Comment ni Carmina Villarroel sa WALANG-RESPETONG AKTRES at kay Julia Montes | PEP Live Choice Cuts

[@candice_belove]

I dont see anything wrong kung ang mas senior ang unang bumati. Meron talagang tao who dont initiate conversations but it doesnt mean theyre disrespectful.

[@yancepro1679]

true

[@RB1990-1]

I agree. Merong mahiyain lang talaga. Merong introvert.

[@cherrysantos96]

Right. Me mga taong ayaw bumati kasi nahihiya, di naman kabastusan ung di ka binati. Not unless, kinausap or binati mo sia tapos inignore ka lang or pinagsalitaan ka ng bad/sarcastic words

[@bhellahk6824]

True, c sharon cuneta nga sya ung unang yumayakap s mga kbataang artista.

[@marianeandreadepaz2200]

Truee

[@hanjaeseum1092]

eto yung typical tita tuwing my gathering kayo sa bahay niyo, maririnig mo pa lang boses niya ayaw mo ng bumaba ng bahay kasi magtatanong lang siya kung bakit wala ka pang boyfriend, kung bakit wala ka pang trabaho tapos icocompare ka sa favorite niyang anak.

[@notsohopelessromantic]

Omg so true 😪 reminds me of one of my titas

[@zenysaavedra6551]

Oo nga.

[@justinesodela6790]

Hahahaha sa true.

[@jjlc2573]

Oo nga feeling namn nya e sa kng ayaw siya pansinin e .

[@darkunicorn1203]

😂

[@elenasalcedo1253]

I feel you ms. Carmina but you have to understand that people have different personalities. I am a teacher and i can tell you that based from experience, maraming batang introvert na aakalain mo na snob, disrespectful but in reality, they are just shy. Hope you'll understand them coz i have a son with the same nature.

[@seldzamistad2646]

and i am also one of the introvert person so i agree with you

[@shibakude01]

True. I could also be one of them most of the time. pano pala kung nahihiyang mag approach sa kanya kasi they were never introduced, baka maisip na feelingera or pabibo pag bumati… we can never tell… she just wanted to be appeased that she’s a senior and a star by the newbies…

[@imstraightnotuntilryujinca8443]

I hope my teacher will understand me too nahihiya rin kasi akong bumati sa kanila at the same time takot din tas magpaparinig agad sila like "yung iba dyan kahit kitang dami ko ng dala di man lang tutulong, yung iba dyan dadaanan kalang ng di ka man lang babatiin" and I felt so guilty everytime na nagpaparinig sila kahit anong practice ko kasi diko talaga kaya parang may pumipigil sakin

[@cheguevara6557]

Ang mga introvert kasi sobrang mahiyain yn pero kpg naging kaibigan mo yn mga loyal yn

[@omoucalthommalambut7847]

Just because a person did not have approached you first, doesn't mean that person is disrepectful.

[@jdb8104]

"One of the risks of being quiet is that the other people can fill your silence with their own interpretation."

[@marygracelabor9489]

True.

[@kittykatislove]

truts!!

[@iam_paglalakbay]

Yes agree

[@mistycsmith9018]

More like prejudices. 😔

[@jaycepadilla]

Me!

[@lbd.diaries]

Nakakaiyak ang mga comments guys. Introvert ako with social anxiety. Now, hindi lahat ng mga introvert may social anxiety, pero much worse kung meron ka. Sabi sa iba sa kin na "snob" ako, "impolite", "walang respeto". Try ko na mag-reach out pero hindi ko kaya sa lahat na panahon. So, sana maging mas understanding tayong lahat sa iba, lalo na sa ating culture na kailangan talaga ang pagiging sociable. Iba iba ang mga tao kasi. Sa akin, most of the time, hindi ako makakasunod sa social etiquette. Pero I try my best po. Salamat sa inyong pag-unawa.

[@margielyn3120]

I feel you 😌😢💓

[@matthewhidalgo4754]

Nararamdaman kita

[@cristelyntiauzon4732]

Ganun na nga...

[@kathleenappleanobling3158]

Same here....

[@momohiraiii6143]

🙌

[@RB1990-1]

Minsan kasi nasa kabilang side din ang problema. Baka naman intimidating yung dating mo at naisip nung bata na baka sungitan lang siya at masabihan na feeling close. This is not about Ms. Carmina alone. In general yan. May mga taong takot na mag-initiate dahil ayaw mapahiya.

[@justinofernandez220]

Y6iuh H

[@pag-ibigdalisay1292]

tumpak po. 🙂

[@gracejiwook4860]

True po!! ano mismo nasubukan ko Yan.. Yung pinansin mo dahil kakilala mo tas Yun dedma.. napahiya TULOY ako!!

[@danielblue4460]

Like me.

[@rosariobingco3852]

qqqq

[@bucklag]

Labas lahat ng mga introverts! We're silently suffering from prejudice because of our personality type. They're not really disrespectful. Sa totoo lng full of respect cla, kaso nananaig yung shyness that they can barely make eye contact or even greet. It's more of like extreme social phobia.

[@SixSeventeen-617]

This is true. I strongly agree. 👍🏻

[@hulaanmonameq6250]

ganto ako lagi🥺

[@koringmeow5056]

Yes it's true.

[@dimo4945]

True. Ganoon dn ako noong una pero naisip ko later na dapat mag greet talaga tayo kahit mahiyain tayo. Kasi manners iyon

[@marjorylumaino3299]

I agree po❤❤

[@fosho4965]

I'm an introvert too and I feel so bad that most of the people I met says I'm disrespectful. Like I'm just too shy to reach out first and always feel nervous whenever I'm around with someone. I hope everyone should be considerate din

[@kaikaimanalang4428]

Likewise ☹️ akala pa nila suplada/suplado kpa ☹️

[@madsacedera3204]

Truee

[@pianoangel4]

People distant themselves from me too because I was quiet. Sometimes, I just love to look at people. It doesn't mean I judge them, it's because I admire how different they are.

[@jhenqcho]

Glad I’m not the only one.most people I know I don’t think they know the word introvert (coz they’re Filipino,)so they won’t understand us introvert

[@novienewingham477]

can relate with you guys, i was called a snob and always kinocompare with my siblings kc d daw ako palabati, naghihintay lang nmn ako na batiin ako first kc nahihiya ako.

[@etheldinogan]

Pag introvert ka, mahirap mag initiate ng conversation, especially if di mo kilala yung tao. Maaaring sabihin ng iba na madali lang, pero pag mahiyain ka, mahirap talaga. Hehe.

[@ME_Toons]

Yeah

[@jheaneski1126]

True.

[@cherries44]

Kaya madaling ma mis interpret ang mga introverts

[@michierc8061]

@shin lee true, nag artista ka dapat alam mo at kaya mong makibagay at makisama sa mga artista 😆😅 or sa mga fans

[@macutejackieann1681]

Agree

[@deandrebajagimeno1000]

Everyone in the industry knows how nice Julia Montes is... Julia is very kind, down-to-earth, really humble. She’s very kind and respectful.

[@kathleenwaynetorres3717]

mahiyain lang kasi siya kahit mapanuod yung interview nila ni dimple eh haist! kailangan ba pinapansin? hindi ba pwedeng ikaw din mauna ang pumansin.

[@unknownperson9252]

@@kathleenwaynetorres3717 I think you misunderstood it..... Ms. Carmina said that Julia Montes is very respectful that's why she loves her. And the "disrespectful" young artist that Ms. Carmina is saying is not Julia Montes, she's referring to the other young artist.... 😊

[@zoexan3440]

@@unknownperson9252 oo nga po.. sbi nga po n Ms. Carmina, Love nya dw c Julia.. kc kht busy n xa minimake-upan, lumapit pa sa knya at nagpakilala. :) So hnd c Julia ung ayaw nya. :)

[@marygracetipones9403]

Ang sabi!!!!!

[@jbonceu2457]

"I always say hi to everyone" dito plng sa extroverted mindset nato alam mo ng magcaclash ka talaga if you meet someone that is really introverted. Hope malearn ng mga extroverts that mahiyian is not equal to disrespectful, but also introverts need to learn that socializing is a must sa outside world. Fellow introverts, it's hard to adapt pero kaya niyo yan💖

[@sharamaelopez632]

Wow This is actually the best comment that I've ever read. Thank you so much cuz I myself is an introvert as well and your message really encourage me to do socializing. Thank you ☺️

[@aptx-ew8gq]

reality nga naman dahil palagi ako walang kausap or palagi nasa bahay halos makalimutan ko na paano makipag usap sa ibang tao sana matutunan ko uli

[@bernadettejaylo9037]

Maganda talaga ang comment pag jeongyeon stan 🤠

[@kieth26]

Hi. In Psychology, introversion is a personality trait characterized by a focus on internal feelings rather than on external sources of stimulation. Being an introvert does not mean that you are socially anxious or shy. Another fact, artista siya. May culture sa show business industry na maging professional sa kapwa artists by socializing. Petty but that’s how their world revolves. Pero kahit naman sa corporate world, kung hindi ka marunong bumati sa seniors at bosses, mai-issue ka na. Haha! Just my two cents.

[@jbonceu2457]

@@kieth26 @Jan Kiethan Sorry if my comment seems like a generalization of introverts as shy people. I'm aware that introverts are much more diverse than just shy. What I meant is that introverts, especially those that are really introverted or at the 100% end of the scale, tend to become really shy, that's why there's a stereotype to introverts. I know conversations and socializing tends to be exhausting for introverts, since their brain is usually haywired to "mind your own business" mode. I'm just speaking for those people that can relate. Hope that clear things out.😊

[@fil3663]

I'm a quiet, and Introverted person. I don't understand why people gives impressions about us in just one situation. Don't hate people wholesome. You don't personally know them especially if you only met them once

[@lapizlapoppy]

THIS. This type of thinking gives me more anxiety. I'm socially awkward and anxious, not to mention I have bad vision. When someone I know walks past me, I sometimes unintentionally ignore them when I dont have glasses, then someone would tell me that I walked past someone I know which makes me feel extremely anxious if whether or not they think I was ignoring them. At times, I forget if _nagmano_ naba ako sa relative ko. That's because I feel anxious when I look at people. I don't want to be in a conversation and thus I tend to look down on the ground kahit nagmamano ako. These types of "criticism" does not help and makes us feel worse..

[@arthea1377]

relate

[@deskwasjustadesk6985]

Relate alot...anxiety is no joke,yung dahil sa anxiety parang sasabog yung dibdib mo dahil sa kaba

[@almost17]

Di ka nmn artista so you dont have to panic

[@lucaloca4812]

I was like this before pero nagssmile naman ako kahit na sobrang shy and anxious around people. You dont have to be artista to feel that way. Kahit ordinaryong tao nakakaramdam ng ganyan. Minsan kasi parang nakakahiya na igreet ang isang tao lalo na kapag alam mong mataas sya though syempre parang mas nakakahiya na hindi sya batiin lalo na kung magkakasalubong kayo.

[@jellyace6363]

Relate, malabo rin kasi mata ko then ilang beses nako nag try na mag wave sa isang tao kung mapansin ko na parang kakilala ko yon kaso di pala kay ibang tao, sadyang magkapareha lang sila ng style bale ayun sobrang hiya ko kaya everytime na may mag wave sakin or tatawag ng pangalan ko saka ko sila papansinin if malapit na ako sa kanila or nilapitan na nila ako, basta pag klaro ko na yung mukha nila saka ko sila papansinin, malay mo kasi iba yung tinatawag nila at may kapareha lang ako ng pangalan sa likod... at di ibig sabihin non na dina ako namamansin

[@toeknee2302]

"True humility is not thinking less of yourself, it is thinking of yourself less." - C.S. Lewis Pag hindi ka binati, ikaw ang unang bumati. Malay mo may anxiety, mahiyain, may pinagdadaanan, may iniisip, etc. Set your eyes kay Christ and learn from Him.

[@kateortiz7580]

Truth,

[@weirdk_9256]

Agree in fact she should be thankful that the actress she's talking about is shy cus that means that the actress knows that she is more powerful or perfect than her cus if that's a diff actress she will prob act as if she's famous and she will also act as if she's tha center of the universe

[@AjVicente]

Misjudging sa tao. Hindi po lahat katulad nyo Ms Carmina na may lakas Ng loob para po lumapit at bumati sa ibang Tao. How if mahiyain lng yung Tao at nhihiya bumati disrespectful kagad?

[@christiangabrielm.jamoral4268]

@@AjVicente p importante sya

[@fullsun5537]

She's referring to a young ACTRESS. Actress acts in front of people. She should learn in the first place to somehow greet or wave or smile much more her colleague. I'm an introvert pero I acknowledge someone even with a smile if i can't approach her/him directly. Especially senior. That's basic manner.

[@zomz100]

sa Pilipinas lang siguro yung "attitude" ang tawag sa mga introverts pero sa ibang bansa like European countries they find them smart

[@annalizanaigan8268]

11 we

[@tinsarmiento4612]

bansa like europe🤡

[@MarkBroze]

@@tinsarmiento4612 mga bansa like in europe* haha

[@empressatheism5146]

Sa Pinas lang din ung against same sex marriage pero nagfifinger naman ng puki

[@thevinzicode3435]

@@empressatheism5146 di namin gets? marami namang ganun asian countries di lang PH

[@whilyn]

If someone doesn't approach you, approach them. Smile first. Be a model senior actress. Na disappoint naman ako kay Carmina.

[@observerb1178]

Being social introvert is not easy. We usually called snob and having bad attitude. It's not because we don't want to talk, we're shy. And we don't know where we could get the courage to talk to someone we first met and we barely know.

[@0309lorainejoy]

Hi hello kapag nakakasalubong ang senior.

[@baskboxtv7339]

Ang babaw naman kung di lang na hi hello galit kaagad hahahaha

[@lizquenfan7720]

Edi sana hindi siya nagartista kung socially incapable siya makipag usap sa ibang tao

[@observerb1178]

@@lizquenfan7720 what if she wanted to earn? Actually, some social introverts are teachers and call center agents, although it is hard, they do it, because they wanted to live.

[@lizquenfan7720]

@@observerb1178 well if she wanted to earn, find another Job! Being a teacher or a call center agent is different. Hindi trabaho mo ang magaadjust sayo, ikaw. Pinili mo yan. Panindigan mo, gawin mo ng tama. Gosh. May kilala akong socially introvert na tao. Barkada ko. She doesn't socialize with others unless it's us. Di rin siya mahilig makipagkapwa sa iba. Pero she knows her place. Pag professionalism at courtesy ang usapan, she does that. She doesn't do kwentuhan with them, bumabati lang siya ng good morning and such. Socially awkward siya. So wag niyo idahilan na she wanted to earn, dahil kung gusto niya mag earn and want to keep that kind of personality, she can find another job. And to think, di magiging artista yan kung socially awkard yan dahil una sa lahat di yan kukunin ng management or ng manager niya mismo kung ganyan yan

[@jamtessa2125]

I disagree with you ms.Carmina,porke dka binati ay disrespectful,may mga taong hndi palabati,dhl nahihiya lng mauna dhl nattakot maisnob,.

[@dabsavage3163]

Exactly! Nakita mong tao di mo pinansin, much more kasama mo sa work at senior pa, HINDI PAMBABASTOS IYON?????? Ano ba ang bastos sayo? Tumatae sa plato sa lamesa?

[@mikko6142]

Yes tama ka dyan ako kahit lalaki ako ganyan ugali ko, mahiyain ako kaya pag magkikita tayo di ko ugaling bumati, pero once na binati mo ko babatiin naman din kita. Pero di ako suplado gaya ng iniisip nyo, mahiyain lang talaga ako. Dahil na din siguro sa experiences ko na bumabati ako pero na snob ako kaya parang nadala na ko.

[@zerogabz1153]

@@dabsavage3163 Kaya nga. Yung context kasi dito, kasama nya sa work. Hindi naman ibig sabihin na lahat ng makasalubong mo sa daan babatiin mo. Mahina talaga tayu minsan umintindi ehhh.

[@Dixon_with_the_sillies]

Alamin natin ang whole story. Huwag kayong judgemental.

[@channot-w3j]

Tama

[@lolalenie6443]

Hnd naman lahat palabati ay mabait ang iba babatiin ka lang para papansin mayroon kacing tahimik lang walabg imik pero maBait.

[@chimon3237]

ok, pero sa mundo nila tinuturuan na yan sila ng mga manager nila and please lang, may mga artista talagang may attitude

[@afiramnalisab8637]

Uu pero ung katabi mo n sya cgro nman kahit simpleng smile at hi po pwd gawin un cgro ung ibig sbhn n ms.mina tingin ko sikat sobra ung young actress n un s 2 kya mdyo suplada n

[@bhunzo5127]

I agree for this👏👏👏

[@Darklords03]

Lol simple ethics lang yan sa lalo na sa trabaho. Sige nga kung skaling introvert ka yan ieexcuse mo sa mga trabaho mo o sa boss mo??

[@jiezacustodio5440]

Agree ako sa sinabi mo

[@blairWism]

I honestly think that the girl was too shy and intimidated. Since you’re the mature and sikat one, Ikaw na sana nauna. Historically, suplada ka din naman. I remember many years ago, I saw you and Cassie in a shop in ShangriLa mall, and you were too suplada. Cassie was like 6 yrs old then. That’s all.

[@ry-iy6zj]

I also saw her in eastwood with her daughter. Yung itsura niya nakasimangot kahit na yung mga tao sa paligid niya naka smile sakanya. Makikita mo aura niya na 'You can't sit with us' ganern

[@blairWism]

@@ry-iy6zj yes ganun nga! kaya im sure na intimidate yung young actress

[@leonibelghloebayangdan7881]

Yung sa wedding nla ng asawa nya, makikita mong biglang nag tataray ang mag asawa sa mga kausap nila

[@amieanderson1119]

O ano ngayun kainin mo pinagsasabi mo sa mga comment sa yo ng tao. Lintik maputi ka lang akala mo nman maganda kung di ka retokada. Uyyyyy mga artista galangin nyo si madam carmina babatiin nyo lagot kayo dyan rresbakan kyo nyan🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@potatomadness8284]

@@ry-iy6zj same i saw her too sa off white shop kasama sila cassie and her but i get intimitaded because nag hi ako then di sya namansin hi lang naman di naman ako nag papicture kase di ko naman sila idol hayss dami kong nakikitang artista pero sya lang yung ganon HAHAHA

[@angelita8923]

If someone doesn't greet you or talk to you that much, it doesn't mean that he/she doesn't respect and recognize you. There are a lot of people who don't talk too much or used to greet everyone because some others have anxiety about doing it. Or maybe, they're just shy. Like me, when I'm with people I am not used to be with, I seldom talk. If I do talk, I even stutter sometimes. But it doesn't mean that I don't respect them. I better be quiet than hearing myself stutter.

[@fredtacang3624]

Ironically, gen x si mina. '90s palang may equality na and breaking down of barriers (literal sa berlin wall lol). Meaning wala sa edad, gender, social status etc. Nakalimutan ata ni mina yun ;)

[@ceciliacici2763]

AGREE!!!!!

[@rhoxannepayot7574]

AGREE

[@davidwilliams6059]

You don't even have to talk to them. Just say hi and smile. A simple greeting will do. There are so many people now in the workplace, schools, and other professional settings, who are so full of themselves. You already greeted them but they won't greet you back or even smile. That's rude. You can't use the generation gap for that because definitely it's not an excuse to be so indifferent, rude and arrogant and by the way arrogance can be shown not just in words but in actions too! Can we just be more respectful and be nice to others. It doesn't hurt if we really do that and it's not even hard to do! We don't have to go out of our way in order to be nice to others!

[@agiehernandez8819]

Sorry, but we talking about celebrity people, most of these young kids are too hype that they think they are higher than everyone and especially if someone talks or treat their mother bad, that tells you what attitude you have. Acknowledgement of another person has nothing to do with being shy.

[@kontwo]

It's disrespectful if you say hi and the person did not acknowledge your presence. What if naalangan yung tao? Let's face it, Carmina, hindi ka rin mukhang pinaka-approachable na tao.

[@melissabayla460]

😃😃😃😃 korek

[@agiehernandez8819]

Hope you don't have kids and hope that's not what you teach them. I have kids and my oldest is 19 and still make them greet their elders first even if knowing they won't say hi back or be snob. Being respectful is one thing I teach my kids.

[@kontwo]

@@agiehernandez8819 Eh di wow! Virtue signalling definition: To take a conspicuous but essentially useless action ostensibly to support a good cause but actually to show off how much more moral you are than everybody else. 🙄

[@lunamiku4166]

@@agiehernandez8819 Key words *"Elders"* meaning relative mo kaya dapat lagi kang maging magalang. Carmina is a *stranger* to Julia. She has no other relation to her other than being in the Entertainment Industry. If we would be judging people by looks and aura alone Carmina's appearance is intimidating and not really a person that you could easily get along with (add in Gladys Reyes and Cherie Gil into the list too) also add in the fact that Carmina is also a Great Senior Actress making it more intimidating for Julia to interact with her.

[@agiehernandez8819]

@@lunamiku4166 omg. You see how you were not even paying attention to what she said, she was praising Julia cus she was very polite towards her. She didn't say it was Julia who was ignoring her. Minsn kasi listen first before reacting.

[@kcjpopanime5257]

I'm an introvert and even though I don't initiate talking to others I still find a way to let them know I know their presence like bowing/nodding my head to them

[@intergal6916]

Yes, tama yan. Dapat maging considerate din tayo sa ibang tao.

[@reylanruiz109]

this is sooo mee

[@metoo349]

True. Dadahilan na kesho introvert sila may anxiety kaya walang manners. Bata pa mga magulang , guru, sa tv kahit sino dapat natututo ng manners and right conduct

[@rhubiestewart9819]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/onuafX6saKmneZY😘😘❤️

[@natividaddeang256]

I have never given any comment sa isang showbiz interview but can't help replying to Carmina's comment on her showbiz colleague. Sa akin, di lang sya binati, disrespectful na ung kapwa artista nya? Malay nman nya me pinagdadaanan ung tao. Who the hell does she thinks she is? Dahil si Carmina Villaroel sya, greet sya ng hello? Paano kung mahiyain ung bata at paano kung nag greet nga, inisnab naman? Be considerate, huwag nyang iparehas ung personality nya sa personality ng iba. Feeling entitled ang Carmina Villaroel.😪

[@thesundaygist5019]

I've heard how the elders (esp. aunts, moms) bad talk people who are on the shyer side, saying how they are disrespectful. Not are our sociable and it's hard to speak to people we are not close with sometimes. Gen Z's seems to understand a variety of personalities more than the older peeps. edit: typo

[@beatriceangelica5011]

No gen z is just less value oriented

[@thesundaygist5019]

@@beatriceangelica5011 how so, support your claim

[@mutya_]

@@beatriceangelica5011 Totoo. Pansin ko to sa kapatid ko. Masyadong nalulong sa socmed kaya kung anong nakikita ginagawang personality.

[@theycallmetrollbcispeakfac1581]

@@beatriceangelica5011 no

[@Zelda_0000]

i think not only Gen Z other timeline as well

[@phoebedemontefalcon1423]

Ako introvert ako and I understand how very difficult it is to even say Hi to people you are not close with. Pero I still manage to smile pag nakikita ko sila as a sign of respect. D ko man sila kausapin atleast ngumingiti ako sa twing mag tatama mata namin. Yun ok na yun sakanila atleast inaacknowedge mo ying presence nila.. Pero for someone na d kna nga pinansin at d ka pa nginitian. Thats a different story.

[@leanp633]

Damn. Reading the top comments of this video made me restore hope for humanity. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@margiewilwayco899]

Hindi kailangan magsabi ka ng hi Hello sa lahat ng tao pano pagmahiyain nagjudge ka na. Mayron iba nag greet pero walang hiya..

[@mgswing2471]

Si Carmina ung typical na Tita na iniiwasan ko kapag meron reunion.

[@enochian7822]

True that

[@tropangilongga24]

ahhh ikaw ang my probema sa pg uugali mo inday

[@MyChan85]

Hahaha

[@selenameliz5460]

YES HAGEVSAHAH

[@hailoo9582]

Hahahaha ako din

[@iamjaydee4621]

I'm an introvert too and most of the time people think i'm snob and truth is i can't say hi/hello kc awkward akong tao pero na-realize ko din naman that i have to adjust din lalo na kung ang trabaho ko is i need to approach people that i don't know siguro un ang punto ni miss carmina they're in showbiz industry kaya dpat adjust din tayo para di tayo lumabas na bastos.

[@maximuszidane2505]

Not everyone has enough confidence to greet someone older than them. Maybe they are just shy or they don't know how to start a conversation. And I think it is more disrespectful to jump into conclusions without knowing the reason why that person did it.

[@mbhomez2003]

Pero hindi rin siguro sya naging artista kung mahiyain 🙂

[@maximuszidane2505]

@@mbhomez2003 I mean, mahihiya ka naman talaga kung yung artista na kaharap mo ay mas mataas talaga sayo diba.

[@justjanz6891]

I don't think tnuro naman sa atin nung bata pa tayo paank gumalang sa nakakatanda or kahit mas bata o ka edad. Respect kasi tawag doon.

[@TheShad12345]

I totally agree being an introvert it doesnt you have an attitude. Simply we cant start a conversation.

[@jaysonaguilar6088]

@@mbhomez2003 Talulo !!! May naging mga artista na mahiyain sa personal at hindi sa trabaho. Example na nyan si Jomari Yllana way back.

[@imnellie2263]

Yes, you are in the world of showbusiness and the primary requirement is DAPAT MARUNONG MAKISALAMUHA. As simple as that at napakasimple ng content ng video at naintindihan ko....hahaha....yes, naintindihan ko ang nilalaman ng video na 'to. 12,000 likes, its amazing and more than a million viewers, and more than 3,000 comments, WOW!....Ang ganda mo pa rin, Ms. Carmina. God bless po and more, more, more blessings pa po para marami pa po kayong matulungan! --> FEB 4, 2021/9:01pm

[@cchen-wq2nm]

Nah. Sa pinas lang yang ganyang mentality hehe

[@danielpaulo3746]

Hi, I was bullied on set when I did my first commercial in the philippines, I'm introverted as well. I just wanted to sit in the corner and read my books but everyone around me expected me to be so outgoing, talkative and greet everyone. Made my social anxiety worse. Was called mayabang bc my tagalog isn't that good as well. I believe it's a mentality thing on what an artista should be.. outgoing, charasmatic etc.. please don't get me wrong I'm very respectful I just really like to keep to myself and be in my own world until it's time to unleash a good performance. Lots of judgement in the business, I hope in the future the industry can understand people like us. Godbless

[@ellajavelosa368]

Damn she sounds super entitled here!!! Tapos comparing person to person.... She sounds like a typical tita you would like to AVOID.

[@divinamb.790]

a pinoy "Karen" hahaha entitled

[@juliaclara7360]

RIGHT! Classic Titas

[@fil3663]

She's rude aswell. I met her already. I asked her if i can take and picture and i gret her aswell but she just rolled her eye and didn't respond. Tapos nung bumababa na siya sa stairs i told her 'Pa picture po, I'm your idol Ms. Mina' but she pushed my hand and she shouted stop. I know it's not her responsibility to talk or respond to me if she doesn't want to but you don't need to shout or push me. Pwede niya namang sabihing 'Sorry I can't entertain you for now ha' I just don't like that she shouts at me tapos ganito yung sasabihin niya sa co actress or actor niya. Correct yourself before you correct others

[@sairahsoriano4893]

True!!! Hahaa

[@sairahsoriano4893]

Feeling entitled!! Haha

[@julieanngobres9551]

That’s the misconception of being the “quiet type” some people make it all a big deal, if it’s a characteristic of an individual don’t take it against the person. I am like that, quiet but doesn’t mean I don’t respect everyone around me just because of that.

[@musick1102]

You're right. I'm a kind of person too. Maybe that certain actress was just afraid of being rejected, lalo pa't batikang artista to c Carmina

[@Kjay_2001]

True!!

[@mikieramcnair1588]

@@musick1102 agree

[@dmztv2733]

Introvert person has always been misunderstood. I, myself is very shy especially in greeting someone in public thinking that he/she might not respond back to me.

[@iou4440]

Yeah. Ako rin. I work with a lot of teenagers on a daily back before the pandemic, they would tell me in a very subtle way na ang suplada ko kaya naiintimidate sila, e nahihiya lang naman talaga ako

[@kn95xo]

true! introverts tend to be misunderstood a lot indeed. laging napagkakamalang snobbish when hindi nmn. sadyang introverted lng. ^^

[@angeged9419]

Kahit nga sa mga kilalang tao (pero dikaclose) hiyang hiya ako.. At sobrang taong bahay akooooo

[@AA-yb6jw]

Korek

[@Juan-st7hl]

Kapag sinabihan ka "Bat ang tahimik mo?" "Mag salita ka naman"(Halos dinig ng buong room pagkakasabi niya) na gets ko naman siya, pero alam mo yun parang feeling ko puputok na dibdib ko na hindi ko alam kung seryoso yung pagkakatanong o sadyang sarcastic lng talaga yung pag kasabi niya kasi alam niya na ako yung pinaka tahimik sa klase.

[@juliennes.6155]

I feel you. Nakakainis yung alam naman nilang tahimik ka pero they expect you to make kwento. Na parang mino-mock ka na sa for being quiet. Respect each other's inividuality na lang para walang gulo ganern. 😁😊

[@brandoncomiajr4091]

yeah😑

[@Alpha-nc6ie]

"imposible namang di mo ako kakilala" Sobrang entitled shuta. Ako nga kahit gusto ko i-greet ang isang tao minsan nauunahan ako ng takot or hiya ko. Kailangan ko pa bumubo ng courage. Minsan hirap din ako magtuloy ng conversation. Judgemental ka lang siz yun yon.

[@pinkyi569]

Agree! Sino ba si Carmina to demand such level of respect? Maraming mas sikat sa kanya na hindi naman ganyan! Feeling naman masyado gurl..

[@yssavillablanca6873]

I remember si Aiko ganyan din ang naranasan before sa isang young star... (iba tlg ang training during 80s/90s stars)... 😍 everybody loves Julia Montes 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@trinity9053]

May napanood din ako video ni Dina Bonnevie. Nakaranas din ng ganyan sa isang youngstar pero di rin pinangalanan. Am an introvert myself but know how to say hello, good morning at least.

[@sayonalangako7993]

@@trinity9053 Kay Ms. D SI Alex Gonzaga..

[@jedalbano4626]

@@sayonalangako7993 wala pong sinabing name doon sa video na si Alex G nga

[@sayonalangako7993]

@@jedalbano4626 panoorin mo Yong ibang video ni Ms. D sinabi don na Ang daming nakahula.. at Tama mga hula nila...

[@sayonalangako7993]

@@jedalbano4626 nagsama PO sila SA ch.5 before. I think PS. I love you ang title.. watch all the interview of Ms. D, then you'll know what I'm saying...

[@RRTVEntertainmentPH]

Julia Montes Is So Humble, Kind And Beautiful. I Hope There Were More Projects To Work With Mama Mina.

[@goodsamaritanherbzcabzstel8538]

𝚃𝚊𝚖𝚊 𝚔𝚊. 𝙼𝚊𝚋𝚊𝚒𝚝 𝚗𝚊𝚖𝚊𝚗 𝚜𝚒 𝙹𝚞𝚕𝚒𝚊 𝙼𝚘𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚜.

[@marjackbergado6235]

@@goodsamaritanherbzcabzstel8538 no wonder na bihag nya ang puso ni coco at my anak n sila

[@adventuresofafirst-timemum9772]

“Open minded people do not impose their beliefs on others. They just accept all of life’s perspectives and realities, Doing their thing in peace without judgement.”

[@tofelipwithlove1150]

I agree! Hindi lang nabati disrespectful na. Malay ba nya kung insecure pala yung bata, tapos mas lalong nag low ang self-esteem kasi yan yung kinukwento nya sa media. Kahit di nya pangalanan, syempre alam pa rin nung bata na sya yung tinutumpak. Saka baka masama yung pakiramdam. Ang daming possibilities, dapat ang nakakatanda, understanding. Bakit hindi sya ang bumati? Bakit kailangan yung bata talaga yung kailangan bumati first? That's crazy.

[@jahd5790]

Does that mean being not open minded is a bad thing?

[@flordianne]

Agree 100%!!!

[@ninasteffifrias7701]

Lovin' this quote

[@MrJilson1234]

@@tofelipwithlove1150 yeahhh same. Kasi wala ata bumati sa kanila. Unless binati ng isa tapos dineadma lng nung isa. Hehe un siguro ang disrespectful.

[@arielusman8860]

if you feel someone is shaky or being intimidated for your presence, pls comfort them , be sensitive instead of judging them for a false.

[@reii5849]

Im happy how open minded people are in the comment section. Most of the time people will call people like them mataray so im surprised.

[@heartfulchannel4602]

G na G na naman ang Shutdown Kingdom At Kupalmilya Kubo nito 👇

[@ebiasfakenewsmaker5564]

Prima Donnas pang Primetime ang AGB People ratings 14%, people ratings when converted to household ratings is more or less 30.94%. AGB uses People ratings Kantar uses Household ratings 💜💙 👇

[@ktine3681]

I think she’s not imposing her standards, what she meant is a basic social etiquette. I understand what she meant hindi lang sya marunong mag express parang negative pakinggan. Meron naman talaga dapat social standards regardless of each and everyone’s differences lol. Also the fact na magkasama sila ng trabaho meaning kelangan natin talaga maki bagay. 😂

[@weirdk_9256]

But she should be thankful that the actress she's talking about is shy cus if that were other actress they would act like they are more powerful than her. What im telling u is that u should at least introduce ur self to her first so she can know that u are really open to her and it will make her more comfortable especially if she is still a child

[@lapizlapoppy]

To deem someone as walang galang for not greeting you is so over the top

[@simplenglutongbahay8538]

@@lapizlapoppy Agree!

[@yourwednesdayaddams]

THIS THO.

[@adventuresofafirst-timemum9772]

She could’ve greeted her but she didn’t. Just because you’re more senior and all, you can’t initiate the greeting. I feel like she’s a bit self absorbed here more than the younger actress.. just saying

[@youubett]

I felt bad for that person. Being judged already for not meeting up with someone's expectation.

[@sheilahunter6232]

True.

[@playtimewithsimone892]

True..pinoy toxicity kasi

[@ktine3681]

It’s not about meeting someone’s expectations I think. Manners are basic etiquette I think we all have social responsibility towards others too. It’s okay to be true to yourself pero may social standards parin tayo dapat. Limits and boundaries. 😊🍒

[@youubett]

@@ktine3681 I totally understand your point. But It's just sad to hear when Ms Carmina mentioned about her wishing to not work with that girl in the future and it's like showing that she already closed her doors to give that girl a chance to really understand her more.

[@brixferaris9367]

@@youubett yung pag treat ng girl sa mother di nagawa sa ibang tao pa ibigsabihin

[@amikdvo]

I'm an introvert and I'm particularly meek towards people whom I look up to, I think are superior than me or generally intimidating. I usually don't approach people din first kahit kamag-anak. May iba't-ibang personality ang mga tao so dapat intindihin natin ang bawat isa and be more open minded.

[@ivymighty8429]

Not acknowledging someone is not a sign of disrespect. There are people who are too shy to approach someone whose much experience..

[@mileyreese6071]

Maybe Mina you should have broke the ice first, made the first move. It could work the other way around too you know. For someone who is young, new, and or shy you could have said hi first or said anything then from there you can judge her if she will or not approach you next time. Was it only with you or with everyone else in the event/set? Maybe you were just singling out yourself too much or you felt that senior complex. Just an advice too.

[@gracegonzales7359]

Ms Carmina.. I am a very shy person which always misinterprets by others by being snob.. Di porket hindi ng Hi o Quiet lng doesn't mean snob or disrespectful..minsan lng tlga nhihiya kang lumapit especially kung 1st time mong nkita o nkasama..pro once nmn nkipagusap na at inaaproach ako automatic napakafriendly kong tao.. nkakatakot kase mag1st move lalo na kung much older and more superior than you.

[@maxtone6880]

@@gracegonzales7359 correct 👍

[@sharonasuar9113]

Ysn din naisip ko e baka nahihiya yung bata na sya ay batiin maybe pwedeng ganun .wat u think idol

[@teshamusic6048]

When I'm in highschool I was once labelled as snob. When the truth is I have social anxiety. I usually don't know how to greet people especially if the person I faced overpowers my confidence. I end up being quiet. But then, when I graduated to college and got a job, I learned that I should change my self. Because the more you're quite, the more people define you. And the less opportunity 🙂 Thanks to God. The once quiet person is now a Supervisor 😅. I thank God for His grace. For giving me courage and confidence. I guess everyone deserves chance. That person that Miss Carmina pointing I think he/she needs time to collect his/herself and improve.

[@peachpanda88]

To be fair this isn't just on the Philippines but even on other countries who are big on respect like Korea, China, Japan etc. they ALWAYS train and teach their idols & actors to greet their seniors backstage & formally introduced themselves. I remember SM idols saying SM trained them even how to stand, greet and bow properly and to go knock on senior's dressing room to greet & introduce themselves & gave album if they had one out. Kim Taeyeon of SNSD is an introvert and she did all this. She still greet both her seniors & juniors because that is what is right. I am an introvert myself & feel so anxious in a crowd & yet I suck it up and bow & smile to greet elderly in social events because that is the respectful thing to so. I do not go to them ofcourse but if I met their eyes or if they are near me I just casually bow & say 'hello po' then kept quiet after. Simple but still showed acknoledgement & respect. People using being 'introvert' as an excuse to being rude is a slap to real introverts like me. Just because we are introverts doesn't mean we can be rude.

[@coldclearblue6350]

Tumpak, Yan ang hindi nila ma getsssss sa comment section. Yan nga yung point ni carmina, she didnt mean na dapat maging overly friendly ka, the principle is show RESPECT to your superiors. Kastress yung comment section, masyadong sensitive

[@coldclearblue6350]

Uuuup nga ang comment na ito

[@Purpleocean84]

This is the best comment.thats thecexact point of miss carmina Mga tao sa comments puro sila introvert issue e ang case dito artista ang usapan hindi gaya ntin nna normal pips ofc pag artista ka dapat alam mo amg basic manners and trained ka na maki socialize lalo pag magkakakilala namn kayo sa isang lugar o meeting.nag artista ka pa kung introvert ka at dimo tinuruan self mo maging mas brave makipag socialize lol! Ang point ni carmina is khit simpleng hi o kaway at ngiti sapat na ,kung ako yan mag bow pa ako if senior ko at alam kong mas bata ako sa industriya as a sign of full respect.kaya i really appreciate din ang korean entertainment system ,they train their artists well .not just talents but personalities ,attitude and behaviours lalo na paggalang sa mga seniors nila which is really very nice to see kpg nkikita ko mga video clips sa yt made by fans

[@lbd.diaries]

Sa totoo bilang isang introvert na meron pang social anxiety, hindi ako masyadong ma-view bilang "may respeto". Iba kasi sa mga taong pareho sa kin, yes I try to be polite pero hindi at all times masunod ko yung ways to show respect po. Lalo sa di ko kilala. Hindi lang shy but insecure din. So pls, pls, kung pwede understanding na lang tayo sa mga tao. Hindi tayo masyado mag-place ng expectations sa lahat na ma-meet natin. Alam ko dahil Asian tayo,malaking emphasis sa respect, lalo sa mga older sa atin. Pero sometimes consider naman tayo sa iba. Yun lang ☺️

[@jhazebulacan5699]

LOUDER

[@officiallyanned.7942]

In general, there are introvert people. These type of people are shy. First impression don't last. We tend to judge people at first, and we should correct this type of attitude of ours. Di natin mapipilit ang mga tao na pansinin tayo agad purket sikat tayo.

[@honeybadger8413]

in general kahit introvert ka pa say hi or hello sa co workers mo o superiors mo or wag ka ng magtrabaho ng may kasama ka mag apply kang bantay ng lighthouse tower kung ayaw mong magbigay ng courtesy sa katrabaho mo lalo na sa superiors mo o simply change ur attitude para dika sipain sa pinagtatrabahuhan mo.

[@johnromielpantinos9423]

Please do not generalize introverts. Introvert ≠ you are shy

[@fullsun5537]

She's referring to a young ACTRESS. Actress acts in front of people. She should learn in the first place to somehow greet or wave or smile much more her colleague. I'm an introvert pero I acknowledge someone even with a smile if i can't approach her/him directly. Especially senior. That's basic manner.

[@jobrentomas4386]

Depend sa actions yan or sa facial expression niya. Makikkta nmn yan at na observed. cgro gnun na observed ni ate mina.

[@raymeer5641]

I am an introvert myself. But a simple smile wont hurt to greet and acknowledge people we meet along the way esp. special in events. What more kung nakatabi mo.

[@joveleenhazell.salavia5404]

Super bait at humble nyan ni ms carmina. We uaed to know her before as customer sa shangrila/rustans.. Pala ngiti, pala “hi” at di sya snob..di din maarte..napaka simple at natural. Love you po idol carmina. Beautiful inside and out 😊

[@ambidextrouswanderlust7923]

Loads of comments are about how introverts and socially awkward type of people find it hard to approach or greet others first. Well, I'm an introvert and I honestly never greet someone first (regardless of our age and status) unless I'm really comfortable around them and it's not even because of poor attitude or mood swings. Yeap, we feel shy and anxious 'cause we don't know how to make the first move or we're worried we can't maintain a decent conversation or (worst) we'll just get snubbed/ignored. Often times, we're just too comfortable being that way - enjoying our own silence. I don't think Carmina wanted any harm or meant to be rude when she shared her side of the story but it isn't right to compare herself to that person and even judge her entire personality 'cause not everyone is expressive, sociable, and outgoing. Though, she mentioned that she's probably being too sensitive even though that person was just literally beside her. Should it be me in that person's shoes, I would at least nod or smile to acknowledge her presence. I can't hold eye contacts for even 5 seconds but I'd know when she's looking at my direction unless I'm really not aware that she's there. Maybe that was the case, but yeap, let's be rational about this and stop hating on her and the other person. Lastly, being introvert and socially inept doesn't mean you can't work in this kind of business/industry. We can, anyone can, but we have to be professional. A simple hi/hello/wave/smile can do the trick, you don't have to hug or kiss or start a conversation. Being an introvert is acceptable, but let's refrain ourselves from using this as an excuse in this kind of situation. It's a reasonable excuse but don't act like it's a privilege.

[@thatfangirl1389]

👏👏👏

[@uncoolartist358]

I just want to acknowledge the fact that your username says a lot about your comment, I'm impressed by your rationality, thank you for letting us see both sides clearly!

[@katrinavivianne]

So true. Sa sobrang socially awkward ko, kahit classmates ko na lagi kong ka-chat, iniiwasan ko sa labas just to avoid face-to-face conversations kasi it's sooo awkward talaga sa pakiramdam. At mas gusto ko ng online class kasi hindi ko feel obliged na makipag usap sa iba. 😅 Palagi pa ako nabubulol kahit tagalog na nga pag uusap namin. Jusko!

[@aurorakaterina4782]

I agree tho, maybe need pa nya ipractice yung paki socialize, but sana hindi nila huhusgahan na rude yun or disrespectful. Malay nila diba kung gusto nya talaga pero hindi nya nagawa.

[@lalafromcebu5267]

If you guys are trying to defend the said actress that Miss Carmina talked about, sana huwag 'ring i-bash si Miss Carmina kasi kesyo baka shy and introvert lang 'yung actress. Don't lift up people to bring others down naman. Bakit kapag comments talaga may ganyan? Kita naman namin point niyo na baka na-misunderstood lang ang shyness or whatever ng said actress e kaya kalma. Carmina Villaroel is a prime actress, a senior actress and maybe she's just not used to today's society yet kaya nasabi niyang rude 'yung ganon. She's not being donya or superior or anything. Ang haba ng kinomment ko sana na-gets niyo. Please.

[@bdriz818]

Why does anyone need to acknowledge your presence? It is probably rude if you said ''Hi" to someone and that someone didn't say the same to you, but having the mind set that people should acknowledge your presence is just mind blowing.

[@yoeleumpmp2852]

Truth, maybe she just was occupied but that doesn't explain her whole personality. If u call not bowing infront of just cause u were older as ma attitude, then u are so full of yourself. That's such saying more about u. That's not being disrespectful that's u thinking ur entitled to be acknowledged every damn time.

[@fredtacang3624]

Ironically, gen x si mina. '90s palang may equality na and breaking down of barriers (literal sa berlin wall lol). Meaning wala sa edad, gender, social status etc. Nakalimutan ata ni mina yun ;)

[@ecjanepalera54]

Sino ba siya para pansinin? Hahahahaywa

[@ezrafaith3953]

Tumpak isampal mo nga tong comment mo sa knya.....

[@oh_emm278]

@@fredtacang3624 nah , artista cla ,they are next to each other in a social setting and somewhat work setting kasi nga artista cla .. it's common courtesy to say hi/hello ,smile or just nod to someone older than you when they are in one community .. I'm not saying that it should always be the younger generation to greet first but it's called manners ..paying respect to elders

[@graceapuyan6450]

Kung hindi ka binati, Ikaw ang mauna na mag initiate, you cannot please everyone, Hindi pare-parehas Ang mga kaisipan natin, wala nmang masama na sa atin magmula ang mga moves na gusto natin. Humility in every ways is so important.

[@shirshir588]

Baka din kase nahihiya si young actress na mag first move

[@hermionesuson714]

I have social anxiety and introvert, I easily get nervous and anxious about what's around me. Even in family gatherings, I can't start up a conversation. Hindi kami snob or what, minsan hindi namin alam ano at paano namin iaaproach ang ibang tao.

[@jeanezygabato4678]

I feel u

[@ebiasfakenewsmaker5564]

Prima Donnas pang Primetime ang AGB People ratings 14%, people ratings when converted to household ratings is more or less 30.94%. AGB uses People ratings Kantar uses Household ratings 💜💙 👇

[@manielrayos9620]

Same

[@jhengnazal]

Ang tinutukoy nincae.ina artista Walang artista introvert . Supllada madame

[@momohiraiii6143]

I feel u po

[@milkyknots2860]

Carmina need to learn a lot about every individual’s personality, so she would understand...I see myself to the person she was referring to. I’m introvert myself and very shy to the people I always think superior to me but I will assure you I am the kindest and affectionate person you will ever meet.

[@honeybadger8413]

hayaan mo na at di sanay yan may sarili kasi syang personality...ayan ganyan sya...talagang may ganyang tao kailangan igreet mo at feeling nya obligasyon mo yun sa kanya as courtesy daw para sa kanya.

[@melissuccies]

This is true😒 There are lot of people who they've thought I've disrespected them but the truth is I'm kinda afraid and shy to greet them first. I'm an introvert and I find it difficult to initiate conversation to other people even though I know them just by face.

[@vincedelicano4328]

😆

[@vincedelicano4328]

@@honeybadger8413 dc

[@pumpkindiamond994]

Really you are the kindest? Hmm are you game?

[@shweshwe1170]

Parang ako at mga classmates ko. Medyo Loner ako at takot sa Rejection, parang 8 lang yata ang kaibigan ko sa class. Never ako magregreet o makikipagusap sa iba kong classmates, pero kung sila mag initiate o makipagusap or greet, mag rereply ako.

[@divinaventura254]

Pero iba na kc pag dating sa trabho,kailangan ka makisama lalo na pag new comer ka,kailangan ikaw ang unang babati sa veterans and seniors mo,lalo na kung importante sau ang trabho mo,at sila rin ang magtuturo sau para mahasa ka work mo.

[@deld186]

Relate much

[@adeptusxiao02]

SAMEEEEEEEE

[@verdoze1261]

Same

[@cyrenejoyminivideos]

Mee too

[@kristagretczenteodoro2828]

Siguro talaga sa mga bagong artista dapat lang talaga na mag come out sila sa comfort zone nila. In every industry dapat marunong tumingin ng seniority ang mga bago. That's sense of respect.

[@jvalentino6466]

Finally. Eto hinahanap ko sa comment section. Kahit gaano ka ka shy or introvert. Wala e. Showbiz yan. PILITIN MO kahit mag hello po ka

[@aurorakaterina4782]

@@jvalentino6466 are you an introvert?

[@asdfgqwerty6657]

sana ung mga seniors sa industry, cla nlng pumansin. mahirap kc pg intorvert or mahiyain. di nla intensyon na diniacknowledge ang mga sikat 🤣 tsaka mga bago sa industry, xempre di nla kilala lhat mga artista.

[@Luckyone3]

Julia Montes down to earth talaga yan kita sa aura nya na mabait syang bata 🙏😘

[@keidensuppassit4950]

HAHA aura pala basehan ngayon

[@verdoze1261]

@@keidensuppassit4950 judgemental kasi yan

[@demetriodelacruz7156]

ganda tlaga ni mam carmina sana xila rustom na ng katuluyan kc mg kahawig cila pero oky na dn kc mabait nman c zuren

[@tanyajasper2547]

Tama naman si Ms Carmina. If you're in a workplace you should learn the art of respect whether boss yung nakasalubong mo or security guard, you acknowledge him or her. A simple nod or glance ok na yun kung nahihiya mag greet. Yung iba kasi parang hangin ka lang na dinaanan.

[@sarahmaytraya7157]

MAY ATTITUDE TALAGA ANG YOUNG ARTISTA NA SINASABI NI MS. MINA DAHIL WALA NAMAN SIGURONG ARTISTA NA MAHIYAIN LALO NA'T ALAM NILA NA ARTISTA DIN KASAMA NILA. SMALL GESTURES REALLY COUNT. ♥️♥️

[@coriediaz1010]

Sino sya?😁

[@Jaenerys]

I somehow get what miss Carmina is talking about kasi ako din ayoko ng ganung tao but I have a daughter who is an introvert and suffers from anxiety. She don't talk to anyone at all not even with our relatives when we have family gatherings. Kailangan pa namin sya sabihan ng husband ko na mag kiss sa mga titos and titas or lolos and lolas. I know she don't intend to be disrespectful pero takot talaga sya sa tao. Minsan syempre ako din ang nahihiya kasi yan ang kinakatakot ko, yung isipin ng mga tao na bastos ang anak ko. But she's a really kind and sweet girl. Kahit dito sa bahay she would just open up or warm up to someone if you start talking about animals or anything she loves. Although yun nga the fact pumasok ka sa showbiz dapat you know how to interact with people pero madami din kasing artista na hindi naman talaga nila gusto maging artista, tipong pinilit lang ng mga magulang nila.

[@thereselenar7336]

I'm like your daughter that's why I get sad sometimes pag sinasabihan akong suplada or disrespectful, I know naman na mas mabuti at kailangan bumati. Gusto ko naman bumati pero like I just can't open my mouth or have the courage to approach them.

[@katrinavivianne]

Sa sobrang socially awkward ko, kahit classmates ko na lagi kong ka-chat, iniiwasan ko sa labas just to avoid face-to-face conversations kasi it's sooo awkward talaga sa pakiramdam. At mas gusto ko ng online class kasi hindi ko feel obliged na makipag usap sa iba. 😅 Palagi pa ako nabubulol kahit tagalog na nga pag uusap namin, minsan napagbabaligtad ko pa mga sinasabi ko. Jusko!

[@user-et7fu3jg9l]

Same 🙌

[@shynatorres2265]

girl same, same. 😭😭😭

[@chelseashane2788]

Oh my ghaddd Same.. esp pag medyo tagal niyo nagkita.. so awkward man 😂

[@Virusapollo]

Same. Iba yung kaba ko 😅

[@firstnamelastname-cc2tl]

This is sad because I'm like that too. I dont greet or socialize with other people my senior or mas mataas ng posisyon sa kin (sa work) kasi na o-awkward ako tsaka may fear ako na baka isipin sipsip ako or nagpi feeling close. But I would never want to disrespect them. Nakakasad lang na maraming taong nakaka misinterpret nito na snob ako which is napakalayo sa katotohanan 😔

[@hmicagela23]

That's why I love Julia Montes since the very start, kontrabida man siya sa mga teleserye, pero offcam vids nya marami nagsasabi na mabait at magalang na bata si Julia. Mara clara pa lang love ko na siya at si kath! 💖🥰

[@lynkm]

She assume so much but didn’t even assume that person might have social anxiety/introvert and have different perspective to RESPECT. To Mrs. Carmina, don’t expect someone to act like what you are doing, and not everyone are entitled to Acknowledge ur presence🤯. lower down your pride or expectations lol.

[@shibakude01]

If only she could read the comments here. I wish, kinda true too complacent of being a star, parang she wants everyone to recognize her presence 🙄

[@cheguevara6557]

@@shibakude01 haha, that's right

[@johnwujiytc6258]

So true... Too early to judge... Not because someone didn't recognize ur presence meaning shes disrespectful... I will salute Carmila kung sya na mismo nkipagusap sa young actress na yun... Pero hnd din nya pinansin,meaning... Mas malala pa sya sa ktabi nya..

[@shamsham3538]

Hmmmmm huwag ako!! Your just showing to us that your a perfectionist!! I saw you before at glorieta you,Claudine and Judy Santa Maria.yung sa Lactum and too many people wants mgpa pic with you but ang Aarti nyu ni Claudine,u both same didn't let anyone mgpa pic. But I appreciate Judy sta maria that time kc nkipag halibilo xa sa lahat and ang baet niya di maarte.

[@maririn_iii]

@@shamsham3538 sorry, sorry inisip ko talaga kung sino Judy Sta. Maria, Jody pala sorry HAHAHAHA 🤣

[@TheSuperk25]

It's more of a social grace than being respectful. Pa plastic ng mga tao sa showbiz. Kung binati mo na, inisnab ja pa rin, yun siguro bastos. Bk nmn na intimidate o nahihiya din or wala sa mood. Kung di k sincere, better not do it.

[@jonalynbaldoza5508]

True

[@starshdelapaz7221]

Hindi rin magifeel mo naman qng nahihiya pr hnd malay natin qng mataas hangin, hello hnd naman magsasalita si mina ng ganyan sa tagal nya sa showbiz

[@EmerParahas]

Totoo din to. Hehe. Ako kase ganun din na tao, i don't say hi, hello sa lahat. Lalo na at hindi ko kilala o baka kase hindi naman nila ako kilala. 😅

[@pawmoses5596]

Kabastusan na kun katabi mo hindi mo magawang mag hi ano un umupo ka na hindi mo man lang nhinitian ung magiging katabi mo

[@gigidaily9257]

@́ But that's exactly what people with social anxiety feel. Takot cla ma judge and ma pa hiya so they rather withdraw themselves from conversations. Seems like you dont understand how a person with social anxiety feels and jinujudge mo na right away.

[@MickeyMouse-wz9tr]

I am an introvert. Mahirap talaga, lalo na kapag iniisip mo na pano kong isnabin lng ako pag ako una bumati. Take note,ayaw ng mga introvert ang napapahiya

[@rosaliegueco3424]

True

[@rosaliegueco3424]

Introvert din po ako.

[@alisongracemernilo146]

Kahit po ako ghaaasssh

[@hidalgochannel9496]

Insurgent ako

[@jovkai1561]

Same po hirap talaga lalo na kapag introvert namimis interpret ka ng ibang tao :(

[@juanapanilagan4102]

I am an introvert person. I cannot deny that many judged me already. But I know deep inside what is in my heart. Many times, it's so hard for me to voice out things. But the good intention is there. Only people whom I am closed with know me literally.

[@itswenderful]

Idk but I'm an introvert myself and being around with type of people who misjudged us in the first look makes me not want to interact with them more. Don't judge the book by it's cover ika nga, and I don't like people jumping into conclusion that we're maarte, snob, or disrespectful. We just really don't interact in a simple conversation. There must be something we need to say or a purpose to that someone for us to interact with him/her. Edit: Because most people misjudged us, it's difficult to be an introvert and and I'm trying my best to fit with others, but this is our real personality and we can never replicate or change it

[@bucklag]

So true. Only introverts can understand.

[@ncknelson]

Well said

[@lemonzonerist8946]

Ate wallflower kung sino ka man, sigurado naman ako sa mukha mo na di ka artista, pangalawa bihirang bihira ang artista na introvert. Wag mo na i justify nang karanasan mo di naman ikaw pinag uusapan dito hahahahahahha

[@BuckeyeFilipina]

If your and Actress and your introvert, you are in a wrong place of making a living!

[@itswenderful]

@@BuckeyeFilipina Fact, wrong place talaga Pero may mga introvert artists rin na who can easily cope up with the environment like emma watson and Audrey hepburn, but it depends to the person nga lang. Regardless, showbiz is not the right place talaga.

[@marydivinebusaco6492]

Im an intovert as well and have social anxiety at times. My shyness will rise than my sociable attitude but i’ll greet people naman like say hi/hello goodmorning/goodevening like its a sign of a respect also like what carmina said acknowledge the presence of the person. Saying that things will really make difference din talaga. Kahit ako maooffend talaga if nakatabi na pero hi ni hoy wala talaga like “ano ako dito invisible?” Natutu din naman ako na “k fine wapakels” 😂

[@ashlynsy]

Totoo. It's not about being intro or extro or whatnot. It's about work etiquette, kailangan talaga batiin yung mga tao n ahead na sa field kung saan ka nagtatrabaho. Try ko lng gawin yan s office for sure my ala ms.carmin din akong chismis from them 😆

[@fredtacang3624]

Did mina acknowledge the other person's presence? Di ren naman ata. 'Respect' works both ways, di yung mas bata lagi mag-initiate. Baka nag-antayan lang. If so, walang sisihan. Wala gumalaw eh lol

[@NechelleP]

@@fredtacang3624 super agree!

[@mummyandtiffanyadventures7166]

Maybe super shy lang? Kasi sometimes people can be misunderstood or mis-interpret pero the truth nahihiya lang or super starstruck in a way nagfreeze kapag in the presence of a big star? Or there are people na hindi pala-bati but when you talk to them they are actually nice people..

[@vanzamorganda376]

"Acknowledge my presence" ang hangin..Minsan kasi miss carmina di lahat gaya mo..at may tao sadyang introvert...di ibig sabihin di ka nabati, disrespectful na

[@irish729]

Hangin nga ng dating. D lht pre prehas mina no. Tsura mo. Gusto p nmn kta nun. Tnbangan aq bgla haha

[@felymallari2569]

Yes we know that Julia is so nice kind humble person thats why i like her so much and she loved by so many❤

[@lysapatron6928]

Ang linaw naman po mg sinabi ni carmina na si julia montes yung bumati sa kanya at nagpost pa cya sa instagram na pinuri nya si julia at pagkatapos ay nakatrabaho nya si julia sa doble kara at sinabi nya na mabatsi juia.

[@centinovincentd.2182]

@blue lanres 6:00 she mentioned Julia Montes...

[@ink7938]

I see a lot of comments saying that the younger actress might be an introvert pero alam naman siguro niya kung anong industriya ang papasukin niya before siya mag-artista, 'di ba? The showbiz industry includes A LOT of greetings - especially if mas nakakatanda sayo or beterang actors yung makakasalubong mo.

[@cristinasumadchat605]

Iba-iba naman kasi ang tao. Kahit mga ordinaryong tao, madalas mas minamabuti na tumahimik na lang sa halip na makipag-usap sa iba. Marahil naghihintay na yung isa ang maunang mag approach. May mga instances din kasi na napapahiya ang tao kapag sila ang naunang makipag-usap.

[@chimon3237]

alam niyo naman sigurong may mga manager yang mga bagets na artista na tinuturuan sila kung paano makasilamuha iba esp sa working place or events, tanggapin niyo na lang na may iba talagang may mga attitude

[@cristinasumadchat605]

@@chimon3237 sa experience ko naman, yung mismong boss ko sa work ang nag advise sa akin dati na wag makikipag-usap sa mga tauhan ng clients kaya kahit gustuhin ko man, nag focus lang ako sa work.

[@maryaicelprak2708]

Minsan some people are so entitled. Holding grudge much? I don’t think not saying hello is disrespectful. Kung iniripan ka or ini-snob ka while you’re looking and smiling at her then maybe. I don’t think that was the case. Pa importante ka lang.😉 Baka naman natakot sayo kaya di nakapag Hi..😏

[@ravenmccraig7645]

Introvert ako pero I greet my superiors. Kahit hi po or hello po. Kahit little bow and smile lang (nung di pa nakamask). Siguro mga studyante pa kayong nagrereply kaya di nyo pa naiintindihan. It's out of respect. Saka gano kaawkward yung katabi mo na, di mo pa rin babatiin? Nung nagbasa ako ng comments, tingin ko lahat naman may point. May iba't ibang klase lang talaga ng introverts. Baka yung artistang yun ay on the extremes. Kasi ako, mas maoawkward ako pag di ako babati. Kasi iisipin ko yun ng matagal. Kung ano kaya ang tingin nung taong yun sakin, baka kung ano ano nang sinasabi tungkol sakin, etc. Magooverthink lang ako so better yet, babati nalang ako. Saka nalang nila malalaman na introvert ako pag they try to engage me na in a convo. Kasi di ko talaga kaya yung pag awkward ako sa isang tao. Kahit gano kadalas nila itry na kausapin ako, ngingitian ko lang or short responses lang. Most people naman eh magegets na na your not comfortable pag nasa conversation na kayo. Pero pag dating sa greetings, 90% siguro ng tao, iisiping suplada/o ka kung ni ha, ni ho, wala. To my fellow introverts of any type, please don't ask for understanding if tayo nga eh hindi natin naiintindihan yung feelings ng ibang tao. Kung yung mga kind extrovert friends nga natin eh umeeffort to be our companion kahit gaano pa kaawkward, diba? Compromise. Yun lang po.

[@ninezkylalee9368]

karamihan po kasi sa younger people ngayon, nahihiya na sila ang unang babati. lalo na uso ngayon ang phrase na, "ay feeling close". Nakakahiya din po kasi na bumati tapos di ka papansinin. Ganun.

[@didiask3359]

Satrue.

[@davidwilliams6059]

Hndi po un excuse. Ano a nmn ang simpleng hi, good morning, or just simply smile lalo na s mga taong mas older or senior sayo. Magging feeling close ka lang kung masyado kang magging OA na makipagkwentohan ka n ng 30 minutes, etc. Alam mo nmn n kung masyado ka ng feeling close or OA diba? Huwag nyo gagawin ung excuse kasi hndi maganda yan. Ginagwa kasi excuse yan ng mga maldita e para ijustify katarayan or kamalditahan or kawalan nila ng paggalang s iba.

[@ninezkylalee9368]

@@davidwilliams6059 Di naman po laging excuse yun sir, danas na danas ko po yan lalo na pinalaki ako ng mga magulang ko na magalang at marespeto sa matatanda. Kahit sino pong tao na d ko kilala at nakakatanda sakin binabati ko, pero mas maraming beses po akong na-snob at binigyan ng "who you" look ng mga tao. Kahit ganun, pinagpapatuloy ko pa rin yung ganung ugali, pero ramdam ko yung disgusto nila lalo na sa mga tingin at kilos palang. May mga mabait na ngingiti rin, meron ding may attitude problem, at hindi na po natin yun problema. Kung ganun man ang pag uugali ng isang tao, sana di na po isinasapubliko pa. Parang chismis kasi sa kanto ang dating.

[@davidwilliams6059]

@@ninezkylalee9368 Again hndi excuse ang hndi pagbati kasi paggalang iyon lalo n s mas senior na iginagalang n tao. Kapaghndi ka gumalang s kanila parang ipinapakita mo na "wala akong pakialam s cuture nyo dito basta ako kung hndi ko feel bmati hndi ko kayo babatiin kahit sino pa kayo, period!!! Ang pangit nga dating diba??? Ika nga actions speak louder than words. Mas maganda nga na isinasapubliko mga ganitong issue para mapagusapan at para malaman mg mga kabataan ngayon na it's not okay! Nawawala n mga magagandang asal or manners s mga kabataan ngayon. Dapat tlga malaman nila na we condemn this kind of attitude and thus they should do something about it. As I've always said, it's always good to be humble and nice to others. The world is already very toxic and everyone has gone through so much. Let us make this world a little bit better by just simply being humble, nice and kind to others.

[@ninezkylalee9368]

@@davidwilliams6059 Di naman po natin mafoforce yung isang tao sir. Alam naman natin lahat na importante ang paggalang sa nakakatanda kasi yan ang kinagisnan natin. It's just that, kahit ano pang gawin, we are different people, we dont share the same attitude, personality, behavior, at kung ano pang bumubuo sa pagkatao ng isang indibidwal. Kahit nga po kaming mga future teachers, nahihirapan magdisiplina, na kahit anong effort ang gawin mo at the end of the day, nasa tao pa rin kung susunod sya o hindi.

[@titanet5820]

Kahit sa anumang klase ng work, it is always true na give respect, especially dealing with "SENIORITY", regardless of "mahiyain" ka man or whatsoever (unless kung "TOXIC" ang isang individual, no need na batiin, iwasan na lang na makasama or makatrabaho, para iwas STRESS). Agree and that's true, Carmina!

[@verdoze1261]

Pero minsan talaga kahit anong pilit mo na gusto mo makipag usap o bumati hindi mo talaga kaya kasi nga sobrang nahihiya ka maiintindihan moto kung mahiyain ka tulad ko

[@vincesolomon1642]

Oo nga kagaya nang sa Korea. Bumabati talaga yung mga junior o mga baguhan sa mga senior nila with bow mapa work man o sa school

[@stephaniejordanalbum1478]

@@verdoze1261 true. madaling sabihin pag d ka mahiyainn. pero pag oo, relate muchh

[@whengsissy5814]

@@verdoze1261 d nmn pwd mhiyain ka nun s lagay na artista k khit d k nmn cgro artsta bbati k pa din dpt at lalo n kung ktrabho mo...pwera nlng tlg kung ma pride kang tao ni smile d mo mgawa etc.

[@gigidaily9257]

Actually in local start ups and western offices "Seniority" is considered toxic and is already being removed from company culture.

[@jay-ardelacruz8560]

Im an introvert and kung di man kita batiin that doesn't mean I'm disrespectful. I acknowledge the person's presence pero diko obligation na bumati ng bumati. Di alam ng marami na tayong mga introvert ang isa sa mga pinakatotoong tao unlike mga taong bati nga nga bati sayo, pero sila unang namamlastik sayo.

[@teachernamathinik7448]

True

[@Ely-vh6bh]

Ang entitled naman po ng datingan Ms. Carmina. There are people who don't have much confidence. From your story, you could have greeted the young star para mas nakilala mo. Kaya lang naghihintay ka rin na batiin ka. Wag ganun, mars. Di naman disrespectful yung di ka napansin. What if kinakabahan pala? Lowkey judgmental ka sa part na yan.

[@princessdy5845]

masyadong papansin

[@dinggot]

I agree. Miss. Carmina needs to learn that everyone is unique.

[@sheeraa5457]

Agree... Basic manners is two way street. She could have played the bigger person and initiate the introduction instead of waiting for the young girl. Total turn off. She immediately judged the young girls character just because she didn’t acknowledge her. Why didn’t she acknowledge the presence of the young girl instead?

[@dinggot]

@@sheeraa5457 as in!

[@jonathancheng8085]

oo bt di kaya ikaw una bumati malay mo nahihiga kasi sikat ka na

[@nysslaguna8241]

"First impression last" Nakuha ko yong thought ni Carmina, hindi ako palabati or what pero kung magkatabi na o kaya magkalapit syempre ngingiti ka (aandar yong sentido common mo) ngayong pandemic d naman makikta kung nag smile ka simpleng tango lang, sign of respect d namn mahirap yon kahit wala nang words na lalabas pa jan sa bibig mo. 🙄

[@epongchronicles]

Im up for this comment. Wala naman sinabe si Carmina against introversion. Ang pinag uusapan dito ethics sa co workers mo or senior artists. Ano ba naman un simpleng Hi or Hello kahit di mo na sya kausapin buong magdamag. 🤦🏻‍♂️ generations nowadays. tapos gusto pa nila ijustify yan na tama lang na di pumansin. juskonaman

[@charmdp3751]

kung ako...di ako namamansin ng ibang tao hanggang pansinin nila ako ang awkward eh baka ako pa mapahiya...it depends on the person

[@stanbalo]

In public definitely hindi normal pumansin ng strangers pero workmates ito. Off kung di mo man lang ngitian

[@crislanvilla28]

@@stanbalo sabi ni carmina ndi pa niya namemeet before at nagkasama lang sila s isang event, i think mahihiya cguru ung actress n un bumati.. pero ug feeling ni carmina na kilala naman siyang artista o senior na siya s showbiz tas ung baguhan ni ndi man bumati sknya pakiramdam niya deadma n siya walang respect senior.. kung s ordinary employees baga, yung regular employee ideadma ng baguhan employee nakakairita nga naman.. Pero malay natin na nahihiya din yung baguhan actress n yun bumati

[@lonelybirdinanewhouse]

I guess this is the difference between Carminas generation of actors and the current one. Most older generation were taught to show respect. Always introduce yourself to your colleagues no matter what. There are a lot of older generation who has this type of interviews that showing a little bit gesture like a simple hi or hello is appreciated. Its already considered as a sign of respect. Call it primadona but they were taught that way during their generation.

[@johnragica1723]

YES.

[@sjgerb1425]

Mga artista feeling entitled!

[@z10n]

at least sa kapwa nila artista

[@veryberry3891]

Im the kind of person that will not greet someone im not close to unless they greet me first. Its not because im disrespecting the person but because im shy and doesnt know how to approach that person. Sometimes i even hesitate so much that by the time i prepared myself to say hello the person already left.

[@gwapoo]

It seems you are not ready yet to go to the real world

[@MaridalZTvLOGS8558]

Correct....🤣

[@sorphie]

Same

[@mollymilky4880]

Ok lang po yon hindi k nman po artista, pero kng artista k po at mkktabi at mkktrabaho mo mga tao s paligid mo hndi po excuse un hehe

[@kieth26]

Hi. In Psychology, introversion is a personality trait characterized by a focus on internal feelings rather than on external sources of stimulation. Being an introvert does not mean that you are socially anxious or shy. Another fact, artista siya. May culture sa show business industry na maging professional sa kapwa artists by socializing. Petty but that’s how their world revolves. Pero kahit naman sa corporate world, kung hindi ka marunong bumati sa seniors at bosses, mai-issue ka na. Haha! Just my two cents.

[@missyalemani6085]

Ases! People who don't initiate conversation doesn't mean being disrespectful. Maybe she's just shy.

[@LC-fq4cv]

Agree. Kasi ako, as an introvert, kahit gustong gusto kong bumati at mamansin, di ko magawa dahil nauunahan ng hiya kaya akala nila suplada at snabera ako. :(

[@studyefficiently6389]

@@LC-fq4cv same . Introvert din ako. Nauuna yung mahihiya k mag approach o bumati

[@schneewittchen5253]

I'm also like this. Nahihiya ako laging unang bumati. Kasi natry ko na dati, nginitian ko ung kakilala ko tas tiningnan niya lang talaga ako. Nahiya talaga ako that time. Kaya nasasabihan akong suplada kasi hindi raw namamansin. Di ba pwedeng nahihiya lang

[@nurzyaly]

What if kung hindi shy

[@yanna6888]

So truueee!!! i agree with this... I have the same attitude but it doesn't mean na disrespectful na agad..grv nman un... Nde nman lahat ng tao pare-parehas sana c Ms. Carmina na lng unang bumati and dun nya malalaman kung disrespectful tlga c young actress bka shy lang tlga kaht cnu makita xa as a legend actress mashyshy tlga🥰🥰😘

[@harmoniousbachelorette9350]

Ako yung type ng tao na di bumabati sa mga katrabo kong mas higher ang position. Di dahil may pinagmamalaki ako or something but simply I'm too shy. Ni pag tingin nga lang sa mukha ng bosses ko hiyang hiya na ako , bumati pa kaya. So please stop saying na we're too rude because really gustohin man namin, sadyang hirap lang talaga.. And please understand na iba-iba tayo ng personality, siguro madali yun para sayo but sobrang effort na yun pagdating samin

[@chrixtiannnnnn466]

tbh as an introvert and has social anxiety it is hard for me to communicate with people. I can't even talk to them especially if they don't start some conversation first.

[@mollymilky4880]

Kung artista ka ho parang hindi sya excuse just sayin 😁

[@angelavillanueva5832]

Julia parin ako no

[@fernlabadia8832]

Artista kasi yun . dba isa sa mga personality ng isang artista ang pagging friendly.

[@alishad.4396]

@@angelavillanueva5832 obvious naman na may ugali nga si Julia. Parang snobera. But no doubt magaling siyang artista.. dun ko lang siya gusto (sa mga palabas) 🤣 pero kung offcam.. okie 😂 iba pa din si Liza Soberano down to earth with/without camera

[@rogeliapalo7287]

@@mollymilky4880 §2q1m

[@minyoung823]

If me anxiety ka make small talks, if you cant, a smile will do, a little nod here and there, that goes a long way na po, just try to smile at people, no need na big smile nman, a closed mouth smile, then you will see people will react positively, then next practice saying "hello po", yun lng, believe me, ganyan din ako especially when I was young, we are very insecure but getting into a workplace this will greatly help your working environment bec politeness still goes a long way.

[@divinaventura254]

So True!paunti unting natututunan yan,lalo na pag nagtatrabho kna.☺️

[@CaptainMarven27]

True and also think positively and stop being anxious about yourself, because people are not looking on your flaws ''they're thinking about themselves

[@elyngonzales2339]

Ginagawa q rin nmn yan mahilig mag mag smile ay mag hi pero sa paningin ng partner hindi parin enough at wala daw akong galang ang saklap pero yon tlga nararasan q😢

[@JJ-fk7br]

Sobrang problem ko yan hanggang ngayon. Pag may pinupuntahan akong bagong lugar talagang di ako namamansin, i mean yung nauunang pumansin. Example sa Gym, sa sobrang hiya ko kahit feeling ko nakatingin na sila hindi ko talaga sila matingnan kahit mag smile or hi man lang. Hahahahaha

[@elyngonzales2339]

Same 👍👍👍

[@yoshitreasure5307]

I’m also have social anxiety and introvert. Whenever we would have a house guest i always hide in my room but my parents taught me to always pay respects in your elderly. So i would go say hi and try to stay for a lil bit and excuse myself afterwards.

[@belletrocio2260]

This is so true. Its even a struggle to get out of the house.

[@alicecabalfin3164]

D ka lang binati , d lahat ng tao .ganyan .

[@kieth26]

Hi. In Psychology, introversion is a personality trait characterized by a focus on internal feelings rather than on external sources of stimulation. Being an introvert does not mean that you are socially anxious or shy. Another fact, artista siya. May culture sa show business industry na maging professional sa kapwa artists by socializing. Petty but that’s how their world revolves. Pero kahit naman sa corporate world, kung hindi ka marunong bumati sa seniors at bosses, mai-issue ka na. Haha! Just my two cents.

[@betcha1134]

Your parents taught you well.

[@nilomatanguihan4346]

I kinda agree. Once you entered showbusiness, #1 na dapat mo talaga matutunan ay bumati sa mga senior. Kung mahiyain ka, learn to adjust.

[@voldemort1772]

there are some people that are not fond in Socializing especially the introverts and i hope u understand it cuz introverts are always misunderstood...

[@mobatv618]

@@voldemort1772 that why you need to adjust because you work in showbiz and hindi pwede ang introvert sa showbiz life

[@nilomatanguihan4346]

@@mobatv618 indeed

[@josephineenriquez8409]

Mabait na bata c julia. Kahit sa Aura nya makkita mo talaga Ang bait2x nya.

[@verdoze1261]

Aura napala basehan ngayon para naman kayong judgemental

[@___whynn69]

@@verdoze1261 hindi naman literal na aura yung tinutukoy nya.

[@chrismc3410]

Typical Filipino seniority mentality.. you don’t impose your standards of acknowledgment to people, if you want to be respected, respect if they want to be silent or want their own space too just because you are an artista, doesn’t mean you require special attention.🤦🏻‍♀️

[@voiceofreason2237]

Exactly.

[@asdfgqwerty6657]

pak!

[@GraciaraJFG]

Tama

[@cubeonar4604]

Toxic filipino mindset hahaha di lng nabati napaka entitled. Malay ba naman natin pinagdadaanan nung tao. Mamaya di lang introvet depressed din pala.

[@aivee6181]

Perfect..

[@xPrincexCarlox]

Idk why people here keeps saying that because they are an introvert, they dont do any greetings yada yada or some people here says by judging a person that does not greet are an introvert. People likes to jump into conclusions. Lol, you are also judging carmina and not knowing the whole details. Dapat alam niyo ang two sides of the story. Malay mo maldita lang talaga yun? Im an introvert too but I know how to greet and sometimes I just knod, wave or smile nalang but the thing is dedma talaga yung ginawa niya kay carmina base sa story. Pwede naman siang magsmile kay carmina den oks na bat wala. No repect. Maybe you guys are right na introvert talaga yung tao pero by not greeting a person doesnt particullarly mean na introvert na sila. I'm not taking sides btw. Not to be a hypocrite pero sometimes nagIignore din ako ng tao pag low energy ako kaya instead na makameet ko sila kakaliwa ako pero kung makasalamuha ko man sila atleast nagiismile nalang ako then aalis...

[@jun-junruiz6644]

Sa mga ilang nag-comment dito: STOP using BEING AN INTROVERT to forget about BASIC COURTESY. I know people who are introverts pero marunong mag-Good morning, mag-Hi sa mga tap, especially sa workplace.

[@ramonamontaner236]

Carmina is a down to earth person, mabait na nanay, asawa, friend, etc. Same with sa mga anak nya mababait kasi naging friends ng anak ko sila Cassey and Mavie nongmga bata pa sila and of course si Zoren client namin dati sa Salon. Very humble sila. God bless Mina and family. 💖💖💖

[@triningmalimata8385]

Mms"9

[@mindatungpalan5768]

That's why it's so imperative that the younger generation should be taught to respect their seniors whether or not they are shy. I used to be a very shy person because I was never trained to approach or greet seniors. Parents must expose their children to greet and respect people in a very nice manner. Our Filipino culture/value of greeting others in a respectful manner must remain and flourish because that's what makes us different from other cultures. Schools and churches must also constantly remind these kids to acknowledge older people as much as possible. Older people love to be greeted/respected/acknowledged by the younger generation. I should know because I am a parent and I taught my kids to always respect and acknowledge seniors as much as possible. Walang mawawala sa batang may respeto sa mga taong matanda sa kanila because sooner or later tatanda rin sila and they too will long to be acknowledged by people younger than they. Parents and leaders please take note of this . . thank you and God bless us and our Filipino values.

[@spongebobspongebob24]

What's so special about seniors that they have to be greeted?

[@shaneepurillo6249]

you can’t let everyone be just like you. you have to know also that there are individual differences, if you are friendly some are not but that doesn’t mean being disrespectful

[@jexterperez5983]

I was criticized by some of my former teachers dahil di daw ako namamansin. But to be honest, nahihiya talaga ako because of past failures. Ngayon, nakatrabaho ko na sila and the impression changed. Miss Carmina, let us not burn bridges due to our first impressions. Who knows, baka sila pa yung mga taong magugustuhan mong makatrabaho in the future.