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@daver11618 ай бұрын
Took me two months of no contact. I decided to call her and she was in tears within a minute. We have a date set for this weekend.
@rwentfordable Жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree with the obedience part. They need to come back with real humility and get on your level.
@brandone44463 жыл бұрын
Listening to y'all regularly is like talking to my bruhs...there's something great about that positive reinforcement & support from OUR perspective ...MUCH APPRECIATED and keep up the good work. Y'all have truly helped me through some dark shit! Now I'm living life and paying attention to things I've put on the backburner for a minute, mainly myself! Much love! ✊🏽
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Much love Brandon! 👊🏾
@MikeTX3 жыл бұрын
Brandon, same! These guys feel like they’re talking to me directly. Don’t be a cockroach. Keep doing the work. Improve ourselves. Flip the script. But for us. Not for them.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
It’s comments like these that keep us pushing. Thank You !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@thierryngoyi31883 жыл бұрын
@brandon You said it all my brother These guys are The Truth I've graduated to a King with girls who are better than my ex !
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Good shit man !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@Tagikakibau2 жыл бұрын
What. A. Video 👏 Six weeks today since she ended things and it's day 30 today of NC. Was tempted to message her earlier, but this video will keep me going on NC for another 30, by which time I will have found someone better!
@henkesandberg60043 жыл бұрын
Over 2 months without my ex. 10 kgs down in Weight. And a whole new look at life and so much self-love. Fuck my ex. Im Going for a better woman 🤙🏻 love from sweden 🙌🏻🔥keep up the good work. You are funny as hell 😂
@TheOnemanr1ot3 жыл бұрын
its hard she just seems so happy. but 3 months NC i found out from a mcdonalds employee that she is mad cause she thinks im dating someone. she dumped me though? women LOL
@CalvnCxsting3 жыл бұрын
You made me lol w this one, she'll come back to ya my guy. My ex jus did after 5 months, now I gotta decide if I still want her
@CalvnCxsting3 жыл бұрын
@CEBI I don't understand it either! She said there's a lot she wants to apologize for, I told her I just wanted to catch up not talk about what happened. This Sunday she's making me dinner at her place and if she's truly sorry she'll make an attempt to apologize. We spoke on the phone so I could schedule the meetup & she said how she was super depressed in February, didn't say it was because of the breakup so idk. She didn't exactly leave me but we were arguing a lot and we were both fed up. I kicked her out after she got physically abusive one night. So she got her own place and then another argument before she left ended with her hitting my car.. I can understand the stress she had from work but to hit my car?? I can't trust she won't betray me like that again in the future. I think it's best we both move on, even though I still love her. I'll update you monday my guy. I'd like to hear more about your situation, did you take your ex back?
@Amctothemoon3 жыл бұрын
@CEBI It’s called the grass is not greener on the other side , it might be for a while , in the end they all regret leaving a good guy who treated them well
@Alxndr.vincnt3 жыл бұрын
that was climatic lmao that preaching at the end. oooof my heart. PURE STRENGTH
@briannacrump79433 жыл бұрын
±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
@J.FROST193 жыл бұрын
One thing I learned as young man is if you do everything right(yes I know no one is perfect) that shit has nothing to do with you!! Especially if your the catch! Some women be battling insecurities etc so just leave! If she comes back cool but make sure she’s changed if not then ✌🏾
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
That’s a fact 👊🏾
@jimdaniel44123 жыл бұрын
3 months no contact..i didnt initiate so its been easy not talking to somebody who blocks you and uses silent treatment to punish..i didnt act needy..didnt chase..but i called her out and put her in her place the last time we spoke....if they dont reach out..someone else will..this shit is funny..it sucks in the beginning but if they leave you..it really is an opportunity for something better..
@childofgod7455 Жыл бұрын
Did she ever reach out
@jimdaniel4412 Жыл бұрын
@@childofgod7455 no and Im glad she got engaged to another guy in less than a year and then bailed on that guy and is engaged again. I met someone who is actually an adult and happier since. Im in my 40s I hate games im quick to put em on ice and move on
@JacquesJakeFrechette3 жыл бұрын
You guys are fantastic. A man's man. A whole pile of cool
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Much Respect !!! 🙏🏽 We appreciate you watching Jake !!!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@videowilliams10 ай бұрын
Poetry, gentlemen! I found I could put the name of a living ex to each stage you described.
@stuntmanfftfs38293 жыл бұрын
My EX GF broke up with me for no reason stated. I since then deactivated all my social media accounts and have not talked to her for 3 months. Last I heard she has been doing things we had planned together. Like traveling to places we planned to go... and interacting with other men. Still in no contact and working on myself.. still hurting. Shit is tough.
@stuntmanfftfs38293 жыл бұрын
I really think she is trying to send a message and get under my skin traveling to those places. And posting rapidly on social media. She is pissed rn.
@gillyvibes12243 жыл бұрын
@@stuntmanfftfs3829 you should’ve want to long to tell her how you feel after giving her space. If you love her reach out
@stuntmanfftfs38293 жыл бұрын
@@gillyvibes1224 She kept lying to me about why she wanted to break up. I asked her if another guy was involved she denied that.. She told me she didn’t want me anymore she felt like she was settling and she bounced lol. She reached out to try to give me items I forgot I even had at her place.. I ignored her left her messages on read.. I didn’t want to entertain her and play games. She has been contacting my mom from time to time texting her. Checking in.. I think the girl feels sorry for me.. I have picked up more hobbies.. lost a bunch of weight.. and still continuing no contact. This shit keeps eating at me. I did everything right but it still wasn’t enough. I guess I got too damn comfortable.. IDK Man I hate this heart break shit I’m still sick right now and it’s been 4 months
@gillyvibes12243 жыл бұрын
@@stuntmanfftfs3829 they always going deny talking to another guy. Her reaching out to your mom showing the NC is working. She want to know what’s going on with you since the break up. It’s really good that you’re working out & keeping yourself busy. Also don’t forget we’re human & it’s ok to have human feelings on what you want. I’m not saying go chase her but if you truly believe it’ something that wasn’t said that could help maybe fix things then why not
@stuntmanfftfs38293 жыл бұрын
@@gillyvibes1224 You’re right. I just get the feeling she will say these words again. “I’m sorry. I don’t know what to say.” Or she will keep lying.
@flamesurfer3 жыл бұрын
Content is blowing up fellas! Almost exactly a year to the point where I rejected the friend zone and went onto a more rugged form of no contact (ignoring the f out of her). Aligned with your excellent video I am now in the stage where she contacts me almost every day with those messages that she can't be rejected from. Her interest levels are rising but I am now king status and I don't need no peasent. Might just smash if the opportunity presents itself. 💎🙌🏻
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
That’s fantastic! 👊🏾
@darwincollado89933 жыл бұрын
Be careful! Smashing might set you back a long time! Just keep on moving! Smash Something New
@flamesurfer3 жыл бұрын
@@darwincollado8993 man is speaking sense 💪🏻
@donlothario85843 жыл бұрын
This was your most captivating video thus far brothers. Your style pulls the viewer in and entrances us in what you're saying...I didn't even notice I had crossed 10 minutes. This is so relatable too it felt like you were spelling out my story. You are leveling up and I love that I'm one of the OG subscribers watching it happen! Powerful ✊
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Thanks Don. We’re familiar...you’re one of the Day 1s! Thanks for the support!!!
@nickpalmer93823 жыл бұрын
i’m back after 5 months no contact. shes back. advice to all the boys. MOVE ON. i stopped watching no contact and started talking to other girls and building my rotation. it came to the point where u completely blocked her out of my life and forgot about her. last weekend I saw her a concert, we talked made out and i took her home. we have another date set up for next week. I am currently dating 2 other chicks who i like a lot so i am probably not even going to let her come back. she can probably feel this vibe from me which is what led to her trying to get me back in the first place. stay strong boys meditate work on yourself i promise she will be back, once you actually move on.
@ericjay2493 жыл бұрын
good job!
@eathanp20442 жыл бұрын
which meditations did you do?
@Happy-Me. Жыл бұрын
Yes it usually happens that way that they come back when you have someone else!
@daver116110 ай бұрын
They come back with the scent of another man. And all those fun experiences she had with him she’ll lie and say that it was her “friends” that she was with. For anyone who is prone to anxiety, start using ashwaghanda. Great mood stabilizer.
@terronb3 жыл бұрын
Yall took it to church at the end. Amen! Tabernacle!!!
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@bp61673 жыл бұрын
Managed to stumble on this channel and watched a few videos. This is your Fortè my brothers. This content is gold to give men what they've long since forgotten - instinctual strength by nature. The reason this stands out to me is your raw chemistry as a duo too drop these gems of insight. Though I do disagree on one thing. The white dude does drive a Mustang, it IS electric blue but his name is definitely a kyle haha. Kyle, Connor and Corey.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Instinctual strength by nature. Very well said brother!
@daspam65263 жыл бұрын
the black vs white "new guy" description was hilarious as fuck. Damn Connor is spot on.
@SuperMIKEMIZZLE3 жыл бұрын
The this is tho if you take an Ex back they will corporate until they see that they got you then they will resort back to old Behaviors
@VENADO_MAZISO3 жыл бұрын
Theres no way of getting back into old behaviours. The only time that happens is if you dont fully heal in the time of no contact. If you've fully healed there is no old behaviours
@Giovanni-012 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I agree. I think , if we have put in months of work, I don't think they deserve that better version of you.
@jacobsclar2 жыл бұрын
This was so healthy for me to hear. Thank you. Hell YES 🔥🔥
@sinfool65853 жыл бұрын
Holy hell...without the violence, this has pretty much described my recent break-up to a tee, except it happened without the NCR. We've tried to stay friends since, as expats, finding people who truly understand what it's like to live in a foreign country is a rare thing. But, man...these stages happened and went back & forth so much that I went into one hell of a depression and am still fighting my way out of it. I honestly wish I would've went NCR from the get-go and saved myself 2 months of her wanting to get back together and changing her mind at the drop of a hat 3 times. I even got cut-up, but it doesn't mean much since we can't gather due to Lockdowns and, TBH, I'm honestly still not in a place to give someone else a chance after this mess. I'm damned grateful for these videos, guys. Thank you from the bottom of my beatdown'ed-assed heart. LOL
@franciscoterrero33 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Fellas, ya rocked today!!!! By far the best video 🙌🙌🙌🙌
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Much love Francisco! 👊🏾
@solverf271411 ай бұрын
Absolutely love you guys message, you have made people laugh during challenging times while giving viewers good advice to better themselves. Coach Tarquez keep doing what you doing
@upperiscopeUK3 жыл бұрын
Excellent and hilarious! Just what I needed this morning!
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
👊🏾
@EagleEye883 жыл бұрын
This is 100% motivational medicine! Just what I needed! I'm 2 weeks into no contact.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong brotha 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@EagleEye883 жыл бұрын
Staying strong and hitting the new gym. I went no contact right after the breakup. No pleading or begging, just told her I didnt want the breakup and to contact me if she changed her mind etc. Thats it! I've vanished ever since. Staying no contact indefinitrly. Thanks guys!
@023140663 жыл бұрын
@@EagleEye88 did it work bro
@angeloarcangel82853 жыл бұрын
Any update?
@kadenpackard13452 жыл бұрын
It’s been 2 weeks of no contact and I went to the gym with one of my friend girls and I saw my ex there. It hurt to see how good she was doing but I think she’s going through the relief, happiness phase because I did beg and plead for a couple of days.
@mr.smooth53092 жыл бұрын
Watch the33secrets youtube channel. It's been 3 weeks since she broke up with me, but the best way is to just forget about her, and even if she's coming back to not get her back. Move on my friend. If she left you once she will do it again. Watch that channel, you will understand more
@johnm85382 жыл бұрын
Great stuff!!!🦈....I'm still swimming forward non stop, shark mode every day.👍
@waynesalisbury3 жыл бұрын
Keep bringing the realness and humor👍 feel like you guys my big cousins sitting me down spitting realness 💪
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support Wayne! 🦈
@nitinmithra16513 жыл бұрын
Great Video... not many will understand this... but a reality... nicely described.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Respect !!! 🙏🏽
@aprilcobianchi28152 жыл бұрын
Two more two more videos because I was laughing my rear end off Brothers have a beautiful blessed day
@turinbaartman42423 жыл бұрын
Great video 😎😎I feel like a King 👑 after watching this video I gratuated from being a Prince to a King
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
That’s what’s up man !!! Keep that mind frame homie !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@schylerjohnson9216 Жыл бұрын
“We were doomed from the start cause I was never over Clarence” L M F A O 😂😂😂
@vickysam773 жыл бұрын
u guys Always Nail it 🔥😂 Entertaining & to the Point
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Much love Vicky!
@Blitt3013 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite videos from you guys. Thanks, keep it up!
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
We appreciate the support homie !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@limpin93743 жыл бұрын
Brother, my situation skipped a few things and went straight to malevolence 😂 Love video btw.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha it gets like that.
@sbw893 жыл бұрын
I like this video a lot. I walked away last night so it's interesting to hear about these stages
@deathly_hearts9 ай бұрын
I loved his aggressive preaching in the omnipotence part :3
@Silver-Lining11113 жыл бұрын
Haaalleluja 🙌🏼 T, next time preach it like the Preacher Scene from „Don't be a Menace“ 😁
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha You’re right. I should’ve done that! 😆
@thierryngoyi31883 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Coach O and that dance ! We need to close each video with a preach from Coach T Gents those guys are The Truth ....I got my powers back and more 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
That’s what’s up Thierry!
@ghlocal13 жыл бұрын
Love your channel. I went no contact because I want to move on and be done. Unfortunately I work with her. On top of that, she has a rebound. And the kicker, she tells my coworker that she misses me and that I’m her best friend. I just block her number and ignore her. Can’t fall for her tricks or get caught up in the drama!
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jason!
@michaelbozinovski93573 жыл бұрын
One week today, I dumped my fiancé last Friday and still have had no contact or text messages nor have I seen her! Staying 💪 thank you both for the truth! My advice to any guy on here is have the balls to walk away from a woman that’s not treating you properly!
@AaronTaylor-bx1zm Жыл бұрын
Great video bro… I’m going through no contact now as we speak it’s been 3 weeks so far and to be honest it hasn’t been easy.. but the most I practiced at it the easier it gets… now I’m planning different dates left and right!.. I feel like I got my swagger back!!. The for the information.. powerful stuff!!
@DJVibeDubstep3 жыл бұрын
Day 154 NC; just looked it up for this comment. Not sure where she stands she disappears and comes back. Posts frequently then doesn’t. Views almost all my stories and shit but then goes dark for awhile. Idk. I’m over her but her behavior is interesting.
@cashfirst4563 жыл бұрын
Same with me
@Exodia20242 жыл бұрын
Your videos are therapeutic. I used to watch your videos for insight but now I watch your videos to laugh lol you guys are amazing. Thank you!
@opusandtarquez2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching homie.
@alusme9682 жыл бұрын
I got help from Dr fred he helped me
@alusme9682 жыл бұрын
I can't believe it my ex is back
@kenkussman3 жыл бұрын
I just found you guys .... I like the way you dig down into relations. .... Thanks
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Respect !!! 🙏🏽 Thanks for the support
@kenkussman3 жыл бұрын
I just subscribed :)
@14kurtismiller3 жыл бұрын
Brother's, take it easy. You two are too honest. You two make me think that my ex Jaspertine, grandmoms Pearl Adams ain't gonna ever roll dice with me no more. I stopped going to Church because it's turned up, boomerang collection plates and what not. Pearl, rock your world won't speak to me on those streets so I don't know what else to do. I feel what yall saying though my brothers.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Jaspertine!!!! ☠️☠️☠️
@streetmoney3057 ай бұрын
You guys are something else😂so funny and am enjoying your podcast👌🏾
@eathanp20442 жыл бұрын
you two are fucking awesome. delivering facts but making me laugh and putting a smile on my face at the same time. definitely one of my favourite relationship coach channels. cheers lads 👍👍👍
@lennymcshits22883 жыл бұрын
Not everyone has Instagram. My ex and I are off social media. We have zero ways to track us in this regard.
@coreybeats33353 жыл бұрын
Do not chase , take time for YOURSELF and replace if you won’t too !!!!
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@Aek1985 Жыл бұрын
I like you brothers continue the good work
@jimtennison16 ай бұрын
You guys are great I enjoy your channel. No contact has been very effective for me and you guys bring in a lot of good points that I've tried and it's working she's been texting and calling and I'm not responding it's quite funny.
@Officialcg793 жыл бұрын
Yo you guys are the best. So much truthfulness and funny moments in these vids
@cletepurcel21803 жыл бұрын
Fantastic work, guys. Many thanks.
@ScarfaceFranckRibery3 жыл бұрын
The no contact rule only works in the woman’s favor. She is the one who dumps you.
@ScarfaceFranckRibery3 жыл бұрын
@Tev Al So fuck her and leave her be?
@shabbeerazeez92633 жыл бұрын
Best video yet!!! Awesome content. Keep up the great work guys :)
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
👊🏾
@amrmohsen4738 Жыл бұрын
Amazing video
@jasonconrady76773 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for saving my cockroach ass being an ass! I felt like the two of you was talking directly to me and now I’m doing the right thing.
@Amctothemoon3 жыл бұрын
Much respect guys
@autobahnwaybab76083 жыл бұрын
My name is Sanji. After watching this video I had to laugh because pretty much from the cockroach stage to no contact is what i did to my ex!! She blocked me everywhere but uses her fake insta Id to view my stories. I was on insta live with a girl recently and my ex was watching it on her fake Instagram Account and she sent a follow request but my friend didnt accept. YESTERDAY she sent a follow request to her actual account 😂. My brothers what stage is this? Still amazing video!
@TheTaotheawakenedone3 жыл бұрын
Friggin Connor and his Mustang
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
😆
@joeleggett4253 жыл бұрын
Right on time fellas! Thank y'all fr fr
@briannacrump79433 жыл бұрын
±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
@jo-glory9713 жыл бұрын
Naww my ex made a fake page too stalk me I ain’t went that far my ex had double standard I was doing wat she was doing too me and she couldn’t handle it
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
They definitely can’t handle it
@jo-glory9713 жыл бұрын
@@opusandtarquez I walk away and wen I did that it’s like the role. Reverse
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Like clockwork. 👊🏾
@DJVibeDubstep3 жыл бұрын
How you know it was her
@mmosley8492 Жыл бұрын
I not on no social media website, so that kind of helps out. They good friends with my sibling, it's been 3 months no contact and they been asking about me
@betska493 жыл бұрын
Love you guys. Just subscribed.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
👊🏾
@samhouse91433 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 y’all hilarious man. But all jokes aside my son’s mom and I don’t talk. We contact through her parents we it pertains to our child and I’m fine with that. The space and everything was needed. But she’s been viewing my IG story from a page she doesn’t follow me on. And her cousin and her little sister be watching my story too. I don’t try to contact her or anything because the situation isn’t healthy and I don’t wanna keep feeling like I’m a backup plan just in case whatever she’s doing don’t workout. My book self love book is selling and doing good, I got a better job opportunity, my businesses going good, been spending a lot of time with our son and doing what I have to for him and I’m joining the military and etc. Staying focused on my purpose.
@amhadyousef57973 жыл бұрын
Honestly no contact isn’t really for your ex. No contact does more good for you than anything l. When you get over your feelings you start to realize things you couldn’t before because you were clouded by feelings and such.
@terronb3 жыл бұрын
Notification Squaaaaaaaaad!!!!
@mxsharkgang32463 жыл бұрын
So I assume this will work on men as well? Great video gentlemen. I'm on 3 weeks of NC. It was short term but the attraction & attachment was strong. We worked together & lived together. I moved out by my own choice even though he was the dumper. I saw no reason to stay when he stopped doing his part. 3rd party involved & I think I was the bandaid even though he didnt admit. I'm working out to distract myself. Training myself to hate him to get over it quicker. It hurts like hell but what can I do. Radio silence now. I dont do social media either so I just fell face from the earth.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Yup
@mxsharkgang32463 жыл бұрын
@@opusandtarquez thank you very much
@goldengun99703 жыл бұрын
Depends on the guy. If after me you are intimate with someone else (your not in trouble for cheating) no way are you ever going to be with me again
@ChrisLT3 жыл бұрын
Man, after that ending... my name's Chris but I feel like changing it to Christ.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
😆
@isaiahwilliams8454 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@brego123173 жыл бұрын
Love it! The truth!
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@Stomper6043 жыл бұрын
Glad I found your channel.. much love from vegas.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Much respect, Stomper!
@gtcam7233 жыл бұрын
I just told the one that friendzoned me that the friends thing wasn’t working but let me know if she changed her mind on the romantic side and I was walking away. Now I just need to figure out how to interact with her at the weekly social gatherings.
@whiteranger793 жыл бұрын
Just be respectful. Say hi and keep it moving and talk to other girls.
@gtcam7233 жыл бұрын
@@whiteranger79 she’ll probably come in for a hug. Considered treating her like a bratty little sister when she approaches me. Zero intention of approaching her or giving her attention when she’s not directly interacting with me. Maybe I’m wrong on my theory.
@zionze29853 жыл бұрын
Best video ever..
@oupsi0033 жыл бұрын
😂.... I m a woman and yes, everything is right, i m in period of no contact and i reverse the role! I m feel so good, the first 1week i suffered too much. And he send pe a message for said me he missed me and i enjoyed knowing now, it s him turn to become crazy! But anyway thanks for the psychology and make me smile
@ginzo6663 жыл бұрын
You guys are hilarious!
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
😂
@Navy-ix8wo3 жыл бұрын
Respect !
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
👊🏾
@MrShoman12122 жыл бұрын
She's dating a new guy and doing the things we planned doing together, wished her well. I'm off on my path, it hurts but I'm not looking at the rearview mirror. It's been a month now
@mxsharkgang32463 жыл бұрын
I need the end preach as a ring tone 😂
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
😆
@Exodia20242 жыл бұрын
lmao how does she go from an evil human being to "Hey big head :P"??? hahahhahahah I cannot imagine my ex making a 180 degree switch like that lol This girl needs to have huuuuuuge balls to do that lol
@CougheyCup2 жыл бұрын
I’m currently in the no contact stage (week 2) but she’s completely cut me off by blocking my number and on social media. I’m working on becoming happy again for myself but if she never sees my progress how can she be attracted to me again? Also wondering if I’d even want her back if I found out she slept around during our break. I can’t take someone back just because running around didn’t work out for her… that makes me plan B
@CougheyCup2 жыл бұрын
Update… I used to be that nice guy but now I’m treating women how they deserve to be treated. Not giving a fuck and focusing on myself has girls messaging me first. Funny thing is I don’t want em lol
@davidpetersen96033 жыл бұрын
Blue Ford Mustang and his name is Conner.... funny!
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
😂
@carlosrosado95603 жыл бұрын
They might aswell just move on if they see tarquavian
@juanrivera43122 жыл бұрын
BRETHREN'S YA'LL remind ME OF Ghost & Rae how they take chance going back and forth giving KNOWLEDGE...🙏 VIRGIN ISLANDS PEACE ✊✊✊
@ianwilson90383 жыл бұрын
Absolutely brilliant!!!
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ian!!
@whiteranger793 жыл бұрын
This must works when the hookup culture have more guys for fwb then relationship
@afblack36123 жыл бұрын
Preach brothers preach amen 😂😂😂😎
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@hogdawg9112 жыл бұрын
Im in 3 months no contact she reached out so many times but I say no talk to you later baby I don’t need that headache
@silasadedoyin47333 жыл бұрын
Nah, y'all make me feel so good frrr 😂😂😂😂😂
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
👍🏾
@ryan82713 жыл бұрын
I suggest listening tothe song by E40 "back in business" to motivate you to level up and forget about your ex. It's worked for me. 🤘💯
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Good drop. 40 Water is that dude
@TranceCore33 жыл бұрын
Ayo shout outs to uncle 40 water
@ryan82713 жыл бұрын
@@opusandtarquez yessir. Miss dinglewinkle approved.
@michaelroca30973 жыл бұрын
My ex "accidentally" sent a package to my house. Keep in mind she moved out 6 months ago. What are the changes that was a way for me to try to contact her? I feel it was planned.
@hassunassu45113 жыл бұрын
Was it? It can be automatic form fill aswell
@michaelroca30973 жыл бұрын
@@hassunassu4511 possible. But she moved out 5 months prior to that
@hassunassu45113 жыл бұрын
@@michaelroca3097 i mean its 50/50 hope you let her call you. I still have 3 diffrent locations to select when i order fresh clothes 😬
@TexasGirl-Z713 жыл бұрын
That’s definitely a good idea if she was trying to get you back!
@assplundah Жыл бұрын
@@TexasGirl-Z71 definitely manipulative, yes!
@SasukeUchiha-tj3qe3 жыл бұрын
Why did a girl that ghosted me get mad at me when i walked away and did not chase her then proceed to stalk me in the gym then unadd me from snap months later?
@redman67903 жыл бұрын
U got that girl in your palms king
@SasukeUchiha-tj3qe3 жыл бұрын
@@redman6790 how she unadded me from snapchat because i knew my worth and did not chase her. What should i do?
@redman67903 жыл бұрын
@@SasukeUchiha-tj3qe she finna chase u bro trust me u keep grinding. Its all part of the plan lol
@TranceCore33 жыл бұрын
because she's a psycho lol
@3l.Buho.Kuernudo3 жыл бұрын
U have her on ur Palms bro 😂 she tryna get yo attention to reach out to her cuz she unadded u
@IndiansAuto3 жыл бұрын
Bro!! My ex left, i asked her if i should move on and nothing. A whole month nothing just ghosted me, read my messages and all. Left me on seen. Her friend is on onlyfans segging and putting her whole fist in her 🐱 lmao. That’s who convinced her to leave.. saying her bf doesn’t act like me lol. How the hell does her BF compares to me?!
@jeffthomason72573 жыл бұрын
I love these guys!! ya'll rock
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Much appreciated Jeff!
@miguelberetta78872 жыл бұрын
We broke up about a month ago, but we would still talk and sometimes feel like we'd get back together and then not. She called me today to talk. We both go salsa dancing, so anytime she would see me, she was all over me but would flake on plans. I was a dick to her in the relationship BUT because she had no respect for my time, she was always late and she still does that shit. So when she called today, I told her today that I'm down to try to work it out, but all contact and dancing stops. She started crying and said that that's not right but she can't forget all the mean things I said in the past So here I am now.
@crash70983 жыл бұрын
Or... the EX shacks up with a pharmacist a month after she breaks up with you and has a way better life with a cool guy with money, and I’m left realizing I have nothing to offer. 🙁
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
It won’t last long.
@crash70983 жыл бұрын
I watch your vids for the lnfo and optimism. They help a lot. Thanks so much. But, this pharmacist is 8yrs younger then her and moved into her place! Ha
@jimdaniel44123 жыл бұрын
@@crash7098 work on you..dont beat yourself up..or she wins..its a game..and you have to play..