Confidence Doesn't Exist

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[@dayswillburn777]

The way I see it it's kinda like the cold. You can't measure cold, for cold is just the absence of heat. Great vid

[@Daniel-eg8kz]

temperature?

[@lampad4549]

You literally just proved that you can measure it then.

[@w4tzap26]

you can measure cold tho......

[@lmfao826]

except you can literally measure cold? tf lmao

[@lmfao826]

@Tony Montana He literally said "You can't measure you're cold" bro what are you on about. Temperature measures hot and cold, it's not deep, it's retarded lmfao

[@theseusbodymind4261]

Well said mate, confidence is always there but it doesn't come to the surface until you face up to your insecurities and deal with them

[@1STMAN]

Hello mate. Hope you're well. Well put mate exactly right

[@saadzamir9327]

I have just discovered this channel and I'm loving it

[@1STMAN]

Thanks Saad, glad you like the content

[@god1284]

As a 14 year old who just got into bodybuilding and orthotropics, these videos are great to watch 🙌

[@1STMAN]

14! That's nuts. Focus on diet, form and learning everything you can about training. Orthotropics - throw in submental exercises and be patient. By 21 you'll really be thanking yourself

[@What8_]

Im 13 and do this and already been working out for a year

[@bepishombre8999]

keep in mind your gains won't probably be very quickly obtained, the hormones haven't truly been balanced yet and some hurdles are yet to be conquered

[@scirazzbrehh]

14 years old with a profile pic name of God... lol

[@ThickShibe]

@@bepishombre8999 agreed, been training for almost 9 months from 14-15 years old and haven’t filled my frame as much as an adult would however I did get newbie gains that have stuck and my strength has increased

[@jaco5187]

Yeah I figured this out a long time ago. Getting rejected by hundreds of women made me literally immune to what they say. That gives me a certain 'confidence' to approach women and say what I want with absolutely no fear.

[@maximilianbreall]

Dude I want to thank you so much for putting me on this concept. Since I’ve started viewing confidence as just a lack of all my mental barriers, I have felt so much better. It’s a total mindset shift to think “confidence is just my normal state. Anything else is just some weird mental block” and I am feeling awesome. Thank you Kris

[@iGrouchyMark]

I've recently come across your channel but you speak a lot truths and I respect that. It sounds more like indifference than confidence, also confidence comes from "confide" which means "To trust". If you start trusting in yourself and your own abilities you will naturally lose fear, anxiety and doubt.

[@1STMAN]

Thanks man. I searched the meaning of confidence around this time too, I was shocked to see it meant trust, makes so must sense

[@cudyeditz5487]

Confidence = Flow state

[@GaganSingh-rt3in]

Pure explanation indeed

[@OggerFN]

One of your best videos. The only way to 'gain confidence' is to get rid of your insecurities and not by coping.

[@neonic7395]

This channel is one of the reasons I succeed

[@1STMAN]

I really hope, thousands of men become successful in various industries because of 1STMAN and we can then all work to help each other once we're all at the top

[@neonic7395]

1STMAN Oh yeah, we’re gonna make it.

[@gabo1841997]

Confidence is just the knowledge that you know for a fact you can execute whatever "challenge" it is you're facing, and behaving accordingly. While fully accepting whichever outcome.

[@tgwdnq.levente]

I'm only 19. I always felt sg that i could not say in words, but you grabbed the point here. Thanks. Your channel is helping me to getting mature and be succesfull in controlling my emotions/feelings.

[@1STMAN]

That's unreal to hear man, so happy the videos are helping

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

I’m 20 just turned it and this is facts

[@thesharkmethod]

Ooh szia énis Levente vagyok, hogy megy az élet?

[@nikhil5642]

This channel is a hidden gold nugget🙌🏽

[@nathancasey7712]

I’ve always had that indifference where I don’t care if people say something good or bad about me. Doesn’t matter to me, but I still have some other little anxieties that stem from insecurity I need to overcome.

[@mamaurax25]

Confidence comes from results.

[@3Techers]

This is good shit. Just wanted to say that through self improvement I lost 70 lbs. and built lots of muscle. Absolutely love the gym and it is my best hobby. Currently at 6ft 180 from 250. But with that comes the loose skin that is really hard to deal with. Especially when comes to sleeping with women who are attracted to me. I had the surgery on my chest, now I have a massive scar and still a little skin on my abdomen. So I really resonate with that you said about learning to live with something you don’t have control over. Starting to loose my hair too lol. I am only 21 years old so this is something that I need to work on. To learn how to not care. A attitude that goes as such: “This is me, wether you like it or not”

[@guitarchris4775]

The "Confidence" exist but in different forms. Some people are confident but they have no idea of what are doing, they just fools with confidence. Other people are confident to achivment, if they try different thing, make something change in his life, training some skill they really confident. Man have to belive in themself it doesn't matter of how many time they lose. Because some man compare to other people, but we are different and not everyone learn skill with same speed. One of the fundamental thing is man have to belive in self and reach their potential. Victim mentality and losses is not excuse for them. Of course out life depend of many factors, but raight mindset is the true and belive in out skills and body. P.S. Sorry for my english , great video !!!

[@imawarrior313]

Truth is what exists and prevails and triumphs. So be true yourself and always do what true and right and the rest will take care of itself

[@1STMAN]

Spoken like a true Warrior. No I agree, truth really does set you free

[@imawarrior313]

@@1STMAN thank you so much my dear man, ure truly #1 .. it does!

[@angelinaoliver5587]

You broke it down very well that was me in 2018 I didn't give a damn and that's the happiest I've ever been in my entire life. I miss that girl I miss who I was before COVID happened now I'm focusing on just loving myself and finding myself again. Love and peace to y'all❤️ love your channel btw😊

[@dermotcoughlan6846]

That natural state of self that is or isn't confidence is a positive state where you become your best, arrogance is this state of self used in a negative way where it is used to take advantage of others or to negatively use others for personal empowerment

[@lampad4549]

Didnt you watch the video where he said be ruthless?

[@rjFIT05]

One of my favourite 1st man vids

[@josiahkana4526]

Wow I've never understood confidence in this sense. This is like the most practical and essential definitive discussion on confidence ever!.. I've watched Ted Talk on confidence but it kinda didn't make sense.. this knowledge gold for young men like me❤❤👏

[@Ace-il4zp]

so basically...stoicism

[@1STMAN]

Yeah you could call it that. But think of it more like a higher frequency where you're above human emotions.

[@marcusharrison2569]

I see confidence as being byproduct of being successful in situations, low success rate= low confidence; high success rate= high confidence

[@gymdian]

I'm 29 now. Felt like I didn't do much during most of my 20s. Wasted most of it with drinking and chasing after girls. Always been a people pleaser and if I'm being honest a bit of a pussy in the sense that I went along for things I didn't necessarily believe in but was afraid of being made out to be different from what was expected. Been put down a lot for being quiet and taking shit I didn't have to even though I knew I had a lot to offer and had trust in latent abilities. Put up with it. But over the last couple of years this feeling of having had enough has been reaching a crescendo and right now I don't care about anything except owning my shit and knowing my strengths for what they are and how I'm doing or just wanting to do so much more than what others are and not going to go through life without doing the things I want. Being on my own journey. I absolutely HATE doing things just because someone at some point in time decided it was expected. Fuck that. Fuck the crowd. I got a couple of tattoos when I was younger; one that says 'Phillipians 4:13' and the other being a Delphic saying 'Know Thyself'. I just thought it sounded cool at the time. I thought I'd have to get them removed at some point in my life when I became wiser. Now that I'm wiser I'm glad I got those exact ones, they're exactly what I need and they mean more now than they ever did. That sense of knowing yourself gives you more confidence than anything else and once it hits you, it's something no one can take away from you.

[@thisisrivera1]

This video made me confident.

[@1STMAN]

I hope it helps

[@itsmeontheinternet7198]

Well said.. this is represented well by Maximus throughout the movie Gladiator. you should make an analysis video on that movie.

[@1STMAN]

Yeah he's on my BLA list. Agreed there's so many life journey messages in that film

[@itsmeontheinternet7198]

@@1STMAN Yes, apart from the extreme selfless and sacrificial mentality he possesses, he's a man we can look upto in many things. Excited to watch that BLA. Loving your content, keep going :)

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

Watched that movie the other day

[@JackStClair-re8py]

I learned not to care about peoples compliments when I started working out because the same people who used to make fun of my body now compliment the way I look so I thought to myself what are peoples words even worth.

[@aaronjohnson6622]

In orher words, confidence=the absence of fear. I can dig it

[@cleaneropinion111]

People call you arrogant when they lack confidence. It's good to be confident but I believe you have to back it up with work on yourself.

[@talibasi1291]

Congratz 1M! 70k+ subs. Love this channel!

[@AlligatorAli]

Confidence is believing in yourself. Confidence is very real. If you are a weak, unprepared, not knowing how to fight you may get scared. But, even if you start lifting or have your first class/session of any martial arts you'll mindset will most probably change and you'll start feeling a lot more confidence. If you are practicing some sort of martial arts, you'll start seeing through a person's physique. You'll know that you can defend yourself, thus have CONFIDENCE. So yes, yes I believe confidence can be achieved. If you are student, you may have felt fear before a viva or an exam or a test if you haven't studied properly. But once you have studied properly, you'll achieve confidence to face the exam or viva.

[@thealienboyart]

Be yourself, my friend. ✨

[@intptointp]

16:25 The image of that wholesome exchange is hilarious.

[@joeguandalini6950]

Thanks for putting this together mate. I like the distinction.

[@1STMAN]

No worries Joe, thank you for watching

[@DrTubeman]

Thanks man, luv how you unpack your subject and the messages you bring along with the choice of the words you knit into everything you form that brings the great discussions you tell that really relate, thanks again cause you are making a difference I feel is needed today and every day.

[@1STMAN]

Thank you man, appreciate the kind words

[@DrTubeman]

@@1STMAN Yeah pleasure is all mine, and why I been subscribed for a time, but for some reason, youtube been facking with my channels I follow and why I only just got back to you because of their little hide seek game they been playing with all my channels I follow.. see you again only sooner my man...

[@brokenback8378]

Really expended my understanding of confidence to a new level, great video

[@ajtiwana362]

Thanks Kris for these videos

[@MatterixBender]

Watching this video x10ed my confidence

[@leperiv4378]

Thanks mate 👍 I remember being a better me when I was teenager before I had anxiety problems, and I thought I had confidence

[@capedshinobi]

I'm also realizing the more you go forward with years the more you stop giving a fuck like you used to do before, you realize it just is not worth it. it comes naturally when you learn to know yourself. And these videos help a lot to realize. Just a thought. Cheers.

[@friedrichs.8004]

It is mucj easyier to be confodent, when you see confidence like he described it.

[@rationaloptimist5747]

Such a nice video, because it showed a new perspective

[@dmnC1541]

It's like being between a Stoic state of mind, and at the same time a self aware, "Atman" tipe of awareness, were no matter what happens you know that you are nothing but yourself. Atman.. and everything it's ok. So nothing really matters but the self. Everything goes more easy

[@JoboJr.]

Another great vid mate 👍🏻 but when we gonna see that Tyler Durden body language analysis!?

[@1STMAN]

Thanks Curtis. Haha I know man I thought the cover image would get that question going again. I've watched a ton of clips from fight club with that intention, I just have to make sure the video has value rather than making one for the sake of it and forcing stuff that isn't there or useful to the viewers

[@Aryav_chauhan]

I have downloaded your vedios in mp3 format ,and I sleep up to this

[@WizeWES]

how can one man spit so much facts is hundreds of videos

[@j-anonymous]

Appreciate the grind 👊🏿

[@1STMAN]

Thanks Jerry, appreciate the support buddy

[@romancingthestrand8242]

Just discovered your channel. Spot on brother 🙌 . Thank you for all the time and effort you’ve put into these videos and the breakdowns ! I’ve learned a lot and it’s confirmed a lot in what I’m doing in my own actions and character .🙏

[@doasyouwill8350]

that is some enlightment. that absolutely fits my mindset! thanks Man!

[@1STMAN]

No worries man thanks for watching

[@yordisimmeren7715]

It's great to watch your video's. You're a real one.

[@1STMAN]

Thanks Yordi, top man

[@gatsu7012]

best channel ever

[@1STMAN]

Appreciate it man, thanks for watching

[@phil7095]

Whilst I agree with the explanation on confidence, I worry that this perspective, which seems to be ascetic and stoic doesn't work for you IF results are what matters to you. It would seem we have drives/desires which fuel action and get results. E.g. desire for junk food leads to weight gain or desire for living optimally leads to a growth mindset. This non-chalant, it is what it is, IDGAF attitude seems cool and laidback on the surface to me looks like a rejection of your drives and downplaying/suppressing of your inner thoughts/impulses. What would life be like if you could connect to the "confidence within" and be OKAY with the mutltitude of positive or negative emotions that we experience in life. Really interested to hear your feedback, and I hope you don't mind my tone. I acknowledge the value you have shared and am challenging you because I think you make really strong points. -Phil

[@cassidy318]

I think it has more to do with being outcome independent. Basically taking either positive or negative criticism for what its worth without it having an effect that rewrites your intrinsic value system. Ex. Someone that gains value from drawing probably couldn’t care less what someone else thinks about their algebra solving abilities…if this makes sense

[@ommodak4431]

Great Opinion

[@paulsonjamesaluri627]

Thanks mate.

[@1STMAN]

No worries thanks for watching

[@Will_4560]

fantastic video.

[@demonspitch3311]

My new favorite channel loved your live life without women find yourself type of videos

[@drmanhat4483]

Well damn.. this guy figured it out

[@JellyAntz]

So "confidence" is just stoicism...

[@hypermangi8265]

honestly this video is a meme. The way 1stman responds to things 👽🥴

[@shaneeuropa]

Great video bro! Appreciated!

[@thiebdahmous8702]

Thank u brother

[@javiebeats759]

Wow. Thank you

[@hamid5684]

Holy that makes so much damn sense

[@alexgrigore17]

The difference between arrogance and confidence is the arrogant will never doubt themselves, it's like stupid, childish confidence with no reason basically

[@Dark_Knight....]

Great video nice channel subscribed and turned on the notification ✅

[@1STMAN]

Really appreciate it Amar, thank you

[@luamfernandez6031]

Confidence = Detachment

[@mbongoyanguba2071]

Top content as always 👌🏿

[@lesedi428]

5:20 this cracked me up so much man🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@houmanjafari2963]

I'm not flattering you, but you should definitely think about writing a self-help book. Because of your counterintuitive perspective on issues, there's a great chance you'll succeed.

[@1STMAN]

Thanks man I wrote a few in the past. I do aim to write a professional one in the future, regarding like a male blueprint for life

[@imawarrior313]

Buddy if HE would be writing YOU a SELF-HELP book then it isn’t SELF-HELP is it? There’s mo such thing as self help from others, need self help then help yourself by yourself entirely! But the male blueprint book would a really great idea and thats much more accurate

[@houmanjafari2963]

@@imawarrior313 It's just a title to refer to specific books. I wouldn't overanalyze.

[@imawarrior313]

@@houmanjafari2963 i was just clarifying a misused term too .. good luck with everything in ur life buddy

[@lesedi428]

6:52 😂😂😂 "it's kinda the effect lambos have on people"

[@icreid1323]

In my opinion confidence is derived from two things. 1. Experience in particular field, Thats why for example attractive guys are confident, because they experience positive reaction from women. 2. Psychological - the level of neuroticism that makes you care more or less about being accepted. Arogance is when you have no achievements or experience to back it up. Thats why girls like confidence and not arrogance. They like a man that is capable, not a self obsessed jerk. You ramble a lot without clearly stating a point, a lot of examples without any clear points

[@cyberdream7326]

👌 great content

[@1STMAN]

Thank you

[@nassimbensayah4568]

Do one on haters. Thank you

[@1STMAN]

I might do actually, good idea, thanks

[@nassimbensayah4568]

@@1STMAN I'm learning so much from your videos. I'm Nassim Bensayah, a public speaking coach here in Algeria🇩🇿. I've created APS (the first platform in Algeria to teach public speaking) where I share my knowledge with people. People are learning:) I want to do an Instagram live (or a zoom call) with you in which you give us tips on body language or any topic. 🎯 If you agree ( I hope so🥰) I suggest this Thursday 8:00PM GMT+1 This will be amazing! THANK YOU.

[@raygengamer8440]

Book by mark Ronson. Subtle art of not giving a fuq.

[@jeffjackson5850]

Straight facts

[@moretrenmoremen3421]

Amazing video as usual but i have one question : how do u remove all the fears and limiting beliefs

[@1STMAN]

Life experience and challenging yourself by doing more and new things. Myself for example - I've been close to homeless/down and out, I built my way back up and now earn more than everyone I grew up with, I now walk around like I own the planet, no one can tell me anything because I know I'm real, I have no fears, I met lives challenges and won, who's going to tell me I'm not good enough?

[@moretrenmoremen3421]

@@1STMAN i cant tell u how grateful i am that i found your life changing videos as a 14 year old

[@zuchotheghost]

Dude just define confidence without calling it confidence 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tuva5356]

really good video, keep it going

[@1STMAN]

Thanks man

[@mohamadhosseinsafaei19]

But Chris please tell me what do we have to do about love . Love ourselves and what god create?? I'm struggling with these both Love people or don't give shit about them. What's the true way? Please tell me if you read this 🙏

[@Motovl0g]

I feel exactly like this 🙂

[@jeffjackson5850]

My karate teacher has a saying confidence through practice practice through discipline

[@duman7070]

I got your point, but I have a question would you say being arrogant actually helps you to become confident in the long run?

[@1STMAN]

It'll change you for sure, but if you're arrogant the moment someone breaks you down or is better than you, you'll likely crumble

[@jasiebelderart]

But if you care about strong bodylanguage and tonality and someone criticize it.. how can you not care?

[@jasiebelderart]

Or take it serious

[@mohsonshah9149]

1st man please tell me what jacket you are wearing

[@loren5038]

confidence is just not giving a fuck really get up and put ur shit together without thinkin twice

[@13579hee]

I kinda Disagree. I think confidence does exist but I think real confidence is when you can trust in & rely on skills & abilities. Lot of people's understanding of confidence nowadays has been impacted by the self-esteem movement of the 1970s. So instead of people assuming confidence is "knowing you can trust in or rely on a skillset or inability", people think confidence means "thinking highly of yourself"... that's literally not what it means lol. I do however disagree with your notion that confidence is simply "lack of fear"). I think it was less about the lack of fear and more about the trust. For example, someone who knows that they fit the socially constructed concept of beauty can trust in and rely on their ability to attract suitors.

[@mic_derin]

But do you believe in positive affirmations?

[@KrisVic91]

The less you give a f**k the happier you'll be

[@s33k3r5]

Hello can i ask you something is your eye and face facing to left rather than right... Are you thinking or lying because in your video i heard facing left is someones might telling a lie just confused

[@1STMAN]

No looking up and left means you're telling the truth. Also there's nothing but a wall to my right to so look left.

[@jonathanleephotography]

zen

[@joshmoore2807]

Sounds like ultra instinct

[@kamarifit]

Hello boys says it all

[@Brybry3000_]

6:55 same

[@ksmart3148]

How to remove everything else?

[@Dark_Knight....]

Just noticed that you don’t ask viewers to subscriber that is the first time I watch someone on KZbin and doesn’t do that 😂

[@1STMAN]

Thanks man it's something I pride myself on. If people want to sub they can, if they want to like they can, everything is optional. I'm focused on my current subs, never wishing I had more as that's disrespectful to the guys already here

[@christopherwood3793]

Where'd you get that jacket?

[@1STMAN]

Topman a while back. Not sure if they still stock it

[@shaneeuropa]

This talk makes me think of the film (office space) check it out!

[@majosvk7661]

Arrogance-ego based (i am better then thease fuckers, i am so much wiser and shit...) Confidence- you just...ARE(approach fears with courage they no longer control you, u can say its "spirit based")- if someone despise me , its their problem- i think it said Marcus aurelius

[@Mr.Coffee576]

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