Confuse Them With Your Silence!

[@dailyMOTIVATIONcontact]

If I could I would always work in silence and obscurity, and let my efforts be known by their results. Silence is sometimes the best answer. Silence is the ultimate weapon of power. Silence is better than unmeaning words. HAVE A GREAT AND INSPIRING DAY!

[@GhostlyRaoh86]

Thankyou.

[@wisdom_hunter9036]

💯

[@naomitamar8185]

Thank you...it is not what we say it is what we do....😉😉😉😉

[@markbrown8023]

yes let them see with your actions instead of talking to convince them.

[@healinghands8977]

🤐👍🏻

[@theadrenalizedartist6843]

“You don’t need to tell people who you are. Let them find out...” I love that.

[@staircasechicken8811]

Yeah I’m sure it works like that sometimes, but in my experience people aren’t that interested in exerting effort to “find out” and you’re just left lonely.

[@bard1250]

depending on how long that takes you could miss out on immediate opportunities.

[@patrickvanhamel1826]

Yes ! Great advice!: I also learn from a former boss " in meetings be the last to speak"

[@shannonsmith7201]

Has nothing to do with lonley

[@Viraj_Sapkal]

@@staircasechicken8811 I had experienced the same.

[@viviancarter1361]

"The most dangerous person is the one who listens, thinks and observes" - Bruce Lee

[@tobe3906]

@Bill of Rights i'm also for trump but why are you on this video with it? a bit inappropriate maybe? possibly need to find your audience within the debates

[@chrispbacon7568]

Vivian Carter the most dangerous person is the one trying to prove they’re a dangerous person

[@bjbaratti1]

Vivian Carter "You BETCHA" 😗😉🙃

[@viviancarter1361]

@@chrispbacon7568 I think what Bruce Lee meant by that is, the stillness, dominance and mystery of silence is a powerful weapon in itself cause no one can predict you, figure you out or fathom how you move, think or live e.g look at the beauty, magnificence and dominance of snakes (especially the anaconda) and crocodiles cause they don't bark or howl, but when they appear, you know its game over.

[@kennedykiser557]

Well, it would appear he wasn't very dangerous.

[@relvoself]

Silence isn't a weakness. Knowing when to speak and when to listen is one of the gold keys to success.

[@daily.motivation4728]

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[@daily.motivation4728]

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[@ahhwe-any7434]

Me in real life vs me in yt comments. I'm not stuck up. I just dont dig your vibes. I'm nice, truly. I'm just not that damn nice...

[@ishanjain3406]

So true

[@ms.maestra6719]

Exactly!

[@evelynnguyen1041]

When you stop learning , you get left behind . Never stop educating yourself

[@eduardomarquee551]

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[@jessicaallen6874]

@Tran Nguyen NOBODY BECOMES A MILLIONAIRE OR BILLIONAIRE BY WORKING FOR OTHERS AND DEPENDING ON THEM, GOOD INVESTMENT BRINGS MILLIONS OF DOLLARS AND CONSISTENCY BRINGS BILLIONS. THE MARKET IS ALL ABOUT CRYPTO NOW YOU MIGHT WANT TO LOOK INTO IT

[@annienolen8175]

@@jessicaallen6874 True, there is never any culture of wealth gathering or wealth creation to keep multiplying your finance that lack an investment value. This means, if you have to plan you must be an investor. that's why Investing in crypto stands to be the best

[@antoniohandel8332]

@@annienolen8175 The only credible law of increase is investment because money not invested has no future. I make huge profits on my investment since i started trading fx with Mr Kelvin Maorgan, his trading strategies are top notch.

[@clintfletcher3507]

@Tran Nguyen It is the planning you put into today that will yield the dividends of prosperity for you tomorrow.

[@chalaw5150]

" Silence is the best response to a fool " this is so true.

[@mariannakrejniuk6858]

True

[@cherylthompson2731]

A problem I've had my whole life. Anxiety makes me chatty.

[@lulalivre8599]

A suspect silent in the face of an accusation has tacitly ADMITTLY the crime!!

[@silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892]

WHEN you are 100% sure you are a Queen! Otherwise, the other person may assume you're just an up your own ass snob, who doesn't see you fit to be talked to! Fact.

[@Harp_and_Guitar_Moving_Forward]

.....

[@MadaraUchiha-ly8wr]

Silence is a lot more powerful when it's backed up by knowledge.

[@jessxj5521]

Yes

[@lunaticonthegrass4258]

yes but that depends on age also

[@neilharveycadungog7852]

So true dude! To easily counteract on those toxic people around you....

[@alyssapersaud1011]

Agreed

[@mirzaatif]

i thought knowledge is the product of silence.. Oh!!!

[@osse1n]

Sometimes, silence is more telling than words. Often times, the loudest person is the weakest person.

[@voices4dayz469]

I feel like I'm riding the ripples of your motivation, also love your display picture, it speaks volumes with *SILENCE* 😎

[@luismorales4617]

I can introduce some ones ...

[@unapologeticallynikki508]

FAAAACCCTZ

[@Lamtech9LamingtonSteel]

You’re everywhere man lol 😂 searching for knowledge like minded

[@AliceInPayne]

Robin K. Nah.... A man or a woman who still needs God is the weakest.

[@lukeskywalker7107]

When you see a person who is often silent and avoids people stay close to him, because he has been given wisdom !

[@krissmith4420]

true

[@spmoran4703]

And is possibly enlightened .

[@alonsoquirosgranados7568]

​@@spmoran4703just as you you wise person :)

[@hibiscushoney3759]

Lol be careful. Can be two different types. 1. The type you speak of I agree. The other is a dismissive avoidant. Those same traits they weaponize.

[@woman290]

@@hibiscushoney3759 You are absolutely right. My ex often silent, avoided people, and finally turned out to be a very dangerous covert narcissist. Why dangerous because very difficult to spot, plotting things in advance, is envious, badmouthing gently behind people's backs etc... - his clowny overt counterpart is a joke person next to him.

[@anjuajesh1014]

"Confuse them with your silence and amaze them with your actions"...

[@MrsFearEstate]

I love this

[@lynnlou4547]

Confuse them with your death stare followed by amaze them with your farts

[@sophiaedukon6275]

Right

[@jamesrenfield2722]

"Work hard in silence, let your actions be your noise" -James Renfield

[@himanshukukreti3176]

That's what she said 😂

[@anjek3493]

not actions but success

[@srijucholleti7850]

Absolutely true

[@Abrahamic.Design]

For some reason, I'm finding that this quote should actually be attributed to Frank Ocean.

[@soba9929]

"Work hard in silence and let your success make the noise"

[@markwhittaker6866]

PREACH! That should be on a T-shirt.

[@Rise_and_Shine47]

True indeed

[@traceylennon1204]

That's what I like..great advice!!!

[@jackassfat]

not necessarily...so many people just "work so hard" but they never get the "top" result".... you are wondering why???? don't be shy ask me...

[@jackassfat]

@@alphacool7967 well if you fart then you are NOT any more silent!!! which is a good habit to get noticed!!!

[@HARSH-pl9wc]

"Silence is the best response to a fool " this line helped me a lot in my life.

[@therryandpaol3430]

Same Brotha

[@abribobable]

I Learn from the comments before I listen the video clip advice thanks 4 ur pure experience.

[@resilententity470]

don't cast pearls before Swine !

[@spmoran4703]

Yes, it's true .

[@educationthinking306]

It's true that said

[@corinelafont8659]

James 1: 19 Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to anger

[@junebermingham9300]

Well said Corine!! ☘️☘️

[@corinelafont8659]

@@junebermingham9300 Thank you!

[@tobe3906]

unless they're a liar. then be quick to walk away.

[@junebermingham9300]

@@tobe3906 Another good theory! ☘️☘️

[@northcountryhermit5057]

@@corinelafont8659 well ...YOU didn't actually say that, now...did you? ;)

[@ebinek8206]

"Confuse with your silence and shock them with your results."💪

[@MiriamH-l6d]

Amen 🙏

[@lanierosemangoda1792]

Applying this right now.... 💪

[@shadyabrown-hall5955]

Love this 👏

[@bettyvick5184]

I am living this right now

[@thatoneguyinthetunic]

Absolutely

[@willrobinson3781]

When I was just a boy , a wise man told me, "don't tell them everything you know."

[@daily.motivation4728]

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[@daily.motivation4728]

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[@daily.motivation4728]

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[@sandracampbell8377]

Amen

[@leedan9887]

That is so true

[@Cris-Video-7]

"Silence is the best response to a fool" 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@AsifShoukatMotivation...]

Ha ha ha. This is good

[@fredrickgray3472]

AMEN 😂HALLELUJAH

[@santanalawrence4448]

Amen 🙏🙏

[@charleswest6372]

Yes. The world is full of fools. DC especially.

[@SubscribersChallenge-vz8bj]

❤️ *_Whoever is reading this, I hope that one day you reach your dreams._* ❤️

[@safiahwhyte343]

Soon will 🛐💛

[@tahermohammed8484]

❤️

[@ramanishyam9140]

Thank you and wish you the same.

[@mariasartzis-pellicier1723]

Thank you! I am slowly getting there! I finally got the courage. Thank God it ONLY took 11 months!

[@superwomanprince2206]

Thanks, I wish you the same

[@syulette]

2020... i'll be more quiet, minding my own business & be happier.

[@KimWolfTV]

Me too

[@youniverseandeye]

syulette come back here February 2020

[@fasilabebe9105]

Good luck!

[@sohamsane3999]

Why wait for 2weeks bruh

[@friendoffriend8985]

syulette do it now

[@chenydeniz3594]

“When you build in silence. People don’t know what to attack”

[@algorgervais1141]

Cheny Deniz 👌✍️

[@njn2704]

Yeah true,angry people will try to catch silly reasons to scold and to get know our character.lol 😂😂😂

[@mariannakrejniuk6858]

Right

[@whitedove4902]

Bravo 👍⚘

[@emmvee6401]

Cheny Deniz truth

[@laclikamala72]

Exactly why I stay away from social media. I dont need to let anyone know my everyday moves. I move in silence.

[@mohidulhaquechy]

Silence is symbol of wise person.

[@ramanaraoa5409]

A stupid also (you can notice them dumb).

[@rainrush3484]

Or an abusive one😟

[@Ballerism]

@@ramanaraoa5409 I could say the same about a consistently vocal person.

[@ramanaraoa5409]

@@Ballerism true Sir. Silence is God. Butterflies (silent creatures) are considered as Gods representative.

[@GODBLESSED2959]

Yes.

[@Gracefulw.o.r.d.s]

To the person who is struggling to be their greatest version, this year will still end well for you.

[@Tyegnass]

Thank You. I believe this. 💪🏼

[@lilkr8844]

Me too

[@missyabz9656]

I believe it

[@matthewbedell6464]

Amen!

[@dontbelieveeverythingyouth8173]

As long as you are trying to better yourself and those around you, you are learning and you are using your spirit for truth, everyone makes mistakes,few understand that they made them.

[@masterjif9506]

The millionaire process: “When you build in silence. People don’t know what to attack”

[@zinniahardy8887]

MasterJif *word*

[@abeltorres7067]

Palabra

[@fashionablylate888]

MasterJif they can’t stop, what they can’t see 🙌🏽

[@choosetoshine2610]

Amen

[@purplekitkatemily]

@Bill of Rights LMAO I didnt get your comment until now 😂

[@honeylove0428]

If you are reading this, please know that you are in control of you life. And through silence may you gain strength, peace, wisdom and become closer to your inner self. I am grateful for everyone that reads this.

[@ritanpande1590]

Thanks for sharing this valuable thought. Again thanks from bottom of my heart.

[@catinawaller1390]

🙏🏽

[@gracewelschemeyer665]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@aswandean6819]

Amen

[@jerrandorose5443]

🙏

[@MrBeautiful2908]

When you win, say nothing. When you lose, say less. -Paul Brown

[@airlebron7467]

So true

[@sarahlisawall5666]

saying this for years

[@_Ursula_]

Wow soo true! Txs. Greetings from Austria.

[@RockDove5212]

" Set a guard upon my mouth Oh Lord, Keep watch over the door of my lips" Psalm 141. Use for Good

[@john-rodgerclaycountychron7071]

Thank you 🙏 for sharing that

[@edithmfletcher6515]

That's a very good scripture thank you🙏

[@soniakiran875]

Scriptures had the answer. Thank you for the verse.

[@iamthatiam4637]

The lord talk about the toung and the mouth. That its not good and to watch it and that it is very powerful.

[@ArmaniThomas7]

amen !

[@karlcorrz]

The more you speak, the less control you have over yourself

[@silencecn5146]

We a saying in France : "you are always the master of what you never said". Btw, who called me here ? :)

[@debc9032]

Sounds like insecurity

[@debc9032]

Sounds like insecurity

[@debc9032]

@@silencecn5146 obscurity

[@silencecn5146]

@@debc9032 no: just means anybody can't reproach you what you said. Keep silent and people will try to find out who you are. (sorry am french: my english may not be th ebest)

[@AmbientDreamEscapes]

I've been confusing them with my silence for over a decade now, I can confirm it works 🤣

[@ChristopherWilliams-k2j]

Lmfao

[@imacurrie2697]

Keep it up man🎉😅.

[@ronaldcaliva5004]

People who are silent are hard to figure out what's on their minds and it sometimes intimides people around them

[@tashW7092]

I agree with your point.

[@josh3221ify]

That's why silence is powerful.

[@tutubevan932]

If someone to much silence stay your room don't meet people

[@sinegugunyathi1312]

True👍🇿🇦

[@lovememe7524]

Yes💯

[@bigballer1399]

Proverbs 17:28 Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.

[@CIOZimbabwe]

Amen wisdom on silence from the one and only word of the most High God!

[@adammoore1075]

Sometimes, a silent response is the strongest response.

[@mariannakrejniuk6858]

Yes

[@Ray2311us]

Its when you become stupid enough to believe maybe it was a mistake or if it wasn’t them, that makes you want to confront them about it. But then you realize they aren’t your friends. Thats the problem.

[@_iam1533]

Not in a relationship though. That would be abuse.

[@soutchaiphachoumphone2870]

Not if they can read your thoughts. Then it's meaningless

[@ReggieCelestin]

Soutchai Phachoumphone that’s just stupid nobody on this planet earth can

[@helenarisa4828]

Give them the silence treatment regardless what is thrown in your direction

[@ErikaK]

Actions are more valid than words, sometimes it's not necessary to say anything, focus on yourself, on your own development, your own path. Choose to let go of what no longer serves and live your best life :) Don't forget how blessed you are !!!

[@sourav3199]

Yes! Often ..

[@unapologeticallynikki508]

I NEEDED THAT💌💌💌THANK U!!!!

[@ericwinston9121]

That part!

[@NoBody-xx6ii]

Facts

[@blackhunk2265]

Through meditation, vipassana we can become talker when required.

[@HornetADP]

This is the way I have been living my life for about 15 years and let me tell you from experience, that this can be toxic. It is true that if you never dance, noone will laugh at your moves, but also you will NEVER LEARN TO DANCE! The mastery is knowing when to stay silent and when to speak (i belive this is what this video is about)

[@suraiahbanu7601]

I agree with you

[@denah5649]

I think it's more about putting your head down and doing the work rather than literally being silent/not standing up for yourself.

[@WR-mg3qf]

💯

[@bdancestars]

100% legit. Balance is key

[@shirin8609]

I don't think that's what this video is advocating.

[@DD-ue3cy]

I’m usually a quiet person and non reactive to most things, lately I’ve been running my mouth a little too much to family and certain friends because I felt like I could trust them and of course those same people started using my words against me and talking behind my back. I let it get to me, my self esteem lowered, and my grades started suffering. Now, I’ve distant myself from them and started working on things that I want/need to do. I’ve found God and my peace of mind is coming back and I’m slowly getting confident again. GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE AND BE STRONG !!

[@sissyj9463]

@ DD I understand what you feel, because it is a little bit the same of my story. I am a loner. I share my story because it's part of our lessons in our class. I wish I did not share my family's stories too they are not bad bad. Anyway , I will never be near to those people again. I distance myself too. I cried silently of what they've done to me they were rude and blunt . I learned my lessons. I wish you may have a wonderful day. God Bless.

[@venuzfloria6316]

I feel you, They even called me I have my own world. I don’t mind them all, I’m living my life without hurting anyone. I strongly believe that god is with me.❤️❤️❤️ yes! I cried alone.

[@clairechloe5294]

D D - well said. I had a similar experience with family. It is best to keep to yourself and maintain longterm PEACE. I wish you lots of success! Thanks for sharing your feelings with us. I was able to relate to you.

[@rhythm2024]

This is what i have been dealing with off late...got some family and friends issue. I can' t trust my friends anymore and my family doesn't understand me...i have been that ignored child so things are not going well...but have my goals with me..the only thing which makes me believe that i will see the bright side of life one day.

[@randyenora5976]

Its quite the same for me.some are really hypocrite and selfish toward me.i talked to them only once and leave them to themselves.i mind my own things and when they talked about things i always speak wise.sometime they got surprise how i know lot of thing when they actually think that it is an idiot sitting around.Silent people shine at the right time

[@glenbateman5960]

"The first sign of Wisdom is understanding why we have one mouth that can be closed and two ears that can't." - A.D. Wallace

[@Namshu7]

A dumb person :- 🤐

[@AsifShoukatMotivation...]

Love this line

[@ASMR-XI-ZUI]

Absolutely spot on

[@Abdillahimoos-c2u]

100%

[@princessjobe7097]

sometimes silence is the best answers when dealing with angry people.

[@biancafishburn7342]

*always...

[@roberthboyd6073]

princess jobe I agree ☝️

[@roberthboyd6073]

Have you noticed that the words silent and listen have the same letters 😃 👂 I like this time to communicate

[@cheriechantele1753]

@@roberthboyd6073 wow that's a great observation. Nobody has really ever pointed that out to my knowledge. 😁

[@joemelmanlapas3873]

@@cheriechantele1753 hahaha that's right

[@Thedmknation]

Stay silent & distant to keep their negativity away from you, and your peace in you.

[@nagasanmaryjoyc.7569]

I needed to hear this thank you.

[@annatl9141]

How about if you do that yet they come for you?

[@Thedmknation]

@@annatl9141 sadly people always want to speak to the silent person. You'll just have to run lol if they come for you.

[@annatl9141]

@@Thedmknation It's not so easy sometimes. How I wish they'd leave me alone.

[@daily.motivation4728]

I RECOMMEND YOU TO ANDERSON, WRITE TO HIM TO GUIDE YOU IN CRYPTO OR STOCK.

[@NaturalDivineGoddess]

*"Your SILENCE DISRUPTS their CONFIDENCE!! IT BREAKS their FLOW OF THOUGHT regarding you."* 💕💕

[@neilmarks833]

So true

[@psychictruth5037]

👏

[@brendadrumm9708]

Spot on x

[@kimhawyoung2910]

Yup👏👏

[@oliverkibet4269]

Came to realize there is power in silence. It's a very good feeling when no one knows anything about you. They won't have anything about you to attack. Just keep them guessing and being afraid while you focus on your goals.

[@Stephen_Jabs]

That's why silence is powerful,I use it against my enemies...

[@sowhat616]

@Steven jabs I use my silence against my co workers

[@bubbagray8433]

@@sowhat616 I use it against my family it works

[@sowhat616]

@@bubbagray8433 how can you do your own blood like that I have no respect for you I would never do that too my own Blood

[@xHESENBERGx]

@@catdragonj what was your experience mate?

[@toxtethtruth3914]

I do know where your coming from,But if dealing with violent psychopaths,silence can be a lifesaver.

[@erichill612]

I've learned that people dislike being ignored.

[@traceylennon1204]

OMG particularly narcissistic people! @Eric Hill

[@jorgemayorga9263]

People seem to be seeking attention more and more nowadays

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

@@RyzeVirtualNatureNHiking I despise people like this, who are aware you don't like them, but continue on their sadistic quest to speak anyway. Sounds like a psychopath, because they take delight in doing things that irritate people who hate them. This is harassment, but since you are in a work environment, there's nothing much to stop it. I have a neighbor who would do this, and I ignored him, but he took it a step further, by raising his voice with profanities. Well, I reported him and viewed it as harassment and threatening, and he stopped, but replaced it with reckless eyeballing. I guess there's nothing I can do about that and have to settle with it. It's like having two choices of poisons to select from, and you have to choose one over the other one, but not satisfied with either. He knew in advance that I wanted no contact with him, but chose to do it anyway. What they fail to realize is that, if you talk to someone knowing they don't want to talk to you, it's a violation of personal space. This constitutes harassment, because they are intentionally doing it, knowing it can lead to conflict. Also, they assume since it's not physical, it isn't harmful because they didn't lay a hand on you. This is BS because it causes emotional distress and psychological problems when you are unable to control the situation. In lame terms, it is bullying.

[@daddyscrapes]

Eric Hill ikr

[@jessicacorrea7221]

It's TRUE! I have learned it with my spouce I usually ignore unwanted arguments or any further conflict it is true. I have used it in a positive way i think it helps others to meditate on their behavior and why they get ignored. So they can understand how toxic they can be at times.

[@dahahussein3107]

"A fish with his mouth closed never gets caught."

[@pourad]

Yes, but also he never gets to eat.

[@anthonybietsch8121]

There more ways to catch fish 🤣

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[@JAYSPLASHMUSIC]

@@pourad " The grass is greener on the other side" you: " Well my grass is brown .I live in Arizona "

[@williamharris8663]

Love them wise words.

[@superman842]

Silence is key to move on with out creating enemies around your self

[@MikeCoxlongg]

If you dont understand my silence, you will not understand my words... 💯💯💯

[@harpharpharpharp1971]

Bollocks.

[@ASMR-XI-ZUI]

These days nasty ppl gossip too much n upset every1. Trollz r rampant on internet n bully ppl n they need to silenced. Silence truly is Golden.

[@TeshaLov]

💯 💯 💯 Period

[@SLtraveller98]

1% people who are reading this,may you become a millionaire oneday

[@tbjoshua3039]

CAN SEE CHAINS BROKEN!“In your business, finances, marriage - it is well! In your finances, career, marriage, family - be free, in the name of Jesus! Whatever chain satan might have used to connect you to himself - chain of affliction, chain of hardship, chain of poverty - be broken, in the name of Jesus! I can see chains broken, in the name of Jesus! I can see chains of affliction broken! I can see chains of hardship broken! I can see chains of hardship broken! I can see chains of COVID-19 broken, in the name of Jesus Christ! I can see chains of career failure, I can see chains of financial failure, I can see chains of curses - generational curses - I can see chains broken, in the name of Jesus!” - TB Joshua my official number ( 2349051816198)📿📿@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@

[@sheillahkhaemba5233]

Silence is the best medicine

[@tammysalum5475]

Thank you,same to you

[@alandamarieking3048]

In Jesus wonderful name I'm the lender now the borrower, head not the tail. Be blessed

[@riseabove7233]

Amen glory to God

[@robertowilliams6354]

don't waste words on people who deserve your silence. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all

[@aadityathukral5165]

That's true, silence is sometimes the most powerful tool one can use in some situations. But don't keep silence when required to speak up.

[@christinamitrovich7554]

Aaditya Thukral sometimes we need to speak up. So it’s trial and error. It also boils down to the people we are around. The right people will be happy to have a conversation with us.

[@grrrbrrr7347]

A wise person speaks because he has something to say. A foolish one speaks because he has to say something.

[@bottlesqill6234]

👏🏻

[@Zimboprenuer]

Wow

[@jirahjashmiermacalino7556]

That’s a tumblr quote

[@jshanker2005]

You Mr, Ms or Mrs Breur Bernal, are a philosopher and a thinker.

[@breakthroughmoment1647]

Greur Bernal Plato

[@megangodfrey9829]

When I was with my narcissistic verbally abusive ex, I learn very quickly, my silence was the best answer, there’s no arguing with someone who “ knows he’s right,” regardless of what I say. I could prove him wrong with facts and data but he denied the evidence. Unfortunately I still have to deal with him sometimes as we have 2 kids together, I choose if and when I want to speak to him. He still tries to abuse me with threats, shouting etc, I hang up and tell him calmly, when you’re in a better mood to talk to me, I’ll talk to you then, I hang up, as I’ve taken back control, he will continue to call me so I switch phone of, I have a brain tumour, been to Queens hospital in London to try and remove it, countless hospital appointments! According to him I don’t have a brain tumour, it’s hormone inbalance!!!!! When he left I felt a weight lifted off my shoulders I could breath again, taken me 5 years to accept what has happened to me, find peace in myself and become me again, I’m happier than I’ve been in the last 20 years, life’s good, I can handle anything life throws at me, I’m stronger, taken back control of my life,

[@nitequeen81357]

Your life is going to continue to flourish!😍

[@harmonyforall2335]

Good for you

[@nataliezaf]

Amazing, well done you. takes people years to realise they can only combat their crazy ex/partners through non-combat. I salute you. Can I please screen shot this? For private use for a deae friend who needs to hear it? Absolutely fine to not respond I'll assume no. I wish you all the luck with your brain tumor you sound like you're in the most positive fantastic place - more silent power to you 🙌🕉️

[@manowode6286]

God bless you! Be well! Peace and love!

[@hamdaladan8223]

Wish you all the best in life dear 😢😍💯❤️

[@papapapaya2452]

I’ve been practicing this. Dream big with one step at a time and gradually get there. Some family members and friends don’t know what’s on my mind. I keep being silent and resilient regardless what they say about me. And by the way, ignoring any toxic relationship will help you sleep peacefully at night.

[@KinA-zd4sm]

"silence is the best response to a fool"

[@paulcooper5748]

That should be on stickers and tshirts.👍👏

[@Biniyam3832]

The fool needs worthy answer and that is forgeting

[@edith324]

The wise one hears the wisdom from above while the foolish ones turns away such knowledge Silence is the element in which great things fashion them selves. Amen

[@ricoohio3809]

💯

[@ahhwe-any7434]

Actually i went off on a bitch today. Shes that misery loves co type, always trying to boss ppl around when she has no room to. Shes rude af, just plain mean. Tries to bully ppl and tries to act hotter than not. Petty and childish. But yeah, so, i went off on her & management didnt care at all. Then there was other co workers that were like i cant stand her either. Her tag along meanie bestie was smiling, i think. Not smirky type, just a gah, i cant stand her either.. .anywho, if u wanna try me, try me. Youre not gonna like it. I will fn snap you into half like the damn twig you are. Jk, but i know it wouldnt be sh to tho. Its just not worth it. :D Thats what they said. Sometimes ppl only know how to speak in drama. Bc being nice and or calm isnt good enough for them...

[@andressa9074]

The secret is to balance it: know when to talk, and know when to observe.

[@use828]

Exactly 👍

[@coreyizsupafly]

Yessir

[@otvisuals9756]

exactly, communication is key

[@mickeyguide3112]

true...actually you should talk very little and in the right exact time, of course no one can succeed at this every single time cause of our emotions but staying calm is the key, no matter what happens. By doing that you'll start to see and get better at this, when to talk so your words are carefully thought attacks back...to silence viceversa other people around you ;). When other people try to get you off the balance, don't talk, stay calm, even if your emotions are running wild inside you...and just smile with a soft grin back, that really pisses insecure people off ;) Now I talked too much...again lol

[@weinklent5082]

True. Wisen up

[@jasonrogers9013]

I have some friends who tell I've change. I just got tired of talking without saying much. So I keep to myself and don't say much, unless I really have something to say. I found that by doing this. I'm more at peace, less stressed. The feeling is amazing.

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Agreed

[@charmainegibbon9273]

Worst is people who wants to cumminicate details of their life in a phone conversation people speaking non stop are mindless a mindful perspn speaks with his eyes and in silence

[@brentlysams3966]

Your right and ill do it everyday in the office and found out im at peace and not so stressed but i realize that im not happy anymore with my job and office environment too boring. Right now im so confused and want to resign but i dont have savings and i dont know what my gonna happen.. this silence makes me realize this things... :(

[@charmainegibbon9273]

@@brentlysams3966 silence is golden it speaks a thousand wise words makes u think doesnt it

[@brentlysams3966]

Charmaine Gibbon thank you for your advice :) im hoping that one day my silence will answer all my questions in time.

[@mariankeller5852]

Silence is powerful..it gives your enemies the opportunity to prove who they really are...

[@robertgainz4221]

“A truly wise person uses few words; ... Even fools are thought wise when they keep silent; with their mouths shut, they seem intelligent.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭17:27-28‬ ‭NLT‬‬

[@ballistic2513]

(Proverbs 10 : 6) - A rode for the neck of the fool. why should you kill fools? they are humans too

[@annushash]

As long as the desire to be silent doesn’t stem from the fear of being watched / judged , that’s fine. Knowing when to speak up is equally important as well

[@Peendee]

anitha shashank I love your point... silence as a result of discipline or strength is power. But silence out of feeling less worthy is death.

[@Peendee]

Well said

[@annushash]

@@Peendee Thank you !

[@virginiasouth3704]

This was my only intent. However...lost in abandon.

[@MetinKing199]

woman are not allowd to spek at ol in me country hahahaahahahha nice joke jokker

[@greyheart3001]

"He who speaks does not know. He who knows does not speak." -Lao Tzu

[@naitsirhcmolod3045]

That's true,

[@mahimadua6349]

True

[@thegoodshoes2899]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@beyeseparateswe3425]

That's so true

[@j606ywt]

Well, he'd be shit on Who Wants To Be A Millionaire.

[@RiccH8888]

"SILENCE IS GOLDEN!"

[@LorenRyburn-hx8gi]

My thoughts are to us together

[@Movieclips_101]

Facts 💯

[@kaeyravelez]

I really needed to hear this. I'm trying to grow as a person and I tend to speak to soon. Very much hurting myself in the process

[@franparker4130]

me too,,,,

[@hlengiwemasondo2858]

Me too

[@brittanyguyton3987]

I understand out of excitement when want to tell other people things, but you got to keep to yourself. They'll know your goals when they are accomplished. Remember, you owe no one an explannation.

[@StephHarris410]

Everything happens with time just trust the process.

[@denniskarnes8680]

I've always noticed that those who talk the most, have nothing to say.

[@user-mk6nc1wm5q]

Those who say much say nothing, Those who say nothing says Everything

[@loladedelano7481]

Dennis Karnes wow!

[@RuboXing]

R the most unfocfident

[@foreveritis4128]

Lucky if they got cha

[@dougmcguire3159]

Typically true

[@Ayd2222]

The most dangerous person in the room is the quietest person in the room!

[@jamesmitchell3496]

YOU. ARE. CORRECT THEY. ARE A DANGER. TO THEMSELVES

[@harrisc8101]

Huh? What? How do you come up with that idea? What evidence have you used to draw such a conclusion?

[@harrisc8101]

@@Vengeance627 A singular instance? Got any more evidence? Shall we condemn all those pesky quiet folks because of a single instance. Sounds like American fallacious thinking to me...

[@Vengeance627]

@@harrisc8101 dude it's a joke lighten up

[@harrisc8101]

@@Vengeance627 word

[@madrazz8888]

"Loose lips sink ships." I think that counts for your own ship as well.

[@levonmarks4509]

After someone slanders you : Silence is good. Silence with a kind smile of love is divine.

[@bigdaddyalex17]

LET GOT DO THE justice is best, rather than trying to fix anything with a toxic person, if they slandered then they are nasty and non authentic so dont bother.

[@OnderHassan]

Silence with a punch to the face is golden.

[@serjohn56]

This is perfect message for someone who struggles of gaining respect and be valued by the people whom he wishes would do it. Thank you.

[@kiloocal8763]

@@catdragonj Then, they don't know "how" to be silent. The goal is not to be silent, but to know when to speak.

[@robert4you]

@@catdragonj On the contrary, respect and silence goes hand in hand... A fool is known by his speech; and a wise man by silence.

[@lupitasilva6220]

There has been a few times where I've shared ideas with those closed around me that have negatively impacted my ideas. Even your loved ones around you can harm your plans since they dont see the path you're seeing. They mean no harm but lack the vision. I have learned silence is the best way. Thanks for this reminder. Have a blessed day all!💞

[@nilimak_ddesignerme]

thats really nice you said...

[@traceylennon1204]

FACTS!!! @Lupe Silva

[@traceylennon1204]

Oooohooohoo good one!!! @Danh Duong

[@angelar.washington4567]

Wow!! Great reminder! Grandmother always said that “it is better to be considered a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt”. This reminded me of her. I loved that the speaker said, “let them seek your voice”.

[@MarvinDanny-to4yj]

Hello how are you doing...😊🥰👋

[@vin0720]

Be worried when a person who talks much becomes silent and when a quiet person talks much. 😊

[@paige172]

What do you mean by that?

[@BREVIE]

Because once a talkative person became silent.... He or she is done...

[@fecklessmovies]

Chris Watts is a prime example of why you should be worried when a quiet person talks too much!

[@charmainegibbon9273]

Makes u think doesnt it😈to be or not to be

[@arrow1042]

@@fecklessmovies neighbor Nate to the rescue 😂

[@poulomi__hari]

They say, "Silence makes the loudest sound!"

[@mcmacshalfilya]

🗣 ( ).

[@angelanath7875]

Also the reverse also true...the empty vessels makes the loudest noise..

[@jfregia8070]

Silence is deafening.

[@Squids45]

Nothing screams louder than the sound of silence!

[@WalkaboutBridge]

So many good ones here in this comment thread but the one is for me. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@incognito7479]

I’ve recently started a long distant letter conversation with my estranged father. Receiving a negative reply got my blood boiling. This motivaton vid was exactly what I needed. Thank God.

[@pibly674]

“You have a goal better than the circumstance around you.”

[@annatl9141]

On God 🙏

[@evinurullita5033]

Thank You. Lol.

[@mmommo10]

love that

[@Heartfalcon]

Two things show weakness in a person : To be silent when it’s proper to speak & To speak when it’s proper to be silent !

[@jasonrudolph491]

Nawaz Raja Agreed! The wisdom comes in knowing the difference! In my experience most people error on the side of talking too much and for the wrong reasons cited on this video. To me- speak when it can truly can make a real difference. The problem is that increasingly in today’s society most people don’t want to truly listen. They either want to talk over you, dismiss you outright or pretend to listen just to get your arguments out of the way so that then they can tell how it really is or should be.

[@roberthboyd6073]

Nawaz Raja I love it this is so true

[@robertjohnson4401]

I agree with half of this but I do not believe it shows weakness to not speak when it is proper to speak. You can remain silent and your silence provides no information that can damage you. For instance, talking with police even though you have nothing to hide. Not talking protects you against false and manipulative actions meant to trap you.

[@kkmaverick09]

"Being mysterious makes people go an extra mile to be your friend" Certainly true!!

[@keptins]

I disagree. They usually start to think you are weird or that you think you are better than them.

[@jackassfat]

yuppers...or you are always alone....awe....

[@jcdenton6577]

That's false

[@charmainegibbon9273]

@RS1 who wants popular friends rather be an individual and explore by urself the crowd can waste ur energy im a lone ranger enjoy it tooo muc

[@lanierosemangoda1792]

"You have a goal better than the circumstances around you" it hits me hard....

[@rebel8440]

💯💯💯

[@jacobhphom7191]

There is a big difference between being ,"silent and doing nothing", and , "working hard silently"... - Jacob H.

[@bluegypsy71]

It's strange but being quiet does seem to make people think I'm mysterious and keeps them guessing...really I'm just a nerd who dislikes drama & stupid people😅

[@lennert9756]

it was meant about keeping silent of your goals what you do or want to do

[@wreckingmachine]

@Mark Hollingsworth GOOD

[@beemars1373]

Never talk down on urself

[@vaughnrob4548]

Wow same bruh, although all of my classmates are drawing their selves away from me but I'm fine with that.

[@bstyle82]

But at some point you need to open up, otherwise mystery turns to disappointment when they realize there is nothing behind the mysteriousness.

[@tippin26]

We are vibrational beings! Everytime we speak we give out our energy! That's why we feel so good when we here something positive. It's good energy to our being. Love you all!

[@Universalgaming500]

When to speak and when to listen silently is a heart touching and golden key

[@freeman6302]

I closed my mouth and spoke to you in a hundred silent ways. -Rumi

[@CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger]

Rajiv Abdurahman - beautiful! Yes!

[@dennelllancaster3047]

This is epic!

[@shexhemn7029]

Wow

[@patiencekay3672]

💙

[@shirin8402]

It's just BEAUTIFUL... Rumi is always epic!!!

[@harrisre-nee3017]

"What's more fun than giving people virtually nothing about you, while you live your life to the fullest?" BAM!👏🏿💫

[@Vengfoul]

Do: know when to be silent Do not: Choose silence over effective communication in relationships nor expression (dance) just because you think someone will make fun of you. These forms of silence border on narcissism. Don't lock yourself up, choose life, without worrying about judgements. Build your resilience if you must, but do not shut up... learn to speak up.

[@vkrgfan]

Thank you! Yes it sounds like something Narcissist would do. Because why would you play mind games on someone? What’s goal? To make them jealous of your success? LOL sounds immature to me. If you surround yourself with caring people not backstabbers, they will be happy for you to succeed.

[@irme8930]

These 2 answers are my favourites.

[@jasonrudolph491]

VKRGFAN RGFAN The problem is that one cannot realistically always control whom surrounds them at all times- at least most people. I think the point is to strive to have the wisdom to know when to speak and when to remain silent. People often speak to influence (for good or bad depending on your morals compass) or gain acceptance or validity and silence can be equally powerful. I don’t the video is saying to always be silent or not engage the world but to be disciplined when and where. Most people talk too much in the wrong situations and for the wrong reasons.

[@vkrgfan]

Jason Rudolph Oh I totally agree, however it sounds like this video advocate sneaky revenge. Oh i’ll be quiet and succeed and wow Narcissistic jerks that don’t respect me. Number one, we can’t wow everyone with results because not everyone appreciates it. Two, every person perceives success differently, three the definition of success in the West is who earns more money. Who are we trying to impress or discipline? If you are in the toxic environment at work working for a boss that disrespects and exploits you, trust me your achievements won’t make things better. We choose to stay surrounded by toxic people and fear prevents us from living. Only children have no choice to escape abusive parents but this video is for adults not children.

[@poojaindaura]

Thanks for your comment , when everyone was supporting silence , you got knew that this is the time to speak 😂

[@prajwalbhujel6327]

Man it really hurts when people who have been with you for more than 4 years starts ignoring you,this was the biggest lesson that i learned Mike was correct -everyone that you fight with is not your enemy and everyone that helps you ain't your friend.

[@kimjackson3986]

There is a time to speak and a time to be silent.....

[@MichaelLesesne]

Kim Jackson yes, in a movie theater you speak and at a rock concert you be silent.👌

[@showdivine]

“a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak,” ‭‭Ecclesiastes‬ ‭3:7‬ ‭NIV‬‬ www.bible.com/111/ecc.3.7.niv

[@bekabeka71]

Well said

[@annanexton4682]

Kim Jackson amen 🙏🏾

[@Krututu13]

When you are silent, people will respect and pay attention to you when you have something to say. Because they think you know something and got something good to say. When you talk a lot, people get bored, ignore and won't take your words seriously because they already heard all you got to say. Stay silent or say something good .

[@goddesswarrioress6123]

🙌

[@MrJamesfalco]

There’s this guy who’s out going and makes people laugh around him, but with me is very silent.

[@truckingfun5033]

Valentina Esmera He doesn’t know what to say, and may be a little nervous....

[@academymarkettrading]

@@MrJamesfalco He knows you may like him behind closed doors.

[@traceylennon1204]

Love that!!!

[@sweettz5]

I am a quiet person.. that’s why happen when I’m around people. I’m happy just as I am. Some people think quietness is selfishness, but this video explains it better.

[@streaming5332]

Silence is golden. Every person shouting on their mobile phone in a public place should remember this.

[@traceylennon1204]

Confidence is quiet and insecurities are loud!!

[@AsifShoukatMotivation...]

good say

[@jaysonminor6147]

This video succinctly sums up part of my philosophy: Never explain yourself; your friends don't need an explanation, and your enemies won't believe you anyway.

[@RCGJR_]

The loudest in the room, seems to be the weakest.

[@nixwestlake9196]

I just get anxious and nervous and talk to hide it. Which doesn't work. When I was younger I didn't talk much

[@junestoddard477]

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[@purplekitkatemily]

I just thought about Cardi B idk why

[@RCGJR_]

Stephen Kershaw you need more hugs from your mom or dad. Anyways take care.

[@lolatoa581]

@@StephenKershaw1 *"Those"* don't categorize them all in.

[@theonly1258]

Agreed... every action doesn’t require reaction....

[@saudkadil5796]

Confuse them with silence and shock them with the result.

[@frederickgray7198]

Amen

[@VaimanikaShastra]

that's the way

[@KrishnaChaudhary-wd9qq]

True

[@DavidMay2nd]

Yessir. Slowly build in silence.

[@itsmeayana3220]

Prince Saud 👌

[@bbiggs4327]

If u argue with a babbler they will keep babbling. If u say nothing they will be quiet & go away. Thats a win win.

[@NoBody-xx6ii]

Facts

[@traceylennon1204]

Your comment is cracking me up!!! But it's great advice as well..😂😂😂 @ B Biggs

[@followmyjourney]

Thank you Father Jesus for letting me stumble upon this and keeping my tongue silent you know my situation and I put everything into your hands... in Jesus name I pray Amen and Amen!

[@gabrielforss1533]

I want to recommend you to a man who help me get my ex back Whatsap..

[@errahdu1137]

AMEN

[@sheronemanlangit4341]

Same here.

[@farhiafarah6954]

Nono , younger women farhiasRespectsThe girl on earth.

[@shereenk963]

Amen

[@peacefulwarrior4078]

WHEN YOU STOP TALKING TO THEM THEY START TALKING /WONDERING/THINKING ABOUT YOU !!!🤔😯😒

[@alizain460]

👍

[@user-cu1sp3bn2x]

I was being verbally abused when I was younger. I was quiet. But now I am getting older. I talk back to people who did me wrong because people took advantage of it . Now I realize it is not good to talk back and just be silence Becauase God will fight for our battles in the end. It is not worth it. They will say more negative about you. Thank God for this inspiration to change.my life. Let them be and they will think of you.

[@frank4380]

Yh

[@user-cu1sp3bn2x]

Silence Is powerful. I just pray to those people who despise, And hate me.

[@godisgood5038]

@@user-cu1sp3bn2x Amen!!!

[@ryankraft5174]

Took this advice, executed perfectly over a month.. got everything I wanted at work. Thank you.

[@karla62192]

Ryan Kraft 👏

[@MarvinDanny-to4yj]

Hello how are you doing...😊🥰👋

[@heyitsashlynd2984]

I’ve been reading the comments.. I think the point of this video is to say listen more than you speak. Don’t reveal your life story to someone you just met, let them figure it out. Don’t tell people who you are, let them discover that for themselves. Don’t give them the silent treatment, listen and think about what they say. Use silence wisely, it is an extremely powerful tool.

[@nikanj6]

A friend gave me this advice a year ago after I had spent years struggling to go against my introverted nature of keeping quiet about my plans. Like this video it was the best advice ever.

[@stephenmarkle5570]

For me to be silent and mysterious is the best way to live life because I found my peace in silence and to not see the past I m comfortable now in my silence 😊😊