Sometimes, you have to put others in your shoes in order to make them feel your pain. 😂
@frankconley63212 ай бұрын
Any time you hear the words "in the best interest of the child" you know someone is about to perpetrate great evil on a man.
@davidstolley29162 ай бұрын
Those words are almost as dangerous as "I'm from the government and I'm here to help".
@zhollamychalis42522 ай бұрын
Love the variations on what goes on in counseling.
@draconisdragonheart42482 ай бұрын
I'm pretty sick of these judges. It is pretty clear that the child needs their biological dad, and you can't force someone to love a cheater.
@double-you51302 ай бұрын
typical democrat judge in a democrat hell hole where the wamen of power do nothing and men have to pay for children that are not theirs.
@benzemamumba2 ай бұрын
*cannot.
@runeingebretsen83782 ай бұрын
the court do not care about love they care about who is going to pay for the child and they don't care if the man is not the bio father,and the line do what is best for all parties is total BS.
@shadowbeast2276Ай бұрын
They don't care about the child's love. Only financial support
@paulstraney50562 ай бұрын
I've heard this one before, but still a good story. There is something to be said for walking a mile in another man's shoes....
@carolinekofi2 ай бұрын
Right
@scottm80762 ай бұрын
How is it legal to FORCE a free citizen to continue in a relationship they don’t want to be in!?!? Wanna know how to avoid this kind of drama??? DON’T GET MARRIED!!! Keep the government OUT of your relationships!!!
@runeingebretsen83782 ай бұрын
the moment the judge forced counseling is the moment he should have withdrawn his wish for a divorce,and then just abandoned her.
@runeingebretsen83782 ай бұрын
he made a good point about cruel and unusual punishment,how can that be used against the courts or state?
@AH-gk9we2 ай бұрын
How is subjecting a child to loveless marriage in the child’s best interest?
@iamdragonkrys2 ай бұрын
Kathy got her karma at end.
@WillNeNeАй бұрын
It was a control thing for the judge, because the guy didn’t want to go, he just wanted a divorce.
@iamdragonkrys2 ай бұрын
What a great story 😊
@kaycrishun1075Ай бұрын
Only the wronged party should be able to ask for counseling if they want it when it come to cheating. The cheater should be allowed to try to force someone to stay with them.
@mycastlecellarАй бұрын
Yeah, just story was so funny. I have never laughed so hard. I think I broke something. Thank you for such a wonderful story. I give it two thumbs up.❤❤
@iamdragonkrys2 ай бұрын
Kathy is a village bicycle 😅
@Dstoku21Ай бұрын
How does counselings help multiple affairs?
@shadowbeast2276Ай бұрын
It doesn't. She probably didn't tell the counselor EVERYTHING. trying to manipulate the system & the councilor
@doyourbest76552 ай бұрын
The order of the court is to attend. It did not describe any required interaction beyond that. Arrive note the time and date with wittiness acknowledge those in attendance and leave. Satisfied court order. Period.
@shadowbeast2276Ай бұрын
Exactly. He's just ordered to attend, not listen to a bunch of BS
@batrn72362 ай бұрын
I’m liking this Nancy person. Nice upgrade for Ben.
@danostrom2052 ай бұрын
Good example of why so many people have zero faith in counseling. The counselor was happily married. The counselor had zero understanding of what this type of betrayal does to a man.
@SARGE-fj3knАй бұрын
That judge would have a lot of sleepless nights.
@bryanshore22572 ай бұрын
I would have told the psychiatrist when he asked why would I try to destroy his marriage I would have said I’m not trying to destroy your marriage because the way you have been talking to me the past visits I am destroying destroying my marriage for wanting a divorce.
@jazzie-sanbelle993 күн бұрын
Dang, poor guy screwed over 😢 but hey, win chicken dinner in the end, so yay, 😂it's a good thing/story 🎉
@bastalam2 ай бұрын
A good story
@iamdragonkrys2 ай бұрын
19:12 why did he let her enter?
@echero24492 ай бұрын
The only time a person should be mandated to visit a psychiatrist is if they are a risk to themself or others.
@runeingebretsen83782 ай бұрын
i would also set up an appointment with my own therapist and then gone in to great detail how much the court ordered session is damaging my mental health and i am contemplating ending myself,all a lie off course to eff with the judge.
@stuartlent2645Ай бұрын
Sometimes I think first marriages are to show us what we don't want. That first marriages are a trial to show us what we need to look for next time. Some people are so together that nothing goes wrong.in their first marriage. Lucky them. I married a girl who was more Tomboy. She had a tough girl thing going on with a little girls' emotions. I haven't been married since. That was 30 years ago. Now, I just wait. Not looking for anyone in particular. Not interested in anything. I don't fish anymore and have no motivation. Sometimes I understand how the guys feel in these stories. They always have something in common with me.
@danostrom20515 күн бұрын
The counselor kept saying Ben needed remember what they'd shared to rebuild the relationship. What the counselor didn't understand was everything they'd shared was a lie - that the entire relationship was built from lies.
@truemegahertz69292 ай бұрын
nice story
@zachboyd4749Ай бұрын
Seems like a lot of the story is missing from the beginning, it feels like the vid starts somewhere in the middle. Is there a part 1 or something or did the original story just start there?
@eleethtahgra71822 ай бұрын
Hmmm....several stories stitch into one? Good story tho.
@nightshadebrown75932 ай бұрын
Sue all cheating parties for alien nation of affection expose them to family friends and work places. Counselor put yourself in his shoes she is a cheating with various randos Chad and Tyrone. What if your wife is betraying you also I love how he got him upset. And gave him a taste of his own medicine 😊😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. He was tight when he thought his wife was cheating and was ready to lose it. He gave him a what if scenario if his wife strayed on him😊😂😂😂😂😂🎉🎉😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. He needed to understand his pain and suffering emotional damage ect.
@Tessa_Kamoda11 күн бұрын
7 men rapporting to dna testing? what a busy girl she was / is. why do i have the feeling that not one of them is the 'lucky' winner... anyway, great story, especially as the counselor gets to experience the pain of betrayal himself. cruel, yes. but how often are these counselors... untouched... from life's realities, spouting / accepting / internalizing nonsense 'cause they are book smart, not street smart? never lived through the same struggles / difficulties as their clients theselves but 'thinking' they can fix every- and anything.
@Kinsfire2 ай бұрын
I'm wondering what the judge's dog in this fight was. Was he one of the ones that Kathy was screwing?
@runeingebretsen83782 ай бұрын
i would find out what his wife is doing behind his back.
@blackhrt622 ай бұрын
👍❤️🤓💯
@johnengelbrechtnyjetsАй бұрын
A Judge wouldn't act like that Be realistic
@treehouse2902Ай бұрын
This is nothing more than a rage-bait story. What nonsense.