Dad was on a non stop loop regarding his youngest son Josh. Dad thinks he is still a child. Dad had been on the Josh Loop for half an hour before this video.
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@lindam74308 ай бұрын
Your Dad is so concerned about his family, what a kind person.
@dsalnorcal14348 ай бұрын
❤️
@srargirl19648 ай бұрын
I love when Dad replied 40/minutes isn't around the block. XO we love him.
@OscarsMama4 ай бұрын
This man is incredible. Always ALWAYS concerned for his family before himself.
@dnice6278 ай бұрын
Dan I love when you call him “POP” ❣️❣️❣️
@007modmom8 ай бұрын
Bless him! He has been a busy, hardworking man, concerned about his family and always spent his time wisely. Now he is healthy and energetic and has nothing to do and no one to worry about. I feel his pain. My kids are gone hundreds of miles away and I am alone with nothing to do that makes me needed. 😥
@bythebayou53518 ай бұрын
Volunteer! Seek out people who need help. Deliver meals on wheels. Volunteer to call shut-in to chat with them daily. So many things you could do.
@DeniseSterling-k5u8 ай бұрын
@@bythebayou5351 Great ideas!! There's always something to do if you look...
@carolynboothby8 ай бұрын
That was a really good video, I appreciate you taking the time to do this and share your journey with us all . Xx
@brandymoliver8 ай бұрын
Dan you have the patience of a saint ❤️ may the Lord bless you for taking such good care of your dad
@valiantphilosophy8418 ай бұрын
"You've got a point, there" ..God bless you 🙏 Love you guys!!
@mariacoreoquila84426 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree with Ed ❤"your a good son,dan
@maiavraham94368 ай бұрын
Ohhhh I love you Ed❤ Dan you’re a great man
@foxibot8 ай бұрын
The dog is like I feel you grand daddy. I’m here to play you with you!
@speedbump24488 ай бұрын
I know he gets so frustrated dealing with his memory loss. Could he maybe work with legos and build simple things? Is there any type of senior center he could visit to have people his age to have coffee and talk with. He is used to being engaged with people from the days of his practice. 😔. Do you have access to a motor home to take on an overnight trip somewhere to let him reminisce about all his own travels. I think he has cabin fever. 😉
@ChanetaMartin-bg1ci3 ай бұрын
Go take a nap Dad😮.. 😂
@Dallasman2148 ай бұрын
6:28 my man said I’m hungry
@arielinoa91618 ай бұрын
I love this old man ! 😂
@Onmytoes43218 ай бұрын
You can tell he was never a man to just sit around. Bless his heart! I love his personality!
@sabrinaalston12438 ай бұрын
He was a man of Great Love for his family always involved
@sandramartino32438 ай бұрын
Props to you Dan. It takes extreme patience, and a lot of love, to do what you do day in and day out. It is also heartbreaking to see this disease progress with someone you love. So much respect for all of you.
@Awokxxn8 ай бұрын
Dan, I absolutely love your dads sense of humor and wit. When you were explaining to him that you and Josh are both his sons so Josh is your brother and he goes "well you have a point there " I lost it 😂😂 His spirit still shines through so strong !
@marypettyfer46408 ай бұрын
I noticed that 😊
@starlightdreamer19998 ай бұрын
he makes me laugh at times 😂
@AlphaFemmeXtine8 ай бұрын
That was my fave part, too.
@ToniMccarry8 ай бұрын
Josh is his step brother from his 2nd wife
@NaniKiKahaniyan7168 ай бұрын
😅me too
@FS-mn6oq8 ай бұрын
“40 minutes to go around the block”…. hahaha… you can’t outsmart Grandpa Ed for sure👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
@fresha3758 ай бұрын
Lol..He understands 40 minutes away isn't around the block
@PoetlaureateNFDL8 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@samikjeans85098 ай бұрын
He passed
@PoetlaureateNFDL8 ай бұрын
@@samikjeans8509 who passed?
@ChanetaMartin-bg1ci8 ай бұрын
The more you talk the more questions Dad ask😂
@lorisheheen21988 ай бұрын
"He's the youngest of this boat." 😂 Grandpa Ed is the best! Those one liners get me everything! God bless him.❤😊
@NuraCaicedo-xh2ok8 ай бұрын
😂 ❤
@firstladyprice7 ай бұрын
I TRULY AGREE!! HE HAS GREAT COMEBACK REPLIES 👏🏽 ❤️ 💙 😅
@sarahailstone53856 ай бұрын
Where is Josh's mother?
@grandmaoldschool70115 ай бұрын
Janice was Joshs' mother.
@shellos88 ай бұрын
He's absolutely precious. You're very fortunate that he's not combative. I know it's not easy taking care of him, but as you know, it could be a whole lot worse.
@si0028 ай бұрын
Always so kind and thankful 🙂
@karencampbell27608 ай бұрын
So true..my mom is so combative and hard to deal with😢 we must be thankful in all areas of our lives bc it definitely could be worse!
@justkris12388 ай бұрын
You are great with him. He really wants to be productive. We had a similar situation and a dr told us to give them a "job". Something simple like fold some kitchen towels or match up socks. It helped and made him feel like he was contributing to the house. Seemed to help mentally as well.
@mlwehberg8 ай бұрын
Oh my😢 I had the same conversation with my dad all day long. Men of their generation were defined by their work, how they took care of their family. My dads dementia and his inability to drive, work and do for others like he used to was the source of sadness, frustration and anger for him. 😢
@kathrynkranjac8 ай бұрын
Dan, your patience is amazing. Grandpa you remind me of my dad. Everyone loved him, just like you are loved
@clairemcmanus97708 ай бұрын
Absolutely❤
@mdgraystone8 ай бұрын
Boredom is killer for us all. In different ways…
@NuraCaicedo-xh2ok8 ай бұрын
Hearts go out to the whole family..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@DrumsDrumsDrumsDrums8 ай бұрын
We love grandpa. Thank you for continuing to share him and your family’s journey with us. I have gotten so much out of them over the past year.
@karenhussey85768 ай бұрын
You're so patient, kind and positively doing a wonderful thing taking care of Pop. He's a great dad and dignified in his position. He knows that he's got memory problems, but trusts you so much. I wonder what he would have said if you asked him what he wanted to do instead of hang out. ? Does he ever say what he wants to do? I would like to see you ask him..... Thank you for sharing. You're both inspirations.
@dsalnorcal14348 ай бұрын
Thanks so much
@JJ-kh4pn8 ай бұрын
"You are a good son". That touches my heart.
@JazMa55048 ай бұрын
Grandpa despite his dementia, LOVES his family, I am grateful he still knows you, Danielle, Josh, Mark and all his Loved ones, even his poor brother who no longer is here, he still Loves and Remember, Thank You for all you Dan😊😊😊
@NuraCaicedo-xh2ok8 ай бұрын
He has a big ❤
@rhondafelice13635 ай бұрын
What a sweet man and you are a wonderful son. I'm almost 70 and bought a home with my youngest son. I have arthritis that makes it hard for me to do some things some times. But my son makes sure I have everything I need and everything I want. I'm very Blessed like your Pop.
@innocencyike56305 ай бұрын
A good parent is always a good parent no matter his or her condition. Telling Dan that he appreciates him and that he is a good son. What a wonderful dad. God bless him and bless Dan too.
@lindadainard762912 күн бұрын
Your sweet Dad seems to be always hungry.
@ozma6398 ай бұрын
Oh, Dan bless you! You and Danielle are my heroes. Your dad is such a sweet man, always worried about his family. Always so surprised that he is 91 years old. Born in 1932, he will remind you, but due to the deep trust he has in all of you, he accepts what you say, scratching his head. I wish you all the happiest New Year Year. And thanks for sharing your precious dad.
@dsalnorcal14348 ай бұрын
❤️❤️. Happy New Year.
@ozma6398 ай бұрын
@@dsalnorcal1434 Thank you!
@steveladner43468 ай бұрын
40 years old is basically a baby in grandpa's mind.
@usefulprogrammer98808 ай бұрын
40 years ago grandpa was in his late 40s early 50s, wonder how that last “little miracle” must have happened 😂
@homegown12348 ай бұрын
At least he is working and not counting on his siblings to support him like some people I know in my family. You'll should be happy over his success as a medical sales person. I wished I had that talent to drive all over the state and cities too. Good job.
@John_Lee_8 ай бұрын
@@usefulprogrammer9880 i think Josh is a half brother to Dan, could be wrong
@Jessica-ml6td8 ай бұрын
@@John_Lee_they have the same father and mother I assume
@John_Lee_8 ай бұрын
@@Jessica-ml6td I thought they just shared Ed as a father and had a different mother
@kimnation39485 ай бұрын
That's cute..he thought Josh worked at a kennel ❤
@miked11658 ай бұрын
I love watching you and your Dad. My father passed almost 15 years ago when I was 26. As hard as it must be to deal with this disease, you're a lucky man to have your Dad still. It's a blessing and I love that you don't take for granted the time you two have together. Many don't realize until it's too late. God bless you and yours.
@trow38 ай бұрын
I’m sorry for your loss I hope you’re doing good
@juneyoung55038 ай бұрын
Dad is always looking for something to do, while many of us don't wanna do anything ! Daddy's got a lot of ambition 😊😊😊
@dsalnorcal14348 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss
@picklevamp8 ай бұрын
Even in his darkest time in life...his thoughts are always his family❤ if only all dads were like Ed.
@picklevamp8 ай бұрын
@DawnDingayan-sc2sf Yes I agree...the prisoners need to be freed from the Israeli jails.
@warrobots1warrobots1357 ай бұрын
@DawnDingayan-sc2sf Free Pal_estine You asked to free the in-vaders ?
@betcon1348 ай бұрын
He seems quite bored. how's your dad with playing games such as tic tac toe, or simple puzzles ...even drawing a Mr. Potato Head? a little brain work never hurts and maybe you can help him do those things.
@natalierobledo42948 ай бұрын
I am a personal support worker in Canada. I absolutely love your videos with ur dad. The dementia kicks in and it seems they all need something to do.
@janetlongislandsticher8 ай бұрын
I think Grandpa's memory thinks that all his kids are still young and I think that's why he ask all those questions. This disease is so sad.😢
@dsalnorcal14348 ай бұрын
Yup
@barabarasevents8 ай бұрын
I understand Dan … I cared for my mom .. it can be exhausting but we do it bc they took care of us .. Your a good son .. and family
@janna73128 ай бұрын
Same💕 God Bless🙏
@LalahBella8 ай бұрын
Dr. Ed is never going to believe he is 91! Bless him! 😂❤
@nancyeigenhouse81768 ай бұрын
He seems to consistently remember two things: The year he was born and Danielle's name!
@tylerh18976 ай бұрын
😂
@awueseagwadza12486 ай бұрын
Yea, and that’s bcos the two issues are in the right memory part of the brain. Early in his life - 3-10yr Danielle is in the recent memory part. She is new
@samling42465 ай бұрын
Ed married Danielle's mother who died from cancer.
@amalyacampbell828 ай бұрын
Oh man, Dan, you're awesome! I don't understand how you do it but I praise you and your wife for being so patient with your dad ❤
@jameskox8728 ай бұрын
No doubt . . You'd put your dad in a nursing home . . . Because you wouldn't feel any loyalty to your dad and probably would also do the same with your mother . . . Hopefully they never need your help . . . You probably be to busy to even go to there funeral . . . That's pretty sad .
@amalyacampbell828 ай бұрын
My comment wasn't to put Dan down but to praise him for his patience with his dad. Come on, why be so rude!!!
@Jkk558 ай бұрын
Thank you Dan for sharing your life I am sure you are helping a lot of people who have family members with your father's condition, you are so patient and kind. love from the UK x
@dsalnorcal14348 ай бұрын
Thank you so much
@michelebritain54238 ай бұрын
"He's the youngest of this boat" ❤
@TonyP04258 ай бұрын
Grandpa said it takes 40 minutes to go around the block. Love this man
@annnguyen72908 ай бұрын
I love how he can seem to forget a lot of stuff but always know what year he was born.
@lisetteblanco39107 ай бұрын
1932 ❤
@PastorIhaza8 ай бұрын
"I hope you're right"... 😂 "You got a point there"...😂 Got to Love Him💕
@bobbycone28 ай бұрын
40 min away & just down the street. He got you on that one Dan! Lol!
@ec-tj9is8 ай бұрын
I have almost the exact same conversations with my 92-year-old mom!! She lives with my brother and SIL but it’s the same conversations everyday!! ❤❤
@The_AutumnDiaries4 ай бұрын
"40 minutes to go around the block?" Awe pops! Love you ❤
@MpolokengNdlovu3 ай бұрын
😂
@GetSlappedPlease8 ай бұрын
Oh so Grandpa had Josh at 50 That man had so much energy at 50 no wonder at 91 he is so much full of life.
@gaylejones15458 ай бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking. Lol
@WendyNaftachi8 ай бұрын
Ed’s blue eyes looked so beautiful in this video. They reminded me of my daddy’s eyes. He also had dementia/Alzheimer’s. You all take such good care of him. Unlike my dad, Ed seems to know that something isn’t right with him and his memory. As difficult as it is that I no longer have my dad, I really respect what you all do with Ed and for him. Caring for my dad was so hard but I’d give anything to still be able to do it. God bless all of you!❤
@rynnachmed26968 ай бұрын
ALWAYS ASKING ABOUT HIS CAR AND MONEY ....🤣🤣🤣
@Zennilicious8 ай бұрын
40 minutes?! To go around the block? 😂😂😂 He still holds his sense of humor during the confusing times. It shows his sense of strength as well & maybe just maybe thats how hes been able to be going on 92yrs old. 😊
@bevh21078 ай бұрын
Everyone Loves Grandpa!! He is Absolutely a joy. I know it's not easy but may God continue giving you good health and strength to continue caring for your dad.
@edgargamboa50038 ай бұрын
The father and son conversation is amazing. Dan your patience to your dad is amazing.
@bartsanders15538 ай бұрын
Sounds a little like GTA(global transient amnesia) the way he forgets after 10 seconds or so.
@lindaherron2748 ай бұрын
Such a loving and caring father and grandpa. The world needs more Luke him. ❤❤
@yolinagarr51448 ай бұрын
I think, something in his head, tells him that Josh’s birthday is coming soon! Dr. Ed is an adorable person, always thinking about his family! 😊
@pattyn10328 ай бұрын
Dan, you and your dad are both so delightful and endearing, i look for your video everyday!
@davegraff-gu7ix8 ай бұрын
It's a good thing you keep a close eye on Dad, otherwise he would be outside splitting wood and re-roofing the house. He feels compelled to contribute to the family effort. What a great Pop.
@dixieeastwood12418 ай бұрын
Yes I agree. That made me laugh. Thanks so much love to hear your days .
@rosebissWildGooseNews8 ай бұрын
The way you work with your pop is truly amazing. I love watching you and him interact. You have got such patience and love 🥰🤗👍👍👍👍
@gameswild18 ай бұрын
Dementia is a terrible thing but I love how your Father is always thinking about responsible things. Work , Kids, Family, dogs, just general caring about things that matter. Even keys checkbook wallet ect. I 've seen many with dementia that are angry and mean to their care givers. God bless your Father and your Family for caring for him and not dumping him some home.
@sabrinaalston12438 ай бұрын
So True❤❤❤
@elainemaldonado29328 ай бұрын
Get him some coloring books kindergarten books crayons and pencils to keep him focused Grandpa catches himself too 🥰
@maryfitzpatrick83838 ай бұрын
Your Dad is an absolute gentleman. Especially, when you consider how confused he is sometimes. I salute you and your lovely wife for how you handle the situation - with grace, good humour and respect. God bless your patience. You're doing a great job.
@suegabriel7238 ай бұрын
He's great! He knows "not 40 minutes to go around the block"! He's got it! 😄
@hillbillysceptic19828 ай бұрын
Memory loss doesn’t mean the old BS meter doesn’t work😂
@rastagirl0078 ай бұрын
Such a lovely and loving discussion. Dr Ed was quite funny wirh his, " 40 minutes just to go around the block?!" Bless you all. ❤
@TheGreekSneak8 ай бұрын
"Well, you got a point there..." Ed is so wholesome ❤
@kwabenaobatwani42468 ай бұрын
" I still get a good appetite " Ed is hilarious. He's old but his appetite is still young.😂
@sharbaker27868 ай бұрын
Get your dad some in home hobbies, PLEASE. Need ideas, Dan?
@leesashriber50978 ай бұрын
Grandpa Ed always puts family first. Dan, you always makes sure Grandpa has an understanding of the topic. ❤❤
@billieread21168 ай бұрын
It’s like Groundhog Day every day. Dan is the best son and so patient.
@margaretwilliams8428 ай бұрын
What a comfort you are to your Dad. Instead of seeing strangers all the time ❤❤❤
@flyonthe70138 ай бұрын
I have never realised that dementia can do that to people. You're a beautiful family.
@dsalnorcal14348 ай бұрын
It’s a truly horrible disease
@shirleyk6238 ай бұрын
You lose your loved one a little bit every day.
@veronicabaker29078 ай бұрын
I can tell he was very active in his younger days, cause he’s always wondering what he’s going to do. I absolutely adore him ❤️
@jumaris288 ай бұрын
Greetings from Panama 🇵🇦 you guys are my # 1 favorite family. Dan Blessings to you for your care and love. We love Grandpa Ed , always worry about his children ❤❤
@wendiepate59838 ай бұрын
He never ever forgets the year he was born . Interesting !!!!!! That really stands out in his mind
@jameskox8728 ай бұрын
Pretty much everybody remembers there birthday . . . There are people that can't remember there phone number . . But they can remember there birthday . . . So it's not so unusual for him to remember his birthday .
@jodyjustice75718 ай бұрын
His love and concern has surely been in his big heart for all his daddy years. Even when the mind has become fuzzy, his spirit is steadfast and sure.
@SamMZ525 ай бұрын
Oh it broke my heart and brought me tears....❤ when he said " you are a good son"
@sincerelytee30297 ай бұрын
Grandpa makes me laugh 😆 bless his heart. His innocence is everything. “He’s really not your brother he could be” 🤣 bless him Lord. ♥️
@deborahs23224 ай бұрын
Aww, I love pops. Thanks for sharing him with us Dan, I love his laugh; it's infectious. When he laughs, I am laughing.😄😄
@clairemcmanus97708 ай бұрын
Dan you are soooo reassuring towards your Dad. You have a good emotional bond
@mugstep8 ай бұрын
Well that's true, Dan did have a good point about the brothers thing. lol
@dsalnorcal14348 ай бұрын
Sometimes it’s just about connecting the wires in his brain.
@ForeignerinCanada8 ай бұрын
He always cares for his family ❤
@kareedamm63378 ай бұрын
✨💚🌎💚✨ Hi! COULD HE DO SIMPLE PUZZELS, OR LITTLE ART PROJECTS! HE TRUELY NEEDS SOMTHING ENTERTAIN HIS FABULOUS FADING MIND!! ASAP!🥰🧚🏼♀️💕
@roberture59038 ай бұрын
Grandpa Ed you're the best sir and Dan thank you for everything you and the family do for your dad
@maryr1305 ай бұрын
I love how you patiently walk him through his confusion. You clearly have a lot of empathy. Poor fella. I love him. ❤
@chja19788 ай бұрын
You are wonderful with your dad! As a special education teacher who teaches students with cognitive delays, I would suggest visuals for him. You could make a family tree book or chart with family members’ pictures names and relations and include some information about them. He might enjoy just looking at it and it will help him remember everyone. I love watching your videos. You are an example of how to care for people with dementia. ❤
@kassygendron30228 ай бұрын
OMG I love this idea so much!!!
@brandymoliver8 ай бұрын
Super idea 🙌
@mistystreasurechest53478 ай бұрын
Don’t ya love grandpa’s blue eyes, the long eyelashes, and I even love the beard growth. Grandpa Ed is beautiful inside and out! ❤
@foxibot8 ай бұрын
He sounds a little bored.
@ToniLucas-s6j29 күн бұрын
Never, never, never could I answer his questions over and over. I don't know how you do it. Food is the only thing that shuts him down. 😮😮😮
@crissydavis44108 ай бұрын
Hi Dan and grandpa. I love your videos. Happy Saturday
@dsalnorcal14348 ай бұрын
Thank you so much
@NanaMooney0078 ай бұрын
The eyes tell it all. Your very patient Dan. Because that happens all day to you and Danielle and the kids. My mom is the same way.❤
@helenvarner57878 ай бұрын
Dad seems the most confused just before dinner. Aw you rock Dan
@WD-dy4my8 ай бұрын
Dad needs a hobby. Let him sort socks, screws, get a puzzle, do chair exercises, anything to work his body and mind. Desktop pc with brain games.
@March25888 ай бұрын
If it's cold out and he's bored and missing his car - an impromptu ride to nowhere would suffice. Their attitude changes when they have cabin fever and they can get out for awhile just to feel part of the human race.
@shannonchavez34208 ай бұрын
Dan, would it help to keep your dad busy if u bought him a tablet or a laptop? There has to be something simple that he can operate and keep himself busy with!
@jessicajohnson92318 ай бұрын
That would be a disaster
@georgiaspivey45354 ай бұрын
Dr. Ed and Dan are loving and hysterical together.
@SandraMartin-y8c4 ай бұрын
Omg... 😢😊❤ He wants something to do.. precious
@rohitsaproo95188 ай бұрын
Grandpa ed always concern about family members god bless you all lots of love from India
@RoxyPyy3 ай бұрын
"You got a point there!".... this was so precious hahaha love you all so much! ❤❤❤
@jokershit76757 ай бұрын
I like how appreciative he’s & always asking abt his kids & family. Even tho his memory messin w him, he still tries his best to try and help out
@helenklein30808 ай бұрын
He is bored. Have him transfer items from one jar or can to another jar or can. Or thread some large buttons on a shoestring. Something.
@joetraveler56098 ай бұрын
Thank you for your patience Dan!!!.Please dont change and continue to be understanding with your dads condition. Sending Love ❤❤❤
@Alexis-b178 ай бұрын
Dan just keep rolling with Ed telling him he is a Gentleman of leisure & retired these days!!! 🙂 God help you Dan im sure it's a little bit frustrating constantly repeating it! you & Danielle and the other family members all deserve much respect, you all look after Grandpa so very well & you have super patience with your lovely dad ❤️