No More...Third Parties (Relationship Threat | Jealously | Insecurity)

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[@emixoxo4409]

A little technique that helps soothe me and keep me confident when I'm assuming a new story for my person is knowing that "if I can assume this, it can happen, and if I can allow myself to believe it, it'll happen no matter what"

[@dariabuzun6805]

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[@dariabuzun6805]

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[@prachiatri5921]

works for me too

[@umairmehboob91]

Does verbally stating means I can confidently tell my long distance SP these things "I'm not threatened by anything I don't care what you're doing..talk to to other people..I trust you ..and even if you up getting intimate..its going to be lame and you're going to be thinking about me the whole time and just reaffirm why you like me so much and why you can only connect with me on this special way... I'm confident I'm the catch there's no pressure from my side.. we'll find out if we're compatible in September when you're in Dubai .. everything's good between us' can I explicitly say that to her too?

[@alwaysright2589]

@@umairmehboob91no don’t say it unless you confidently believe that. It’s more of a knowing.

[@peanutbutter4978]

People need to realize that neediness is not attractive... Once I got rid of my "needy" behavior, my SP fell for me. The same goes for when people stopped being needy of me.

[@MissVioletaOrange]

Another coach said that when you worry about a 3p, you are rejecting yourself. It helps me to decide not to reject myself and not allow myself to even entertain the idea of a 3p.

[@CaliStarrManifesting]

Wow thank you 🙏🏽 for this!

[@Emily-ld8eu]

Wow, I think I manifested this comment

[@MissVioletaOrange]

@@Emily-ld8eu 🤣 ❤️

[@CaliStarrManifesting]

Thank you 🙏🏽 😉

[@msk.4427]

Wow, this is what I needed to hear 🙌🏽

[@samanthap2404]

I had ‘avoided’ a third party but what actually helped me release fear around them was considering - what is it about this person that threatens me? They appeared to be very carefree and fun and I realised I was worried about being inflexible and dull. So I worked on that part of my self concept and it resolved - that person no longer threatened me and I saw that I was all those wonderful things and more. It’s like that person was just a messenger, showing me what to focus on, nothing else. It can be tough but I found it better to just face it instead of denying the fear. Maybe this will help someone else 🙏🏻

[@moonsub4085]

you're lovely! thanks for this

[@yurrr974]

Thank you . I ended up being friends with the 3p 💀

[@brittney3156]

This is helpful.

[@cat-hz5en]

ig me too?? today ive been having bad intrusive thoughts and i think its bc i think i need this person to feel fully loved and accepted. which i dont. im working on that though, thank you :)

[@ale2701]

This is what exactly happened to me and didn't realize. Thank you, you saved my life!

[@biankafucskodancefitness]

I can only say when I was manifesting my now bf, then he had a 3p dylan helped me so much to stay in the state of being with SP. NOW, 3p gone and dusted. NOW sp and me together, going 1.5 years strong :)

[@Izz740]

We’re y’all friends during?? Mine just reached out after a long no contact but has someone they’re seeing and wants to be friends again / get to know each other. Unsure what to say it’s so strange how I manifested this bc he’s calling me queen , says our love is white hot lol, and wants to be with me but still scared and ish.

[@snehaghosh4656]

Can u please help me? What u have done?

[@jsalt3800]

We all forget who we were when we originally attracted our SP is such a cool way of seeing things. It makes you realize that the self confidence, self worth, and self love has always been inside you. I don’t have to learn how to be these things, I just have to let my inner truth flourish without focusing on the outcome.

[@khushboobatra5900]

I love this! Thank you so much for sharing this❤

[@MzMayaJ]

I wasn’t even interested in my sp when he first showed up lol

[@maratheleo]

Love this, thanks for the reminder 😏

[@umairmehboob91]

Does verbally stating means I can confidently tell my long distance SP these things "I'm not threatened by anything I don't care what you're doing..talk to to other people..I trust you ..and even if you up getting intimate..its going to be lame and you're going to be thinking about me the whole time and just reaffirm why you like me so much and why you can only connect with me on this special way... I'm confident I'm the catch there's no pressure from my side.. we'll find out if we're compatible in September when you're in Dubai .. everything's good between us' can I explicitly say that to her too?

[@shanybouwer5082]

Each time my mind wonders to the third party I am like "I wish nothing but the best for them and that they really find their true love, because it is unfair that they are in a relationship with my SP that is in-love with me"and then I just like erase them and blow away the pieces.

[@gorgeeus]

❤️❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@krystleavs]

Awesome

[@aroojaziz]

Wow

[@Brandyyyyy]

I just imagine them being sucked into a black hole and gone like they never existed...I do that with all my negative thoughts lol like a heavy duty vaccume 😂

[@analoti]

But what if you’re the third party and you KNOW they still love them? 😥

[@BrightestLight5]

Earlier when listening to you I felt confident that my sp would text me tonight and he did. Every time my ego felt like he was taking too long to respond I would relax and say,”I’m not even worried. I know he’s gonna text me right back” and he would literally text me right back. We’ve been in contact for two weeks after no contact for 7 months. I know this time I got it in the bag! 😎

[@Hollins23]

Congratulations!! Good for you! Woo hoo!!

[@Elizabeth-en8vs]

I hope it will happen to me too. But the thing is that I am doing all the things Dylan recommend and still waiting for his text as result of my actions😞

[@blackflamingo9937]

Yessss !!!! Keep your inner self hugh. I’ve been going through your situation too and girl we have got it done%! We get whatever we want . I am sending my positive thoughts to you girl !😘❤️

[@nienm33]

@@Elizabeth-en8vs don’t wait. That’s not what Dylan says in his video’s. Live in the end. When you already got him/her you don’t wait for them right? You just know they are yours. You feel calm and secure. When you don’t feel like this yet maybe do some breathwork/ meditations during the day and focus on you. You can get everything that you want 👑

[@Elizabeth-en8vs]

@@nienm33 thank you🙏🏻🤍 so I should think, that he is mine and we are together/or WILL be together? What about day dreaming and inner talking with him? ☺️

[@silvermoon1051]

what is attractive to you ? 10:18 remove the notion of threats in ur reality 18:30 * victim mindset 19:30 being that version of you fearlessly 21:05 things don’t randomly change 22:00 confident knowing 23:43 * nothing is happening by accident 25:40 taking accountability 26:07 * wishful thinking and how it leads to victim mindset 26:53 decide what you want and know that you’re going to get it 28:50 how to know you’re stable 29:29 speaking your reality into existence 31:34 reality is a mirror // confident knowing 32:50 you’re the creator of your own reality 34:10 persisting once you get movement 34:54 affirmations and stability 35:40 don’t stop persisting 36:30 your creative process never ends 37:16 true stability 38:37 go big or go home 40:22

[@tinydreamerrr]

thank you!!

[@bubbasparks5465]

Most amazing comment ever. Helps you hear the message you need in the moment!!😊

[@sarahtoscana8232]

“Even if he did have sex with someone else, it’s gonna be lame and you’re gonna be thinking about me the entire time” LMAOOOOO I friggin love you Dylan!! You give me so much LIFE!! 😂😂 I been watching your videos for almost 2 weeks straight now and this was one of my biggest fears and I’m so glad I found the video where you answered it (about my SP possibly having sex with someone else even tho we are not in a committed relationship yet - which I also realized the beliefs in me are not strong enough yet like I am chosen, I am worthy, I am safe, etc. that I have to keep saying and integrating). Thank you so much for sharing all of your knowledge! I am currently in the process of shifting my self concept and have never felt better in my entire life because of you so THANK YOU! Can’t wait to update you with more! ❤️❤️❤️

[@yusufa.8605]

Hello, so what happened, any updates ?

[@morgangayla4762]

I’ve watched this video about 4 times shamelessly lol ! When you said make a decision & commit to it that really stuck with me ! So instead of stalking social media I hopped on Pinterest & started picking out decorations for my new apartment I’m manifesting ! Oh yea I found my wedding dress too

[@angieclevenger4535]

Dylan this video completely turned my mindset around. I watch your videos everyday and listen to the tapes at night. It’s only been 2 weeks and My SP is already texting/calling more and we are doing great! Most importantly, I feel better about myself. Thank you!

[@mvlaa.6171]

what tapes did u listen to?

[@taliaa7856]

I love this channel so much and how it’s making me realize it’s more important for me to improve my self concept than it is to get my SP back. My SP will be back. I know that but I need to continue improving my self concept over anything.

[@awilson59]

Same here. I finally after months decided to stop trying to manifest him and work on self concept 100%. Anytime he pops into my thoughts I just say I know for a fact he’s mine but I don’t concentrate on it anymore.

[@ミア-f9b]

For anyone coming to this video and sees this comment; going along with what Dylan said about not perceiving them as a threat, this is something that helped me: I have anxiety, so of course when I think my SP is with somebody else (they are at the moment) I get very triggered. What I do to keep myself at peace and soothe my anxiety is I tell myself that the 3P is my friend. They’re actually helping me manifest SP realizing that “hey, this isn’t working, I want to be with my best friend instead”. I know having 3ps is extremely distressing sometimes, but just affirm in your mind they will eventually lead to you and your SP getting together. Theyre like your undercover wingman helping your SP realize how lame they are and how much better and amazing YOU are! Everyone is you pushed out!

[@AnneWayman]

Finally I see how I created the third party out of my own insecurities. That's a huge relief because I know I am changing that! Soaring heart... thanks so much!

[@KL-oe1sw]

I did this too, and in my case TP is a ghost (deceased). I didn't see how I could live up to who she was, and I know realize I am amazing on my own! Now I'm trying to focus on end state of having SP back.

[@VanessaProphet]

“…And if you don’t like it? Oh-fucking-well -- I’m getting what I want!!” DJ

[@Locdluuv]

😂 love him

[@beyond_words_dance]

I know...he's the man

[@victoriakahtania]

it is true…Since I changed my self concept and became a lot more confident through it and stopped worrying about everything the table has turned. You really need to believe that this works and it does🙌🏻

[@dondadaf488]

I think the question... "What is attractive to you?" is a light bulb moment. Makes you really think wow I don't want to be this clingy, beggy, needy, insecure person. Its crazy 5 days ago I saw an ex who was super insecure and possessive it was so off putting at the time I ended it. Imma use him as my example lol

[@clawlauraflora115]

lol

[@maedegracia404]

Thank you so much Dylan. I owe you so much. I got my SP back and we have been communicating so much. Right now, he talked so much especially in text coz he is like one word man in text but right now we've been talking like non stop. I am also healed and I don't worry. Oh and he visited me in my place last Friday. I just listened to your Limitless love tape every night and it changed me from the inside. I am more happy and I feel loved. It's like I don't feel any neediness at all. 2 days of listening to you changed myself already and now it's been 18 days and I manifested a lot of things. So Thank you.

[@LiNa-uy5bq]

I actually did apologize to him for my past actions and it opened my eyes. I wouldn’t have wanted to be with the version I was putting out myself either. I manifested that mess for a long time but now I’m unmanifesting it 😂. I’m manifesting so many little things like it’s nothing because I have no negative feelings towards it. I manifested 600€ last month for simply existing, my dream carpet, the body I want (lost 10kg), the back brace I needed for years … even the communication from my SP and it’s only getting better and better. He literally drove 3 hours to see me for a couple of minutes this week. I choose me, I’m putting energy in myself and it’ll get reflected to me. He told me he’ll text me about his feelings (but he didn’t yet again). I’m telling myself now that he didn’t yet because I’m too amazing and he is speechless right now so he’s trying to gather the right words to confess his undying love for me 😂.

[@Kobeautycincy]

Omggggg I literally just had this same epiphany last night. Me and my SP talked on the phone for 2 hours and I got to apologize for my limiting beliefs and now seeing who I was when we first met to when we broke up I totally understand why we fell apart. He’s still acting so closed off and guarded like won’t even joke around or be playful with me so I’m telling myself it’s just because he’s trying to hold back all of his feelings because they’re so strong. Which I know he has very strong feelings for me bc he told me and told me he thinks about me a lot and he emphasized “A LOT”

[@LiNa-uy5bq]

@@Kobeautycincy that’s amazing :) good luck and love yourself! Tbh I don’t have this SP anymore because I couldn’t let go of the old story. It’s soooo important to let go of it but I simply couldn’t, too much has happened. I have a new SP now who’s living on the other side of my country and goes 5 hours by train to see me, sends me flowers, cooks for me, calls me daily for hours, has similar interests to me, is super handsome, … I still have to unlearn a lot but I’m telling you it’ll be worth it for us both in the long run. I hope you feel amazing and continue doing so 💕

[@Kobeautycincy]

@@LiNa-uy5bq ahhh!! I’m so happy for you! I so hope that I can persist and let go. We had an amazing relationship so there’s nothing really crazy to overcome or forget about. But it’s the movement that’s triggering me bc he just seems so different in a lot of good ways. He’s improved himself immensely but he just seems to closed off and guarded when it comes to me and it’s worrying me a lotttt today. I actually got physically I’ll when I was on the phone with him (I told him to hang on and muted him) bc he was talking about this show he has Saturday that he didn’t invite me to. I used to be sooo involved in his music and hearing about it and knowing I wouldn’t be there actually made me sick, idk wtf that was all about 😅

[@LiNa-uy5bq]

@@Kobeautycincy say he’s open, not closed off. Circumstances don’t matter, don’t forget that. But I get your trigger. Remember the 3D needs some time to catch up to your affirmations/5D

[@Kobeautycincy]

@@LiNa-uy5bq thank for this! I’ve been such a skeptic for so long, just trying to trust 🙏🏼

[@liliana3021]

I got rid all 3 parties haha!!!! I am a bad ass women who had to go Through so much to get here. To learn what she deserve and honey I am a queen and I don’t accept nothing less of a queen treatment .

[@queenapple]

I watched this 12 times already 🤦🏼‍♀️ i need to watch more to remind me everything u said. All of them are great and helpful. Thank you

[@browneyes88]

It's as simple as this, we are Kings and Queens and we need to stand in our ultimate power. Why should we let other people live the life we truly deserve? Take responsibility for creating it, change your core beliefs and stand in that knowing. "Nothing or no one will ever come between my desire and I." We need to look at this from a warrior perspective, stop wasting our precious energy on things that don't serve us. We are powerful creator's and we need to remind ourselves that everyday. We need to stop getting in our own way, we know what needs to be done, now it's time to apply it. No more messing around, it's game time. I have 100% faith we all can do this, take on a mentality of a warrior and stand in what we believe in because it was meant to be. That's the reason why we have desire's, because it's part of our destiny. If that doesn't drive us, I don't know what else will. We deserve it, so believe in yourself, because I believe in all of you.

[@BriannaNicole____]

I almost just cried watching this video. I spent the last month manifesting my SP with a small limiting belief that showed up in the 3D. Now I’m realizing this whole thing is about CONFIDENCE. Knowing we’re the best, knowing you’re their ONLy option and the BEST option. I listened to your night time meditation and SC on loop for 8 hours and woke up feeling 10x better just in one night. I’m going to restart this whole process beginning with my SC. Thank you Dylan for this amazing video!!

[@nandana7746]

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[@umairmehboob91]

Does verbally stating means I can confidently tell my long distance SP these things "I'm not threatened by anything I don't care what you're doing..talk to to other people..I trust you ..and even if you up getting intimate..its going to be lame and you're going to be thinking about me the whole time and just reaffirm why you like me so much and why you can only connect with me on this special way... I'm confident I'm the catch there's no pressure from my side.. we'll find out if we're compatible in September when you're in Dubai .. everything's good between us' can I explicitly say that to her too?

[@Lulondon1.]

That’s great!

[@brookebenton8192]

Omg just had a HUGE revelation while listening to this!!! Holy crap...I'm on my 21st day of listening to my beliefs at night and am randomly having so many truths come forward, about myself and others. When you said "it's a mirror" "what do you find attractive"? A quick thought popped into my head of someone elusive and closed off....emotionally unavailable. The next thought was no, I find calm, confident and loving to be attractive now. Literally this whole time I was finding emotionally unavailable men attractive on a subconscious level!! I was attracting it and was attracted to it, but then would turn it around and call it a "rejection" because of my previous low self esteem. It was literally a neverending cycle that kept feeding into itself for YEARS. Omg...

[@tima821]

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[@cannedcondensedmilk]

1. ask yourself: what is attractive to you? your reality is a mirror - somebody trusting, knowing their worth and being confident in that ❌ jealousy, threat, instability 2. live as the desired version of yourself who doesnt feel threatened by anything confidently and not from a needy, desperate, or pushing place. 3. being worried that youre gonna get taken advantage of, it's bc you feel like theyre not rly gonna commit to you. trusting and knowing and being able to verbally affirming it in the moment and can stand in that moment genuinely, its gonna create an outcome 4. feeling super threatened by 3rd parties makes you forget how youre showing up - getting beliefs in alignment, doing breathwork, and being conscious in choosing how you're showing up. 4. become a confident version of yourself where its genuinely not an issue for you (pretending they don't exist)((dropping from youe awareness)) 5. you have to change how youre viewing your person - loyal, committing, rly likes you 6. if something is rly important to you, youre always finding ways to do it 7. things dont randomly change - they dont go from being into you to not into your for no reason. there had to be something that changed in how you were showing up, and what you were thinking, and where your focus went - take ownership and mental inventory of whats going on in your mind - attractiveness is living in the end. - you can turn things around but you have to be internally aware 8. getting rid of victim mentality - confidently having a knowing its going in that direction - wouldnt victimize and say "wanna have their cake and eat it too" 9. if you want something in your life, fucking go for it, confidently, fearlessly, believe your gonna have it, see nothing and no one else as a threat, step into that confidence unapologetically, be able to communicate that and be fucking relaxed in knowing. at all times. - verbally communicate: that's not a threat to me. doesnt matter what youre doing it the mean time bc i know where this is going. 10. its gonna make you want that person when theyre showing up that way too. 11. nothing is happening by accident!!!!!! "did i start getting insecure, needy, or desperate?" 12. take aaccountabiliy when youre allowing your insecurities to run rampant, take ownership and change those beliefs 13. thinking youre wishfully thinking or getting your hopes up is a form of a victim mentality - i would rather ffearlessl go after the things i want, discipline my mind, and take creative control over what im thinking. 14. stick to what you want to stick to those decisions - become the badass version of yourself, cut out the idea of 3rd parties, create a structure for your day wwher you feel balanced and secure - if you think you have your hopes up, youre not fully stable yet 15. no urgency, not waiting for anything, enjoying your life 16. relaxed delivery when sspeakig your reality into existence - fearlessly being tte change you wanna experience 17. persisting once you get movement - deliberately drop the topic ffo a little bit, build your confidence, build yiur self-esteem until you can think ab from one very clear way. - drop and move on w your day - once you get movement, do not stop persisting in the knowing - when you get these beliefs in alignment, you never see anything as a threat. - solid belief: if i dont believe it, who is going to? - feel like the best option and i high-value individual, total catch, without forcing bc you just know it. - if youre worried about 3rd parties, your confidence is not where it needs to be and you nneedto wake tf up and rly remember how amazing you are, and how lucky anyone would be to be with you. if youre sitting here dwelling about 3rd parties, youre not being confident. - reminder >> convincing. BE it. - fuck it. this is my one life. im gonna go big or im gonna go home. - stop being fearful that it wont work, stop being fearful that you may get hurt, and just believe, wwak up, be that most cconfidet version if yourself thats just enjoying your day. - nobody is gonna be confident for you. nobody is ggonn pick you unless you feel picked within yourself.

[@amandakind7665]

Dyaln litterly helped me, but not with attracting my ex but with my overall mental health. Now I'm confident, happy, and relaxed. All those fears and anixtey has left. I've never been so happy untill 3 months ago when I started watching Dylan's videos and he has changed my life completely. Our thoughts are very important therefore we should always be careful of what we are thinking on a daily basis

[@june8898]

“They’re going to be thinking of me the whole time” 🤣😂😂 I truly believe this about myself but at times I still get freaked out....this was so necessary for me today 🙏🏼

[@aroojaziz]

Dylan I can’t thank you enough for bringing me back to life. I appreciate every word coming out of your mouth. How broken I was you have no idea. The strength you give to broken hearts & the way you motivate is just out of this world. I’m getting my pieces back together. Just wanted to let you know that I’m grateful 🌸💕

[@becsally557]

This is me now.. is there a good video to fix this heart? I want my life back.

[@aroojaziz]

@@becsally557 listen to these DJ’s affirmations for atleast 21 days. They are game changer. kzbin.info/www/bejne/pX_XoZSpe7uliZI

[@yusufa.8605]

@@becsally557 How are you today, I'm getting through this right now

[@Spoiled_princess_8888]

I stopped focusing on sp and chasing him and I focused on myself abd really building my life and did the things you teach and he came back texting me , but he was so insecure like “I don’t know if you will ever want to talk to me again but if yes I am here…” or “ miss you”. But why was he insecure? I don’t get it .

[@IAm_DylanJames]

The roles flipped. You did what I teach successfully.

[@Spoiled_princess_8888]

@@IAm_DylanJames yes ^^ but I want him to be confident:D you know !

[@SR-kg5qu]

Could you tell me your story? Like was he very head strong ? I mean, did you ever imagine him being insecure at all? Like did it surprise you? Was he one of those guys who’re sufficiently happy with themselves?

[@lionesssai5957]

@dea czibulka that's awesome.. would love if you elaborate on what exactly you did ❤️

[@IAm_DylanJames]

@@Spoiled_princess_8888 Start seeing him that way, and communicating it "I see you as so confident : )" Believe in that version of him

[@interviewacceleratorcoach8268]

I’ve been listening to the affirmations and today I walked passed a huge billboard that simply had the words “believe”

[@Jamie-zi2nf]

I love that: "be that [confident but not pushy or desperate/best] version of you, fearlessly." A year ago, I was drinking 6 days a week, unhappy with my living situation, trying to control things obsessively (cleaning, roommate/old friend's choices, etc), choosing the wrong types of girls even though I had met some WONDERFUL girls along the way (or, in my case, wonderful girl - my sp), and I repelled her for a while. I was very self-sabotaging, and had gotten back into self-harm and some really negative and sad shit. I put pressure on a lot of friendships and relationships that was too much for any sane person to put up with. Now? I don't judge myself. I understand that I went through everything I needed to, to really get to that turning point where I looked in the mirror and asked what I was doing with myself. I think we all get to that point sometimes; it doesn't have to be "rock bottom" - there really IS no defined "bottom line" when it comes to sinking emotionally. I made a vow to never lose respect for myself or put pressure on my relationships like that again. I'm just simply taking care of myself because I want to, and living how I choose to. It's literally just a MATTER OF CHOICE. The more and more I learn about life and LOA, the more I realize simple is easy. Say what you need to, live how you choose to, and love who you want to. Dylan said it best... stop victimizing yourself and actively. Choose. Yourself. Every. Day. I'm so grateful for this community and for your content, Dylan. Thank you so much :) I know that my life is SIGNIFICANTLY better compared to only 12 months ago, and it only gets better from here. I hope you ALL receive EVERYTHING you deserve

[@marissamacias6732]

It’s so crazy!! I’m seeing someone right now I’m really into, and i noticed my insecurities come up and they manifested in this situation. I love this video because it’s shifted my perception the way I see myself and the way I see my new guy. There’s no rush for anything, I’m confident, relaxed, knowing that whatever I desire is mine, it’s all going in my favor. Thank you Dylan you are doing amazing work!! I’m grateful that there are people like you in this world.❤️ Many blessings to you!!!❤️

[@dece9604]

Dylan teaching his boyfriend how to seduce him - haha, that was cute 🖤 I love you and your channel.

[@arneishachism5781]

This 100% is true. I'm in a 3rd party situation where both of my SP's have 3rd parties. Well SP2 was all into me a few weeks ago, where she kept saying she regretted getting back with her ex, wishing she would chose me when we first met and how she wants to be around me because she can't stop thinking about me no matter what she does. Now we're in no contact Bec I was too focused on the 3rd and their relationship and how she's so in love with this person and wouldn't leave her to be with me. I definitely see the change because when I was persisting in my new story of her finding it hard to not think about me, her craving me, and wanting to see that's exactly who and how she was with me. And then I got discouraged by hearing and seeing the 3fd party that I slipped back to the old story and here we are. This taught me that me that yes, you're the one that's in control and it's all on you, your thoughts, and your assumptions about the situation. I'm recreating and sticking to my new story and my new self concept story as well.

[@journaljoy]

Yay bedtime stories with Dylan! Really liking this new time slot :)

[@babygoddess764]

Ive been so confident that things are going the way I want with my SP lately that I dont even filter myself anymore. Today he kept asking if I could help out on his side at work. The last time he asked I just straight up said "If you want to see my beautiful face, just say so." His first reaction was to say "but that would be a lie." Hes extremely sarcastic (as am I) so I just looked at him and he immediately smiled and said "well I guess you figured me out. I just wanted you to come over so I could look at you and flirt with you. And tell you that you're just so perfect and amazing and cool." I stg he uses sarcasm to cover his nerves bc he always does this where hes sarcastically rude (like a little school boy being mean to his crush) and then trips over his words complimenting me afterward. I'm the one telling him not to be nervous now 😂

[@fradancer]

This is so sweet omg

[@dylanjlg]

For me, this was the best team meeting. Thank you. I’m leaving this video more confident and even confident in my self-concept. I love you Dylan. Thank you for everything. ♥️

[@laurengrubb9047]

I know there's no third party. But the second topic really spoke to me. I now know how I manifested my situation and I'm gonna change it now. Thanks Dylan ! 😊

[@antoinetteahyuk2013]

First off, you are amazing Dylan!!! I had so much happened to me. But since I started listening to you manifested an amazing job and now I'm focusing on SP. We have had so much happen and I have been struggling with getting him back. However, every time I feel lost you upload videos that continuously push me in the right direction. You are truly amazing. Thank you.

[@nbn1018]

How did you manifest the job exactly ?

[@gabsterelli]

this makes me think of when a guy showed up soooo insecure with me, and i was so turned off i had to end things with him. if he had just been secure and confident that relationship probably would’ve worked out

[@pattiland2437]

This video calls me out on my crap but your so right. I’ve been doing the tapes for almost 3 weeks. My life has completely changed. I even got $$ I wasn’t expecting. My sp is showing up! 💙🙏🏻

[@deepti9127]

I've removed a 3p but I want to be consistent with the changes I've made in me. I no longer feel threatened anymore 🎉

[@marniephoenix]

My SP hasn’t left me alone since starting Dylan’s tapes. I’m on day 13 and he came back day 9. He’s been begging to see me since and tonight was the first night free. He begged to come over so I said that’s fine and he said how he missed me so much and can’t wait to see me and that he’s leaving now. I went to look at my phone ten minutes later and he’s blocked me? He’s 35 and a police officer, how am I triggering him so much to block me when he asked to see me. I’m laughing as it’s so insane 🤣

[@marniephoenix]

@@julia-annesmith7250 thanks so much for your response! A lot of people don’t do what Dylan teaches as they don’t know. I know I reacted right as I straight away found it funny and found it so crazy but I didn’t know what it meant?! Like I know it shows that I have shifted concept to laugh at that but why would he do that? Like it’s mind baffling! Like he catches criminals scarier than me 🤣 xxx

[@manifestinggoddess8287]

I am worthy and I deserve everything I desire 🔥

[@JessicaSkyy]

This is the one💥 I’ve been listening to you since July and now my relationship dynamics make sense! I take full responsibility for the part I played! I’ve learned so much from your channel🙌🏽Thank you so much Dylan.

[@rubaiyachowdhury5999]

Imma keep commenting this till Dylan responds to me 😂 Dylan can you PLEASE make a video on how to improve non-romantic relationships like with Parents where the stakes are higher? Also, what if your 3rd party is your parents who do not approve of your sp and blocks your marriage?

[@IAm_DylanJames]

This whole video addresses this... The stakes are not higher, you're creating that as an idea

[@Hollins23]

​@@IAm_DylanJames I was just thinking that very thing after I read the comment above. :)

[@rubaiyachowdhury5999]

@@IAm_DylanJames I literally dozed off after commenting this and dreamt you visited my house and very SWEETLY told me to get my shit together and I woke up you actually replying 😭😂 I’ll rewatch the video. Thanks for replying

[@rianarashid8144]

@Rubaiya_ giiiiirl I'm in the same boat as you 🙌

[@fatemasaiyed2125]

How do you respond to people asking you about an sp (after a breakup) if you're trying to manifest an sp back and how would you respond to your parents trying to convince you to meet other people for marriage while trying to manifest an sp while living from the end (affirming I am my sps wife I love being married to my sp etc) I've been listening to the 8 hours sleep audio over a month now and from time to time I have little anxiety attacks out of the blues. Any idea why that could be happening?

[@browneyes88]

I think the minor anxiety attacks could be doubts you still need to get rid off. Your doing amazing but when you have those moments maybe do some breath work or meditation to stabilize yourself. I recommend Sadhguru's Isha Kriya meditation to help calm your mind. In regards to telling your parents about the break up ( old story) be honest with them. I'm actually in this position where my dad wants to talk to me about settling down. My parents are very supportive and never force anything on me, just want the best for me. I decided I'm going to be honest with them and tell them " I believe in my heart we are meant to be together and I'm not going to settle, just to get married" I'm going to stand in my power and speak my truth. I'm not going to repeat the old story to them, because it doesn't exist. But explain how your learning about self concept and yourself and realized this man is for you. You have no worries because it's part of your destiny. Don't be afraid, because this is your truth. Your parents will support you 100%, I just know it. You got this Queen🙏

[@fatemasaiyed2125]

@@browneyes88 ill definitely watch the meditation video you recommend thank you so much. The thing is my parents already know about me and my sp not being together. We were supposed to get married but it didn't work out cause my sps family were talking him out of marrying me cause we live in different countries. My parents now want me to look at other options for marriage.

[@browneyes88]

@@fatemasaiyed2125 well what do you want? Do you still have that desire for him? If so, circumstances don't matter, at all. If you can explain to your parents this is how you feel and you know in your heart that he is the man your meant to be with then that's what it is. If your afraid of what they will say, keep working on your self concept to stand in your power and what you believe in. I know your parents will support you.

[@brittanysellscars5528]

I say “he isn’t going anywhere.” It covers all the basics lol

[@aquasaturn6978]

Dylan, a question regarding what you mentioned in this video, specifically the situation with the guy who you used to see before you met Adam and who did all those nasty and crazy things that made you decide that you're done with him (obviously). If we can turn around EVERYTHING with our beliefs and behaviours, would it be the same in that case? If after all the stupid things he's done he actually changed his self concept and did everything you tell us in your videos, without taking any action, would he win you back? Where do we draw the line? When is it too late? This is purely hypothetical lol but I'm really curious what you think about it

[@khushboobatra5900]

Wow, this is a very good question. I hope you don't mind if I answer it as well😋 I think it's very much possible! because think about it that persons insecurities is what pushed dylan away, if he turns that around and steps into the most confident bad ass version of him self, he can create a completely different reality. Both realities are bridging from his core beliefs. We all are connected to each other. Dude I manifested this video! Everytime dylan used to post anything, I always used to say in my head about how wonderful it how be if he posted something about 3rd parties as I would love to hear his take on it and mind you I never wrote It on any comment section Nor did I ever come across any comment suggesting that, so yes I did manifest that. I was so detached and I did not even Care if it happens or not, I just preferred it and then dropped it and got on with my life ( as dylan says, going straight to it is done)

[@no-gc6xd]

Absolutely. Dylan has said no matter how much we may have 'messed up' in the past - if you get your beliefs in order and step into your new reality with 1000% certainty then you can create anything and NO circumstance will matter. Though it doesn't sound like his guy ever really did step into that way of being so here we are.

[@themindbenderr]

In one of his previous videos he left a comment about this and said "Someone can still manifest me when I am with Adam." soooo it is possible. Anything is possible.

[@leannegerth4844]

Same situation and wondering the same 🙋🏼‍♀️

[@awakenedsoulschannel]

I was wondering the same thing!

[@tnt01]

Shorter hair is perfect for you, more professional and polished. hugs.

[@secretslikeanch0rs]

I've watched this specific video so many times over and over again and it never fails to remind me of how powerful I am. Thank you for dropping all these gems and for all that you do Dylan

[@user-hj3ko6mm7i]

I was in a mutually agreed-upon committed relationship with him. Then he brought in a third party... His ex that he kept around. I addressed the issue and gave him time to get rid of the third party or make up his mind. When he kept sneaking around not making any changes I left and ghosted him. From my perspective it's fine for him to go back and forth and make up his mind but not while he's in an actual relationship with me. I'm not going to be a part of his indecisive bullsh*t. He knows my boundaries and if he's going to be with me then all others must go. If he works that out then he can approached me and we can see. If he doesn't then he knows better than to even look my way. It's not that I changed and became needy or anyting. It's that he had never properly cut ties with his ex before he brought me into the picture and I was unaware of that. Now that I left he has dropped the third party and wants to reunite. You might say that the commitment I wanted has finally manifested. Could be... But I don't really want it anymore because I've seen so many other negative traits in him throughout this cycle.

[@morganshepherd4757]

Wow Dylan.... this is the answer I've been seeking everywhere, even in counseling..... And you are the only one who brought it to me. I can't thank you enough for showing up in my reality and helping me change my entire life. ✨❤️

[@millennialaffirmations8119]

My SP is on a trip with 3 of his very attractive female friends. I immediately shifted my focus to confidence!!! My girls are asking if I trust him and my answer is YES! I am the baddest. Thank you Dylan.

[@Nash_Aurora]

Of course you trust him. And most of all you trust yourself

[@spiritualt2004]

Y’all ever wonder if your SP is manifesting you too? Oh wait duhh of course they are!

[@queennanu7423]

you look wonderful DJ thank you for all that you do also I wanted to share with listening to your self-concept Limitless manifesting I attracted $10,000 + $12,000 as well it is not a trying process everything you want you already have it before you have it because you already have all that you want it's within you peace- love and light we love you from Wisconsin DJ

[@fatimaahmed4376]

Thank you Dylan! I have been in this victim mindset and I knew it was something I was doing, but I wasn’t sure what I was doing wrong! Now I know!

[@christelle8572]

Well in my siituation , I do not think of the third party that my SP is seeeing right now.I acknowledge she is in the mix for the purpose of my comment here but in my daily life , I "funnily " enough ( the reason I say funny is because my SP had played too often that game of hot and cold and deciding for us the timeline of things that I was the one to walk away after reaching boiling point ) So even tough I know she is seeing somebody else , it doesn't bother me. I am seeing it two ways: 1/ She misses so much the comfort of our relatiosnhip that she had to jump into another one fast . I gave her the best secured relationship she ever had since she was used to be cheated on before and taken advantage of or 2/she is just too stupid to realise my worth at this point .I am not putting with anymore BS from her , no-contact since April of this year .I am feeling better and better and I learn everyday to apppreciate me more ,which wasn't the case a few months back. I manifest our way to each other but the best version of each other , nothing less .

[@menilmontant4749]

There are others copying your style 👀 but they can’t compete

[@VanessaProphet]

Dylan recognizes absolutely no threat in his reality --he already knows he is the best option

[@dbsk06]

38:00 never perceive anything as a threat Consciously redirect your mind 22:50 28:30 fearlessly go after what you want 40:31 summary: go big or go home Remove time urgency. Knowing.

[@kaviyakrishnan5911]

Ohh Man!!!Dylann😅😅😇😇🥰 I'm literally sitting here and laughing at the moment when you finally threw the paper away...Your vibes and energy is awesome...So much in love with your teachings and mindset..Thank you so much for helping everyone become the best version of themselves and also me...Thank you for this beautiful fun filled journey.😇♥️

[@asmasultan4851]

Yes ! The man is truly AWESOME 🙂

[@hannah.jane444]

Throwing rocks at your window 😭 This whole story is killing me lmao.

[@IAm_DylanJames]

it was a moment lol

[@pr1nce22a9]

Sheeeshhh this put me through an awakening. I had no idea I was holding onto all those emotions about myself. Thank you 🤍♡︎♥︎ I appreciate you Dylan

[@akshe4748]

If anyone ends up having success stories - esp if they are over 35 - it would be great to see some of them.

[@daniangel64]

When the " third-party" is well, dead. It obvious inspite of how he feels about me, he will always love her more, I'm not even sure how to deal with that. *Edit OK I finished the video, I think I know what to do now, I'm goingvto speak the reality I want into existence. I've got this. Thank you Dylan!!

[@CurvyCass1982]

What third party? 😉

[@iammariavas]

You look handsome. So proud of you. You are helping so many people .Congrats on your success🥰‼️

[@lil-q5z]

I know im not threaten by anything, i know you want me, you're gonna end up with me, you can't resist me. Embody that confidence

[@jamz9932]

Dylaaan! I had to comment because what is so amazing is the example you used about being the person very less likely to become a doctor is literally my SP! He didn’t give up despite the fact he didn’t even have a science background and finished his med degree. Currently trying to get him back to my reality but just find that way too coincidental!! 💕 thank you!

[@sjthesource]

My future is bright, why wouldn't i be chosen. All else pales in comparison to me.

[@lilahannesson1419]

I love you Dylan. You are helping so so so many people with your amazing talks. I can listen to this 1000000 times and I learn something new everytime. Wow. Genius.

[@thekrystalmethod]

I had to come to this video to refresh my memory because I’ll go from super stable, no one can fuck with me to anxiety attack from my insecurities that I’ve gotten pretty good at calming myself over but sometimes I need a little reminder. The part of figuring out what I’d want in a partner and then being that really connected with me. I remember having an ex yelling at me/fighting with me over people who would leave me comments, like my pictures or even talking to male friends I’ve had since childhood. What sucks was I was crazy in love with my ex before he started doing all that and his behavior is what drove me away. I would never want a partner to impose those kind of restrictions or limitations on me again so I need to be that kind of partner I’d want for myself for my future person.

[@meowmeow1stgen668]

Dylan, The night after I spoke to you my SP came back after a year :-)

[@bonibubbles12]

You're the best! Thank you for always keeping it real!

[@jc1636]

I’ve got movement! I’ve been listening to your vids for a couple months, but in the last week I leaned in to my stability routine. Meditating, Wim Hof breathing and yoga w Adrienne every day. Now I don’t have a specific SP but a few lovely ladies I want to be closer to. Out of the blue, one of them invites me to hang out yesterday! Now I KNOW I gotta keep it up, but am more inspired than ever!

[@janessaarango8494]

So grateful for finding you because ever since I started my spiritual journey, how you explain it is so much more simpler and easier to apply rather than when I had first started a year ago. 🙏

[@itsaivienotivy]

I swear Dylan, are u doing any skincare routine or something cuz you're glowing ✨

[@akane233]

I like your smile

[@AmRisArt]

Dylan, could you please address the concept "I'm a burden on society, and that's all I'll ever be"? This is a common feeling for many of us who have disabilities or chronic pain. Thank you so much.

[@flagnation3579]

❤️❤️ this helped a lot. There is barely any Communication with my SP. He is in another state. He will only respond if I text him first but the conversation is short. This has been going on for 6 months. So thank you for this video. I feel that I am the best so I will focus on me and think positive about this man.

[@flagnation3579]

No communication yet 😢

[@iamjannyd]

What if you don’t even know if you want the person in a 3rd party? Am I coming from fear? I know this may come off silly but it’s been tormenting me when I practice.

[@alejas47]

He broke into your house 😭 I’m just imagining your reaction 😂

[@IAm_DylanJames]

…and had the audacity to crawl into my bed and cuddle me like it was normal I was fake sleeping so hard and in my mind like “omg this cannot be happening”. Ill have to do more story times lol

[@natoriamorris1566]

@@IAm_DylanJames ahhhhhh 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@hellothereinternet]

that story time threw me so off guard 😂😂😂😂 the way you tell stories is the best

[@IAm_DylanJames]

I should make a story time series "this one time..." oh boy lol i would have people rolling

[@apharmasus9158]

You are the best channel. No exaggeration. You tell the most knowledge out of all yt coaches and all videos give us new info. I love that you're incredibly honest with us and that devil's advocate part was so on point. Someone who tells the reality of manifesting and doesn't bring it on gently with white lies🙏🏻 you're a treasure

[@Nash_Aurora]

I think that was "Double's advocate ” was it not? I thought he meant he is speaking for me and my sp at the same time

[@CaliStarrManifesting]

And by the way I manifested this video! 🙌🏽 I totally needed this! Thank you! 😊

[@karishmaarora5993]

That guy watching the video on how to manifest Dylan back 😛😛🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@IAm_DylanJames]

👀 he popped up on my feed the other day.... maybe he is 😂

[@ALeon-yn6uz]

😂😂😂

[@user-ob1xi6ey9w]

So ive been manifesting my sp for a year now, like i said 'trying'. There was a 3d party, then i manifested him and i to be friends and he started wanting to see me more and more and he even told me beautifull things, it was in his behaviour obvious that he wanted me back. But the moment he was in my 3d i became so insecure, didnt feel good enough and doubted the obvious signs. He started losing interest the more i started acting insecure and most importantly thinking insecure thoughts. Now we are in no contact Again but i started listening to the affirmation tapes and started feeling neutral. Like nothing triggered me anymore after a while. Now i am back on affirming and i just saw there was a new girl. For 10 seconds i freaked out and then i started affirming and now i am back in this self concept of the chosen one. I am the only one he wants, like i really feel that! So the affirmation tapes and my mental diet are creating a shift inside of ME. I am not seeing results yet, even discovered a 3d party but i will not stop. These were old thoughts. Im chosing my dream reality and i am believing that i can get it, i am sure.

[@carolinebailey5300]

Any updates since this last post?

[@aswizzlefoshizzle]

If someone I'm dating is entertaining third parties, I get so turned off that I walk away 🤷🏼‍♀ Ain't nobody got time fo dat

[@JasmineLajeunesse]

oh man I was just about to start crying because of some 3P shit and now I feel SO FUCKING POWERFUL!!!! I'm gonna go have an amazing day now, knowing I am THAT sexy, beautiful, interesting, talented, smart, irresistible, and perfect.

[@astridulastridula7871]

Each time you post a video, it is exactly the answer to my fear at that very moment. Magic

[@SoniaAnastasiaaa]

What is a third party?

[@IAm_DylanJames]

Anything perceived to be a threat

[@krystalizedmagic4894]

Can you make a Video or Affirmations about Insecurities, Low Self-esteem, Self-hatred and Abandonment? Self-Love? 💕

[@kimmiekatk1982]

Shelly has free fear of abandonment videos set that are pretty good....

[@aylins756]

Would it work for my situation? My ex broke up with me and then a couple months later he came back and said we are together, and disappeared again and told me not to call him. and when I called him I understood he was with sb else? now we are completely out of each other's lives but I can't stop wanting him back.

[@j.c1574]

This video is really helpful for people that are insecure or heavily anxious!! Like for real, even outside the third party stuff

[@genevas]

Dylan the talk you had at the end was so empowering. You’re insanely supportive as if you knew and loved me personally, just shows how big of a heart you have. A lot of people feel that way too and I like many others are so thankful to have someone speak like that to us when in the past it was so rare to hear. Thank you!

[@mbalicitabatwa5118]

I really love watching your content even if it’s just for fun. You’re a good teacher. Thank you Dylan ❤️✨

[@Anwelei]

Thank you for being so open! I have definitely driven away at least 2 men I’ve loved with my neurotic, insecure behavior and beliefs.

[@beautybytara805]

I just choked on my fucking Raisin Bran when you said he broke into your house and came up and tried to climb into bed with you 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣💀

[@IAm_DylanJames]

I know he knows I have this channel too. haha. oops

[@nickietigg]

I’m getting what I want! 😊

[@jcf8201]

Dylan James - I wish I could talk to you. I have been studying this LOA stuff for years. For some reason your delivery of the material really resonated with me. I have been watching you for probably 2 weeks -and I have noticed changes happening. I love it. I want to continue to grow and develop stronger manifestation powers. Thank you is not strong enough- thank you x 1000! I love you 💕