Aww the dancing together sounds so sweet! Also, I love that your babies have inspired you to do more together--and get out more.🫶🏼 Loved this!! Most likable couple ever!🤍🤍
@jessicalawson327711 ай бұрын
Loved this so real & honest xx
@nicola760911 ай бұрын
You guys are so suited. And Ben seems so laid back, anymore he'd fall over 😂 two fab parents too, you can tell ❤
@whoareyouhu10 ай бұрын
Awe you two are hilarious and cute. Awesome sweet chatty q&a ❤❤❤
@michelleporter667211 ай бұрын
What a great and honest couple ❤ Lovely little family xx
@user-iv4mj8hc9b11 ай бұрын
need australia vlogs please!
@MV-ko2ox11 ай бұрын
Enjoyed this video so much 💌
@gst740911 ай бұрын
Hi zel and Ben, I think the money thing is fine as long as rent and bills are paid and kids have clothing etc, my partner WAS a ridiculous spender and there’s not a lot you can do to change things. However now having children it gradually has got a lot better, after several years he’s changed with regards to spending on luxuries/ drinking etc, realised that we have to save a bit for emergencies such as broken washing machines, new phone, etc holidays, weekends away, so gradually he’s thankfully passing me some on pay day for those things meaning he can then squander the rest and still have his treats, I’m very greatful he’s now home every evening and we eat at home more, tbh I’d rather have that than not have him around at all, as long as the essentials are paid money is not as important as having our happy loving family. I mean I would rather have him here helping me and caring for us than be rich, sorry a long answer I hope it’s ok as it’s a very important subject for all of us, to get the right balance between finances & happy caring family that stays together indefinitely Xxx love your family and Ayse Jack and girls 💕💕💕
@aleksandramijakovac785511 ай бұрын
I think it’s a sister thing.. sisters are generally closer than brothers!
@michelleporter667211 ай бұрын
My husband is terrible with money, although I don't save much, but I do save up for holiday's, Christmas etc. If I didn't take care of our finances I dont think our bills would get paid!
@gst740911 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that Michelle, mine used to be horrific with his wages, over the past few years he’s gradually changed , I am conscious not to nag or start a row but just really gently calmly explained life would be far better if he passes over SOME money on pay day for bills, food, emergency savings. I then write down every expenditure so he can see where the money is going, ATM it’s ok, better than it was, I wish you well Michelle.
@christinasmyth567411 ай бұрын
You are a lovely couple ❤
@syz919911 ай бұрын
@zel hahah the last question. My partner would also say that gives him the ick omg ive only done it a few times but the reaction 😮 hed probably kill me one of these days for it 😅
@hannahhughes613311 ай бұрын
You mentioned about Australia? Haven't heard you mention this before.. when are you going ?
@gst740911 ай бұрын
March, for 3 weeks, it’s spoken about in the vlog where they go to the seaside it could be the last vlog x
@KANDR40211 ай бұрын
Yea I believe that's where Ben & his family are from.
@gst740911 ай бұрын
@@KANDR402yeah think Zel said they are going for 3 weeks in March & staying with Bens family, did give the rough dates but nothing finalised yet, I can’t wait to see them all on this trip of a lifetime, especially for Pia it will be incredible. Can’t wait for the vlogs 👍
@Sarah-zg2iq11 ай бұрын
Lovely couple 💕
@sharonbrown570211 ай бұрын
Love your little family girls so cute ❤❤
@Gurcay-l1r11 ай бұрын
Luv these vudeos when ur both together😊
@jjb818011 ай бұрын
Please link your sofa 😃 xx
@Aroosah111 ай бұрын
Lovely family xxxx
@WintaWini9 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@xxwhateverrr11 ай бұрын
Lool I really thought his name was Ben ,but in the video you said Benjamin 😅 My son’s name is Benjamin and I’m the only one who says Benjamin, everyone else says Ben.
@michaelaferencova32311 ай бұрын
So so beautiful couple ❤
@Videostowatch2411 ай бұрын
In answer to your question, I think it’s ok for one person to be a great saver and the other not as much, as long as the person spending quickly isn’t then not contributing to the household expenses as much as the other, or making the other person have to carry them financially. I don’t think that would be right or fair x
@marneylinsell749911 ай бұрын
Ben is literally me when it comes to money but so much like my partner, definitely opposites attract 😂🥰
@Gurcay-l1r11 ай бұрын
Ben Is such an amazıng bf n dad
@calvinliu630411 ай бұрын
Hello
@MirandaMccabe-ie4sm11 ай бұрын
am the saver but my partner Is the spender
@tylerford42811 ай бұрын
Me and my partner are both the spenders 😂 awful lol ❤
@ShazziSheraz11 ай бұрын
Wow enjoyed watching this Q& A. Lov your vlogs. May allah give you so much barkart and happiness AMEEN AMEEN xxx 💝💝💝💝💝💐💐💐💐💐🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🍸🍸🍸🍹🍹🍹🍹🍧🍧🍧🍧🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍾🍾🍾🍾🍷🍷🍷🍷🍨🍨🍨🍨💐💐💐💐💐
@victoriapiace347911 ай бұрын
I feel it’s great when a man is a spender in a relationship. I am the saver too, but I would hate it if my husband was telling me how to spend his money 😂
@SophieIsobella11 ай бұрын
Watching this as I’m washing the bottles 👀😂
@zelandben654211 ай бұрын
Haha! It was my turn tonight also! X
@ivyyvonne832111 ай бұрын
I’m so gullible I fully believed he was a deep sea diver person🤣🤣