Dad Married His secretary & Moved Her In, Divorcing My Mom, And Moved My Stuff To The Dirty Basement

[@bonb213]

That last comment is either from a troll, a person with no self esteem and self worth or someone who only knows how abusive relationships work. Even if OP and his mom took responsibility for their part in any issues with the dad, they were not responsible for his disrespectful actions like immediately moving his mistress and her children into the marital home, displacing OP to the basement and giving his belongings to those kids. I hope the mom gets everything and that the dad lives unhappily ever after.

[@blilly7296]

So true.

[@robertx8020]

Her hsuband is cheating while she was typing this ...then he slapped her around for writing this and then she forgave him because SHE was to blame for his anger! /s

[@bettycotton1290]

Wow, what an absolute loser. No self respect. She let her cheating boyfriend convince her that it was her fault that he cheated on her. So sad that she fell for that.😢😮

[@SH-qs7ee]

"Your dad made a mistake" So he tripped, fell, landed on the secretary, and stayed there for 7 months?

[@ashleypatten2304]

Yep! What the father did wasn’t a mistake. What he did was outright cruel.

[@domgeek5632]

Yo when grandad whispered to the Jason kid I was like is this man John Wick?!

[@LadyBama]

WTH!!! Blaming the wife and son for the husband choosing to cheat and choosing those brats!! A mistake is forgetting to take out the trash,NOT moving the side piece into the family home!

[@doloresfarnot1521]

I almost chocked on my water with wtf…

[@Justin-A-Carter]

That last comment. Rach, your man cheating on you again. You better not be making threads to 15 year old children and telling them that they are wrong when their dads totally an adult that cheated on his mother and treated him like crap. The end.... As for the young man. Keep doing you. You were dragged into this situation and you wanted no part of it. Because you said what adults do is what adults do they have their own thing and you had your own thing. Keep doing your own thing!!! Let your father beg and plead for forgiveness. Because he sure the hell needs a lot of working up to do.

[@baraka629]

Uhh Mom could have just staid and called the police to get Holly kicked out as soon as Dad left the place... After all she had the address on her ID and neither Holly nor her kids did. Also if she was married it was common property in the marriage, most likely.

[@stephanietaylor142]

Had that been my child I would be in jail, happily

[@smstnitc]

"one little lapse of judgement" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Neyfufu00]

Wait so you had the evidence in your first thing to do was to try to give it to him physically instead of just send it to him the second you had it. Like if you have evidence send it to him don't hold it just to wait for him to get back to the house that's stupid

[@Rhaenarys]

I didnt think of that one, but youre right. Proof this is fake was even sooner than when his mom nor grandpa pressed charges for the beating he clearly took. No kid is so clueless they wouldnt send the pics right away.

[@daishawilliams8301]

Op is a Savage 😂😂😂

[@nimisilverbird1239]

I grew up poor. Not having a room to myself and having to share everything. But when I met a kid whose parents stuck them in the back section of the storage room in the basement. I knew they weren't liked very much. Some ppl just suck

[@kanteannightmare]

If this was real the fact the husband moved the affair partner in two days after kicking out his wife would doom him in the divorce without all the drama her photos...

[@dandeflavis7004]

My father did pretty much the same thing. Long story short He called me on his death bed trying to make amends, I said go f yourself, you made your bed with a miserable crackhead horder with lazy kids and you can die in it, he died that night and I could care less about someone who chose an actual drunk crackhead over his family. Moral is just because someone is related by blood doesn't mean you shouldn't drop them from your life if they are toxic.

[@rominazarei744]

*couldn't care less

[@alissaroberts2545]

That last comment, well Bless your heart honey, you go so much to learn!

[@susangamble6888]

The last comment is out of their mind

[@ljh5141]

That last commenter must be an eternal doormat for everyone in their life. Why would anyone in their right mind, let themselves be walked over, have a money-grubbing witch and her spawn, take over her marital home, disrupt her son, steal from her son to appease the greed of the MG homewrecker, displace her son out his own room and relegate him to the basement, without his own belongings, disprespect her and her son, treat the marriage like it was a rental agreement, and expect everyone to cowtow to his new "relationship"? Where is the head of that commenter? If there were so many issues between the huband, wife and son, that dear old dad had to look for a new family, why did he not bring up the issues first before falling into MG witch's lady parts and drowning in them? This Dad deserves to lose the wonderful people and blessings that he had. He did not respect what he had and he threw his own son out of his own childhood room and home, including taking his posessions, not once, but twice! The last commenter needs to give their head a shake, and get some ice for the cheeks that they keep turning.

[@zeoinfinitneospace2134]

How could this father marrying a secretary. But instead of his wife and his biological son. He care about his new wife and a new stepsons more than the real family The father doesn't understand how the world works he really thinks money can buy love well guess what money cannot buy love. Because this woman is just using him for money how stupid can the father be that he doesn't know the real world that some people are just using you for money. Op dad is it going to regret it for this for the rest of this life all because of his selfish ways some toxic people just don't deserve Second Chances because if you give any chances it's going to hurt you even more

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Op should have called the cops from the basement.

[@sherrischweigl6860]

Grandpa is such a badass. I’m so happy he stuck up for you. I’m glad holly didn’t hurt you. I know you wanted to get evidence on your own but you should have went to your mom and hired a pi. Hopefully you can rebuild the relationship with your dad.

[@SH-qs7ee]

Probably could have saved a lot of effort and pain if OP had told his Grandpa about it, maybe organise a P.I. to investigate it. Also, because I am extremely petty; I'd have tried to get in contact with as many of the people the father did business with and told them about the affair. That kind of thing reflects very poorly on the company, as most businesspeople are either conservative, expect professionalism (which screwing the secretary definitely isn't), or unwilling to trust someone who breaks their vows; especially since it means they might be stealing or embezzling to fund the affair.

[@gcarr1089]

Glad the mum was continuing with the divorce, once a cheater always a cheater. Now dad can have sxx with any woman who wants his money and OP with his mum can settle into a happy life. Maybe once mum is over the betrayal, she may be ready to move on to a happy life with someone else. But if I was mum I would have the house ripped apart and remodeled inside so it looks nothing like when the ex lived there.

[@DemonicAngelicGurl]

Wow, second comment at end of video... that person is so brainwashed to be a doormat

[@jacksparrowismydaddy]

why didn't he just send dad and mom the photos in a text before they broke in? that's literally the first thing I woulda done. hell for good measure I'd give them to kai too. and yeah that last comment was either the comment of a woman that's grown to love the abuse or some really sick incel having a fantasy.

[@Mama_Bear_of_3]

The last commentor from the original post is a huge ahole! He is basically bullying OP in his comment, and what's with his childish comment about OP, "Boohoo poor little rich boy!" Obviously OPs house isn't big if there weren't enough rooms so he was made to move tonthe basement. And the "man up" comment?! OP is NOT a man, he is a 15 year.old boy! I mean really, either that commentor is a punk kid, or he was a bully when he was in school and still is. The AH seems to be glossing over the fact that OP is a 15 year old boy who just had his life turned upside down. I praise OP because instead of losing his crap, acting out, or starting fights, he is seeking help and advice from people. That itself shows his maturity. BTW, Grandpa is the bomb! We need more grandpa's like him!

[@annewilliams5527]

A wee bit of advice ; if anyone should be in OP’s shoes and have their phones taken and photos deleted, forward them to a friend BEFORE it happens. Can you imagine the protagonist’s faces when they realise “ooops, not good!”?

[@Gregarious3]

I would have stayed as the destructive influence in the cheaters home. When he left, all his stuff would also go.

[@-randychasechase2660]

It's your mom's house make her throw him out and take her home back ASAP

[@sistykay1979]

Mom should take him to divorce court. Show evidence of the affair. She might get the house.

[@centurycountess4949]

the second top comment was rude as hell. just because you had a hallmark rekindled relationship with a man that cheated on you doesnt mean you need to talk trash....in all honesty maybe there was an inssue with YOU that caused him to cheat especially that nasty comment toward op. and his mom they failed as a wife and son? I smell a narcissist. Seriously good for you for rekindling your love for a cheater shame on you for talking down to someone who was once in a similar situation as you but situations where cheating is involved isnt always the same. if you and your bf had a kid when he cheated and that mistress laid her hands on that kid would you really consider giving the man who didnt defend your child a second chance? you cant answer cause your situation was different. so don't tell someone they're a failure just because you were in a cheated on situation doesn't mean it's the same as how you were cheated on. good luck with that because girl i hope your not eating your words at having a hallmark happy ending with a cheater.

[@annadevore1210]

Once a cheater always a cheater 🤬

[@irismariaadams7630]

The last comment left me speechless! Way to blame the victim. Unbelievable! A person that cheats does not care what good or bad of a wife he has. They want to cheat because they can and want to. And to tell a child that their parents divorced because he was not a good child, seriously?! It is NEVER ok to blame a child for their parents divorce. Even OPs grandparents took their daughter-in-law's side. That says to me that she was a good wife. To the commenter: if you believed your husband that it was your fault he cheated on you, you need counseling bc your self-esteem is so low to believe that. Wow!

[@debrastiens6216]

That last comment grinds my gears! 🤬 A classic comment from a narcissist advising one of their well-loved manipulations: turn it around and dump the blame on you. Holly did you a massive favor by showing what a real jerk he is.

[@susangamble6888]

Set up cameras all over the house

[@SelenaHerring-i8x]

The last commenter needs metal help. 😢

[@klepow]

That woman that made that last comment sounds like she's codependent, and is in a very abusive relationship. She is being manipulated by her horrible boyfriend. She might also have other mental health issues. She needs to leave that guy, if she can do it safely.

[@rossconnelly6660]

No 2 is a floor mat in all descriptions

[@sandrapersaud3105]

That last commentor is most likely to do the same or has done the same as OP's father. Disgusting!

[@metalmouth0413]

Whoever wrote that last comment needs a hot cup of shut up. OP'S father is a POS for what he did.

[@minathewildmongoose]

OK so you could send a text to your mom and dad but you couldn't send the photos to them? If I was OP I would send the photos to EVERYONE!

[@genechristiansomoza4931]

OP dad is a perv for marrying his sec 😂 Wow the comment are enabling the cheaters. That dad failed as a human. Hahaha

[@stickingupformyrights]

That last comment shows what little self-respect that woman has for herself, does she really honest-to-God think that hes not cheated on her again ? Once cheater always a cheater? I stupidly stayed In a relationship for 20 some years because I had children with that man I didn't realize how much he cheated on me until all came to light. Of course I had gut feelings but i was raising our 2 children. I do not tolerate that you cheat once you're gone, no 2nd chance

[@18gonma]

Second last comment deals with a narcissist

[@williamwallace5545]

I only have one thing to say to that last commenter. "ARE YOU INSANE?"

[@robertneitzel8348]

That's stupid and ignorant for blaming the victim of domestic mistreatment including cheating on the marriage

[@andrewmaughan1205]

This OP is lucky that things eventually worked out, because his actions were stupid every time he turned around. When moved into the basement, OP should have taken everything of his out of his old room and moved it to the new room to deny the brats access to OP's things. While on the steak out, OP should have just waved at the slut, said hi and asked about her friend, before mentioning something about his dad and her living with his dad. Which would probably cause issues between the slut and her other lover. OP should have sent the pics & videos of her cheating to both of his parents before he got home, so that his dad would have been there before OP and hopefully protected OP while kicking the invaders out.

[@cathyjosimonton302]

Please don’t call women sluts, it’s just icky. There are way better words to describe a woman who knowingly has an affair with a married man. I’m pretty sure I’d get shut down.

[@robertx8020]

Sounds great ...on paper ... And you think that OP's 'dad' wouldn't just kick the door in when he was at school? Who was going to stop him? 15yr old OP? Or leaving? with no income? Enjoy the street life

[@SH-qs7ee]

I do agree with you in some sense. I personally think he should have told his grandfather right away and seen about getting a P.I. to investigate.

[@JessyJansen]

rach101 commentor is a troll

[@tyffanypoudrier6610]

I gave my ex two chances. He cheated on me before when I for first found out I was pregnant I took them back. He probably start to cheer again after the baby was born he cheated again. I took him back she didn’t get that. I gave him the door. We can take them back again.

[@nimisilverbird1239]

The father could be forced to give up the house to you and your mother and pay for it.

[@nancymcclain2533]

The basement! Really ! That enough should tell you your worth in his eyes. Get your mom to divorce and take everything. Dad is a dog , unworthy of any respect. The Goldigger will leave once he looses it all. I wouldn't be surprised if the house is actually the grandfathers. Possibilities!!!

[@luizad2277]

How is a kid with a phone in his hand not recording all this?!

[@beatricereadel645]

Last comment? Typical abuser justification:”I had needs you weren’t fulfilling. What I did was your fault.” Pretty classic

[@lisabagdonjones1950]

That last comment: How to say I am the cheater without saying I am the cheater

[@Heathers_Handbags]

26:18 Are you kidding... ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! 👎👎😅😂

[@maryjohns4971]

All of the negative comments where mean and shouldnt have been made with such hate i guess people forgot that op was a young person

[@catherineerwin8111]

Bad behavior is solely the fault of the perpetrator!!

[@naturalPaths]

Holly did Not win the prize, OP.

[@TheMegantheGreat]

The last comment had to be a troll. No way were they that clueless.

[@-randychasechase2660]

Put exlax in there drinks and food.

[@MamaK65]

Your cell has a recorder on it. Record the stuff they say.

[@-randychasechase2660]

The second person should go to bed because it must have been Holly herself

[@ramerizevaughn4100]

Last commentor of original posts and last commentor of the final update should end up together because they're both clueless victim blamers

[@marcsando]

At long last we have the answer to the age-old question, " Have there ever existed or do there presently exist people that ascribe to free, proud, and deliberate stupidity?" Behold: the last comment!!

[@mikediehl868]

It sounds like the last comment was written by the father of this story

[@Esther-lm6pm]

The comments really break up the story and sways the crowd from the story itself

[@amandagreen2806]

Last comment is ridiculous. Mother and son may never give the father again. The father got to earn that trust, love, care, faith, warmth and so on back. It may take a long time to love, recover, mend and so on. But the father kinda back stab his wife or should say ex-wife and their son.

[@ArnellaMaturin]

Record, record, record. I yell that almost every video.

[@wordforger]

Sheesh, that last commenter needs therapy.

[@robbietoms3128]

Its funny that last piece people dont look at what they were saying. While it was wrong for the dad to cheat. There could be some back story that we dont know. The dad did the wrong way to fix it. MAYBE should have gone to counseling if there was something wrong. Thing is we dont no only that the dad cheated. There is no reason to cheat if there was something maybe dad should have moved home instead of cheating. It would be interesting to know why he cheated that way we could get the full picture. In the meantime I hope OP and his mum are happy

[@veronicareilly7112]

The last commenter is an idiot. Cheating is abuse. Heck, she even stated that he blamed her for his cheating. Cheating is a conscious choice. 90% of cheaters will do it again. Only a fool stays. A mistake is inadvertent. Cheating is a choice. Big difference.

[@helookalikaman79]

19:35 ah upload the photos online so she couldn't delete them from the phone

[@Nikkimommyof4]

What is it with these comments from people that are clearly designed to piss off everyone that is reading them? Do they have nothing better to do or do they honestly believe the crap they are spouting?

[@erikamccall6741]

This story irks me! I mean absolutely irks me!!! Money or not, no child should be used like this. On either side, this guy or mistresses children!

[@Rhaenarys]

Theres always something that gives it away as fake, and there it is...at the 22 min mark. I mean...it was there slightly before, but he confirmed it then. So hes all bruised up, and i imagine bloodied, after getting the crap beat out of him by 3 boys, but dad doesnt believe him. Further more...mom isnt threatening to press charges? Even better...grandpa isnt pressing charges, as i assume hes the real head and money of the family? Yea ok. Bs. There it is.

[@nilianstroy]

every cheater that commented outed themselves by attacking op...

[@fransodekerken-sf7xs]

If man and wife split its mostly both fault but split and then look fore a new partner dont cheat like the father did

[@npanther9181]

some of the people blaming the kid and his mom may actually be stupid and may have been dropped on their head as a child lmao

[@kotey1958]

Some of these comments can't be real

[@teristricklen2844]

That last commentor was an idiot! She forgives his crappy butt & he says if she'd been better he wouldn't have strayed?!! WTH?!!! I would have told the loser to kick rocks & get out!!! Cheaters always try to blame someone else instead of accepting that they are to blame!!! And they start looking for their next fling, because it is an addiction!!

[@eveover4215]

That last dumb_ss commenter seems to love these kind of comments

[@lisabagdonjones1950]

Your mother should make your father help sell the house and your mom either buys another or rents ans apartment. Problem solved

[@jenny1106762]

I'm sorry but the mom should not ask the son to rebuild a relationship with a man who chooses to treat his mistresses kids better than him. The dad is a worthless piece of shit who doesn't care about his son. If he did this once he will do it again. He thinks it's ok to throw his son out repeatedly with nothing not even clothes. That isn't a dad. And I agree once a cheater always a cheater. Same with once and abuser always an abuser. People don't change. When you see their true colors remember them.

[@alamatrix488]

Is it just me or does Mr Reddito has terrible delivery and the inflections he uses are borderline regarded

[@franchialbarnes5240]

Okay, commenter number 2, no one is like you. You keep doing what you do until you catch something that you can't get rid of, okay? Oh wait, it will be okay right because it would be your fault because you didn't protect yourself and it is not his fault, right? Get your life together.

[@SherryClemens-po3ur]

O give me a break Dad is a jurk

[@rheahorvath9274]

Mr. Reddito do like the channel. Not too thrilled with the longer format ( seems to be new YT trend, emha), but ok. Has yielded some whopper stories. But, highlighting unreasonable and outrageous views are very irritating. They spoil the story for me. Please consider stopping this as of late trend.

[@vegasrenie]

Same here. Don't care about comments, especially the idiotic ones!

[@earltate56]

Sounds like bullshit to me.😅

[@melissaclark1051]

Last comment was deffos a guy