Cosleeping and family bed sharing!!

Explaining why our family of 4 cosleeps!!

[@dirtpatcheaven]

My brother slept at the foot of my parents bed at 24 years of age. He was in rehab and desperately needed to have their presence to reassure him. He would have night terrors as well. So a 24 year old man sleeping at the foot of his 65 year old parents' bed. It was so kind and lovely and perfect.

[@rochelledenney100]

I think what y'all are doing is amazing... Y'all are doing what is best for Mackenzie and how she feels safe and I admire that... Keep doing what y'all are doing

[@kittyroxs]

Hope your brother is doing better ❤️

[@joy-annskeete2031]

Do what makes MacKenzie and for your family 👪 happy...

[@5457kj]

That is such a sweet, beautiful thing!

[@NiaPgn]

It’s obvious your kids feel safe, loved, and are comfortable with it so y’all do y’all ❤️

[@ReeRee9395]

You guys do not worry about what anyone else says. It is your home your family. If Co sleeping is the way that your family comes together the best then that is the way it needs to be. I completely see her point of not being able to hear things when she is sleeping and especially the fact that it makes it easier for her to be able to see Mom and Dad to know that she is safe. Even before she started losing her hearing like Dad just said he was gone a lot so the baby slept with Mama. Now the family sleeps together then so be it. It has become a routine so shall it continue to be a routine. Sometimes the world doesn't understand how the world used to truly be.

[@thatman1970]

Exactly

[@tracysmith9169]

I completely agree yawl do what's best for yawls family

[@chrisp2916]

I agree also.

[@averyshenandoah1637]

Oh spare me they were delighted to be in those articles

[@maria-margaritabravo8331]

A few decades ago this was a common thing. Many had big families and really small houses. In other countries also now. I think you two are doing a great job.

[@jameyhilton9772]

I’m 100% for cosleeping! We did it with all our kids when they were little. They slowly weaned out on their own. I miss it something fierce!

[@Mrs.J.D.B]

We co-sleep with our kids (3&5) and I know I'm going to miss it SO much when they decide they are ready for their own rooms. I had horrible post partum anxiety after our oldest was taken away from us to go to the NICU after he was born and it changed my mindset completely on where and how we should all sleep. We love our cozy family bedroom and I absolutely would not change it. It gives me peace of mind knowing we are all together and everyone is safe. Most of our family thinks we are so weird for co sleeping but yet most of our friends have co slept with their kids at some point so to us it feels quite normal. Either way we really don't care what anyone thinks because the four of us are so happy together and we all sleep best this way.

[@ghettomamma1627]

Aw ☺️💕

[@shylahuseby]

My youngest son slept with us most of his life all the way up until he passed at 16 from seizure in Nov. He didn't like to be alone. So do what works for you and your family. Love you guys! ❤️

[@tiffanyweber3028]

Did he have epilepsy? My daughter had a seizure after we moved her into her own room around 13 months old. Once she had a seizure, she's been cosleeping with us since. She is 6 years old. God bless you. My heart is with you 🙏🏼

[@mackenziburton2207]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers

[@chicktrucking]

Sending Love and Prayers your way Hun.. and I agree fully. My Son is 31 and he slept with me most of his life,, He's Seizures seem to Always be at night. And even now he goes to bed in his Bed and room but somewhere during the night or early morning he comes climbing in the middle of his Dad and I lol.. Do what's best for your Child and don't worry about what others think.. God Bless

[@belle9438]

I'm so sorry

[@Kimberly34584]

So sorry for your loss

[@kaylaaranda1029]

I love this!! I coslept with my first and only baby and was given such grief by doctors and family members but she got WORSE sleep taking all that advice. Our children SHOULD feel most comforted in our presence, awake or asleep

[@SophiaTheSophist]

i think you guys are fantastic parents. you put your kids comfort and safety first. i grew up with a lot of abuse and trauma and i am so interested in families who are loving and kind and parents who are so into who their children are and what makes your children feel most secure. you guys are awesome. keep doing you!

[@erincassidy-cernanec9755]

I love your family so much. So real and authentic.

[@bossmayfield]

Y'alls dedication to your children is a great example to how folks need to be. We may not all have the same ideas to raising children but we are the parents and its our choice! Don't let others discourage you. Love yalls channel on all platforms! We have 7 and 11 year old girls and we watch yall all the time!! Keep up the good work!

[@jessicalindsey2616]

My parents raised my two brothers and I in a family bed. When we were old enough to become more independent we got our own rooms but I am always grateful for the safe loving caring family feeling of being able to sleep with my parents when I was young. It’s part of the reason I have such a close relationship with my parents as an adult.

[@bonniewillson7364]

My late husband and I kept our kids in our bed until they wanted their own beds. We raised 5 well adjusted loving kids . Nothing bad ever happened. We all felt safe . Love your family.❤️🙏🏻

[@bobbienielsen6860]

You two are amazing parents and people in general. Your girls are fortunate to have you. Co sleeping should not even be an issue. Do what is best for your family dynamic. We have three daughters with autism. One of them loves sleeping in her own room alone. The other two can't sleep without mom or dad. The two youngest are 10 and 9. I do not care if it bothers anyone else. You're doing things exactly the way you need to!

[@nuwon8154]

Me and my family coslept when I was growing up. Talk about feeling secure! I had to get used to my own bed when I was 9 or 10. Sometimes, after that, we would drag the mattresses into the living room, pop popcorn, watch movies then cosleep in there. I personally don't care what anyone thinks. The men in my family aren't weirdos so we never had to worry about cosleeping being weird. Just saying. 😁

[@puntinprincess7343]

My mind NEVER even went there.

[@karebear4912]

When I started cosleeping with my baby - it was the best sleep she and I got. Totally get the first time parent thing too. She can stay with us as long as she wants. You are a beautiful family. Keep doing whatever is best for you all and your girls. ❤

[@Djhikes63]

You don't have to explain it. You don't own anyone that. You have a beautiful family. You're incredible parents to amazing children. Carry on, sweet people.

[@Jennifer-il7ev]

What a beautiful and gentle way you gave your families point of view on co sleeping. I have teens and a little one. We sleep wherever we all fall asleep. My husband works nights so co sleeping has worked for the scared little ones. My motto do what works for your family and nobody should judge! You have a gorgeous family! 😊 🌞

[@mirupacha]

Gracias / Thank You both!! I’m a Dad & my only Child, now 12, loves sharing a bed / bedroom with me. What rules our lives & relationship is LOVE, Trust & communication. PLEASE keep doing a great job & don’t stop being loving & funny! Nothing to see here & nothing to be ashamed of. Thank you for being loving parents.

[@josephcarreoniii6434]

Blessings to all of you. You all demonstrate such love for each other and it shows. I love watching your family. You are truly genuine people filled with love!!!!!

[@trucklover7605]

I was a single mom and my daughter slept with me until she was 14 & once I married she slept with me a couple times a week and my ex husband would sleep on the couch - she’s now 3-rd yr in college and she will periodically sleep with me and she’s 20 now - so i definitely understand and absolutely 100% support co-sleeping

[@cheristump9404]

❤. My daughter was the same way. She was born without ears or openings. Your awesome parents. Every child should be as protected and loved.

[@kimsproles9251]

I think the co sleeping is great! You guys seem to be a very loving and happy family, you guys do you!!Thanks for sharing your life.

[@Luvnlife880]

I don't think it's anyone's business but yours whatever works for y'all is what makes sense.

[@MaDukesMaDukes]

Back in the 70's I don't even think co-sleeping was a label yet, instead they would associate it with being a "hippie" thing to do. I had a friend, they were a family (7bio kids and always a few extra lost waifs 😁) of "co-sleepers" they had a room with 4 huge mattresses wall to wall.. coolest thing I ever saw.. loved being invited to sleepovers.. so much peace, positivity and love in that family.. I had to sleep in my parents room out of necessity.. I have no regrets. Y'all keep on keeping on.. for those that criticize, lable or feel personally offended, say a prayer they can rid their lives of such negativity so they can focus on the positivity that will bring peace to ones lives.. ☮️🤗💚

[@lesliehargis4971]

Y’all are great parents! Wish your family the absolute best!

[@ms.sweetpea1921]

Everyone has something to say. They always will and always have. Ya'll are a true inspiration. Don't let comments rent space in your head, evict them and move on. Keep doing your best, co-sleep, love, live, and laugh. Thank you for sharing your story!

[@rebeccapalmateer7662]

I love that you made this video. I stumbled across your family on instagram reels, and you are so relatable for our family. We have one child and she sleeps with us or myself every night. (husband is a truck driver and gone often) It makes her comfortable and makes me comfortable. When my husband is working, im not sleeping alone because i have her and she has never enjoyed sleeping alone. It works for us and thats all that matters. I love that you stand your ground on what works best for your family!

[@The_Teledorian]

You are an incredible family and wonderful parents ❤Thank you so much for sharing ❤

[@mahalawisner1739]

Our jobs in life is to protect and provide for our children and if my son is 99 and fells more comfortable in bed with me that’s exactly where he will be! Y’all are amazing wonderful parents and people and y’all have taught me so much thank you for that and in turn I’m teaching my son which I home school too we’re in north alabama 🥰 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@pambowman3052]

Do what makes your family happy and safe. Don't worry about what people say. You guys are amazing ❤

[@pianoreigns]

We coslept with our kids without knowing there was a name for that! Our son never slept through the night so it was easier on everyone. My kids and I are super close and they're terrific young adults. It's typical for large swaths of the world. We put two beds together. Best thing I ever did!

[@andrereynolds5018]

I think you guys are doing what is right for your family. Things work out… my little brother was deaf and he slept in my room in his baby bed. He would cry. i was almost 4 years old when he was born and don’t remember my reaction…. But now it breaks my heart. I wish i could have patted him on the back. You do what you do as a family for your family. I see 2 beautiful well adjusted young girls when I see your videos. Lot’s of love.❤️🤟🏼

[@ryannlopez213]

It really doesn’t matter what others think about it. New to the channel and I really enjoy it. Thank you for sharing with us.

[@jbarwick50]

Y’all are wonderful parents and from what I’ve seen everything you’re doing is to help your family. Do whatever you feel is best for McKenzie ♥️

[@erniemathis8425]

There's nothing wrong dont worry what people say all of you are awesome and make me laugh she reminded me of my daughter Sarah so much

[@haydeniwanciw6863]

I am also deaf and I have 6 year old who sleeps with me every night . Why? Because my husband works nights. It just me and my son Sunday-Thursday night. He does however sleeps in his bed on the weekends. But for the last 6 years it’s all he has known. I get mom shame a lot! Even from family. And I tell them you can hear I can’t . He is protecting me his mother at night . I stand with y’all!

[@lisaioannou6758]

You do what works for you and what makes your family happy and comfortable. Thank you for your service.

[@dianacarter3212]

My kids slept with me until they were 7, 11, and 15! And when my grandkids came over, we all 5 slept in the same bed! I loved it. They will always remember the feeling of complete safety and security.

[@cecejude9505]

Please don't change the way yall are u and ur wife are excellent parents if that how yall sleep that works for ur family the kids have deep respect for you and your wife they say yes sir everytime she answer u u make sure she always ok and bring her snacks when she have a bad day please don't change I enjoy your family the way it is nothing is wrong yall are a wonderful family

[@Sarahmarie816]

I’ve done cosleeping for the last 7 years and yes ppl frown upon it so much. Especially when they are sick I want them close!!

[@user-pz4jk9tb7d]

My husband and I felt the same when our kids were babies. We have loved cosleeping. We have a king size and a queen sized bed together so our family can be comfortable and have our own space but sleep together still. Like you, our kids have their own rooms and beds and are welcome to sleep there when they're ready.

[@leab2834]

I just found your amazing family on my KZbin shorts and now going through all your videos and really wanted to comment on this issue.....there's NO issue- you do you. That's it, like you totally say people don't have to agree but you also shouldn't feel like you have to defend your choices for your family because no one knows that better than you. Much love ❤️ x

[@robincarter2316]

I just love to watch your family. I think you from what we see your amazing parents, keep doing what you do. Make you babies feel comfortable that's what great parents do.

[@johnmcjunkin4613]

First and foremost, thank you all for your sacrifices, as a military family. It's not an easy road. I know, been there, done that. Secondly, good on y'all for taking the concerns of your children, over your own comforts.

[@maureenwareham8822]

You are Winderful parents.. Please do not care about other people think or say!!! Your parenting situation is different from others snd visa versa.. Health and safety is important for all ❤❤❤

[@mattabrams6380]

All parents will be different in ways they raise their children. I completely understand the co-sleeping. My 3 and a half year old still sleeps in our bed, when he was "younger" during the transition from crib to toddler bed, he would have intense night terrors, and the ONLY way he'd calm down and fall back asleep was in our bed, Safety and Comfort and I will always provide that for my kids, at Any age. Big fan of your page. Keep the Vids coming....The fact that people commented on your Co-Sleeping...None of their business. You do you!!!

[@Jessica09Rabbit]

Yalls family is so sweet, God Bless yall!

[@stephaniefoster8009]

You are raising wonderful children ❤️ God bless you all. 🙏

[@marissagreen6137]

You guys are my favorite! It’s all about making Kenzi and Sarah feel safe

[@annitaphillips3038]

I loved it when my boys would come in and sleep with us. We only had a Queen sized bed so I would normally go to their room . So I feel I missed out not having the boys with us every night. I pray blessings over you and yours, and whatever you do, do it with your whole heart ❤❤

[@shanaimartin1831]

I feel like you both are doing an amazing job. You both know what is best for your girls & its just as simple as that. I love your family so much ❤

[@anitacacopardo8846]

My kids never slept in our bed. We would sleep on the floor in their bedroom if they were sick.. I'm excited to see how Mia works out!!! Thanks for the vid!

[@kathleentidwell1253]

A little late on the video but don't worry about what other people say or think about what you do with your family. It's what works for your family dynamic. My son is almost 13 and I'm so thankful he still wants to cuddle with me. I'm also a single mother at the moment so it's always just been me and him

[@jordanhaulbrook6389]

Ignore the haters. Y’all are phenomenal parents and know what’s right for your family ♥️

[@kahwana1604]

Thanks for this information. I never questioned the reasoning behind co-sleeping. Perhaps you can put the other bed next to your king size and have more room as the kids grow bigger. God Bless you all. 🙏

[@kaydiangel2445]

I Love co sleeping! My children are happy and safe. They're bonding with mom and dad as we sing lullaby's before sleep. Its very comforting. ❤❤❤

[@angelachapman7019]

Service dogs are amazing!!! Y’all are putting your kids first and that’s what makes y’all amazing parents.

[@chrissybridges5521]

It's noones concern about how you keep your deaf daughter feeling safe and secure while she sleeps but, so kind of you to explain ❤

[@michaeldickson6119]

Do what you want to do! Don't worry about what everybody thinks! What a beautiful family you have! Linda Love

[@teresahyk-knutson6498]

Your family is so wonderful. When children feel loved and supported is when they can develop and become independent naturally. Your children are so loved and going to be so emotionally healthy.

[@mariah3600]

“The first time the baby is sleeping” SAME GIRL. I co-sleep with my 5 year old. I feel weird telling most ppl. But a lot of ppl had similar experiences with their mom and THEYRE 100%FOR IT. Which makes me feel better! Love your vids!!!😘😘😘

[@mimidtw]

You do what works for your family! My babies slept with until they turned 16. I miss my snuggle buddies!! They grow too quick.

[@katiethornton2020]

Yall are amazing parents and for what I see she is independent 👏 💓

[@jatzygirl3120]

Honestly, I think you are awesome parents/ It shows in your relationships with your daughters. More power to you for making this your normal.

[@tiawithers]

I love y’all, yall do not have to explain to anyone what your family does! Y’all do this for protection for your children, I did it with my kids and those who comment hateful things have no business watching what y’all post if they can’t understand those reasons behind what y’all do or how y’all parent! Stay strong 💪

[@maureenwareham8822]

Trust Me when I tell you, My daughter pretty much slept in my bed til she was close to 15 or 16. My son was much younger when he stopped sleeping in my bed… The loss of their father at toddler and infant ages, they needed to feel safe & secure sleeping, until they did!! No doctor, no specialist, no therapist, would have disagreed with the way things happened. Today, they are very well established, very secure, people.

[@theroxygirl731]

I get it. I have very bad vision. I can't see anything without my glasses. When I was younger my parents made me take off my glasses to go to sleep. I was one of 4 kids and glasses are expensive, I get it. Now that I buy my own I sleep in them. I hate waking up in the middle of the night and not only is it dark but everything is a blur. I hate it, I feel very vulnerable when I can't see. So I can totally understand why she doesn't want to be alone at night. It's no one elses business and you guys should do what works best for your family. 💜

[@dianarutz1383]

You do what works for your family. Our kids all slept with us. Each decided to stay in their own bed when they were between 9 and 10. I think you are wonderful parents and so involved and caring and that is what your kids need.

[@sarahelliott7503]

As a parent, you have to do what you can, to make parenting a little better for you… and that’s OKAY!. We have 6 kids.… 4 of them still sleep with us. Our older kids (10 and 8) still come in sometimes too, and I think it’s great they still come and get us if they need us!

[@lupefranco5440]

I did co sleeping until I was 12 but my brother and I had our own beds we just shared a room with our parent’s. It was a safety thing for us as well.

[@maryann5752]

I slept on and off with my parents up until I was 17. I dad passed away when I was also 17 and continued to sleep with my mom after he passed and I am now 20 and sometimes I still climb into bed with her from time to time. I always felt safe and loved sleep with my parents, they never forced me to sleep in my bed or theirs it was always a option for me.

[@pianoreigns]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@pennystevens70]

How parents choose to do with their children is their business! My kids slept with me for a very long time, my choice! I think you 2 are great parents from what I've seen since finding and watching your videos. You both do what is best for you and your children. God bless you all.

[@denisewells4617]

❤ I think it's ok to co sleep if that is what makes you kids comfortable. You guys love your children and that is what's important. Great job parenting ❤

[@howtogetoutofbabylon8978]

Good of you to educate people!! We Never lost one of our babies, and never had a crib that I remember. Good on you and Megan for being different. If everyone was normal... The world would really suck.

[@pawlet]

My dad was born around 1930 in Harrisburg PA. Their house has 2 rooms. One room for sleeping and one for living/eating/kitchen.

[@nikishadavis1821]

My 8 year old and soon to be 7 year old still sleeps in our bed from ti me to time it’s a safety thing don’t hate if she feels safe let her feel safe u guys are awesome love ur videos

[@angiewebb2121]

I think y’all are smashing it as parents❤️❤️ my kids didn’t have issues but I was a young mother and single….so they slept with me….now my grandkids have adopted co sleeping. I don’t see ANYTHING wrong with it….I think it makes the family close and kids feel safe. Keep up the good work yall I LOVE watching your channel 🙏🏼💯❤️

[@marciabinninger2840]

Hey you got to do what is best for you and your family. No one should judge. Only God can judge! You guys keep on keeping on!!! Love your videos!!! Love your family even more!!! God Bless!!

[@Humbirdhippo5475]

I get the military aspect, and then I can see it just becoming normal. When my husband was overseas, my kids would sleep with me sometimes. Especially my daughter, the youngest.

[@CandielseyTheStruggleIsReal]

You are wonderful parents. Love following your family on you tube

[@BridgetA55]

You all seem like such a good family!! Your choices only need to work for your family!! Whatever you’re doing seems to be working

[@gingerale9138]

Well, I think you are doing great. Each child is their own individual and will reach their milestones. And you are right, she will move out of your bed when she feels safe. Thank you for allowing her to be her and giving her the room to grow at her own pace. 👍👍👍👍⭐️⭐️⭐️❤️❤️❤️

[@slavicadimcevski9585]

don’t stress over comments, and thanks sharing for others to know it’s normal and ok.

[@carolmac5944]

I moved a full size bed next to my king bed. Worked great.

[@torahobadiah]

You all are doing just fine. If cosleeping works for your family, cosleeping it should be. Kids grow up fast and you will soon be wishing for them to be around

[@5872550]

I think you guys are great parents and you really seem like a happy family and that's what matters

[@ghp224]

Don't worry what people say. You take care of your family God-bless.

[@carashea4207]

we had 2 king size beds pushed together at our old house and kids loved it, we moved and they have their own rooms now but sure miss sleeping with us. i also slept in bed with my parents when ever i wanted until i moved out lmao, sleeping is sleeping, who care what room you are in lmao

[@user-pz4jk9tb7d]

We have a king and a queen pushed together and my brother and I slept with our parents too. My mom and brother have both passed away in the past 3 years. I'm so grateful for that extra time and memories.

[@katieposey404]

I love how you guys go by your child’s comfort. Letting the girls stay in your bed until they are comfortable to go to their own rooms.

[@MikeBell-t5n]

It’s no one else’s business what your sleeping arrangements are. If it make y’all feel safe, do it. You do you.

[@susanmiller3170]

Co-sleeping was normal in our house until our boys decided they wanted to sleep in their own rooms. They were both 14 when this happened. We don’t make excuses or hide it to anyone. I am so happy that you do what is the best for your family also.

[@shaunalea823]

My son slept in his own bed from day 1. My husband and I are both light sleepers. It’s worked for us. I actually sleep trained him at 4wks, though he naturally started sleeping through the night. My sister on the other hand and her children along w her husband co sleep with their girls they are 7 and 5. Everyone is different and I don’t think either way is wrong as long as everyone gets sleep and are healthy and happy.

[@karenbryant1379]

You guys do you! We are a co sleeping family too!!! Have been since they were babies!!

[@shelleymason901]

I love yalls family and ur tiktoks or shorts. It's ur business

[@JessicaIsSoPoor]

My best friend always slept in her parents bed. I think she finally stopped when she got married and moved out. It’s super normal to so many people. Many people don’t do it, but so many do. No big deal.

[@basicallybabs]

I applaud y'all for co-sleeping. There are too many parents that could care less about their children. I often times co-sleep with my granddaughter unless she wants her crib. Y'all do you and don't worry about all the people that have no clue about your family dynamics.

[@dominoreigns8542]

My 14 year old randomly sleeps in my room, he mainly sleeps in his own room but sometimes I think he misses the comfort of co-sleeping. Sometimes I prefer it especially when it's allergy season because his turbinates get so swollen he gets obstructive sleep apnea & I like to monitor his breathing when his seasonal allergies are bad. Every parent has their own reasons for co-sleeping & shouldn't be shamed for it.

[@Brittoxo]

My 7 year old son still sleeps with me in my bed 😅 I get exactly why you do ❤

[@carlalatuda6574]

I know of a few families who co-sleep. It’s a comfort thing for both the parents and the children. Whatever works!!

[@samanthabyng5921]

What ever it takes to allow your child to feel safe and sleep peacefully is what any parent should do. She is still so young and like you said yourself, she is gaining her own independence. Keep keeping your faith held high.