COMMON IN-LAW ISSUES | The Drama | The Makhs Snrs

[@nomthandazomaseko4457]

I absolutely enjoy and appreciate how well spoken Mrs Makhetha senior is. Infact the entire Makhetha clan can express themselves really well maan! I love it

[@DIVA2410]

Yoh, I had lots of wow moments.

[@shazk3167]

When your mother in-law is well educated, marriage can become easy.. I love your mother in-law👌👌👌

[@lynettenene9218]

That is the best truth

[@nosiphojobela1233]

Absolutely 💯

[@Marsh_Mel]

I’m in awe of The Makhs seniors’ level of maturity and wisdom. WOW!😊 “The man sets the tone, if there’s a problem (especially disrespect or lack of boundaries), it’s his to fix”.

[@TheMakhs]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@mgeijho]

The Makhs seniors are such learnerd people.their english is soo classy and Englishy

[@wandile_mm]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheMakhs]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 we will pass the compliment♥️♥️

[@happymuller841]

💗

[@bccreationskwakwa693]

Englishy English🤣🤣

[@mgeijho]

@@bccreationskwakwa693 🤣🤣its not african english, its not american/tv english, its Englishy English.

[@tshegofatsonkosi1276]

Hey guys, I'm still new on this channel and I'm really loving it. I got married 3 weeks ago and I must say I have learnt a lot from this segment. This was so informative and I really appreciate you. May the Lord continue blessing you and both your families❤️.

[@DuduetsangKeokame]

I don't know why but this conversation was very emotional for me. I pray that I have understanding inlaws one day because it's truly beautiful to have a healthy relationship with in-laws. God bless you the Makhs🙌

[@TheMakhs]

Sending you so much love♥️

[@nothilemdunge9972]

Lolz🙈I teared up too.

[@likopotsephe8979]

I cried as soon as Mr Makhs senior started speaking!

[@matebellonzeku9451]

It is emotional. You are so blessed to have a family like Makhs.

[@siyamtolo6733]

"We don't have an in-law problem we have a son problem." I always say this. Period. The son is the one who should manage his people. If he is not man enough to do that he shouldn't be getting married. Also, yho hay bethuna we are not worthy of this content. I got so emotional towards the end. We all deserve this kind of in-laws. 😭

[@TheMakhs]

Aaaah thanks Siya. We love you♥️♥️. The folks have said a mouthful🙏🏾

[@bulumkobulumko652]

@@TheMakhs Lerato translate FOLKS to Venec,🙈🙈🙈

[@nonhlahlaphyllia6967]

@@bulumkobulumko652 Parents/ abazali ☺

[@lynettenene9218]

Ayikho inyani egqhitha leyo

[@rianomabie8897]

Lerato you are so blessed to have a wife that are adored by your parents- may God continue to bless you and your family.

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@mgeijho]

I get what Pheto is saying in the beginning that she isnt just saying this coz her in-laws are here.i think if they didnt have a great relationship she wouldnt even be comfortable doing this topic with them.she really is blessed.its resfreshing to see this kinda dynamic

[@khethiweboqo3730]

Wow!

[@TheMakhs]

They are incredible people! Such a blessing♥️♥️🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@nunukhumalo5537]

I am just catching up on every episode and I must say that Lerato's Dad is definitely one of the greatest actors to ever come out of this country.

[@kgaogelosatekge7021]

Never have I ever heard such wisdom on the topic of in-laws. I pray that this reaches millions others. God bless you guys and thanks so much for this. ❤️

[@KAYMASUPHA]

I am manifesting a TV show for you guys. You guys have awesome structure in terms of asking and answering relevant questions. ❤️🌟

[@rumbieguveya6186]

Amen to that

[@siviwemapekula1689]

Amen🕯️🕯️

[@fablife7081]

True, this type of content needs more exposure. Very powerful conversations.

[@dineomasetla3443]

🕯🕯🕯

[@musamashinini9514]

@The Makhs I am weeping listening to this. I had a terrible experience with in-laws and I asked myself why should it be painful. You have a daughter why treat me this way. I prayed about it and thank you for bringing up this sensitive topic which is over looked.

[@AnnstaciaK]

Register ashi… Here we like before watching instalment. Then we share with our friends and family. And post on our social media platforms. -Keep the comments coming as we are watching. -We don’t skip ads… (no matter how excited) -Make sure we are subscribed and have the notification bel ON. Then we sit back and enjoy. 🙂

[@KamogeloB]

Yup👊🏾

[@LM-he7eb]

All the time

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you our class captain! We love and appreciate you so much♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@AnnstaciaK]

@@LM-he7eb kao tsheper wena

[@lebogangmothibe2697]

Most def💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

[@jennychembe6427]

3 years later this is still beautiful to watch ❣️🥂 Mrs makhs Jr has beautiful inlaws

[@mirandalehoke7059]

It's the first time I'm watching it😂

[@jennychembe6427]

@@mirandalehoke7059 amazing 😍

[@buhlemondliwa2033]

You see, I'm not married nor am i in a relationship where I'm building towards that... But honestly your installments speak wisdom over me.. Its through such channels that you prepare yourself, you learn and unlearn issues so that whenever that calling comes to take place in your life you have been already equiped by learning from those before you even if its not yet relevant, so then you can go back to your wisdom bank and pull out what you once learnt from someone years ago because it's time for its use.. Otherwise, Thank you guys.

[@rollykgware]

We have a son problem and the same so has to to dictate how his family is to be regarded. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 it’s very clear for me. I’m thankful that my husband of 23 years laid the foundation of how I was to be regarded by his huge family and we haven’t fought once❤️

[@mbalentlemdange8529]

There are no in-law problems, there are son problems....ai the seniors are just too wise, it's amazing

[@withlove4315]

Clicked as fast as i could...am much as im a fan of this channel but let me tell you! When i see the Makhs seniors i get even more excited, they always dropping some great nuggets(wisdom). Haven't watched, just super excited!!

[@TheMakhs]

The seniors are a fave!♥️♥️

[@ladye1253]

I couldn’t agree more

[@LETSOALO_LIFE]

Welcome back, we had missed you big time really. Condolences to the family. This was a hit, my husband and i kept watching and pausing and rewinding in interval discussing this one. Thank you for inviting the Makhs senior, we forever appreciate their visit to the DREAM TEAM...

[@TheMakhs]

We thank God ♥️♥️🙏🏾. We love being back! 💃🏿

[@nontobekogumbi2]

How I wish this could air on TV when most elders are watching. What a profound conversation!!

[@withlove4315]

is it me or their first daughter looks so much more alike to Mrs Makhs Senior!?

[@kabelop9082]

Totally Hakoe is Koko & Koko is Hakoe strue

[@NomaMPride]

Now that you've mentioned it. I see it. What a blessed family. May God bless all of them

[@KamogeloB]

Yup I see it too

[@ThandazaMK]

Yes Hakoe nje umntana Gogo straight!!!

[@siyethembad8049]

Facts!

[@sabamasaya2064]

I see so much of Hakoe in Ma’Makhetha it is mind blowing. Face, demeanor, everything!😂❤️

[@TheMakhs]

♥️♥️♥️

[@motheowalerato701]

10:00 "Who is she?"🙆‍♀️🥺🥺 Oooh I love Mama waitse. Cutting ✂️ right to the chase🔥🔥

[@ntebe1]

Phetola you're indeed a daughter in the family, I can eve see similarities between you and Mrs Makhetha Sr💖 This was a great episode.

[@Fifi-Chawaz]

I had to stop this 16 minutes into the video and just commend the wisdom in this video....wow!! I'm astonished. Son, take your position, all will go well in the family. And this is my first experience and I am definitely staying with the Makhs, proper content right here.

[@selinamasetle7688]

Wow so much wisdom 😭🙌🏾so so good... "We don't have in law problems, we have son problems"... The husband sets the tone of how his family and everyone is going to treat your wife.

[@makgotsoramuhulu7613]

That for me was it ♥️🔥

[@TheMakhs]

💯💯💯💯

[@pulengchabane2970]

This was a great episode. My husband and I had a session with Mama a few months ago and it was amazing. It's always great to hear a different perspective on things.

[@senzekilemothogoane7238]

I’m so grateful for this channel. I’m not married nor in a relationship but I’m so hooked 😄. It’s a great platform for singles to prepare themselves and have an idea of what to expect. Like they say “prevention is better than cure”.

[@ayandamafunda312]

I love the honour Mr Makhs Snr bestowed on the wife, that she is the mother of the next generation of the Makhs clan, like how beautiful is that. How could they not treat her with love when they view her in such a beautiful light. And I know not all couples choose to have children but you don't have to give birth to children of your own to be a mother, guiding and imparting your wisdom too can be you being a mother.

[@leemasilo1229]

The wisdom😭 incredible.

[@TheMakhs]

🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️

[@pulane2651]

The makhetha senior well spoken good mother in law and dad too , just love everything about them ❤️

[@lerekomoletsane8022]

I subscribed after this particular installment. I've been married 4 23 n Mama summed up my painful makoti initiation. It was not from loving my mom in law though bt my sisters in law. I'm so glad that I never hated them but kept them in my prayers.. My faithful God answered my prayers

[@Keabetswe.Sithole]

I pray I get understanding in-laws, those that will respect me, my husband and our home. I could watch this video everyday. This is so so good!

[@sibobuhlungu4404]

I love Mrs Makhetha senior, wise woman she is, wow🙌🙌

[@pretty23048]

This video made me to download all your old videos- thank you guys for this. 2024 has been rough on people marriages I pray this video will help to restore

[@LM-he7eb]

I’m a woman & my mom is so attached. She doesn’t respect my time. When you say “NO”. She pouts. I wish my dad was alive, I feel like her new hubby.

[@TheMakhs]

It can get very tricky with parents sometimes. If you haven’t done so already, take the time to ask God to soften her heart when you bring the conversation up. He will work on her…

[@winniethipa4011]

Lol I know this isn’t funny but I’m glad someone is in the same boat as me

[@DIVA2410]

This episode has blown me away. y'all should bring the Parents more often. because yoh, the wisdom. the words they spoke are so profound. you are very lucky to run your race as a couple with such parents by your side.

[@pulane2651]

20yrs in my marriage still learning , it's a process, but we live in the moment, with God included

[@Mamokete_Mosia]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us Makhs Seniors. How I wish our parents could see this

[@pinkysegolabeng3576]

True people of God. Speechless I wish the Makhs seniors have their own channel, just motivational channel... I love them so much

[@keneiloemyoli]

Some of us go through alot 💔 Thank you so much for this. I really wish we have better in-laws in future and we ourselves become better parents in law as well

[@TheMakhs]

Sending you so much love♥️

[@keneiloemyoli]

@@TheMakhs thank you

[@mantitilefalatsa6944]

I pray for your situation and I trust and believe the Lord will hear our prayers.

[@keneiloemyoli]

@@mantitilefalatsa6944 hey friend 🙈 you are here..lol. Thank you Tee. You know hle..thank you ❤️ I love and appreciate you so much. Let’s keep on praying 🙏

[@akhonadyi3602]

Interesting topic, your parents are wise, you can tell they are God fearing.

[@TheMakhs]

♥️♥️♥️

[@ikanyenglediga3701]

Wow 😍😩Best video ever watched this year 🙌😍❤️I don’t have words.Thank you for teaching us the norm.We are a young generation of re-learning how to do things and letting go of toxic cultural practices that break marriages. ❤️I will be watching this again and again.

[@TheMakhs]

Oh wow! Thank you for watching♥️

[@DrKadosh_A_Fruitful_Woman]

To the beautiful and sincere Mr Lerato and Mrs Phetola Makhetha: you have such breathtaking souls. Your maturity is at another level. You don’t claim to be born again, you are. I see the fruit of it in your instalments because they been genuinely. To the Makhs Snr: bathong, I need to sit down hle. I’m amazed that such People of your calibre exist. I am a Psychiatrist but I felt like I was in premarital counselling here. I think the Makhs Snr’s and Jnr’s need to write a book. A book we can buy and read over and over again and give as a gift. Bathong what about a tv program? I mean this deserves to be international. All I gotta say is: I thank God for leading me to those He ordained to do my premarital counselling. I prayed about it cause I don’t want any knowledge outside of the principles of the Word of God, Elohim. At His time, I’ll be in touch. Such etiquette. This is what Wisdom is. Kealeboga. Aaaa 👏🏾🤝🎱… Oh, new subie, bell 🔔 on. Love you guys. Love you mega! Ma Setjie

[@banyanam]

Come on! Man! These parents. We need a 10week series with them.

[@ceciliakunene9106]

Shoooo the wisdom if the Makhetha parents is UNBELIEVABLE. Phetola you are the Luckiest woman alive. You are TRULY BLESSED.

[@charmainet8699]

Shhhhh! Let's sit and listen kids, the seniors are here...we already know gems will be dropped here... Happy father's day bo Papa❤ You all look great by the way family!

[@siyethembad8049]

Hai Mama Senior🔥🔥🔥 Cima cima cima! When she opened her mouth! Cima🔥

[@tuzs3782]

Oh my word, I love your parents...the WISDOM, your MOM is everything and she's absolutely gorgeous Wooooooooooow! you guys are blessed!

[@masabathamhlongo6378]

"You've come to build not to break" That's it, thanks folks, always refreshing listening to you💓

[@africanlions9886]

The Maks never disappoint with solid content that provokes thought!! So much to reflect on as a sister to brothers and a future Makoti.

[@mrsh4527]

Thank u so much for educating & sharing your experience🙏May God Almighty continue to bless u, give u wisdom and strengthens u.......You are really a BLESSING and we ar learning a lot

[@nqabilenomvulangubane6501]

😭😭 OMG! They literally said everything I've been saying, About inlaws.

[@crm5616]

Same Sis

[@TheMakhs]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@000Benz]

Same here

[@conversationswithlittleone2970]

So glad to know that we have parents who see things this way. Our African families can be complex but actually, it can be simplified. This is really powerful. Thanks for sharing ❤️

[@sanelemjoli4877]

Wow so much wisdom right here. "You teach everyone how they should treat your wife." Thank you Fam for bringing the Seniors, we love and appreciate you. I hope and pray you will continue to heal in Jesus name. The Great I AM loves you

[@Mth0mbeni]

I like it when you said" let the reasonable~ness not be abused*

[@nokuphila_andlive3981]

I wish the whole country could watch this ... but also to be able to implement something like this the parents need to be of a good strong character and also the daughter inlaw also need to be of good character to not abuse the goodness of her inlaws ... so above all this proves that only 'whole ' individuals can come together and build a good family unit (especially when they are not biological family. Just coming together seeking a unity of peace and love ) ... hope I'm making sense 🙏 ❤

[@sosokwepe6512]

I love how this family is so united

[@fikilemahlangu8561]

I cried so much realising that I have endured so much pain from my inlaws because of my husband's stationary position 😭tjo

[@shammahboterere9344]

You can say that again!!

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

I love what Mrs Makhs Senior said...The son does set the tone of how the wife will be treated by the family. If he draws a line early then they will know not to cross that line. Also some moms forget that once their sons get married its a new chapter and that new chapter needs to also be respected.

[@TheMakhs]

This is so true and we’re lucky to be parented by such wisdom 🙏🏾

[@sebenelemazibuko4602]

Wow wow wow!!!thank you for being real with the real issues affecting most of us.You are loved all the way from eSwatini.

[@elle_rankou]

A prayer I never knew I had to go pray and got answered. A beautiful session🤎 Modimo a Le okelletse ho feta mo

[@boitshepomolwane7036]

I honestly have something against dealing with my future in-laws but the Makhs just counseled me with issues around this and now I’m more open to relating better with my future in-laws and also relate better with my sisters’ in laws. Thanks for your time in sharing guys

[@londekamhlongo5792]

Your parents are extremely blessed with so much wisdom , absolutely love how open minded these folks are . I learnt so much from watching this, May God continue using them as a vessel to transform people’s unions . This was beautiful to watch .❤️

[@sphimach2692]

Im almost in tears, this is by far my favourite installment. Its so important to understand Gods word about relationships. The parents are filled with such wisdom my goodness. The man sets the tone for how his wife is to be treated and the running of their household...Thank you guys for this...Ive got so much to say but for now, let me just acknowledge the great content

[@hapitji]

This episode was mind blowing. Lerato's parents are so full of wisdom, they are such a blessing. I wish couples, pre and after marriage can watch it. I'm definitely referring it to people that I know.

[@TheMakhs]

♥️♥️♥️

[@labophilanikometsi6236]

Thanks for sharing Hapitji😍💋

[@aishakhagai5768]

This was a very informative instalment, i have learnt a lot as a wife and am also very grateful that i have a mother in law that is supportive of me and we can relate. I have been successful with my in laws by not taking sides and also just minding my business. Most especially just focus on respecting my mother in law and supporting her in all sectors of life. My father in law is late so i did not have the opportunity to interact with him. Thank you.

[@nasiphigwiji2411]

Yoh, the parents are wise. Thank you for this!!!

[@karenzulu3493]

Wisdom can only be given by God but shared to others and thank you Ma le Papa for spending time in the secret place and living by example. I truly thank God for each and everyone of your lives. It's amazing what the Lord has poured into your lives and thank you so much for sharing. I pray that the Lord shall continually preserve your lives IJN💗💗

[@TheMakhs]

A word! Thank you for the contribution♥️

[@thembanimakhathini2126]

not me getting all emotional. thank you for imparting wisdom in us. grateful

[@llisthorn4027]

This is absolutely wonderful.I’m not South African but this blog is educational across the globe.God bless you all for discussing this sensitive topic.

[@motheowalerato701]

5:37 I relate big time to what Papa is saying. Ne ke phela ke llile and same thing was said many a times "O editseng Lerato". Took me a while to figure out gore moes gofa nna I'm here to babysit and tolerate what others couldn't 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️😰

[@luciaaffinity5732]

so blessed to be married in a drama free family Nashwas are amazing nolies!!! they are a dream come true

[@dineomasetla3443]

This installment deserves to be on a tv channel🤍🕯,I just wish mother&father in-laws can hear this.

[@leratomakinita9985]

I love this topic...we had same conversation with my inloves ka di 16. I am so blessed to have them im not makoti to them im their daughter. All the things the makhs seniors said i relate cos im blessed with parents and siblings that love me. I love them to bits

[@gracehlatshwayo2789]

So wholesome, so informative. Truly pearls of wisdom. I've learnt so much. After this I wish to discuss so much with my husband so we can evaluate and see if our relationship with our in-laws is healthy or not.

[@nontsikelelochiteshe5487]

It's the whole family for me... Yhuuu guys.... You are a blessed to be a blessing. Love you all Makhs family. ❣️ 🌸

[@marvelousmbali8002]

I got you sir yazi neh the new family that my mother got married to don’t celebrate anything birthdays Christmas, family vacations, lunches….when we came in things changed we had a rough one because my step dad doesn’t do those things so introducing all those to him and the rest of the family had arguments about money why don’t we do it alone without them….so we used to do all those things when my parents were still together now they have divorced and everything went south as well so nje I can relate.

[@dieketsengmamaseli]

Bathong!! How I wish I discovered the channel earlier. Great content The Makhethas. Thank you.

[@turkscaicosgal]

I cannot 'like' this video enough!

[@JanYambushi]

Well, thank you! So wise and full of love... Normally all families need this kind of frank and open talk.

[@vunenenthani6640]

This is so inspiring xem like I've realized as we come from different backgrounds some principles are never poor, old fashioned or stale it's like so powerful 😍😘

[@boipelokekana358]

Guys go monate yang mo! Thanks for this

[@TheMakhs]

O ra gore!?❤️❤️🤗🤗

[@thatohatsiletlape8294]

Pearls of wisdom 🤯🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@thembelandawule8841]

Wow, :-) I am not married and always have this fear of how inlaws will receive/treat me and how the relationship is going to be like. But today I've learnt a lot. I now know how 1 day when married I will handle things in my marriage with inlaws on both sides. This was really informative and encouraging. I appreciate you. :-)

[@smangamoy974]

This is powerful stuff. If only people could watch and take advices from these folks.

[@motheowalerato701]

15:35 "We do not have in law problems, we have son problems. Sons who do not take their positions" 🔥🔥🔥 Di nuggets tsa instalment eeee🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️

[@lebogangsebogodi178]

yoh guys the wisdom here🤷‍♀️...I can only quote few : SAFE SPACE, INCLUSIVITY, A MAN MUST TEACH, INITIATE MAKOTI BUT WHY DOES IT HAVE TO BE PAINFUL, MAKOTI YOURE HEWREE TO BUILD NOT BREAK... thank you The Makhs I'm learning a lot here🙌🙌

[@nikkiedala2936]

Guys today is my first day here , and m falling inlove with this platform i think this is now my 3rd video m watching and the content maan its out of this world. Thanks guys

[@letlhogonolomalele9921]

I'M SHORT OF WORDS. THANK YOU. I'LL ALWAYS REFER TO MME LE RRE MAKHETHA FOR WISDOM. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

[@dianbarnett4046]

watching from jamaica and this is so informative. would love if you translate on screen what you guys say in your language. i love this

[@nokomatladi6139]

I’m only seeing this now and wow.. I’m always wowed at how well-spoken the seniors are♥️ I think you should feature them more often because we can use their wisdom

[@withlove4315]

At this point i think The Makhs Seniors should start their own marriage counseling channel tle, Lol. Really enjoyed and learnt alot from this installment. Thanks guys

[@shorti2370]

It would really be amazing

[@busim6079]

This episode made me so emotional... What a beautiful relationship... I pray for this grace!❤

[@thobekancube2479]

We need more installments with the seniors, so much wisdom pouring out from them 🙌 👏 🙏 ❤ 😍 😫 🙌

[@PatriciaD512]

nah!!!!! mama and papa need a channel asap!

[@kedibonemohale1802]

Thank you for sharing your parents with us. Wealth of wisdom. I love your channel...

[@maty4206]

I would pay for this session any given time. I am sharing it with one of my mentees who got married yesterday. This is a litlhobohanyo session for newly marrieds. Beautiful hearts.

[@dithabisolekota3492]

I keep watching this over and over again. The wisdom here is just on another level. The Makhs Seniors..bona.!!! Mme Makhs senior you are my role model. And it's one of my life goals to meet you one day Mme.