Confronting myself.

[@cottagemommy5116]

Something I'm finding helpful lately is to not allow myself to speak unkindly to myself. If I wouldn't say it to a dear friend, I don't say it to myself. It keeps me from beating myself down and helps me to be compassionate and loving in my thoughts etc.. it does make a huge difference in how low I go.

[@dabara]

Love

[@zanewalsh1812]

I hope you are still taking care of yourself Cottage Mommy 💖✨🕊️. Your words matter; use the safe, compassionate words in your vocabulary 🙏🏼 🥰 not 🤬

[@phosphorescence]

I have a different perspective on this, but this man's advice is golden, it is for everyone. This video ties in with another that Jon recently put out, which was talking about how people don't know how to be together anymore - stuck in their own head because of the age of information - those who know a lot but can't do anything with that knowledge in terms of building any meaningful relationship. What Jon says resonates a lot with schizo's, believe it or not. What sets them apart from us is that they literally hear voices out of their own thoughts so much so that they seem audible within and outside of their mind - what Jon had done was play the true self by just watching the thoughts. This subject matter goes into weird stuff, because it later becomes spiritual as far as what these thoughts are or where they come from. But by looking at it in a basic sense - the true self is the silent one, the one who is discerning between which thoughts to entertain and which ones not to in real time - this is what Jon did by sitting back and just observing. It's basically this: It is we ourselves who have to willingly reach out, grasp, and entertain the thoughts as our own (Lust, hatred, personal gain, sacrifice for praise, entitlement whatever it may be in the moment) when we do it builds a false persona called the ego, the ego judges anything unlike itself while at the same time insists it is an individual, and when no one else is around, it turns inwards and attacks you. I used to be exactly like Jon but perhaps for different reasons - for a very very long time, many years of my life have gone away to it. I drove people away with my negativity, because those thoughts consumed my thought processes and were changing me into something I wasn't. I was contradicting my own self image in a way - that I wanted to be a man who was right and not wrong both morally and spiritually, yet a lot of my desires in life resided in wrong things and not the right ones. Pride and entitlement ensues after contradiction, a cornerstone of the ego. We all have the free will to do as our spirit wishes to do, it is the flesh that is weak and compromised. That's all, Grace and peace be to you all from God our father and our Lord Jesus Christ. 1 John 3:18

[@MrB44ever]

This is a wise man... Thank you for your words

[@fbUSMBA]

To recall the common sense found in religions, let us point out that in the Koran, we find similar recommendations. In chapter 'fussilat', we read: 'The good deed and the bad are not the same. Repel evil with what is better; and then the one with whom you had an animosity becomes like a warm friend '.

[@titodaudi8949]

Since I started to tracking you I have learnt lot of things especially in my life. You taught me to live simple and trust myself and feel happy. Life is simple Life is depending what you think. Thanks

[@HomesteadForALiving]

Depression isn’t merely a medical condition. It’s a legitimate reaction to depressing surroundings. Cities are depressing. Dead end jobs are depressing. Toxic, superficial people are depressing. Nature, and actionable steps towards a self-sufficient life will start you on the right track. An understanding and acceptance of Christ will teach you the forgiveness of yourself and others necessary for true joy.

[@briannemorna4268]

Well said. I always look for you comments on other channels I watch. Seems we have a bit in common.

[@bobfitz7886]

Amen

[@Aloewells]

With positiveness comes along negativeness. If people know and accept that, they will be happy.

[@abetgoto5499]

Congratulations Jon, you have conquered your personal demon, nice approach!

[@daddylandlord5575]

Jon is like a monk speaking. Everybody says amen and agree with him and they go back to hardworking normal life at the end.

[@homesteadingwiththeangafam2158]

Very hilarious comment.I love.

[@PlantSugar]

exactly!

[@LiLoTech]

I think we all pick up bits of wisdom that accumulate over time to improve our well being.

[@YourFrienjamin]

He is making an impression. Some change 😁

[@familyfungi]

Letting my chickens out. Growing mushrooms is my work. Planting potatoes will come soon. Walk the Way.

[@sisirajayawardene7863]

Jon Jandai is the real human who teaches us about real life tough scenarios to overcome easily .Thank you and all my best wishes.🙏🤗

[@sammyd7857]

Why you call him a monkey?

[@e75short14]

Thanks for sharing your wisdom

[@swetalahiri9491]

You are such an inspiration Jon. You are a realized soul without attaching any extra weight to you. It is so empowering to hear your voice. God bless you 🙏

[@manivannank9598]

Awesome technique explained in a simple language Jon....Kudos to you. I understood it rather than treating it as info :)

[@niacole1357]

WOW YOU ARE BEING SO VULNERABLE. I applaud you for confronting yourself and getting to the ROOT of your pain because many people don’t . You’re IN PROGRESS ..feel good about wanting change ! You have my support

[@bamtoday]

Thank you for sharing your experiences.

[@connydm729]

Thank you Jon, your story will help many people all over the wold, and me too! 🙏

[@armans4494]

I appreciate your open and honest words. I believe many will find strength from your words, like I have. Thank you and god bless

[@marymungai4429]

I hear you loud and clear Master Jon, it's real life so agitating however when one discovers themselves and improve the weakness they become strong and find joy and rest amen. God bless you for your God given wisdom

[@San-wl5tw]

Thank you so much Jon. You’re an excellent teacher and your videos have taught me so much.

[@moonpillar7795]

You are one of the most handsome men I've ever seen in my long life. I appreciate you very much.

[@anjewel65]

I thought I was the only one who thinks the same Good smooth skin n slender

[@zanewalsh1812]

@@anjewel65 and a beautiful ❤️

[@jobyjoseph2393]

I always wait every hour for your message..veru comforting..thanks a lot sir

[@D.u.d.e.r]

10:42 here where I can see game changing part... thank you for sharing these vids!

[@davidrobertson1980]

Thanks Jon, yes observation is key to stopping a lot of suffering, in fact when I have had unbearable pain in the past (I don't like drugs), I have stepped outside of my body and just observed it as an "experience OF the body" and nothing to do with me the observer, it has helped a lot to stop suffering. It's good to see you have discovered sharing the LOVE that IS the Creator is the best cure for bad feelings also - you are truly blessed discovering this yourself, kudos to you.

[@batulkhan3300]

Thanks once again, for such beautiful thoughts.......I watch you sitting on this veranda, pl show the rest of this peaceful building, and how you build it.........thanks for being you......following you from Karachi....

[@learneternal-english3417]

This is amazing man! Just to be still and know God is the most important technique in the world! He will show you all things about yourself and the world around you.

[@homesteadingwiththeangafam2158]

Beautiful comment.I am uplifted.

[@chriswong8659]

Be present with the feeling. Watch it like watching the cloud pass by.

[@jholid6y]

Amen my brother 🙏 thank you for your wise words.

[@zeenoyb]

I've had social anxiety for a long time in my life. My sister actually did too but this is the same way she learnt to get out of it. Ignore the feeling and do what you will do. It will always go away. I don't have the courage yet, quite honestly but little by little, I'm trying my best to get to a point I'm satisfied with

[@lindaj7167]

It all comes from within one's self. Feelings are inevitable, its what you do with them that matters. Finding Peace in this world is an art. Thank you for explaining it this way. I have great respect for your words.

[@homesteadingwiththeangafam2158]

Wow. Well put. Finding peace in this world is an art.

[@mfr58]

Thanks Jon, very grounding, I love you making everything fun!

[@tracykozil5029]

Thank you for the incredible lesson.

[@akhilpathak6181]

Good morning and thank you for this video .

[@GetgainzDe]

We need to unindentify with our bad emotions and realize they aren’t real

[@terryernest6264]

Great advice Jon ... accept yourself for what you are ... then regrow from there :)

[@bumlegbooks5009]

Thank you. 🙏

[@oscar86456]

Thank you so much Jon of sharing your experienced in life particularly about your feelings and emotions. What I learned now from you is about how to handle na feelings ang emotions to the person that we don’t like and how to handle and understand them. This is mostly the weakness of everyone. Your message can be compared what the holy Bible says Love your Enemy.

[@vaskarmukherjee3473]

Very well explained

[@timothylaferriere387]

Thanks for this message!

[@OQISFREE]

jon i simply love you, thanks from romania

[@niacole1357]

YOU WILL MAKE IT OUT OF THIS !

[@manoswellbeingchannel3684]

Awesome. Thank you!

[@josephinekalumba4014]

Now I have learnt to confront my feelings not running away. Running away don't solve but put more stress

[@swarajismybirthright5476]

Jon 's each video is real gold.....

[@gabrielonwukeme3239]

I call this been in the present. This is my gift for great wisdom 🎁 ENJOY, WORTHY ONE.

[@AkshathaNirmal]

What he says is choiceless awareness which was a teaching given by Buddha, jiddu krishnamurti..😊

[@dmsk2121]

Excellent

[@firdnaq2220]

Thanks for sharing your experience 😊

[@fatherwolfs1]

Self empowerment comes from the ego. Self discovery is non action and connecting with Love. Thank you for sharing 🙏🐺

[@minhhoang2974]

Thank you very much 🥰

[@channellwoods]

Wise word!

[@xqcumber1664]

I really wanna give you a hug jon. thanks

[@af.flo_]

Thank you 😊

[@felixgonzalez6466]

Love u my brotha! Thank u 🙏

[@persicetum]

I m just watching my subtle feelings of anger while these wise words get interrupted by commercials with dancing teenagers, motivational videos and other garbage. The samsara intrusion:) We can learn from it while at the same time start ti use LBRY or bitchute

[@zanewalsh1812]

Ahhhhhh... Samsara 🙏🏼✨😬🌄 Use your actions and karma/dharma to escape the wheel and keep observing your self and your insides🕊️🧘🏼‍♂️

[@dinosaur0073]

Very wise Man...

[@Free-wz2fw]

I admire you, Jon. I'd like to live like this, too. but unfortunately in Russia it is impossible to live in such houses. maybe you have any ideas about the same impregnable houses for cold countries?

[@sammyd7857]

Polystyrene sheets

[@neilwesley3516]

Thank you ! 🙏🙏

[@joblo497]

give thanks 🙏

[@rogathesarwatt]

Thank Jon

[@maka9188]

You are a real human beeing !

[@starrmeadows7033]

I think you are nice looking. I investigated why I am the way I am. I had a lot of childhood abuse. I never felt loved. Physically I am old. Mentally & emotionally I am about 8 years old. A child hides when afraid. I have PTSD. It is hard when stress shuts me down. I am physically disabled but I have plans to help others. God’s healing power will make me well soon. This long trial will be turned into a blessing. I pray for the people who want to harm me. Revenge would only hurt me.

[@rosalindarivera914]

Yes you can do it. I pray to God's grace and mercy be upon you to heal you and help you forgive those people who treated you so bad.

[@jessieboyvlogs151]

Thank you so much jonh

[@niacole1357]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@rogathesarwatt]

Hi Nia

[@naveets7894]

How can I overcome social anxiety? My master

[@laksanapornchomnanti5069]

อาจารย์ค่ะ ช่วยบอกเทคนิคหน่อยได้มั้ยค่ะเพราะว่ามีคนคนหนึ่งที่หนูไม่ชอบไม่อยากคุยด้วยไม่รู้จะทำหน้าอย่างไรเมื่อเห็นหน้าที่จะเข้าไปคุยกับเขาและเขาก็บอกคนอื่นว่าไม่ชอบหนู แต่พอฟังอาจารย์แล้วอยากจะทำแบบอาจารย์บ้างค่ะ

[@JonJandaiLifeisEasy]

ต้องใช้ความกล้ามากทีเดียวเพราะเป็นสิ่งที่เราไม่คุ้นเคย ใหม่ๆอาจจะรู้สึกลำบากใจและประดักประเดิดมาก แต่พอทำไปไม่หยุด มันจะเปลี่ยนไปเองในทางที่ดีขึ้นอย่างไม่น่าเชื่อ และเราจะไม่รู้สึกว่าต้องเสแสร้ง เราจะรู้สึกมั่นใจ เข้าใจ และรู้สึกถึงการอยู่เหนืออารมณ์อย่างชัดเจน

[@eemmtt]

🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@tasteapiana]

In Christianity it is said we've all fallen short of the Christ (Jesus - none of us are being THAT good of a person. There are similar sayings in all major religious traditions). It is also said that it is not by works, so, nothing we do is good enough. It takes time to realize that there is no destination, no one is good because their future is not played out completely, they still have the potential to do something wrong or 'evil', there is no final judgement as to whether 100% of their existence 'was' good because they haven't ended yet. Knowing this, it becomes clear that it can only be about a trajectory; have you gotten back up after being knocked down? Have you proven to be the kind of person who learns from mistakes, who struggles to get better, think better, do you really want a better world and life? It's about having a tendency to average toward improvement. Remember, there is no destination. This earth will never roll up onto a beach and we all get off and say ''We've arrived!''. It is endless, start acting like it and stop thinking about end results because there are none. You are not ugly, someone out there thinks you are beautiful and if your trajectory tends upward - more people will see you as beautiful. The happiest time for the angels is said to be when they finally get to say ''Time is no more''. Think about what that means to all of us - no more clocks telling you you're late or that you have to be at X place to save X person or make X thing, laziness and procrastination can't exist in a timeless environment and THAT is more important than things not getting done or made because we've dropped all of our worthless expectations of what value 'can be'. We know what we need but we confuse ourselves with how to get it when we don't realize we already have it. We have ALL fallen short but we, who are not done yet, can still build a better trajectory. If you can't run, walk, if you can't walk, crawl. Crawling is one of the best physical activities ever discovered, it's not just for babies. If you are physically disabled use this as a metaphor for mentally and emotionally crawling. Stay moving, be like nature, don't stop. That crazy stuff that happens out there just happens, THEN we think about it. It would have happened whether we noticed it or not, we have no option but to let it and do what we can. And, once you do something positive, if only in word, others will then say ''That positive thing out there happened, THEN I thought about it''. You can choose to be beautiful and it will be so.

[@dilipkushwah8266]

Good

[@Terms-and-Conditions]

thanks

[@boojum1769]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/i3iqh6xqh9CIqZI Travel like a king, listen to the inner voice A higher wisdom is at work for you Conquering the stumbling blocks, come easier When the conqueror is in tune with the infinite Every ending is a new beginning Life is an endless unfoldment Change your mind and you change Your relation to time You can find the answer The solution lies within the problem The answer is in every question, dig it An attitude is all you need to rise and walk away Inspire yourself, your life is yours It fits you like your skin The oak sleeps in the acorn The giant sequoia tree sleeps in its tiny seed The bird waits in the egg God waits for his unfoldment in man Fly on, children, play on You gravitate to that which you secretly love most You meet in life the exact reproduction of your own thoughts There is no chance, coincidence or accident In a world ruled by law and divine order You rise as high as your dominant aspiration You descend to the level of your lowest concept of yourself Free your mind and your ass will follow The infinite intelligence within you knows the answers Its nature is to respond to your thoughts Be careful of the thought seeds you plant in the garden of your mind For seeds grow after their kind Play on, children Every thought felt as true Or allowed to be accepted as true by your conscious mind Take roots in your subconscious Blossoms sooner or later into an act and bears its own fruit Good thoughts bring forth good fruit Bullshit thoughts rot your meat Think right and you can fly The kingdom of heaven is within Free your mind and your ass will follow Play on, children Sing on, lady, yeah

[@vr3216]

Jon pl make videos on how to do mindful meditation i am trying many years no progress what is going wrong

[@missmatchcambodia7399]

Hello It is nice to know you here I would like to build an earthen building that look exactly like Ox Cart shape Do you know any of your friends or people who want to live as your life is living ? Please ask them to come and help building my dream house with me in Siem Reap Province, Angkor Wat, the Kingdom of Cambodia!

[@TheNutriarat]

Love the content, BUT....Way to many ads. Hard to listen to someone and grasp the meaning when constantly interrupted by so so many ads. Please do away with at least 50% of them. Ruins the experience.

[@torrecampo411]

1st

[@EURASIAPLUS]

Thanks for sharing your wisdom