7:57 acknowledging ones feelings isnt the same as agreeing.. 😊❤❤ protect him at all cost!
@_kenothiaАй бұрын
I have 5 sisters Stephan, I know this. Women that love you, aren't "difficult". We also have to appreciate that love means different things for our different genders. For gents, it's a "do", a duty, it's respect. For women, it's a feeling, ever changing like the weather. I learnt to navigate what was for me young, "nonsense", now I just treat them how I treat kids. Gentle listening, asking questions, and being firm when the "nonsense" aforementioned gets out of hand, like "we won't do this". Takes them a bit to grasp, but they do, and it creates so much harmony.
@QuiannaАй бұрын
Who wants to be "loved" by someone who views love as a "duty?" If there are no feelings, then that isn't love as far as I'm concerned. And saying women's love is ever changing like the weather isn't true. And saying that you speak to women like children is so dismissive and disrespectful.
@_kenothiaАй бұрын
@Quianna You may have got the wrong context. We are all children, carrying deep rooted wounds from our different upbringings. What love is, is literally in the marriage vows. It's a union, of two kids, and vows tell you everything, "to honour, through the good and the bad, through sickness and health". Maybe try re-reading this, without bias, and see the different perspective. Love, is obligation, and "feeling" changes, from good to bad and everything in between.
@_kenothiaАй бұрын
@Quianna I however do get your perspective fully, and apologies
@uprightservices452Ай бұрын
Shut up scrub
@jori73986 күн бұрын
I find your perspective very loving and empathic. Wonderful understanding. In my own life, I especially appreciate being treated in this way-although I realize many women might not.
@ModernDatingMasteryАй бұрын
*Avoid overthinking or overexplaining - state your thoughts calmly and authentically to create trust and understanding in your conversations.*
@rachelabcd20 күн бұрын
❤
@Cindy_Love_2025Ай бұрын
I Love your shirt ❤️ Excellent video, advice & topics!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💯❤️ I love it!
@dcl21427 күн бұрын
Please do a video for men on how their childhood/family abuse and their unhealthy friendships/associations negatively impact their romantic relationships.
@jackjack441220 күн бұрын
Are you searching for info on that topic from mental health professionals? There's some good videos on here.
@dcl21420 күн бұрын
@jackjack4412 No. Stephan talks about healing a lot. But, some men don't know what healing entails and their partners/relationships suffer for it. For example, those men expecting for their partners to be a substitute for an absent/abusive parent, therapist, spiritual advisor, etc. I know that Stephan isn't a therapist, but this is important to raise when discussing relationships.
@stephendaly362128 күн бұрын
Please, men, make sure you have this nailed before you put a ring on her finger. If you can't deal with your women in this way before your married, you are settling yourself up for a world of pain and ultimately Empty pockets !!!
@jarvisholland7837Ай бұрын
Great advice
@fabricehategekimana5350Ай бұрын
Thank you for those amazing advices !
@StephanSpeaksforMenАй бұрын
I’m glad you found it helpful
@Rico-RRАй бұрын
Dope video my guy 💯
@StephanSpeaksforMenАй бұрын
✊🏽 thanks man
@Yesenia25-m8nАй бұрын
Merry Christmas Stephan
@iamtreasure-r4c16 күн бұрын
😅😅❤❤❤ protect him at ALL COST 2:24
@iamtreasure-r4c16 күн бұрын
😍😍😍😍 2:51
@keithwoodards2961Ай бұрын
Thank you for your video, what if my trauma to ruin 20 years relationship, how to fix that
@uprightservices452Ай бұрын
Stephan, these encounters seem to be major headaches. Also, how can you trust these types of people with influence over your children, life circumstances, or life and death decisions?
@GregMunroАй бұрын
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient..
@Yesenia25-m8n12 күн бұрын
😊
@Yesenia25-m8nАй бұрын
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@Yesenia25-m8n11 күн бұрын
Aprendre kreole Stephan. S'il te plait.
@TrentReeves-c2kАй бұрын
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient..
@GregMunroАй бұрын
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
@TrentReeves-c2kАй бұрын
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
@GregMunroАй бұрын
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.