CRUSH Your Ex’s Ego

If you want your ex back, you must make spike their emotions. But you must also destroy their ego.
You must crush their ego.
That's harsh, but it's necessary for the breakup. And it's necessary for you to heal. This isn't manipulative in the least bit. Your ex may be feeling a sense of entitlement and take you for granted. And now it's time to teach them a hard lesson.
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[@hogdawg911]

I’ve been working with a personal trainer I lost over 40kgs and my ex saw me in the mall the other day and could not take her eyes off me I laughed and my upgrade walked over She low key died inside Then she saw me drive off in my new car 🚗 She left me in my darkest moment Now she sees me shine ✨

[@opusandtarquez]

👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

[@aliyumuhammad1405]

I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,

[@aliyumuhammad1405]

±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's work I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,......

[@aliyumuhammad1405]

Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back.

[@frankwilliams4222]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@davidhall6464]

Karma will serve them at some point. Do not wish them bad Karma, instead gracefully walk away and let the inevitable karma find them. They can't escape it.

[@opusandtarquez]

Facts.

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

True Words Spoken here.

[@steventalks-yt]

Karmic debt does not go unpaid. Let them go in grace/indifference is 100% the most powerful thing you can do

[@SS-in1ts]

Agreed. Except I already reacted badly and I’m now standing my ground unless I get an apology. I was too forgiving during the breakup and then found out I was a rebound!! Nope. I hit below the belt. And I’ll address it if he comes to me with an apology.

[@jahleelx9270]

14:44 Nice point made by opus. Karma is real. Through all my breakups my exes came back and I would always make them explain to me why. 9/10 it's because they got dumped by the new guy or was used, one even got cheated on and ghosted. My most recent breakup made me think to myself I couldn't take an ex back no matter what. Never have. Never will. But an interesting point stuck out to me. And that's if any man or woman (for the women that do watch this channel)decides to take their ex back. U have to get to the bottom of what made them come back. Because if they left u and got used or cheated on or mistreated in any way shape or form u should not take them back. Not every ex that left me got karma. And the reason is because not every ex that left me treated me like trash. But u have to make your ex earn you back number one. And number two I believe it's most imperative to find out why they came back. Because they are not outright just gonna tell u that they were mistreated by the person/people they left u for but it's a common reason why exes come back.

[@trafelder5530]

Yea she gone have to show me

[@Happy-Me.]

Good video. Some women can't think of a life without you. Non contact gets them to think more deeply but also see what's really out there and what they could lose! It's not always easy for them to start again.!

[@ksett4]

You guys saved me after begging, pleading and simping! I’m very marketable 6’2 black athletic build. And since I’ve been focusing on myself I literally have women flocking to me out of nowhere. No effort! I currently have 6 girls on rotation…She tried to torture tease me with her new guy or guys. But I’m over her! Even motivated me to start KZbin and open consulting business for self help career etc Thank you guys a lot!

[@opusandtarquez]

Love to hear this! 👊🏾

[@imthebest7290]

I’m the same. 6ft athletic. My ex is like 4-11 and out of shape

[@iAmplify7]

@@imthebest7290 lmao my ex is the biggest catfish i can tell she insecure as fuck she's never taken a photo without a filter on it. she can make herself look like a model on tinder and shit but in reality she lookin like the moon emoji lmao

[@imthebest7290]

@@iAmplify7 the moon emoji!😂

[@daver1161]

6’2”, 200k annually. Been on bumble for a week and have three dates set up for this upcoming week with dimes compared to her. She’s about to find out what she missed out on.

[@lifechanges4097]

You guy's are helping me out so damn much!!!!! "Never stay where you're not wanted" 💯💯✌️

[@opusandtarquez]

NEVER !!! 👊🏽

[@TonyRossiImpactGlobal]

I hate social media! I don’t look at her stuff, don’t post anything really on my stuff. I just disappeared when I told my ex wife I wasn’t interested in being just friends. I told her to let me know if she changes her mind. No contact in 3+ months.

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

Yup Focus on yourself its sweet music. $$$$

[@mmt2310]

Update?

[@toppinnacle4164]

I have crushed my ex ego long time ago since last year . No viewing her WhatsApp stories . no texts and no phone calls . I strongly believe that she will be stunned how I gets over her so quickly because she thought I should be crying and begging her to take me back but it turns out the opposite 😁😁😁😁

[@thatdinho]

You fellas are out here doing the lords work. Not even joking. There are many out there that seek out your advice in their darkest times and moments of weakness. Thank you

[@opusandtarquez]

Wow. Thank you Marcos!

[@Giovanni-01]

I think that's also what hurts their ego, unintentionally. When you walk away respectfully. More than likely bc she's still bitter

[@FitBaylorRob]

Leveling up everyday...wouldn't even give a girl like her a chance today. Moving forward LFG!!

[@kimmichaud4064]

Sometimes people break up with people not because they don't love them but because they don't love you , I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago who I love with all my heart because he doesn't love me or doesn't love me as much as I love him , yes he's ignoring me and it's not crushing my ego , it's just confirmation that I did the right thing and that he doesn't love me, I'm not contacting him because I know he couldn't care less about me or the fact that I broke up with him , the dumper can sometimes be the dumpee like in my case, sometimes people dump cuz they have no choice

[@TheTaotheawakenedone]

Always on point, gentlemen. Time is the most important aspect of breaking the cycle. Processing through love and hate and all the emotions to arrive at a state of indifference. We let them dictate the narrative until we take our energy back. Real important is to know that some women are gaming for clout and a notch on their belt; they get you into a web of reaction and it's their rules. It's crazy but it's a power dynamic. Solitude is the most powerful medicine.

[@MrSfinn9mm]

You guys are the best I’m 7 months into a break up and this channel helped push me even further into healing and stepping up 💪

[@kingchris3906]

You guys chemistry is impeccable once again words of wisdom...Stay up brothers

[@opusandtarquez]

Much Respect !!! 🙏🏽

[@BillRWare]

You guys have managed to take one of the most melancholy episodes of a life journey and turned it into enjoyable comedy! For a moment, I've forgotten about my relationship issues and simply had a few good laughs. Headed to the Greek restaurant tonight, have my favorite dish, then get back home to chart out my next episode. Like Adrien Broner (OK...not quite like AB), I'm about billions. Already have done the first ten billion. Time now to do the next billion 😁 Many thanks for the laughs!!!

[@Jmax123]

did the whole pleading gig, it doesnt work fellas. Go No Contact and focus on yourself. I know shes out doing her thing and what not drinking is a temporay fix, im in the gym and doing what she always said i couldnt do. When she asked me to meet ( to breakup) she decided to kiss me and the last thing i Said was a BIG FU. women play games but when you stop playing and learn to love yourself thats when they stop and think.... good video guys.

[@aliyumuhammad1405]

I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,

[@aliyumuhammad1405]

±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's work I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,......

[@aliyumuhammad1405]

you can message the great man who helped me bring back my ex after many months of separation

[@shawneelawrence8667]

I love your videos👌 my ex has a huge ego! I needed this video! Thank you

[@ragegamer1642]

Ever since my ex let me go, ive been working out and cut off my dreads. I look so much better!! Its crazy what a breakup can do to a person!!

[@ChrisLT]

KZbin's full of free workouts. If you're stuck inside for winter, it's so convenient and a gym isn't even needed.

[@charlescalabritto7132]

Completely 360’d my life! 😂

[@felipemotta797]

More like 180'd lol. 360 you stood at the same spot 😝

[@shahzadahmed6659]

@@felipemotta797 nice catch ahhahaha

[@waleedchorfii2495]

Can you please make a video about no contact when there wasn't a breakup, they just pulled away and stop chasing (no blocking) and still view your stories often and they post sad quotes to theirs (acting like a victim) .. that would help alot, and I appreciate your efforts and recommended your channel to many of my friends.

[@markvincentr.degrano8901]

I know she's miserable now because i stop giving validation to her and now she is mad at me 🤣😅

[@opusandtarquez]

That’s all it takes. lol Opus

[@gordenmg4966]

She told me to move on when she was involved with another guy and I did, later she travelled more than 200km to the area I was frequenting we saw each other I just ignored her and walked away. Im not done with her, she needs to be tough a lesson for the remainder of life. I'm the guy who likes looking good and smelling good; she's yet to witness ruthlessness.

[@SANGUINATOR]

I am over a year after breaking up with a woman with a paranoid personality and a tendency towards narcissism. My advice to everyone: Cry, experience all this pain and allow yourself to mourn. This is absolutely normal, it makes you not weaker and less valuable. The most important thing is you and your mental health and getting rid of all these emotions, not what someone who left you thinks, because such a person doesn't really care. The most important thing in all this is not to cringe, beg and show someone who has abandoned you, that you care, you care about it all and you want to come back. You're only pumping her ego. You will say, but I want to come back to her - no, you don't want it, the longer you stay in touch with her and the longer you isolate yourself from someone who treated you like this, the sooner you will understand that you don't need someone like that in your life. At first you will think that this is the worst thing that has happened to you - you will see in time that a new and wonderful period of your life begins before you. Take care of yourself, start doing what you enjoy, work with a therapist if you are unable to cope with it yourself, find time for physical activity and regenerate - good sleep and good food. Don't do anything for her, do everything for yourself. Turn anger, the desire to revenge or impress it, to make your life better without it and to make you stronger. The real strength is to be above what the other person did to you, because believe me, the longer you think about it and come back to it without moving slowly forward, the longer you doom yourself to someone still hurting you, not being in yours anymore. a life that will only be better without someone like that. Hang on, be strong, smile and hope for a new beautiful life in your hearts!

[@donaldsteven3495]

±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

[@donaldsteven3495]

you can message the great man who helped me bring back my ex after many months of separation

[@donaldsteven3495]

Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back

[@darider6286]

My guyz 🌴🌴😎🌴🌴 Real talk as usual no cap ...barbados saluting you

[@opusandtarquez]

Salute!!

[@donaldsteven3495]

±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's work I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,......

[@donaldsteven3495]

you can message the great man who helped me bring back my ex after many months of separation

[@NewyJon7787]

I don't see "no contact" as ignoring, because i would reply if they contacted me and were moving back towards me.

[@SunshineAndSnowflakes]

I feel like when people continue to ignore someone, they only come back because it creates anxiety and that can backfire real quick. I'm big on respect and if someone is purposely ignoring me, then you will never hear from me again.

[@Assassin-lv5jl]

Ex broke up with me after over a year. Met her on on ups route but she got a different job but her best friends still work there and i give off the vibe im bullet proof steel in confidence. Literally told one of them when they asked how i am that im doing great with a smile and she sounded surprised.

[@robmarine393]

1st Salute, Great Channel.

[@opusandtarquez]

Much love Rob

[@shallomiecunningham585]

Did this man just say snicker doodle...LOL..LOL..you two are the best.

[@opusandtarquez]

😂

[@northernsegageorge6510]

She broke up with me and i went NC, deleted her number. a bit later she messages me late on a saturday night and 2 days later i replied with a profile pic of me with a new girl and message telling her not to contact me again, she then had a rage at me and replied instantly at 7.30am. I stayed NC and several weeks later she again sends me a big long message at near midnight. I never replied. Life is far to short for wasting your time worrying over one female/male. Been 2 weeks now since she messaged.

[@leratoseretsi5603]

Then why are you talking about her since you have a new girlfriend, it doesn't make sense

[@ulrickguiliman4810]

Calisthenics is one of the methods for workout.

[@markuchiha7737]

This is true. I consulted with a fortune teller and she told me that my ex is spying on me after i disappeared. Because she knows that I'm fucking over with her and i blocked her forever. Life will play its role to her.

[@glen432003]

What causes our destress ? Thoughts , things wait outside us , ask them who they are and they don’t know ? They can give no account of themselves, what accounts for them ? The mind does , train your mind to block the pain , wallow your thoughts , DONT THINK OF THEM , the mind gives her power but YOU HAVE POWER OVER THE MIND !’

[@gelgoorx]

I find this very interesting, my ex cheated on me and left me, we have to children together so I see her twice a month for our exchange. I've been working out , keep a clean cut updated my wardrobe and don't text her unless it's to confirm something regarding the kids , and even then I keep it very short. The other day I messaged her asking her out , she flat out said no so I left it at that . Almost three weeks later she asked me what's going on why I asked her out , that she doesn't think it's a good idea and that we can be friends if I need someone to talk to like she is with her other ex. I politely said I'm not him and I'm good . She took offense to that and was very rattled that I I'd just want to keep our interactions strictly about the kids . I get the vibes she doesn't like I more a less said I'm good I don't need your pitty .

[@gordenmg4966]

You guys are killing it. Toothless looking people, 🤣

[@opusandtarquez]

Thanks man. Much Respect !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈 lol

[@TChalla-yg8bl]

love your videos..RIP Opus!☁❤☁

[@kotymccallister5150]

Who gives a shit? Why would you do them that service? Let them have their ego. It hurts them in the long run. You don't owe your ex the time it takes to dissolve their toxic ego.

[@donaldsteven3495]

you can message the great man who helped me bring back my ex after many months of separation

[@donaldsteven3495]

±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

[@donaldsteven3495]

Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back

[@kotymccallister5150]

@BeautyQueen2023X these stupid videos come up in my feed 😂

[@spedhead218]

Opus and Coach T, i may or may not have had a small cake boy incident this morning when I was leaving from work. I was driving all half asleep and when I was fidgeting with the volume knob on the stereo system in the Tundra my hand slipped and pressed the speed dial contact for my ex! Realizing what I had done in complete horror I ended that call faster than Tarquavian can fire “you up?” messages in a woman’s DMs. Really hope I didn’t f#ck sh!t up. Made it 6 months no contact how does that even happen.

[@opusandtarquez]

Ouch, that’s definitely not good. I’d take her out ur speed dial immediately !!! lol Opus

[@kingchris3906]

😂🤣Damn bro yo ex rebound really did her dirty karma is still da bi***

[@CoachKen10]

Thank you for the wisdom and for giving hope!

[@opusandtarquez]

Much love Coach.

[@Level4Bio]

You both really need to emphasize that this does NOT work with Narcissist's. Huge difference between solid and evil people.

[@jaredvaughan1665]

AWESOME VIDEOS

[@starttakinnotez]

I chased for 2 weeks. She sent me an angry email listing everything I did that pissed her off. I gave her a proper apology but she still decided to be rude. She followed me on Spotify so I could see all the angry playlists. So I made a couple playlists with pictures of the women I'm seeing. She's so pissed. Absolute mental boom. Added like 20 songs to the playlists about me last night. She's going into narcissistic collapse. It feels great!

[@leratoseretsi5603]

You dont love either woman

[@leratoseretsi5603]

You sound like a narcissist

[@starttakinnotez]

@@leratoseretsi5603 actually, I am so madly in love with the new woman. She doesn't scream at me. She doesn't stone wall me. The communication is calm. There's no triangulation or smearing. There's no enlisting flying monkeys to treat me like dirt to manipulate me into doing something for her. It's the healthiest relationship I've ever had. She's feeding me love off a silver spoon while my ex made me lick it off knives. My ex had a 7 month affair behind my back. I didn't mention that I my initial comment because I didn't want pity. That was only one of the many people she cheated on me with. My ex gets to watch me and my new girlfriend have a healthy relationship. It eats her alive and I feel good knowing that.

[@basicinfo2022]

8:00 🔑 let them earn you all over again. These tips apply to any person dumped.

[@SunshineAndSnowflakes]

This whole getting fit thing and sprucing yourself up has never made me want to go back to an ex. I'm glad they are getting healthy, but I hope it's for them. I remember an ex getting a haircut, fresh shave and a new outfit showikg up at my door like my panties were going to drop or something. 😂 It didn't help that he was talking about his "new look" lol. My attraction went from zero to negative 10. On the flip side, this totally works on men probably because they think about sex when they see their ex looking good. Sex is the last thing I want after I leave a dude...sex from him at least.

[@simonethepitty9214]

Lol i use to call him papi and he got mad when i wouldn't say it anymore.

[@SS-in1ts]

I crushed his ego telling him he played himself and his status isn’t shit without integrity 😂 my future partner will see him because our kids are best friends and told him I’d let my future husband know how he used me and wasn’t a real man. 😂😂😂

[@leratoseretsi5603]

You didn't crush his ego by insulting him as a man,you made him realize how a future with you would have been ......you validated his decision and u acted like someone who doesn't care about him.....gracefully walk away without insulting him.

[@malcky9696]

💪🦈

[@opusandtarquez]

👊🏾

[@KarelChytilArt]

Hi bros!

[@opusandtarquez]

What’s up Karel!

[@jessejunior7339]

What if you're working with this person! And acting gold and hot

[@lewisward7936]

What do you do if you have a house still with your ex!? My ex left me and we still own a house together.. Im I'm the process of buying her out so atm we have to keep contact.. Should I just implement these rules after the house situation is done!?

[@mycardsneverlie984]

±12345642478⏭⏯🇺🇸🌹⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,

[@stephensigl7342]

What if the guy they cheated on you with works out for them -the "eat, pray, love" scenario?

[@Cuernx]

That shit is gonna fall apart

[@irasiev3160]

Thanks

[@opusandtarquez]

Our pleasure.

[@Neo-nn4zr]

Lol...women go ahead and grow your beard out

[@shanonneely]

Hahaha her little Willy 🤣

[@emmanuelcobbinah53]

What if they come back & i smash & dash

[@ameermohammed8675]

💪💯

[@opusandtarquez]

👊🏾

[@melomaserati9507]

Funny how I'm watching this video and my ex calls while I'm exercising the no contact I gave her exactly what she wanted without blowing her phone up and she called to poke the bear with something completely irrelevant and I told her I wasn't trying to have the conversation she was trying to have and I'm kind of busy at the moment and needed time to myself cause I got alot going on...and she got very upset about that 🤣 🤣...go figure

[@Jabbare90]

Should the guy admits to his GF of cheating?

[@opusandtarquez]

Relationships should be built on honesty. What’s done in the dark usually comes to the light.

[@ezbaby200]

Ok so look I been following you guys for about a year and your message is gospel as far as I’m concerned but me and my ex have 4 children together so going ghost isn’t an option if I do she gets the gender biased system involved no communication with her is none with them ( as long as she’s in a good mood )and if I do play nice I’m taken advantage of or at least taken for granted I’m so lost atp

[@opusandtarquez]

I feel what your saying 100%. We’re gonna make a video on this soon. I personally feel as if getting an ex back with kids is easier than with out only because you have 18 years with this person in your life. No girl ever grew up saying I wanna have have a broken family and have to deal with baby daddy drama. They know that no man will love their child more than the father. So deep down inside they don’t wanna different man in their child’s life. The problem could be what you are or aren’t doing or the issues could be something with the Mom. This is something that could be better discovered in a coaching session because we would need more details but we’re gonna try and explain all we can in the video. Opus

[@irillsecae4383]

I got my ex back through the help of a powerful man from Florida USA... He'll make your ex come back to you and start begging you for a second chance. He helped me restored my broken relationship of 6 years by bringing back my ex and his always good in keeping up with his words I strongly advise you to seek help from him

[@irillsecae4383]

Message him through WhatsApp for help!

[@irillsecae4383]

➕2348137709637⏯️⏯️💕💕???????????????

[@vitikorosado8511]

One love cousins. 🇺🇲🇩🇴

[@CowboyEkim]

Disappear and go to work on yourself … No text, calling or posting on Social Media ( Radio Silent)

[@anthonycapalbo1548]

My ex cannot go 24 hours without sending me something about our break up.

[@opusandtarquez]

Wow.

[@anthonycapalbo1548]

@@opusandtarquez brings up what went wrong and how our relationship was.

[@opusandtarquez]

How does it feel knowing the table has turned? lol 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

[@Ghhh-on3nl]

What if you have broken the no contact so many times and repeatedly showed your insecurities to her over.and over.. can no contact work then?

[@opusandtarquez]

Your odds are getting slimmer and slimmer. Id work on figuring out the problem and what’s going on to cause the breakup first and foremost.

[@jent6476]

I mean. Isn't this instinctual knowledge?

[@yoyoloveje2044]

wtf is this channel

[@americanoriginal5590]

You guys are cool, real knowledge. But, you keep saying to take your ex back.. and that's a no no. Once she leaves she stays out. 😢