CURING FIANCE OF HIS PORN ADDICTION! | Sid and Dina Podcast #1

[@anoosha9768]

I miss the couch advice videos. They looked less formal

[@ladyprincessbano587]

They are even til now i watch all the old videos like more dn 100 times trust me podcast r good but not the same feeling as before wid the coach videos

[@AbujaYummyMummy]

wanheda me too 😕

[@flowergirl2825]

Agreed

[@samahamara8543]

Exactly!!! More genuine and funny

[@jeniferjohnson374]

Yesssss!!!

[@Mariatmxo]

Dina: *tells Sid not to interrupt her* Also Dina: *constantly interrupts Sid*

[@Alia16829]

DynastyM shes annoying af

[@codemotivation2723]

I was thinking i am the only who notice it.

[@brendaaaaa94]

@@codemotivation2723 no it's a gemini thing. my mum has a friend like that, she don't let her speak!

[@ThatCloudyDaydreamer]

I swear to god these premieres are so annoying .. I liked when youtube was simple no bs.

[@ladyprincessbano587]

Awww sara sis your right😀

[@hyrunnisa997]

I looked for it on spotify but didn't find it

[@ghadeera1642]

what diff does it make? instead of it popping up randomly before, now you're told when it'll be uploaded. Kinda similar to tv when they tell you what time the program airs.

[@automatapia1621]

You don’t think this issue is a real problem? Pray you don’t marry one.

[@automatapia1621]

Your whining is annoying me

[@mercedesd4953]

SID- If most people could handle addictions themselves, and all of their problems themselves, then they WOULD NEVER HAVE GOTTEN addicted in the first place! Therapy is an extremely beneficial tool for many people when it comes to addiction and so I have to agree with Dina here. Also, YAY you guys are back with questions!!! :D

[@saraahmed-dj9uf]

Oh God! Can't please everyone. The setup is different but it still feel informal. They made it light, not awkward and not professional. They said it themselves that they are not professionals. Regardless of whether they are on a couch, this setup or even on the beach, I'm glad they're back. Just watch and if you don't like it, kick rocks. Dear God

[@automatapia1621]

sara ahmed Ha! Thank you. I want to slap these petty complainers!

[@AB-pp3fe]

Sid was really digging his own grave about the therapy by saying he wouldve never went. 🤣

[@pssurvivor]

I don't think it's innate in men to not talk of their feelings or go to therapy, it's societal conditioning. What Dina said is right, we need to change how we talk about therapy, not shame men into silence and guilt.

[@mccrabtree]

Dina: "Why don't we just change the way we talk about therapy?" YES. YES. YES. Sid is completely wrong here. A therapist doesn't solve your problems - they help you find coping mechanisms so that you can lead a healthier life. And he's been addicted to rap, basketball, and Islam? WTF? He has NO idea what addiction is. Sometimes Sid is spot on, but here he is sharing an opinion that is not only baseless but kind of dangerous. Addictions are serious.

[@christabel5148]

Sid does not have a realistic view about addictions. You need to read about mental health issues. Addictions don't work that way Sid. Dina has a more realistic approach. Sid is also blocking out therapy and projecting that all men don't want therapy.

[@urmiak1815]

Christabel what Dina said is right but remember, a man knows another man the best. To women, therapy is the most logical approach to solving this problem. But men on the other hand don’t think like us women. To them, ego is ultimate and they will never ever let another being tell them what they are suppose to think like. That’s just how men are. And from my experience, sid is absolutely right about this problem from a man’s perspective.

[@msjacqui72]

Sid is not the smartest tool in the shed!

[@alphafish4756]

Urmi Ak because of their ‘ego’ they harm themselves further.

[@mediha90]

Sid thinks that every man thinks like him..

[@feisamurai982]

Urmi Ak But that’s not realistic or healthy, Not only are men letting their egos and stubbornness get in the way of their well-being, it would affect their significant others and children and they’re suppose to lead by example. If you have a physical Health problem you would go see a doctor, just like if you have a mental health problem you should also go to the doctor. Awareness is important

[@reemagoyal2653]

Sid openly saying he would never go to therapy in that tone of voice and saying it’s not a man thing wasn’t right tbh. In many situations therapy has changed peoples lives and cured depressed people and he shouldn’t have used a big platform with many followers to put people off from going to therapy

[@Aliyah221b]

Definitely think Sid was perpetuating the idea that men don’t do therapy. Especially in the asian community, it is not beneficial to talk about how most men won’t do that. Maybe we should talk about the men who are taking steps to getting better. That is beneficial, that is important.

[@took37]

Sid: you like this beard? Dina: yes Sid: why dont you kiss me then? 😂

[@iqrazab3625]

Poor sid feel bad for him just kiss him man he is adorable 🤣🤣

[@ayouaa]

This must be so old lmaoo. Dina's hair is purple here

[@chrkchibi785]

And big Hana was there, so it is really old this video XD

[@kryptoniteee]

Chrk Chibi what did you mean? That means it’s new if Big Hana was here.

[@chrkchibi785]

@@kryptoniteee no, Cuz big Hana does not work with them, they said so sea se the Ramadan blogs, if im not wrong

[@kryptoniteee]

Chrk Chibi ohhh ok. I thought your were talking about their daughter, Hana. She was small before, a baby. Now if she’s big, I thought you meant her when you said big Hana.

[@sumayalove9026]

kryptoniteee same lmao

[@monikamorawska6363]

I'm so happy you're back with the questions. I promise to watch them all. Tbh I watch all your videos Dina. Please don't get discouraged from creating KZbin content.

[@shabnajchowdhury9814]

I want to know how Sid is dealing with his anxiety now. Would love an update video from him and hear how he’s doing. I hope he’s doing well, inshallah.

[@urmiak1815]

Shabc definitely not with a therapy. His thoughts on the problem suggests him being on pills

[@tiaraashley1]

He def needs to go to therapy lmao an addiction can’t be solved with just a new hobby

[@AC-iw5mv]

Definitely. Shit advice.

[@surmabegum2381]

I think men and women differ here, but different solutions will work for different people

[@automatapia1621]

surma begum Very few men could ever keep busy enough from sunrise to sundown and beyond. A hobby or even a passion for a certain cause still leaves plenty of room for other things.

[@anwaarsamai]

Therapy ain't helping anything, many men would really rather stress themselves out mentally and get divorced than to subject themselves to that. With that being said, a hobby and maybe a job and some adventure was what curbed my porn addiction 3 years ago. The energy was completely burnt out from the body and when you came home, all you wanted was hot tea and you fell asleep because you are physically unable to do anything. You basically using the extra energy to slowly release that same dopamine during the day doing other activities rather than the burst shot porn would give you.

[@tiaraashley1]

Shaving against the grain is what gives you ingrown hairs lol Dina is incorrect

[@lisao4408]

The key here is clarifying the difference between addiction and an obsession. An addiction is when someone’s well being depends on a substance and leads to oxytocin (happinesses) only being released when the person is fulfilling their addiction. In order to fix this, one must find why they get happiness from their addiction and how to not mentally rely on it. This is best done through therapy. An obsession like Sid and basketball, is when you feel like your life revolves around something, however if that thing was taken from your life, although you would be sad, you would be able to eventually find other things that bring you happiness e.g other hobbies. If the man is obsessed with porn then he needs other hobbies but if he is addicted and it is the only way he can be satisfied or go about his day, then he is addicted and needs professional help.

[@Spasiuka]

I'm glad you came back to answering answers. You're intelligent, articulated, make me laugh (my sanity thanks you)... & I can practice my english! :) Congrats from Portugal! :)

[@BlackboardEnglish]

MM GC ohh. I love that you practise your English with Sid & Dina. 👏🏽

[@saraahmed-dj9uf]

Welcome back! I'm at the beginning of the video and I'm so excited. I've missed you. So excited to continue watching. Yay!

[@hani7562]

Sid: it’s not green.. I’m not mingin’ LOOOL

[@NawrinIslam]

SID: what happened to you? DINA: YOU!

[@mlegend5741]

Bruh I haven’t watched their videos in months I come back and watch this I can’t stop laughing 😂😂😂😂😂

[@saraahmed-dj9uf]

Great advice, guys. You make it so easy and it's not awkward. You're helping a lot of people. I can't wait for the next one. Btw, Dina you look beautiful.

[@northafricanian4181]

sara ahmed pfff realy who are they helping. Its just entertainment. But its not helping. Be honest

[@saraahmed-dj9uf]

@@northafricanian4181 I take it as entertainment because they have a cute banter but I'm sure they have young adults and teenagers sending emails and their advice is rather sound so they are helping them. They're not telling them to do anything wreckless. They do have a moral compass.

[@Yazmínmf]

Omg I missed these kind of videos so much! I’m a really old subscribers of yours lol I really enjoyed both of you reading, laughing and discussing weird shit haha love u guys

[@Ayan-qb1zl]

‘’See u next week’’ had me so exited until I saw this was made in SEP😔

[@ahmed3058]

I come for the tea and the entertaining therapy and I love that you finally except what we went,good luck on get through year worth of content.

[@samahamara8543]

Finally !! I missed sid's wisdom and u guys talking and giving opinion .. Advice etc

[@zahrahikmet]

OH MY GOOOOD!!! Already by the middle of this video I was preparing to go off on Sid. But then I got through the video, saw the comments and I'm so happy that I'm not alone in getting so frustrated with Sid!! Like, I feel bad for Dina! Addiction is not something that can be solved "just by getting a hobby" or "getting passionate about something else". There is an underlying issue, which is the reason for the addiction. THE ONLY SOLUTION IS THERAPY!! Sid reminds me of my brother and father, as well as most middle eastern/muslim men: they have an obscured and uneducated point of view on therapy and mental health. Please educate yourselves on this matter. It is not "just a stranger listning to your issues" or "a waste of money". Just like you go to a doctor for anything wrong with your physical health you need to go to a different kind of doctor for your mental health. Just like Dina said. Sorry for going off, but the frustration is real yall!! 🤣

[@mindelo23]

Sid mentioning his addiction to basketball is so relatable. Teenage me was addicted as well. 24/7 thinking about basketball, when am I gonna watch or play basketball, how to get better at basketball. I would cut classes to go play basketball. on weekends I would walk 2 hours to the other side of the city to play basketball for an entire afternoon then walk back home. Man I was ADDICTED!

[@valf156115]

mindelo23 how did you get out of it? It reminds me of my brother nd football

[@mindelo23]

@@valf156115Honestly i kind of grew up and out of it. As i got older and started to get a life(busy with other matters) i stopped doing all that. I gave it one last shot when i tried for a professional basketball team but did not make it. I still like basketball but i got other things to do with my life now.

[@hyrunnisa997]

Man I don't care if this man is serious about marrying her, she better get out now before she finds out he's got other issues. They aren't married yet. I think porn addiction is a deal breaker

[@francesc9043]

Dhynasah James 💯

[@AC-iw5mv]

100%. It's a lot more serious than most people realise. It breaks up so many families. Girls, leave a man that has this it isn't worth the continuous heartbreak

[@rawanmohammed3220]

Yeah I agree wholeheartedly

[@yoshiremixx]

Dhynasah James seriously? When they get married and start fucking do u honestly think he’s gnna be lookin up porn

[@hassymiia6267]

Frances C Hola

[@lifebeautymusic]

Ah i prefer the advice videos they were so funny😭

[@ghadeera1642]

this is an advice video no?

[@lafidala.1726]

You two are so hilarious, especially sid, and you vibe in a very nice way. Love listening. Have always loved these podcasts!

[@rabiakhan2795]

I’m laughing so hard 😂💕 THEY ARE BACK!!!

[@abdulfatahabdillahi4547]

These types of videos is how I got to know you guys.........Love from Toronto!!

[@chiara4979]

No Sid, being addicted to porn is a serious issue and trying to take your mind off of it won't work just as much "positive thinking" won't help you cure depression or trying to stay calm won't cure your pathological anxiety. I'm not tryina attack but ppl most of the time make mental illnesses like they are so way to treat when they're not. It's just as any other form of addiction and it should be treated as such by a professional. When I studied psychiatry pur professor showed us an article about how the levels of dopamine( the hormone that takes part in addiction) rise after certain actions such as smoking cigarettes, snorting cocaine, drinking alcohol and having sex. And guess what? The release after sex is HIGH. Everything that gives you pleasure whether it's sex or food will act in a similar way. There is a change the way your brain works. And no, thinking about smth else won't work because no matter what an addict will still go back to what gives him the most pleasure ( porn in this case). A therapist has to take care of the situation, it's not something these two can handle on their own. And just like Dina said, video sex is probably more a solution for her than for him. I hope they both can find a solution and live a happy life

[@AC-iw5mv]

100% truth. !

[@zd1441]

Yesssss finally sid and dina again!!

[@celestialnightshade6658]

Awwe I missed sid + dina questions so much!!

[@AA-bm3hf]

Oooh Dina! You are looking so cute, your smoky lavender hair is really making that makeup POP!

[@kaki6147]

Tbh this topic gives me so much anxiety just because of past experiences, but I forced myself to watch this and thank god I did because I feel so much better

[@maymonahoque7091]

You guys are so funny. Hijabi or not, beard or not, please neverrrrr change yourselves. May Allah bless you guys in the best ways always 🤗

[@nimrahkhan9105]

Maymona, true

[@maymonahoque7091]

@@nimrahkhan9105 thanks sweets. ❤️

[@sanasiino]

Appreciate you guys being so frank in discussing these topics! Looking forward to the coming episodes (ps set looks great🤘🏽)

[@AA-bm3hf]

OMGGGGG YOU HEARD MY REQUEST!!! lol I’ve been long missing the Ask Sid & Dina talks. This podcast style is cool! Woooo hooooo for these juicy hilarious emails again!!!!

[@strawberrysoup202]

I looove the podcast and advice video combination! So excited for more 🙌🏽

[@rababnezam9464]

I love these videos so much, im happy to see you’re doing this again!

[@loveroon3193]

YES EXCITED FOR ANOTHER SERIES! Would love for this to be on Apple Podcasts so I can listen to it on my commutes!

[@AyeshaRameez]

Yay I miss these type of videos! I was gutted when u stopped them before. It’s what attracted me to your channel years ago so I’m pleased ur back to this

[@ayschasoumaya8443]

YES! The question-episodes are back. Thank you Sid and Dina for bringing them back ^.^

[@Uhuss-qq6cq]

*This is the new jeremy kyle* 😂😂😂💯💯💯

[@leilabelhaichar1489]

Now that I'm used to Dina without her headscarf it's so weird for me to see her with a full on scarf (like before turbans) is it just me?

[@gator9717]

I wanted to stop by and say you guys are the cutest couple ever . And oh my Dina you are so beautiful. Thanks for sharing your spirit with the world!❤️❤️❤️❤️ hopefully you guys read this 🤞🏾🤞🏾

[@automatapia1621]

He hasn’t stopped porn. He’s just added one to his repertoire.

[@automatapia1621]

He probably has them alphabetized!

[@willdei4724]

your are trying too hard. lmao. control yourself

[@Miss2ndEdition]

Oh Sid. Surely you should be using your platform to encourage men to access therapies for whatever the problem. Whilst it’s quite different to the topic you are discussing, suicide is the biggest killer of men in the uk and that is because men don’t access therapy or seek out people to talk about their problems to. Love you guys, just think you may have missed the mark on this one. I only say this as someone who has lost a friend this year to suicide. Much love x

[@farwahaider2780]

TweeCup Viola I agree with you completely !! I love them and all but I just can’t get on the board with his opinions towards therapy ... also I’m sorry for your loss, hun ! Rip 💔

[@Miss2ndEdition]

@@farwahaider2780 thanks lovely ❤️

[@fatimaahmed1106]

Sid and Dina back on advicesssss ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@bekahslife8351]

Great to have you both back!!

[@zaynahaktar3799]

I love these question videos, I've been watching the old ones while hoping for more

[@skippykipper101]

100% agree with Dina on the porn question. Esp the point of changing the way we talk about therapy. If we keep saying therapy isn't a realistic option, it never will be a realistic option. More people need to talk about therapy and advocate for it to make people more comfortable with actually taking their mental HEALTH seriously and seeing a therapist.

[@chiara4979]

Lol Dina's right: the difference is in the thickness of the hair rather than in the number of hair follicles. Men tend to have darker, thicker hair on their body because the levels of testosterone are much higher than in females. Well,, women usually have this type of hair around the pubic area and the armpits, whereas on the face we have peach fuzz. But it always comes from hair follicles😂

[@axa4483]

Loveee this. Guys keep up with the good work. Love you guys

[@iqrazab3625]

Dina just kiss him bruv

[@jeremire5288]

sid talking abt men "just don't do therapy" killed so many braincells of mine bruh 🙄 pisses me off

[@eishaikram3394]

We liked the informal sitting moreeeeeeee

[@tamsynrebecca8114]

Nice to see you back guys

[@soniyamushkil4816]

I love your question videos, so glad they are back!!!

[@Watchamakallett321]

keep doing this. loooove your advice

[@roxanneworld11]

they're cussing in front of *adult assistant* Hannah, not tiny girl *daughter* Hannah.. in case anyone was confused and wondering, *'what the frak??!!'* 😱

[@sabahrose]

I’m soooo glad you guys are back with the questions LOL! 😂🙌

[@nataliejon6013]

IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS WOOOO❤️

[@glittergirl1753]

Yayyyy questions are back! Also Dina’s cheekbones are popping 😍

[@fatimaiqbal3452]

when Sid said "have we got interesting ones today Hannah" my dumbass thought they were talking to their daughter for a split second. Lmfao

[@aaminah689]

love hearing things from your perspective 🙌

[@yaz7392]

Welcome back 🧡 I missed this so much !

[@AA-bm3hf]

I suggest beard oil for the first couple, they have products for men’s grooming that can soften and moisturize the beard ooh la la!!

[@emmanuellamichel8896]

Thank goodness for these vids again

[@Poundtown765]

yayyyyyyy yall uploaded

[@tannaz1262]

Love you guys and perspectives

[@husnaavhora6485]

Yessss to bringing these back!!

[@sarshhhjevgfv5863]

Looll yayayayay there back !

[@nawalmourad5256]

I love the questions, doooo moreee

[@halimarahmani6078]

I like dinas mentality more logical

[@katea2046]

I LOVE THESE VIDEOS LOL🔥

[@gemmaw564]

So good to have ya back

[@safakhan8455]

So glad you’re back!!!

[@iqrazab3625]

I miss advise videos they were so entertaining!!

[@Sm-yu1ex]

Pointless lol, your lack of consistency is so annoying. Why say ‘we’re stepping it up’ every 6 months in a new video?

[@Dee00112]

Because they can! If youre unsatisfied with the content or consistency you can piss off ✌🏾

[@zarinashah6616]

cant wait for your upcoming Ramadan questions!

[@ferdabegum8407]

These videos have been recorded ages ago. I like the informal tea and buicuit sit down chat advice video please. Plus can we go back to skits, challenges and mukbang videos, etcc

[@haminatbakare7250]

I'm sooooo happy you guys are back to doing questions💃💃💃

[@un9994]

im so glad you guys are back to questions

[@nabeelmazid2297]

Hassan needs to feature on this Podcast one day

[@jenniraisovna5698]

Which Hassan?

[@jeniferjohnson374]

Heyyy good to see another upload!!

[@potatoa5200]

Literally at this point I have given up for you guys to stick to something 🤣 we will all just take what we can get

[@ghufranal3931]

Dinas teeth shine brighter than my future 🌟

[@mlegend5741]

Porn addiction will probably mess up almost any relationship to different extents depending on the level of Addiction you can get completely desensitised and you won’t even like sex and prefer it with your own hand and also it’s like a Drug addiction with the Dopamine affects but just without the addictive chemicals in your system the way to get rid of it is exactly what Sid said get busy with something else have goals and use that time there instead and like if you don’t do it for 90 days it pretty much goes away anyway just takes will power and being strict with yourself maybe wear like some kind of groin guard to remind you not to do it lol

[@qqwweerrttyy3610]

honestly, if he can't get rid of his porn addiction, call the marriage off. You might be consumed by love and affection for him now, but marriage is long term and it's about responsibility, maturity, and family, and his addiction will ruin your life and family.

[@shakira3592]

omd I lost it when she said it's like a shade of green 🤣

[@ishrata1943]

Finally back ! But hate the fact it's a podcast 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I miss the sofa and tea sit down videos !! Its not important making money on iTunes when it was originality and being informal that was the best to watch ! 🙂

[@acraftymrs]

Also did you say ilikeme is restocked? It’s not loading for me!! I’d love to get something :-)

[@saraa1687]

I missed these videos so much!!

[@soniyamushkil4816]

My mum is a beautician and she says waxing your face isn't good for you, your skin layers are thinner on your face so when you wax you rip off the layers. Love the question videos!

[@Hollieford89]

But people have facial peels thats taking the layers off face skin same thing