CONFIDENCE FOR INTROVERTS

[@m2pozad]

I saw that I was confident in some situations and not in others, and that the main difference was competence. So, the not- so-tricky trick became preparation. Physical practice for physical things, along with visualizations for other things, gives one the sense of being prepared, from which confidence flows. Then one gets a sense that confidence in a specific area is transferable to other areas. Attachment Theory talks about the secure base with a caregiver from which to explore. Secure Attachment is probably the gift that sets the early stage of natural confidence that the lucky ones have for the rest of their lives.

[@Finwulf753]

The biggest advantage we have over others, is ourselves. Even your "flaws" are unique and may be your strength in disguise. G'luck introverts!

[@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied]

I actually concur. We need to stop questioning ourselves so relentlessly, and just be true to ourselves. It has allowed me to be even more giving, and loving, as well as more devoted to my independent pursuits.

[@Pearlofperfection]

Thank you so much! I am completely independent of the good and bad opinion of others. lol The bad opinions can sometimes send me in Ni - Ti loop if I'm unprepapred oof

[@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied]

Ahhh yes, the LOOOP!!

[@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied]

Do you think it is a confidence issue, or just confusion? I struggle with this. Who am I kidding, we just overthink these things to death. That’s all. It’s best to act on impulse, honestly, for an INFJ when it comes to extroversion. This has worked best for me. I am an INFJ female, middle aged, and a former professor (I quit in protest of “woke” b.s.)

[@biswapratimdebdeb2221]

Thank you for this video so much😌 felt so much positive energy ❤️

[@vibrationsofhealingyw]

You are a Radiant soul Anne, thank you for your love and compassion for humanity and Enlightening us with your life Wisdom 🙂💓✨

[@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied]

She’s taken, broseph.

[@clive_the_fat_cat]

One thing thats pissed me off my whole life, say for instance i start a job, i know im doing well and have things in common with my workmates and have a laught but im not confident after 3 months someone new who has no idea what they are doing and is a confident person but a conpulsive lier strarts work, after one week has become better friends with everyone. This has happened in every aspect of my life