Signs A Guy Is More Than A Friend

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Courtney-Jai

Courtney-Jai

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Signs A Guy Is More Than A Friend
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Do you have a best friend? Do you wish they were your boyfriend or girlfriend? How about maybe you've just caught feelings for someone or maybe you're just curious? Well, today I'm talking about signs a guy is more than a friend. From intimacy to jealousy, I give you some signs there might be a special person in your life, no matter your sexuality, be you bisexual, straight, or gay, sometimes you just need a little help. Enjoy the video.
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@frankf4421
@frankf4421 5 жыл бұрын
He told me today at the park. Best Day Ever
@raulantunez4228
@raulantunez4228 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you!
@witchypoo7353
@witchypoo7353 4 жыл бұрын
Awww! I hope everything went well
@dpratiksaha76
@dpratiksaha76 4 жыл бұрын
Ooo
@aliabdullah5074
@aliabdullah5074 3 жыл бұрын
How did it go sis?!
@aliabdullah5074
@aliabdullah5074 3 жыл бұрын
Spill the tea
@kylebouldin-100waystobeasc4
@kylebouldin-100waystobeasc4 3 жыл бұрын
I like my bestfriend. Sadly, he was straight and only wanted to be friends. It hurts sometimes when I hear him over the phone talking about a girl he liked or at school seeing him talking to other girls and checking them out. Unreasonable, I know, but we did stay friends, thankfully, after I came out to him. My advice on this matter: Be understanding and considerate towards your crush even if he/she cannot/doesn't reciprocate your feelings, especially if that person is your friend or someone close to you.
@Rygercsp
@Rygercsp 5 жыл бұрын
It was confusing growing up as bisexual because I didn’t understand that strong feeling. I knew I liked girls, and I had plenty of guy friends, but in high school I developed what I now know was a crush on a guy. A friend. At the time I just thought I maybe admired this dude, liked being around him and wanted to hangout. Naturally I developed jealousy, I was a bit clingy at times, and I thought I just REALLY wanted to be his best friend. Happened again maybe 4 years later with a different guy. Both were straight. Now I’ve known both for 5-10 years and while they are indeed some of my very best friends, I definitely had developed feelings for them before I was ready to admit I was bisexual. They both know now that I’m bi, but neither have asked the, “oh...so did you ever have feelings for me?” though they may have guessed by now lol I will say that the infatuation faded the more I saw them as just my friends, and now would never think of either as anything more. I suppose finding out your best friend likes you back is probably amazing, but even if they don’t, they can still be some of the very best friends you’ll have. They’ve been there for me, instantly accepted me coming out, and I wouldn’t trade my friendship with them for anything. Good luck boys and girls, and love to CJ as always!
@KymariFutrell
@KymariFutrell 5 жыл бұрын
I pounced when I saw this notification The sign I had was intimacy, I almost kissed my best friend who is a boy
@elijamjar._.717
@elijamjar._.717 5 жыл бұрын
KhaiStudios lucky, I’m not even close 😂
@KymariFutrell
@KymariFutrell 5 жыл бұрын
@@elijamjar._.717 lmao
@jeremypeprah4211
@jeremypeprah4211 5 жыл бұрын
Yeh I liked my best friend
@thelonewanderer4084
@thelonewanderer4084 5 жыл бұрын
This helped. I ruined many friendships because I started to like someone or they liked me and I liked them and I never knew until afterward.
@flurfityfloof1000
@flurfityfloof1000 5 жыл бұрын
I am literally that bi 17 year old right now totally confused about that best friend 😆 That's it, Courtney's probably a mind reader 😅
@practicalelectricity5618
@practicalelectricity5618 5 жыл бұрын
Go ahead get time to tell him.
@ybborq7927
@ybborq7927 5 жыл бұрын
aq ligawan mo. ahahahahhaha
@S01-k9z
@S01-k9z 4 жыл бұрын
Dont tell him it might ruin your friendship , If he dont like you it will be awkward and ge will stop hanging around with you. Onmy tell him if you get signs , or hint and see what he does , dont just outright tell him
@wmmcwammer8452
@wmmcwammer8452 4 жыл бұрын
yeah same why do i have to fall for my friends... hm i hope u guys all find love because you deserve it👍😊❤❤❤
@johnmark1183
@johnmark1183 4 жыл бұрын
Sean 01 i have never told my bestfriend but somehow i knew it hiddenly, We dont talk anymore , 3years now havent seen him while
@matteo5399
@matteo5399 5 жыл бұрын
I do think that sometimes prolonged hugs or cuddling can be between friends too, so it can be hard to tell in that regard
@d.c.5704
@d.c.5704 4 жыл бұрын
I'm "bisexual" but lean more towards women bc it's difficult for me to develop a complete bond with men but I'm open to it. I met a pretty chill guy who's interested in much of the same things as me, in time things moved quickly- we hung out many times, we kissed (he wanted me to), talk til 6am after work, drink, smoke together, met his kids, etc. And he told me he couldn't get close to me anymore. I asked why, he didn't give me a specific reason, but what I got was he basically liked me too much and he didn't like how he felt when around me. From what he said, it seems like I made him vulnerable. He's into women and men as well, and would always flirt w me- but now it's completely dark. No communication, rare interactions, no more text responses, at work it's very distant, etc. At first I was mad, angry he wouldn't talk to me about it- but then I grew distant and pushed him away too. And once he noticed that, he tried to be tight w me, and I resumed my way of being distant, he asked what was wrong, i dismissed it bc we've talked about being close even as friends already before this moment, and I told him nothing was bothering me. And a month went by and it's the present, but i can't help but think of him and i miss our friendship, our talks, and just how much we had in common. It sucks, and i don't know whether to be angry, annoyed, move on, or try again at reconnecting. It's like a state of purgatory for my emotions towards this situation, not quite about it, but missing the idea of it. It's extremely confusing and irritating since I work w him.
@OceanIgs
@OceanIgs Жыл бұрын
Did you guys talk it out? How'd it go? Did you reconcile?
@thiernodiallo5967
@thiernodiallo5967 4 жыл бұрын
‘I guess we start to see our patterns when they are all laid out infront of us...’ -Dean Craig Pelton
@A_Drift...
@A_Drift... 5 жыл бұрын
I get kind of the opposite. I get a lot of "straight" friends that give me hints that they like me. Some straight up tell me at some point, esp if they know I'm bi, that they think I'm cute. It's a mood.
@KathrynMasrona
@KathrynMasrona 4 жыл бұрын
Drifter the fuck that’s just wrong. :(
@neoyaku
@neoyaku 8 ай бұрын
May be abusive (emotional)
@Luckyli98
@Luckyli98 Жыл бұрын
‘The house blew up and the kids ran away’ CJ😂😂😂
@jkc-kp
@jkc-kp 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure if I’ll ever get to tell this to anyone in person. But I had this office best friend but I no longer see since I resigned from work. We didn’t have the exact same interests but we were as close as anyone could be. We shared our dreams with each other, we got comfortable enough to hold hands, give backrubs, hugs, and lie on each other’s stomachs when we talk. I really do miss him but I feel like I’m pestering him whenever I chat with him. Makes me sad when I miss him but I’m really happy that we got as close as that. He’s the reason I realized that I might be bisexual but he’s straight, so it doesn’t matter anyway. He doesn’t know that I feel this way anyway.
@ryanblack844
@ryanblack844 4 жыл бұрын
In middle and high school I had strong crushes on a few of my guy friends. I think this is really common.
@t.maurice1804
@t.maurice1804 5 жыл бұрын
Lol this guy has me saying " love, peace ,and chicken grease" at the end of my work meetings every day 🤣🤣
@schokokuchen3358
@schokokuchen3358 4 жыл бұрын
About the hugging and cuddling, a little tip from me (and why I make sure that my friends know that I just like hugging) some people do hug and cuddle with friends and have no romantic feelings for them, so maybe find out if they hug and share blankets with every friend
@schokokuchen3358
@schokokuchen3358 4 жыл бұрын
And if they do hug, maybe the hug you more then others? Like he said in the video, do they behave different around you then there other friends? And sometimes an other friend can help and sees sings that you can't
@ATomsKyiv
@ATomsKyiv Жыл бұрын
Told my Best Friend in a subtle way. Ghosted. Follow up messages. Ghosted. Most hurtful thing that ever happened to me.
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai Жыл бұрын
Sometimes, it's never meant to be its a big choice to make , and it can be make or break for a friendship
@rr7firefly
@rr7firefly 4 жыл бұрын
Hooks? I finally realized you were saying "hugs."
@squamousthomas3267
@squamousthomas3267 5 жыл бұрын
guys, don’t obsess over more than one person. I have two people that I love right now and I can’t have either. Just try and stay with one at a time
@floatingheadslilmum6951
@floatingheadslilmum6951 3 жыл бұрын
Unless you’re poly 😊
@johnmoon3848
@johnmoon3848 5 жыл бұрын
Courtney, I just loved this! I'm so impressed, and grateful, that you are so clear, so grounded and open with expressing your thoughts and feelings and wisdom!
@vincentjohnmendez9878
@vincentjohnmendez9878 5 жыл бұрын
I just subscribed here and found a lot about bisexuality. :) Thank you, courtney jai
@tyresegoliath6504
@tyresegoliath6504 5 жыл бұрын
U keep on hypnotising me with your pretty hair😍
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
It's getting longer
@michellelohde8683
@michellelohde8683 3 жыл бұрын
@@Courtney-Jai i like guy in my group how tell him ??.
@lennoxbonnie5210
@lennoxbonnie5210 5 жыл бұрын
I just want to say that your personality is...AMAZING!
@jacklynbaxmann2044
@jacklynbaxmann2044 2 жыл бұрын
My friend was holding my hand like he was my bf and this video helped me find out if he was just messing around or if he liked me. (He probably likes me) thank you Courtney Jai
@theresachacon1122
@theresachacon1122 3 жыл бұрын
As a bi girl, I know when I have a crush on a guy but when I have a crush on a girl, I think that I just want to be their friend or that they are just a really good friend. Thinking back, I have actually liked my best friend in that way. I also realize that I may have had more than just three girl crushes. It's more 50/50. I've had 5 boy crushes so far and 5 girl crushes. I knew I had a crush on the boys but with the girls, it was more do just me being in denial.
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 3 жыл бұрын
I would imagine it probably took you to build up a bond before you could feel that way with a girl
@tallactordude
@tallactordude 5 жыл бұрын
I suppose in a way I was lucky that I was never physically attracted to my best friend. We’ve been friends for many years, but he is straight and I am gay, and it’s never been a problem. Years ago I did a couple of times have roommates I was attracted to, but sadly they did not feel the same way about me. In fact, it’s never happened that somewhat I was attracted to was attracted to me, which is why I have remained single. That’s just the way it goes sometimes.
@georgeduryea7073
@georgeduryea7073 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for you commentary on this subject. I'm 66, I finally excepted that I'm bisexual and I've had and still have these feelings for the same sex thanks for sharing. I have a lot to learn. 👍🤩
@romanovnagenesis1944
@romanovnagenesis1944 5 жыл бұрын
I just realized that I am in love with my best friend
@jamesuk5784
@jamesuk5784 5 жыл бұрын
Keep on making these great videos! Also, I’m liking the hairstyle man!
@WhimsicalASMR60
@WhimsicalASMR60 5 жыл бұрын
I really loved this video keep up it Jai also your hair looks great
@ChicagoGuyLivingLife
@ChicagoGuyLivingLife 5 жыл бұрын
I think you are 100% correct. Thanks for sharing.
@binok4451
@binok4451 4 жыл бұрын
I was too dumb not to know (early on) about this body language. He genuinely likes me and somehow I didn't recognize it. It was too late when I figured. I hurt him and now I'm the one who's hurting cos I've been ghosted.
@myqueen_RegineVelasquez
@myqueen_RegineVelasquez 3 жыл бұрын
Saddt
@alex22co49
@alex22co49 4 жыл бұрын
When you’re looking at this video and that you totally agree with what he’s saying , and you think that now you’ll know if somebody has a crush on you :😄 And then when he starts saying that people who make you big hug are only those who feel very comfortable with you , but you live in France where anybody can give you a hug or touch you without any reason :😟
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 4 жыл бұрын
Haha sorry I can only speak for British culture maybe in France its if they don't hug you 🤔😋😋😋
@alex22co49
@alex22co49 4 жыл бұрын
Courtney-Jai Yeah maybe 😂
@OLDS98
@OLDS98 5 жыл бұрын
Courtney.. you put a lot of thought into this video. It was informative the thoughts you shared. I think it was interesting watching you explain from your perspective of what happened to you. As for me, I would not know it if someone was interested in m romantically. I would not know if someone wanted to be friends with me. They would have to tell me. I did enjoy the video.
@alexandrumacovei7174
@alexandrumacovei7174 5 жыл бұрын
Being straight and watching this. Lol. Just procrastinating, but I love your ideas!
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks and yeah as I said the video can help anyone I think because most of this signs don't just boil down to one gender or sexuality but a plethora
@rekagotik2785
@rekagotik2785 4 жыл бұрын
feeling really called out by this
@falkon26
@falkon26 5 жыл бұрын
I have liked some straight guys in school and work but never told them,but I've never had a friend or someone I've got really close to,I'm jealous of those that do have close friends- something I've only dreamed of
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I guess it just depends on your environment and if you have the chemistry for that to happen
@OceanIgs
@OceanIgs Жыл бұрын
Ok, I think I'm catching feelings for my friend but I'm not fully out, yet. I'm not sure what he is but I think he's straight which makes this harder. Being closeted sucks, man.
@jedixfett
@jedixfett 5 жыл бұрын
Ugh what do you do if a guy you like and he knows you like him keeps coming over to hangout but still wants to be friends 🙄
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
Then you be friends not everyone is going to like you in that way but at least he was honest with you
@JJF74
@JJF74 5 жыл бұрын
I came across your video and looked like I can identify with it. Both of us are straight, but we've never actually met in person yet although we have developed into close best friends for 13 plus years albeit just online. He's recently said he sees me more than just a regular friend and wants me to be loved and appreciated but as he put it not in a "gay way". I love him as a friend and know that I wouldn't want to be sexual or intimate with a guy in person or have a romantic interest because I am still straight even though had thoughts and fantasies mainly about men. However, for my whole adult life never had any real platonic social closeness with others, or specifically with other men in person. We have called the other as a boyfriend, but it's merely in name only. He doesn't want to use labels. Guessing I am just questioning or curious? Just not enough to want to act on anything in person where reality sets in and you wake up. There is part of me that can see how it would be possible if or when we do meet in person, my friend has always looked out for me wanting to make sure I am never uncomfortable, but at the same time we are both straight and at the end of the day still just a nice fantasy. Either way food for thought.
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
I mean it perfectly fine what ever happens as long as you make each other happy that's the most important part
@markh4926
@markh4926 4 жыл бұрын
I let a friend camp out on my property every week because he lives in a camper and needs a home base to do laundry, shower etc. One day I came out of my wood shop and he was bathing outside. I was heading to my house and he sort of covered up but I'd seen everything he had, which is a pretty toned body. He pretended to be embarrassed so I talked with him while I walked past him to my front door. He's always mentioning sex things but if I try to sit and talk about sex he clams up or changes the subject. He's gone naked twice outdoors so I'm wondering if I should press him on it. He already refused to use my shower. HMMM.
@kimkk2981
@kimkk2981 4 жыл бұрын
He used to slapped my butt😂😂 literally plenty time at school I didn't took it seriously. We had fun together a lot during those days. But after I came out as gay He told me he's bi I was shocked More than he should be on me That day was funny and so awkward Than all those unecessary things he did , I was thinking about those We are still best friends now
@openedtodiscussion
@openedtodiscussion 3 жыл бұрын
Nice, thanks. What about the "hungry eyes" sign? Making someone can be friendly, right.
@timward3116
@timward3116 Жыл бұрын
I come from a different era - and I really wish that I had been brave enough to respond to "straight" friends who made an effort to let me know they were interested. One really good friend told me that he was a great kisser and volunteered to show me how he kisses. But I was too afraid that it was some sort of trap because he was also the roommate of a co-worker and I was still in the closet. I really should have taken him up on his offer, and I hope that I didn't hurt his feelings.
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai Жыл бұрын
Life is apart of growing as a person everyone will have moments they wish they did somthing different but those moment make understand when that opportunity comes again take it
@timward3116
@timward3116 Жыл бұрын
@@Courtney-Jai So true. He died about 15 years ago in a motorcycle accident, unfortunately. I would imagine that he understands my regret now, though. Live and learn. As I am closing in on the end of my life (I'm pretty old, but otherwise in good health), such opportunities don't present themselves anymore.
@senseibot8719
@senseibot8719 4 жыл бұрын
please stop describing my life i'm scared
@JethroGrantham
@JethroGrantham 3 жыл бұрын
I been out of the closet for 5 years and i still not have a boyfriend yet...
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 3 жыл бұрын
Its takes time , sometimes when your looking for a partner you won't find one but the day you stop you it's just because things happens more naturally that way
@JethroGrantham
@JethroGrantham 3 жыл бұрын
@@Courtney-Jai Thanks
@ahmedmoses3092
@ahmedmoses3092 4 жыл бұрын
Hello jay.. Well am 22 and still struggling with my bisexuality but my question is " there is this straight guy i kinda fancy and he's always calm nd funny and around me and stares at my lips alot.. Ugh confusing straight dude🤦
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 4 жыл бұрын
Only thing you can do is ask
@S01-k9z
@S01-k9z 4 жыл бұрын
You just kinda know if soneone fancys you, follow your gut
@dazrmorrison9558
@dazrmorrison9558 4 жыл бұрын
People with hearing loss lip read, even if not wearing hearing aids or diagnosed.
@hausofkpop2245
@hausofkpop2245 5 жыл бұрын
He Told me on my birthday , Happy Birthday I love you , I mean he kind of knows my sexuality , I hint it sometimes , so idk
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
That's cute 😊
@animemusic8
@animemusic8 4 жыл бұрын
I easily fall to a friend, especially when that friend became really close to me... sadly everything ends up in heartbreak they were all straight. I fell in love with my best friend in high school but he was very straight so I distanced myself after graduation. Fortunately, I was able to move on. Second, was my best friend in college. We were very close. There was a time we almost kiss but he stopped and said he was straight. I stopped for a semester because I was really hurt. When I went back to finish college, I became really close to my research friend, we were like best friends. Again, I caught feeling but he was straight as well. But my relationship with them remained the same as they were still very close to me. The feelings were gone but our friendships with each other stay the same.
@OceanIgs
@OceanIgs Жыл бұрын
Falling for a straight friend really sucks big time. Even harder if you're not fully out, yet.
@lightninglithium
@lightninglithium 4 жыл бұрын
I have a hard time with this kind of stuff. I have learning issues, and, so, I have very poor Social Skills. I do notice a lot of things, but, looking at lips I probably wouldn't notice, but, I'm not quite sure.
@qwertypoison53
@qwertypoison53 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry I can't even listen to you at some points hahahah you are gorgeous!
@Benzyl_Penoxide
@Benzyl_Penoxide 5 жыл бұрын
I made this bad joke and he laughed. He doesn’t really look at me anymore, is he too afraid to ask me out or...? This once time I moved closer to him in my seat and he didn’t move his seat away, maybe.
@dazrmorrison9558
@dazrmorrison9558 4 жыл бұрын
Personal space is a thing. If they let you in close...that’s a positive.
@Benzyl_Penoxide
@Benzyl_Penoxide 4 жыл бұрын
Dazr Morrison that guy I had a crush on turned out not to be gay. There was this other guy that I’m pretty sure he liked me but I don’t know/think I’ll ever see him again. He was a really nice guy 😔
@natcreepy4112
@natcreepy4112 5 жыл бұрын
Sooo, today I was walking down the street when I got a text message from my best friend, and well these person was in the hospital, and I realized how much I care, I started crying and went to visit, we both cried
@skins189lbs4
@skins189lbs4 4 жыл бұрын
He may be the most handsome guy I’ve ever seen! Well spoken too. I have a mini gay crush on this dude.
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 4 жыл бұрын
Haha well thanks you that's very kind
@skins189lbs4
@skins189lbs4 4 жыл бұрын
@@Courtney-Jai ;) if only you were in LA I'd ask you out lmao
@skins189lbs4
@skins189lbs4 4 жыл бұрын
Assuming you were single and we already struck up convo of course
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 4 жыл бұрын
@@skins189lbs4 thats very sweet maybe in another life haha , but I hope you do find some who is lovely
@skins189lbs4
@skins189lbs4 4 жыл бұрын
@@Courtney-Jai lol thanks
@ashleyhoward2468
@ashleyhoward2468 3 жыл бұрын
My man has this right hand man, he’s always dodging his calls, never want to hang out. But this long time friend keeps popping up at his family’s house when he’s not there, always hearting his comments and just told him “I miss your ugly ass” …..I’m getting gay vibes from his friend? What do u think? I can’t shake this!
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 3 жыл бұрын
I mean not really alot to go off there kinda comes down to you and him.
@anissaholmes4495
@anissaholmes4495 2 ай бұрын
Dude, he gay.
@lennoxbonnie5210
@lennoxbonnie5210 5 жыл бұрын
I didn't become the boyfriend of my best friend because I don't feel like that for my best friend... But I think that he does/or did (I haven't seen him for a while now) so that's why I watched this video. I needed to know some of the signs. I don't want to hurt him but I just wish those feelings could go away. I feel awkward and soooo uncomfortable when he gets to close or looks at me in certain ways and then everyone else just stares at us. UGHH I don't wanna be a bad person I just want to let him know that we're nothing more than friends and that's it. Help!!
@michaelblower7363
@michaelblower7363 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video Courtney-Jai, I loved it! :-)
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and I'm happy you liked it
@Bajram1998
@Bajram1998 4 жыл бұрын
told him that i like him, he said to me that i'm not his type of guy :D feelings were gone instantly. but idk, he asked me yesterday, if i have still feelings for him but i said no. i dont get it :D but : we are better friends than before ^^
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 4 жыл бұрын
Thats good maybe he just wanted to clarify not to make it awkward
@philcol86
@philcol86 3 жыл бұрын
I probably show some of those signs but notice more often than not signs they aren't interested. It's unfortunate.
@thenessh2807
@thenessh2807 4 жыл бұрын
I told my best friend i like em but “they” said we’re just friends but still keeps flirting n like shows affection to me what does that mean
@leightonsheldrake6130
@leightonsheldrake6130 5 жыл бұрын
Great video Courtney-Jai 😊
@nathanrangel9860
@nathanrangel9860 2 жыл бұрын
I'm in love with my bestfriend and I don't know what to do.
@The_electrohashira
@The_electrohashira 2 жыл бұрын
Hello, so this are my own signs, whenever he sees me, he make sure that he sjhakes me and these handhake lasts for seconds like about thirty to forty seconds and i dont know if he likes me or not.
@HamiltonRb
@HamiltonRb 5 жыл бұрын
Possible future video? Friends with benefits, win-win or disaster waiting to happen?
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
I'd have to find someone who has done that as I wouldn't know mysekf
@RobertLouisDavis
@RobertLouisDavis Ай бұрын
Everything isn't sexual. Hugging your friend does not imply sexual interest.
@firelord9760
@firelord9760 5 жыл бұрын
I just started crushing on my best friend in Douglas
@CoreySchultz
@CoreySchultz 5 жыл бұрын
Dude such a cool video 🧡🙌🏼🙌🏼
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Corey 😝😝😝
@joeym5355
@joeym5355 Ай бұрын
I have a friend now . He's been hurt a lot . We have a fwb situation were he says im special but deal with people. But when we look at each other we gravitate towards each other. I guess i'll stay his friend until one of us make the move , What do you guys think?
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai Ай бұрын
@joeym5355 I think if you want something and you feel that it will be reciprocated back then make the first move ask how they feel about you. The only thing I would say is the friendship one that's worth losing if it doesn't go the way you want it to.
@joeym5355
@joeym5355 Ай бұрын
@ yes so true I’ll stay safe let him be comfortable to make the first move
@quininnboysusvillarocero9837
@quininnboysusvillarocero9837 3 жыл бұрын
Man, those clownfish in your aquarium hooked me. 💖💖💖💖
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 3 жыл бұрын
Haha yeah their my babies had them since they were the size of a 5p coin
@quininnboysusvillarocero9837
@quininnboysusvillarocero9837 3 жыл бұрын
@@Courtney-JaiOh man, they are so lovely. 😍😍😍😍
@dino91001
@dino91001 4 жыл бұрын
anyone know how to get past the grindr ip/device ban?? 😩 i’ve tried different emails, login with apple, deleted the app and re-downloaded, even tried making an account on my ipad, i tried contacting them to make an appeal and never heard back, and wasn’t given a reason why my account was banned because i can’t think of a thing i could have done wrong. nothing worked. tech dudes, please let me know if you got any suggestions. i downloaded the scruff, adam and tinder apps but they’re not the same :/
@thomash226
@thomash226 5 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy your videos.
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
Well thank you I appreciate you watching them
@Kay-dz6xd
@Kay-dz6xd 4 жыл бұрын
But what if it’s an online relationship? Who can i make sure that they’re interested? Like I’m afraid that I’m gonna ruin an amazing friendship if I express my emotions
@Kay-dz6xd
@Kay-dz6xd 4 жыл бұрын
At the same time I’m afraid that they’re feeling the same thing but like we’re both scared do u know how? I just don’t know I’m sure about my emotions but i feel like they’re not interested and i just blow everything and just make it awkward since they’re really important to me
@agreatleblanc1118
@agreatleblanc1118 8 ай бұрын
If anyone cares to answer , I would appreciate it much. I am a bi guy , currently having a relationship with a girl. My friend that I met like 6 months ago has ended up being one of my closest friends and we tell pretty much to each other. He knows , I am in a relationship and he knows my girl as well. During the last month when I met him in person, because we study in different cities, he told me twice that if I wasn't with my girl he would like to 'put it inside me'. Can that mean anything ? He said to everyone that he is straight but he supports LGBTQ+. He also likes to joke around with that kind of stuff. But I noticed that his behavior is kind of different to me than to other males. Like he does touch me on my shoulder with his hand and he leaves it there for like 5 mins. I'm very confused
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 8 ай бұрын
Well, first of all, you're in a relationship, so I would suggest thinking about how your partner would feel about it . Secondly, this sounds like classic closet behaviour , ask yourself would you say the same thing to someone else in a relationship.
@PopCultureKing2009
@PopCultureKing2009 6 ай бұрын
@@Courtney-Jaimy crush I noticed the signs he would always try to be around me and get close to me he would watch me in gym and get behind me it made me mad because I’m very insecure he seemed like a jealous hater and he acted so different around his friends but when he was alone he would try to talk to me he never talked to me and people kept telling me he didn’t like me and I believed that I was mad at him and I stayed away moved away from him gave him space then he tried to come back and talk to me and be my friend we stopped talking when school ended after he reached out to me he broke my heart
@evelieningels9408
@evelieningels9408 4 жыл бұрын
I almost always look at someone's lips when i talk to them??
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 4 жыл бұрын
Not everything I say is gospel but typically people look into someone's eyes when talking to them , but its down to psychology you can look it up id you want.
@samoueltsela3578
@samoueltsela3578 5 жыл бұрын
Bro i wish i can Just Kiss my best friend i have known him for 8 year and i am 14
@johnmark1183
@johnmark1183 4 жыл бұрын
I hate when my straight bestfriend cuddles me . 👺👺👺 , i tell him in joke, Stop this flagot🤣, you can only hug me if you are gay
@blancamendoza2714
@blancamendoza2714 Жыл бұрын
Im straight he knows how i feel about him, but tells me his not ready to settle down of his with someone alse older thrn me. His with his gay friend wsnts ,\ 4:49 hom too
@blancamendoza2714
@blancamendoza2714 Жыл бұрын
What can i do for jose that is gay to leave him alone, need help.😢
@rivercity587
@rivercity587 3 жыл бұрын
Nice Scottish Accent when you where talking about best friends
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 3 жыл бұрын
Haha thank you unfortunately mu accents suck and they usually sound a combo of Scottish, Irish and Jamaican
@markmh835
@markmh835 5 жыл бұрын
Hey people, regarding this subject of falling for your best friend, you need to RUN -- not walk -- and search KZbin to watch the short gay film "The Language of Love" featuring schoolboy Charlie coming to terms with his feelings for his friend. It is a spectacular film that should have millions of views. You will thank me later. You're welcome! 😄
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
I'll check it out
@markmh835
@markmh835 5 жыл бұрын
@@Courtney-Jai -- Courtney, did you get to watch "The Language of Love" yet? I'd be curious as to your opinion of this film.
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
@@markmh835 I haven't yet but I will do I've been so busy recently I might watch it on Monday
@markmh835
@markmh835 5 жыл бұрын
@@Courtney-Jai -- It will be the best 9 1/2 minutes of your summer (maybe). 😊
@Rey3518
@Rey3518 5 жыл бұрын
I think go with your gut cause many times is right and all those signs apply to me and my friend but why are we still just friends tho lol anyways great video and nice hair btw
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you and thanks for the hair compliment
@michaelcaza6766
@michaelcaza6766 4 жыл бұрын
Your body language theory regarding where a person looks is shot to hell when it comes to someone on the autism spectrum.
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 4 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately I can't cover all aspects probably wouldn't be applicable if you were underwater either haha
@michaelcaza6766
@michaelcaza6766 4 жыл бұрын
@@Courtney-Jai that’s a fair point. This was still a great video sexy. Just out of curiosity, are you a top or bottom?
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 4 жыл бұрын
@@michaelcaza6766 well thats for only my partner to know 😆
@natexpress5555
@natexpress5555 Жыл бұрын
​@Courtney-Jai 😂
@LennyCovers
@LennyCovers Жыл бұрын
Need a subtitle
@MrGreggie77
@MrGreggie77 5 жыл бұрын
Have a Bi friend but everytime we get together he spends the next day trying to prove he is still straight total switch pisses me off.
@MrGreggie77
@MrGreggie77 4 жыл бұрын
@Albert Munkey We are both Alphas and it is real hot. But, I don't like it when he says he loves women still and has to make that point everytime.
@MrGreggie77
@MrGreggie77 4 жыл бұрын
@Albert Munkey Wow, sounds hot hehe. I get upset and he knows it does but everytime he has to point out how much he still loves pussy like I didn't hear him after the first 10 times we fucked. Before he goes on his love of women when he wants a cock he talks about living together and stuff like that. He is one confused little christian.
@jimzyt6674
@jimzyt6674 4 жыл бұрын
I know this video is years ago, but I just wanna ask some advice about my friend, co'z I kinda starting to like him😅
@jimzyt6674
@jimzyt6674 4 жыл бұрын
I just wanna ask what would I do?
@MrKitrid
@MrKitrid 6 ай бұрын
Am I weird for feeling that falling in love with a friend fells kinda incestuous? At least to me personally, I'm not judging anyone, lol. Like, the type of relationship I have with my friends feels very similar to family members. I can only really fall in love with someone I develop feelings for before I befriend them, like the opposite of demiromantic. Although, I do remember I may have devloped some feelings for one of my gay friends. I remember feeling heat and tingles when he grabbed my arm once.
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 6 ай бұрын
@@MrKitrid I guess everyone has there own feelings I'd never called you weird for that it's just how you feel and that's okay
@MarcusLeepapi
@MarcusLeepapi 5 жыл бұрын
Cool...
@blancamendoza2714
@blancamendoza2714 Жыл бұрын
But now he spends time with Jose, Jose told my ex he loves him, calling my ex all day and nite
@pansexualbish5097
@pansexualbish5097 3 жыл бұрын
Hmmmmm this is true 👍
@dpratiksaha76
@dpratiksaha76 4 жыл бұрын
Oooo broke a girl's heart got all these signs but didn't care broke her 💓
@blancamendoza2714
@blancamendoza2714 Жыл бұрын
We been with a friends benufts for 5 years. We live together and now thus guy is his frie d ar work. His younger tbe my ex
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai Жыл бұрын
Maybe tell them your feelings sometimes having an honest conversation can make a massive difference
@litoboy5
@litoboy5 5 жыл бұрын
CUTE, CUTE, CUTE, CUTE, CUTE, CUTE, CUTE (BROMANCE?)
@selenasimmons8379
@selenasimmons8379 5 жыл бұрын
Everything you said my boyfriend does with me
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
That's great then he's definitely your boyfriend
@dpratiksaha76
@dpratiksaha76 4 жыл бұрын
I'm confused I'm bi for sure but literally gay
@nabilohara3069
@nabilohara3069 4 жыл бұрын
You are so handsome 😍
@dpratiksaha76
@dpratiksaha76 4 жыл бұрын
I like all my friends or bestfriends but they don't care they don't love me they r straight but they always tell "I love you ,baby brother" fuckkkkkkkkkkkkk I want a boy lover not another brother
@rafaeltlv1795
@rafaeltlv1795 5 жыл бұрын
I am here for the aquarium
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 5 жыл бұрын
Me to
@georgemack120
@georgemack120 3 жыл бұрын
You're SO adorable!!!
@jayaprakasha.cjayanth8008
@jayaprakasha.cjayanth8008 4 жыл бұрын
Boyfriend
@raulbanuelos1182
@raulbanuelos1182 2 жыл бұрын
A guy i like called me his boyfriend
@Courtney-Jai
@Courtney-Jai 2 жыл бұрын
Thats a good thing right
@dpratiksaha76
@dpratiksaha76 4 жыл бұрын
I want some one to love me
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