Covert Narcissist Traits---Disregard and Aloofness

[@suzannemaroney4579]

Do you have anymore videos on aloofness??

[@shinebabyshine.]

wow, my jaw is on the floor. this is exactly what i've been dealing with.

[@TawnaTV]

So many hits for me here..checked out, lost inside their head, always off somewhere doing something else. On our last trip away it was Huh? What? Excuse me? I had to repeat myself over and over until I couldn’t take it. Lack of validation.. Christmas decorating, while he put up 3 strands of lights outside I do the whole interior of the house..he comes in ..silence , no Hey this looks nice. . Hours later a mumbled you got a lot done. Ugh, 6 weeks out after 18 years in. It healed my narcissistic fleas from my family of origin though.. no way I want to be that kind of (non) human. No connection after almost two decades.

[@steadypace1262]

Even a pet animal can show real affection towards you, narcissist's have a lot to learn but unfortunately they go backwards instead of forwards. Impossible people to deal with. Good comment you made here.👍🙂

[@theofficialnikkisnews]

@TawnaTV This sounds just like my husband. I receive no praise, credit, or validation for cooking gourmet meals or raising my son myself while he runs to his Mom’s house to complain about me. His Mom is a narcissist also.

[@solarisx444]

Many thanks for sharing your incredible knowledge and insights - brilliant talk on subject of covert narcissist.

[@motionmuse5684]

Had Covid, down for 2.5 weeks, slept 16 hrs a day and could barely walk and he said I didn't look that sick and I was exaggerating it.

[@coach_amy]

I've experienced the essence of this: not being believed by the narc. I found the best way to deal with their disbelieving comments is to say, "Yup! You're right. I'm faking it." Or else silence, poker face with zero vibe coming out of you--as if you didn't hear the narc. Narcs only comment (poke, trigger) on our wounds and vulnerabilities. If that wasn't a vulnerable topic for you, the narc probably wouldn't have made that comment (because it would have not had any charge in it for you.) Therefore, rather than trying to prove ourselves, just agree (or don't respond) and they shut up. And then work on healing our vulnerabilities (In your case, your work could be to believe it's okay to be sick, it's okay to rest, and self-care is good). Also, I would wager that the narc doesn't like your resting because you aren't giving attention / supply to the narc--that's probably the *real* complaint the narc has but likely won't admit it.

[@steadypace1262]

I hope you have recovered well Motion Muse from the covid, I ended up in emergency with it last year and I'm not looking forward to going through that again. Narcissists are big sooks when they have a minor ailment and callous as anything when their partner has a life-threatening illness of any kind. Narcissists disgust me, take good care of yourself.🕊

[@godzillamanstreb524]

Miss you🩷💐🤍….hope you’re doing well

[@helentucker6407]

Its amazing how many people are like that!

[@TawnaTV]

Hi Peace & Harmony, Thank you got another great video. Hey, could you please adjust the camera angle just a little bit please? When I watch in full screen mode it cuts you off so I can’t see your whole beautiful self. Thank you!

[@kalikodelevere5008]

Im sorry but i don't understand what you're saying at the very beginning...xx

[@Acquisition1913]

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