I think we love ourself innately and it often turns into unhealthy selfish. So the question is how to love ourself in a balance way. That gives us room to be kind and help others.
@lifewithchunet2 ай бұрын
@@lobten2376 it’s my personal opinion, so it can be wrong also. I personally believe that one thing which can balance our self love and being kind to others is to always remember that, “We all want happiness and not suffering in our life” Second I believe, self love is not about being superior to others to achieve happiness in our own life, but it is more about accepting our own mistakes, not comparing ourselves with others, falling in love with our own flaws, taking out a time to understand ourselves at deeper level and finding ways to close the gap between our current self and ideal self to live a better life for ourselves.
@lobten23762 ай бұрын
@@lifewithchunet Thank you. I don't think it is totally wrong. It seems the main idea of making boundary between self love and love other is from the culture where people emphasize so much on self importance. This idea makes more sense if there are too many people have extreme love to others and abandon loving oneself. But the truth is other way round. I heard there are more people who explicitly say I hate myself. I agree what you said. Self love is always there with us like body and its shadow. Self love is important in the first place before we love and help others. Buddha said something like, compassion to others that is not included oneself is incomplete.
@tseringmado15822 ай бұрын
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