CROCHET & CHAT WITH ME! ep. 4 DOES MY WIFE CARE THAT I CROCHET?

[@laurelshortridge8441]

I am a black grandmother of 6 black grandchildren. 3 of my grandsons are trying to learn how to crochet. I've been crocheting for 50+years. I learned from my grandmother. I personally don't see anything wrong with men enjoying the yarny arts.

[@laurelshortridge8441]

P S We really enjoy seeing someone that looks like us. Thank you.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Race/ethnicity in the crafting community is a topic Miss Nikki and I have discussed among ourselves. Might be time to bring the discussion to the channel. We’ll see.

[@katedavy6272]

One of the things that attracted me to my husband many years ago was that where he was raised on the rez, he was taught to knit, crochet and quilt.

[@valeriegriffith3415]

I know right

[@sylviamaxwell504]

I guess reasoning on cooking, doing dishes, making your bed, cleaning your room, are they only male or female activities? What about laundry, vacuuming, cleaning the toilet? Yes you are concerned for the Mom and the young man...

[@CHawk5695]

I am a girl who played high school football. I was called different slurs by some people, but most folks thought it was cool. I am not a manly girl, but I had an interest in a typically male dominated activity. I say live and let live. Let folks explore their own interests if it makes them happy.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

That’s awesome!

[@xkijix1256]

I think that’s so bad ass!

[@hogwallowsoaps]

Love it! 🏈🏈🏈

[@dianebason7727]

Jonah has been on the Today's Show for his crocheting. Oh, and jonah is self taught. He is now a crochet master.

[@dawndeaver8960]

I was also thinking about him. Good example.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Yes he is! At a young age!

[@silvershadow013]

He is amazing!!!!

[@preciousbeautyj6924]

@@Yarnasasecondlanguage he’s only 12. That’s stereotyping, sry but that makes no sense. A craft/hobby doesn’t make a person. That’s like saying hunting is not for women or cooking n house cleaning not for men. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@sharonyarbrough4380]

I’m woman I crochet but I also enjoy painting my house, mowing , building things . I am not gay yet some people would say these are activities men comely do , we were created to learn and enjoy all kinds of creative activities, never restrict someone from learning what ever they are interested in as long as they are not displeasing to God.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Exactly!

[@katedavy6272]

Truth is not rude. Truth is caring. Yes u can... Crochet is born of net making

[@susankelsey-brewton1023]

I am a teacher who crochets; when I taught elementary school, and now middle school, many of the my male and female students wanted to learn as they saw me making things. I had to encourage my boys just as much as my girls, but I especially wanted the boys to know that it was perfectly okay for them to pursue these types of crafts, and that there are several men (who were not gay) who are very good at it, like Rosey Grier (Football Hall of Famer), Todd Paschall (Crochet By Numbers), Jonah Larson (crochet child prodigy) and many others whom they can draw inspiration from. I think its important, especially during a pandemic, to explore your artistic nature, and to find out what your gifts and talents are, and pursue them; crafting should not be gender-based, and I'm so glad you gave voice to this topic; THANK YOU for sharing!!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thank YOU for sharing!

[@sylviamaxwell504]

Thank you, was reply I wanted to say. 💖

[@tracielawson]

I have worked in the Education field for several years and am studying to be a teacher. There are teachers out there using crochet to teach math!! Doilies can be used to study geometry. In therapy they use crochet and knitting to help ground some of our soldiers with PTSD. Some educators use crochet to help keep the younger children focused. Art is a disappearing form of communication. Those of us who can create are few and far between, so anyone who wants to learn should not only be taught but encouraged to think outside the box!!! Keep up the positive attitude and encourage all of us to continue to create and make items that will be loved by those who need them!!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

That’s a great idea!

[@annaduvall4106]

My dad was an avid crocheter and knitter, if people knew how calming and relaxing crocheting and knitting is, they wouldn’t judge so much. It’s a post apocalyptic life skill! I love it!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I agree!

[@gabyf001]

I hope that grandson gets to experience the bonding of crafting with his grandmother. I cherish every minute that I spent crocheting and sewing with my grandma. She's no longer here, but I still have those memories to keep her presence here.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks for sharing!

[@cynthianaven5129]

My husband loved making hats on a loom and giving them away and he definetly was not gay. He had knee surgery and needed something to do instead of watching tv for 6 mos. I taught him and he made hats for yrs!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Cool!

[@leeannehilton5957]

Personally I love seeing a guy crocheting. Nothing wrong with it whatsoever. Crocheting is relaxing and is a useful hobby, you make things that are used and loved. More men should crochet. It's good for the soul. 😊 And just my opinion I think that mom should let her son crochet. It will teach him a good hobby and it will keep him from spending time just playing video games or getting Into trouble. And nothing wrong with men learning a few crafts like crochet, sewing and cooking. Always good things to know for everyone.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I agree 100%.

[@hogwallowsoaps]

For the record, I’m a heterosexual male and I crochet, and my wife (who I’ve been with for 28 years) has NO idea how to crochet... Does her NOT knowing how to crochet make her a homosexual? People... *shakes head*. And Princeton, I was very happy to find yours and Nicki’s channel... so keep it up! Thank you!! 😎

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thank you sir! My wife doesn’t know how to crochet either. I appreciate your comment.

[@pamelaredwing7822]

I think the mother needs to be introduced to our community. I haven't seen a more supportive group.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Amen!

[@mamadotscreations]

You are SO right! I am completely impressed every day by the love and support I see in the KZbin crochet world!

[@deborahmorton3830]

Don't know if you're old enough to remember Rosey Grier. He is a big black guy that played football and he did needlepoint. He even wrote a book about it. In my book, that's no different than a woman being a woodworker. My Dad built houses, so I have saw dust in my blood and I'm a woodworker. I enjoy seeing a man work with fiber. I love it. No disrespect to the mother, but if her son is really interested in learning to crochet, he will more than likely go behind her back and learn it anyway. I say, go for it.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I remember!

[@rosescrochet183]

CROCHETING IS NOT A GENDER BASED ART. IT’S FOR ANYONE WHO ENJOYS THE CRAFT AND JUST HAVING SOME TIME FOR YOURSELF. IT’S REALL RELAXING. YOU JUST KEEP BEING YOU AND DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY! 🤗

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Agreed!

[@melaniecrochets]

I have a friend with a 15 year old son that wants to learn & has been learning. I’m a Veteran & crochet & knitting are taught in VA centers to help calm down anxiety caused by ptsd. It’s very therapeutic.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Yes it is!

[@chrisshields5320]

You guys know the song, “what the world needs now is love sweet love no not just for some but for everyone” Well all crafting is done with love. So why should it even matter, gay or straight?

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

You’re right

[@camryb6925]

i agree wholeheartedly. i’m not straight but my boyfriend doesn’t mind my crochet. it’s a more woman-dominated craft, and as someone who just falls in between in many categories, i don’t feel attacked or uncomfortable in this supportive community. my bf, straight as straight can be, has even tried to crochet with me. adorable, but he has no hand-eye coordination lol

[@mamadotscreations]

I absolutely LOVE seeing a man enjoying and promoting the craft that I've adored for my entire life. My grandmother taught me this wonderful thing also. I understand where you are coming from. Pee on anyone that doesn't " get it"

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Yeah, pee on them 😂

[@cabinfevercrochet]

It's wonderful that you crochet, and gender, etc. has (or should have) nothing to do with it! Just enjoy what you love and be happy. My hubby is a Marine Corp. Veteran and decades ago during a lengthy hospitalization, he learned to crochet, knit and macrame. When we'd first met, he asked me "not to laugh", and then told me he crochets. I thought it was absolutely terrific and was excited to see what he'd made! (Especially from "tough" guy!) He hasn't crocheted since that time; but very creative in other ways, and chimes in a lot on my projects, offering suggestions and ideas. He'll go yarn/craft shopping with me sometimes and is definitely my yarn enabler! Many times when we're at the VA waiting for appts., other Vets will ask about what I'm making. Some have expressed interest in learning, hoping it will help them with PTSD. I've often thought about teaching there for that very reason, and who knows, maybe one day, I just might! 💚🌼💚

[@DebC313]

I think a Mother should foster and encourage any type of creativity their child is interested in, especially if it includes spending time with a grandparent. I've been crocheting since my early 20s and used to think people would make fun of me (calling me a granny or whatever) so I only did it privately. Now that I'm older, I could give two *bleeps* what anyone thinks, and I'll crochet anywhere. Since I've been open about it, people have commissioned me to make things for them...for $$$. I think it's great that you crochet! I wish more men would. Your a great fiber artist, and so happy the channel is growing! Keep up the good work. 😎

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I’m with you! Who cares what people think or say.

[@rosiegutierrez6907]

I love to see a man crochet, crocheting is an Art/ craft that for a while was almost lost..grandma teach your grandson open his artistic side 💖 Preston your voice is very soothing, cant wait to see more of your work, ⚘ie

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks! And thanks for watching!

[@rosannagarrison786]

I think it is awesome for a man like you to crochet. I think the young man should watch Jonah Larson from Jonah"s Hands. Crocheting means that a person is very creative and that mother should let her son be creative. Being creative is a great outlet and makes a person feel good about themselves. . My love and hugs to Miss Rou. Your wife is a very beautiful woman.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks!

[@barbp66]

To me it's no different than a young girl wanting to learn how to fish or hunt. You have taken the first step and that is talking about it instead of sweeping in under the rug. Thank you.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Yes, it weighed heavy on me so I needed to talk about it.

[@CrysDee24]

My son started learning knitting when he was 11 through a group/club at school & he learned crochet from my mom & I about the same age. He had a lot of friends that were in the same group with him so he never got bullied or teased for it. My heart goes out to the young man & his mom because that is a tough age no matter what. Lots of love and yarny hugs 💓

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks for sharing!

[@litad.4549]

There's another youtuber, Limon Crochets, who has a girlfriend and he was taught to crochet by his grandmother too. Crochet should be for anyone who likes it.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Exactly

[@InayasToyboxCrochet]

It’s nice you have that connection with your grandmother

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I love it!

[@TheDabblingHook]

Grandma is in tough spot. She has to respect the mom's position while still trying to encourage her grandson. I hope she doesn't give up.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I agree

[@robertchurchyute]

That is nice stich would love to see a tutorial

[@maryisrasena9016]

I wholeheartedly agree with you. I think you were very honorable with your response of the question. I love and enjoy crocheting. It is very relaxing and a great way to alleviate stress. Everybody needs to find a way to relax and de-stress, It helps with life. I have always encouraged my children to find hobbies, work, or whatever they find enjoyment in to help them relax. Love your channel and loved the craft bites series. I looked forward to each of the videos you both put out! Happy Crochet!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thank you so much!

[@Purpleyarnie]

That viewer should show her grandson and his mom the videos on YT of Jonah the young man that crochets beautifully and is making money while doing so. Do things that you enjoy no matter what it is.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I agree

[@frizfriz]

I've heard of a study by someone at Princeton University about how knitting has very calming and therapeutic effects on people. They hooked people up to machines while they knitted to see what it did to their brainwaves. Have you heard about this study? When I heard someone talking about this with knitting, I realized that this is true also when I crochet. It needs to be a project where I knit or crochet an easy but interesting stitch, and don't have to stop and start a lot. A blanket such as you're working on today is just the thing that works for me. It only takes a few stitches to feel that blissful effect. I am so grateful that my grandma taught me! I wish more people knew about these benefits from handcrafting! Life is super stressful these days, and so much trauma going around. We need all the help we can get! Maybe something like this Princeton study would convince people that hand crafting hobbies are a good thing.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I have not heard about that study but it sounds interesting!

[@dogandcake1]

The blanket looks beautiful, and you handled the question perfectly. I think it might help if the mom knew some great historical crochet facts. For example, in the mid 1800's crocheting helped save many lives in Ireland. The whole country was going thru a potato famine, and to help provide for their families, farmers took to crocheting and selling their crafts to the rich. The whole family would take part in crocheting, including the husbands and the children. Hope this helps.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks! I didn’t know that!

[@creative2716]

Yes, good point. And in large fishing communities, men made fishing nets to provide for their families, which were finger knotted very similar to macrame, that has generated a lot of interest in crafting and needle works too. Also in cold climates to stay alive you had to learn to clothe yourself, textiles were made from wool and hide by men and women.

[@MawPawsarksanctuary]

my husband when he was alive crocheted, he learned when he was in a place he learned, it was fun when the 2 of us got together to crochet, when he would see me doing it, he wanted to join me, and i liked that

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

That’s beautiful! Thanks for sharing!

[@BethanyRDH]

That is a beautiful stitch! I’ve never seen it before. I’m going to use it for sure. Thank you for sharing 🧶 (and your wife is absolutely beautiful... you are a lovely couple ❤️)

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thank you!!! She’s an awesome lady!

[@cindybredwell4626]

Luv the stitch on the blanket!!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks!

[@cindybredwell4626]

I’m gonna have to give it a try if you don’t mind. How you feeling?

[@andream3568]

My 9 year old grandson wanted to learn and was so excited to get yarn and a hook for Christmas. He's finally getting tension and understanding the importance of counting. We are about to start a washcloth. Thank you for this! I've been looking for examples of men who crochet to combat this topic should the conversation ever arise. Keep inspiring!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

That is awesome!

[@edwardbambico7247]

I'm a man who likes to crochet. Thought I'd join my wife since she enjoys it so much. Thanks for sharing.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks for watching!

[@kathleenbroudrick2747]

I would like to learn the blanket you are working on in this video. I appreciate how you handled the statement. Maybe someday he will learn to crochet even if he has to wait to be an adult.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I hope so

[@deannamcfarland3598]

I taught my grandson how to crochet, he's 14 now and I just bought him a sewing machine and am now teaching him how to sew. I love going over to visit and sit with him and crochet or put patterns ❤ together. You & your wife are a very gorgeous couple. This is my first time here & I just subscribed!!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks for sharing!

[@janea7592]

It's a shame the mother feels that way. It's obviously something her son is interested in, why not encourage him. It's something special he and grandma can share. I hope mom changes her mind.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I do too

[@chronicinokla]

Veterans are being taught to crochet to deal with ptsd, trauma etc..... it helps what is called stimming. It can reduce stress, anxiety and improve mental health. I believe with right positive encouragement at home bullying activity would have minimal affect. Creative exploring expands the mind. Two words. One name. Jonah Larson. Such an inspiration also fiber artists are on the rise and anything not causing harm and giving sense of accomplishment should be encouraged

[@DrMeesh-ds3he]

Glad you spoke about this. There’s so much I could say because this is a multi-layered issue grounded in bias and assumptions. To keep it positive, I am positive that you did the right thing to speak about it. I am positive that the young man will be able to bond with his Gramma through crochet when the time is right. I am positive he’d be welcomed in the crafting community with open arms.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I hope you’re right.

[@cheskydivision]

My son crochets. Jr year of high school he decided to learn from YT. I decided to join him. He was always making hats and he would give it to any friend that wanted it. He is 28 now. I'm in my 50's growing up many of the grandfather's c4ocheted but usually making doilies and table cloths.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

That’s awesome! Thanks for sharing!

[@RubyBaby]

Thanks for sharing and caring enough to elaborate. This story saddens me. It saddens me because art / creativity / crafts should NOT be in a category of gender, or defined by gender. AT ALL!! I dont want to come off as angry or aggressive OR disrespectful, because that's not my heart, but I really am tired of all the lines of division to "create". Crochet is not a "gay" activity, PERIODT! (and yes there's an intentional T there)

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

LOL! Sometimes you need the T at the end of periodt to make a point!

[@classicbhaer]

Oh, I love when a pattern is simple, but looks complex. Perfect just for me. 😂 For me, if someone finds something enjoyable and interesting and it hurts no one, let them learn and have fun with it. There is enough going on in everyones lives and it is great when people can find what brings them joy or helps them relax. I have seen a few people already make this point, but the history of crochet includes men. Crochet/Knitting is for everyone!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I totally agree!

[@grandmaofjack]

Great answer, Princeton. We all need to be kind to one another and, unless someone is being harmed, what does it matter what we do? My son and grandson both are learning to crochet and, as far as I know, nobody cares. I appreciate your positivity and really enjoy watching both of you (and Miss Rue). Thanks for sharing with us! ❤️

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thank you for your comment!

[@carlaincrestwoodky]

I agree with your opinion. When someone finds something they enjoy it should be embraced!! Joy is hard to come by!! It. Is also calming. Sending hugs and prayers for his family and everyone.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thank you!

[@heyBrownBerry]

The universe is trying to tell me to get back to my crochet hook (it has been mostly knitting needles and spinning fiber lately). Thank you both for the amount of time and consideration that goes into making the excellent content on this channel.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Tome the break the hooks back out!!!! Thanks for watching!

[@artistirmafeliciarodriguez7752]

Awww, Love that your Grandma taught you, Hi Grandma!!! And the young man should at least try in the privacy of his own home and then potentially venture and discuss and or join a crochet group, But again, as a young man living at home, still has to respect the parents. I work at Joann's in Ohio and I see young men coming in and crocheting, knitting, macramé, and other related crafts as well as jewelry making. I encourage them all to do what they love, Hugsss. Awesome project, Love the colors and pattern, Thanks for sharing, Happy Easter, Hugs and Blessings To you and your family

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks! Happy Easter to you as well!

[@s.wilson5199]

Encouraging and supporting curiosity is the BEST gift a parent can give a child! My ex-husband knew how to crochet and taught me to make granny squares. On the other hand, all power tools at our house belonged to me. He enjoyed cooking and I enjoyed working in the yard. I raised 2 boys who both took ballet when they were young. One transitioned into martial arts and fencing. The other, in his early 20s, would like to resume ballet. OUR INTERESTS DO NOT DEFINE OUR SEXUALITY! I have never been called "normal", thank goodness! Why would I want to do or not do something because of someone else's expectations? I would miss so many wonderful experiences if I wasn't willing to try. Cooking was often considered "women's" work. However, I think the young boy's friends would be jealous of any boy or girl who could cook their favorite food for themselves. They might also be jealous of a friend who could customize his own cool hat!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Well said!

[@donnacardenas6958]

I think its really cool that u crochet and if my husband were to crochet or knit I would not have a problem with it...i would support any hobby that my husband had a compassion for...im happy to hear that ur wife is ok with u crocheting...oh my gosh I had made a comment BC I thought that Nikki was ur wife I apologize for that...but I think its really awesome that u and Nikki r that good of friends...Im proud of u for crocheting and I appreciate every video u and Ms Nikki put out...i agree 100 % a Man can crochet as well...Thanku for all ur Video's...God Bless and hope u have an amazing weekend...

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

No problem! Many people think Nikki and I are married and that makes Nikki sick LOL! I think it’s hilarious and in public, I go along with it just to pick at her LOL!

[@GulfCoastGranny]

I love your attitude and your common sense!! New subscriber! I've been crocheting 50 years and am a mom and Granny too. I taught all 4 of my boys to crochet right along with their 3 sisters! Once I even tried to teach my husband but let us just say that he isn't cut out for the fiber arts. LOL He did give it his best shot tho. I expect to enjoy your channel again soon...take care!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Welcome to our channel! I hope you enjoy our other videos!

[@soniaansford82]

Do what makes you happy. As long as your not hurting anyone there is no problem. Anyone who has an issue, has the issue with themselves and no one else

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Amen!

[@yarnmotivated-joyceswensso9744]

You hit it right on with your response. Love getting to see you craft while I craft. Awesome. Love that Setta sent me your way.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

We love Miss Setta!

[@xkijix1256]

Both my grandmothers crocheted, tho they both passed before they could teach me. I feel closer to them when I crochet. It’s affirmation that I belong. Maybe if the mother could see it’s a special gift, a connection between grand mother and grand child that they can carry with them have always and revisit , a constant, a source of comfort she would feel different.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks for your comment.

[@threedm2]

My grandmother taught my brother and me and you are right, that was a special bond. Although my brother was never really into it, but I keep it up. Thank you for doing this channel. 💜

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks for sharing!

[@marybutz7687]

You did a great job explaining. One of my family friends, a Navy guy, has been crocheting for years. It’s his way of unwinding. I’ve looked up men crocheting and knitting to have articles and references on hand for students who are curious about it (usually they say that’s girl stuff). Crafting is crafting it’s open to anyone. Unfortunately there is a lot of ignorance out there. I hope one day Gma can share her craft with her grandson as yours did with you. It’s away of connecting with those we love. Thank you for sharing. 💕

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

“crafting is crafting”....exactly!

[@valeriegriffith3415]

I think you did a very good job choosing the right thing to say on this matter, I hope one day she can open her mind to creativity, that's what crocheting means to me being creative and that's how I'm going to end it here, stay strong my brother I got your back TTFN ❤❤❤

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I know you do Valerie!

[@Ellies-craftsandmore]

A hobby is for everyone as long as you enjoy doing it, it's fine. Better to keep your mind busy on something good than getting into any trouble because you have time to spare.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Yep!

[@eric.norma.hamacher]

This is my first time seeing your channel. You have such a soothing voice and that soft background music is perfect. Looking forward to seeing more of your content. You did a very good job explaining yourself. Such a shame that the mother does not understand the art of crochet. It is so therapeutic and a great outlet.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Welcome to the channel! I hope you enjoy our other videos!

[@gamerxexlol7575]

I was looking for a washcloth pattern and found you. I was so surprised and happy to see you. There is nothing wrong with a man crocheting or knitting. I really enjoy watching your videos.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thank you so much!

[@lindabell2281]

I am new here and first time watching this. I love to see a man crochet or knit. No matter who you are I think crocheting or knitting is a relaxing craft. I’ve watched several videos on crocheting and I love this stitch pattern.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Welcome to the channel! We hope you enjoy our other videos!

[@lindabell2281]

@@Yarnasasecondlanguage Thank you. Do you have a tutorial video on the stitch pattern you were doing in this video for the baby blanket?. I am looking for a pattern for the baby blanket I want to make. ❤️

[@chronicinokla]

I was the first female snare drummer in our high school marching band 1986. I was called a lesbian by some, and cool by some. I am still a lover of music and positive thoughts still override any negative all these years later

[@jennifermaddox6520]

This is my her first time on your channel, discovered you by chance. I enjoyed your content and think your response to your views comment was spot on. Thank you and to that young Man I hope he can talk his Mom around and always follows his heart. I share my love of crochet with my Grandmother and wish she had been around to teach me.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Welcome to our channel! I hope you enjoy our other videos! You’ll love Miss Nikki!

[@cheshirestripes8059]

I think fiber arts are for anyone who wants to learn them. I taught my daughter and my son both how to sew and knit. I feel like they are important life skills. My son doesn't knit anymore, but still sews enough to repair his clothes, and isn't bothered by what other people think at all. My son pursued his interest in fiber arts while playing nine years of football, becoming a master certified mechanic and having a girlfriend. I feel like people spend too much time trying to label everything... people are all just people and we should do what makes us happy 😊 Also your blanket is super cute!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I agree

[@michellecronmiller7036]

I would like to share the fact that scientists have found that crochet and knitting are really good for mental health. They are using it especially with soldiers to help when the come back from war. It helps with PTSD. Many of us have experienced the calming effect. Blessings

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Great point!

[@creative2716]

Very nice stitch, I like. I'm gonna be using it soon. TYFS. Sending Ms. Rue Rue hugs, she is adorable.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks!

[@garymay1851]

Just found your video today! I'm so glad I did. What a wonderful skill you have. I am planing to teach my teen boy how to crochet. He just recently asked me to show him how. We will have many bonding hours doing this creative craft together. You and your wife are a beautiful couple; I enjoyed seeing your pictures. Smiles from Claudia in Venetia PA.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks Claudia!

[@Stefanie1119]

Fiber arts have proven physical & mental health benefits so every human should be free to explore crochet and/or knitting!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Yes! But crochet is better 😂

[@sylviamaxwell504]

Crochet and chat, love them, and just play some awesome music, like you do..working a a shades of blue C2C AFGHAN for my sister and bro in law 50th wedding anniversary...

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I’m not sure when I’m going to publish it but I just filmed me working on that blanket and there’s just music, no talking.

[@DeesCreativeHandsCrochet]

You handled that very diplomaticly. I wanted to scream!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I was screaming inside!

[@bxgal347]

I think the man’s wife says that because it was mostly a craft that mostly women did but times have changed and now men enjoy doing it, straight or gay!! I think it’s wonderful men crochet and knit!! Tfs

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Agreed

[@christineprice5463]

Blanket is so pretty. I love the stitch and I will have to try it, thank you.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Have fun!

[@soniacajuncrochets1502]

Teach the lil guy to crochet plz it may help him in life for many reasons persay it’s calming on many levels an it’s awesome to see men crocheting I love it 🧶

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I agree! 100%

[@charlenetaylor8198]

You did good. I have nephew that crotcheted ,and a grandson think I"ve helped them. Enjoy what you enjoy.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Exactly!

[@dixiepowell6678]

I love this blanket. You did an awesome job on answering the question I agree with everything you said. This is my first visit to your channel and I thoroughly enjoyed it!👍🏻😆

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Great! Thanks for watching! Maybe you’d like our that videos. Make sure to see one with Miss Nikki...she’s the brains behind our operating.

[@sekwa75]

Three things for grandma, mom, and the young man: 1) There is a picture from a ward at a World War 1 or 2 hospital of soldiers knitting while recovering from their injuries. I cannot remember the original source of the image, but I have seen it online or in videos several times. 2) The Bakery Bears - KZbin podcast, husband and wife knitters, husband was a drummer/percussionist and teacher. 3) Cherry Pie Cottage - KZbin podcast, husband and wife knitters, husband is a veteran.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks for the info!

[@Hellokitty9151s]

I am so happy for you being you love your Channel n will continuing watching thank you so much for all you and Miss Nicky do ❤️🙏

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks!

[@tateysnan]

This is a great opportunity to teach a great lesson .. If the child is interested teach him her whatever..

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I agree!

[@crazyhawk59]

Crochet is for everyone. I hope the mother will see that. I don't think the kid is embarrassed, I think the mother is afraid of what people will think. I hope his interest will continue. I came to you by accident today. I will be back. I just started a hat, will try this stitch. I look forward to watching your other videos.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I hope you enjoy the other videos!

[@sarap6862]

You did a great job explaining. If you enjoy a craft, any craft, you should be able to do it without getting flack from anyone. That’s all I’m going to say because I could go on indefinitely. Love the blanket!! Love the stitch. What is it called? You and Nikki are so fantastic. I’m so glad I found your channel. 💕💕

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Not sure on the name of the stitch. I just remember seeing grandma do it. Grandma said she didn’t remember the name either and she’s impressed that I remember how to do it still LOL!

[@sarap6862]

I’m going to try this stitch. Sorry for bugging you about it. How many multiples for the starting chain and do you start with a single stitch foundation? I’m very impressed with the beauty of the stitch and it’s so simple. One of those projects I can do while watching your channel. 😄

[@sarap6862]

Possible tutorial for a future video?

[@susankelsey-brewton1023]

BTW; I will be telling them about you too, and the blanket is ADORABLE!!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks!

[@marchelhurley9460]

I really loved hearing an educated Man's explanation to the comment left. I really am sad that anyone would step in the way of a learning ability for any child. This craft like any other activity or sport and I say sport because some see this as such and there is no right or wrong sport for children to play well there shouldn't be. I would suggest for this family and any other family with this issue maybe check out the young man known as Jonah's Hands and maybe that will help a lil should help a lot. I know several men who crochet and knit and with their wives and some without. I also know guys who crochet & knit with their guy friends that they taught the craft to. I would also like to throw in this could turn into anyone's career as well just like sports has. I would also like to say I haven't known of yarn to turn anyone gay regardless of male or female lol. I just wanted to let that be known that if someone does the craft and is gay that has nothing to do with the craft. Please know I will be praying for this situation and all involved. On a better topic thanks for sharing pics of you & your lovely wife she is stunningly gorgeous & yall make a beautiful couple. I also love the stitch you used on the blanket your making but I have a question on the next row after the sc, ch2, sc are you working into the ch2 or what because your increasing in each stitch so I wasn't sure where you would work into in order to not increase in each stitch? I think you should write a pattern and then do a tutorial and that would be better so then everyone would know it is what yours. Thanks for sharing. Last but definitely the best the puppy oh my goodness I'm crazy over dogs, puppies, kittens lol your furbaby is gorgeous.. May God Bless You & Yours

[@paulap.3043]

In my opinion Preston you said it very eloquently, I totally agree with you. Hopefully as the boy gets older he will find get to learn, not bashing the mom but she needs to broaden herself. Love the baby blanket 😍

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I agree!

[@KristiesHooked]

I would encourage the mother to read up on the history of crochet. In the 1800's the Irish MEN crocheted to bring their country out of famine. And it goes on and on. There's nothing "gay" about crochet. 😎

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

I agree! Thanks for your comment.

[@samanthamurdock3752]

Hi Roo! I think that women needs to be educated like you said...besides like I said before it was the men who did the knitting crocheting in days of old...the Men and what difference does it matter...this world is crazy enough small minded people should have their facts together...it simply doesn’t matter especially in these times...I personally love your channel I don’t care about your gender, race,education,faith none of it. I like you for you period. Thanks to you for being real!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

You know what...I like you too! Thanks for watching!

[@roxannesmith4839]

Well said, Preston. Love you guys!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks!

[@rockinrobin1007]

My nephew crocheted as a kid. I don’t know who taught him. He hid his yarn and hooks in the back of his closet. He didn’t tell many people. I’m guessing somebody made fun of him. Only some of us knew and we were sworn to secrecy. He got excited when I came over and would show me his creations. He was really good. He is now in his 30s and still crochets. His grown daughter makes fun of him and calls him gay when he crochets. He is a big buff manly man and HE DOESN’T CARE now. And I think his friends poke fun at him sometimes. Again. He doesn’t care now. I love seeing Miss Rue!!! She made me smile. I had to put my Quincy to sleep 3/30. He was a cocker spaniel Bichon poodle mix with tan and shades of gray. I’ve never seen any other dog come close to his coloring. He was 10. He got very sick very fast. They said it was the preventive meds (Bravecto and TriHeart+ combined with the heavy metals in the vaccines) that gave him Cushings disease. He went undiagnosed for a few years because our old vet didn’t run the one test that would have revealed high cortisol. Banfield isn’t the best place to take your dog. The vets are usually right out of vet school. We lucked out in the end with an experienced vet who listened to me about his symptoms and ran that test. I didn’t know he was at the end of his life. He hid his pain. He had one very bad night on 3/29-3/30 and when we took him to the vet in the morning they said his cortisol level was so high, that even after diluting the sample 4 times it was still too high to register on the machine. His quality of life was sooo bad that morning that it was time to say goodbye. He was my service dog when I had PTSD after a car accident. He lost his hearing about 2 years ago. But he was still a very active dog. He did start to slow up around October and didn’t like walking as much. He was the best dog I ever had. By far. He was a rescue. Best decision I ever made. It was a love at first sight relationship. And it was online. Lol. I saw his pic and said “He’s the one”. We drove 2.5 hours to get him. It’s very hard without him here. He was a Velcro dog and my life revolved around him. One day I will rescue another curly haired pupperoo. We will be using a holistic vet, continuing with the supplements we gave our last dog, doing titer tests, detoxing after any mandatory injections, and using non-toxic flea/tick and heartworm preventive, and he won’t be eating any processed dog food. It’s gonna be raw. And my next dog will live looooooong past 10 years. Lesson learned.

[@sybillbaldauf2100]

I think you are a great guy. Keep doing what you like. Who cares what other people think!!!!! Be yourself and enjoy life. Times are hard enough these days. The grandma should encourage the boy. Mom open your eyes 😘

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks! I agree.

[@leeannehilton5957]

Just one more thing that blanket is gorgeous.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thank you!!! I can’t wait to finish it! It’s looking cool!

[@wendyschmidt4339]

My husband can crochet very beautiful Afghans. He’s working on camouflage seat covers for his truck. He pick up my craft as part of therapy after an accident with a saw . That’s as much as I want to say. He’s a big burly biker I dare anyone to tease him. All kidding aside Crochet is therapeutic if I were the mother of this young man I would welcome him to the craft. Better than out the making mischief. 😃 Stay safe friends

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thanks for sharing!

[@sepidehgoforth2822]

That looks so good P! I love the colors 😍

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Lil Seppy!!!! Thanks little sister! Love you!

[@marilyngilliam8651]

I really love that stitch. Think l might try it to night. This is my hubby and my date night.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Have fun!

[@MariaMartinStudio]

I know I'm late to the party on this, but I want to reiterate that there is nothing wrong with being gay or straight. There is nothing wrong with crocheting regardless of gender. Any form of crafting is good for young people, adults and seniors! Thank you for setting a positive example for male humans who may want to crochet or knit but may be hesitant due to old, useless stereotypes. xoxo

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Thank you for your comment!

[@christinaolivia3475]

I'm slowly teaching my nephews yarn hobbies: they are 6 and 8. My 6 year old nephew just holds my yarn ball and i have taught both of them to work with plastic canvas.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

That’s great! If they have an interest...show them everything! Thanks for sharing!

[@cabinfevercrochet]

p.s. One guy at the VA had been watching KZbin videos, wanting to learn how to make a sweater for his service dog! 👏

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Cool!

[@lovestocrochet3110]

As a grandparent I understand where she is coming from saying the mom has the final say. However, if I couldn't get mom to come around, I would absolutely let my grandson know that if he is still interested at 18 I would be over the moon to teach him. But that is just what I would do. 🤷‍♀️

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

yes!

[@maribelishooked4378]

I feel that crocheting is therapeutic and everyone should do it-male or female-young and old. I want my son and husband to learn. I think It would help reduce stress and keep them focus. Sad when parents think that certain crafts, toys, chores, or sports are gender specific. New times new views.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Agreed!

[@louisecarter6619]

Any child should be allowed to try things as long as no one getting hurt, everything is a teaching process for kids to grow!!!!

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

Perfectly said.

[@marion4351]

Great job explaining. Perhaps she should watch Jonas Hands he's amazing.

[@Yarnasasecondlanguage]

He is amazing!