3 Steps To Accepting, You Are BISEXUAL

[@MicahKussmann]

self acceptance is sooo hard 😭 thank you for making these!

[@Courtney-Jai]

It's always is for anything you just need to learn to love yourself

[@edouardomaindargent7685]

Self-blinding is hard to get rid off too. Even years after being sure I loved men, I still tried to be only straight.

[@ollyhendrickx7901]

What I'd say to everyone is ... You don't have to justify or explain. Never do that. Just live your life and introduce your partner to your family and friends. Boy or girl. They'll have a reaction ... ok ... that's it ! If they love you, they'll understand and accept. The one who does not, must not be part of your life. Coming out might not exist. Be you and be proud of yourself. Thanks for being who you are Courtney-Jai and thanks for testifying. Be blessed.

[@Courtney-Jai]

You to my friend 😊

[@popmashups6568]

Yeah. So it's better if I wait until I'm not dependent on my parents because I know they're not going to say "oh ok"

[@ollyhendrickx7901]

evander I do understand that point ... so yes wait before introducing someone to them.

[@Ak-30798]

not when you have a muslim family lol

[@c.anguiano3124]

It’s so nice to hear this. I was working up the courage to tell my older gay brother for years, and when I finally did, he told me I was straight. I really shut that part of my self down for a long time.

[@Courtney-Jai]

You should tell him well if I'm straight then you ain't gay , also he shouldn't be so condisending it makes a mockery of the people who got his rights to be an open gay man.

[@its_ya_gurl_ames_old6068]

As a 23 year old whose just recently come to terms with and accepted his bisexuality I'm really thankful that there are channels like this out there to help😁 thank you so much

[@Desertrosetarot]

Growing up I was tbe straight friend of my group, and I was raised to accept gay ppl and always have done w no issue . But when it comes to myself it is so different. Found this video while having a cry up in bed thank u for this

[@screenworld492]

This so true i feel uncomfortable when people label me as gay and straight as they suppressing a side of me, and thats why my friends, is an unattractive quality in a partner. If they love me they must love and be okay with my bisexuality. #Bipride stand up, #bi today, #bi tomorrow #bi forever I love multiple genders, men women non binary

[@maddylions5680]

I think a sign I am bi is that I have always been the "straight friend" because a lot of my friends are LGBT and I "look straight". But every time people call me straight I feel uncomfortable because that's not me and it denies the feelings I have for women too. Hope someday I can be open about it to my friends and family, but it's almost too easy for me to pretend im straight because I don't "look gay" and my sister is gay but gives off more obvious vibes and "looks gay(pixie hair, etc)" so it's easy to "look straight" next to her. I almost feel like my parents wouldn't believe me because I've never given them any clues and I've dated 2 guys before seriously. Maybe someday

[@joelledieduksman]

come out when and if you're comfortable with it, not before that. you have to accept it yourself first before other people will. I have that same issue, I also have a lot of LGBT friends, but I already sort of came out to them, as in, I said this, "People, I think I'm bi." and they were like oMg aNOtHeR bI pErsOn iN oUR gRoUP but I told them that I wasn't sure yet, and they simply told me to tell them when I was. So now I'm treated like "probably bi", and I'm fine with that. You are you, and nothing can change that🏳️‍🌈

[@Irina-lp9jy]

Omg it is the same with me, my friends are gay and really look gay and when someone asks they are just like nah she's straight but we like her anyways haha.. It just feels wrong and uncomfortable because i know i like women i just don't look stereotypically bi or gay and people don't believe me when i tell them i think I'm bi, they are just like naaah i dont think so, maybe you're just doing it for attention or are bored, and im like sorry but its not your business to decide if my feelings are real or not you can't determine that just by the way i look :/

[@sashalock7820]

I agree!

[@DrMayhem60]

Honestly i struggled with accepting i was bisexual until i was 17. I kept on changing my profile on meetme to gay or straight because i use to be told i was confused and it was confusing to me cause sometimes i would have a turn on for women and sometimes i would have a turn on for men. Right now i'm 25 and i'm a proud bisexual male and if anyone tells you other wise ignore them.

[@FatAssAdventures]

I'm a bisexual women how do I stand proud of who I am who has a boyfriend and has never had any relationship with a women but my brain and heart doesn't respond lol 😅

[@feet71]

I'm only 12, and I'm having trouble with coming to terms with this.

[@magicsteve5523]

“Fuck it all and no regrets I hit the lights on these dark sets I need a voice to let myself To let myself go free” These are lyrics from the song St Anger by Metallica and they’ve taken on a new meaning for me since accepting my bisexuality, they describe perfectly how I felt when I was rotting in the closet. I was bitter and angry at myself for repressing my sexuality throughout high school and took that out on other people. The only way I came out of that state of self hatred was by accepting myself, I “let myself go free”. Finding music and writing songs was a huge part of that process for me, also you and Jessie Paege inspired me to be very open about it so thanks. 🤘

[@bluecomet1109]

Fuck yeah! Metallica

[@ibruceeasily1728]

Scrolling through comments and it doesn’t seem like anyone is in the same mindset as I am. I feel even more alone.

[@cloudydemon9646]

What's your mindset?

[@aloucastle]

this video made me cry 🥺 I really needed to hear this tonight - thank you :)

[@menglang-27]

I think I gonna have that feeling as the same you too . Dear

[@ShemarWilliams]

I have started my journey of self discovery almost two years ago and I’m just now delving into my sexuality. It’s been hard but I’ve met the most amazing guy ever and it’s scary to love him because I lack the support from friends who may already know that I’m not 100% straight. But for anyone who is going through the same thing I’m going through just know that you’re not alone. Thank you to Courtney for making this video and for helping others who are going through a rough time in trying to understand themselves. Will definitely be watching more of these videos. ✌🏾

[@semperinumbra]

Found this video tonight because im searching to empower myself with my own feelings, just wanted to say thank you for making it and for anyone struggling with uncertainty and stress: this is you're life. Your feelings are valid. You aren't required to box yourself into any definition or to have yourself completely figured out. We change with our experiences and our feelings. Just be as true to yourself as you can and love yourself. Its perfectly okay to be whatever you you want to be. You don't owe anyone any explanations. Let your heart do what hearts do and love whomever you wish to love. we fall in love with the person. Not the genitalia or the social construct. Let your hearts be free.

[@bobby1970]

I accepted my bisexuality as soon as I realized I was bisexual at the age of 24. Now I'm 53 and still loving my bisexuality. I'm actually very close to being gay.

[@lizzybethkennedy7178]

Thank you for making this, im processing alot about myself at the moment and am trying to let myself think and feel what I have hidden for so long. Im only starting my journey of acceptance and this video truly helped. Thank you 💛

[@ambichyutkar724]

Courtney looking dashing as always ❤️😍

[@Courtney-Jai]

Your so sweet

[@beelove13]

I started having conflicting thoughts suddenly about my sexuality and I have always found girls attractive when I was little then it would go away. Then it would come back. I was then healing and it was screaming at me. Today, I accept that I a bisexual. && I choose to be with a man but love that I can still attracted to women and I enjoyed the fun I had with them though I don’t see long term relationship with them. I want to be okay with wanting them or feeling attracted to them.

[@reubadube8183]

I searched up on KZbin looking for a video exactly watched this, and then I saw this and went hold on that’s the guy that was on heartstopper! And then I watched the video and really appreciated this and made me feel great, so thank you Courtney ❤

[@Courtney-Jai]

No problem I'm happy to help I have plenty of video like this so feel free watch any or them also if you have any questions just drop me a comment I always try to reply

[@reubadube8183]

@@Courtney-Jai ❤️

[@tracylongenecker764]

Thank you. I'm done letting everyone tell me what my sexuality should be. Be yourself don't worry about they all have to say.

[@jacobrush7083]

If only there were more people like you in the world. I am struggling with accepting who I am and it is helpful and comforting seeing things like this. Thankyou

[@dathanau8091]

Thank you man🙂 I was sure but this was the extra push I needed

[@OLDS98]

It is a journey to accept many things in life. You sharing will help someone. There are pit falls and there are things that go well too. You sharing your journey will give people the support they need. The only thing that caught me off guard is when you talked about curiosity and expressing and exploring that aspect. You go Courtney.

[@StoneHeartMetalMind]

A good example of a bisexual celebrity/musician is Frank Ocean

[@Courtney-Jai]

Great music aswell

[@Nathanwp07]

Yes! and also Steve Lacy is a another great bisexual artist!

[@bobby1970]

@@Nathanwp07 , I'm very attracted to him. I don't know much about his music, though.

[@samstuff8554]

Also lil nas x

[@StoneHeartMetalMind]

@@samstuff8554 lil nas x is gay tho

[@daumantsbrunins]

I am 38 and after period of active meditation started to realise that i am bisexual even tho at the moment in the sane sex relationship. I always liked both men and women but somehow i was compliant when people said (especially gay) "bisexuality is way to homosexuality " or "You are not bisexual but greedy " or "ypu call yourself bisexual because you are confused or curious but actually gay". I decided to go with male but always spotted beautiful and hot girls. And been attracted to girls more than just emotionally. Finally started to seriously question myself also being bisexual now is more acceptable than 18 years ago. Thank you for your good words. Bless you

[@Courtney-Jai]

Thats the beauty of time everything changes and I to have been told all those things but its how you love your life not how a stereotype does.

[@ryanshuck6954]

One of your best videos Courtney. Humanism is strong with you. Job well done.

[@jdbdb8789]

It took me 2 months to really accept that I am bi and another couple weeks to come out to some of my friends even though there were only about 3-5 straight people in my friend group of about 15 people at the time. Now it has been 7 months since I came out and things have changed alot.

[@Irynganon]

My struggle isn’t so much with accepting I’m bisexual, I accepted that 5 years ago, however I only came out to friends and not family because tbh it really didn’t feel necessary. Now for context I live in Tennessee so the lgbt community isn’t the most welcome here. That certainly played a role in not coming out but like I said I just didn’t see it as something that needed to come out. But recently I fell in love with a guy and things are getting really really serious and for the first time I feel scared to be bisexual. But more than that I’m scared of being gay, obviously not homosexual, but gay because if I marry him someday it won’t matter if I’m attracted to women I’d be married to a man. So what I feel like I’m experiencing is facing my sexuality not so much accepting it.

[@behebop5869]

we need more videos like this 🥺

[@travellingcats1047]

I'm 48 and just now accepting it!

[@Courtney-Jai]

Thats awesome man its never too late

[@robertdem259]

I’m bi and I’d like to think i accepted it but idk if i really did and now I’m scared to go out with guys or girls :( ughh. I really like your videos tho they really help!!

[@leohyuga465]

I am a muslim and i am bisex

[@ameerdomingo36]

Hey me too

[@Courtney-Jai]

Seeing this makes me happy

[@leohyuga465]

Its hard but we will make it easier for as and everyone

[@randomme2032]

@1 1 no don't kill your self!

[@randomme2032]

@1 1 thank God! Cuz I've had the same thoughts in the past and it's scary! :'(

[@aquariusnot_real6491]

Because of who I am as a person I accept the "words" as facts. I accept people for who the tell me they are then as my impression of them as I am around you. Now given that once I knew and understood what Bisexual was immediately accepted it, because it was my words and my understanding of what it meant. But to shouting it from the mountaintop no but if asked I do not lie I tell you.

[@johnblackstone5910]

I like what you said about saying in the mirror to yourself, I’m bisexual. I haven’t done it yet but want to. It’s kind of scary.

[@Rey3518]

Amazing video specially cause there is still so much blur on the bisexual topic, so true I deserve to be happy. And beyond the label I'm still me aside from just my sexuallity

[@kallen7435]

I realised I was bisexual in my late 20s and I have to advise the first thing to do is simple accept yourself

[@Theratranch]

All right man thank you so mutch

[@hsuayattafvabpls8873]

I’m really not sure if I’m bisexual. I have always been attracted to girls for my whole life but recently I have been questioning. The thought of me being bi makes me feel sick because I’ve always known I was straight for my whole life and I don’t know what to do. I’ve heard about something called HOCD and I think that’s what I have but I’m still unsure.

[@avaobrien7222]

This was a great video x thx

[@Gandalfcy]

Very nice video! Very to the point! Actually I am struggling a lot about my sexuality. Trying to accept my self as I am! As you are! It's very helpful 👍

[@kingafire8644]

I'm new to being bi and this helped thank you

[@Courtney-Jai]

No problem happy to help

[@francomancini3401]

Great video courtney. Love the topic. It help me express it. You are amazing and keep be amazing.❤😁🇨🇦

[@Courtney-Jai]

Thank you and your amazing for commenting

[@vladleiva4055]

I have to agree that what triggers me the most is when people think that because I am a bisexual man, I am a gay man.

[@ibkristykat]

How does one explain to their spouse that crushes or physical attractions doesn't mean I'll cheat to try out things?

[@kensenTM]

hey Courtney, so i am only 13 but i have realized that i like my gender and the other gender. But i have been unsure for a long time until i watched this video and it help me out a bunch. but i still have a hard time accepting that i feel like that and it is very distracting cause its all i think about. so if u got anything, please reply. luv ya 💖

[@marissachetcuti6321]

Kensen Martin I am 13 and feel the exact same way. 😀

[@kensenTM]

❤️

[@gabrielmatarrita4061]

Literally I'm struggling with this, I think I'm bisexual but I already told everyone I'm gay so I'm scared that they just don't take me seriously, but I know I like women and I like men :/ and I like more men than women that's why I said I'm gay but now I'm realizing that I'm actually bi it's crazy

[@bobby1970]

Same here. I'm a bisexual male with a strong preference for male. There's definitely nothing wrong with it, and thankfully, today's society is much more accepting of us than ever before.

[@laurenbuford8052]

I was raised Catholic. I think I’m bi but I’m to scared I’m just confused or something. I’ve been told my whole life it was wrong but now I have a crush on a girl and I know this isn’t just made up. I like her in an actual relationship way.

[@mychemicalempire8148]

I was raised catholic as well I know that struggle and the fear instilled from the church as well as the social expectations makes it really hard but you are valid and I hope you went for her! Good luck

[@Peter195267]

I must have issues as I can't say those words out loud.

[@Courtney-Jai]

It takes time build up to it

[@Courtney-Jai]

@Bella Hawthorne I think they call that Dutch courage , its hard to say how we really feel somtimes it can take alot of time it's about understanding yourself and realising what makes you happy

[@callmehambin]

I THINK I’m bisexual but I’m scared to tell someone about it and just be straight I feel weird but it’s like I don’t wanna be bisexual it’s not nothing wrong with it it’s just like i don’t wanna be cause like it’s something telling me that your straight your straight but I know I’m straight but idek anymore I kinda wish I was knew

[@marcusharris7102]

i’m bi and i found coming out rlly easy lol it’s just hard to accept that i am bi but i’m working on it

[@Courtney-Jai]

Its different for everyone but I'm very happy you've found it easy means the world is becoming progressive as accepting yourself it takes time.

[@ryanblack3285]

Oh the shame of it all! LoL for me I felt great shame and at 36 still do at times, but it's because of what other ppl put on it not me. Merry Christmas from America! I'm off to listen to Same Love now by Maclemore 😀

[@jamescaudill3069]

Thanks this video has really helped me big time.

[@Courtney-Jai]

I'm happy it has

[@RockFanSkip]

Struggling 🥺

[@Courtney-Jai]

Hey we all struggle no shame in it , but one thing that always helped me is knowing there only ever going to be one of me so I gotta be the happiest version of me and that was me being honest with who I am.

[@RockFanSkip]

I’m really trying to break through the shame, I know I shouldn’t feel ashamed, I guess it’s the years of being told how you should be and realising who you actually are isn’t that and there is nothing wrong with that, I want to get there

[@Courtney-Jai]

@@RockFanSkip when you realise you're just trying to please other , it becomes clearer you just have to do it for yourself.

[@panayiotageorgiou3390]

I just figured out that I was like a month ago and im 18 even tho I don't want to be it and I wasn't attracted to girls before but I have to accept it even tho I dont want to be it

[@cubz2885]

I'm so confused man first of all i am a 14 year old male wheni was 11 i had a weird attraction to men and women but it faded i was fully confident that i was straight until i was eleven then i thought it was just a phase because it kinda was after that weird little period i never felt that same attraction then cane the end of summer during 2019 i kept get paranoid that i was bisexual i didn't even have an attraction to men i just became paranoid then i actually did and it went on and off and i was just constantly arguing with myself until around February of 2020 when i got without the most wonderful girl the attraction to men faded completely until around now its like i went backwards i would never be with a guy or do anything but i still have these weird feelings of attractions and its driving me crazy rn

[@semperinumbra]

Sometimes desires come and go, it can be days weeks months or years. You can be sexually attracted and not romantically attracted. But the thing that made me want to respond is the paranoia you said you're feeling. a lot of people feel the same way, myself included even at 33. A lot of us get scared that our friends won't accept us, that our family won't accept us, that it'll be a defining characteristic and the first one we're judged by. And yes, you're going to find people who do do that and do distance themselves from you because of it. But, first and foremost the best thing you can do for yourself is be honest with your own feelings and understand that you aren't required to label it. Theres not a rule that says you need to box yourself into any sexual definition. You're allowed to like what you like and dislike what you like and you're allowed to change that as often as you want or need to feel comfortable.. Often the way you treat it is how others around you will treat it, as well. Being true to yourself isn't a weakness, it's a virtue. The hardest thing any individual goes through is being true to themselves. A lot of us lie to ourselves for years, hide it, and feel shame over our feelings. That's especially hard at a young age when people are you are hyper judgemental and a lot of them look for what they precieve as flaws to use against you. But if you can be honest with yourself about your feelings and figure out an emotional support network - even if its just a couple online friends that know you have or struggle with these feelings, over time you'll learn to wear it like armor. You're also very young, there's nothing saying you need to have all the answers about yourself at your age. Plenty of us don't figure ourselves out until very much later in life. Don't stress yourself out over it, love who you want to love and love yourself most of all. Whatever and whoever you decide to grow into is your choice, this life is your journey and you're not wrong for your feelings. Some people might call you gay, straight, bi, whatever. You don't have to be any of those things and what they think is on them, not you. All you have to be is you and happy being you. there's huge portions of people in the world that struggle with the exact same things you're bothered by. You are not alone and its okay to have fears and uncertainties, but, don't let them rule over you. A life lived in fear and regret is a life only half lived. When you're my age you'll have a million things you wish you did differently, but, you'll still appreciate every experience - even the hard ones, sometimes especially the hard ones. Love yourself and don't beat yourself up about not knowing every answer just yet. Its okay to be you, no matter what you you decide to be.

[@MultiXtrailer]

What pissed me off is at my work I never had the chance to fully express myself and ya 🙄 corrupt management ofc turned the comunity on me.... so here I am youtube regaining my confidence.

[@bishbosh4815]

Loooooooove your hair 😍

[@thelonelyhippie5537]

We need more male bi representation, there are probably so many men who are bi but are afraid to come out or to love other men because it is not as normalized within the expectations of their gender when compared to the female gender, imo. Thank you

[@ItsDexie]

U R CUUTE!💕

[@alexharbula4930]

When I saw bohemian rhapsody it felt so good that they had someone say the word bisexual but sadly there was erasure

[@Courtney-Jai]

Yeah pretty much straight after it was said 😒

[@jessbehan0265]

Look I'm not very good at this but I don't really know how to accept my sexuality I have a close friend whose gay and I've never judged him but I judge myself. i dont know why but I do. I've told my sister and she encourages me to come out to my parents but I can't. Not because they'll judge me but because while they may accept me they'll look at me different. I look at myself different. I've never thought anything was wrong with being bisexual. But for some reason I cant accept that it's ok for me to be.

[@Super_Mario128]

I had a crush on an Aussie bi guy, who used to post quite regularly on KZbin. his name was Kaine.

[@najeebirfani]

HI,MAN,ITS BEAUTIFUL EXPLANATION .

[@ianjcollier]

You are so cool Courtney and a nice guy x keep doing what you do

[@stephlovesyu3346]

I’ve always been attracted to both men and women but I’ve only dated men . I feel like I am “ Bi “ but Is it possible to be that and not have dated or been physical with the opposite sex ? Can I call myself bi 🥺

[@NoreoeroN]

1 year later but if you are attracted to the gender it still counts

[@candycandy6082]

I have problems I know I’m bi, but I’m like denying it. I know I like women in the relationship way, and guys just attracted, but I feel like I shouldn’t even like women. it’s all my thinking is just my imagination I have a few of my family members that I told support me but I still feel like I shouldn’t be bi to not complicate things

[@kd3864]

I'm a Bisexual, fully living a life of pretending and lies... I became a Bisexual because of my past experienced. I used to engage on having sex on my opposite gender. We did that it's because we're just kids that time and we enjoyed it until I brought it onto my teenage time, I mean those moments we did already stuck on my mind until I became Teenager but we stopped doing it cause he's straight and he had already gf nowadays. Its just for fun for him. And the worse thing I've face today is that my Parents don't want me to meet a guy someday or should I say they want me to marry a woman and to create family someday... They somehow notice me that there's something wierd on my gender and what I like the most... I don't act gay things, I mean the way I act and move my body's gestures, just like a normal guy. I also attracted to women but for me they could just be my friends though. Rather, I honestly attracted to Men... But I think it's very difficult situation to me facing these...😭😭😭 I don't know what to do... I'm afraid of my Future... All I can do for now is I'll keep doing as a kind Son and study hard... I wish time will come, One day, I hope if they'll get to know what's truly inside my color is, I hope they'll not change on how they know me that they used to be... I'm so disappointed of myself kept denying and pretending about whay they expect to me that I'm straight but inside its not. Its so awful and useless... I just don't know what will be they're reaction if they'll know this...😭😭😭 I'm such a horrible person...😭😭😭 How I wish I could get back to my past and fix everything I've done...but nowadays, I just can't.... Im scared...😭All I can do for now is I just always pray to God that he'll just do the rest for me even though I'm such a horrible person...😭😇🙏 . . . . #OneDay #RightTime

[@squirrelinarmor]

I hope your doing well. Being Bisexual or gay is not a bad thing, you should tell your parents when you are ready to, love yourself and know that you are great and that you were made in the image of god, he loves you, you are perfect in his eyes and mine❤

[@bbixvlogs8862]

I don’t know how to feel

[@TVC15ohoh]

I knew I was bisexual when I was 11 years old. And I told everyone in high school who would sit still long enough that I was bi. I never gave a shit if someone had a problem with it because it wasn't MY problem, it was theirs. I never felt shame because there's nothing to be ashamed of. The only types of people who'd take issue with it were people who were either closed minded, conservative, ignorant, hateful, religious or a closet case - in other words, people I neither respected nor had any regard for to begin with. Fuck 'em. Who cares about people like that? I didn't - and still don't. And you shouldn't either.

[@ibruceeasily1728]

I wish

[@voidbros1232]

I need help I feel like I’m lying to my self and I don’t know that I’m bi or not I feel like I am but not I don’t know please help

[@kimmy5672]

Void bros 123 honestly same. I keep thinking “what if im gay tho” even if i express interest in BOTH men and women. Everyone always says that bisexuality is a stop to being gay and ik it isnt but i still feel alot of doubt

[@Elizabeth-em2zw]

I'd love someone to talk to, I've been confused my whole life

[@Courtney-Jai]

I can try my best to help

[@michealfoux]

Can I still talk with you I am really sad right now. I am at the phase of questioning myself and accepting it at the same time

[@abevic7215]

Same man

[@hanac355]

Y

[@Courtney-Jai]

That is a letter in the alphabet

[@raider4341]

I am also bisexual. Thank you for making this video

[@Courtney-Jai]

Thank you for watching it also if you haven't seen I have a video 5 stages of bisexuality might also help

[@raider4341]

I’ll make sure to do that

[@theuniverselovesme1529]

I'm bi too. Life is really hard right now. I just started High School and I don't fit in with most of the boys, so I usually hang out with girls, and because of that, people think I'm gay. I'm not. I'm bi for fucks sake. I don't know how to fit in with the boys soo please help me

[@nhiecopaclibare4146]

My love. 💕

[@uwu-nm4fc]

I think I’m bisexual. I’m not 100% sure. I am a female and I am definitely not straight because I am attracted to females. I could be friends with both genders and I think I want to have a girlfriend, and also think that males are attractive. I just don’t like the idea of heterosexual sex, the only thing I’m certain about is that I want a sexual relationship with a woman. It’s so hard to say that and accept it. I told my ex friends (they did something unbelievable but that’s not important) that I thought I was bisexual and they decided it was their place to tell everyone I was bi and bring it up all the time in conversations with people, which I was uncomfortable with because I hadn’t accepted it yet myself, I just thought it was important they knew so I could ask for help about if I needed to rant. I told them a few times it was uncomfortable for me but they thought “you say it all the time so we can” I was like... no, no you can’t. It’s my sexuality, I want to say it on days that I feel comfortable saying it, which isn’t every day. Please don’t just tell a random person because I won’t feel comfortable telling them. They never asked me if I wanted that person to know my sexuality

[@robertdem259]

That’s annoying friends are are supposed to keep secrets and support each other, i hope you made some new friends that can support you and hope you’re doing okay

[@uwu-nm4fc]

Robert Dem aha nope, still have no friends. I’m hoping to find new friends that actually support me, I realise now that they weren’t very nice people

[@Ehab-d8f]

I have a message for everyone who tries to accept his sexual funding I want to tell you my dear thing that is not your sin of his national fossils never have been so you have been born so you must accept your own and love it and understand it is the first steps to live a lifetime to live a lifetime, you are gay or transgender or a small or sexual tendencies, you can know that you are not alone, or the tens of millions like you are the same as a sexual orientation and that you are a different nationality of the rest, and you do not mean anything like you are all the humans in this world but the difference between you and that you are different from them in your nationality's I hope this letter helps at least one person to accept himself and I'm sorry if there are mistakes in writing because I don't speak English very well

[@jaggass]

I'm not going to put a label on what i am but i feel more attracted to men than women. I believe sexuality isn't fixed.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Do what you feel is right for you

[@jaggass]

@@Courtney-Jai Whatever i feel like at the time but i feel consumed by at times. Porn isn't helping either so giving it up.

[@saintlifter8931]

im a bisexual guy and honestly .......i thnik that i will never come out

[@Courtney-Jai]

Takes times it never feels like you will buy eventually you will and it will be the best thing you ever do

[@melaniepalma-diaz2054]

Do you have snapchat that's the only social media I have

[@jakeknight6154]

Aye aye

[@idek3009]

I personally am really confused, I thought I was 100 percent gay, but ive caught really strong feelinhs for one of my female friends, i know I'm not sexually attracted to her, but I am mentally, I am both sexually and mentally attracted to men, but im starting to wonder if I'm mentally attracted to women, I mean, ive always felt really comfortable around women no matter their sexuality, so Idk, maybe I'm bisexual with a lean towards men?

[@Courtney-Jai]

Quite possible with me I see my bisexuality as 50/50 but alot of people sway from one side to the other depends on the person really

[@tanya9981]

♥️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@pinkflash1237]

No one will probably see this but I'm battle my fear and stress

[@Courtney-Jai]

Well I seen it and I understand before I came out I was so scared that someone would find who I was that u isolated myself from everyone

[@dododiscor2147]

Someone else who feels like he's not enough for his girlfriend because you're also into doing it with men? Like, I am not manly enough for her

[@kari4990]

Me “labeling” myself as bi-curious for almost 10 years 🤡🤡🤡

[@Courtney-Jai]

Do what ever makes you feel happy if bicuriosity is the label you feel comfortable with there is nothing wrong with that

[@kari4990]

@@Courtney-Jai I know that Im bi too but I have a hard time accepting it, I’m surrounded by homophobes. This video helped though 💕

[@Courtney-Jai]

@@kari4990 well I'd it helps you just come out to me as bi , it's a baby step but it's defiantly the right one

[@kari4990]

@@Courtney-Jai I think I’m ok with it now. I discovered when I was 14 but my mom made me think that I’m wrong and crazy so I just tried to ignore it, and I’m almost 25 now so I think it’s time to accept it. Watching you really helped, thank you. You’re really cute btw (:

[@1307]

I still don't get why bisexuality is such a hard concept for society to understand

[@whasso]

Im 12.......................im early i know.

[@Courtney-Jai]

You know when you know I've had friends who realised their sexuality at 10 and I've know people even younger you just know when you know

[@litoboy5]

step one: accept you are bisexual step two: ?????

[@Courtney-Jai]

That first step isn't as easy as it sounds

[@natsudragneel7586]

It is really hard when your living in a Christian society,

[@robertdem259]

Ughh tell me about it I’m christian and arab, when someone from my town moved to the US and married a guy my grandma literally started praying so that god would keep the gay away from our family lol and my bi self was in the corner like 😶

[@BJ-xh8tg]

Th@nkyou

[@fredo250]

I need help lord jesus man

[@Idrick-fu7sz]

I am physically mentally an sexually ,I can accept This I have not came out I don’t know wat label I am , I like women have sex an I like gay me I am a bottom I say I just gay , an I do that I write down I am gay liking homosexual an women and I state I am proud of it ,I just don’t Know how too come out why it’s a god thing can anyone understand this