) and that is a fantastic girl who really is the sweetest girl on earth. But if a new viewer were to watch any of your videos but this one (or any other personal/deep video) it would seem like you're always bubbly and easy to speak your mind about things. But from this video it seems that that isn't always the case and it's kind of the opposite with these sort of very deep and personal cases. (Idk if it's true or not because I still can't see in your head or read your mind) I truly love that you share your thoughts, feelings and knowledge about everything that you do. That way I get to know you even better and get deeper through the surface. You aren't just a youtuber that I watch but in some way you've become a friend of mine (that I can't talk to. How convenient :|) that I get to know by every video I watch. If you ever need to talk, share your oppinion on something or need my oppinion or something you can always contact me on my Instagram @denise.vl I'm always here and ready to talk. Much *virtual* Hugs from Denise

[@xvelazquez6816]

Internalized biphobia is so real and is a huge struggle for us bi people but i believe you’ll make a great impact to the community. Im so proud of you dad! ❤️

[@alyciaharp8057]

Erasure of parts of the LGBTQ+ community is really hard. I’m demi, pan, and genderqueer so a lot of people say that I don’t exist. It sucks and I understand how it makes you feel. But that means that we just have to educate people and teach them about he beautiful spectrum. We just have to change the world 😊

[@brimac8237]

Alycia Harp I'm also a pansexual (sadly only pan), and have you ever heard that "you're a fake bisexual" as well? I hate that comment more then anything else

[@paranoid_virgo1738]

Alycia Harp I’m Demi and pan!

[@soniarebecca9669]

I’m pan

[@lucindarae2292]

I'm pan

[@graynovember13]

Exactly! I'm homosexual panromantic and agender, and it makes me angry when people act like my sexuality isn't valid or doesn't exist. All of us queers with less common identities just have to spread the word and try to teach people, just like you said! :)

[@london6257]

the thing you said at the end about "whatever you're feeling whatever you look like whoever you love, you are valid" that really hit me hard. thank you.

[@katemueller1359]

I don't understand why people are hateful towards lgbtq+ ppl. Personally, I'm Mormon, so I believe that those kinds of feelings shouldn't be acted on, but if someone does, that's not really my business. Like, I don't think people should smoke or drink or anything, but I'm not gonna hate every person who smokes or drinks. I have family members who are part of the lgbtq+ community, and I love them just as much as my other family members. Just because I don't agree with someone's decision doesn't mean I can't respect it and them. I believe we should be respectful towards everyone, regardless of their decisions. Congrats for being able to get this off of your chest. I love you❤❤❤

[@kayrobinin]

AHHH FINALLY

[@Taylor-mv9hf]

Kat Müller we need more people like you. people who dont agree, but still love and respect them just the same. so, thank you for being kind about that. 🙂💞

[@madisonklein2617]

We need people like you!

[@aubreygarfield2910]

I am LDS as well, and I feel the same way. Just because I don't agree, doesn't mean I can't respect the people and still love them.

[@kaiya7929]

a lot of people will say you’re a shitty person for thinking the way you do, but in my opinion (as a gay myself) not caring is great. there are probably always gonna be people that hate on the lgbt community, but those who go “you know, it’s not really my business what they do. nothing i do can change it, so i just have to let them be,” will always be good people in my mind. i don’t believe in god but i’m not out here yelling at people to change to be like me. honestly just like thanks for not hating and be respectful to people even if you don’t like them.

[@sev2320]

I was having trouble coming out to my mom, I had told most of my close friends already and I just kept procrastinating about coming out to her and a few days ago, we were at party city and I was looking at the rainbow stuff and asked her if I could get a pride flag and she said "Why do you support LGBT so much, are you gay?" and I said "I'm not nOt gay" and that's how I came out to my mom as bisexual at party city and yes, I still got my pride flag 😂

[@leah7610]

Panic! At the emo quartet Yeemo lmfao yess

[@phanicattheblackparade1254]

Panic! At the emo quartet Yeemo i love your story

[@sev2320]

tyty

[@JylianJazmynn]

when people ask me what my sexuality is I just say: Medicine by Harry Styles

[@sabrinatouati2540]

Jillian Zwada I love that

[@SA-mm1ek]

Mood

[@beeboflat5323]

why people even ask that tho, im like unless you wanna date me and thats why u are curious, get lost honey

[@eyeofenderian]

Jillian Zwada that's such a big mood

[@skylersolis6480]

SAME! I love him so much 😩

[@aeris4204]

I'm a heavy allie. I was at the age of 11. You really helped me accept that I *am* actually LGBTQ+

[@anaisfeeldabliss5589]

You are valid. We are valid. Everyone is valid! I stan my dad! *destroy table*

[@maryallen1701]

WHY IS THE DANNY PHANTOM AND SAM THING SO TRUE I feel personally attacked 😂❤️

[@holly._.5343]

I'm 14 and bisexual! I love you, u precious smol bean! I have only told some of my friends but I just can't tell my parents because they believe it's a trend to be bi:| I'm proud of you father! We all love you so much! Xxx

[@olliec2337]

Bunny Biscuit OH MY GOD! I am in your situation. I haven't told any of my family because they 1, don't a approve. And 2, they think LGBT is a choice

[@holly._.5343]

Chloe Mercury it's so annoying! It's annoying because I do have some queer cousins but I have no way of contacting them and they're way older than me! Thankfully most of my friends are pretty accepting but all but 1 generally make jokes 😂😑💖💜💙

[@Ravensradreality228]

I’m in the same situation but instead a 14 year old lesbian lol😂

[@holly._.5343]

Raven Claw That's great! I'm guessing you're a ravenclaw? Coz sameee xxx

[@holly._.5343]

Kaley Oliver Thank you so much! I really appreciate it 😊much luv xxx

[@leyash222]

I’ve been watching a bunch of coming out videos and this one really touched me and Jessie I want you to know that I am so sorry you had such a hard time coming out even though you obviously will never read this but if you do I want you to know you are AWESOME and I love you and you are one if the very few people that helped me come out as bisexual 💕

[@miyat7698]

Jessie we all love you no matter what! No matter your sexuality, gender, or really anything we are here to love and support you! Congratulations on coming out and remember that we are always here for you when you need it!

[@elliot6669]

We are SO proud of you Dad!!!!😍🏳️‍🌈🖤

[@WhatsMyBodyDoing]

HUG FROM ONE LIL BI TO ANOTHER!

[@aimeeuhqgjwalf2433]

ahhhhh omg i love you. you helped me so much while i was still figuring out my sexuality. i completely agree about the "figuring out i was demisexual helped me figure out that i was bisexual." when i first was figuring myself out i found out i was asexual before figuring out i was actually panromantic. you are such an inspiration, honestly. this takes so much courage and you did it, congrats!!! the fact that you still identified as bisexual (even if you were in the closet) while you were in that relationship is incredible because that takes a big wear and its so amazing (from what you described it seems like it DID take a big wear on you) that you were able to come out publicly within such a short time between that relationship. i probably wouldn't have been able to. i love you so much. when i figured out i was panromantic the first thing i did was go to your channel for reassurement. you have been a enormous step in figuring myself out because you were so inclusive and you made me feel so validated. this brought me to tears, i'm so proud of you and so happy. know that there are always (ALWAYS) people that love and support you against all hate. you're truly a remarkable human being and i applaud you so much on this giant checkpoint in your life. love, aimee

[@psychicsapphic6989]

I don't think you'll see this but I've been dealing with severe anxiety and depression and nothing usually makes me happy or I don't know.. feel something? I just feel empty.. but you and your videos.. you have something in you that is very... magical? Like, when I'm watching your videos I feel something... and it is amazing. It is the best feeling ever to actually feel and not be numb. I know I might sound cliche but I really mean it. Thank you so much Jessie, Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Love you daddy💙💙💙

[@danijzmin]

Aritta Weasley hey I’m sorry to hear that. And I’m glad Jessie makes you happy 😊 💓

[@euph_been_tricked]

Aritta Weasley God I hope she sees this. Because I don’t feel alone. Have a good day though. 💙

[@tanja2732]

this is so heartwarming, I wish you all the best♡ I hope you'll manage to fight your way out of depression♡♡♡

[@mmx3n]

Aritta Weasley i feel the same way. usually i’m all alone and depressed, but i feel like when watching jessie’s videos it just makes me feel so excepted.

[@georgia2872]

I am so fucking proud of you. Your journey is incredible and I am excited to see where it goes next, you are so so so fucking brave and you are such an inspiration to so many people. Thank you for helping so many people, you're the best dad ever

[@anaisfeeldabliss5589]

Bi Squad, where are you at?! 💖💜💙 Love you dad! We all support you, you're amazing. ❤

[@alexandra-nb1vl]

Tyler Joseph's Smol Lil' Face I love your username

[@poppyoconnor2649]

HEY WHATS UP !!!!!!!

[@hanner5626]

Tyler Joseph's Smol Lil' Face 💙💖💜

[@yunahobi4486]

Tyler Joseph's Smol Lil' Face HEY

[@mariagalanopoulou3277]

oh hi

[@estefaniamartinez1949]

JESSIE WE LOVE YOUUU!!! NO MATTER WHAT SEXUALITY OR HAIR COLOR YOU IDENTIFY WITH!!! MUA 🌈💖

[@emmashular4381]

*EVERY ONE OF YOUR PEOPLE LOVE YOU JESSIE!!!! EVERY! SINGLE! ONE!*

[@monkeyphoenix5509]

ThatOne CalledEmma nope

[@emmashular4381]

Monkey Phoenix no person who is honestly one of Jessie people would hate her or stop looking up to her because of this. Every single person who is one of Jessie people will/are supporting her. Every person who hates on her isn't truly one of her people. The whole point of us being "her people" is we are a community of people who relate and look up to her, not matter what.

[@monkeyphoenix5509]

ThatOne CalledEmma and I'm pretty sure one of my daughters subscribe to this channel I don't want to be an ass I just was asking the question why you people think it's such a great thing to tell people your sexual preference

[@monkeyphoenix5509]

ThatOne CalledEmma thanks for your opinion at least somebody acknowledged the actual question it is sad the people need that support but Society is becoming more open hopefully soon there will be no need to express your sexual preference to other people you can just be a good person and people will like you for that

[@fangirlingfangirl5977]

I have some days, where I feel like, today is the day, I'm going to tell the world I'm bisexual. But then I remember how so many people in my class were disgusted by homosexuality when we had the topic and me feeling this: "If I get into defense-mode, maybe they'll figure out that you are part of this community and then they will probably hate on you" It's horrible. Example: I spent three days in the wood with the people from my drama club and I shared a room with a girl from my class, who I thought was pretty nice. We talked and talked and came to the topic about homosexuality and she told me she was disgusted by it and I can't describe that feeling. It was horrible, very horrible and I am so afraid of telling anyone because what if they all react that way? What if? That question stops me every time. Thank you Jessie for making me fell a little less insecure and more confident. Thank you!

[@caution942]

Fangirling Fangirl ... Is it weird that I'm in the EXACT same situation as you

[@sophambrose5096]

I felt the same way for a long time, but I finally told the world. You shouldn't care about what everyone thinks. The right people will love you for who you are.

[@fangirlingfangirl5977]

moon child Thank you! I will try to get over this fear. Yeah, I will try.

[@azrasophie4381]

"I wonder if Hannah Montana felt this way" and that my friends is why I love jessie

[@SuperBlueocean123]

when you mentioned asexuality I actually started crying, like actually bawling tears of joy because talking about asexuality in particular is such an attacked thing especially on places like youtube and twitter. and just thank you. thank you for talking about these things, and even though im new here im so glad that you can be comfortable in your own skin. go you! go anyone else who reads this . :)

[@OutoftheBluee]

i’m so incredibly proud of you, welcome to the other side of the community closet

[@miarae9461]

WE👏🏻LOVE👏🏻A👏🏻BISEXUAL👏🏻QUEEN👏🏻(we’re all so proud of you and we all love you so muchh!!!)

[@sophiepaul6303]

It’s annoying that we even have to come out!! I hope one day we can just be without all the self hate and self doubt experienced while in the closet 🏳️‍🌈

[@littledreamsonearth8593]

It's my first video I saw from you! And I kept crying and I'm amaized and thankful for how much you have done! Also I felt like I allready belonged to your community, this community! It's really awesome and I feel like I want to keep on watching what you do! ❤

[@lizmitchell4647]

I'm honestly crying so much. I love you, you're amazing.

[@lisad389]

I AM SO PROUD OF YOU JESSIE

[@laracoopamacwndrlnd5988]

YOU ARE LOVED 🏳️‍🌈 WE ALL STAN THE BI-JESSIE🌈🌈

[@TheFrancescaSShow]

Wait... your a hufflepuff?

[@abramblakey44]

what?

[@leslieking9657]

Danny is hot yes. Hell every boy in Danny Phantom is hot.

[@TheAmericanpngn]

The music God’s Sidney Poindexter from locker 724 😂

[@ashleyv6013]

The music God’s true

[@katbrt]

so proud of you for being happy with who you are 💖 happy pride 💓💜💙💞💟💝💘💕💖💗💘💖💗💕💜💙💞💟💓💝💖💕

[@rileym2158]

Love you gurl🌈👏❤ Here enjoy this virtual hug Jessie I love you so much and you helped me so much throughout the coming out process you made me smile when you deserve the same. Remember that we are always here for you and you are valid and you are loved. Love you Jessie ❤❤

[@catalinach2824]

hey, I love you dad, thanks for this video, I’m going trough the same thing, except my family is extremely homophobic, and would literally disown me if they find out. Thanks for being such a wonderful angel. You helped me a little bit to accept myself.

[@fruityeel]

father cats i’m sorry that your family isn’t accepting, but please remember that there’s a whole community out here and we are here for you!!

[@Mia-th9qr]

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! YOU ARE SUCH AN INCREDIBLE FATHER! OMG GIVING AWAY THE AD MONEY! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND AM SO PROUD AND HAPPY FOR YOU!!!