Expensive furniture nice house. You're doing ok. That's all that matters.

...i made it to the end...hehe...I love your too. God bless...

i'm pausing in the part where you said loving me through it...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

thnak you. you are an angel. i loss my wife more than a month ago and i miss her terribly. I love her so much and and i am in deep pain. Thank you so much again for this video. Your love for him and for each other is heaven sent. God bless you.

Thank you My heart is broken I miss him

I lost my husband of 50 years in February 2024. It is a strange journey he was very I’ll for 8 years and I was his caregiver. At first I felt like there was this grey veil that shadowed life as it went one. I am happy to say it is gradually lifting. My son and grand daughter are grieving as well and I have found I am their support and they are mine. Grieve comes in waves and I call them tsunamis. They pass and I get glimmers of hope. As you mentioned those who you thought would be there aren’t but that is ok. Many people don’t want to hear about my loss again that is their journey not mine. Thank you for your video. ❤❤❤

threw away a lot, packed a lot and dont talk about it anymore. also grieiving a living parent. #selforphan

I became a widow 2 weeks ago. I am afraid of not being happy ever again!! Today I decided to look ups some vids on 'surviving widowhood'. You came up and it was just wonderful, almost didn't want it to end! I hope you are feeling a little better, a few rays of sunshine have crept in on the daily, maybe? I have so many friends who are widows. Thank you for putting yourself out here, sharing.! :D

I plan to perform a random act of kindness for someone

It would be helpful to hear other widows speak about basic survival!!! How to navigate this lonely path that we must travel.

I have to avoid the cookie and candy isles in the store. My husband loved these treats. I don't eat this stuff. Shopping for me has sure changed. So many things trigger my tears!!!

After nearly 58 years of marriage I lost my wife April 11 2024.today is September 14 i’m sitting here with tears rolling down my face. Sometimes I think I can’t go on. Oh, God is so difficult. She was diagnosed with cancer. They told her she had a year to live. So we went to treatment thanking that she would beat it. But she was gone in 11 months. She was definitely my soulmate. Part of me that others will never know or understand I fear. God bless.

Tell your sister n law to hold on to all the good memories u four shared and never let go. U had a lot of good times sounds like my brother and sister in law who i loved dearly. We did everything together also. Travel x n as shop holidays all of it. I also am very lonely without him he was the best man ever and we had 40 wonderful years together. Now i am very lost but i will one day be with him again and i will be very happy my whole life and my heart went with him. Most of my friends also have passed and i really try for new friends but????? Very hard. U are a sweet lady and i wish u the best. God Bless

Yup u are so right. It is ok though I would be hurt if my best friend did this to me.

Just found your post. Thoroughly enjoyed and agreed with you. My husband passed 25 years ago, and I still have some difficult times and cry. As you said, it lasts a lifetime. God bless you for sharing this.

My wife passed 2 months ago, you have explained my experiences exactly, going shopping, you give me goosebumps, thank you for sharing, I love you too, and I love my angel, Geri ❤❤❤❤

Thank you so much!@ very helpful. My husband died one year ago. On his birthday I'm going to do a random act of kindness for someone

My Dear Connie, First of all I just love you. I lost my beloved husband last year and I have moments of disbelief that he is not here. When he became ill, I had just started my deep cleaning of our home. Things were scattered everywhere. Then he went into the hospital and 6 weeks later he was gone. It's been over a year and things are still scattered everywhere; I can't seem to motivate myself to brring order to my life without him. When you speak about losing your Gar, I feel like I'm listening to myself. Now, you are talking about being upset about your hair! I swear you are me. My Husband and I have been together since 1984. For me, I had to be dressed to the 9's or I would not go out. I didn't even own a pair of Jeans. I share your love for heels. My hair was beautiful and my body was fit.. My husband loved me...Well, now my hair has no body, I wear jeans and gym shoes and I need to go back to the gym. But even with the physical changes in myself, my husband still loved me. I was suppose to get my hair cut last week but life happened. Unlike you however, I'm alone so life gets quite peculiar. Thank you for your channel. I think I'll be visiting often. I'll also try the channels that you suggested with Sandra Hart. I just want you to know that I'm usually not this upbeat. I'm just inspired by what you have said in this video. For today you have helped me. Thank you

I'm coming up on my first Thanksgiving and Christmas this year (2024) I'm dreading it.

Your videos on losing a spouse have made me aware that so much of what I'm experiencing is also experienced by others. The other evening I took my dog outside, after a cry, and said to God, "please don't let me lose my mind." Its only been 3 months since my sudden loss, and I am burdened with guilt over things left unsaid. We were married 28 years. I am 77 and he was my soulmate and the love of my life. We shared a deep Christian faith and I know we will see each other again. That is my comfort. Your videos were a great comfort too.

My husband passed away three months ago, suddenly. Thank you for this video. I am a loner and this helped. ❤

I lost my dear husband of 45 years July 7th this year, I’m still numb, hurting so badly.

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Whoa you have a dog that helps with grief..stay busy! 😮😮😮

And your hair looks fabulous!!!

While my husband was alive, he insisted I wear my hair long. He never told me why. 6 months after he died, my granddaughter took me to a salon and I got my hair cut, streaked and styled. I love it!!! Best thing I did for myself!!

My husband died a year ago. The holidays are brutal!! I wish i could just go to sleep before Hallo and wake up after Easter!!! My husband loved all of the cookies, candies, cakes and pies that were in the stores for the holidays.

Thank you. My husband was killed here at home a couple weeks ago and I am so broken. There is no one, no place and nowhere.

That haircut looks lovely, the color is also nice with your complexion….

Hi, your hair looks lovely. Im 74 i havent cut my hair since my husband went to heaven in February. I just haven't got any interest in anything now, i lived to look nice for my husband and loved him very much. We'd been married 53 years and known each other since 15. Thanks for your videos, youre smile is beautiful. God bless xxx

Where were the pictures? I didn't see them.

My anniversary was on August 18. It would have been our 40th but it's hard to celebrate when your spouse has died.

My husband died at 43. Long time ago. Missed my daughters high school graduation and my sons college graduation. I made it through many years but now , even though i have a partner, im really missing my husband and all the things we did as a family. Im gooing to go another griefshare group.

I lost my wife on June 17, 2024 so it is very fresh. I have a long way to go and these are such unfamiliar emotions. We were together for 30 years and she was my best friend who I had planned on sharing many more wonderful memories with. She was 80 and I'm 82. The pain is indescribable and it does come in waves, some bigger and longer that others. Your brave video gives me hope that there will be life at the end of the tunnel of darkness. Thank God for our great church and our strong commitment to Jesus. Thank you so much for taking the time to make a video of hope. It is just as relevant today as it was 4 years ago

YOU DON’T JUST LOSE SOMEONE ONCE You lose them over and over, sometimes in the same day. When the loss, momentarily forgotten, creeps up, and attacks you from behind. Fresh waves of grief as the realisation hits home, they are gone. Again. You don’t just lose someone once, you lose them every time you open your eyes to a new dawn, and as you awaken, so does your memory, so does the jolting bolt of lightning that rips into your heart, they are gone. Again. Losing someone is a journey, not a one-off. There is no end to the loss, there is only a learned skill on how to stay afloat, when it washes over. Be kind to those who are sailing this stormy sea, they have a journey ahead of them, and a daily shock to the system each time they realise, they are gone, Again. You don’t just lose someone once, you lose them every day, for a lifetime. Donna Ashworth

I need help Lost my husband May 25, 2024. We were married 63 years. 4 children, 16 grandchildren 10 great grands.

Your place looks beautiful ,,keep being happy..one day at a time darling,,i lost my hubby 10 years ago..am trying daily to be happy and keep reminding myself God still loves me and has a good plan over my life..

Thank you i pray you can adjust to your new life. I lost my wife of 49 years this week.❤

When my husband died of cancer, we had $5 in the whole world. After 2 weeks, I had to put on my happy face and pretend I was okay so I could get out there and earn a living.

Sound is very low.

Awww,I so get it! Hugs,love and healing prayers. ❤😢❤

I can relate to everything that you are saying the first week everyone is there then after that it’s like life she don’t wanna go on is normal. They are past their grief, but you left with your everlasting grief until the day you die is my soulmate 34 years 11 years now each year I miss you more and more because life goes on and my life has went on, but I’ve had to do it my own, but I can’t say oh my God help me through it but there is somebody holding you until you gonna be right, there is nothing like somebody laying in bed at nightthere’s nothing like going home and the house is empty

I lost my wife two years ago and it's been reallyhard

I have been a widower for two years and nobody Was there for me I thought my friends Wasn't there for me

Jesus is everything

My heart breaks for you Connie. I lost my lovely wife of 51 years this past Valentine's Day. It's been four and half months and I'm struggling. Tomorrow is our 52nd wedding anniversary, so I know that's going to be a hard day for me. I hope you're doing better since this video is now 4 years old. God bless you.

Thanks for sharing ❤

Music is the best medicine

Godbless yous will meet again Jesus Christ is with both of yous hang on to the love and memories

Your story is so much like mine its unbelievable. Thank you