No More...Third Parties (Relationship Threat | Jealously | Insecurity)

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[@emixoxo4409]

A little technique that helps soothe me and keep me confident when I'm assuming a new story for my person is knowing that "if I can assume this, it can happen, and if I can allow myself to believe it, it'll happen no matter what"

[@dariabuzun6805]

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[@dariabuzun6805]

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[@prachiatri5921]

works for me too

[@umairmehboob91]

Does verbally stating means I can confidently tell my long distance SP these things "I'm not threatened by anything I don't care what you're doing..talk to to other people..I trust you ..and even if you up getting intimate..its going to be lame and you're going to be thinking about me the whole time and just reaffirm why you like me so much and why you can only connect with me on this special way... I'm confident I'm the catch there's no pressure from my side.. we'll find out if we're compatible in September when you're in Dubai .. everything's good between us' can I explicitly say that to her too?

[@alwaysright2589]

@@umairmehboob91no don’t say it unless you confidently believe that. It’s more of a knowing.

[@peanutbutter4978]

People need to realize that neediness is not attractive... Once I got rid of my "needy" behavior, my SP fell for me. The same goes for when people stopped being needy of me.

[@MissVioletaOrange]

Another coach said that when you worry about a 3p, you are rejecting yourself. It helps me to decide not to reject myself and not allow myself to even entertain the idea of a 3p.

[@CaliStarrManifesting]

Wow thank you 🙏🏽 for this!

[@Emily-ld8eu]

Wow, I think I manifested this comment

[@MissVioletaOrange]

@@Emily-ld8eu 🤣 ❤️

[@CaliStarrManifesting]

Thank you 🙏🏽 😉

[@msk.4427]

Wow, this is what I needed to hear 🙌🏽

[@shanybouwer5082]

Each time my mind wonders to the third party I am like "I wish nothing but the best for them and that they really find their true love, because it is unfair that they are in a relationship with my SP that is in-love with me"and then I just like erase them and blow away the pieces.

[@gorgeeus]

❤️❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@krystleavs]

Awesome

[@aroojaziz]

Wow

[@Brandyyyyy]

I just imagine them being sucked into a black hole and gone like they never existed...I do that with all my negative thoughts lol like a heavy duty vaccume 😂

[@analoti]

But what if you’re the third party and you KNOW they still love them? 😥

[@biankafucskodancefitness]

I can only say when I was manifesting my now bf, then he had a 3p dylan helped me so much to stay in the state of being with SP. NOW, 3p gone and dusted. NOW sp and me together, going 1.5 years strong :)

[@Izz740]

We’re y’all friends during?? Mine just reached out after a long no contact but has someone they’re seeing and wants to be friends again / get to know each other. Unsure what to say it’s so strange how I manifested this bc he’s calling me queen , says our love is white hot lol, and wants to be with me but still scared and ish.

[@snehaghosh4656]

Can u please help me? What u have done?

[@samanthap2404]

I had ‘avoided’ a third party but what actually helped me release fear around them was considering - what is it about this person that threatens me? They appeared to be very carefree and fun and I realised I was worried about being inflexible and dull. So I worked on that part of my self concept and it resolved - that person no longer threatened me and I saw that I was all those wonderful things and more. It’s like that person was just a messenger, showing me what to focus on, nothing else. It can be tough but I found it better to just face it instead of denying the fear. Maybe this will help someone else 🙏🏻

[@moonsub4085]

you're lovely! thanks for this

[@yurrr974]

Thank you . I ended up being friends with the 3p 💀

[@brittney3156]

This is helpful.

[@cat-hz5en]

ig me too?? today ive been having bad intrusive thoughts and i think its bc i think i need this person to feel fully loved and accepted. which i dont. im working on that though, thank you :)

[@ale2701]

This is what exactly happened to me and didn't realize. Thank you, you saved my life!

[@jsalt3800]

We all forget who we were when we originally attracted our SP is such a cool way of seeing things. It makes you realize that the self confidence, self worth, and self love has always been inside you. I don’t have to learn how to be these things, I just have to let my inner truth flourish without focusing on the outcome.

[@khushboobatra5900]

I love this! Thank you so much for sharing this❤

[@MzMayaJ]

I wasn’t even interested in my sp when he first showed up lol

[@maratheleo]

Love this, thanks for the reminder 😏

[@umairmehboob91]

Does verbally stating means I can confidently tell my long distance SP these things "I'm not threatened by anything I don't care what you're doing..talk to to other people..I trust you ..and even if you up getting intimate..its going to be lame and you're going to be thinking about me the whole time and just reaffirm why you like me so much and why you can only connect with me on this special way... I'm confident I'm the catch there's no pressure from my side.. we'll find out if we're compatible in September when you're in Dubai .. everything's good between us' can I explicitly say that to her too?

[@TheBrightestLight5]

Earlier when listening to you I felt confident that my sp would text me tonight and he did. Every time my ego felt like he was taking too long to respond I would relax and say,”I’m not even worried. I know he’s gonna text me right back” and he would literally text me right back. We’ve been in contact for two weeks after no contact for 7 months. I know this time I got it in the bag! 😎

[@Hollins23]

Congratulations!! Good for you! Woo hoo!!

[@Elizabeth-en8vs]

I hope it will happen to me too. But the thing is that I am doing all the things Dylan recommend and still waiting for his text as result of my actions😞

[@Commoninsider00]

Yessss !!!! Keep your inner self hugh. I’ve been going through your situation too and girl we have got it done%! We get whatever we want . I am sending my positive thoughts to you girl !😘❤️

[@nienm33]

@@Elizabeth-en8vs don’t wait. That’s not what Dylan says in his video’s. Live in the end. When you already got him/her you don’t wait for them right? You just know they are yours. You feel calm and secure. When you don’t feel like this yet maybe do some breathwork/ meditations during the day and focus on you. You can get everything that you want 👑

[@Elizabeth-en8vs]

@@nienm33 thank you🙏🏻🤍 so I should think, that he is mine and we are together/or WILL be together? What about day dreaming and inner talking with him? ☺️

[@cannedcondensedmilk]

1. ask yourself: what is attractive to you? your reality is a mirror - somebody trusting, knowing their worth and being confident in that ❌ jealousy, threat, instability 2. live as the desired version of yourself who doesnt feel threatened by anything confidently and not from a needy, desperate, or pushing place. 3. being worried that youre gonna get taken advantage of, it's bc you feel like theyre not rly gonna commit to you. trusting and knowing and being able to verbally affirming it in the moment and can stand in that moment genuinely, its gonna create an outcome 4. feeling super threatened by 3rd parties makes you forget how youre showing up - getting beliefs in alignment, doing breathwork, and being conscious in choosing how you're showing up. 4. become a confident version of yourself where its genuinely not an issue for you (pretending they don't exist)((dropping from youe awareness)) 5. you have to change how youre viewing your person - loyal, committing, rly likes you 6. if something is rly important to you, youre always finding ways to do it 7. things dont randomly change - they dont go from being into you to not into your for no reason. there had to be something that changed in how you were showing up, and what you were thinking, and where your focus went - take ownership and mental inventory of whats going on in your mind - attractiveness is living in the end. - you can turn things around but you have to be internally aware 8. getting rid of victim mentality - confidently having a knowing its going in that direction - wouldnt victimize and say "wanna have their cake and eat it too" 9. if you want something in your life, fucking go for it, confidently, fearlessly, believe your gonna have it, see nothing and no one else as a threat, step into that confidence unapologetically, be able to communicate that and be fucking relaxed in knowing. at all times. - verbally communicate: that's not a threat to me. doesnt matter what youre doing it the mean time bc i know where this is going. 10. its gonna make you want that person when theyre showing up that way too. 11. nothing is happening by accident!!!!!! "did i start getting insecure, needy, or desperate?" 12. take aaccountabiliy when youre allowing your insecurities to run rampant, take ownership and change those beliefs 13. thinking youre wishfully thinking or getting your hopes up is a form of a victim mentality - i would rather ffearlessl go after the things i want, discipline my mind, and take creative control over what im thinking. 14. stick to what you want to stick to those decisions - become the badass version of yourself, cut out the idea of 3rd parties, create a structure for your day wwher you feel balanced and secure - if you think you have your hopes up, youre not fully stable yet 15. no urgency, not waiting for anything, enjoying your life 16. relaxed delivery when sspeakig your reality into existence - fearlessly being tte change you wanna experience 17. persisting once you get movement - deliberately drop the topic ffo a little bit, build your confidence, build yiur self-esteem until you can think ab from one very clear way. - drop and move on w your day - once you get movement, do not stop persisting in the knowing - when you get these beliefs in alignment, you never see anything as a threat. - solid belief: if i dont believe it, who is going to? - feel like the best option and i high-value individual, total catch, without forcing bc you just know it. - if youre worried about 3rd parties, your confidence is not where it needs to be and you nneedto wake tf up and rly remember how amazing you are, and how lucky anyone would be to be with you. if youre sitting here dwelling about 3rd parties, youre not being confident. - reminder >> convincing. BE it. - fuck it. this is my one life. im gonna go big or im gonna go home. - stop being fearful that it wont work, stop being fearful that you may get hurt, and just believe, wwak up, be that most cconfidet version if yourself thats just enjoying your day. - nobody is gonna be confident for you. nobody is ggonn pick you unless you feel picked within yourself.

[@silvermoon1051]

what is attractive to you ? 10:18 remove the notion of threats in ur reality 18:30 * victim mindset 19:30 being that version of you fearlessly 21:05 things don’t randomly change 22:00 confident knowing 23:43 * nothing is happening by accident 25:40 taking accountability 26:07 * wishful thinking and how it leads to victim mindset 26:53 decide what you want and know that you’re going to get it 28:50 how to know you’re stable 29:29 speaking your reality into existence 31:34 reality is a mirror // confident knowing 32:50 you’re the creator of your own reality 34:10 persisting once you get movement 34:54 affirmations and stability 35:40 don’t stop persisting 36:30 your creative process never ends 37:16 true stability 38:37 go big or go home 40:22

[@tinydreamerrr]

thank you!!

[@bubbasparks5465]

Most amazing comment ever. Helps you hear the message you need in the moment!!😊

[@Nikopup]

Go big or go home!!!! ❤

[@ミア-f9b]

For anyone coming to this video and sees this comment; going along with what Dylan said about not perceiving them as a threat, this is something that helped me: I have anxiety, so of course when I think my SP is with somebody else (they are at the moment) I get very triggered. What I do to keep myself at peace and soothe my anxiety is I tell myself that the 3P is my friend. They’re actually helping me manifest SP realizing that “hey, this isn’t working, I want to be with my best friend instead”. I know having 3ps is extremely distressing sometimes, but just affirm in your mind they will eventually lead to you and your SP getting together. Theyre like your undercover wingman helping your SP realize how lame they are and how much better and amazing YOU are! Everyone is you pushed out!

[@deepti9127]

I've removed a 3p but I want to be consistent with the changes I've made in me. I no longer feel threatened anymore 🎉

[@sarahtoscana8232]

“Even if he did have sex with someone else, it’s gonna be lame and you’re gonna be thinking about me the entire time” LMAOOOOO I friggin love you Dylan!! You give me so much LIFE!! 😂😂 I been watching your videos for almost 2 weeks straight now and this was one of my biggest fears and I’m so glad I found the video where you answered it (about my SP possibly having sex with someone else even tho we are not in a committed relationship yet - which I also realized the beliefs in me are not strong enough yet like I am chosen, I am worthy, I am safe, etc. that I have to keep saying and integrating). Thank you so much for sharing all of your knowledge! I am currently in the process of shifting my self concept and have never felt better in my entire life because of you so THANK YOU! Can’t wait to update you with more! ❤️❤️❤️

[@yusufa.8605]

Hello, so what happened, any updates ?

[@AnneWayman]

Finally I see how I created the third party out of my own insecurities. That's a huge relief because I know I am changing that! Soaring heart... thanks so much!

[@KL-oe1sw]

I did this too, and in my case TP is a ghost (deceased). I didn't see how I could live up to who she was, and I know realize I am amazing on my own! Now I'm trying to focus on end state of having SP back.

[@morgangayla4762]

I’ve watched this video about 4 times shamelessly lol ! When you said make a decision & commit to it that really stuck with me ! So instead of stalking social media I hopped on Pinterest & started picking out decorations for my new apartment I’m manifesting ! Oh yea I found my wedding dress too

[@VanessaProphet]

“…And if you don’t like it? Oh-fucking-well -- I’m getting what I want!!” DJ

[@Locdluuv]

😂 love him

[@beyond_words_dance]

I know...he's the man

[@arneishachism5781]

This 100% is true. I'm in a 3rd party situation where both of my SP's have 3rd parties. Well SP2 was all into me a few weeks ago, where she kept saying she regretted getting back with her ex, wishing she would chose me when we first met and how she wants to be around me because she can't stop thinking about me no matter what she does. Now we're in no contact Bec I was too focused on the 3rd and their relationship and how she's so in love with this person and wouldn't leave her to be with me. I definitely see the change because when I was persisting in my new story of her finding it hard to not think about me, her craving me, and wanting to see that's exactly who and how she was with me. And then I got discouraged by hearing and seeing the 3fd party that I slipped back to the old story and here we are. This taught me that me that yes, you're the one that's in control and it's all on you, your thoughts, and your assumptions about the situation. I'm recreating and sticking to my new story and my new self concept story as well.

[@BriannaNicole____]

I almost just cried watching this video. I spent the last month manifesting my SP with a small limiting belief that showed up in the 3D. Now I’m realizing this whole thing is about CONFIDENCE. Knowing we’re the best, knowing you’re their ONLy option and the BEST option. I listened to your night time meditation and SC on loop for 8 hours and woke up feeling 10x better just in one night. I’m going to restart this whole process beginning with my SC. Thank you Dylan for this amazing video!!

[@nandana7746]

Updates

[@umairmehboob91]

Does verbally stating means I can confidently tell my long distance SP these things "I'm not threatened by anything I don't care what you're doing..talk to to other people..I trust you ..and even if you up getting intimate..its going to be lame and you're going to be thinking about me the whole time and just reaffirm why you like me so much and why you can only connect with me on this special way... I'm confident I'm the catch there's no pressure from my side.. we'll find out if we're compatible in September when you're in Dubai .. everything's good between us' can I explicitly say that to her too?

[@Lulondon1.]

That’s great!

[@victoriakahtania]

it is true…Since I changed my self concept and became a lot more confident through it and stopped worrying about everything the table has turned. You really need to believe that this works and it does🙌🏻

[@dondadaf488]

I think the question... "What is attractive to you?" is a light bulb moment. Makes you really think wow I don't want to be this clingy, beggy, needy, insecure person. Its crazy 5 days ago I saw an ex who was super insecure and possessive it was so off putting at the time I ended it. Imma use him as my example lol

[@clawlauraflora115]

lol

[@taliaa7856]

I love this channel so much and how it’s making me realize it’s more important for me to improve my self concept than it is to get my SP back. My SP will be back. I know that but I need to continue improving my self concept over anything.

[@Pebsz]

Same here. I finally after months decided to stop trying to manifest him and work on self concept 100%. Anytime he pops into my thoughts I just say I know for a fact he’s mine but I don’t concentrate on it anymore.

[@angieclevenger4535]

Dylan this video completely turned my mindset around. I watch your videos everyday and listen to the tapes at night. It’s only been 2 weeks and My SP is already texting/calling more and we are doing great! Most importantly, I feel better about myself. Thank you!

[@mvlaa.6171]

what tapes did u listen to?

[@amandakind7665]

Dyaln litterly helped me, but not with attracting my ex but with my overall mental health. Now I'm confident, happy, and relaxed. All those fears and anixtey has left. I've never been so happy untill 3 months ago when I started watching Dylan's videos and he has changed my life completely. Our thoughts are very important therefore we should always be careful of what we are thinking on a daily basis

[@browneyes88]

It's as simple as this, we are Kings and Queens and we need to stand in our ultimate power. Why should we let other people live the life we truly deserve? Take responsibility for creating it, change your core beliefs and stand in that knowing. "Nothing or no one will ever come between my desire and I." We need to look at this from a warrior perspective, stop wasting our precious energy on things that don't serve us. We are powerful creator's and we need to remind ourselves that everyday. We need to stop getting in our own way, we know what needs to be done, now it's time to apply it. No more messing around, it's game time. I have 100% faith we all can do this, take on a mentality of a warrior and stand in what we believe in because it was meant to be. That's the reason why we have desire's, because it's part of our destiny. If that doesn't drive us, I don't know what else will. We deserve it, so believe in yourself, because I believe in all of you.

[@brookebenton8192]

Omg just had a HUGE revelation while listening to this!!! Holy crap...I'm on my 21st day of listening to my beliefs at night and am randomly having so many truths come forward, about myself and others. When you said "it's a mirror" "what do you find attractive"? A quick thought popped into my head of someone elusive and closed off....emotionally unavailable. The next thought was no, I find calm, confident and loving to be attractive now. Literally this whole time I was finding emotionally unavailable men attractive on a subconscious level!! I was attracting it and was attracted to it, but then would turn it around and call it a "rejection" because of my previous low self esteem. It was literally a neverending cycle that kept feeding into itself for YEARS. Omg...

[@tima821]

15:28

[@liliana3021]

I got rid all 3 parties haha!!!! I am a bad ass women who had to go Through so much to get here. To learn what she deserve and honey I am a queen and I don’t accept nothing less of a queen treatment .

[@maedegracia404]

Thank you so much Dylan. I owe you so much. I got my SP back and we have been communicating so much. Right now, he talked so much especially in text coz he is like one word man in text but right now we've been talking like non stop. I am also healed and I don't worry. Oh and he visited me in my place last Friday. I just listened to your Limitless love tape every night and it changed me from the inside. I am more happy and I feel loved. It's like I don't feel any neediness at all. 2 days of listening to you changed myself already and now it's been 18 days and I manifested a lot of things. So Thank you.

[@june8898]

“They’re going to be thinking of me the whole time” 🤣😂😂 I truly believe this about myself but at times I still get freaked out....this was so necessary for me today 🙏🏼

[@interviewacceleratorcoach8268]

I’ve been listening to the affirmations and today I walked passed a huge billboard that simply had the words “believe”

[@Jamie-zi2nf]

I love that: "be that [confident but not pushy or desperate/best] version of you, fearlessly." A year ago, I was drinking 6 days a week, unhappy with my living situation, trying to control things obsessively (cleaning, roommate/old friend's choices, etc), choosing the wrong types of girls even though I had met some WONDERFUL girls along the way (or, in my case, wonderful girl - my sp), and I repelled her for a while. I was very self-sabotaging, and had gotten back into self-harm and some really negative and sad shit. I put pressure on a lot of friendships and relationships that was too much for any sane person to put up with. Now? I don't judge myself. I understand that I went through everything I needed to, to really get to that turning point where I looked in the mirror and asked what I was doing with myself. I think we all get to that point sometimes; it doesn't have to be "rock bottom" - there really IS no defined "bottom line" when it comes to sinking emotionally. I made a vow to never lose respect for myself or put pressure on my relationships like that again. I'm just simply taking care of myself because I want to, and living how I choose to. It's literally just a MATTER OF CHOICE. The more and more I learn about life and LOA, the more I realize simple is easy. Say what you need to, live how you choose to, and love who you want to. Dylan said it best... stop victimizing yourself and actively. Choose. Yourself. Every. Day. I'm so grateful for this community and for your content, Dylan. Thank you so much :) I know that my life is SIGNIFICANTLY better compared to only 12 months ago, and it only gets better from here. I hope you ALL receive EVERYTHING you deserve

[@queenapple]

I watched this 12 times already 🤦🏼‍♀️ i need to watch more to remind me everything u said. All of them are great and helpful. Thank you

[@babygoddess764]

Ive been so confident that things are going the way I want with my SP lately that I dont even filter myself anymore. Today he kept asking if I could help out on his side at work. The last time he asked I just straight up said "If you want to see my beautiful face, just say so." His first reaction was to say "but that would be a lie." Hes extremely sarcastic (as am I) so I just looked at him and he immediately smiled and said "well I guess you figured me out. I just wanted you to come over so I could look at you and flirt with you. And tell you that you're just so perfect and amazing and cool." I stg he uses sarcasm to cover his nerves bc he always does this where hes sarcastically rude (like a little school boy being mean to his crush) and then trips over his words complimenting me afterward. I'm the one telling him not to be nervous now 😂

[@fradancer]

This is so sweet omg

[@millennialaffirmations8119]

My SP is on a trip with 3 of his very attractive female friends. I immediately shifted my focus to confidence!!! My girls are asking if I trust him and my answer is YES! I am the baddest. Thank you Dylan.

[@Nash_Aurora]

Of course you trust him. And most of all you trust yourself

[@manifestinggoddess8287]

I am worthy and I deserve everything I desire 🔥

[@thekrystalmethod]

I had to come to this video to refresh my memory because I’ll go from super stable, no one can fuck with me to anxiety attack from my insecurities that I’ve gotten pretty good at calming myself over but sometimes I need a little reminder. The part of figuring out what I’d want in a partner and then being that really connected with me. I remember having an ex yelling at me/fighting with me over people who would leave me comments, like my pictures or even talking to male friends I’ve had since childhood. What sucks was I was crazy in love with my ex before he started doing all that and his behavior is what drove me away. I would never want a partner to impose those kind of restrictions or limitations on me again so I need to be that kind of partner I’d want for myself for my future person.

[@aroojaziz]

Dylan I can’t thank you enough for bringing me back to life. I appreciate every word coming out of your mouth. How broken I was you have no idea. The strength you give to broken hearts & the way you motivate is just out of this world. I’m getting my pieces back together. Just wanted to let you know that I’m grateful 🌸💕

[@becellen]

This is me now.. is there a good video to fix this heart? I want my life back.

[@aroojaziz]

@@becellen listen to these DJ’s affirmations for atleast 21 days. They are game changer. kzbin.info/www/bejne/pX_XoZSpe7uliZI

[@yusufa.8605]

@@becellen How are you today, I'm getting through this right now

[@gabsterelli]

this makes me think of when a guy showed up soooo insecure with me, and i was so turned off i had to end things with him. if he had just been secure and confident that relationship probably would’ve worked out

[@pattiland2437]

This video calls me out on my crap but your so right. I’ve been doing the tapes for almost 3 weeks. My life has completely changed. I even got $$ I wasn’t expecting. My sp is showing up! 💙🙏🏻

[@marissamacias6732]

It’s so crazy!! I’m seeing someone right now I’m really into, and i noticed my insecurities come up and they manifested in this situation. I love this video because it’s shifted my perception the way I see myself and the way I see my new guy. There’s no rush for anything, I’m confident, relaxed, knowing that whatever I desire is mine, it’s all going in my favor. Thank you Dylan you are doing amazing work!! I’m grateful that there are people like you in this world.❤️ Many blessings to you!!!❤️

[@secretslikeanch0rs]

I've watched this specific video so many times over and over again and it never fails to remind me of how powerful I am. Thank you for dropping all these gems and for all that you do Dylan

[@hellothereinternet]

that story time threw me so off guard 😂😂😂😂 the way you tell stories is the best

[@IAm_DylanJames]

I should make a story time series "this one time..." oh boy lol i would have people rolling

[@laurengrubb9047]

I know there's no third party. But the second topic really spoke to me. I now know how I manifested my situation and I'm gonna change it now. Thanks Dylan ! 😊

[@journaljoy]

Yay bedtime stories with Dylan! Really liking this new time slot :)

[@akshe4748]

If anyone ends up having success stories - esp if they are over 35 - it would be great to see some of them.

[@j.c1574]

This video is really helpful for people that are insecure or heavily anxious!! Like for real, even outside the third party stuff

[@fatimaahmed4376]

Thank you Dylan! I have been in this victim mindset and I knew it was something I was doing, but I wasn’t sure what I was doing wrong! Now I know!

[@meowmeow1stgen668]

Dylan, The night after I spoke to you my SP came back after a year :-)

[@jc1636]

I’ve got movement! I’ve been listening to your vids for a couple months, but in the last week I leaned in to my stability routine. Meditating, Wim Hof breathing and yoga w Adrienne every day. Now I don’t have a specific SP but a few lovely ladies I want to be closer to. Out of the blue, one of them invites me to hang out yesterday! Now I KNOW I gotta keep it up, but am more inspired than ever!

[@antoinetteahyuk2013]

First off, you are amazing Dylan!!! I had so much happened to me. But since I started listening to you manifested an amazing job and now I'm focusing on SP. We have had so much happen and I have been struggling with getting him back. However, every time I feel lost you upload videos that continuously push me in the right direction. You are truly amazing. Thank you.

[@nbn1018]

How did you manifest the job exactly ?

[@dylanjlg]

For me, this was the best team meeting. Thank you. I’m leaving this video more confident and even confident in my self-concept. I love you Dylan. Thank you for everything. ♥️

[@morganshepherd4757]

Wow Dylan.... this is the answer I've been seeking everywhere, even in counseling..... And you are the only one who brought it to me. I can't thank you enough for showing up in my reality and helping me change my entire life. ✨❤️

[@pr1nce22a9]

Sheeeshhh this put me through an awakening. I had no idea I was holding onto all those emotions about myself. Thank you 🤍♡︎♥︎ I appreciate you Dylan

[@user-hj3ko6mm7i]

I was in a mutually agreed-upon committed relationship with him. Then he brought in a third party... His ex that he kept around. I addressed the issue and gave him time to get rid of the third party or make up his mind. When he kept sneaking around not making any changes I left and ghosted him. From my perspective it's fine for him to go back and forth and make up his mind but not while he's in an actual relationship with me. I'm not going to be a part of his indecisive bullsh*t. He knows my boundaries and if he's going to be with me then all others must go. If he works that out then he can approached me and we can see. If he doesn't then he knows better than to even look my way. It's not that I changed and became needy or anyting. It's that he had never properly cut ties with his ex before he brought me into the picture and I was unaware of that. Now that I left he has dropped the third party and wants to reunite. You might say that the commitment I wanted has finally manifested. Could be... But I don't really want it anymore because I've seen so many other negative traits in him throughout this cycle.

[@JessicaSkyy]

This is the one💥 I’ve been listening to you since July and now my relationship dynamics make sense! I take full responsibility for the part I played! I’ve learned so much from your channel🙌🏽Thank you so much Dylan.

[@marniephoenix]

My SP hasn’t left me alone since starting Dylan’s tapes. I’m on day 13 and he came back day 9. He’s been begging to see me since and tonight was the first night free. He begged to come over so I said that’s fine and he said how he missed me so much and can’t wait to see me and that he’s leaving now. I went to look at my phone ten minutes later and he’s blocked me? He’s 35 and a police officer, how am I triggering him so much to block me when he asked to see me. I’m laughing as it’s so insane 🤣

[@marniephoenix]

@@julia-annesmith7250 thanks so much for your response! A lot of people don’t do what Dylan teaches as they don’t know. I know I reacted right as I straight away found it funny and found it so crazy but I didn’t know what it meant?! Like I know it shows that I have shifted concept to laugh at that but why would he do that? Like it’s mind baffling! Like he catches criminals scarier than me 🤣 xxx

[@flagnation3579]

❤️❤️ this helped a lot. There is barely any Communication with my SP. He is in another state. He will only respond if I text him first but the conversation is short. This has been going on for 6 months. So thank you for this video. I feel that I am the best so I will focus on me and think positive about this man.

[@flagnation3579]

No communication yet 😢

[@iammariavas]

You look handsome. So proud of you. You are helping so many people .Congrats on your success🥰‼️

[@TiredofSitting]

Thank you for being so open! I have definitely driven away at least 2 men I’ve loved with my neurotic, insecure behavior and beliefs.

[@Capeverdeprc]

“Do not allow your mind to be bigger than you”! 💥

[@genevas]

Dylan the talk you had at the end was so empowering. You’re insanely supportive as if you knew and loved me personally, just shows how big of a heart you have. A lot of people feel that way too and I like many others are so thankful to have someone speak like that to us when in the past it was so rare to hear. Thank you!

[@khushboobatra5900]

I think I manifested this video, because every time you used to post a video I always used to think to myself " I hope he makes a video about third parties, like it would be so great" and I never wrote this in any of the comment section anywhere. So crazy to think how we are all so connected with each other and how things manifest so quickly when you are so detached to the outcome! I love how you always link everything to self concept, because it is really is all about it. 3rd parties are manifestations of our insecurities. I know thats how I've manifested my 3rd party. The key is to really change those limiting beliefs and to step into the most confident baddest version of ourselves. Cause of our insecurities can manifest such a circumstance, then our immense self confidence is going to manifest a completely different reality!❤❤❤🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@vitabuonavita2565]

Dylan you made me see what I am worth...finally in My Life.

[@hannah.jane444]

Throwing rocks at your window 😭 This whole story is killing me lmao.

[@IAm_DylanJames]

it was a moment lol

[@astridulastridula7871]

Each time you post a video, it is exactly the answer to my fear at that very moment. Magic

[@fradancer]

I'm reading the comments before watching the video and I already feel so good

[@kaviyakrishnan5911]

Ohh Man!!!Dylann😅😅😇😇🥰 I'm literally sitting here and laughing at the moment when you finally threw the paper away...Your vibes and energy is awesome...So much in love with your teachings and mindset..Thank you so much for helping everyone become the best version of themselves and also me...Thank you for this beautiful fun filled journey.😇♥️

[@asmasultan4851]

Yes ! The man is truly AWESOME 🙂

[@lilahannesson1419]

I love you Dylan. You are helping so so so many people with your amazing talks. I can listen to this 1000000 times and I learn something new everytime. Wow. Genius.

[@Iamnajlawakeela]

Dylan!!!!!! My Sp has a 3rd party that he’s been with for years (and he’s cheated on HER several times) 😢 I met him around 2004 - 2005, we were inseparable and made plans to be together forever WELL… we lost contact around 2007 - 2008 ish but reconnected last month after almost 20yrs and he is the LOVE OF MY LIFE ❤❤❤❤ he always has been, I had made myself forget all about him and dropped him from my mind until last month when I saw him and I still had BUTTERFLIES 🦋 I started chasing him because I didn’t want to lose him again and now he’s ghosted me but I KNOW I can manifest him back into my life … I’m going to keep you posted!!

[@apharmasus9158]

You are the best channel. No exaggeration. You tell the most knowledge out of all yt coaches and all videos give us new info. I love that you're incredibly honest with us and that devil's advocate part was so on point. Someone who tells the reality of manifesting and doesn't bring it on gently with white lies🙏🏻 you're a treasure

[@Nash_Aurora]

I think that was "Double's advocate ” was it not? I thought he meant he is speaking for me and my sp at the same time

[@VanessaProphet]

The paper throw was a nice touch

[@mushrooming29]

thought the same, lol

[@jamz9932]

Dylaaan! I had to comment because what is so amazing is the example you used about being the person very less likely to become a doctor is literally my SP! He didn’t give up despite the fact he didn’t even have a science background and finished his med degree. Currently trying to get him back to my reality but just find that way too coincidental!! 💕 thank you!

[@Fearlessbeliver]

I watched it twice . When Dylan said that if your sp talk to others , you should think go to others , that’s why you know why you are attracted to me ! Wow ! That’s totally the turning point of the shifting of my mindset ! That’s what is called unshakable confident . Now even when I watch some soap dram on tv , if there are some women cry about their man , I really want to shout in front of the tv “ don’t put yourself into victim mindset . Go watching some Dylan James ! 😂 Dylan , I wish I would have known you earlier . But never too late to change and shift!

[@janessaarango8494]

So grateful for finding you because ever since I started my spiritual journey, how you explain it is so much more simpler and easier to apply rather than when I had first started a year ago. 🙏

[@mzmar]

I do not have words. I just love everything you explained in this video. Just watching all your videos these past few days have changed me soooo much!

[@daniangel64]

When the " third-party" is well, dead. It obvious inspite of how he feels about me, he will always love her more, I'm not even sure how to deal with that. *Edit OK I finished the video, I think I know what to do now, I'm goingvto speak the reality I want into existence. I've got this. Thank you Dylan!!

[@Dailah_soul]

Thank you so much! I am changing and transforming my mind. I am leaving all the panic and fear and anxiety behind. I know he wants me and I know we will be together in physical union and in harmony again soon.

[@dbsk06]

38:00 never perceive anything as a threat Consciously redirect your mind 22:50 28:30 fearlessly go after what you want 40:31 summary: go big or go home Remove time urgency. Knowing.

[@katiesoul2154]

LOVE this. I love when you get fired up. It really helps me remember my confidence :)

[@Fearlessbeliver]

My 3rd party is too strong .She is his children’s mum . He told me that he and his wife are like brother and sister and he loves her as like she is his sister . So .. I think I just give up the romantic relationship and Manifest a friendship instead . Hehe.. but whatever Dylan you teach is just great and awesome . Because confidence is the foundation for us to be successful in areas of our life . Thank you 🙏

[@christinaweber340]

That's your story though. He's you pushed out and mirroring your thoughts and assumptions. If you truly want him romantically, change your story. Dylan teaches not to give up or compromise on our desires. But you need to build unshakeable confidence that you're way better for him than his wife and you're the one he wants, needs and chooses. It doesn't matter what he said in the 3d because the 3d is just your own thoughts and assumptions pushed out, so you can totally change it by changing your assumptions.

[@Fearlessbeliver]

@@christinaweber340 thank you 😢 almost want to cry .. actually he is the best guy I met so far I had the best connection with . Thank you for your nice and kind support ☺️

[@Fearlessbeliver]

@@christinaweber340 come to revisit what you said . It has been so hard . I am kept being trigged all the time . It makes me even think if he is even worth of my time . Surely it shouldn’t even be that hard .

[@miranda5735]

It's amazing. Thank you Dylan. I've listening to so many people talk about manifesting their SP. I've been trying for years but it wasn't til I just focused on myself and just did anything else. I did things that made me happy. I listened every night to your meditations. I just feel so much better. Thank you. Today my SP told me he told the 3rd party about me. I feel like this is a break through. Despite not hearing it or seeing evidence....i just know that the 3rd party is out of the picture. Like frighteningly i felt like a "click" and a knowing.

[@ratcageproductions]

Love you Dylan, thank you for everything. I do not have a 3rd party but watching the lesson anyway. You are by far the best coach on youtube, you and that Dutch twin soul lady lol

[@ginabeena]

When the student is ready, the teacher appears. Just fabulous!

[@hallow_yelloww2874]

Came back to this video after seeing something. This stops me from txting my SP and reacting. I'm gonna re-watch this over and over. This one is extra gold. Thanks Dylan.

[@sarbjitrooprai614]

Found your channel in the last week and binge watched your videos. There are so many manifestation/LOA channels on KZbin that all say pretty much the same thing eg to do affirmations, live in the end, visualization and the list goes on. Your channel however goes right back to the beginning and explains that first before you do any actual manifestation work you must first get your mind prepped and ready so that you succeed in the best possible way. I also love that you tell us exactly what we need to do and give us all the tools to do so. I've seen your channel pop up so many times as a suggestion but never bothered until recently i clicked on one of your videos and what you said really connected with me. I am now a subscriber and fan and also booked a one on one session with you :) So excited!!

[@southaqua]

Happy you have joined us. Welcome to the Limitless Tribe! 💜

[@menilmontant4749]

There are others copying your style 👀 but they can’t compete

[@VanessaProphet]

Dylan recognizes absolutely no threat in his reality --he already knows he is the best option

[@bonibubbles12]

You're the best! Thank you for always keeping it real!

[@TSQMcL]

Although not in or concerned about a 3rd party, listening here cuz I just like all the Dylan James videos. If you take the words "3rd party situation" and all references to "the other" or "another" person, the lesson is still a GOOD one!!

[@tnt01]

Shorter hair is perfect for you, more professional and polished. hugs.

[@ralsumaaji]

Hi Dylan, the circumstance bothered me too much, so I decided to drop it for now. I was happy that I smiled when it happened, because I know that during this period I have your videos to get me back up again. Thank you Dylan. Update: day 1 after dropping my focus on the circumstances. I was listening to your meditation on anxious attachment and suddenly I just heard “he wants you, he needs you,” and it was blissful too. I choose to trust that this is a good thing. I finally understand when you said affirming should be fun and easy. Thank you Dylan

[@AmRisArt]

Dylan, could you please address the concept "I'm a burden on society, and that's all I'll ever be"? This is a common feeling for many of us who have disabilities or chronic pain. Thank you so much.

[@CaliStarrManifesting]

And by the way I manifested this video! 🙌🏽 I totally needed this! Thank you! 😊

[@goodvibesandhealing]

I cannot even begin to explain how ACCURATE you are in everything you are saying 😭😭😭 thank you my whole life has changed I am who I want to be

[@msk.4427]

Today was beautiful because all my questions were answered in this video, my gratitude to Dylan... I have been asking myself "what happened?", the break up was sudden and I felt like I had been hit by a train. Since I started listening to Dylan 2 months back, I've realized that I was never trusting of my SP, because we had a history. He honestly did assure me that he was into me and me alone, but I just didn't buy it. Then 3P boom, right on my face, again. I love him, we have always had a great connection. I know in my heart that he is the one, I have a lot of internal work to do within myself, I want him to know how sorry I am. I keep telling myself that an opportunity will arise, and I will apologize🙌🏽

[@angiehurtado7573]

Yes don’t let them know our work keep it private and just use our tools thank you

[@jillelisa-x6b]

This video gave me so much. I‘m already feeling so much better. Please never stop making these type of videos.

[@Nash_Aurora]

The guy that I'm talking with literally texted me back right now because I was changing my thoughts while listening to you

[@astridulastridula7871]

The concept at 15:15 is EPIPHANY!!!!

[@laurabayer3545]

This is helpful. We had a bad day yesterday. We worked together. I was exhausted and got upset when he was clearly talking w third party to avoid me, tp test me. I failed, but I see it now. I was tempted to message him Happy New Year, but I think I'm gogin to allow him to reach out to me. Praying I can live in the end and truly walk in the confidence that I know im suppose to becaus le this is my twin flame.

[@jcf8201]

Dylan James - I wish I could talk to you. I have been studying this LOA stuff for years. For some reason your delivery of the material really resonated with me. I have been watching you for probably 2 weeks -and I have noticed changes happening. I love it. I want to continue to grow and develop stronger manifestation powers. Thank you is not strong enough- thank you x 1000! I love you 💕

[@nickietigg]

I’m getting what I want! 😊