Freeloader Brother Left His College & Spent All The Money I Sent For His College On Girls & Party

[@mollyfletcher7746]

Does anyone else feel abject frustration whenever the OP is a complete and utter doormat?

[@lisadelgado228]

He belongs in jail. He has made his choices. I don’t think I would have forgiven the whole college thing. How many years??? Of a lie…. Nope. That person is too dishonest to have in your home. Family or not

[@hvymax]

Jeremy was probably selling OP's stuff. OP is a neverending doormat.

[@dianafrazier2830]

I wouldn't have let brother stay from day one. The moment I found out that I paid for 4 yrs of college that he didn't attend, he would have been gone. 😻😁😻

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Your mother knew. Jeremy is an abusive narcissist. Throw him out. She can take him. They are both so playing you

[@robertx8020]

you sound so bitter

[@nimisilverbird1239]

@robertx8020 how? Bc I can see the truth behind the lies. Bc I don't like seeing ppl who try to help others used and lied to. Bc I don't like good ppl treated like trash.

[@robertx8020]

@@nimisilverbird1239 "Bc I can see the truth behind the lies." No, like all of us you think you can and sometimes you/we are right and sometimes you/we are wrong and you can deny it all you want but that is the truth! " Bc I don't like seeing ppl who try to help others used and lied to. Bc I don't like good ppl treated like trash." Same here but thinking you can always stop that from hapeningis an illusion And I saw now reason in this story to doubt the mother!

[@123leyang321]

@@robertx8020 I do feel like the mother knows her younger son is a terrible person, but I don't think she's playing the older brother. I think it's a case of her being an enabler and doormat for the younger brother, always trying to protect him form the consequences of his actions instead of letting him learn the hard lessons from life.

[@robertx8020]

@@123leyang321 Yes I can agree with that ..although there is some room for doubt

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Jeremy is a spoiled brat. Let him sink on his own and get whatever you can back. He can figure it out on his own. Welcome to adulthood

[@jackiehenry3372]

Congratulations, you stood up for yourself.

[@amberleeannalee1999]

I hope Op called the bank and cancelled all the checks and got his things back

[@williamwallace5545]

Jeremy needs to be held accountable for his actions. Just like everyone else in the grown up world. Consequences, there are always consequences for every decision we make. Make the right choice the consequences are good. Make a bad choice and the consequences are bad. You have to think about the consequences that could happen before you make a decision.

[@whiplash1938]

I really despise weak people like op. Cannot believe he puts up with brothers b.s.

[@ronnienestor]

That’s brotherly love.

[@benrussell-gough1201]

It really takes a while to realise that the illusion that you have of family is just an illusion and there is no point holding on to it. OP's mother really has to take that voyage now.

[@darlamercer4078]

Brother was a spoiled brat! He deserved ro be in jail!

[@Crazy_Garden_Lady]

I wonder why he was shocked that after his brother stole things, he did it again when OP visited his mother. Some people never learn. The minute I would have realized that a family member was stealing from me, I would have kicked them out.

[@vinnie6604]

Just kick him out, you and your mom enabled Jeremy to be useless. Good grief, what's wrong with you and your mom. You didn't ignore red flags, you ignored bright red banners with fireworks. Brother isn't t mentally ill, he's just bad.

[@Danarchy3]

5:33 try finding a way he could work at your company "I did try to find a way bro, but you dropped out"

[@robertbuswell7378]

Well seems he burnt every bridge there was and he got what he had coming and maybe not quite enough sorry bro live and learn.

[@Tammy-mi4pi]

All I have to say is I hate a liar and a person that will steal for anyone even family

[@battiekoda]

I never understand these stories where someone sends the money directly to the person. If it were me I'd say just send me the bill and then I'll pay it. Or have the college, or whoever it is, bill me directly

[@nancymcclain2533]

Why won't Mom take him? Suspisch.! Any cams?

[@luizad2277]

I hate parents to protect their golden child. Mum was at fault for letting the young brother get away with the attitude and put the care into the big brother. The younger brother is not OP’s child - why does the mother put all the burden on OP?! Bad parenting

[@andreavanhoof6047]

I despise OPs mother for putting the burden of Jeremy's predicament on him!

[@bonniebloom4953]

Bad parenting also for not teaching op some basic street smarts. My goodness that boy needs a slap in the head and a spine. I would be embarrassed if op was my kid. "My stuff was missing but I couldn't do anything about it because I had no proof ". I would not deal with that because I would become unglued. 😖

[@scarter8137]

OP went above and beyond with his ungrateful and entitled brother! Let him do a resume and find his own job, give him 3wks, or out he goes! A Fast food job will work 🤷🏼‍♀️ He can’t start at the top with a zero skill set or work experiences!

[@dragonlady1360]

I would have never trusted him in the first place. Look at the hundreds of thousands of dollars dollars he already stole from you. He’s lazy, he doesn’t want to work. He just wants an easy ride

[@Jasminepetit]

Stories like this make me pissed off, give a man a fish feed him for a day. Teach him to fish he will be fed for a life time. He isn’t your responsibility, he is an adult and needs to be out in the real world figuring it out himself. Bailing people out never helps any

[@jackiehenry3372]

You wonder why? Because he doesn't care and he knows you will pick up the slack., your mom knows he's lazy and thinks he a good con. up the slack.

[@pharaohdarien69]

I would press the issue of where the money was coming from at this point we can assume it's from pawning his brother's other stuff if that was the case he was either going to work a job and pay me back or he was out.

[@cutthewicked]

i wouldve took it. lvs

[@McBruce999]

Stop enabling others.

[@annewilliams5527]

Sit your silly little baby boy brother down, tell him that any job he gets, he has to show you a week-by-week RECENT payslip if he ever wants to borrow money from you, after signing a contract between you both where he has to repay any LOANS of ANY amount of money he receives from you and he must NEVER borrow/get/coerce/cajole ANY amount of money from your mother. She has to sign the contract, too.Let them both know, standing in front of you at the same time,that if he or your mother breaks the contract, you will NEVER help them in any way, and that you are suing him for misappropriation of money. After all, he had fooled both you and your mother into thinking that the money you gave was for his college/Uni funding, and lo and behold, it wasn’t!!!!

[@luizad2277]

Intelligence is no substitute to diligence and efficacy which are skills employers value very highly

[@rawtalks8813]

❤

[@RainStrom_61]

OMG... the brothers that moved in with my mom to find work while she fed them and cleaned all their stuff. When she got sick, not one showed up for her....

[@Tamz60]

I know this doesn't belong on here, but Mr. Reddito I need to ask you a couple of questions. I don't know how to get ahold of you. Could you get a hold of me, please?

[@BJ-pv4dp]

The same as op did

[@susangamble6888]

Wake away

[@frazzledhaloz3184]

I actually have done this with my oldest brother…. lol

[@amberleeannalee1999]

U scammed ur bro? I wouldn’t laugh I’d make money to pay him back. He’s not ur dad and owes u nada

[@anonmouse15]

Bravo. 😒

[@reaganbryant6520]

I don't get how someone can scam family like that. I am someone who just got released from prison and my brother is helping me by asking for jobs in our shared industry while I also apply for jobs. I do not ask for money and did not ask for help with the job search but he is doing it as he knows I am responsible and don't expect anything. When family helps you than you should be honest and not take advantage of any help they give you.

[@happygilmore2100]

What a silly story, I can’t stand Mr nice Guy’s

[@marywinning7430]

That flashing wording is so irritating. Not watching your posts anymore. - Bye