Widow’s discovery after almost 5 years!

[@cherylbaker2094]

Change is so hard and life definitely doesn't feel the same without my husband here. I lost my husband 4 1/2 years ago, and still miss him so much, especially during stressful times, and with special events. God gives me strength and I distract myself with working. Thanks for sharing, the kitty litter comparison is great! The reminder to make the effort to keep connections is so important, but not easy.

[@connienorleen]

Yes it is definitely more challenging without them. It is a new and different life that definitely takes some adjusting. I wasn’t sure how the kitty litter comparison would go over but it is what came to me so I shared it. 😄. We have both been widows long enough that we have adjusted but it is never easy. I talked to a 20 year widow and she said it never gets easy, you just have to adjust. Thanks for your share! 💕🥰💕

[@susanford4351]

How do you carry on right after your spouse has passed? What stages did you go through Connie? I believe I found you just right after your husband passed. You've come a long way since then❤. I know it is coming soon Connie and I just don't think I can handle it without him! One friend I have has just lost her husband and she is miserable, stays in her pj's, no make up, blinds closed, doesn't go to the door, and rarely answers her phone!! I can see this! Shells him right before Christmas and is moving 4 hours away, already bought a house and will be close to her Son. How do you do that.!!!!

[@connienorleen]

Hi Susan, Thankbyou for watching and for responding. This is a great question. I’m going to do a zoom dedicated to answer your questions. I will do it this week. I promise! Hugs! 🥰

[@wcgl5595]

I read alot of personal stories about the authors grief.

[@connienorleen]

I’m posting my video today. ❤

[@wcgl5595]

Genesis 2:18 It’s not good for man to be alone Ecclesiastic 4: 9-12 Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up the other; but woe to one who is alone and falls and does not have another to help. Again, if two lie together, they keep warm; but how can one keep warm alone? I understand the widower’s loneliness. We weren’t created to be alone. But somehow most of us make it to the softer side of grief….. eventually.

[@wcgl5595]

She did not want to pee on your carpet/floor so she used her bed.

[@connienorleen]

LOL. That’s funny! 😄