I respect trying to understand the different communication styles of men and women, but my own experience with the pickle jar situation is more like how memory is decreasing because we know we can look everything up on our phone - if you are used to outsourcing this information to your wife, you will never prioritize it and remember it. If you lived alone, you would know where the pickle jar is because you don't have another option and your brain would realize it's important. These tasks outsourced to women add up in emotional labor costs associated with running a household.
@emilycollins63202 жыл бұрын
I would love to elaborate on this. How the feminine can focus to hear more of the main ideas, or the masculine can focus to remeber the pickle jar more often. It take work and awareness. We can all adjust from out true nature, but we all must understand first what that nature is, and what our partners nature is. But at the end of the day, present with stress, we all somewhat revert to our true nature. But i veiw nature as within the same basic catagory, but everchanging as well. And depending on life past experience and childhood dynamics, that can be slightly different for every person.
@emilycollins63202 жыл бұрын
This is something I haven't been able to put into words, but is exactly what I have experienced in the past.
@johnny67053 жыл бұрын
He doesn't know where the jar of pickles is because he wasn't the person who put the jar away after bringing it home from the store. Same can be said if she was told to go grab the channel locks in my tool box. Lol
@ShowBizJunkie Жыл бұрын
Well it depends on which store you bought the pickle jar from? Man, why do you buys these expensive pickle jars? 😊
@claritywellnesscoaching768 Жыл бұрын
Really great videos! 👍
@ShowBizJunkie Жыл бұрын
I have not noticed this with my mother or sisters. I don't really have a gf, so dont know fully what women go through. I only found out in USA, that women go through post partum depression. I have never witnessed that with my sisters or sister-in-law that they were depressed during or after pregnancy. What do women do during depression? Get angry on little things? Throw more tantrums? Or what?
@youngodyssey162 жыл бұрын
You almost had me but you didn’t give example of a women connection style
@vaishaligahlot36376 жыл бұрын
I'm kinda androgynous and can relate to both aspects.