DARK SECRETS About The No Contact Rule Stages

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Coach Opus & Coach Tarquez

Coach Opus & Coach Tarquez

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@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
If you’re struggling with your breakup, book a coaching session here ---> www.blackbookbasics.com/privatecoaching
@daver1161
@daver1161 8 ай бұрын
Took me two months of no contact. I decided to call her and she was in tears within a minute. We have a date set for this weekend.
@rwentfordable
@rwentfordable Жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree with the obedience part. They need to come back with real humility and get on your level.
@brandone4446
@brandone4446 3 жыл бұрын
Listening to y'all regularly is like talking to my bruhs...there's something great about that positive reinforcement & support from OUR perspective ...MUCH APPRECIATED and keep up the good work. Y'all have truly helped me through some dark shit! Now I'm living life and paying attention to things I've put on the backburner for a minute, mainly myself! Much love! ✊🏽
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Much love Brandon! 👊🏾
@MikeTX
@MikeTX 3 жыл бұрын
Brandon, same! These guys feel like they’re talking to me directly. Don’t be a cockroach. Keep doing the work. Improve ourselves. Flip the script. But for us. Not for them.
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
It’s comments like these that keep us pushing. Thank You !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@thierryngoyi3188
@thierryngoyi3188 3 жыл бұрын
@brandon You said it all my brother These guys are The Truth I've graduated to a King with girls who are better than my ex !
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Good shit man !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@Tagikakibau
@Tagikakibau 2 жыл бұрын
What. A. Video 👏 Six weeks today since she ended things and it's day 30 today of NC. Was tempted to message her earlier, but this video will keep me going on NC for another 30, by which time I will have found someone better!
@henkesandberg6004
@henkesandberg6004 3 жыл бұрын
Over 2 months without my ex. 10 kgs down in Weight. And a whole new look at life and so much self-love. Fuck my ex. Im Going for a better woman 🤙🏻 love from sweden 🙌🏻🔥keep up the good work. You are funny as hell 😂
@TheOnemanr1ot
@TheOnemanr1ot 3 жыл бұрын
its hard she just seems so happy. but 3 months NC i found out from a mcdonalds employee that she is mad cause she thinks im dating someone. she dumped me though? women LOL
@CalvnCxsting
@CalvnCxsting 3 жыл бұрын
You made me lol w this one, she'll come back to ya my guy. My ex jus did after 5 months, now I gotta decide if I still want her
@CalvnCxsting
@CalvnCxsting 3 жыл бұрын
@CEBI I don't understand it either! She said there's a lot she wants to apologize for, I told her I just wanted to catch up not talk about what happened. This Sunday she's making me dinner at her place and if she's truly sorry she'll make an attempt to apologize. We spoke on the phone so I could schedule the meetup & she said how she was super depressed in February, didn't say it was because of the breakup so idk. She didn't exactly leave me but we were arguing a lot and we were both fed up. I kicked her out after she got physically abusive one night. So she got her own place and then another argument before she left ended with her hitting my car.. I can understand the stress she had from work but to hit my car?? I can't trust she won't betray me like that again in the future. I think it's best we both move on, even though I still love her. I'll update you monday my guy. I'd like to hear more about your situation, did you take your ex back?
@Amctothemoon
@Amctothemoon 3 жыл бұрын
@CEBI It’s called the grass is not greener on the other side , it might be for a while , in the end they all regret leaving a good guy who treated them well
@Alxndr.vincnt
@Alxndr.vincnt 3 жыл бұрын
that was climatic lmao that preaching at the end. oooof my heart. PURE STRENGTH
@briannacrump7943
@briannacrump7943 3 жыл бұрын
±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
@J.FROST19
@J.FROST19 3 жыл бұрын
One thing I learned as young man is if you do everything right(yes I know no one is perfect) that shit has nothing to do with you!! Especially if your the catch! Some women be battling insecurities etc so just leave! If she comes back cool but make sure she’s changed if not then ✌🏾
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
That’s a fact 👊🏾
@jimdaniel4412
@jimdaniel4412 3 жыл бұрын
3 months no contact..i didnt initiate so its been easy not talking to somebody who blocks you and uses silent treatment to punish..i didnt act needy..didnt chase..but i called her out and put her in her place the last time we spoke....if they dont reach out..someone else will..this shit is funny..it sucks in the beginning but if they leave you..it really is an opportunity for something better..
@childofgod7455
@childofgod7455 Жыл бұрын
Did she ever reach out
@jimdaniel4412
@jimdaniel4412 Жыл бұрын
@@childofgod7455 no and Im glad she got engaged to another guy in less than a year and then bailed on that guy and is engaged again. I met someone who is actually an adult and happier since. Im in my 40s I hate games im quick to put em on ice and move on
@JacquesJakeFrechette
@JacquesJakeFrechette 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are fantastic. A man's man. A whole pile of cool
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Much Respect !!! 🙏🏽 We appreciate you watching Jake !!!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@videowilliams
@videowilliams 10 ай бұрын
Poetry, gentlemen! I found I could put the name of a living ex to each stage you described.
@stuntmanfftfs3829
@stuntmanfftfs3829 3 жыл бұрын
My EX GF broke up with me for no reason stated. I since then deactivated all my social media accounts and have not talked to her for 3 months. Last I heard she has been doing things we had planned together. Like traveling to places we planned to go... and interacting with other men. Still in no contact and working on myself.. still hurting. Shit is tough.
@stuntmanfftfs3829
@stuntmanfftfs3829 3 жыл бұрын
I really think she is trying to send a message and get under my skin traveling to those places. And posting rapidly on social media. She is pissed rn.
@gillyvibes1224
@gillyvibes1224 3 жыл бұрын
@@stuntmanfftfs3829 you should’ve want to long to tell her how you feel after giving her space. If you love her reach out
@stuntmanfftfs3829
@stuntmanfftfs3829 3 жыл бұрын
@@gillyvibes1224 She kept lying to me about why she wanted to break up. I asked her if another guy was involved she denied that.. She told me she didn’t want me anymore she felt like she was settling and she bounced lol. She reached out to try to give me items I forgot I even had at her place.. I ignored her left her messages on read.. I didn’t want to entertain her and play games. She has been contacting my mom from time to time texting her. Checking in.. I think the girl feels sorry for me.. I have picked up more hobbies.. lost a bunch of weight.. and still continuing no contact. This shit keeps eating at me. I did everything right but it still wasn’t enough. I guess I got too damn comfortable.. IDK Man I hate this heart break shit I’m still sick right now and it’s been 4 months
@gillyvibes1224
@gillyvibes1224 3 жыл бұрын
@@stuntmanfftfs3829 they always going deny talking to another guy. Her reaching out to your mom showing the NC is working. She want to know what’s going on with you since the break up. It’s really good that you’re working out & keeping yourself busy. Also don’t forget we’re human & it’s ok to have human feelings on what you want. I’m not saying go chase her but if you truly believe it’ something that wasn’t said that could help maybe fix things then why not
@stuntmanfftfs3829
@stuntmanfftfs3829 3 жыл бұрын
@@gillyvibes1224 You’re right. I just get the feeling she will say these words again. “I’m sorry. I don’t know what to say.” Or she will keep lying.
@flamesurfer
@flamesurfer 3 жыл бұрын
Content is blowing up fellas! Almost exactly a year to the point where I rejected the friend zone and went onto a more rugged form of no contact (ignoring the f out of her). Aligned with your excellent video I am now in the stage where she contacts me almost every day with those messages that she can't be rejected from. Her interest levels are rising but I am now king status and I don't need no peasent. Might just smash if the opportunity presents itself. 💎🙌🏻
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
That’s fantastic! 👊🏾
@darwincollado8993
@darwincollado8993 3 жыл бұрын
Be careful! Smashing might set you back a long time! Just keep on moving! Smash Something New
@flamesurfer
@flamesurfer 3 жыл бұрын
@@darwincollado8993 man is speaking sense 💪🏻
@donlothario8584
@donlothario8584 3 жыл бұрын
This was your most captivating video thus far brothers. Your style pulls the viewer in and entrances us in what you're saying...I didn't even notice I had crossed 10 minutes. This is so relatable too it felt like you were spelling out my story. You are leveling up and I love that I'm one of the OG subscribers watching it happen! Powerful ✊
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Thanks Don. We’re familiar...you’re one of the Day 1s! Thanks for the support!!!
@nickpalmer9382
@nickpalmer9382 3 жыл бұрын
i’m back after 5 months no contact. shes back. advice to all the boys. MOVE ON. i stopped watching no contact and started talking to other girls and building my rotation. it came to the point where u completely blocked her out of my life and forgot about her. last weekend I saw her a concert, we talked made out and i took her home. we have another date set up for next week. I am currently dating 2 other chicks who i like a lot so i am probably not even going to let her come back. she can probably feel this vibe from me which is what led to her trying to get me back in the first place. stay strong boys meditate work on yourself i promise she will be back, once you actually move on.
@ericjay249
@ericjay249 3 жыл бұрын
good job!
@eathanp2044
@eathanp2044 2 жыл бұрын
which meditations did you do?
@Happy-Me.
@Happy-Me. Жыл бұрын
Yes it usually happens that way that they come back when you have someone else!
@daver1161
@daver1161 10 ай бұрын
They come back with the scent of another man. And all those fun experiences she had with him she’ll lie and say that it was her “friends” that she was with. For anyone who is prone to anxiety, start using ashwaghanda. Great mood stabilizer.
@terronb
@terronb 3 жыл бұрын
Yall took it to church at the end. Amen! Tabernacle!!!
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@bp6167
@bp6167 3 жыл бұрын
Managed to stumble on this channel and watched a few videos. This is your Fortè my brothers. This content is gold to give men what they've long since forgotten - instinctual strength by nature. The reason this stands out to me is your raw chemistry as a duo too drop these gems of insight. Though I do disagree on one thing. The white dude does drive a Mustang, it IS electric blue but his name is definitely a kyle haha. Kyle, Connor and Corey.
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Instinctual strength by nature. Very well said brother!
@daspam6526
@daspam6526 3 жыл бұрын
the black vs white "new guy" description was hilarious as fuck. Damn Connor is spot on.
@SuperMIKEMIZZLE
@SuperMIKEMIZZLE 3 жыл бұрын
The this is tho if you take an Ex back they will corporate until they see that they got you then they will resort back to old Behaviors
@VENADO_MAZISO
@VENADO_MAZISO 3 жыл бұрын
Theres no way of getting back into old behaviours. The only time that happens is if you dont fully heal in the time of no contact. If you've fully healed there is no old behaviours
@Giovanni-01
@Giovanni-01 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I agree. I think , if we have put in months of work, I don't think they deserve that better version of you.
@jacobsclar
@jacobsclar 2 жыл бұрын
This was so healthy for me to hear. Thank you. Hell YES 🔥🔥
@sinfool6585
@sinfool6585 3 жыл бұрын
Holy hell...without the violence, this has pretty much described my recent break-up to a tee, except it happened without the NCR. We've tried to stay friends since, as expats, finding people who truly understand what it's like to live in a foreign country is a rare thing. But, man...these stages happened and went back & forth so much that I went into one hell of a depression and am still fighting my way out of it. I honestly wish I would've went NCR from the get-go and saved myself 2 months of her wanting to get back together and changing her mind at the drop of a hat 3 times. I even got cut-up, but it doesn't mean much since we can't gather due to Lockdowns and, TBH, I'm honestly still not in a place to give someone else a chance after this mess. I'm damned grateful for these videos, guys. Thank you from the bottom of my beatdown'ed-assed heart. LOL
@franciscoterrero3
@franciscoterrero3 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Fellas, ya rocked today!!!! By far the best video 🙌🙌🙌🙌
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Much love Francisco! 👊🏾
@solverf2714
@solverf2714 11 ай бұрын
Absolutely love you guys message, you have made people laugh during challenging times while giving viewers good advice to better themselves. Coach Tarquez keep doing what you doing
@upperiscopeUK
@upperiscopeUK 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent and hilarious! Just what I needed this morning!
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
👊🏾
@EagleEye88
@EagleEye88 3 жыл бұрын
This is 100% motivational medicine! Just what I needed! I'm 2 weeks into no contact.
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong brotha 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@EagleEye88
@EagleEye88 3 жыл бұрын
Staying strong and hitting the new gym. I went no contact right after the breakup. No pleading or begging, just told her I didnt want the breakup and to contact me if she changed her mind etc. Thats it! I've vanished ever since. Staying no contact indefinitrly. Thanks guys!
@02314066
@02314066 3 жыл бұрын
@@EagleEye88 did it work bro
@angeloarcangel8285
@angeloarcangel8285 3 жыл бұрын
Any update?
@kadenpackard1345
@kadenpackard1345 2 жыл бұрын
It’s been 2 weeks of no contact and I went to the gym with one of my friend girls and I saw my ex there. It hurt to see how good she was doing but I think she’s going through the relief, happiness phase because I did beg and plead for a couple of days.
@mr.smooth5309
@mr.smooth5309 2 жыл бұрын
Watch the33secrets youtube channel. It's been 3 weeks since she broke up with me, but the best way is to just forget about her, and even if she's coming back to not get her back. Move on my friend. If she left you once she will do it again. Watch that channel, you will understand more
@johnm8538
@johnm8538 2 жыл бұрын
Great stuff!!!🦈....I'm still swimming forward non stop, shark mode every day.👍
@waynesalisbury
@waynesalisbury 3 жыл бұрын
Keep bringing the realness and humor👍 feel like you guys my big cousins sitting me down spitting realness 💪
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support Wayne! 🦈
@nitinmithra1651
@nitinmithra1651 3 жыл бұрын
Great Video... not many will understand this... but a reality... nicely described.
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Respect !!! 🙏🏽
@aprilcobianchi2815
@aprilcobianchi2815 2 жыл бұрын
Two more two more videos because I was laughing my rear end off Brothers have a beautiful blessed day
@turinbaartman4242
@turinbaartman4242 3 жыл бұрын
Great video 😎😎I feel like a King 👑 after watching this video I gratuated from being a Prince to a King
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
That’s what’s up man !!! Keep that mind frame homie !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@schylerjohnson9216
@schylerjohnson9216 Жыл бұрын
“We were doomed from the start cause I was never over Clarence” L M F A O 😂😂😂
@vickysam77
@vickysam77 3 жыл бұрын
u guys Always Nail it 🔥😂 Entertaining & to the Point
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Much love Vicky!
@Blitt301
@Blitt301 3 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite videos from you guys. Thanks, keep it up!
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
We appreciate the support homie !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@limpin9374
@limpin9374 3 жыл бұрын
Brother, my situation skipped a few things and went straight to malevolence 😂 Love video btw.
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha it gets like that.
@sbw89
@sbw89 3 жыл бұрын
I like this video a lot. I walked away last night so it's interesting to hear about these stages
@deathly_hearts
@deathly_hearts 9 ай бұрын
I loved his aggressive preaching in the omnipotence part :3
@Silver-Lining1111
@Silver-Lining1111 3 жыл бұрын
Haaalleluja 🙌🏼 T, next time preach it like the Preacher Scene from „Don't be a Menace“ 😁
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha You’re right. I should’ve done that! 😆
@thierryngoyi3188
@thierryngoyi3188 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Coach O and that dance ! We need to close each video with a preach from Coach T Gents those guys are The Truth ....I got my powers back and more 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
That’s what’s up Thierry!
@ghlocal1
@ghlocal1 3 жыл бұрын
Love your channel. I went no contact because I want to move on and be done. Unfortunately I work with her. On top of that, she has a rebound. And the kicker, she tells my coworker that she misses me and that I’m her best friend. I just block her number and ignore her. Can’t fall for her tricks or get caught up in the drama!
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jason!
@michaelbozinovski9357
@michaelbozinovski9357 3 жыл бұрын
One week today, I dumped my fiancé last Friday and still have had no contact or text messages nor have I seen her! Staying 💪 thank you both for the truth! My advice to any guy on here is have the balls to walk away from a woman that’s not treating you properly!
@AaronTaylor-bx1zm
@AaronTaylor-bx1zm Жыл бұрын
Great video bro… I’m going through no contact now as we speak it’s been 3 weeks so far and to be honest it hasn’t been easy.. but the most I practiced at it the easier it gets… now I’m planning different dates left and right!.. I feel like I got my swagger back!!. The for the information.. powerful stuff!!
@DJVibeDubstep
@DJVibeDubstep 3 жыл бұрын
Day 154 NC; just looked it up for this comment. Not sure where she stands she disappears and comes back. Posts frequently then doesn’t. Views almost all my stories and shit but then goes dark for awhile. Idk. I’m over her but her behavior is interesting.
@cashfirst456
@cashfirst456 3 жыл бұрын
Same with me
@Exodia2024
@Exodia2024 2 жыл бұрын
Your videos are therapeutic. I used to watch your videos for insight but now I watch your videos to laugh lol you guys are amazing. Thank you!
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching homie.
@alusme968
@alusme968 2 жыл бұрын
I got help from Dr fred he helped me
@alusme968
@alusme968 2 жыл бұрын
I can't believe it my ex is back
@kenkussman
@kenkussman 3 жыл бұрын
I just found you guys .... I like the way you dig down into relations. .... Thanks
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Respect !!! 🙏🏽 Thanks for the support
@kenkussman
@kenkussman 3 жыл бұрын
I just subscribed :)
@14kurtismiller
@14kurtismiller 3 жыл бұрын
Brother's, take it easy. You two are too honest. You two make me think that my ex Jaspertine, grandmoms Pearl Adams ain't gonna ever roll dice with me no more. I stopped going to Church because it's turned up, boomerang collection plates and what not. Pearl, rock your world won't speak to me on those streets so I don't know what else to do. I feel what yall saying though my brothers.
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Jaspertine!!!! ☠️☠️☠️
@streetmoney305
@streetmoney305 7 ай бұрын
You guys are something else😂so funny and am enjoying your podcast👌🏾
@eathanp2044
@eathanp2044 2 жыл бұрын
you two are fucking awesome. delivering facts but making me laugh and putting a smile on my face at the same time. definitely one of my favourite relationship coach channels. cheers lads 👍👍👍
@lennymcshits2288
@lennymcshits2288 3 жыл бұрын
Not everyone has Instagram. My ex and I are off social media. We have zero ways to track us in this regard.
@coreybeats3335
@coreybeats3335 3 жыл бұрын
Do not chase , take time for YOURSELF and replace if you won’t too !!!!
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@Aek1985
@Aek1985 Жыл бұрын
I like you brothers continue the good work
@jimtennison1
@jimtennison1 6 ай бұрын
You guys are great I enjoy your channel. No contact has been very effective for me and you guys bring in a lot of good points that I've tried and it's working she's been texting and calling and I'm not responding it's quite funny.
@Officialcg79
@Officialcg79 3 жыл бұрын
Yo you guys are the best. So much truthfulness and funny moments in these vids
@cletepurcel2180
@cletepurcel2180 3 жыл бұрын
Fantastic work, guys. Many thanks.
@ScarfaceFranckRibery
@ScarfaceFranckRibery 3 жыл бұрын
The no contact rule only works in the woman’s favor. She is the one who dumps you.
@ScarfaceFranckRibery
@ScarfaceFranckRibery 3 жыл бұрын
@Tev Al So fuck her and leave her be?
@shabbeerazeez9263
@shabbeerazeez9263 3 жыл бұрын
Best video yet!!! Awesome content. Keep up the great work guys :)
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
👊🏾
@amrmohsen4738
@amrmohsen4738 Жыл бұрын
Amazing video
@jasonconrady7677
@jasonconrady7677 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for saving my cockroach ass being an ass! I felt like the two of you was talking directly to me and now I’m doing the right thing.
@Amctothemoon
@Amctothemoon 3 жыл бұрын
Much respect guys
@autobahnwaybab7608
@autobahnwaybab7608 3 жыл бұрын
My name is Sanji. After watching this video I had to laugh because pretty much from the cockroach stage to no contact is what i did to my ex!! She blocked me everywhere but uses her fake insta Id to view my stories. I was on insta live with a girl recently and my ex was watching it on her fake Instagram Account and she sent a follow request but my friend didnt accept. YESTERDAY she sent a follow request to her actual account 😂. My brothers what stage is this? Still amazing video!
@TheTaotheawakenedone
@TheTaotheawakenedone 3 жыл бұрын
Friggin Connor and his Mustang
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
😆
@joeleggett425
@joeleggett425 3 жыл бұрын
Right on time fellas! Thank y'all fr fr
@briannacrump7943
@briannacrump7943 3 жыл бұрын
±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
@jo-glory971
@jo-glory971 3 жыл бұрын
Naww my ex made a fake page too stalk me I ain’t went that far my ex had double standard I was doing wat she was doing too me and she couldn’t handle it
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
They definitely can’t handle it
@jo-glory971
@jo-glory971 3 жыл бұрын
@@opusandtarquez I walk away and wen I did that it’s like the role. Reverse
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Like clockwork. 👊🏾
@DJVibeDubstep
@DJVibeDubstep 3 жыл бұрын
How you know it was her
@mmosley8492
@mmosley8492 Жыл бұрын
I not on no social media website, so that kind of helps out. They good friends with my sibling, it's been 3 months no contact and they been asking about me
@betska49
@betska49 3 жыл бұрын
Love you guys. Just subscribed.
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
👊🏾
@samhouse9143
@samhouse9143 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 y’all hilarious man. But all jokes aside my son’s mom and I don’t talk. We contact through her parents we it pertains to our child and I’m fine with that. The space and everything was needed. But she’s been viewing my IG story from a page she doesn’t follow me on. And her cousin and her little sister be watching my story too. I don’t try to contact her or anything because the situation isn’t healthy and I don’t wanna keep feeling like I’m a backup plan just in case whatever she’s doing don’t workout. My book self love book is selling and doing good, I got a better job opportunity, my businesses going good, been spending a lot of time with our son and doing what I have to for him and I’m joining the military and etc. Staying focused on my purpose.
@amhadyousef5797
@amhadyousef5797 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly no contact isn’t really for your ex. No contact does more good for you than anything l. When you get over your feelings you start to realize things you couldn’t before because you were clouded by feelings and such.
@terronb
@terronb 3 жыл бұрын
Notification Squaaaaaaaaad!!!!
@mxsharkgang3246
@mxsharkgang3246 3 жыл бұрын
So I assume this will work on men as well? Great video gentlemen. I'm on 3 weeks of NC. It was short term but the attraction & attachment was strong. We worked together & lived together. I moved out by my own choice even though he was the dumper. I saw no reason to stay when he stopped doing his part. 3rd party involved & I think I was the bandaid even though he didnt admit. I'm working out to distract myself. Training myself to hate him to get over it quicker. It hurts like hell but what can I do. Radio silence now. I dont do social media either so I just fell face from the earth.
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Yup
@mxsharkgang3246
@mxsharkgang3246 3 жыл бұрын
@@opusandtarquez thank you very much
@goldengun9970
@goldengun9970 3 жыл бұрын
Depends on the guy. If after me you are intimate with someone else (your not in trouble for cheating) no way are you ever going to be with me again
@ChrisLT
@ChrisLT 3 жыл бұрын
Man, after that ending... my name's Chris but I feel like changing it to Christ.
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
😆
@isaiahwilliams8454
@isaiahwilliams8454 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@brego12317
@brego12317 3 жыл бұрын
Love it! The truth!
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@Stomper604
@Stomper604 3 жыл бұрын
Glad I found your channel.. much love from vegas.
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Much respect, Stomper!
@gtcam723
@gtcam723 3 жыл бұрын
I just told the one that friendzoned me that the friends thing wasn’t working but let me know if she changed her mind on the romantic side and I was walking away. Now I just need to figure out how to interact with her at the weekly social gatherings.
@whiteranger79
@whiteranger79 3 жыл бұрын
Just be respectful. Say hi and keep it moving and talk to other girls.
@gtcam723
@gtcam723 3 жыл бұрын
@@whiteranger79 she’ll probably come in for a hug. Considered treating her like a bratty little sister when she approaches me. Zero intention of approaching her or giving her attention when she’s not directly interacting with me. Maybe I’m wrong on my theory.
@zionze2985
@zionze2985 3 жыл бұрын
Best video ever..
@oupsi003
@oupsi003 3 жыл бұрын
😂.... I m a woman and yes, everything is right, i m in period of no contact and i reverse the role! I m feel so good, the first 1week i suffered too much. And he send pe a message for said me he missed me and i enjoyed knowing now, it s him turn to become crazy! But anyway thanks for the psychology and make me smile
@ginzo666
@ginzo666 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are hilarious!
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@Navy-ix8wo
@Navy-ix8wo 3 жыл бұрын
Respect !
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
👊🏾
@MrShoman1212
@MrShoman1212 2 жыл бұрын
She's dating a new guy and doing the things we planned doing together, wished her well. I'm off on my path, it hurts but I'm not looking at the rearview mirror. It's been a month now
@mxsharkgang3246
@mxsharkgang3246 3 жыл бұрын
I need the end preach as a ring tone 😂
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
😆
@Exodia2024
@Exodia2024 2 жыл бұрын
lmao how does she go from an evil human being to "Hey big head :P"??? hahahhahahah I cannot imagine my ex making a 180 degree switch like that lol This girl needs to have huuuuuuge balls to do that lol
@CougheyCup
@CougheyCup 2 жыл бұрын
I’m currently in the no contact stage (week 2) but she’s completely cut me off by blocking my number and on social media. I’m working on becoming happy again for myself but if she never sees my progress how can she be attracted to me again? Also wondering if I’d even want her back if I found out she slept around during our break. I can’t take someone back just because running around didn’t work out for her… that makes me plan B
@CougheyCup
@CougheyCup 2 жыл бұрын
Update… I used to be that nice guy but now I’m treating women how they deserve to be treated. Not giving a fuck and focusing on myself has girls messaging me first. Funny thing is I don’t want em lol
@davidpetersen9603
@davidpetersen9603 3 жыл бұрын
Blue Ford Mustang and his name is Conner.... funny!
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@carlosrosado9560
@carlosrosado9560 3 жыл бұрын
They might aswell just move on if they see tarquavian
@juanrivera4312
@juanrivera4312 2 жыл бұрын
BRETHREN'S YA'LL remind ME OF Ghost & Rae how they take chance going back and forth giving KNOWLEDGE...🙏 VIRGIN ISLANDS PEACE ✊✊✊
@ianwilson9038
@ianwilson9038 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely brilliant!!!
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ian!!
@whiteranger79
@whiteranger79 3 жыл бұрын
This must works when the hookup culture have more guys for fwb then relationship
@afblack3612
@afblack3612 3 жыл бұрын
Preach brothers preach amen 😂😂😂😎
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@hogdawg911
@hogdawg911 2 жыл бұрын
Im in 3 months no contact she reached out so many times but I say no talk to you later baby I don’t need that headache
@silasadedoyin4733
@silasadedoyin4733 3 жыл бұрын
Nah, y'all make me feel so good frrr 😂😂😂😂😂
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
👍🏾
@ryan8271
@ryan8271 3 жыл бұрын
I suggest listening tothe song by E40 "back in business" to motivate you to level up and forget about your ex. It's worked for me. 🤘💯
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Good drop. 40 Water is that dude
@TranceCore3
@TranceCore3 3 жыл бұрын
Ayo shout outs to uncle 40 water
@ryan8271
@ryan8271 3 жыл бұрын
@@opusandtarquez yessir. Miss dinglewinkle approved.
@michaelroca3097
@michaelroca3097 3 жыл бұрын
My ex "accidentally" sent a package to my house. Keep in mind she moved out 6 months ago. What are the changes that was a way for me to try to contact her? I feel it was planned.
@hassunassu4511
@hassunassu4511 3 жыл бұрын
Was it? It can be automatic form fill aswell
@michaelroca3097
@michaelroca3097 3 жыл бұрын
@@hassunassu4511 possible. But she moved out 5 months prior to that
@hassunassu4511
@hassunassu4511 3 жыл бұрын
@@michaelroca3097 i mean its 50/50 hope you let her call you. I still have 3 diffrent locations to select when i order fresh clothes 😬
@TexasGirl-Z71
@TexasGirl-Z71 3 жыл бұрын
That’s definitely a good idea if she was trying to get you back!
@assplundah
@assplundah Жыл бұрын
@@TexasGirl-Z71 definitely manipulative, yes!
@SasukeUchiha-tj3qe
@SasukeUchiha-tj3qe 3 жыл бұрын
Why did a girl that ghosted me get mad at me when i walked away and did not chase her then proceed to stalk me in the gym then unadd me from snap months later?
@redman6790
@redman6790 3 жыл бұрын
U got that girl in your palms king
@SasukeUchiha-tj3qe
@SasukeUchiha-tj3qe 3 жыл бұрын
@@redman6790 how she unadded me from snapchat because i knew my worth and did not chase her. What should i do?
@redman6790
@redman6790 3 жыл бұрын
@@SasukeUchiha-tj3qe she finna chase u bro trust me u keep grinding. Its all part of the plan lol
@TranceCore3
@TranceCore3 3 жыл бұрын
because she's a psycho lol
@3l.Buho.Kuernudo
@3l.Buho.Kuernudo 3 жыл бұрын
U have her on ur Palms bro 😂 she tryna get yo attention to reach out to her cuz she unadded u
@IndiansAuto
@IndiansAuto 3 жыл бұрын
Bro!! My ex left, i asked her if i should move on and nothing. A whole month nothing just ghosted me, read my messages and all. Left me on seen. Her friend is on onlyfans segging and putting her whole fist in her 🐱 lmao. That’s who convinced her to leave.. saying her bf doesn’t act like me lol. How the hell does her BF compares to me?!
@jeffthomason7257
@jeffthomason7257 3 жыл бұрын
I love these guys!! ya'll rock
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
Much appreciated Jeff!
@miguelberetta7887
@miguelberetta7887 2 жыл бұрын
We broke up about a month ago, but we would still talk and sometimes feel like we'd get back together and then not. She called me today to talk. We both go salsa dancing, so anytime she would see me, she was all over me but would flake on plans. I was a dick to her in the relationship BUT because she had no respect for my time, she was always late and she still does that shit. So when she called today, I told her today that I'm down to try to work it out, but all contact and dancing stops. She started crying and said that that's not right but she can't forget all the mean things I said in the past So here I am now.
@crash7098
@crash7098 3 жыл бұрын
Or... the EX shacks up with a pharmacist a month after she breaks up with you and has a way better life with a cool guy with money, and I’m left realizing I have nothing to offer. 🙁
@opusandtarquez
@opusandtarquez 3 жыл бұрын
It won’t last long.
@crash7098
@crash7098 3 жыл бұрын
I watch your vids for the lnfo and optimism. They help a lot. Thanks so much. But, this pharmacist is 8yrs younger then her and moved into her place! Ha
@jimdaniel4412
@jimdaniel4412 3 жыл бұрын
@@crash7098 work on you..dont beat yourself up..or she wins..its a game..and you have to play..
@crash7098
@crash7098 3 жыл бұрын
@@jimdaniel4412 thanks, man. You’re right.
@israelizzyjimenez6242
@israelizzyjimenez6242 11 ай бұрын
Amen!!!
@jaredvaughan1665
@jaredvaughan1665 2 жыл бұрын
THE MOVIE GROUNDHOG DAY EXPLAINS THE PROCESS
@tittotitto1568
@tittotitto1568 3 жыл бұрын
Game str8 up
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