Reject Yourself From a Bad Date | The Button | Cut

[@mariamhaj814]

Jasmine was so sweet and patient and she handled the awkwardness of the date pretty well

[@katieherrera8915]

Jasmin with no E, but thats my bestie!!

[@dabd8175]

@@katieherrera8915 shut your mouth

[@tyreebrownart]

This is such an awkward button episode

[@vinny0438]

@@katieherrera8915 whats her insta

[@Malhablada]

Hard agree. Jasmin seems like a dope ass person. Hope she gets to come back.

[@Flocka20]

People are so much more unfiltered when it they have to reject themselves. I love it.

[@khalilahd.]

Right 😂😂

[@JDfilms4k]

I honestly love this concept better

[@leadurand3628]

exactly, it's way better!!

[@Markaylaa0]

Omg mEe too. I noticed that. Cute out all the small talk lol

[@Death-999]

It's because they want people to think they're bad so they'll eliminate themselves. Neither this version or the "normal" version of the button have people acting truthfully.

[@JDfilms4k]

I think this concept is SO MUCH BETTER than the regular button

[@buttcheeksguy]

we actually get valuable conversations out of it

[@Bruke53]

Better in that it's more productive for the people on the show, but less entertaining to watch overall (at least imo).

[@AnatoliaElle]

Yes! And I'm thrilled I was the 1000th liker of this comment 😂🎉

[@dericmederos1514]

Sure but honestly its a pretty lame series when it doesn't matter what they say; the people who go on a second date are always attractive people. Like if two people are good looking they are going on a 2nd date.

[@DD-rh2sz]

@@dericmederos1514 ya the super nice funny guy just had to reject himself

[@divinelioness4931]

We need a video with Jennifer guessing people's signs in a lineup. And a video of her explaining how she guesses so well.

[@mariapineappe9409]

I would love to see that

[@wasa4616]

Yes

[@-_Somebody_]

YES!!

[@diekoloreoluwa]

Man, I was amazed

[@diekoloreoluwa]

@@iamme25yagoSlow much? did you watch the video at all?

[@Boiiiiiiiiiiiii]

Respect for Mark stepping out of his comfort zone and being honest

[@taylorm771]

First girl was so nice and patient with Mark. Clearly knew it wasn't a good fit, but could tell he had some pain and wanted to help before she left. Even ejected herself in kind manner. Gentle button press, calm, settled tone of voice, didn't rush through explaining why they weren't a good fit just to get out of there faster... With everyone calling themselves an "empath" these days, cool to actually see one lol. 10/10 nice person.

[@khalilahd.]

This!!

[@mamabird4360]

Yeah she is a true sweetheart!

[@EvolianTiger]

And she didn't need to call herself an empath to show it.

[@antibullshit]

She's a true class act

[@kjordy]

First girl was honestly such a vibe. loved her for that

[@vanshikamalik3754]

thank you for letting them reject themself

[@NootNooot]

indeed. allows for honest rejections. not just reject to scroll

[@khalilahd.]

Lmfao exactly 😂

[@vanshikamalik3754]

@@mikkahoppe8636 yeah seems like asexual lol

[@notrealanymoretbh]

it's a lot more genuine!

[@nicilyas]

Yeeeees finally 🎉

[@Mikasa22422]

I hope Mark figures stuff out, everyone deserves love

[@matthewjones5719]

He will eventually, bless him. I like how honest he is

[@alexandernoethiger5338]

Not true

[@leadurand3628]

me too!

[@agkingz3235]

​@@matthewjones5719 he seems so picky and needs some bud

[@MarcoAce13]

@@agkingz3235 bud will make him worse. Maybe psychotic

[@lineavictoria2631]

Spencer has those mega comforting “happily married with two girls and a boy”-vibes

[@ayoayo7730]

That’s so true lol

[@ghostlyp4llor]

spencer was wholesome af 😭 i loved his energy

[@EvolianTiger]

I really liked Spencer. He's like if Zuckerberg had a personality.

[@bean6047]

*soul

[@senzerules]

yoooo

[@charlesross5837]

Emotion

[@shanineedwards6894]

He was sooo cute too

[@andrijanastojkovic6838]

He vibed with everyone, he is very nice

[@karpaslatka5734]

Oh my god Spencer seems so nice, he's so outgoing and personable, I'm confident he is going to find someone perfect for him before long

[@lilianamelendez8984]

Nah fr he seemed so sweet 😢 I feel bad for him ngl but I hope he meets someone out there

[@TheJazzy1980]

He's gonna end up with a baddie. Mark my words, lol.

[@xProdigyxWolf]

A baddie that cheats on him relentlessly maybe. Dudes a simp with not an ounce of masculinity

[@Void-wq2tt]

Nah I don’t like him THAT much😨

[@jasontaylor4802]

Someone who is outgoing and personable like he was, will struggle to focus on one person. Double-edged sword in that sense.

[@user-nh7my6gg5b]

There should be an episode where they set each other up with their "type" appearance-wise and try to focus solely on chemistry.

[@mac9733]

Commenting to help engagement because hard agree

[@user-je6io6cv5d]

They would just say yes without any chemistry lolll

[@Wishfull171]

Lol would save a lot of time and we’d see more pairings, but sadly I feel the majority on both sides would all have the same standard look type that only a couple on both sides probably match.

[@deleteduser4238]

This definitely would be an interesting one and I'm for it (definitely commenting like the above said for engagement)!!

[@keysersoze5032]

Nah that would be too controversial imo. Could result in ppl being matched up by race or some shit

[@Plainjanespaghetti]

"i did shower today" "thank you"

[@apun9307]

Mark is literally me if my friends hadn’t forced me to go outside and socialize Love you Mark, good luck out there👍

[@Svg_RocXstar]

First guy was not prepared for this 😭

[@khalilahd.]

AT ALL 😂😂

[@oftheHowl]

It's good for him though to break him out of his shell, they should bring him back just to see if he starts improving

[@magicmarcell]

@@oftheHowl This was a good comment. I agree

[@itsmj3103]

​@@juvialoxar1987 in what setting, poor lad probably isn't even talking to women, it does get progressively harder once you're out of school/uni. And people your age get progressively "taken" 😂 I don't think it's that bad of a setting, he might end up meeting someone in the halls or something like that, not specifically on the seat.

[@illeyan8098]

"Oh God"

[@Malhablada]

Spencer is just dripping charisma out his pores. We must protect that man at all cost. Jennifer is a gem, I would love to see her in more videos.

[@peachylps8849]

i love spencer man

[@ToAsTOnDeck]

Jennifer is the type of girl I need.

[@idkwuzgoinon]

Does anyone know his TikTok @?

[@worldblazin4209]

Personally I believe my expectations have been met for every contestant on the Button today. This was one of the only The Buttons where no one's an outright loser and forces their beliefs on someone else (aside from the Astrology lady). Really enjoyed people's reactions of this so I came to watch it a second time!

[@val3454]

@@worldblazin4209 There was a whole ass religious fanatic that forces her beliefs on other people and you decided to fixate on the astrology girl?

[@parislovesrachmaninoff]

The Button really knows how to make things extra awkward 👍

[@craigswanson3641]

It's a talent really.

[@khalilahd.]

Im convinced that’s it’s only job 😂

[@rexrad9735]

This version is SO MUCH MORE AWKWARD!

[@AnxChan]

@@khalilahd. ikr what’s up with all the awkward whiffs and handholding lmao

[@img504]

It was quite uncomfortable to hear the buttons comments on this episode, it felt pushy in the wrong direction.. >__

[@agnese3275]

jasmin handled that so well, good for her for being so understanding

[@TheFluffyKitty]

Mark seems to have severe social anxiety. It's a tough mental health issue to overcome and people often do not understand what the patient is going through. However, I hope that he succeeds ❤

[@naufalmEZa]

Don't feel sorry for him, this's coming from someone who was socially anxious.

[@G3nkki.Doll_]

@@naufalmEZaI have severe anxiety too but I do not understand, what’s your reasoning for saying this?

[@synkronized]

he's shown how weird he is in other episodes of cut

[@EvolianTiger]

Jennifer guessing both men's signs correctly based on minimal information was impressive but I think her choice in her guy was not good. She knows he has an ego, he admits to not being trusting and calls girls like her “witch bitches” in a derogatory way. He's clearly willing to make an exception because she's attraction. Didn't like this pairing at all.

[@cartercavazos2396]

THIS THIS THIS!!!

[@mirandajai98]

I was thinking the exact same thing

[@Bonobopantherienbionique]

Wtf is your yt name

[@TR-im2bs]

I agree, but I think homegirl knows what to do..I think she's just giving the date a shot.

[@kazandeffect2205]

I think this speaks more into the attraction of dark triad personality ( bad boy) that many women find attractive than anything. It's like this current trend of toxic relationships still is prevalent

[@yellow7078]

this is the only version of the show that actually results in real conversations and not just immediate rejection

[@Tyrone-v2r]

You're not lying. People are forced to be self aware and honest.

[@Kaali.]

Spencer stole my lil heart within seconds 😩 Seems like a down to earth dude

[@justbeelle]

Literally, I love funny men😭

[@iamReddington]

Gabriella, you're gorgeous!

[@Kaali.]

@@iamReddington You’re too kind, thank you! :)

[@jahnaefletcher7271]

I know right!

[@spenerthul]

@@justbeelleyeah this spencer dude seems cool fr fr

[@hermioneera]

jasmin stole my attention. she is sooo pretty, soft, and also family-oriented. i feel like she is wife material. please invite her again next time 😍

[@myaisheree]

so not feminist

[@LexCorpppp]

Chill aint nobody gonna like u incel

[@pinchetii6555]

@@myaisheree???

[@jasontaylor4802]

Women of faith often exude those qualities when looking for a partner! You are absolutely right, she was very caring for Mark!

[@nat.morgan]

First lady was so sweet about everything, tbh she was so nice

[@JeremyMYG]

Jasmin is a true gem. What a wonderful person. She handled that beautifully.

[@carotadeel]

that girl guessing the signs twice in a row is so impressive

[@jenakelena4783]

and i‘m a gemini and could relate so much lol

[@khalilahd.]

I don’t even believe in that stuff but I gotta admit that was cool lol

[@joshuataylor3550]

1 in 12 shot.

[@Adam-do8ny]

@@joshuataylor3550 that would be for one guess. two guesses in a row = 1/12 * 1/12 shot = 1/144 shot

[@MunkeyyCANA]

@@joshuataylor3550 eh. most people are born in the late summer time (july-august) due to people partnering up more in the fall/winter as it gets colder and people are going outside less. Or in mid winter (november/december) due to the same reasons (still cold in march winter starting to end and people hooking up more) so its like a 1 in 4 chance when guessing for most people (im completely bullshitting but it makes sense in my head)

[@TehxHope]

I'm not even 2 mins in but Jasmine seems like an amazing and kind person. Her reactions and responses were so respectful and open-minded, and she really balanced out the awkwardness. Beautiful woman.

[@hairdresserfrommilanthatst947]

The first girls was so gentle with him, honestly couldn't be my, props to her

[@Tyrone-v2r]

"Definitely not my family or my job." 😂😂😂😂

[@matthewjones5719]

Spencer has so much charisma, I could definitely feel the wiz 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@inkdfist3702]

Jasmine was so sweet, she shouldn’t have had to leave so fast 😭

[@nobirthday]

Spencer deserved a match fr 😭😂 I can tell his personality is hilarious and he's cute too, he's just nervous lol

[@Fluff_Noodles]

Spencer seems like such a cool guy. Like, ask him to watch my drink kinda guy. He seems chill and safe. Which is saying a lot for a guy that got like 4 minutes of screen time lol

[@whateverflicks5822]

Spencer was such a good sport, love his vibe😂

[@chrysanthi_]

It was so much more calm now that they rejected themselves, they actually talked about who would stay instead of just rush in. Loved that

[@lizwrites2463]

This is definitely encouraging more communication and respect

[@goober-fq5ky]

"Are you attracted to me?" "Yeah. Tf" I love that 😂

[@aH5oAAJv2BPyPwYKOQ9g]

I’d fold immediately if someone said that to me

[@neutralGuy777]

@@aH5oAAJv2BPyPwYKOQ9g no one asked and no one cares

[@jayyy1677]

@@neutralGuy777 no one asked and no one cares

[@neutralGuy777]

@@jayyy1677 stop copying clown🤡

[@retired_skwad]

@@jayyy1677no one asked and no one cares

[@isasanchez724]

The first girl had such an admirable personality! I hope to present myself so sweet like that

[@stephtaylor6292]

Jennifer guessing peoples signs accurately within ten seconds of meeting each othe, is my favourite thing ever. I need an episode of her just guessing peoples signs! So here for it. lol

[@lucwijngaard8413]

This is way better than people rejecting the other! Just keep it this way from now on!

[@wge621]

They've had this before and it was one of the most toxic episodes. This round just happened to have a lot of nice people

[@megc25]

I really liked Spencer! Had such a great personality and conversationalist!

[@mitzai346]

I really love how the button was super aware and caring of Mark. He clearly had a lot of anxiety coming into this episode, and I think it would be super easy to view his comments / mannerisms negatively. Although when someone has little experience in socialising and talking to people about personal things it can sometimes be super hard for them to express themselves in a way that doesnt come off as standoff-ish or direct. I feel like the button was super aware of this sort of tried to bring mark out of his shell a little bit, whilst also being encouraging and understanding. Well done Button :)

[@angelainbloom]

I do like that the button brought him out of his comfort zone, but they could have not called out that he has absolutely zero experience 😂😂

[@Sanders-vd3tp]

@@angelainbloom Yeah. But, given that it's true and not a set up, it was brave of him to come to the show and come out. That's really cool actually.

[@salesinmotion4u]

Button blasted him infront of 1.2 Million people by saying he had never kissed or held a woman’s hand. That doesn’t seem to me like a ton of help.

[@Caitkn]

I really wanted spencer to find a date he was so nice and seemed interesting

[@cephalopop]

yeahh same

[@IrrelevantReviewsAndComments]

Jennifer & Spencer were so cute together 😭❤ He was instantly nervous & fidgety when he saw her. Wish they had paired.

[@pres1667]

Mark if you're reading this respect to you man. I feel like a lot of other guys can relate to you. Shits hard. But putting yourself out there, that's difficult thing to do which a lot of dudes struggle with. Respect to you man.

[@haydn2641]

sounds like you’re supporting an incel

[@fws945]

preach

[@Kittycakes22]

He needs therapy first, then dating.

[@truth6074]

​@@Kittycakes22therapy doesn't magically cure shyness

[@windthugness]

True, but it sounds like he has a low self esteem.

[@chaoticegg_]

everyone seemed more honest or relaxed with this rather than the regular version. the vibes were so much better over all

[@nat6230]

He really had the nerve to say she looks old 😭

[@talaiar.533]

She does tho

[@twilightexposure8431]

Low key incel

[@LegendaryCS4]

@@talaiar.533 doesn’t make it any less rude? You can definitely approach topics with respect for other people and their feelings.

[@yeseniamendoza5844]

@@talaiar.533 he does too😂

[@khalilahd.]

Still shook at this 😭😭

[@RaikageSama]

This shows being attractive is super important. No matter how rude your are , if you're attractive,you a winner.

[@rogueally]

jasmine is the sweetest. such a kind, kind soul. i know she’ll find the one soon!

[@phoebesvlog]

Jennifer is the only person I’ve EVER seen guess someone’s zodiac first try … and TWICE😳 she’s really a wizard

[@junopierre2988]

I met a girl once who could guess and it was insane.

[@christophernoble76]

most people guess mine right first time tbh

[@user-ff9mb1ts4u]

I love the lack of competitiveness that comes with them having to reject themselves. They seem to be slightly more likely to give each other a chance haha or at least hear the other person out

[@dainelysnieves9907]

Spencer deserved better 😭he was funny and interesting idk what they were looking for 🤣

[@ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063]

Looks. Spencer is not ugly but also not conventionally attractive. The last guy that the zodiac girl paired with was an awful match. She was better with spencer but the last guy was her physical preference. I would prefer to go on a date with Spencer as im attracted to his talent, friendly social skills, and clearly an inte guy.

[@notyou1178]

I think the fact that one has the option of rejecting themselves is a more gentler way of letting the person know they are not interested rather than the previous shallow way of automatically rejecting someone cold heartedly making the rejected person feel bad.

[@judy1519]

Spencer has so much charisma, I wanna have a conversation with him fr

[@theprousteffect9717]

Spencer seems like a great guy, but he's giving funny best friend vibes. He almost has too much charisma and is a little too high energy lol. Slowing down a bit and staying calm on a date allows sexual tension to build, if it's going to.

[@EVenturapurple]

Spencer would be an ideal first date

[@lucheeko]

You could try doing a 50/50 chance of rejecting yourself or your date! Would be interesting too!

[@vans_corner]

OOH THAT SOUNDS REALLY COOL

[@gabegutierrez21]

Great idea

[@worldblazin4209]

Personally I believe my expectations have been met for every contestant on the Button today. This was one of the only The Buttons where no one's an outright loser and forces their beliefs on someone else. Really enjoyed people's reactions of this so I came to watch it a second time!

[@djskype020202]

I don't like watching the other way around. People are too judgmental and they push the button before getting to know someone. I feel this will be much better because they may be less likely to vote themselves off until they are for sure. I'm looking forward to watching this

[@omotayosatuyi252]

It made zero sense they were talking for like a few second and automatically decided based of that little convo that they should be friends like get to know each other a bit more have a five to ten minute convo and make your decision based off that

[@ART_687]

awww i feel bad for the first guy, i wish his family and job were ok. that would make him a lot happier and his smile/face kinda wants to make me cry for some reason 😢😭❤️

[@peachypear8765]

The first girl was so kind, I loved her vibes

[@dotunmakun]

I love it when they get to reject themselves. Much better outcomes with this rule. Less room for pretence and just straight up decisions about the person in front of them. ❤ it!! More of this please

[@sage_rage]

bro spencer is a joy of a human

[@peachjelly4564]

Bring Jennifer back to guess everyone’s signs lol that was impressive

[@adelledestiny]

I literally love jasmine, she was so patient and compassionate. Please bring her back!

[@florious80]

Started watching this and a few older episodes. The button to reject yourself is the best change to the show. It was actually mentioned from the comments in an old episode. Kudos. This format makes ppl think about why, instead of the button being buzzer and everyone tried to beat each other at pushing it.

[@NoahYoung-ry4oc]

“I just want to get out of here” 😂

[@kimberlybracero4496]

I loved Jasmin! Definitely seems like she’s super sweet and very open minded.

[@toss277]

They really found the most awkward guy on the planet to start this episode with.

[@halamadrid2370]

Just like me Fr

[@FeathersMcGraw_]

Props to him for putting himself out of his comfort zone. Who wasn't awkward when they started out dating?

[@REDROSE-be3br]

😂😂😂

[@GhostkillerPlaysMC]

honestly for someone with his lack of experience/social issues he did extremely well imo. Got some neurodivergent vibes from him, but it was still pretty smooth and straightforward.

[@josefi2326]

Spencer is it. Very interesting and socially smart, love him.

[@JsophagusMillar]

They need to do a follow-up episode of all the past matches to see how they held up together

[@nganstoppable]

I can watch the last girl guess people's astrology signs all day! She's good.

[@yagadoobigidibobbibigabiga38]

Imo, this goes to show that the first episode where they tried it and everyone hated this style of rejection really depended on the people who were on it. I liked this episode a lot for its gentle honesty that a lot of the people showed even before they pressed the button to let themselves out, and even two people hit the button at the same time. If there aren't people who try to play games instead of searching for a relationship, then it works extremely well. Plus, Spencer has my whole heart - I'd sing while you play piano :)

[@halinhsomething2163]

Spencer is soooo sweet and funnyyyy! Would love to see him in more videos

[@alil7820]

We need a follow up/“where are they now”for all the people that go on dates from The Button

[@am3n458]

Shoutout to mark to putting himself out there

[@rosslynch-tb8ix]

i was trying to clean but now im sitting on my bedroom floor watching yet another speed dating video

[@beho0]

that happens every time lol

[@khalilahd.]

Lmfaoo they get me every time too 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@joshuataylor3550]

Everyone dies

[@clarissarocha8459]

Omggg meee rn hahhaha

[@morijin5568]

@@joshuataylor3550 way to spoil it josh

[@fwvipra]

the button should do a behind the scenes where they show the parts of the videos they removed and label it button uncut , i think that’d be really cool !

[@MusiicRoolz]

"what brings you joy" *says everything he hates about his life and nothing about what brings him joy*

[@klaralee1650]

I absolutely loved Spencer! He seems so genuine and sweet’

[@valerialmbarbosa3887]

this is waaaaaaaaay better. when they got to reject the other, there is just a rush to see who rejects first, like it is a competition.

[@courtney7264]

the interesting thing is that when they reject someone else by pressing the button, they go into the next date feeling powerful. When they get rejected and immediately have to go on another date, you get a lot less cockiness.

[@retractedhack]

beautiful observation!

[@rosalinagrey9858]

You explained it perfectly!

[@jadonmcarthur1630]

BRO, poor mark I wish that man all the luck.

[@Nuraar1]

I like Spencer. He was so kind!

[@MsArtsymaria]

You go girl, she was upfront about wanting initiative, and those are 2 things that is lacking in this world currently. People meaning what they say, and saying what they mean, and initiative/intentionality.

[@quincyrodgers48]

Oddly enough I want to see more of Mark.

[@talkingtochapri]

Jennifer looked like she didn't like him but still said yes. I don't think a lot of these matches even meet after the show lol

[@Marcus-gw4bb]

Did you see how her face changed when he didn't want to decide where they should go for a meal? I agree that a lot of these matches probably don't meet after the show.

[@GalaxyProductions69]

Love the self rejection concept!

[@justclara3595]

Spencer was so wholesome!

[@frankdmon1162]

When they say "feel friendship", they mean you're physically lacking. lmaoo

[@eduardowolf8890]

Jasmine was super sweet to mark when she could’ve be hard on him That’s nice of her to be so kind

[@inkdfist3702]

Dude got friendzoned so many times 😭 he deserved better

[@Amy_K27]

I'm only 2 minutes in but goddamn Mark you have to at least try lmao, he's so depressing

[@rosslynch-tb8ix]

exactly 😭😭 he wasnt bringing anything into the convo

[@joshuataylor3550]

Please don't stigmatise depression.

[@swaggerstudiosofficial2219]

@@joshuataylor3550snowflake?

[@flarethefox9836]

@@swaggerstudiosofficial2219not a snowflake lmao

[@justagirl8757]

Not everyone is that good with people, he's definitely trying

[@sherbear6625]

They should do this more often! Btw I would date Spencer just because his personality is amazing!

[@angelicbaby92]

Oh god, I see why Mark has never had a date. He says the worse things that are also sometimes offensive. He also, continuously makes a face like he is "disgusted". He's simply too awkward and uncomfortable and it shows a LOT.

[@Whimpermyman]

Jasmine is such a good vibe i love her🥺

[@yeseniamendoza5844]

Spencer is so sweet 😭

[@e.k.o5412]

spencer was great - loved his energy

[@hollandtaylor8819]

when mark said “i just wanna get out of here” it was so real an d very funny

[@Oscar-jo5pn]

The first girl is such a queen!

[@lavdya]

Omg SLAYY QUEEN 💅💅💅

[@yeseniamendoza5844]

I adore the first girl omg 😭