Creating Your Desired Relationship | Self-Concept | Feeling State | Persisting 💕

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[@Saturnian444]

7:00 Why mindset is important+ quotes🤍 9:39 Self Concept 📑 16:18 Internal Dialogue 📽 22:03 Explaining Your Perception 🖌 24:40 Nervous System +feeling state🧬 28:52 Attachment Models🍶 31:19 Feelings🦋 35:15 How do you know when you’ve actually shifted your feeling state?✨ 42:02 Thoughts & Techniques💕 46:33 Identify with the version of You That Has what you Desire🤍

[@IAm_DylanJames]

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[@ioany6144]

Thank you 🙏🤍

[@Saturnian444]

@@ioany6144 ur wlcm💕

[@kamishkaaaaa]

What’s the name of the book that Dylan is talking about?🥺🤍

[@Saturnian444]

@virtu givenchy glad to help🤍

[@heavenlymartinez9922]

I no longer find comfort in tarot card readings. My self / concept / confidence has grown so much that even if I’m curious to watch a tarot video, I find myself rolling my eyes and saying nope, “this is NOT my story” I feel so good unsubscribing from those channels!!! They no longer serve me. I am the creator of my life. Thank you Dylan ;)

[@Geminidreamsz]

And I actually read tarot and I barely even do readings on myself anymore because of me working on self concept and beliefs. It’s so crazy how it moves you away from that

[@mamathemeat]

Samezeez

[@ladameauxcamelias5054]

Same . I randomly Watch tarot video Just to check my inner state, for fun but they have no power on me. i am the creator of my Life 🌈!

[@aroojaziz]

Beautiful❣️

[@EadsB7002]

same girl same! lol

[@BaebiDoll]

"you don't have to give up on what you want, just need to take break for yourself and come back better" thank you Dylan

[@Capeverdeprc]

Good one! I needed to hear this on today especially ✨✨✨

[@cheetahcat3940]

​@@Capeverdeprc0😊is a great place to 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@KingaGorski]

Sometimes we gotta slow down to speed up. 💫

[@IAm_DylanJames]

Tools: 1. Breathwork: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqrFgJxqnc-NfLM 2. Suggested Reading: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z4Wvq4ScZ5aJaKM

[@bethewish]

Thank you for this video FULL of solid gold.

[@AlvinaCloete]

Thank you 🙏 you’re such a gorgeous man, soo glad to have you back on here!

[@havinganamazingtimebymysel7822]

I love you Dylan💜 I feel so happy to say this to someone I really love.

[@livbeyond]

Dylan, the way in which you express These Truths hits so deep that I am listening to you here, crying continuously, a 40 years old woman, but I am not ashamed. It is so liberating to connect to that version of me that SCREAMS about its right TO BE - for herself and her true self first, and only then for creating whatever I desire. It gives me a true sense of freedom and I guess that is why I can't stop crying: it is like reaching back HOME - a place that I have looked for everywhere, tirelessly and passionately, only to realise it has always been so close to my heart, demanding my attention, love and peace! Thank you! 💫✨💫

[@mauraolek8605]

LOLing because my therapist has told me I’m the healthiest she’s seen me in 8 years since I discovered your channel 💖💖💖

[@JasonScott1991]

Careful with therapy as some therapists get you to continually discuss the old story and in turn keep it alive. Glad to hear you’re doing better!

[@KingaGorski]

That's awesome-progress is progress! 🙌

[@k555d]

Almost 5 weeks sober, and the difference in my perspective and nervous system is amazing. It has definitely taken the toxicity out of the relationship with my SP as we have been reconnecting.

[@doviewilliams3245]

This is awesome!! I hope you’re still staying strong!!!

[@amilia4202]

🫶🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@spruceandhemlock]

👏🏼❤️

[@marionangela]

Yes, having a foundation is everything you actually need, other things will come naturally. You don't need to force anything, if you feel grounded and so on. It's all in you. You teach people how to treat you, not the other way around. Own that shit and don't take shit. Know your beautiful, wonderful and fantastic worth because you're so loved, honoured, cherished and appreciated, when you're finally committed to yourself. Otherwise, you will harm yourself, when you search for *your* happiness outside. Go home darling, it's your heart. Everything else comes after! Much love! xoxo

[@marionangela]

Divine Feminine 💜

[@khushboobatra5900]

This was beautiful❤❤

[@KayLuckyKay]

The Wim-Hof Breathwork is seriously so helpful. I've found that when I'm highly anxious, it works WAY better for me than any anxiety medication or anything else I've ever tried for anxiety. I wish I would have known about it years ago! It immediately puts me in a state where I just feel at ease, and the things that were triggering me before suddenly don't bother me anymore.

[@EadsB7002]

i've been wanting to try! i'm already a big fan of yoga and meditation, but anything that helps anxiety is a win!

[@5starames]

same it really helped me with anxiety

[@ThriveWithLouise]

Same, it’s helped me sooo much when triggered, and also prevents triggers throughout the day…

[@KingaGorski]

Yoga and meditation teacher here-the breath is our life force energy (called Prana in Yoga, or Chi in TCM) and has a profound impact on our nervous system when we voluntarily influence the breath. Wim Hof (his whole story, really) is amazing. Love that you found your way to breath work and that it's had such a positive & healing impact on your wellbeing 🌬🙏〰

[@soleilabundance]

I just wanna say I had someone in my life who had “the perfect life” ( money, relationship and living situation) everything was what they wanted. They still weren’t happy and their SC ruined all of that cause they didn’t feel worthy. You have to feel worthy an secure to get and SUSTAIN what u want 💕 love u dylan

[@EadsB7002]

the absolute truth!

[@KingaGorski]

It's true-from the outside looking in, so many people seem to have it "made". That said, you just never know how people may be struggling on the inside, regardless of their external presentation. Self-love and improving our self-concept is really the ultimate life hack and flex. 🫶

[@real_adamdavid]

Wanted to be the first comment! you did great :)

[@Kassi3809]

I started listening to Limitless manifestor in September but didn't stick to it. Starting it back up and now addressing beliefs because I got ghosted by my SP last month after I stopped focusing on myself & state. I honestly do not affirm all day anymore, it didn't feel good to do it, I felt obsessed and I wanted to really be happy with me & know I'm complete with myself. I made a 5 min affirmation tape to listen to when I first get up and then when I go to sleep & your tape when sleeping. I do your winner meditation occasionally to add breathework, also have a professional breathework I do sessions with. I started working out, boxing, dancing and yoga. I'll randomly play scenes in my head when it randomly comes up & feels good. I'll randomly say affirmations when I'm doing my workouts or walking that come naturally to me. I manifested having 1:4 nurse ratio this week in a hospital where it's 1:7 or 1:5, and signed on my dream apartment that I wanted in September. I now realize I'm the most important person in my life, and I know I get what I want. I'm in this spot where I don't care if my SP comes back, it's either him or someone better because I'm complete without anyone or anything. Just sharing my story. Love this channel ❤ 💕

[@sanikakakirde]

💕

[@LLuna-hw2fv]

Happy for you. It seems the SP doesn’t matter based on Dylan’s theory of shifting your self concept .. it seems if that SP is acting rude or ghosting you. He wasn’t worthy of you.. ya know. I mean it seems I don’t care for mine either. I know I made mistakes but I owned them and currently working on shifting myself too.. but I chose to block him to do that. I need a barrier. A blockage. To solely focus on myself and detach. I truly don’t care anymore either and if it’s meant to be it’ll be. Hopefully I’m doing it correctly lol

[@keirakeneallysupermodel560]

I LOVE this! So happy for you❤️

[@Kassi3809]

@@LLuna-hw2fv when you start focusing on yourself, you realize the best connection is with you regardless if they show up or not. The ghosting or hot and cold was just more of my story of relationships not working for me & some other things I had to be aware of because in all my relationships I've overlooked myself & my value. How can someone focus on you when you're not focused on you? It's okay if you need that barrier, regardless you always get what you want, so make it desirable & put all that attention on you always! They always come back and they can be better than ever because the love you need is inside you. SP doesn't matter, SP shouldn't be the focus & shouldn't be the most important. You're most important, you're most valuable & when you know that, people will gravitate toward you that reflect that. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@LLuna-hw2fv]

@@Kassi3809 thank you for this reminder 💗

[@Raptor717]

I want to point out as well a big game changer for me was just getting good sleep and dieting properly. Waking up each day with good fuel and adequate rest helps you improve your overall self love and attitude. Great video Dylan!

[@rheasharma8546]

Dylan u should definitely consider writing a book on mindset and loa and manifesting nd other stuff ... U have soo much knowledge and experience and through a book it can help millions of people.... I'm sure it'll be a hit! Lots of love!! ❤️✨

[@Youreinternetbestie]

This is a really good idea !!!

[@aprilw.4916]

I agree. Dylan, you said at the start of the video that we love your long videos. I can attest to that. Any other KZbinr I do not like long videos, but something about the way you speak of this, you make it fascinating, you make it easy to understand, and each video we get something new out of it. I know you've said everything before in previous videos, but somehow you outdo yourself with each video and we slowly get a better and better understanding. I do anyway and I think that's why we all love your long videos.

[@peacedragon333]

Yesss!!

[@J3zzoe]

I love seeing you new videos Dylan. I am very thankful to find your channel back in 2021 when I've stumbled upon several comments mentioned you on Reddit. I listened to your affirmation Removing All Limitations in August last year, 2 weeks later I ran into a random disc golf player in a park that I've never been to before. When I first saw this special someone, I had a little crush on him. One week later, we ran into each other again in another park. Fast forward a few months later, we both proudly introduced each other to our family, friends and coworkers that we are officially in a relationship.I'm very grateful to have this man in my life. He's the finest, sweetest man who is emotionally and physically intelligent, a male version of myself. We're looking forward to celebrating our first Valentine soon ❤. Dyland, thank you for all your hard work and effort to share, guide and teach everyone of us here. I really appreciate you🙏 You are someone I truly admire and who I hold in such high regard!!!

[@IAm_DylanJames]

I've explained many times before that the answer is yes you can manifest any desired outcome regardless of circumstances. 💕

[@jklsb]

"Manifesting just means materializing" that quote hit different, it's like a switch has been flipped. Because to me, as you said, manifesting was always something "magical", intangible, and although I have manifested big and small things, I STILL notice that deep down I think manifesting isn't real (kinda stupid and contradicting, I know). But thinking of it as materializing makes it feel a lot easier and tangible. Crazy how one word can make a difference.

[@michelle_9999]

❤️❤️❤️❤️ Say no to Tarot, you can have anything you want

[@arthurmarston102]

Absolutely ✨caz it's never accurate in my case

[@EMVelez-qb1zu]

I see them as entertainment only. Definitely don’t put much faith in “general readings” or really any type of reading. Your future is not written in plastic playing cards. You write it yourself with your thoughts and beliefs.

[@john316godsolovedtheworld]

You can create any destiny you wish!

[@user-qy6ce8vk6x]

First of all, I also took a bit of a break from watching a lot of content, but I’m really glad to see you back. Your transparency is very inspiring to me and was kind of my final “you don’t need to save up for coaching or buy this person’s course” nudge. I had to pause real quick and comment because I’ve also shared things you discuss in your videos in therapy, particularly the beliefs and feeling states, like as goals that I have, and he tells me I’m doing the right thing. Not that validation is needed, but to me at least it feels good when a professional co-signs what you’re doing.

[@k1773ns]

Dylan idk what it is but you look better than ever! You look rested, your skin is looking flawless and your peaceful confidence is shining from within ☺️ I'm so glad you got the break you needed to realign. It shows!!

[@laram3671]

Tq11

[@miajerry5219]

Wow 🤯Its amazing I wasn't aware how simple it was to shift my energy to attract, until I heard the words you say "You have to have that relationship with yourself the way you want to have a relationship with somebody else"

[@EadsB7002]

It's the truth, y'all.......improving my self-concept and being more self-focused/aware changed EVERYTHING for me!

[@JasonScott1991]

Can you give us some examples that changed for you in your life? I don’t doubt your comment I just like seeing people succeed.

[@KingaGorski]

💯 can attest to this. Improving the image we hold of ourselves is the #1 straight-shooter way to beneficially impact literally every key area of our lives 🦋

[@lualove8541]

At this point in my journey I’m not even watching your videos to learn new information about manifestation (you’ve laid it all out there) I just feel like you’re a good influence on my feeling state when I listen to you talk. I’m glad you’re back! My SP and I were separated for 3 months after a 2 yr relationship and we’ve been back together for about 5 months now. There have been some interesting obstacles that weren’t there before - he hasn’t wanted to be monogamous which was soooo triggering at first. Literally I was shaking when I was telling him “I want you to do what you want, i don’t own you and I don’t want to control you, I know you love me.” It is not what I want long term but I genuinely feel so confident in our connection that I’m not even triggered by it anymore - I just know it’s not what I want. I took a step back from the mindset work for the past few months because I was being obsessive about it tbh and just wanted to enjoy our connection and our relationship is better than ever. Dylan your return is the perfect timing because I am ready to jump back in and elevate this shit to wifey status LOVE YOU

[@marinalemos9784]

But are you being monogamous with him or not? If you don’t mind me asking

[@lualove8541]

@@marinalemos9784 it’s a fair question lol. So no, I’ve explored outside the relationship too because I felt like the dynamic of him sleeping around and me sitting at home waiting for him to decide he wants only me was really bad for my self concept and putting too much power outside of myself. I actually got to a point where I thought, I feel like I am ready for a real deal relationship, maybe I have too much story attached to this person and maybe it will be easier to create something from scratch with a new person. But found that as much as I walked into new interactions with confidence, old story would still come up and I would still get triggered. It just made me see how real this self concept work is and that as much as I genuinely have grown in the past 6 months I’m not 100%. The whole experience has affirmed that nonmonogamy isn’t for me because my experience of dating outside the relationship was at its core me looking to replace him.

[@unicornrainbow222]

Sis let him go! 2 years of dating with no talk of marriage, he comes back after a 5 month break and doesn’t want monogamy anymore but you do…red flags all over! You can do better than him and he doesn’t deserve to be enabled this way.

[@stylebyelle8450]

@@unicornrainbow222 this defeats the purpose of self concept work and it's the inner world that changes the outside. If she's not aligned then this will just play out with a different person.

[@unicornrainbow222]

@@stylebyelle8450 yeah that’s exactly my point, better to let him go! But yes OP def needs to persist with her self concept so this doesn’t happen with the next person too.

[@badgalsabs]

Hi Dylan! I just want to express my gratitude for you and the knowledge you’re sharing with all of us. I got into the Law of Assumption in June of last year however I completely skipped working on my self-concept and focused only on getting my SP. Everything was great until about a few weeks ago we had a massive fight and now we’re in no contact. I was extremely distraught and triggered by the entire situation. l couldn’t figure out why it happened when I’d been doing my LoA practices religiously, etc. During this time I stumbled across your channel somehow and you have been so instrumental in my healing these past couple weeks. I took a look back at my limiting beliefs, where *I* went wrong with this person over the past 10 months and have finally put my self concept first for the first time since I started this practice and I’ve notice a world of difference mentally, physically, and spiritually. Thank you so so much for all you do. Sending love 🤍

[@bufnitazgubilitica]

You are a very intelligent guy, and one who can easily convey his ideas on a subject which is not the easiest to talk about. I've been listening to many youtubers on this subject but the message got through to me only when i got to you. Thank you for that!

[@mamathemeat]

That was awesome 👏 I have been wondering if I should make a routine - well guess I have my answer. And you’re right I noticed when I put myself first I got better results. As soon as I focus on a person they run away 🏃‍♂️ 😂 I feeL calm after your video and I realize what I need to do.

[@avantikaphuyal6793]

I've already manifested my partner , now I'm just here to watch James ❤️😁

[@perfectgamer007]

How did you do it?

[@shenika1979]

I have listened to Limitless Manifestor and confidence affirmations as i sleep and I see my self concept has changed. I'm so secure with who I am and my SP is showing signs of change. When i do feel triggered I go back to the affirmations.

[@kmefineart]

This info helped me sooo much thank you! You helped me already get free of smoking weed, watching tarot, and now I have a new SP in my life who treats me so good, even has bought me ice ice bling bling! This is way different and I deserve it! I am sooooo grateful for your existence and your brain, the way that you describe everything lands for me so much

[@aprilw.4916]

Right on. Did you stop smoking weed by listening to his Trauma and Addiction tape? I just started listening to this one 3 nights ago.

[@imaginalpower]

did you find that quitting weed helped you to manifest faster? this is something I’ve been considering…

[@kmefineart]

Yes it did help my turn my life around faster to start getting better results! I listened to the confidence affirmations, and did one night of the addiction/trauma one 🥰

[@Youreinternetbestie]

💎 Some Notes from Video ~ we are manifesting all the time / if manifesting is not working for you it is because the way you are trying to manifest things , isn’t align with your mindset & changes that need to occur - what is the beliefs I would have if I was able to sustain the results I desire in my life ? Who is that version of me ? - Stop watching fearful content PS : Dylan my channel was about tarot ! i stopped that now ! I found something i more aligned ! i am selling most of my decks

[@Sarang358]

I've always said, manifesting is not creation , it's attraction. What you want is already there, you're gonna attract it based on what you think and feel. Thoughts are electric and feelings are magnetic

[@Sarang358]

@ndonii xdg 😂😂😂 food is always the best thing to manifest...... But I meant feeling as in stabilizing your emotional state and having a strong SC

[@Kaur-anmol97]

@ndonii xdg yeah you felt hungry so dont say u didnt feel anything lmao just joking

[@KingaGorski]

Big yes to this ♥〰🧠〰💫 It's the Law of Resonant Vibration in physics.

[@briangillard4085]

Dylan, you sure went HAM in this video. I just wanted to give you kudos for doing the work during your break up and keeping yourself as your #1 client. I’ve also manifested a new job and got the girl that got away, after a divorce and toxic relationship, and am now going to propose soon. As a mindset coach and conscious creator just want to say thank you for being and doing what you do, much love!

[@IAm_DylanJames]

💕💕💕👏🏼

[@hannahkline6050]

I am about a month in listening to the belief tracks, I could feel shifts where I was feeling a lot better within myself and then for the last week or so I’ve been having bad dreams. I even remember myself fighting my limiting beliefs in my dream lol I think it’s working I’m going to keep persisting. Either way I’m learning so much thank you Dylan 💗

[@goddessvibes2345]

Yes, keep persisting! The same thing is happening to me, first weeks I felt great but after a month I’m feeling low, bad dreams etc. I heard the opposite has happened to people. They feel crap at first then great later But it’s still working. Even though other people have different experiences. We got this!

[@paigesessions3945]

@@goddessvibes2345how are you getting now ? How was the rest of your experience. I was introduced to Dylan work June this year . I’ve been doing limitless manifestor night track for nearly month solid but did do it for a few weeks then alternating it with another track , last 3 weeks been solid on limitless manifestor and I’ve had same experience , felt great but then past week felt really low , drained of energy and dreams every night . Just wanted to validate your experience of feeling the resistance further down the line . From watching vidoes I’ve made the assumption it’s my subconscious mind resisting and the beliefs are really touching on my core beliefs and changing them so I am persisting !!! Just felt so unbelievably drained and no energy or motivation each day but I’ve still listened to the night track every night

[@vunessuh]

Same, I've been listening to the tapes for 2 months and the path isn't linear, sometimes there are dips. It's like 3 steps forward 1 step back every now and then. But overall, the progress is upward and persisting does work!

[@vanessadeferrari1811]

When he says im not interested And you say: Thats cool because im a cool loving person and i have a stable nervous system and im going to keep doing what im doing and i an going to manifest this regardless so lol i dont really care and im just gonna go back to my breathing ok bye LMAO i LOVE U DYLAN You helped me and still help me with my relationships and self image and nervous system regs i love your videos. Your coaching is gold.

[@gabriellareyes6694]

Yes I LOVE long videos !!!! Some people don’t they like them short but this is part of my morning routine so I love hearing these positive things as I get ready in the morning

[@pardisarjmandi8889]

Hi Dylan I manifested my SP thanks to you. I was wondering if you could make an affirmation video about getting engaged and getting married and maybe one about how to manifest that?

[@KingaGorski]

What you said about-concept rings true: it absolutely is a courageous act to accept our inner world of thoughts and feelings, the stories our mind is conjuring up about the situations we find ourselves in, the assumptions we may be making about the people around us, and choosing to change and be better. Cheers to courage. 🥂

[@BfabBonifacio]

Time stamps: (Thanks dylan!!) This is longer because just because I take notes like that HAHA 7:00: why is mindset important - mindset, feelings, assumptions, expectations - Mindset plays a significant role in determining life’s outcome - Manifesting is NOT a trying process - WHY CIRCUMSTANCES DONT MATTER - Psycho-cybernetics - self-image 12:56 - “The great discover of cause reveals that good or bad, man or woman, is the arbiter of their own fate and that their concept of themselves determines the world in which they live” - Neville Goddard, Power of Awarenss - Entertaining the new you, your new beliefs, new self concept - To pull of these is to be fearless on your self concept. - You are the own creating your reality. - At 14:11, “everybody and everything is treating you based on what you believe and feel about yourself”… and does that mean that you should take accountability for the crappy things people did to you? 16:20 - Internal Dialogues + Dylan’s quotes - Talks about spiraling, how sc affirmations helps, why dwelling on the old story and negativities is not helpful, finding a sense of stability - Ask: “what needs to change within thats gonna get the results that I desires?” & how to do these - By the time you’re doing techniques, you should feel… - And if you’re still stressed… 22:05: Perception - At 23:38, in order to manifest the desired results that you want in your reality… it comes down to your mindset, self-concept, what you’re feeling and what you’re dominant entertaining and expecting in your life 24:45 Nervous System, Feeling State - Should I be sober when I make these changes? etc - Breathworks & why it’s IMPORTANT 28:54 Attachment models + How BELIEF TRACKS helps - why getting to a place of general stability - love isn’t something outside of you, you’re enjoying people - you have to the choice to shift your feeling state 35:12: How do you know when you actually shifted you’re feeling state? - you’re not going to focus on circumstance, what he/she said, the past argument, your worries/fears - be the love, success, confidence that you want to experience (and be fearless) - can you SKIP ahead and force it? - how sc affs help - what can i do today that helps me align - 42:02: Thoughts & Techniques - It doesn’t NEED TO TAKE A LONG TIME >

Be honest with yourself. Be self-aware and be responsible for yourself. You will get what you want. 
PLEASANTLY EXPECT YOUR OUTCOME.

[@lisar252]

Dylan, I love your videos! Theyre helping me so much with manifesting my sp and I’m seeing a lot of movement already. Could you plz make a video on birds before land?? I constantly see signs, synchronicities, similar events and even dreams about my manifestation (even tho I don’t need it cuz I already know my manifestation is coming 😌). But it’d be nice to know about your take on it. Thanks! 💕💕

[@susannmolder7608]

What about if SP is very much in your life but not the version you want him to be. Keep affirming new version of him?

[@john316godsolovedtheworld]

Yes!! :)

[@Haliii12091]

I truly feel my feeling state adjusting every day. I am listening to the releasing trauma and addiction affirmation tape at night, have been consistently seeing my therapist and was placed on a new medication by my psychiatrist, and my anxiety and feeling state is much improved. I have seen some interesting movement in my reality, like I manifested someone to call me beautiful a couple weeks ago and today the barista at Starbucks did, after I completely forgot about it. Also people are coming back from my past, not yet my SP but I know this movement shows my vibration is changing. This journey really is fun, I love knowing how powerful I am. Thank you Dylan!

[@Manifestingmydesires11]

Thank you so much Dylan ♥️ I have been using your limitless manifestor recording about a year. And I purchased coaching as well , lately I’ve been sleeping With your new updated IAM recording, I instantly felt an empowering shift . I’ve gone from a part time minimum wage employee in my career as a hairstylist over to an independent contractor who owns their own business, I work as much or as little as I want and my first month as an independent contractor I broke 9k for the first time (pretty sure I made 10k including tips but I didn’t track those) and a big part of my upgraded mindset is your recording. I really enjoy your videos the message is clear and straightforward so easy to follow for anyone who really wants to upgrade their mindset 💕🦋

[@alayahere]

Loved this video! We stan honesty and personal responsibility 🔥✨ A tip on checking your state (may be helpful for somebody): are you thinking about your desire, or from your desire/wish fulfilled? And which of these are you acting from? For example, if you were already in a happy relationship with your SP, would you be crazy focused on affirming or watching a ton of videos on "how to attract SP"? Nope. Your thoughts and actions show you the state you're currently in. They're your compass! Observe how you're acting and you'll see if you shifted or not.

[@goddessvibes2345]

That’s a great tip, thanks for sharing 🙂

[@ladameauxcamelias5054]

Great tip 🤗

[@kadoradork4228]

@Alaya true☺️However, I think deliberately deciding to stop affirming all day long and watching videos and affirming „I don’t need to do this anymore because it’s already here“ can have an impact on your stability. Like your telling your mind to stop it because it’s not necessary anymore. Once I stopped doing all those things on purpose, I felt more secure and stable.

[@M.A.S.J]

Great tip it really helped me 🌼💗

[@alayahere]

@@kadoradork4228 it's important to learn to observe yourself. If you're loosing stability/shifting out of your state then the quicker you notice, the quicker you can go back. I didn't mean forcing yourself to stop doing your practices. Just noticing how much you're doing, what emotional state are you in when doing it, etc.. When you notice it helps you stop and go into neutral. Just a "oh, I got triggered" typa thing, no judgement, no bashing yourself. From there it's easier to get the desired mindset. Way more pleasant and actually easier than mindlessly affirming through a shaky state. 💁🏻‍♀️ Like Dylan said, when you're not stable you first gotta stabilize your state instead of trying to push through. Trying to just affirm through the circumstances puts you at war with whatever is happening. What you resist persists - it's continuously putting attention on the circumstances. Instead when you put focus on yourself, stop and stabilize - you make circumstances powerless by taking the attention away from them. It's much faster this way. And it's much more pleasant to feel good while doing your practices instead of crying through affirmations. Also makes it about you and not things you want. Less desperation, less resistance, less pressure. ✨

[@suzanns9152]

So needed this. Definitely need a break and focus on just my self concept. Signing back up at the gym tomorrow. Going to start the tapes again too.

[@IAm_DylanJames]

Thats what I love to hear 👑💕

[@suzanns9152]

@@IAm_DylanJames Thankyou Dylan! I will be updating you on this. I know i will be successful

[@despin2232]

Dylan, Im so happy you are back and took the time to use your methods to gain momentum and stabilize yourself. People don’t understand this is work and yes I wondered where you were too! But I knew you were most likely on your game! You are human too! You are cherished on this end. Because of you my SP is back and the respect I have for myself is amazing. Thank you! I hope to meet you to give you a big hug🙏🏽

[@brendalyabreu6760]

Started my journey of manifesting my sp after we broke up a week ago because his “feelings” weren’t the same I realized it’s because I felt like he was to good for me and I was very insecure about myself. My sp is everything I ever wanted in a man and I deserve to have this relationship so here goes nothing and I hope to have more movement

[@theprimetimetalk8194]

I know this is slightly off topic, but how would you revise a job rejection?

[@user-dp9sx4lw5x]

Umm can you do a video on changing appearance because 😍😍😍 you are glowing! You’ve always been handsome but there’s definitely been a change

[@Daniellelenae]

I feel like this was the video that literally clicked for me because I was doing good and I was literally so happy within myself the other day , I did have a bad night of reacting but it’s fine this just confirmed to me to really focus on myself and to keep making my self concept even stronger

[@lunalight2065]

You don’t understand how much you’ve changed my life thank you all I can say is thank you

[@DoubleTuProductions]

I love listening to the affirmations at night and I 100% notice the difference. You mentioned there’s not a lot of research behind it - is this something you thought of intuitively or did you read about it somewhere? Thanks Dylan!

[@LAila-qf4ww]

Thanks so much Dylan. I couldn’t catch it. However, had I, I would have wanted to ask about intuition. How do you manifest something you want despite the intuition nudges that make you feel that there is something much better?! Would have loved to get insight on this. Maybe soon??

[@pocahontas330]

Thank you as always Dylan! Good to see you again. I was living in the end for months now I believed... detached etc until a circumstance showed up around a guy (not SP) and boy it brought up a huuuuge purge around my beliefs around guys etc. Dropped everything (cause I had gone on working on finances then) and for three weeks just been reprogramming those beliefs .. After 3 days SP contacts after a long time wanting to see me and talk to me...I was away and he messaged again wanting to see me ..New me...I have plans this weekend...Old me... would have dropped those plans in an instant for a guy. I am so so proud of myself for persisting in this journey and finally feeling in my power after a lifetime of abuse etc.. Thank you so so much! Much love and light ✨🙏🤗💖 P.s... When this other guy came in showering me with attention...I thought to myself...'Right, what is this about....what is this going to show me now?' 😁 And bloom! THE PURGE!!! Love this journey 🥰

[@LavenderBunnyHop]

self concept is super important. I have a terrible one w friendships bc of childhood. I always assume friends get bored of me or think im weird and dont wanna invite me to hangout. and what do ya know? they start to not talk to me anymore and i lose them. im always losing friends. im working on it though. not gonna give up. ❤️ same with SP. improving my self concept for that too. soon enough, i’ll be married and have lifelong friends😌☺️🥰

[@Capeverdeprc]

I need to start listening to the tapes again…obviously I’m off. I get triggered every time he distances himself from me.

[@roxannemoore4498]

I’m currently just trying to maintain stability and focus on myself. At least I’m having enough self control not to contact this person anymore. At least I’ve learning in a few months he wasn’t for me. At least it didn’t drag out like past experiences so I’m making progress. But the next time I give any of myself to anyone he has to be my husband. That’s my plan. Dylan is going to make this happen for me. You’re God sent.

[@lolitaa7760]

I actually discovered u last year and for a long time I specifically avoided ur channel because it was something that I didn’t wanna hear like self concept stuff but these past few weeks I decided to work on my self concept for my self to make me feel better was I was so desperately trying to change my appearance and my life etc to the point where I was so burnt out and I only wanted to feel good and just didn’t even care if it showed up or not and I have never felt so stable in my life and I saw ur video today and it was everything that is important to know and to deal with other wise it’s just consistant hot and cold behaviour or nothing at all. Its like I didn’t want to admit that I had core beliefs about my self that I need to « fix » and this whole process is just so fun and easy. So guys everything Dylan has said is just accurate. Self concept is so important! And change ur story/perception on ur situation once u are stable

[@talulahjonesx]

I’m done with being thrown off. It ends now.

[@megchippendale529]

You are right about so many things it’s scary. I need this the most- I flipped the script In literally seconds my SO was messaging apologizing and coming over but yeah I need to stable myself, energy and be consistent and I’m struggling

[@kristinaalexa21]

it WORKS IT WORKS IT WORKS

[@valerieblanks]

This is your entire channel in a nutshell. I've come back to this video several times and each time I get more and more insight and engagement into what you are teaching. This is *gold*!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@onesoullove1111]

Practicing Presence, mindfulness meditation and breath work helps me and of course your sleep meditation 😊❤

[@keeannathompson5007]

@dylanjames which self concept recording would you recommend to begin with

[@anarhisms8315]

this really is a learning process.. removing time urgency and really taking the time to align sc and feeling state is the most crucial fuckin part. cant rush into it if you want to create sustainability.

[@inmaculadaserrano4114]

Blessings precious Dylan🙏 I am so grateful for your generosity💜BTW, I love that you don’t use curse words to make a point and deliver your message. You ate a beautiful soul and hope your relationship with Adam continues to grow stronger💕

[@sadoshanaa4040]

Hi All! I have a question I can't seem to figure out the answer to: If our reality is based on our beliefs then what happens if two people have opposing beliefs? What manifests in the 3D world if I believe one thing strongly and another person believes the opposite to be true? Any advice would be much appreciated!

[@IAm_DylanJames]

I will address this : )

[@sadoshanaa4040]

@@IAm_DylanJames Thank you!!!

[@aideenj]

Has this been addressed yet?

[@epifan3_]

I made it to a fucking LIVE WHOOOOO!!!! Go me!!!! ❤

[@kadoradork4228]

Omg 54 minutes😍😍Missed the live due to the time difference but guess what I‘m going to watch this evening after work😍🤩

[@shandyyful]

Dylan made me unsubscribe from all the tarot channels 🙊💆🏽‍♀️

[@triciabacchus2621]

Same!

[@shanybouwer5082]

When doing the techniques do you affirm with the specific persons name or just general again such as with self-concept ?

[@dbsk06]

Dealing with resistance and undesirable circumstances 15:00 21:00 detaching from old story 25:00 addictions and the subconscious mind 49:33 don’t watch content fueling your fear and doubts

[@emilysparkles615]

Watching this has made me feel so much more confident in myself! Things are going great for me and I’m so proud of myself 💕 thanks so much Dylan!

[@sophisticat6456]

Loved this chat!! It was also good there was no live chat as I find it distracting too. I'm wondering if I should listen to the limitless track or love track...I've been listening to limitless for weeks and weeks lol but switched to the love one..I'm a bit wobbly tho as i manifested anew job, start in 2 weeks and still working on self to bring in the man I love fully, now I'm having fleeting moments of I don't know if I can succeed, in both areas, what if I suck at the job? What if I can't get my sp to commit and want a full on relationship? Etc. Perhaps I just answered my own question here lol...I think limitless is the best option right now. Anyone else manifesting multiple things? Or experienced something similar? Hugs 🤗 and love from Ontario Canada 🇨🇦

[@ruthd679]

You can do both tracks alternatively. That's what I am doing. One day limitless the other day love. It helps cover both areas than.

[@TinaMuse-n3b]

Agree with Ruth D and also you can listen at morning/noon the limitless and then at evening/night the love one

[@matthewisthebest8152]

Keep going with limitless till it hardens as new belief system you’ve got this

[@deepikabali9199]

Hey whim Hoff breathwork link???

[@LiNa-uy5bq]

Not gonna lie: I do tarot readings on myself when I feel like it. I don’t try to force it into a direction of relationships but the last 4 times I had the same reading 😂 it was like you spoke through my deck. „You need a routine which makes you happy. Stop manipulating the situation by trapping yourself in habits which don’t serve you. Work on yourself, your energy as of right now does not match your desire. He can’t be the desired version of himself when you’re stuck in your same old shit. The love is there you just need to finally let it happen by getting out of your own ass. Period“ 😂

[@larafitzpatrick4598]

Not here to play lol

[@phendranaa]

I've been putting off affirming in what I want because I wasn't sure if it'd be too "trying" but I def feel stable enough to do it thank you. This vid cleared up so much.

[@SuperMariposa91]

Going through a horrible breakup, and I’m so low. I’m giving myself 2 weeks t get in the right space like you said

[@NeidaTeresa]

Not the tarot card videos 😭 ur right tho I would not be watching those if I was stable already lmao

[@mishamisha123]

I just realized I worked so much on my self concept that I got too independent and confident and now I'm just manifesting everyone to leave me alone 🤣 oops . That's not what I was trying to do

[@sunnyn9967]

I honestly never comment on anything but this video is probably the best I’ve watched on self concept/ sp manifestations. You explained how everything works together so well (thoughts & feelings alignment) and it finally clicked in my head…….. i feel like I found the missing piece of the manifestation puzzle in my head. Gonna work on my beliefs and self concept… thank you so much Dylan!!! You’re one of the best teachers out here!

[@jaimechapman8333]

I love that book. I taught my daughter about practicing dance in her head and it works.

[@peachdreams1111]

Bruh this video helped me so much 😭😭I realize that I haven't been focusing on my self concept and have been negatively affirming, imagining negative scenarios and more💀💀Gotta work on that

[@DrSharbari]

666 likes just noticed it when dylan is explaining how we sabotage relationship with low sc

[@arthurmarston102]

Anyone from Kerala ✨very rare someone from Kerala 🥺

[@larafitzpatrick4598]

Is it ok to use the sleep tapes during the day while working? Having trouble during the night.

[@fqami2548]

YES!! Long videos! Edit: You should have weekly or monthly Q&A sessions on KZbin

[@marissasardar8752]

Ty for the comment about tarot 😂😂 I need to stop lmao

[@museofdance1]

Amazing video Dylan! Can you recommend a specific routine (daily) to change self concept? Would you recommend taking a look at where you are triggered and build beliefs around that?

[@Youreinternetbestie]

Identify what you want to work on , to find out first ask what’s your goal ? Example relationship , identify what would you be like if you were in a relationship ? Happy ? Secure ? In love ? So do those things that harness your happiness - so example self concept , confidence , working on your passions , etc , but always keeping your mindset daily to respond in “ how would I act / behave / believe if I was in a confident ? “ “ would I be doing / saying / feeling what it is now? If no then you know it’s time to shift?” When yo u stumble upon something that triggers you ask yourself why and what is this showing me about the believes I have ? Then try to rewrite your self concept , scripting etc

[@Youreinternetbestie]

Things that helped me in my journey - Dylan’s Limitless tapes at night ( god sent ) - getting coaching or support group - work out / dance to music ( positive ) while affirming Example - other side by Justin Timberlake - levitating Dua lipa - level up by ciara - happy by John legend etc - accepting and forgiving myself for what has happened and focus on growth and not beating myself up or falling into victim hood - instant dose of joy would help with volunteering work or helping others who need it / often we feel rejected and we think we are not good enough but that’s flawed , because we are and we just got clouded by emotions - pampering and buying myself stuff! - Kim velez goddess meditation!

[@ciggytwiggy]

I think he's done a video on that. Step by step manifestation, about how he made an entire routine for himself. I think it is a 23 min video haha

[@Hailey0605]

Your best video yet. No need to skip to timestamps...THANK YOU!! you were missed terribly

[@anynomous2792]

Love you dylan for the most amazing information of being aware I needed it the most…. I’ll update about my SP soon to u here now♥️🙌🏻ur accurate hats off to u

[@iam6379]

Thank you so much for this live! It was my first live with you since I found your channel a few weeks ago! You’ve helped me so much 🙏🏼❤️

[@saxgm6611]

just wanted to say that i changed my self concept while drinking weekly, and i did manifest my SP; and recently i am changing my SC again and i affirmed in my head while being drunk, i embodied in the end state while being drunk and i spend the greatest night !!

[@ishjyotsingh9991]

Very happy to see you back brother!

[@nenabishop4482]

Dylan, I have been practicing your self help meditation for the past 4 weeks. Life changing for me, financially feeling the heal from childhood trauma, unlimited believe, subconsciously allowing my feelings to take over my mind. I am much happier, I can actually see the reference with my mindset, yes I still going back toy old way but I continue practicing breathing, affirmation and praying of course. I thank you for teaching how to heal myself from childhood trauma. I also thank you for teaching to actually loving myself even more. I love your "don't give a flip attitude" " confident". Thank you for spending such an amazing skill across the Country.

[@lil-q5z]

You are gonna feel aligned with what you want to experience and technique help you go deeper in this feeling. When you are not aligned, you are gonna do techniques desperatly

[@jennyprn3933]

I just started watching this and I'm already excited!...

[@tahneemickelson4222]

Dear James, I dont know if you'll see this comment, would you please make a video on manifesting and how sobriety affects manifesting, please. I am very interested to hear a dedicated video on this topic. ❤

[@Capeverdeprc]

Dear BFF Dylan! The moment I feel like giving up and listen you!!!!! You are the only person that can bring me back to a calm state and allow me to realize manifesting my SP can be done. Thank you as always ✨💙

[@nidhitripathi5764]

Wow ! You have such a powerful and positive energy ❤❤

[@kateythurlow4241]

Hi Dylan. This video came up in my feed & it was one I hadn’t listened too. I loved all of what you said & resonated with this video, along with so many of yours. 💙 They often appear to me at the right moment in my life… which I know of course isn’t a coincidence.🌟 When I listened to some of what you said, I know how far I’ve come. There were a lot of YES moments!! 🙌🏼 I listen to your nightly affirmations, which I have done so in the past, but the difference is for a while now, I really hear ALL the words, as well as feel it. 🙏🏼 Thank you for your wisdom, your sharing and clarity of knowledge, and your inspiration. 🙌🏼💙

[@dawn81bird]

Life ay. Presents so many lessons, super hard ones masked by dangling carrots of happiness you could potentially have. If we dont believe in ourself or know our own worth, that carrot will dangle for infinity. Lessons that make us have to engage with our dark night of the soul. If not chosen then accept the cycle. Our own self concept and limiting beliefs that we behold, are holding us back from that carrot, from the life we want. The exact thing we swerve and detach from, as it means dealing with our own ridiculous self, perception and the lack we project upon ourselves. Only we can love ourselves, put ourselves on the pedestal, that number one spot. Only and only you, we, I can take our power back. Love the king and queen that you are. Only and only that matters. You. Your own self. Your self love and healthy self concept. Always and always. Do the work for you.