Why I'm Starting Over at 50 ~ Life Reset in New Country

[@ConnieRiet]

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[@homemoviesandotherstuff3419]

How wonderful that you are following your heart. I have also found that traveling has been the most exciting part of my life, and have transmitted that to my children. Recently, at age 83 and single, I became depressed thinking that my traveling was over, until I did some soul searching, and spoke to my daughter who encouraged me to try other options like using a wheelchair at the airport, which I now do and am thrilled to say that it works! Train travel has also become a great travel choice sometimes, so I now try to think outside the box and be creative about my next adventure which may be a train trip across Canada ( I've already done that across the US). I have physical challenges, but I won't let them stop me from the joyful exleriennces of traveling. Thank you for sharing your life with us, and Happy Trails!

[@Susan-nm3sx]

I love your comment, I’m currently separated at 62, and honestly, never thought I’d be in this boat! I’m pretty much having to try and start again, and it’s freaking me out! 😂 I hope you continue to travel, you’re a true inspiration. Best wishes. 🖐🏻🇬🇧✨

[@homemoviesandotherstuff3419]

@Susan-nm3sx So many of us are starting over, and although it can be intimidating, the gift of single life can be a blessing. There are many ways to find like minded people in the same situation. Be gentle with yourself, and start small. I found that dining alone was a good place to start. It opens up a whole new way of seeing the world around you, and you'll see many of us out there also. Be brave and creative! Blessings 🙏

[@Susan-nm3sx]

@@homemoviesandotherstuff3419 thank you. 🙏🖐🏻✨

[@karinknight1970]

@@Susan-nm3sxI too found myself separated after 36 years, having planned to “grow old together”. Life throws us curve balls. You can do this, one day at a time. As you work through the grieving, you have the opportunity to re-invent your life. Might not be what you once planned, but it can become a beautiful thing!

[@nancygreen217]

I’m 85 and last year I started using a wheelchair at airports and if I’m with family who want to walk all over the city of Boston (as we did) my daughter rented a wheelchair for me, knowing I would opt out of trying to keep up and not go…it worked, everyone took turns pushing me and once i let go of my pride, it was most enjoyable!

[@carlabarber8944]

I heard someone say recently that rather than "reinvent yourself", it is better to "realign youself". Maybe this is you, too. All the best for new adventures in Spain!

[@lowell62]

I think a bit of both is fine. I get what you are saying (I think) though...wherever you go, there you are. So "reinventing" is perhaps not as realistic a concept as realigning.

[@Lotusblume.8]

You’re looking more beautiful than ever! I love your hair like that! 💝

[@dallassukerkin6878]

Aye - for a second as looked back to the screen whilst the video started I thought it was Amanda Tapping (who played my screen crush Samantha Carter in Stargate SG-1) :D

[@LisaGray1000]

I agree

[@marysusa6985]

So glad to hear that you and your husband have grown even closer. So sad to see people announcing divorces on Social Media KZbin channels. Thank you for always sharing your kind gentle way.

[@nancyelizabeth8364]

Tom and Dawn 😢

[@josie4peace]

😢💔😢💔

[@Camel_Jockey]

The correct title to the video should have been, "Why we're starting over", I thought this was about a person starting over alone. It is much different when you have a spouse.

[@Starfish2145]

Exactly. It’s Clickbait.

[@MNP208]

I assumed this was going to be a "woman starts over after divorce" video. 😄

[@josie4peace]

Yes, agree 100%

[@sweetlampe]

@@MNP208Yes because she says I’m not we.

[@kmars3239]

She poses as a life coach too 🙄

[@gabrielleholland6958]

Having followed you for so long Connie, I’m so glad you’re feeling better and excited at this next phase and settling down in Spain. And your community waits in anticipation as hopefully you might show us your adventures in your beautiful new country! We are curious about life there for you two…the culture, the food!!!!, shopping, healthcare, resources, cost of living, etc. I’m just so happy you are healthy and you are beaming with happiness! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. You’ve always been one of my absolute favorite YT channels. Your content is always so honest and helpful. Sending prayers for continued health! 🥰🙏🏻🥰

[@jeffnewbery9414]

You are stunningly beautiful, inside and out. Thank-you for the inspiration from this freshly retired 54 year old widower. I have been reinventing myself since my wife passed two years ago and I am loving my new life. I know she is happy for me. Thank-you for your channel.

[@josie4peace]

💕🙏💕

[@KodeyWhiteWolf]

I've "restarted " my life several times thru life. Now at 75 one more move is happening this summer. Onto new adventures 😁. Love your videos

[@danjobry333]

You are so fortunate that your husband wants to do this adventurous lifestyle with you. Mine at 61 years old is a workaholic and refuses to retire. I am now 67 and ready to get out there. Happy and jealous for you guys! 🥰

[@traceyealy5477]

Thank you for stating the truth that we can start over at any point in life, regardless of our age. I believe this, but somehow when I heard you say it, it connected in my mind deeper than ever before at just how true that is. I'm preparing to declutter and downsize all my accumulated belongings. It's been something that I've been wanting to do for at least the last 2-3 years. This will be my goal to complete in 2025. I believe I need to be ready for whatever new changes my life journey will take. ❤️❤️ Thank you. First time watching and I'm a new subscriber. Tracey from San Diego, California

[@navaljeetkaur4538]

Good luck for a new life in a new country,Conie. Take good care of your health and keep smiling and keep glowing. Love your vibes 😊❤

[@ConnieRiet]

Thank you so much❤

[@Dragonfly20233]

I recently heard a vlogger say, "I know I said that I wanted (fill in the blank), but dreams change." That has really stuck in my head this week. Dreams change!

[@blancaalexandra]

Yes! I heard this too, was it from a vlogger who recently announced she was divorced? Dreams do change, and that's ok...

[@SilverHawk214]

Dawn?

[@AnjLove01]

The Minimal Mom you mean?!

[@Dragonfly20233]

​@ yes, it was so heartbreaking and hopeful all at the same time! It really stuck with me.

[@Dragonfly20233]

@@SilverHawk214 it was!

[@SpatchG]

As someone who has had a series of concussions, i absolutely get your need for somewhere to rest and just be. Enjoy your new home.

[@lizb1537]

Congrats on your move to Spain! 🎉 I wish you & your husband continued happiness, good health, and a beautiful & peaceful life. 🙏❤️

[@stamatiamcgrath7992]

Connie thank you for sharing your journey with us. You give us all hope to live our lives simply, and do what matters. Best of luck in Spain. Enjoy every minute! Glad you are feeling better.

[@Postcard_Perfect]

Starting over at 47 … left US and going to Sicily for now ❤ Enjoy Spain and healthy vibes sent your way! 🤗

[@amb7440]

Wonderful! How is it going for you so far?

[@berlinbeachkat4878]

Good luck that everything works out the way you want. Italy is a good choice too! As a German I miss Europe badly!

[@Postcard_Perfect]

@@amb7440I am going there at the end of the month. I have an aunt there and found me a €300/month airbnb and I hope I will buy myself an apartment by summer 🤞

[@Postcard_Perfect]

@berlinbeachkat4878thank you! 🤗 I am looking forward to a slow and quiet life 🙏

[@lorrainebertetto2279]

You’ve gotten more beautiful as you’ve gone along your journey!

[@juliebuchikos777]

Yay for you both! I hope that you will take us on some adventures around Spain as you explore. I love your hair that length! I had a brain tumor removed two years ago now and have some lingering issues myself. Thank you for your reminders that life starts every day! ❤

[@Vanessa-sf1vy]

Thank you Connie, glad to see you took up the idea of a book/journal. Would still love one for the coffee table. Your voice is so comforting Vanessa 🌱

[@ConnieRiet]

Creating a coffee table book on simplicity is on my bucket list. Thank you for your ongoing support

[@teresa5007]

Hi Connie, sorry to hear about your health issues and I'm happy to hear you found a solution, at least for now. I saw a travel show recently in which they showed the Costa Blanca in Spain and it was so beautiful, with views of the Mediterranean as well as some mountains and I was thinking to myself "I could live here" if only! You are living my dream life. Love following your adventures. ♥

[@Cindyscrossstitch]

Glad you found a place that works for you. Each season of life is different ✨️🌻

[@SIERRATREES]

What a beautiful inspiring message from you... and what an amazing life you crafted ; more good things to come. Enjoy Spain - it looks lovely.

[@kathleenlewis239]

You look so relaxed and healthy! I would love to be able to travel and have extended stays abroad, but a main concern is how to manage healthcare needs.

[@aradiajim]

Connie, you are very welcomed in my country. It makes my happy to know you appreciate the land where I live. A big hug for you :)

[@pavan2025usa]

You are so inspirational. Thankyou for sharing ur life n ur YT journey. At 60 I started my channel and truly enjoying this career as a full time creator now. Not technically savvy yet BUT getting there. Enjoy ur travels. Take good care of your health. You have just got a happy subscriber from Thailand, today, as I chanced upon your video, it gives me courage to start living my dreams. God Bless 😊❤

[@alittlebitlaura]

Sending love and positive energy to both in your new home. I’m in my early 50s and you’ve inspired me to change my thoughts about our next chapter. My husband and I have no children and are planning to do some long-term travels and eventually relocate somewhere that feels right to us. Enjoy your time there! ❤

[@702desertmom]

Good for you Connie! I’m happy for you guys!

[@DebbieBennett-c9b]

You look at peace and very happy. So pleased you have found your place in the world. So brave. I wish you well.❤❤

[@tinamerlot4403]

Wishing you good health. Thank you for your message. It resonates deeply with me. I've been stuck in time since my traumatic divorce.

[@LisaGilbert-dd1jt]

So happy for you that you found your resting spot for the time being. Spain looks like a beautiful spot to call home for now! Best Wishes stay well!

[@janismurray2454]

Connie, I am thrilled for you to have found this shangra la in Spain for the next 3 months. You are courageous to have cut all weights from your wings and set out to fly and see where you landed these last 2 years even if you landed in the hospital several times, you still keep designing your life through each season. I relate to you so much and am inspired by you to keep moving in the direction my intuition is leading me. Thank you for sharing your journey and being part of my life.

[@blancaalexandra]

This video could not have come at a better time! I've been following you for years! I always look forward to your new videos. I'm in my 50's & starting my road towards a new career! I have to do it, and I'm pushing forward. I also pray that I can find love and companionship in a healthy relationship one day. 🙏🏼❤. Loved seeing you so happy walking into your new home base. God bless!!

[@Kristen-ek9rz]

What an inspiring woman you are. Thank you for sharing with all of us. You are so encouraging and very peaceful to listen to. Best wishes for your healing, happiness, and new journey.

[@gailtester8749]

Never a dull moment with you Connie! Happy for you!

[@danafox233]

Congratulations Connie! My hubby who is both Venezuelan and a Spaniard has touted Spain for years for retirement. We visit there often and love it. I hope you find the lifestyle and community you’re seeking.

[@grownmellowmature]

You have such a calm and relaxed attitude! Thank you for sharing!

[@Magdalena-ch5ep]

You are so beautiful and full of grace. I love your calming voice and your attitude. I wish you all the best! ❤

[@debbieprice7859]

Good for you, my friend! You continue to inspire me in your journey. Thanks for sharing your amazing life with us! 🤩🥹🙏🏼

[@ConnieRiet]

Thank you for watching☺

[@anniecochrane3359]

Dear Connie - I am struggling with tears hearing your beautiful story, full of heart and inspiration. I loved that part of Spain when I was there many years ago. May your healing be complete.

[@christineskeen7252]

I am so happy for you Connie. I wish you both all the best on this new adventure in Spain. My life was dramatically changed after a bad fall where I broke my back and sustained some nerve damage to my legs. Now I have a life before my accident and a life after. Making the most of it is my goal and listening to my body and what it needs is my focus. My husband has been great and we have adjusted well. You are an inspiration to others and thank you for the hope you give us all! 💜 Looking forward to more of your videos.

[@deidrekelly2338]

Hi Connie from Florida. I too suffered a severe rear end collision at age 57.5 years ago. Went thru many years of recovery. My life went from 180 to 0 in 10 seconds. Had to do a major life reset. I now garden, do lots of yoga, bake etc. We bought an rv and travel in the summer months. After about 3 months, I get traveller's fatigue and we head home.. We also do shorter trips throughout the year. Congrats on your new place. I've been a follower for many years and appreciate your inspirational content.

[@CarolinaSainz]

Welcome to my region Connie! I know those mountains will make you feel at home ❤ Looking forward to see you embrace the change. Xx

[@tigerlily62]

I hope your new place in Spain brings you peace, love and joy. ❤️

[@lynettewalsh4244]

Really enjoyed your video. You're quite right, it's never too late to strike out in a new direction even if it scares you at first. I met a wonderful man when I was 68 (I'm now 70). I thought I was too old, too emotionally burnt out, too untrusting, afraid of opening my heart again. I almost walked away (it was complicated as things often are). I'd come out of a challenging life partnership 15 years prior and vowed I'd never do it again. He was at the tail end of a failing marriage. However, I took a risk, as did he, and it completely transformed my life. It's had its difficulties but overall so glad I did.

[@nspr8cio]

I adore Spain! I purposely travelled while I was younger and had the time, energy, income and good health to enjoy it. I now have a more settled life in retirement and enjoy shorter adventures, primarily closer to home. Some people put off travel until their golden years only to be faced with a variety of issues that make it difficult or even impossible. I have great memories and experiences to keep and share as I age. Best wishes for a happy life. :)

[@emiliariccio-weiner7027]

I'm so happy for you and your husband. Spain is a beautiful country and the people are amazing. I enjoyed my 2 years living there and hope to go back in the near future.

[@TeresaChamp]

Thank you so much. I love your calm inspiring way. It's so beautiful in this rushed crazy world 🎉❤😊

[@renerobinson3467]

Enjoy your new adventures! Thanks for sharing your life with us! You have inspired me to travel more and explore what the world has to offer. Take care my friend! ❤

[@LoisWeidenbach-gj8gu]

Fellow car accident brain injury survivor here. It does indeed take a toll. People around you dont recognize it because "you look fine", because the injury is internal. I have come to accept (21 years now) my injury and I've had to consistently readjust and re-evaluate everything every day. My husband and I are now 3 years into our travels. We have an airstream and have gone cross country 3 times now. We will be moving to Seattle to...settle down...a bit now. I don't think we'll completely stop just yet as there's still more to see. But it is shifting.❤

[@jennyfulcher8035]

So wonderful that you and your husband have become even closer while traveling F/T abroad. Now that you're settling in Spain, you both can embark on yet another chapter in your lives together. All the best, Connie! Take good care. ❤

[@hendriketmichellekaal7291]

Conny, you are so courageous! I love your channel, hold on! Love, Michelle

[@lindamiddleton6785]

Wising you good health! Always follow your intuition!

[@CherylSherrill-w2s]

I find so much inspiration from you…..and you continue to become more beautiful and peaceful in your videos. I absolutely love, love, love your hair growing out! Thank you for what you do❤

[@barryricho]

Spain sounds like a lovely idea. Portugal is also another good option. I’ve been tossing up about both for an extended stay when I retire. I look forward to watching the move unfold 👏

[@CCCole1986]

Wishing you health and happiness!

[@MadisonBriggsArtchick]

I am very happy for you. The least favorite part of watching your videos for me has been you filming in a different place and having no idea the context of where you were at the time. I enjoy your lifestyle and cooking videos and I always wished I understood where in the world you were during each one. I hope this means that we will be able to see your true home environment for a while. I hope you stay well, Connie. Wishing you and your hubby peace and prosperity in your new home.

[@anneoconnell9575]

How exciting! wishing you both every happiness 😊

[@carolcraig6042]

So excited for you!! Thank you for this video & the reassurance that a change/reset/etc is just all part of the exciting journey of life.

[@debrastewart6714]

Hello Connie , Also I wish you good luck with your health from me again from Australia ❤

[@jayneelinor]

So inspiring, I greatly admire your courage and sense of adventure!

[@paulwoodward9659]

Good luck in your latest adventure and look after yourself .

[@ConnieRiet]

Thank you for your well wishes.

[@AyaSmith-rb2hp]

You look 30 and gorgeous! So happy you found a place you love and can rest up when you need! Sorry you ended up in the hospital. I am 65 but lived overseas for 10 years when my children were young. I was in my mid 30’s to mid 40’s. It was in East Europe and Southeast Asia. An amazing experience. However traveling a lot to other countries and back to the US always left me completely exhausted! It would take a good week or two to readjust. It was much better for me to live in one place and create a life for the children and make friends and travel about from time to time. Been watching your videos for a few years now since you were in NC and always admired your kindness, courage and sense of inner peace you convey. Looking forward to learning about your life in Spain.❤

[@julieann-lz7wg]

Inspirational! Enjoy your new chapter ❤

[@conniepleasantnails]

Great choice, congratulations and the best health to you and your whole family ❤❤❤

[@anniemarra6799]

I needed to hear you today, thank you for sharing your innermost thoughts and challenges, I don’t usually subscribe because I worry about all the notifications taking up space on my phone and leaving me less storage for all the videos and photos of my family especially our 6 grandchildren but I had to subscribe to your channel, you have a calmness that is desperately needed in this world and sometimes my life, I look forward to following your beautiful journey in Spain and I pray it is more than you ever hoped it could be, my prayers are with you to enjoy this next chapter with improved health and many blessings. Until next time my new friend 🍃💗🍃

[@suszc]

Wonderful! Congratulations on your new home. And thank you for the inspiring words about recreating a life.

[@ShellyBomb]

🏡 ~ Congratulations on settling in Spain for awhile ... 💞

[@MNP208]

We retired at 55 and bought a RV. I'm so happy we kept our house! I discovered that I can only travel for 3 weeks at a time. After that, I'm ready to come home. Some people are made to travel full time and some are just not.

[@SunriseToSunset2012]

My husband and I are the same. We travel multiple times a year with our children. But after a week or so, we miss home. I don’t think we could live in an RV since we thrive in a routine and permanent home that won’t break down or having to find a place to park. But we love weekend getaways and vacations but prefer to have a permanent home.

[@MNP208]

@@SunriseToSunset2012 Yes, I always say "I can't live full time in a particle board house!" Something always needs to be repaired. Luckily, my husband enjoys fixing things.

[@zoerico3813]

wonderful! wishing you the best of everything in your new adventure and beyond ❤

[@edwardjacknitsky5630]

I'm so happy for you and your husband.

[@isabelkassan5244]

A beautiful story! Thank you for sharing! Love to you both and your family!

[@marykaybuttery3513]

Im a 74 yr old single female living on my own --yet close to friends- I welcome each day and look at it as my gift ----So what's next!! great to hear from you Connie...

[@karolinaeigenmacht5433]

You look so fresh and happy. Stay that way and strong. ❤

[@cherylweaver5129]

Best to you and your husband. Enjoy the journey and adventures. 😊

[@evelinagasperina-buchel5114]

Hi Connie I follow you since a long time on youtube. You and your husband are inspiring me and courage me. I'm sorry for your health condition still happen from the car-accident a few years ago. I have LongCovid since 2020 and also on my recovery way since then. Had also a lot problems with my brain, not thru accident but virus. I found really someting what helped me so much, to go back on track ... The last about 10 months where gamechanging for me. I would like to send you more about it, if you like, maybe it's something that would help also in your situation, in many cases. Just let me know. I'm also in love with spain, feels also for me like coming home always when I'm in Spain. So I wish you both a good start in your new home, setting some roots again, take care.

[@johannaschneider9029]

I am leaving soon to live over seas starting in Greece to do a pottery workshop, then will be wander and explore my way to Spain. Which area of the country did you settle in can you live there without a car?

[@hollyj2925]

Happy for you guys! Spain sounds so beautiful! I’m going to have to go there someday! I have chronic pain and health issues so I feel hopeless at times! Your video made me think differently as go I can get a new life someday soon, at age 58 and single I feel stuck, I need to be happy and figure my life out, thank you for this video!

[@amberklein1560]

Congratulations on your new home base.❤

[@livingoncoffee]

What a great outcome and so many positive experiences throughout your travel!

[@gailfirenze4760]

Very best wishes, Connie. 🙋🏼‍♀️🇦🇺

[@rebecamarkus8452]

I wish you the best, love from Brazil 🩵

[@LupitaTorres-j5r]

Hi, Connie ! My daughter is living in Spain… she is from U.S. you looks amazing.

[@kerryjayne4864]

Wow Spain … that’s so lovely for you both . ❤

[@debrastewart6714]

Hello Connie , Thank you for sharing your new life,😍you are so lovely,! All the best for you new life in Spain. Takecare good care ,love from me from Australia,🌟also love watching your channel,it's so relaxing.xx😊

[@gerlinde_gerlinde]

What a beautiful solution. Wish you two the best of luck in Espana 💚

[@lizsabatka4212]

Thank you for sharing from your heart. You are an inspiration, a beautiful soul.

[@WeAreBullets]

you are a gem and a blessing and such an inspiration. thank you for sharing your struggles too, it sounds hard, but you are very positive and hopeful, and you are blessed to have a partner to go through it all with you. I can't imagine how hard it must be to live with the aftermath of a brain injury. I have very very mild covid damage and it's been just enough to be annoying and frustrating, but you are a testament to human resilience and strength and also vulnerability. and you also remind us that we can change how we do things and even slow down a little bit in order to process this sometimes chaotic life. thank you Connie!

[@leanneb9111]

Wishing you only the very best to come. Spain is gorgeous.

[@williamclark1244]

Always great to see a video from you. Good to see you are settled in a place that aligns with you.

[@maxiemills6982]

You have a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing.

[@jeanetteharris2155]

I so love this for you!! ❤ We visit Spain/Canary Islands once a year to walk the Camino de Santiago, and to visit family. I’ll be looking forward to your upcoming episodes, so I can “visit” Spain more often through your channel! You’re truly an inspiration, Connie. Thank you ❤

[@shannonhergott]

I look forward to all of your videos and love that you listen to your intuition so strongly! You’re an inspiration ❤

[@anastauro9743]

I’m very happy you like my country. It’s ironic to think I’ve living away for nearly 30 years now, while all this time dying to return. I hope I have the courage to do it one day

[@ShellyBomb]

🥰 ~ Connie: You look absolutely radiant ...

[@eunoia1016]

Sorry to hear about your health struggles…..happy you have a home base. Traveling is wonderful, but I do think it is hard not to have a base, someplace familiar…your own bed. It can be both fun and exhausting going from place to place….having a beautiful home and ability to travel is a win win.

[@lowell62]

Agreed. I have had long travel adventures that included a lot of moving around - staying in different hotels or airbnbs every three or so days for weeks or months at a time to cover a lot of ground. Countries like India, where it takes an entire day and night of bus travel etc. to get from point A to point B, always packing and unpacking, living out of a 40L backpack. It is an art for sure and it was great fun, some of my most extreme adventures. Now I have a home base in Mexico and it is the best of both worlds.

[@janinesawyer5746]

Wow x Inspirational - Peaceful - Beautiful x Thank you for sharing

[@ninajohnson6578]

As someone who suffered a TBI 50 years ago I see your struggle. What works best for me (everyone is different) I need long periods of absolute quiet and darknesss to rest my brain. I love to travel but need to do it in spurts. I hope you find a happy rhythm ❤

[@lose999]

I love Spain. I lived there as a child and it holds a dear place in my heart. Congratulations. You will recover well there. Best wishes for a wonderful 2025.

[@conniedavis1147]

I love listening to your videos you are so inspirational and inspiring and when I'm feeling down and depressed your videos are so uplifting thank you so much

[@DaisyCruz-yr3bu]

🌄🕯✨️🌎👏😊

[@mastandstars]

SPAIN!!!! 😍😍😍 Show us all the beautiful things ☀️