as a man i can never understand a guy going three years lying and then say i was just trying to fine the right time to tell you everything is the biggest lie in itself. as soon as he realized it was a good relationship he should have been honest and not keep it going for so long. a month or two i can understand but not three years. it is hard but in the long run honesty is always the best way. i just started watching this but i get the idea he has no long term goals. he has been pampered and feels he is justified.
@Maryamzubair-yi9bj7 ай бұрын
Yes you are truly right
@hanikhan8527 ай бұрын
Absolutely.
@arrozconabichuelas28417 ай бұрын
Fr..like- I would have broken up with him in the spot ngl💀
@Prettydiaries_rissa6 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you mentioned this. I feel like people are glossing over all the lies he said during their 3 year relationship because they have good chemistry and sweet moments. He lied about needing a new job, not having enough money, his career, where his parents live, where he grew up, and so many other things. And her, being his girlfriend, did so many things to help him do better for himself. For example, making his resume, loaning him money, getting him a job recommendation, helping prepare for interviews, even learning to cook the cuisine he grew up eating. He may not have known her intentions in the beginning, so I understand his need to protect himself, but it's the fact that he lied about other unnecessary things when he had so many oppertunities to come clean. It seems he only felt guilty after being exposed. All of the important information about him and his family were fabricated, so she basically has to start learning him all over again. On top of that, when his father accused her of trying to get information, he didn't even stand up for her. HE put her in that situation in the first place. I would've broken up with him after that. It doesn't matter that he had enough of a consciousness to pay back the money. Trust is a huge part of a relationship, and he broke it. This situation alone was enough to tell me he's too immature for marriage.
@KehindefelixIsijola6 ай бұрын
Yes
@Springjasmine2.09 ай бұрын
I can already tell that Mai Chenghuan’s best friend is going to be a great friend throughout the whole series ❤️❤️❤️
@Sawautha6 ай бұрын
When younger sibling likes older sibling's best friend. HiddenLove vibes
@slisa019 ай бұрын
This drama is doing a good job of showing to what extent you have to hide your background for three years. I like that it's not simply "he told their parents lived in a different city", he schemed and lied for her to believe him without a doubt. I would never feel comfortable staying with a person that lies so easily to someone they are supposed to love
@londiwemkhize99408 ай бұрын
Bt I think it's not that deep
@stellao7487 ай бұрын
@@londiwemkhize9940I think it's that deep, he went as far as borrowing money from her when he didn't need to, and lying that he would be fired to get her to help him come up with strategies... That guy is so entitled and spoilt! Convincing himself he loves her yet continually lying even after promising not to😢
@Prettydiaries_rissa6 ай бұрын
@@stellao748 Exactly, the fact that he went to such great lengths shows me he wasn't trying to just lie but manipulate her.
@rego_m5869 ай бұрын
Grandma couldn't wait to snitch 😭😭😭😭
@gregoryk.tanaka42859 ай бұрын
I think many men today would like to have met the person Yang Zi plays when they were around Yang Zi’s age. Very sensitive and kind and a solid head on her shoulders. WOW!
@YourDreams-z8g9 ай бұрын
the brother is so protective of his sister lol, thats his treasure
@Prettydiaries_rissa6 ай бұрын
This drama really puts into perspective the ideologies of how women are expected to be married before 30 or else they start to lose their "youth" aka a nice way of saying value. Which definitely isn't true, a women's value and life doesn't revolve around men or the things they can do/give them. I'm glad Mao clearified that there is no guaranteed age to marry. Even her dad in the previous episode pointed out that getting married should be about their daughter's happiness and not want the mom wants. And I hope her boyfriend not coming to the dinner is a lesson learned for her mom that just because he is rich doesn't mean he is better.
@Belinda-o2n5 ай бұрын
Grandma get de swag ❤❤❤Xu Kai ❤️❤️❤️ fan's let gather here
@twaisu18099 ай бұрын
Future viewers I envy yall 😢yall won’t have to wait like us here
@boitumelodube81369 ай бұрын
7:45 i love this granny so much in every drama she acts in she's just so amazing 😊❤
@FaithM19769 ай бұрын
Yes loving his grandma attitude, and this is a different role for Xu Kai he’s such a gorgeous man❤️🤗
@woozireongi72018 ай бұрын
wait so xu kai's grandma is also chenghuan's grandma?
@sawera104548 ай бұрын
I loved the discussion FL had with her friends, we people in 20s need to hear and understand it
@heyyyyooooo77779 ай бұрын
lmaoooo he literally can't escape her if he wanted to. Their lives are so interwined now😂😂😂😂
@SamanthaEkuoku9 ай бұрын
It ended so soon and at the sweetest part 😭😭Now we have to wait 😴😔The story is getting deeper by the minute ❤❤
@AdedokunChristianah-nn6ng9 ай бұрын
Xu Kai and his cute face, especially when he smiled❤❤❤
@fluxcoral9 ай бұрын
Ikrrrr he is handsome
@feliciaalupe41209 ай бұрын
I just love how caring and loving her boyfriend is😢❤❤but his parents will be their problem 😢
@yrp50299 ай бұрын
Fr
@nakasithuwaibah87349 ай бұрын
Exactly especially sis and his mum
@kookie12349 ай бұрын
That’s why you should never fall for rich 😢parents are trush money is everything for them they don’t care about poor
@YourDreams-z8g9 ай бұрын
He seems like it but he is not. He's very nonchalant and not deep, he's a surface scratcher who will keep disappointing her
@NalubwamaRahima9 ай бұрын
Exactly
@celymamaclay26519 ай бұрын
Both are great actor/actress ❤❤❤what a nice drama ❤❤❤of my queen Yang Zi forever love u
@yietlengribackeleong33669 ай бұрын
Both of them Yang Zi and Xu Kai are favourites of mine..very talented actors.❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏👍👍👍🌹🌹🌹
@gregoryk.tanaka42859 ай бұрын
The cinematography is superb in this show-clean, crisp scenes with a great job of capturing the minute facial movements of the actors! Thank you!
@celymamaclay26519 ай бұрын
Queen Yang Zi ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@chrispenjose61566 ай бұрын
Omg the pressure of getting married is so real. I'm so glad this is being addressed in this series. Because with the amount of cheating men out there, marriage is truly not something someone can just enter in it with pressure.
@dianamckinney82379 ай бұрын
I have been married for 35+ years but I still appreciate seeing handsome men. More power to you ladies.
@inezamcleen59829 ай бұрын
Me who's wondering how and when they'll get together 🫣
@adekunleolawale82059 ай бұрын
exactly my thought
@belitahkamanisha10119 ай бұрын
Am wondering too
@lamaface9 ай бұрын
I'm waiting for her to dump the other guy. Please girl you deserve so much better 😭 (mind u I'm now at the point where she just got a text from the granny so I'm big mad at him)
@isabellahoyte26097 ай бұрын
Probably have to deal with Jialing for a while, I wouldn’t expect anything before ep 15, might even have to wait till ep 20
@arsenic12476 ай бұрын
Same here 😊
@ChildOfGOD.7229 ай бұрын
John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
@melav14078 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏼
@mebrendog37878 ай бұрын
Amen
@bridgezjulie80378 ай бұрын
Amen
@magical20227 ай бұрын
What's that got to do with the price of tea in China?
@Sunshine_8007 ай бұрын
Amen
@jehanattiah63228 ай бұрын
I love this grandma from “ meet yourself “ she is so cute
@chinwemealex57259 ай бұрын
Why did the grandma snitch on him after telling them that's their two problems? I didn't expect her to do that
@vivianyip10796 ай бұрын
Grandma is hoping better for fl
@Pink-zx6bi9 ай бұрын
麦妈妈非常漂亮,演技也非常好。
@hongyanxu38119 ай бұрын
何赛飞,老戏骨了。
@SandraMatarutse-jj8by9 ай бұрын
Ma Chenghuan bombs hitting her in all sides 😢, misunderstandings brewing and her boyfriend seems to be caught in a situation which seems to be and not 😂😂😂which is unexplainable 😂😂❤❤❤👏
@melokuhledlamini49669 ай бұрын
no matter how crazy her mom acts most of the time but I can see a lot of love and care for her daughter I wanted to cry when she was talking about her daughter's dowery money 🥰
@unapologeticallyarmy7 ай бұрын
It was very reassuring to hear the talk about marriage between the two friends. I myself am 24 and I have no interest in getting married or having kids. I love my life now, and I just want to focus on my career. To me marriage is not at all a priority or a requirement. If I find a guy in the future, well and good but even if I don't - that's also okay to me. I would be happy regardless.
@AwsuHere9 ай бұрын
Lets vote for dilireba and xu kai to work together 🎉❤
@vasilikispithogiannis90209 ай бұрын
A lovely drama great cast of actors looking forward to watching It.
@LoisNanaAdwowaAbakah9 ай бұрын
I love her mum despite being a little controversial buh she's a whole vibe 😅❤
I don’t like the way this drama is going coz curiosity is killing I even attempt to go to google and search how will they get together and wether the drama will have a happy ending but can’t find something reliable😂😂😭
@prettyjackie74114 ай бұрын
😅😅😅just being patient is the best medicine
@shantashah92559 ай бұрын
Yang Zi and Xu Kai 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
@ReginaSantiago-z4i9 ай бұрын
Love Yang Zi Xu kai ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@DBTITAN.-_8 ай бұрын
Who is this bc
@EshaAliEshaAli-ce7eq5 ай бұрын
Maybe xukai is your cru❤❤❤
@Wasim-zm8sx9 ай бұрын
Yang zi my Queen love you ❤❤❤❤❤
@hidemiaka44829 ай бұрын
期待!期待!
@YourDreams-z8g9 ай бұрын
Yang Zi grew up to be even more gorgeous wow 😍😍
@MolleyDenja9 ай бұрын
Am happy to see xu Kai in office dramas again I had missed him lol
@SinanMuhammad-j8u9 ай бұрын
MY FAVOURITE ACTOR XU KAI. HE IS VERY HANDSOME❤❤
@debbielow48479 ай бұрын
Their relationship is complicated. He seems to love her but everyone seems to be doing someone else’s bidding
@isratjahankabita9809 ай бұрын
Yanzi and xuki give their best❤❤❤❤❤❤
@karamrisho82389 ай бұрын
I know i love him but problem is he's not the ml so please break up soon😢❤🎉😊
@YourDreams-z8g9 ай бұрын
I was waiting for the female bestie, I'm so glad Mai has one
@ziporahwanjira58353 ай бұрын
Every Asian drama has a grandmother or grandfather Either they're too nice, or too hardh Lol😂😂
@ranyrim79379 ай бұрын
Love both of them ❤❤❤❤❤
@Msdavisbest27slay4 ай бұрын
Has anyone noticed that the brother has a CRUSH Avon the BFF
@Msdavisbest27slay4 ай бұрын
I know it is pretty obvious but
@straw-k3x3 ай бұрын
ngllll i love her younger brothers personality and hes cute too thoooo😫😫😫😫💋💋😘😘❤❤🌸🌸
@Fromillah6 ай бұрын
I like the grandma She is nice in meet yourself
@elisahu84449 ай бұрын
可怜天下父母心❤️我们都是幸运的有个好爸妈,感恩。
@a_z202314 күн бұрын
32:31 I've never seen such a plain " Shut up " In my life😂😂
@官全宥9 ай бұрын
杨紫💜你是落日弥漫的橘❤天边透亮的星🌟杨紫💜杨紫💜麦承欢❤️🔥l love you ❤
@annieliu4359 ай бұрын
編劇很重要,以前不喜歡看許凱的戲這一次覺得許凱的戲真好看!
@sy57639 ай бұрын
杨紫演技太棒。演什么都是一个新的角色,和她以前演的完全不会串
@MomitahKessie9 ай бұрын
Queen yang zi for a reason 💕❤️❣️
@priscoviakamangu9854Ай бұрын
Second time watching it because there are no nice movies released recently. ❤❤❤
@astridtaw9 ай бұрын
Love those funny scenes in between.
@emmalazatin51269 ай бұрын
Love it...❤❤❤❤
@shamilaharshani73339 ай бұрын
Grandma ordered Ceylon Milk Tea!! I felt proud because XuKai know name of our country❤. XuKai, visit Sri Lanka!!
@rosaliemason55989 ай бұрын
Love both of you ❤️
@Motunrayoadunola9 ай бұрын
Why can't not be uploaded to two or three episodes per Day, one ep per Day make us feel boring, we can't wait for our idol xu Kai.
@celymamaclay26519 ай бұрын
If you are a member you can watch more than 1 everyday ❤
@anjolaoluwamercy32059 ай бұрын
@@celymamaclay2651member as how pls?
@phutruong11229 ай бұрын
Boring??? Watch “Best choice for me”. I don’t know why (?) it’s only one word and turn to another series???
@Tinkerbellabell9 ай бұрын
Oh my I have to wait again! 😕 can’t get enough of it this makes my anticipation so strong for the next episode 😕😕😕😕😕😕😕
@vanvitran75479 ай бұрын
太好看了!
@piyawan29409 ай бұрын
🌝🌝🌝👍👍For Ma, hahaha, since starting, every episode, watching again and again, #Best choice ever, Love you Both YANGZI and HU KAI 💜💜💜💖💖💖✌️
@amra.f238 ай бұрын
ayyoo "ceylon milk tea" any1 from SL??
@sennattiharmy28317 ай бұрын
Grandma don't play 🤣
@华剧鉴赏厅9 ай бұрын
好好看哇 杨紫好美
@april1478 ай бұрын
I needed to hear that discussion between FL and her friend.
@MubeziJoanne9 ай бұрын
Do think we should marry after reaching a certain age😭😭😭
@believe35207 ай бұрын
i dont blame him for the blind date but only keeping the secret for three years, but he does love the fl
@Trishna8769 ай бұрын
Chengzao was the female lead in "The best of you in my mind"and his voice is actually the same so deep and breathtaking 🤭🤭🤭🤭 You must watch it guys ,please do it for Xu kai and me ❤
@itsokay123679 ай бұрын
He is 30 but he can't say no to his mother.
@NkweMpebe9 ай бұрын
Me waiting here fir xu kai
@florachikanga9 ай бұрын
Seriously another super drama from xukai 💜💜💜
@rebeccaopey62918 ай бұрын
Not me just waiting patiently to see how xu kai is going to win her heart😊
@Nina_345-i7g6 ай бұрын
people are jealous of me around here😌when you guys say future viewers future viewers... it's me you're talking about😌😌😌😌
@ElizabethKomujuni-zm2wc4 ай бұрын
What about me 😌🤗
@nicolechen10116 ай бұрын
麦老太太好精致呀
@cmm61079 ай бұрын
520的创意是啥啊😂,还父母分享爱情秘诀
@Daisy_Mei7Ай бұрын
Her bestfriend is so pretty😊😊
@silvanacasagranda4196 ай бұрын
Come spesso succede in questi drammi l' assistente è più simpatico e affascinante del protagonista
@samihanaznin58549 ай бұрын
ok i regret what I said in 2nd ep her mom is sweet and wonderful mom who wants best for her daughter but still it doesn't mean she can interfare their personal relationship i mean yea its good know about how things going with their rln but u shouldn't go all deep
@EshaAliEshaAli-ce7eq5 ай бұрын
Mr miao he is good at insisting at bargaining things at a low price so amaizing 🤔🤔🤔
@dx98674 ай бұрын
Love xukai and Yangzi
@jihongolsen34089 ай бұрын
老是制造些莫名其妙的误会和"冲突"😮
@ComfortEkanem-ov5op9 ай бұрын
Xu Kai is so handsome
@yara_exo10659 ай бұрын
Xukai ❤ مشكلة الحلقة بتخلص بسرعة
@Rawanfh69 ай бұрын
ايه والله تقدري تلاقي تليغرام بس مو مترجم
@Msdavisbest27slay4 ай бұрын
I was trying to find my 3rd best xu Kai and I have found it
@YourDreams-z8g9 ай бұрын
I really love and feel so sorry for the grandma awww 😢
@user-nifemi9 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Cucu623559 ай бұрын
Waiting for next episode is like torture 😢
@joypreciousidemudia43719 ай бұрын
😂
@MonicaZamoraCobian-qs6uo9 ай бұрын
Yang xi, eres super🎉❤❤❤
@cinta76939 ай бұрын
Yang je xukai❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@JohBuggat9 ай бұрын
I like more nana being a simple village grandma like in the meet yourself 😊😊
@guanhaoniziji9 ай бұрын
杨紫❤
@saedesmael88669 ай бұрын
بالتوفيق دائماً لأجمل وأروع أبطال شوكاي ويانج زي وباقي الممثلين وفريق العمل ❤❤❤❤❤