Confronting a narcissist 1: Rocky from Below Deck (real world narcissism example)

I analyse Rocky (aka Raquel Dakota) to show that her actions are consistent with narcissism.
This is my first video, so please let me know if there are any elements I could improve in the future.

[@m3lis54]

I can’t believe they made Kate look worse than Rocky, Rocky was the living devil

[@kellihunt4653]

I agree.

[@suziq2569]

Biggest FLOOZZY!!

[@lorir5728]

Kate was actually pretty nice to her. More than I would ever be. Her and Leon were awful.

[@judithvigorito4548]

It was so obvious she played to the camera. Watching her require total attention and her “over acting” I thought she was there looking for someone to hire her for tv or the movies. Her total control of that season was disgusting to watch.

[@PrincessKarrah]

I watched this season of below deck it’s completely ridiculous that she was always acting like she the victim. Kate and Amy tried to help her but she was unwilling to be helped. She did the bare minimum work yet acts like she was being bullied when other crew members didn’t want to be around her because they were fed up with her drama.

[@thunderchick7400]

I watched this season of Below Deck and she is the worst crew member ever. She was just a hot mess. But she and Eddie got their comeuppance in the end. Just keep watching, it gets better/worse!!!!

[@Sezfluffy]

yes he totally used her but she knew he had a gf

[@dser366]

I really like using reality tv as examples of narcissism so I hope you continue, you could look at some of the real housewives (Kelly from real housewives of New York) or some of the people from married at first sight Australia

[@thenarcissistwatcher]

Thank you for the suggestions - I haven't seen either of those yet, but will add them to my list!

[@MsAhmebah2000]

Still dont know why Rocky keeps looking up!

[@BwInNewJersey]

Rocky was that kid running wild around restaurants range free.

[@lorir5728]

Lol. Before I read this I was saying to myself she is the kid in the park who runs around naked climbing trees.

[@PrincessKarrah]

I don’t know how Rocky didn’t get fired I would’ve fired her in a heartbeat.

[@pseudopuppy160]

If anyone ever sees the red flags.... RUN!!!! Both of my parents were narcissists. You will NEVER win, NEVER have peace, NEVER be / do enough to satisfy their MASSIVE INSECURITIES. Run. For the sake of the deities.... RUN & be free!!!

[@thenarcissistwatcher]

Good advice for sure.

[@laceybanter5937]

Rocky's boyfriend Mark ran! I can't believe he stayed as long as he did. She is very mentally ill.

[@tulipchic34]

How she can’t look at the camera creeps me out

[@JulieR73]

She’s crazy

[@Sezfluffy]

Rocky would flip between being a child and a vixen, took a job she refused to admit to taking wanting to be someone higher. Always gaslighting

[@celestialfortuna37]

Thank you for posting this. goodness such disappointing behaviour. that poor bloke on the receiving end of unwanted advances then public humiliation. she obviously has "issues"

[@adamlove5173]

I feel like Rocky illustrates more Histrionic qualities than she does narcissism. But definitely some Cluster A/B/C elements all over the place. Attention-seeking, self-destructive, overly seductive...

[@pauletteschiowitz8989]

Couldn’t stand her

[@eduardocastillo1489]

Rocky threw a tantrum when the Shitty Chef gets Fired

[@richardshook6830]

Rock was way out there she always staring in space. But like her or not that season was one of the best ....

[@Adoptpets833]

Ha!!!! She was beyond annoying. Thank you for this👏🌞

[@h.b16]

I love Eddie just running away from the whole situation😂

[@Star-dj1kw]

❤ excellent analysis

[@MEGALINEJS]

Rocky is a person who, at first glance, can seem frivolous and extravagant and even a little "crazy". But later, we discover a person who is much more intelligent and courageous than he seems. Not only seductive and sexy (with a natural charm which spontaneously attracts men without the need to manipulate them) she then demonstrates that she has a very original temperament of the artistic type, and therefore incompatible with this modest position of hostess, of simple execution, requiring only slavish obedience and limited intelligence. A fine psychologist, she quickly detected the unhealthy temperament of Kate, her chief Hostess, who, under her elegant and haughty appearance, hides a perverse, contemptuous coldness, adoring of power and particularly manipulative towards her hierarchy which she uses with cunning to bring down her enemies without mercy.

[@gemmarayner1897]

Poor Emile 😢 that's horrible!

[@chillbilly2517]

Emile was a no-brainer, two heads, no brains in either of them.

[@melissahernandezm379]

Wow great video! I remember seeing one episode with her in there and thought she was so strange. Spot on with calling her out

[@joemckibben7757]

She was a head case but she made for good television!

[@EzMoney95]

Not really only people like her can think that

[@SandySaunders9142]

I'd LOVE for you to analyze Lindsay Hubbard on the very popular BRAVO show SUMMER HOUSE. She is a gold mine of material.

[@wshazbot62]

She seems like she was never taught discipline growing up , who knows. Sometimes certain crew members make me want to climb in the tv and grab them by the neck. Lol. Like Lara on below deck Mediterranean season 5, omg wow she was something.

[@thenarcissistwatcher]

Lara is a great example - the way she butted heads with Hannah almost immediately really was something else. It's a shame she left so quickly, but she could still be worth an analysis I suppose.

[@PrincessKarrah]

Exactly the same with Elizabeth from season 8 of below deck. Elizabeth was warned repeatedly to focus on work when she on the clock and not on a deckhand name James. Elizabeth says if she knew what was wrong she would’ve changed things but whenever her chief stew talk to her she behaved like she was a bratty teenager. Yet somehow she was not only shocked when she was fired she acted like she was the victim and she still claims to this day that she was bullied l.

[@Sezfluffy]

I think Malia too from BD med 2, they way she played the men and enjoyed it, plus her ruthlessness in grassing people up.

[@adrian3747_]

@@PrincessKarrah Ngl Elizabeth annoys me more than Rocky. Atleast Rocky is funny 🤷🏻‍♂️ Elizabeth obviously acts in her confessionals to make it look like she’s dramatic and she’s just annoying af

[@novaste1238]

Ricky gave me whiplash for days. She's entitled and always wants her way. Clearly very spoilt by her parent/s.

[@Theo-fp2oe]

To be fair, Emile's lack of game, would put off a lot of women. When he says he has plenty of experience, he's referring to young, inexperienced women who don't require much effort to wooh them. Unfortunately for him, he turned off a narcissistic person who made him feel like crap. Good natured, level headed people in that situation, would be empathetic.

[@thenarcissistwatcher]

Yes, I got the feeling he gave a lot of women the ick when he said that 😂

[@mykek8000]

And you don't talk with a drunk ​@@thenarcissistwatcher

[@w.p8140]

Rocky is just a horrible human, She is not even on the bottom rung of the ladder...

[@ajwalker2365]

Rocky is cute and bubbly enough that she got so much attention from simps. That entitlement to attention never goes away so it manifests itself in the real adult world as narcissism and self centeredness.

[@tracydutton7577]

Seriously bipolar

[@judithvigorito4548]

You could spend hours on Rocky. Would love to see more

[@thenarcissistwatcher]

I would love to revisit Rocky in the future for another analysis. The way she went into a complete meltdown when Eddie rejected her is a great example of narcissistic wounding.

[@TheMinnieSalon]

We need a video or video series on Lydia on love is blind season 5!!!

[@niclesnyc]

All the drama she caused, was about herself or maybe played Emille a bit, but men play women all the time, she was never mean to anyone, she meant well and made great TV! Go Rocky!

[@xerondenver]

Very good job i am agree to 💯

[@lorir5728]

She is horrible. Who stares at the ceiling like that. Eddie hooked up with fatal attraction. You know he regrets that one. He went for the crazy girl.

[@jephybean]

Very wellsaid: too bad we cannot hear Rocky's response, but she wouldn't be quiet enough to listen to it lol

[@EzMoney95]

She gave him a golden opportunity. Im figuring the line of randoms that have ran threw her beg to differ about golden

[@1hockeymom867]

Crazy, spoiled and never her fault. Rocky is the worst the little daddy’s boo boo! Grow up!

[@chrisrandall2710]

Nice analysis!

[@ryantakach1478]

need a BPD watcher channel

[@tomshea8382]

I can't believe they hired her. Narcissistic tendencies, crazy hot, camera loves her, good for drama. WHAT WERE THEY THINKING

[@TheCelchi]

I think she’s borderline personality disorder. Her behavior was soooo demonstrative of a histrionic drama queen. The most unlikeable Erwin ever. Eddie was lucky she didn’t get pregnant. Can you imagine having HER in your life with a kid she will mistreat having custody. I would get rid of her asap. Lazy scattered with a toddler mentality. And then Emile helps her!!! Too young. For her. She’s mean spirited. Rocky is someone you stay away from run away from. and nobody forced her to have sex with Eddie. She complain and complain, and then she went and had sex with him again twice when he was carrying on it was like they had this passionate real relationship when it was just a hook up I she was so immature so tiring so exhausting such a slob I mean, if I was a guy and stayed 10 feet away from her and the other one the drunk Kate, she was another one you just stay away from the too toxic to crazy to everything unstable is it’s just talk about a mess and Eli poor judgment. I think he was off the rebound with his girlfriend who cheated on him and that’s kind of what people do. I’m not excusing has poor judgment, but it seems like he was a little more reasonable.

[@lorir5728]

Omg. Eddie would lose his mind. He cheated. Then right before the reunion he cheated again with rocky at the hotel the night before. Like what is he thinking? He knew how she was. Fatal attraction. Having a kid with her would be.pure hell.

[@chillbilly2517]

S.3 E.6 It's official Rocky makes Kat look like a choir girl.

[@albionparrot5607]

Rocky is literally a conglomerate of all my exes

[@thenarcissistwatcher]

Sounds like you have a type: narcissists!

[@suziq2569]

I hope she has her flozziness under control

[@ATLballer]

ROCKY HAS MENTAL ISSUES....................PERIOD

[@Breacher1968]

She left Emile's bunk. Emile also seduced her. By the way, she left the bunk, but you don't show that. I recommend everyone to watch Season 3 in its entirety. If anyone on that boat is a narcissist is, then that's Kate ......It's a Reality TV show It's cut and paste .

[@fatimamarsden7879]

What is the name of the author you mentioned in the video? AGD Judah??

[@thenarcissistwatcher]

HG Tudor - he is a self-aware narcissistic psychopath.

[@NEKONEKOMAO]

I'd like to see a breakdown of season 7 😅 I just finished watching it and wow.

[@adrian3747_]

a mess

[@richardshook6830]

She and Eddie did the nasty .

[@andrebritz4869]

She used the cameras to her needs to get attention and looking for fame. I call that a BEACh,,,,,,,

[@LYNNEBRAY-ls6gn]

Rocky is a nut and lazy she should have been fired

[@homeslice2586]

M

[@jamessteffany9228]

Rocky is a narcissistic most definitely!! Drama, Drama, Drama, me, me, me, a user big time!!